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| 1 | What is the maximum amount of time you should stay with a man without a wedding ring on your finger | DISCUSSION | Maleficent-Kaiba | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 07:33 AM |
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| 3 | Would You Make The Trade?I’m not sure your argument here. Would you trade all that to be a woman in a Muslim country where you can get stoned to death just for dancing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Would You Make The Trade?Then I would move to the U.K.? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Would You Make The Trade?Yep partly because I live in the U.K. but mostly because the rate in which murder happens randomly is significantly small, mugging and assault isn’t nearly as invasive as rape and I can say every woman I know has experienced some form of sexual abuse, most the men I know haven’t experienced random assault/mugging so the odds are better. I don’t own a car and I’m not dumb enough to advertise my wealth to impress a bunch of strangers 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Would You Make The Trade?Yep. I’m not saying men have it easy but outside of relationships life is typically smoother for them. No mass fear of rape, no worrying about drink being spiked, no judgement for what you wear, no worrying about an insane beauty standard and having to spend tons of money on crap just to look feminine. Shaving would be a pain in the ass but At least my facial hair wouldn’t be treated as an ugly abomination 🤷🏼♀️ It’s easier to be heard and taken seriously as long as you are prepared to be assert… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 03:44 PM |
| 2 | The hypocrisy i’ve seen in the RedPill communityI don’t think that benefits are a real motivation for cheating? Maybe with men who like to stay with their partners but when a woman cheats it’s usually either revenge or a door way out of the relationship. Occasionally a stupid mistake I guess. I’m not exactly an expert on the subject but in my experience men can cheat on a partner and stay with them which is why polygamy is so popular with men where as women women typically leave their partner after time for the new guy. People dismiss this as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 03:36 PM |
| 2 | The hypocrisy i’ve seen in the RedPill communityMostly because I loved him but also because part of me wanted to hurt him back and that was all I had. Like I said I was young and immature, a weird part of me wanted to be with him while the other part felt used. Not sure why people are so fascinated by this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 03:18 PM |
| 3 | Why do (some) women sleep with one guy the day they meet , but waits until commitment with another?Depends on if you are looking for sex and a relationship. Men do this too in my experience. Sleep with him right away if that’s all you want because as women we are told we won’t get an opportunity for anything more if we do Wait if you want commitment to help you find out how serious his intentions are I guess it’s a vetting strategy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 03:16 PM |
| 2 | The hypocrisy i’ve seen in the RedPill communityNot particularly. My main issue was believing he was cheating on me so I may as well cheat on him I guess. He got a tattoo dedicated to a female friend of his and in my head there was no question that he wanted her more. I already knew he had a mad crush on her and felt like I had been his second choice anyway. 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 03:07 PM |
| 1 | The hypocrisy i’ve seen in the RedPill communityAh I see. I should give up the future I want because he is so special so I should just stick with it despite having done so for 5 years I clearly gave up to soon 🤦♀️ Would you honestly give that advice to a man? I’m not going to be miserable because you have some outdated belief that women should give up their happiness for a man. No thanks I would sooner be alone. Particularly when the world is full of ambitious men who can stand on their own two feet and don’t want their girlfriend to be a se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 03:05 PM |
| 1 | The hypocrisy i’ve seen in the RedPill communityWhat? That was a general statement. I left him with intention of finding some one else sure, most people do. No I don’t think men are so special that they are irreplaceable anymore than I think that of women. Hate all you want but in reality ex’s leave because they aren’t happy and fully intend to find what makes them happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 12:52 AM |
| 1 | The hypocrisy i’ve seen in the RedPill communityHe wasn’t a bad person no, he was lazy and unmotivated. We had different goals and desires in life that made building a future together impossible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Is r/askwomen confirming trp worldview?Because not every guy is attractive and unless they want to be with a gold digger they typically looksmatch? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Is r/askwomen confirming trp worldview?Not my future, his future which would have become our future in which your right I didn’t want to carry some lazy asshat through life and be his second mother. He was happy to spend his money on me on pointless shit that amounted to nothing. If I was the type of girl to give a shit about clothes and make up I might have used him for it. I wasn’t interested. I was goal oriented and he wasn’t. I wanted to do things with my life and see the world. He wouldn’t even take himself on holiday because ‘t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Is r/askwomen confirming trp worldview?Not having a job was his choice, I’m saying he was completely unambitious and content to do nothing with his life. He wouldn’t even get his own place even though he had the money to buy a house outright because it was easier to sit on his ass and have his mum cook and clean for him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Is r/askwomen confirming trp worldview?That’s how they ranked me 🤷🏼♀️ I can’t really perceive my attractiveness to others so I kind of rely on honest opinions of strangers who have no reason to soothe my ego | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 12:30 AM |
| 2 | The hypocrisy i’ve seen in the RedPill communityMy insecurities made me believe firstly that there is no way my relationship could end in marriage and children, that he was going to cheat and hurt me so I had to beat him to it, that he was to good for me/not good enough for me (my friends and family had mixed opinions that made me doubt my feelings and his actions) and the final push was that a guy gave me the sort of attention that I wasn’t used too that made me think I could be sexy in some peoples eyes. I was young and naive is probably th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 12:28 AM |
| -1 | The hypocrisy i’ve seen in the RedPill communityYep, also earns more than me. Also cheating isnt any better than hypergamy. And hypergamy isn’t real. If a woman left you it doesn’t mean it’s hypergamy in the sense that you all use it. She either leaves because she thinks she can do better or because she is better off alone. What a woman deems as better is what trp often fucks up. She’s not leaving a good man because there is a better one around the corner. She is leaving a bad man for a good one. Hypergamy is just a cope for bad men who don’t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 03:18 PM |
| 1 | The hypocrisy i’ve seen in the RedPill communityWhat about men who fall out of love. My ex bf traded up on me but I guess that must be anything but hypergamy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 03:02 PM |
| 1 | The hypocrisy i’ve seen in the RedPill communitySherdyravers yes you hit the nail on the head 👏👏👏👏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 03:01 PM |
| -1 | The hypocrisy i’ve seen in the RedPill communityThat’s because hyper gamy isn’t true. 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 02:59 PM |
| 2 | The hypocrisy i’ve seen in the RedPill communityI’m a woman and I’m far from perfect I’m easily made jealous and insecure. I need to be reassured regularly without being suffocated. I will constantly question if my partner really loves me or is just using me. I’ve cheated on a partner in the past for no other reason than my own insecurities. There. Now go find me a woman who won’t admit to that. The problem isn’t that we are perfect angels but that you expect us to be. The things you claim we lie about either doesn’t apply to us or applies to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 02:54 PM |
| 3 | Is r/askwomen confirming trp worldview?Yes it was and also very embarrassing to watch him do it when he lives in a caravan in his parents garden. He could have bought a house outright with that money 🤦♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 02:37 PM |
| 2 | If you could CHOOSE what you are attracted to, how would you alter your current attraction?I haven’t had a bf in a year and a half, and 3 before that. I am making no attempts to find some one. I’m sorry you think it’s all lip service but you don’t know my life, experiences or feelings and I have no reason to hide or lie on Reddit about what I want in regards to a hypothetical question. Also in the U.K. you can’t shop around for a doctor unless you can afford private medical care (I can’t) and also have never heard of chemical castration for women since my understanding was that it era… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 02:35 PM |
| 5 | Is r/askwomen confirming trp worldview?I’m a 3/4 and that’s being generous you can check me on the rate me sub. I was with him on and off for 5 years because he was a compulsive liar who made a lot of false promises. I wasn’t with him for his money and in hind sight I have no idea why I stayed so long other than thinking no one else would have me. This idea you have that women just discard men only applies to Attractive women. Unattractive women like myself often pick the best of a bad bunch and try to make it work. The real truth is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 02:24 PM |
| 2 | If you could CHOOSE what you are attracted to, how would you alter your current attraction?I’m really not sure why your still carrying on over this as I already pointed out sex drive doesn’t equal attraction and I only quickly googled what it was. Lupron is the more common chemical castration drug as it lowers testosterone and prevents erections. I’ve never heard of it being used on women as a chemical castration similarly it doesn’t stop attraction which was the main point of the post and my response. Also it’s hardly made available to every day people. It’s not something you can wal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 02:01 PM |
| 7 | Is r/askwomen confirming trp worldview?Not wrong to spend £100,000 in a year on motorbikes? Baring in mind I’m from the U.K. where the average yearly wage is £20,000 most people in the U.K. will never have that kind of money to just splurge. I mean yeah it’s his money so he can do whatever but why the fuck would I or any woman want to be with a man child who has zero ambition, zero desire to take risks and zero desire to have a job? It’s not about what he did with his money it’s about how unattractive his lack of ambition is. Wether … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 01:26 PM |
| 8 | Is r/askwomen confirming trp worldview?Right it must always be a woman’s fault. I’m talking about investing in buying his own property or a business start up. Instead he kept buying useless tat with his money (sword replicas, motorbikes etc) things that would hold no value ten years down the line and not just enough to amuse himself but stupid amounts, he went through six motorbikes in a year and also kept four on the road so he could pick which one he went to work on. Also rich is a stretch, he inherited his money from his granddad … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 01:14 PM |
