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| 1 | It’s smart for a man to stop being friends with a women after she rejects himThe only time you should do it is if the girl is benefiting you in some way. Assuming you aren't just using dating apps, having hot female friends makes it a lot easier to approach girls in places such as bars and nightclubs because you've already proven you're safe enough that a girl is happy to be out with you. Don't do the "friend" thing where you're just a boyfriend without the sex. Or you went on a date or something connected in some way, and either of you decided it wasn't a thing. I've go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 04:25 AM |
| 3 | Does masturbation make it harder to get a boyfriend/girlfriend?Not really. All nofap is gonna do (assuming you're a healthy individual with your hormones in check) is spike your libido to a point where people you thought were unattractive before suddenly become very desirable. I do not think this is a good thing because you're just going to bang and suddenly question wtf you were thinking. Now If you're trying to get better about actually going after women as a guy then nofap can be useful because it makes you want to chase women harder because I have seen … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 04:20 AM |
| 5 | Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wingYeah, too bad those guys tend to be masculine and tick every box women refuse to admit they want. Masculine, good-looking in shape super left-wing guys don't really exist. The super feminist "enlightened" girlies are also the ones who love guys like this the most, because they're the guys who aren't fawning all over them and treating them like a goddess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Should men be openly critical of women who are bad or boring in bed ?You can be, but I usually just dump those girls. If it's a committed relationship, you should be getting satisfied in the bedroom, and if the girl is using that as a weapon or not putting in effort, then get rid of her. Being overly hard will get you nowhere, but if you communicate what you want and the girl just blows you off or tries to make you the bad guy for wanting things out of the bedroom (especially if it's more trad relationship where she's being taken care of) then you're effectively … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 09:45 PM |
| 3 | Men have standards by default and criticize women for doing same thingNo, it's because women pretend their standars are "I want a nice emoionally connected man" or some other dumb platitude when their real standards are something physical that they simply won't admit, and they go and say shit like how the "Bar is in hell" when women categorically have far more strict standards than men. They just want to pretend they don't everytime a woman talks about something along the lines of wanting a kind man, they always fail to mention the parts about how he needs to make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 09:35 PM |
| 11 | Men who dont get dates and relationships biggest problem with womenmost guys do want their looksmatch but between social media and online dating you have 2s thinking they're 10s. Most guys are painfully aware how average looking they are. Women right now (on average) are utterly delusional and trying to punch wayyyy above their weight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 05:28 AM |
| 1 | Slut Paradox: Men don’t wanna wife sluts, but are sluts the ladies who genuinely like men?I put it in quotes for a reason. Most people aren't hitting double-digit body counts in their 20s period, but I've seen people say numbers as low as 5 or 6 mean "promiscuous." Most normal adjusted people do have a couple of casual flings here and there in this day and age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 12:19 AM |
| – | What is the definition of a 'low-value man' from a women's POV?Yeah, you did what some pick-up guys call levelling behaviour. If she's like an 8 and you don't at minimum make her think you're an 8, she's not going to be interested. That's what your friend was probably trying to say by her thinking you weren't high-value enough. Being a high value man has a lot less to do with how you look (but it does matter) and a lot more to do with how you act. It's why you should just talk to as many girls as possible and actually really think about how the interactions… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 12:57 AM |
| 1 | What is the definition of a 'low-value man' from a women's POV?You have a short window with a woman to hook her into the conversation before she's going to get bored and leave. If you want to get into gamey terminology. You have to convince her you're on her level (assuming you haven't already screwed yourself by being overweight, badly dressed, ungroomed etc.) before she'll buy into it being an interaction that can lead to sex. You can learn this shit, but honestly, a lot of it is just basic conversational/humor skills and learning to not fumble shit tests… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 12:33 AM |
| – | What romantic gestures would you like to receive from a person you're dating?Can't speak for all men, but the number one thing I care about is physical intimacy. That doesn't even mean sex most of the time. For me, feeling wanted by the girl I'm with is the hottest thing she can do for me. So just things like random physical contact. wanted to be closer to me on the couch. Draping herself on me. Oh, and cooking is a big one for me. I can cook great, but if a girl likes me enough to want to feed me good homecooked food, I'm a sucker; she doesn't even need to be an amazing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 07:33 PM |