| 19 | Is r/askwomen confirming trp worldview?I don’t understand how you drew that conclusion from that thread. Women are literally talking about how they dated well off career men who had money and exciting lives and just didn’t feel the right connection too 🤔 I think it’s more tied to the differences of men and women rather than something financial. Men don’t have as much trouble getting aroused and feeling sexual as women do. It’s rare you meet a woman who can’t warm your engine in some way where as it’s common for women to experience th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 12:54 PM |
| 13 | Is r/askwomen confirming trp worldview?I was with a guy with money but zero ambition. Didn’t want to apply it to anything, invest in anything or start his own business. Was just happy living a lazy life on top of his pot of money. Dumped his ass and never regretted it. Ambition is worth 1000x more than money is. He may never become a rich man but you’ll have an exciting life filled with goals and obstacles. The highs will feel like true achievements because of a sense of earning it. Not going to act like being poor is an attractive t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 12:50 PM |
| 0 | The reason women appear to be hypergamous is because the average (young) woman is more attractive than the average (young) manDepends on what you class as masculine. Most people dismiss kpop idols as ‘pretty boys’ as if that’s a negative thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 12:15 PM |
| 9 | If you could CHOOSE what you are attracted to, how would you alter your current attraction?So I had to google it and it seems it’s main function is not chemical castrations and is used to treat endometriosis and prevent pregnancy? however chemical castrations stop the ability not the urge. Also A lack of sex drive is not the same as sexual attraction, you can still be attracted too and want to date someone even if your sex drive is non existent. Asexuals for example or low sex drive people. People who don’t like sex or experience vaginismus as I do. We are talking about attraction not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 11:43 AM |
| 6 | If you could CHOOSE what you are attracted to, how would you alter your current attraction?? What drugs? Unless your talking about street drugs that come with other detrimental effects or the drug that prevents erection (not desire) I’ve heard of it being a possible side effect of some tablets but not a tablet that exists solely to kill your sex drive and therefor can do so reliably. I’m on fluoxitine which effects my urges but not my ability to feel attraction, I can still see a guy and want his time and attention without wanting sex 🙄 which is the urge I want rid of because i alread… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 10:31 AM |
| 2 | The reason women appear to be hypergamous is because the average (young) woman is more attractive than the average (young) manGay men disagree. We live in a society where males are expected to act like society’s expectation of men and femininity is considered weakness. Similarly you are incorrectly taught that women are only ever attracted to behaviours deemed male. Since high levels of self care are deemed feminine most western men keep away from it solely because they don’t think it’s attractive to women and care what other Cis men will think of them. It has nothing to do with what women are attracted to and everythi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 09:14 AM |
| 1 | The reason women appear to be hypergamous is because the average (young) woman is more attractive than the average (young) manYour kidding right. Women don’t get as much out of relationships as men do, we are rarely ever so lonely and desperate that we ‘need’ a man so why then would we settle? To cook clean and provide sex for a guy who gives us nothing in return? I don’t call that hypergamy and if it is then aren’t men of the same mindset. How many men will date women who don’t want sex? The difference is no matter what she looks like she can give sex to men and men simply can’t go without like women can. If men didn’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 08:59 AM |
| 2 | The reason women appear to be hypergamous is because the average (young) woman is more attractive than the average (young) manBut it’s women who get the divorce not men. Also women still wore make up 70 years ago in fact beauty standards were worse back then because to not wear make up and dress feminine was basically a crime. Also just because you are repulsed by overweight people doesn’t mean everyone is. Go to an art gallery sometime, how often do you see a skinny woman depicted in famous paintings. They are all size 12-16 on average. Super skinny is simply the current beauty fad. Also many young men aren’t ‘decent’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 08:51 AM |
| 2 | The reason women appear to be hypergamous is because the average (young) woman is more attractive than the average (young) manExplain the popularity of soft Bois, kpop idols etc. As a woman I have always been attracted to feminine fashionable men, it’s just my bad luck that the majority of these men are gay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 08:41 AM |
| 33 | If you could CHOOSE what you are attracted to, how would you alter your current attraction?I would choose to not feel sexual attraction to anyone. It’s easier to focus on the things that actually matter when your not being side tracked by desire. I would definitely be happiest if I could remove myself from the sexual game all together without any urges bothering me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 08:30 AM |
| 1 | How to not be brainwashed by the red pillI think it must depending on your country and also what an individual sees as sleeping around. I’ve been in four long term relationships and had just one one night stand and one fwb situation. I’m 29. Most women have similar experiences as I do and don’t consider that to have been sleeping around. Women are more likely to seek relationships than they are one night stands mostly due to satisfaction reasons. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/04/21 09:39 PM |
| 4 | If you're pro-choice due to bodily autonomy, you can't demand paternal child-support, or object to child neglectThe man also had a kid outside of marriage but I guess men don’t need to be accountable for their own actions and children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 07:09 AM |
| 3 | If you're pro-choice due to bodily autonomy, you can't demand paternal child-support, or object to child neglectSo to be clear you are literally saying morality is founded on beliefs. I believe morality is defined as what most avoids unnecessary harm to others. Is it moral to kill a man in self defence if he invaded your home and attacked you, yes. Is it moral to invade a mans home and attack him, no. Again religion is an incredibly weak basis for what is moral because not is it only extremely outdated but does not view the world from what avoids harm rather than what brings most good to the individual Is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 06:39 AM |
| 3 | If you're pro-choice due to bodily autonomy, you can't demand paternal child-support, or object to child neglectI think I’ve made that clear already. That religion is not a reliable source for morality since it’s written by men who outlined morality to be exactly what benefitted them the most not what benefitted all. I think we already covered the fact you cannot be taught. I really don’t have any more time for you. I’ve learned never to fight with crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 06:32 AM |
| 3 | If you're pro-choice due to bodily autonomy, you can't demand paternal child-support, or object to child neglectWhich is why you are unteachable and also unsuitable for debate since the world to you can only exist in your one set view. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 06:28 AM |
| 3 | If you're pro-choice due to bodily autonomy, you can't demand paternal child-support, or object to child neglectLOL do you feel better after that? My epistemology is that religion is fiction and therefor it’s morality is not based in either science or fact but rather what one (or several) people deemed moral without proper nor reliable testing and therefor is fundamentally flawed as such all out flowing information from religious groundwork should be highly vetted before being applied because the information source is unreliable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 06:21 AM |
| 1 | If you're pro-choice due to bodily autonomy, you can't demand paternal child-support, or object to child neglectIt’s your sperm flower | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 06:05 AM |
| 7 | If you're pro-choice due to bodily autonomy, you can't demand paternal child-support, or object to child neglectAlso of course you support it. It was written by men, for men. Your heaven is literally a whore house filled with beer and prostitutes 🤦♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 06:04 AM |
| 7 | If you're pro-choice due to bodily autonomy, you can't demand paternal child-support, or object to child neglectSorry but I can’t take religious people seriously. Like not even a little bit. I haven’t believed in men floating in the sky (or riding a flying animal) since I was six and my mum told me Santa wasn’t real. Also your religion constantly contradicts itself, like I’ve read the Quran and later pages contradict earlier ones. Like Jesus Muhammad couldn’t even get his story straight. Sorry not sorry, religious belief is not a solid argument for anything. If I wear a colander on my head and worship a s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 06:01 AM |
| 12 | If you're pro-choice due to bodily autonomy, you can't demand paternal child-support, or object to child neglectYour assuming firstly that the father was unwilling to have a child, that the child was unplanned or unwanted. If he said let’s have a baby and she said hell yeah he doesn’t get to opt out from all his responsibilities because six months later he fell in love with a different girl or decided kids was too much work. If you want men to have the freedom to have sex with and consequently impregnate anyone they please without consequence the very least you could do is grant women the freedom of choic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 05:55 AM |
| 4 | If you're pro-choice due to bodily autonomy, you can't demand paternal child-support, or object to child neglectThis is just a bullshit religious way of enforcing marriage, keeping women hostage to men and men refusing to take accountability for sticking their dick in a woman and also refusing to marry her in the aftermath. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 05:47 AM |
| 2 | If you're pro-choice due to bodily autonomy, you can't demand paternal child-support, or object to child neglectA lot of them do. But the point OP made still stands, you can’t ask for equal say until you take equal responsibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 05:45 AM |
| 1 | There is no gender strategy and people should just work on themselves & understand their value.Not sure I got anything from it. You lost me straight away at women can’t exploit men for sex. I recently read on Reddit a guy who was raped by his female boss, he was exploited for sex. Men can be raped by women. Women are physically capable of exploiting men for sex and some do. When I made the statement that we don’t I simply meant the average woman doesn’t. Also to claim women exploiting men by using their sex is an average definition of a normal woman couldn’t be anymore RP and ignorant. I’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 05:40 AM |
| 4 | “China proposes teaching masculinity to boys as state is ‘alarmed’ by changing gender roles”A great majority of essential workers are female though? Like here in the U.K. most of my female friends work either in minimum wage factory and warehouse style jobs, restaurants etc and the higher earners working in engineering and nhs. For this reason I only know one woman who has been furloughed. I mean if your talking about america I have zero point of reference for what is happening there but I do know it’s dumb to assume other countries operate or are experiencing things in the exact same … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 03:23 AM |
| 1 | There is no gender strategy and people should just work on themselves & understand their value.Come on your not so dumb you can’t understand context. Women don’t exploit men to GET sex. And they don’t really exploit men via only fans. Men can just as easily go on porn hub, they aren’t trapped with no other options and she does not owe him sex neither is she exploiting his vulnerability for money because he is not vulnerable in this situation. Most men using only fans are career men who simply like being able to pay to have their pornography of a certain person performing certain actions f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/21 12:01 AM |
| 1 | There is no gender strategy and people should just work on themselves & understand their value.A fwb is not guaranteed pleasure in fact it’s usually not pleasure at all. That’s why I like the idea of gigalos. It’s their literal job to focus on getting you off. But I’m a little iffy to rely on that in a system that is so unmonitored 🤷🏼♀️ also it’s worth noting that fwb comes with complications that prostitution by passes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 09:59 PM |
| 1 | There is no gender strategy and people should just work on themselves & understand their value.You are in fact correct which I wasn’t aware of. But I think you have all missed my point. I’m not trying to become a social outcast or some speaker for women’s rights to use prostitution (same thing really) as I’m neither mentally well enough to endure the stress of which nor do I believe I am influential enough to make a change. It’s basically social self destruction. Also it’s still not as simple as walking to some ones house and asking to buy sex. Maybe men who are used to that culture but I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 09:03 PM |
| 2 | There is no gender strategy and people should just work on themselves & understand their value.Sure it’s her choice if she took drugs and as a result got addicted couldn’t hold down a normal job and now gives handjobs on the street. But there is a point where we have to accept she is trapped in a spiral that we shouldn’t be helping to perpetuate. My brother is a cocaine addict and sure it was dumb of him to take it in the first place but that doesn’t mean it’s okay for me to feed that habit or encourage him to commit self harming acts to feed his addiction. Like you said it’s about accoun… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 08:22 PM |
| 1 | I don't think women will join "harems" or share chad in the future on a massive scaleSo I should go suffocate my nerdy brother and his geeky friends then? I’ve hung out with plenty of guys who were ugly, like actually outright ugly. Because unlike guys women don’t only talk to and be nice to people they want to sleep with. My lecturer was a 65 year old man and I used to get coffee with him before class, I guess he must have been Chad 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 08:13 PM |
| 1 | I don't think women will join "harems" or share chad in the future on a massive scaleWhat in my whole life out of every man I’ve ever met it’s only been then top 20% of men. I’m not talking about bfs and sex partners here I’m talking about every guy in my high school/college/university classes that I talked to. Every guy I play online gaming with. Every guy I talked to at a party, every mates bf, my parents make friends, my brothers and their mates. Your telling me they were all the top 20%?? Why the fuck is the top 20% orbiting me 😆😆😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 08:06 PM |
| 2 | There is no gender strategy and people should just work on themselves & understand their value.Yeah most of them a gay. The rest of them well I’m a woman so I’m not going off with or letting some random guy into my home. If it’s a legal vetted system then sure why not, but it’s not like gigalos are standing on every street corner either and you have no way of knowing if they are just gonna rob your cash, or even your house and it’s not like you can call police even if he kicks your ass because it’s not legal to buy a prostitute here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 08:03 PM |
| 4 | There is no gender strategy and people should just work on themselves & understand their value.Okay dude I’m literally a woman so don’t mansplain me. I would take a guaranteed orgasm over sloppy bad sex any day just like a man would almost completely regardless of a mans attractiveness. Woman aren’t the main ones wanting commitment when they are older and tons of men have confirmed that even if they had other options they would rather have one woman in a commitment rather than some sexual fantasy harem. Even chads settle down eventually. Woman don’t do anything they can to ride chads dick… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 07:59 PM |
| 2 | I don't think women will join "harems" or share chad in the future on a massive scaleOr we just don’t feel a need to hide in a closet particularly when sex between women is statistically proven to be more pleasurable and rewarding that is is with men. Because we aren’t scared of not being seen as a real woman if we like other woman and have less to lose by being honest about it. I’m on a hookup site where I specifically trawl for bisexual men into pegging, the sheer number of not out of the closet men who message me (literally willing to have with other guys for my entertainment… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 05:52 PM |
| 2 | There is no gender strategy and people should just work on themselves & understand their value.I’ll give you £20 for oral 🙄 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 05:47 PM |
| 1 | I don't think women will join "harems" or share chad in the future on a massive scaleOkay here is the first thing that came up https://www.google.co.uk/amp/s/www.refinery29.com/amp/en-gb/2020/07/9905803/lesbian-bed-death-syndrome Firstly the statistics they took in the first place weren’t reliable, also quality over quantity hasn’t been considered, outright bed death doesn’t appear to be supported or any more common than in male/female couples. Basically lesbian bed death is a weird trope people keep passing around but isn’t really founded in anything🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 05:45 PM |
| 1 | I don't think women will join "harems" or share chad in the future on a massive scaleRight accept the 80/20 rule isn’t true at least not here in the U.K. I’ve only met 3 guys who were still virgin. One was religious and it was by choice. One was noticeably suffering from a mental disorder (or was just as immature /like throwing his own poo / as a 3 year old) and the last guy is best described as one of the creepiest guys I ever met. Was found taking pictures of girls in the classroom without permission, made inappropriate comments about underage girls, like skin crawling creepy.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 05:40 PM |
| 1 | I don't think women will join "harems" or share chad in the future on a massive scaleRight so the fact that most lesbians I know have sex all the time and that I as a bisexual woman am actually more sexual with women means nothing? I’m interested in a study about this that proves dead bedroom is more or even equally as common in lesbian women. Provide sources please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 05:33 PM |
| 2 | There is no gender strategy and people should just work on themselves & understand their value.That’s because to fuck a drug addict who is clearly either being exploited or is exploiting herself to get drugs is immoral and women tend not to want to exploit people for sex. I agree as a woman I would use sex workers if it were socially acceptable and available to me since I would be pretty much guaranteed quality sex with a respectful guy and have assurance that the act will be confidential. I wouldn’t care about his looks if the sex was guaranteed to be pleasurable for me. The reason women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Abortion Mega ThreadSo the fact that every second guy I meet over the age of 25 has kids is somehow irrelevant. That the world is full of single dads who aren’t in the top 20% of men? Women are not responsible for controlling male sexuality. Sure we ‘have the final say’ on wether he gets it from us (but not really) but we can’t control wether or not he is going to seek it from us or be responsible about how he goes about it. That’s the equivalent of saying women can control a rapist. No we can’t. In the end it’s up… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 05:11 PM |
| 1 | I don't think women will join "harems" or share chad in the future on a massive scaleUh-huh 🤔 so how does that work. Are the stds in the atmosphere rather than contracted sexually or are gay men fucking straight women? Because as a bisexual woman you almost never hear of a lesbian contracting an STD from another woman. AIDS is mostly spread by men to other men not by women to other women. That alone indicates men aren’t cleaner? than women. Unless you think gay men are so vastly different from straight men beyond being prepared to stick their penises in other men and sex being m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 05:00 PM |
| 7 | Abortion Mega ThreadThere is only one thing to be said here Women are not responsible for ‘controlling’ male sexual choices. If you care so much about stopping abortion then take responsibility to ensure you aren’t a contributing factor to unwanted pregnancy If the answer to avoid pregnancy is to not have sex until your ready for a child then both men and women together need to follow this advice. The argument she didn’t force me to wear a condom or didn’t want me to doesn’t work as a defense because the condom and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 08:59 AM |
| 2 | Abortion Mega ThreadYou ever think that whole scenario would have been avoided if guys took a fair share of responsibility in not getting women pregnant. Like not having sex with some one he doesn’t want a kid with? You can’t argue for equal say if you don’t take equal responsibility 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 08:50 AM |
| 2 | I don't think women will join "harems" or share chad in the future on a massive scaleThis is actually so dumb and ignores so much evidence that shows many men regardless of looks are opportunistic where sex is concerned. Stop trying to paint a halo over your horns, if it were true women would settle with average guys over Chad all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 08:27 PM |
| 1 | I don't think women will join "harems" or share chad in the future on a massive scaleThey may be common but they don’t last. Even pick me women get fed up fairly quickly unless she is so bottom of the barrel she has no other options and even then they will go there own way rather than settle for that for long periods. This is mainly because if he has six pick me plates he can’t pretend forever that they are all his no1. Things slip eventually and soon the women start to back out. Women want to be a mans only one, at worst will settle for being his no1, but there is only 1 real n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 08:25 PM |