| 6 | Slut Paradox: Men don’t wanna wife sluts, but are sluts the ladies who genuinely like men?Generally speaking. Most normal guys (not a crazy playboy but not so unsuccessful with women they can't get regular dates) don't care about body count unless it's something crazy like triple digits before you're even 30. Besides the concept of slut has somehow gotten more puritanical than it was in the mid 2000s. Some of these dudes expect a girl to have never even interacted with a guy before them and the women like that are usually pretty fucking boring. I will take a "promiscuous" girl seriou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 07:29 PM |
| -1 | Felons and bullies getting alot of sex partners does not mean women in general like assholes.Correct, but most people aren't ugly enough where being charismatic won't immediately make them significantly more attractive and vice versa. Every guy on this sub thinks they're a genetic defect | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Felons and bullies getting alot of sex partners does not mean women in general like assholes.It's straightforward. You can negate any negative personality traits by being hot and charismatic enough. It's not that women like assholes it's more they don't really care as long the guy is masculine enough. Some women will being an asshole as a negative others won't care. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 07:22 PM |
| 0 | Women are not romantic.You guys don't really understand the amount of money that goes into women looking good for a date compared to men, lol. If she shows up dressed well with her hair done and in full makeup. Buy the fucking food, it won't kill you. Women spend far more on their appearance than men do and I know for a fact most of the guy on this subreddit aren't running around in designer tailored clothes with immaculate grooming and multiple different colognes in their bathroom. A girl showing up in a hot outfit i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 04:40 PM |
| 5 | Men, what actually motivates you to be romantic towards a woman?This. If the girl is invested and matches my energy, I'll put in effort. Far too many women expect to get the romantic princess treatment for just existing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Demographics does matter for men when it comes to datingIs anyone really trying to argue that location doesn't matter? Of course, it is significantly easier to date when you have more people in an area. You're far more likely to find someone in a massive city where you can meet lots of people daily, over a tiny town in the middle of Podunk, nowhere USA. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 10:51 PM |
| 4 | Men aren’t inherently more desperate for relationships than women are, just more disadvantaged.Men aren't desperate for relationships; they're just desperate to feel wanted. Men who have success with women suddenly stop caring. This is why the whole "women are happier single" thing is bullshit. The reason they can say that is because all of them, even if just subconsciously, know they could get a relationship at the drop of a hat if they really wanted it. Not to play psychologist here, but a lot of male desperation mostly stems from trauma they haven't dealt with from as early as their te… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/25 10:48 PM |
| 0 | Most women are not telling the full truth when it comes to the reasons they don't approach.Women don't approach because they fear rejection several orders of magnitude more than men do on a primal level that's really about it. Even the worst rejection 99% of men will be able to brush it off and move on relatively quickly. A woman if she offers herself and gets rejected, is liable to fall into hysterics generally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Women are awful in relationships; Men need to be given more advice for itIf your relationship isn't peaceful and brings you joy. Dump them. That's the mentality most men lack. I participate in the dating and courting game because I actually find it fun. A first date costs me the equivalent of 2 tacos. I can do that almost to infinity if I really want to. Women get away with murder because dudes don't have enough self-respect to just be single instead of dealing with a bitch. Now if you're an idiot and bring kids into the equation with someone like that. That's on you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 11:30 PM |
| 12 | Women are awful in relationships; Men need to be given more advice for itnah, the average woman couldn't care less how her man is doing day to day and will almost always react negatively to him trying to vent the way a woman does. The man is expected to take on the emotional burden and drama of the woman he is dating the woman is not and is generally told to leave if he starts venting the way she does. It's a very rare unicorn if you find a woman who does actually care about the emotional well-being of her partner in that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 11:30 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men need to stop giving a shit about the opinions of strangers and internet discourseactually stems from a complete lack of socialization and gen Z and down being obssesed with not being "cringe" or whatever so they NEVER do anything that isn't dead dull small talk when they aren't in front of a screen. The absolute lack of social calibration in most men (and most women) is immense. Trying to date in my age range as a late 20 something is a 50/50 shot of getting someone who knows how to have a conversation or someone who thinks a 2-year age gap is "predatory" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 02:37 PM |
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