| 0 | I don't think women will join "harems" or share chad in the future on a massive scaleI wouldn’t describe them as hot no and women like men tend to rate their own gender as more attractive that the opposite gender would. N2 cheated with a girl who was avarage looking, maybe a bit pretty but didn’t keep herself well and had a sleep around reputation, she was a case of severe insecurity and validation seeking, tbf she wasn’t his looksmatch he was pretty dog faced and chubby but then her history tells me she sought validation even from uglier men. The second guy however literally wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 08:20 PM |
| 1 | I don't think women will join "harems" or share chad in the future on a massive scaleI think I know what bf no 2 and 3 looked like hun and they were far from Chad or even a 6. I have shared their pictures on the ppd discord before and it was agreed they were average looking men. I agree with the second part but that’s kind of my point. Many Average men will still cheat if the chance is presented. If they seem to cheat less it’s only because they don’t have as many chances but they aren’t more or less likely than Chad to cheat. I learned from bf 2 and 3 that if a guy is gonna che… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 08:14 PM |
| 6 | I don't think women will join "harems" or share chad in the future on a massive scaleLOL your joking right? My second and 3rd bfs were no prizes and they cheated every chance they got. I have a mate who’s an ex drug addict, looks twenty years older than he is, has burns down one side of his body who uses sympathy and lies to cheat on his gf constantly. The sheer amount of basic bitch bfs my mates have had that have hit on me and other women behind my mates backs. Stop glorifying Avarage men like they treat women well they really don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 05:44 PM |
| 0 | I don't think women will join "harems" or share chad in the future on a massive scaleYes because no girl is gonna be in a ‘harem’ ie one of many committed partners to a man. Only way she will only be his in that way is if she doesn’t know about the others or she actually dumb enough to think she more important than the others 😑 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 05:25 PM |
| 8 | I don't think women will join "harems" or share chad in the future on a massive scaleIt baffles me how men don’t get it Would you want to commit yourself and give everything to a girl who isn’t committed to you? Who you openly knew was having multiple relationships and you were one of many disposable guys she was fucking with. Pretty sure trp complains constantly about the idea of commitment with a girl who has so much as a history with another guy never mind someone who is actively still seeing other men Now in what warped reality to you think women don’t feel the same way? Don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 05:14 PM |
| 1 | A scientist explains what men don't understand about dead bedrooms. I think she's right.I’m some one who has struggled with sex and desire or rather a lack of. I will say I think a huge motivator to this was that it simply and often times was a lot of work to feel pleasure from the act due to a medical condition. However it is true that since I had a traumatic pregnancy/miscarriage that nearly resulted in my death, now nearly 10 years after I have even less urge than before. I find if I try to force it in anyway i not only really struggle to get aroused both physically and mentally… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/21 03:54 PM |
| 7 | Can you GREATLY separate romantic love from platonic love?You sound like you might be on the asexual spectrum. Maybe look into that? 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 04:00 PM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementRight so what about when you said it was a fair trade off? Exactly what is a fair trade off to you if it’s not fair and a trade off. 🙈 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 03:15 PM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementYour also assuming she has decided she wants to have sex with you. Dates exist so you can convince her she does. Again you wouldn’t ask a guy you just met to pay to go to a restaurant with you and then a movie or some shit knowing full well your trying to stick your gherkin in his sandwich - why then is it fine to do that to women?? It isn’t entitlement (aka special treatment) to want your effort to be equally met by the other person. Yes it’s an expectation we all have and deserve to have and t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 03:07 PM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementFor the last time - CONTEXT | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 03:03 PM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementFfs get a life and stop switching between definitions when it suits you. You’re arguing women want privileges aka special treatment while agreeing it’s an equal trade off? Make some sense already or at least be consistent in your beliefs. I’d like to meet the guy who taught you how to gas light cause he really didn’t have a feckin clue did he?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 03:01 PM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementPart of the definition of entitlement is believing you are entitled to certain privileges - privilege literally defined on google as being a special right or (snort) entitlement It’s almost as if words have more than one definition and context is required to understand which definition is being used Sincerely - a BA In English literature and language | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 02:55 PM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementWe have literally already been over this and you even reached the conclusion yourself that it is an equal trade off 🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ I’ve also covered the fact I do 50/50 splits on dates and that things in the U.K. are different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 02:53 PM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementC.O.N.T.E.X.T | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 02:51 PM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementEw and also ew Swing and a miss... Expecting to be treated as an equal isnt asking for special treatment and again apply some context to this post. Even if you don’t believe women are equal and therefor your equal treatment of them is some kind of gift you don’t deserve a gold star for not behaving as less than an animal. No one is going to pat you on the back and celebrate the mediocrity that is you boorish treatment of some one you consider less capable of you. That’s like claiming I should th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 02:49 PM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementLOL keep barking up the tree mate I’m not even there 🤦♀️ It’s nothing to do with moralising you have literally once again pointed out it’s a trade off. I’m not being entitled if I expect someone to pay for the labour I do anymore than it is entitlement for a man to expect fair treatment in a court of law Again you are confusing what entitlement is in the context of the post. Your claim that women expect more from men on a date isn’t really true either. We expect basic human consideration and tr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 02:40 PM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementSo then explain to me what exactly is the other option here? Your literally saying women are being entitled for expecting a fair trade off 🤦♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 02:31 PM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementI’m bisexual I date women, none of them here in the U.K. ever expected me to pay. Your not enjoying female entitlement, you’re just enjoying a human. Some guy you just met isn’t going to pay out of his own pocket to go see the movie you wanna see and eat the food you wanna eat knowing fine well the only reason you asked him along is because you’re trying to stick your penis in him, so why tf should women 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 02:27 PM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementWho tf expects to be paid for that’s some American patriarchal bullshit 😂 your literally complaining about an expectation you set that is hardly entitlement when under the same system she should expect to become your personal slave forever Dude even if a woman expects to be paid for well isn’t it entitled to think she should give you her time and spend her money amusing you for the day when your the one trying to get into her pants? You want HER time hun, not the other way around. She shouldn’t … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 02:22 PM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementI bought my ex a switch and took him out for dinner for his bday - most women I know treat their partners one way or another. are you going somewhere with these wild assumptions flower? Also I have said this already but I’m from the u.k and 50/50 split is the common expectation here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 02:18 PM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementA walk in the park is a date you tit. I’ve been on many dates that didn’t involve dinner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 02:15 PM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementNice try 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 02:15 PM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementYou know that whole thing you just said. Go read it again. Men expecting sex is entitlement Women expecting men to treat them like people rather than just demanding free sex is entitlement???? Check your logic before you post, your starting to sound like an absolute moron 🤦♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 02:14 PM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementSo you don’t think it’s basic human decency to at least try to get to know and woman and treat her like a person instead of just sexually objectify her? Also I’ve covered this, it’s a 50/50 scenario I don’t expect to be ‘paid for’ but if you asked me out then yeah you better know where you are taking me. That’s not entitlement you tit, you don’t ask some one to follow you around without a destination in mind because it’s a waste of their friggin time. Again basic decency. You should really read … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 02:12 PM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementSo then men are entitled for expecting women to give them a chance in the first place, for expecting her to dress nice for him and be polite company and in many cases split the bill etc. It works to ways, men expect basic human decency too. A date is literally a mans opportunity to convince a woman he is worthy of sex and to do so in an environment where his intentions are clear and not misconstrued and where her attention is solely on you. Stop acting like dates only exist for women they don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 02:09 PM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlement🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 02:05 PM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementAlso it’s not ‘special’ treatment it’s convince me you are worth my time and commitment treatment. Don’t confuse the two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 01:56 PM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementNo one said wanting basic human decency makes women bad people. It also doesn’t make them more ‘entitled’ than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 01:55 PM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementBecause you are literally grasping at straws trying to get women to say we are more entitled than men when it’s simply not true. This isn’t a debate thread about what constitutes as entitled behaviour but which of us exhibits it’s more. You are reaching hella far like you think we are all blind to try and say women are more entitled. We aren’t. You’re smart enough to throw around ‘moralising’ on every second post you are therefor smart enough to know what is meant by entitlement in the context o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 01:53 PM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementStop throwing around moralising like your some kind of would be intellectual. Also morals play a role in human choices and therefor are a key part of any debate. Only a literal sociopath refuses to see the benefit of morality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 01:50 PM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementIt’s not about moralising. Neither does expecting basic human decency make us more entitled than men 🤦♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 01:49 PM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementIf youre talking about the dating phase then duhhhh or am I supposed to just give you sex because you’re a man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 01:47 PM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementThen stop browsing FDS 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 08:51 AM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementMate you apparently don’t know the first thing about women 🤦♀️ believe me we have seen it all and yes the occasional self entitled bitch too, but our collective shared experiences show men act entitled way more often than we do. I don’t think I know a single woman who hasn’t at some point had to deal with they guy who thinks she should have sex with him or let him touch her or talk to him because he bought her a drink she never asked for. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 07:33 AM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementYawn 🥱 a woman is allowed to expect certain treatment just as a man is provided what she expects is reasonable. That isn’t the ‘entitlement’ this post talks about. For example as a man on a date you can expect her to dress nicely for you and be polite and pleasant company just as she expects that from you. It’s not a one way street flower. She can expect you to put your best foot forward as she will hers. She can expect you to show her you value her for more than sex because she’s not sticking a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 07:30 AM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementDude your talking about a guy taking a girl on a date which in most scenarios it’s his job to convince her he will treat her well. You are taking normal expectations and trying to turn them into an ‘entitlement’. If your not going to romance her to your bed why are you going on a date. She isn’t just going to give you sex because you asked. 😵😵😵 In a relationship the reason you are taking her out is to make her feel special. If you want her to take you out and make you feel special it’s your job … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 07:05 AM |
| 2 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementI’m gonna guess you’re American? Because I can say for FACT here in the U.K. it’s no longer normal to expect a guy to pay on the first date. Like it’s considered trashy here if a girl does that. Like instant gold digger cumslut ruin your reputation trashy 🤷🏼♀️ if you are from the U.K. then fite me because I know 100% I’m right on this one. Not saying it doesn’t happen at all but men definitely expect sex more than women expect him to pay. It’s basically part of our self defence so a guy can’t d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 03:43 AM |
| 3 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementNo but he does expect her to have sex with him 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 03:32 AM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementI mean I have legit never expected a man to risk his life for me but okay... And going on a date is different albeit I’m a 50/50 girl, I pay for my own food and drinks. But is he’s the one that asked her for her time then it’s basically 50/50 exchange until they are in a relationship. I would never ask a guy on a date and expect him to pay for me or to pick the location, I tend not to pay for them because y’know 50/50 but I have in the past if it’s a guy I really like because his time is somethi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 03:31 AM |
| 6 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementShould she have to live in dirt because he is lazy? Keeping a house clean isn’t really about choice, we aren’t animals so why live in a barn. It impacts both physical and mental health to live in a dirty unkempt home. I mean my advice then is to dump him on the spot. It’s basically the equivalent of saying well why should a man put in equally to a child when he doesn’t care as much about the standard of living that child has 🤷🏼♀️ at this point your basically a man-child who apparently can’t eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 03:23 AM |
| 2 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementSure but the OPs argument was which does this more and honestly it’s probably men. Most women I know enter relationships believing first they will have to give certain things to the man, a lot of men enter a relationship believing first she has to provide him with certain somethings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 03:16 AM |
| 1 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementBecause that’s entitlement which is the OPs original post. Sure women can get a guy to buy her stuff without going equal but we call that using, and if she thinks she is ENTITLED to use a guy then call a duck a duck 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 03:12 AM |
| 3 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementIt’s basically what I’ve said. Match her evenly, if you want her to pay 50% of the bills then do 50% of the house work/childcare. If you both work full time no kids then everything should be 50/50. I don’t understand why that confuses people 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 02:52 AM |
| 8 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementWomen don’t expect men to provide with nothing in return. She expects him to match her 🙈 some men just expect (period) and think it’s just a woman’s job/duty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 02:27 AM |
| 8 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementBecause she does his laundry, cooks his dinner, cleans his house, provides sex and comfort 😑 literally read what I said. Match her evenly or step aside. Why should she give everything to a guy who gives the bare minimum | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 02:22 AM |
| 6 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementMale entitlement is men thinking women SHOULD do his laundry, make his dinner and keep his house clean while raising his kids and holding down a part time job so she can contribute to household bills. It’s men BELIEVING women owe him her time/body/skills just because he is a man. No one is saying you can’t have a woman that takes care of you but she’s not your mother, either match her evenly or step aside. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 02:19 AM |
| 5 | Idk what to think anymoreFrom a woman’s perspective: It sounds like as you said you were going through some mental health difficulties. While this is in no way your fault it is plausible that this may have impacted your relationship even if it’s just that you weren’t as ‘fun’ to be around. I’m not saying it was her sole motivation but rather a factor to consider. It’s easy to assume it’s hypergamy but what makes you so certain the next guy is ‘better’ than you. He might just be more balanced right now. I know it hurts s… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/02/21 08:48 AM |
| 6 | I want to get over RedPill but I cannot help but think there is some truth to itRead my other reply to put the whole bad boy thing into better context. Again most women don’t chase bad boys, if it seems that’s way it’s because bad boys have no issues pretending to be good boys to get what they want. I’m not gonna pretend some women don’t settle because they feel they have to before ‘their value runs out’ (thanks misogyny) but that still isn’t what I was saying. You are her forever guy because you are the right mix of what she is looking for. Probably not boring if she is sl… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/21 10:44 PM |
| 12 | I want to get over RedPill but I cannot help but think there is some truth to itErm your assuming every guy having sex is a bad boy. I think you are projecting your own insecurities. They are probably more confident people who hang out in more social groups hence how they meet girls but that doesn’t = bad boy. My first bf when I was 17 was a complete gamer geek who played warhammer every Saturday and told dad jokes like his life depended on it. He did end up going through dry spells and what not but he was fun sociable and we met through having mutual interests. I didn’t ch… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/21 10:34 PM |
| 11 | I want to get over RedPill but I cannot help but think there is some truth to itThat’s not what I’m saying. I’m saying when she is ready for what you have to offer she will come to you. You can’t be angry at women for not wanting that level of commitment when they are young, or for making mistakes trying to find it. At the end of the day I can’t stop you from being angered by this but I would ask you to consider reversing the roles in your mind and then realising not only is it acceptable for men to be this way but that women don’t get upset if their LTR wasn’t always avail… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/21 10:21 PM |
| 4 | I want to get over RedPill but I cannot help but think there is some truth to itIf it helps I’m a woman and my celebrity crush is rowan Atkinson (aka mr. Bean, but it’s more for his role in black adder) also robin williams and jack black. I know they aren’t considered attractive but It’s their charisma. I’m not saying everyone is like me but assuming celebrity crushes are about looks might be projecting why it is men have celebrity crushes. There is a reason why ‘ugly’ men can end up with a huge female following and it’s not their money or status it’s that Charisma that is … | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/21 09:14 PM |
| 9 | I want to get over RedPill but I cannot help but think there is some truth to itFrom a woman’s perspective: I believe to some degree this idea is ‘true’ in that a percentage of young women want to enjoy themselves and aren’t looking for commitment, and the percentage who are still have no idea where to look or what/who to believe. So it isn’t false that a number of women don’t actually settle down until they are thirty. 50% of these because they didn’t want to seek commitment and therefor didn’t go after commitment type of men and 50% because they didn’t know how to find a … | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/21 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Women bully each other into hypergamyI believe this to be very true right up until your late twenties. Many times my friends ‘protected’ me from bad choices. I don’t hold it against them because I think it’s partly rooted in them wanting what they feel is best for me and what I am deserving of. But I think it also proves that women to some extent judge men’s value partly on their appearance until they are old enough and experienced enough to look beyond that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/21 03:51 PM |
| 1 | For guys, the "who pays" dilemma is pretty simple: just don't pay for anything till you've slept with the girlI mean that because dating is accepted as the manner in which relationships are formed then in this scenario a man is not being honest nor truthful about his pursuit. Yes it’s true it is ultimately our choice to open our legs but if we are of the moral sort that doesn’t sleep around it is quite literally emotionally destroying to be tricked and used. The answer then is that we vet the next guy harder so the next guy gets smarter and things degrade until we end up where we have. Men don’t have to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 02:46 AM |
| 1 | For guys, the "who pays" dilemma is pretty simple: just don't pay for anything till you've slept with the girlThe thing that confuses me is If a man is ‘taking you’ on a date then he is leading in that scenario, he picks the restaurant and any activities and yes in my mind he pays Similarly if I ask a man on a date, I pick the location and activity and I pay. Because I’m the one who is asking for his time and consideration. A date isn’t meant to be a precursor to one night stands and casual sex, dating exists for people who are looking for relationships. I’ve never been on a date with a one night stand … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 02:00 AM |
| 5 | Does being attractive feel like a expectation or natural desire for you?They were expectations for me. I have always hated it too. I’m not naturally‘feminine’ by societal standards. Make up hair and fashion is like a chore I’m forced to do, but with less rewards than most other chore. But then society judges us on our appearance and has decided women need to look a certain way in order to be ‘appropriate’. I recently said f it and shaved my hair after years of fighting with it and spending £100s on hair cuts and styling products. I wish I could say it felt liberatin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/21 12:21 AM |
| 9 | Would you consider it one advantage of traditional cultures and younger marriages is that they get married off young before they become too jaded by the opposite sex?Not true. I mean first you have to define a successful marriage. Which also means assuming an unsuccessful marriage is simply any marriage that ends in divorce. You then are assuming that literally no marriage based on love ever lasted which is wrong. A marriage is not successful if two miserable people stay together because divorce isn’t a real option. If a man is forced to marry a woman because he got the woman pregnant does that marriage become successful? Not all marriages succeed. But to me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/21 10:41 PM |
| 12 | In reality Matriarchy is actually very Redpill and Most Tradcon societies are actually more bluepillish than many Rightwingers think, all in all being sorta alot more equal regarding Genders than what SJWs and other Leftists assumeThis is literally ugh. Like I literally don’t have the time but I will say this, you’re not just swinging a big bat. You are swinging a big bat blindly at the wrong tree hoping to knock down an apple when it’s a beehive that about to bonk you on the head 🤦♀️ | /r/ExRedPill | 29/01/21 10:36 PM |
| 21 | Would you consider it one advantage of traditional cultures and younger marriages is that they get married off young before they become too jaded by the opposite sex?In my experience these types of marriages only seem to last when they are built on respect and obedience not love. Usually the man end up cheating a great deal and the behaviour is not frowned-upon by anyone because the expectation that women should put up and shut up, the woman doesn’t cheat because of societal consequences. They don’t stay together because that’s what they want but because that’s what family and society pressures them to do. I briefly worked with women fleeing arranged marriag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/21 10:33 PM |
| 1 | 15 sex questions for the ladies (if you don't mind me asking)Wtf dude you don’t even know me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/21 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Speaking from personal and observational experience, why do you think most men have trouble getting dates ?I think I make most judgements about men in the first 3 minutes of meeting them. Provided I find them physically attractive. It’s about how they present themselves in the world. Arrogance is very off putting to me. I enjoy assertiveness so long as it stays within basic human boundaries. Guys who immediately grab/grope you or get right in your space are a huge NO for me. I think over use of pet names is also a huge turn off, calling me beautiful/babe/sexy and at the same time over complimenting m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/21 05:22 AM |
| 1 | 15 sex questions for the ladies (if you don't mind me asking)I was 17 Sleep Six men Two Yes Yes Yes No Yes Yes Yes No Yes Yes Yes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/21 05:01 AM |
| 1 | What is the shortest height a man can be while still being seductive?My only hight requirement if I have one is that he is the same hight or taller than me. I’m 5’1 so the bar isn’t that high. However I have never consciously thought about a mans hight but that may be because I am so short that almost every man I meet is taller than me. Personally I don’t think hight would be a deciding factor in wether or not I date some one since I don’t make choices like that based on aesthetics. Sleeping with... tbf I guess his hight doesn’t really effect his ability to perfo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/21 04:57 AM |
| 2 | Why are you guys so pressed about what shallow women do?Hang on so your logic is because your read something on the internet it must therefor be true of every woman. If you applied that logic to articles and research behaviour on men we would all universally agree men should be lock away in cages. Should I assume because I read online multiple research papers and articles stating men as incapable of not cheating that all men will cheat? That all men are aggressive and violent that they will all hit me? That men are predatory in nature thus they are a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 05:51 PM |
| 4 | Why are you guys so pressed about what shallow women do?Answer me this, do men really make better choices than women or are less women simply prone to taking advantage and being an asshole? Everyone makes mistakes particularly when they are new to something, you have just decided it is more acceptable for men to dispose of their mistakes and accept them as a learning experience rather than a fault of their own character. Or is their simply no such thing as a wrong partner for men as long as he gets sex, do men not need to be held accountable when the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 01:28 PM |
| 7 | Why are you guys so pressed about what shallow women do?Dude firstly why do you care. Should your wife care you weren’t her first choice of partner in life? Secondly, you are assuming she had even met the second guy before the first in order for him to be the ‘second option’ he simply wasn’t an available option when she made the first choice 🤷🏼♀️ if I got butt hurt over every guy I’ve dated who dated one of my friends first I’d spend my life crying about pointless shit. You don’t need to be their first choice, just be the right one so the relationsh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 04:31 AM |
| 7 | Where do your views on female sex drive and attraction come from?The problem I have with guys who say this are also usually the first to pull the #notallmen line. As if one or even multiple negative experiences paints the entire picture of the female gender. If you’re allowed to do that then so are we 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Opinions on deadbeat dads?Are you actually that retarded? We know for a fact environment causes crime. People don’t commit crime and then become poor, poor people commit crime often in an attempt to have more money. The lack of a good education, job and opportunity plus being surrounded by other criminaly minded people is what causes them to turn to crime. Poverty makes crime far more than crime makes poverty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/20 02:12 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Women who get pumped and dumped just haven't worked hard enough on themselvesIt’s not a pump and dump unless he lied about his intentions in which case he is an asshole and that’s why women complain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Who knows more about the casual sex behaviors of women, men or women?If you are looking for casual sex you are going to find women who are also looking for casual sex🤷🏼♀️ just because you banged the same Thot 30 guys before you did doesn’t mean every woman is doing this. Your just hooking up with the ones that are | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/20 08:44 AM |
| 1 | men who have looksmaxxed do you feel that the effort was worth the results ?It didn’t make a difference in on specific person just with people in general. What I’m saying is if you try to change for some one who already turned you down, if she is female it is unlikely weight loss is going to make a difference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/20 02:06 PM |
| 10 | Q4W: Female sexuality: do you need to get off?I go out of the way to make sure my partner enjoys sex. If he can’t be bothered to put in the extra work to make me orgasm then my legs close for business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/20 06:37 AM |
| 5 | Young women are less likely to intend to use a condom with a more facially attractive male partner, and over 50% of non-virgin women report having intentionally employed a tactic (excluding other preventative birth control methods) to prevent/inhibit effective condom usageYou could argue a man is not consciously trying to get a woman pregnant when sleeping with her. Sex is for reproduction. Contraception is not a part of nature 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/20 03:54 AM |
| 12 | Opinions on deadbeat dads?Who decides if a woman has sex with a man? Do men literally have no say? Can I walk up to any guy and demand sex? Wtf. It doesn’t matter if she has more options, if YOU don’t want a kid then YOU need to take responsibility. You can’t be reckless then be angry when a woman holds you accountable for the child you created. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/20 02:47 AM |
| 11 | Opinions on deadbeat dads?What? It takes two to tango. Men aren’t exempt because he can’t bang without her consent. She can’t bang without his either. It’s mutually agreed upon and therefor both sides should take responsibility to avoid unwanted pregnancy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/20 02:42 AM |
| 4 | Opinions on deadbeat dads?Yet I know so many guys with criminal records who are excellent fathers. Assuming poverty and the consequences of it = bad parents is dumb and ignores male responsibility to a child. Get a vasectomy, use a condom, don’t fuck girls who aren’t on the pill. Take personal responsibility to avoid pregnancy as well rather than outright assuming all the bad decisions were by the mother and that all responsibility is on the mother. I agree women shouldn’t be dumb and breed to a man who is unreliable but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/20 02:16 AM |
| 6 | Opinions on deadbeat dads?Most men leave after the child is born not right after conception 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/20 02:09 AM |
| 8 | Opinions on deadbeat dads?Your assuming the woman somehow knows what kind of parent a man is going to be | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/20 02:07 AM |
| 14 | Opinions on deadbeat dads?Most deadbeat dads leave after the child is born not during the pregnancy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/20 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Why does everyone find MGTOW so offensive?I think you are all over reading this Mgtow gets a bad rep due to its associations. Those women who know anything about it in detail have sat here and watched you come up with wild accusations about them, therefor misogynistic accusations. Women don’t care if you Gtow they just hate the culture attached to mgtow. It also strikes at our fears, since mgtow men often still practice sex without any intentions of relationships. This creates a fear of being used by you, a hatred because women will vie… | /r/MGTOW2 | 10/12/20 12:40 AM |
| 17 | Young women are less likely to intend to use a condom with a more facially attractive male partner, and over 50% of non-virgin women report having intentionally employed a tactic (excluding other preventative birth control methods) to prevent/inhibit effective condom usageSome men won’t have sex if a woman insists on condom usage. Not using a condom is not the same as trying to get pregnant. 3.the morning after pill and the pill are the most common form of pregnancy prevention 4.most women use condoms to prevent STD not pregnancy 5.chances are she is lowering standards to raise her chances of sleeping with the more attractive guy. Not because she wants to be impregnated but because she wants to have sex for fun with him. Men who never wear a condom would put one … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/20 12:28 AM |
| 10 | If women find less men attractive than men find women attractive, shouldn't women make the first move?These responses are legit insane to read Firstly men hugely over estimate how attractive other men are, all the rate me subs prove that. Secondly, women approach men they want all the time and I don’t just mean sending signals Thirdly the idea that we get rejected when we approach most men for sex regardless of wether we are 5’s and they are 8s is greatly underestimating male standards. If your horny and no one else is biting the line men have no problems settling with a 3/4/5 girl to see their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/20 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Friend zone set in stoneWhat exactly do you want her to do here? What does respecting your feelings look like to you. She knows how you feel, she has made it clear she doesn’t feel the same way. If she is trying to change your behaviour it’s probably because you are simping up the wrong tree and that is uncomfortable and awkward. Acknowledging and respecting your feelings shouldn’t mean she has to protect you from the fact she doesn’t return those feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/20 09:25 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020Honestly I stopped watching, every episode has hard references to things like orbiter and getting cucked. Felt sick and turned it off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 02:02 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020Soooo Rick and morty s4 ep8 just made a crap ton of incel and red pill references as if they have gone pro red pill ideology. Tons of subliminal references such as the controller morty uses the button is one red one blue both pill shaped. Rick also calls morty out for negging him but then shows the tactic is successful. Morty red pills Jessica. Mortys teacher basically does a whole thing on simping and how he wound up heartbroken. It was funny until it dawned on me just how mainstream it’s going… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Confessions of an ex redpill robotI just want to say well done for finding a healthy mindset after something so traumatic. I can see why you needed to take a journey through red pill to get here but It’s all part of a healing process and you deserve to heal no matter what you need to do to get there. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/20 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Why do some beautiful women become sex workers instead of marrying a rich provider?She’s going to be treated like an object her whole life, she may as well find a way to profit from it 🤷🏼♀️ I have friends in sex work and that’s pretty much what it boils down to. Men are going to demand sex from her no matter what and spread rumours and basically attack her when she does give sex and when she doesn’t give sex etc. For my mates it was the only way to take control over the system. It’s also why they are very open about being a prostitute. Men typically rethink approaching a woma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/20 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Women, do you know exactly what makes you sexually attracted to men?I dated a guy who was about 5”8 and I promise you it wasn’t his height which I hated. I’m only 5”1 and while I’m not shallow enough to overlook a guy because of his height I prefer men around 5”2-5”5 which isn’t to say I wouldn’t date a guy taller or shorter. Sorry but the hight thing is overused and isn’t a deciding factor or even something most women pay any great attention to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/20 06:01 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Being as specific as you possibly can, what sort of strategies to get sex, OR a relationship, barring anything actually illegal, do you consider to be immoral or unethical?But your literally did say that 🤦♀️ that’s like saying it’s a woman’s responsibility to not get raped. No it’s a man responsibility to not go around raping women. You have a victim blaming mentality and that’s not a pill I want to swallow. It is the individuals responsibility to not have like a shit stain on this earth and lie cheat and manipulate people into giving you what you want. You don’t get to blame people for becoming victims. That’s like saying it’s always transparent when things are … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/20 05:38 PM |
| 1 | What would end a relationship?Does it really matter? We were together for two years. We had an emotional connection. There was nothing wrong with our relationship until other girl turned up. Even then at the end he struggled to give me any reason for the breakup other than he realised he wants something else. I very quickly went from being his soulmate (his words) to being ghosted. (One month) No matter how you look at it I was traded in for a prettier model. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/20 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Being as specific as you possibly can, what sort of strategies to get sex, OR a relationship, barring anything actually illegal, do you consider to be immoral or unethical?LOL 😆 I love how determined you are to justify being a piece of shit human being. And of course always a victim. I think you misunderstand who I am. I threw in misogyny as one of the possible lies men use, saying they respect and value all women while having full intent to use and abuse them is misogynistic. It’s not going to happen because you don’t want it to happen. Like you said take responsibility for yourself then. Don’t want to sleep with a woman who wears make up then either demand she r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/20 08:37 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Being as specific as you possibly can, what sort of strategies to get sex, OR a relationship, barring anything actually illegal, do you consider to be immoral or unethical?I don’t really have the energy to entertain that nonsense. You can’t justify lying about who you are as a person to a woman because she wears make up. Not when you could just ask her to take her make up off and show you what she really looks like. Not that the transformation is dramatic in reality. She probably has a few acne scars and oh wow her eyelids aren’t naturally bronzes and browns that’s just eye shadow 😱 god forbid she has a spot on her chin or those obvious dark lines across her cheek… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/20 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Being as specific as you possibly can, what sort of strategies to get sex, OR a relationship, barring anything actually illegal, do you consider to be immoral or unethical?🤦♀️ well that’s a new level of stupid. Appearance isn’t as important as character and also those before and afters are very extreme examples done by make up artists, the average woman cannot and does not alter herself to that degree. Incels are getting surgery, is it dishonest if they don’t tell women they have had work done, I mean she has no idea of his real genetics if they have kids. Most make up just enhances your best features and detracts away from your flaws. It is at best a very small … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/20 06:46 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: Being as specific as you possibly can, what sort of strategies to get sex, OR a relationship, barring anything actually illegal, do you consider to be immoral or unethical?What you are literally saying is that if some one manipulates money out of some one it’s the victims fault and the perpetrator should just get a free pass 🤦♀️ If it’s on the girl to guard herself and you’re willing to do anything to get passed her guard do you really have any right to complain about high count women. It’s like youre punishing women for being vulnerable and trusting while simultaneously shaming them for being independent and strong | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/20 06:05 AM |
| 0 | Q4W: Being as specific as you possibly can, what sort of strategies to get sex, OR a relationship, barring anything actually illegal, do you consider to be immoral or unethical?I don’t know wtf this is but there is a big difference between a woman looksmaxxing and a guy lying about who he is. That’s like me saying it’s dishonest if men wear clothes that compliment their figure and make them look larger 🤦♀️ everyone knows women boost their looks and many men too. It’s not dishonest if it’s not a secret. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/20 05:58 AM |
| 1 | EVERYONE hits the wall at 30+. Men this age have unbelievable amounts of baggage which causes them to hit the wall so much harder than they even realize.Because incels aren’t always the incels we see such negativity attached too. I mean incels purely as in young men unable to get sex. This is because girls their age are still to busy making their mistakes not because there is anything inherently wrong with the incel man. An older woman is some one with more experienced, doesn’t as easily fall for manipulation and lies and chances are if she is still single at 30 it’s because she was more interested in the content of a man rather than his appeara… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/20 01:03 AM |
| 1 | EVERYONE hits the wall at 30+. Men this age have unbelievable amounts of baggage which causes them to hit the wall so much harder than they even realize.I don’t disagree that we naturally gravitate to our own age groups if because mostly we spend most of our time with our own age groups, typically have more in common with them etc. What I’m saying is as circumstances change we will all adapt. I don’t think a single incel would turn down an average looking woman because she is 30. As you identified sex is becoming increasingly sparse for young men and women are having a harder time finding anything worth their time among the 30+ men. All it takes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/20 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadSo what your saying is men are doubting the validity of the claim women make about needing to know a man first. I can see some examples that make make them doubt this, occasionally a pick up in a bar does work albeit most of my experience with this is he’s usually either a friend of a friend or a friend you went out with in the first place. I could also see them tying that need to know some one to the fear of rape. So I can kind of see that doubt. But surely there are also exceptions for men, I’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/20 12:26 AM |
| 1 | EVERYONE hits the wall at 30+. Men this age have unbelievable amounts of baggage which causes them to hit the wall so much harder than they even realize.Because the only real solution hasn’t happened yet. But it’s going too 😉 Women will figure out eventually that it’s okay to go young. Tbf if you hang out in yaoi spaces (an ever growing community) you will see it’s progress. Again it’s societal not attraction based, hence why 30+ somethings still watch porn of 20+ somethings 🤷🏼♀️ the only way you look at it is removing the age stigma is the only way to tackle rising incel in youth. The progress is there it just hasn’t surfaced through any major… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 10:55 PM |
| 1 | EVERYONE hits the wall at 30+. Men this age have unbelievable amounts of baggage which causes them to hit the wall so much harder than they even realize.The sexless ness can be explained quite easily. As I’ve said, it’s not that older women don’t want to fuck younger men it’s that older women don’t feel like they are allowed to do that. How often do you hear women joke about how hot a younger guy is, pretty common right, then they usually joke about how they never would. That never would isn’t genuine, it’s like a guy with a young girl, most of you absolutely would regardless of how old you are 40 or 60 doesn’t matter, but the older you are the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 10:43 PM |
| 1 | EVERYONE hits the wall at 30+. Men this age have unbelievable amounts of baggage which causes them to hit the wall so much harder than they even realize.Correction - very few women are aware that they don’t need to feel ashamed for dating younger men. We only don’t out of fear of what others will think of us. What I’m saying is that mentality is on its way out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 10:23 PM |
| 1 | EVERYONE hits the wall at 30+. Men this age have unbelievable amounts of baggage which causes them to hit the wall so much harder than they even realize.I’m not talking about the us, we already established locational variants. I wasn’t discounting studies in general just pointing out how they aren’t a reliable source of information on this topic when they fail to take things like environmental and societal influences into account. If you ask a group of women if they would rather date older men they will say yes, but no one in this study is asking why or if they find younger men attractive. Sorry if this struck a nerve with you, call it my bubble… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 10:16 PM |
| 1 | EVERYONE hits the wall at 30+. Men this age have unbelievable amounts of baggage which causes them to hit the wall so much harder than they even realize.You are ignoring all the variables such as older men are typically in LTR or marriage and therefor getting sex more consistently. Again the only reason women date older is because of societal conditioning not nature. And in an ever increasing female independence world the shift of dynamic is very welcoming. Women are no longer the younger more naive and innocent member of the relationship. They are now the one with the wisdom and stability. I don’t really hang out in any social circles rn, but i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 10:08 PM |
| 1 | EVERYONE hits the wall at 30+. Men this age have unbelievable amounts of baggage which causes them to hit the wall so much harder than they even realize.Older men prefer younger women. Younger men however are not experimental. My ex was not a milf chaser and most young men do not think older women will be interested in them, the moment they show interest the game changes. Young men can have young women, older women have an exotic appeal to them. Also most studies are unreliable in this regard since many study’s claim women prefer older men without taking societal conditioning into consideration. Studies don’t actually prove anything. Young men d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 10:00 PM |
| 1 | EVERYONE hits the wall at 30+. Men this age have unbelievable amounts of baggage which causes them to hit the wall so much harder than they even realize.https://www.google.co.uk/amp/s/www.today.com/today/amp/tdna74731 This article might help paint the picture clearer. It does appear to be happening to some degree is America as well. It’s still a bit of an alien idea to many women but it’s definitely starting to speed up. I give it about 20 years tops before the dynamic shifts. Again it’s not that it’s a good thing from an incel perspective as when the competition for younger men not only gets fiercer but young men tend to mature faster when they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 08:53 PM |
| 1 | EVERYONE hits the wall at 30+. Men this age have unbelievable amounts of baggage which causes them to hit the wall so much harder than they even realize.It may just be a difference of location I agree. It’s definitely becoming a thing here. The social stigma is decreasing and women find more HVM by chasing younger, where as men in their 30s+ tend to be LVM who either failed to get or keep a quality girl. It’s literally only social conditioning that keeps us from ‘publicly’ chasing younger men. The rule of thumb here is if they haven’t settled by 30 they probably won’t. That’s why turning thirty is a fear, it’s not because of lack of choices rath… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 08:41 PM |
| 2 | EVERYONE hits the wall at 30+. Men this age have unbelievable amounts of baggage which causes them to hit the wall so much harder than they even realize.I’m from U.K. and it’s slowly becoming normal for women to date men younger than them. The only reason it’s not a regular thing is the shame and stigma still attached to it. Even if modern day I got a lot of shit for dating a 21yr guy when I was 25. Personally I find younger men more attractive, men peak in looks between 20-25 then start to wither off. I can see in the future it will be far more normal for older women to date younger men but I also see that creating a problem of it’s own. It’s p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadI think that’s more a difference between men and women. Men decide if she is some one they want based on looks, women decide based on personality. That’s not to say looks don’t play a factor overall but ultimately if I don’t or do like who the guy is then I typically look past looks to make my choice. Most women date within the group of men they know rather than strangers they meet. I know that’s not how everyone does it but the exceptions are usually because they don’t have male friends I think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Do men do better than women in isolation?Or that it isn’t true here in the U.K.? Being less attractive means less benefits. I’m not really sure where I stand on the rating scale but I’m not attractive (don’t think I’m hugely ugly) and get pushed out of social situations all the time. Having anxiety and not being a strong communicator is even worse. I see girls I would call alright some skinny just not great bone structure or fashion sense getting slagged off by pretty girls for something she said that had she been pretty other girls wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Do men do better than women in isolation?Ugly women don’t get social attention though. We get pushed out of most social situations, ignored and made to feel unwanted and uncomfortable. Basically ugly women who socialise are always an unwanted third wheel. You only get social advantages if you are attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadYou are kidding right? Do you have any idea how not living up to beauty standards can affect women. It effects your social life, how people treat you, it is literally the difference between being targeted by bullies or not. Maybe it doesn’t effect being able to attract men in general (it does if you want a man with a sense of morality and not to be used as a sex toy) but it’s no secret that a woman’s quality of life improves significantly with her appearance. Men simp for beautiful women and use… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 06:18 PM |
| 2 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadI don’t get your point. No looking good isn’t about men that’s right. Maybe for men you only care about your looks because you want women but that’s not true for us generally. That doesn’t mean that we don’t have valid insecurities particularly with the ever growing pressure to look like a magazine girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 06:06 PM |
| 8 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadIf I see some one I genuinely want I go after them. The problem with your bar theory is I’m not going to be able to know enough about any man I just met at a bar to know if I want to pursue him. I chase men, but only after we have been friends long enough for me to determine if he is worth chasing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 06:01 PM |
| 9 | Incel, Feminism and FDS megathreadSo no man gives a fuck about my weight, hairstyle, ass or tits? Wow I have been lied too 🤔 Women learn to be beautiful, today’s standard is not natural so while you as men are used to seeing that high standard that’s not what we look like when we get out of bed. We dress, wear make up, do our hair all in ways that best hides our flaws and compliments our good features. By design of this system we have to pin point even our most basic flaws and correct them or rather disguise them. Just because y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Do men do better than women in isolation?I still see no reason to attach that isolation to women. You don’t need attention to have your own life. Not saying your wrong btw just that it’s the whole male co dependency. If You need female validation just to socialise and have a life then you really need to reconsider your priorities 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 12:57 PM |
| 1 | Do men do better than women in isolation?Female spaces are salons/hair dressers, beauty stores etc places designed with women in mind. The fact you draw attention to girls being competitive and treat it as if it’s something else where as don’t draw attention to men that do the same and would probably just dismiss it as male competition. None of your examples suggest in the slightest that women are doing anything more than competing with their respective competition. It’s no secret women are a competitive work force (well it kind of is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 12:52 PM |
| 3 | What would end a relationship?I would say more that I treated him the way I wanted to be treated and he did reciprocate to a degree. I don’t think not doting on him would have made him stay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 12:40 PM |
| 5 | What would end a relationship?Are you saying I should have treat him badly? I wasn’t annoying worship I was surprise him with his favourite food worship. Stroke his hair, give let’s of physical affection (if you know what I mean) buy him gifts etc. I always went halves on dates and never asked him for anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 03:34 AM |
| 2 | What would end a relationship?I left my first boyfriend because I treated me like shit. Negging was as close as I ever got to a compliment. I had been a femcel so I put up with it think he was my only option, as soon as some one else showed interest I was out of there. The second was LTR and again abusive but I trapped myself with him, he wasn’t violent and his abuse was purely again negging behaviours/breaking down my confidence and self esteem. I stuck again because I had no where else to go and was terrified of returning … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Do men do better than women in isolation?I don’t really get your straw man thing. These is kind of what I mean with it having nothing to do with what I said originally. Your arguing women cause men to have to live an isolated life right. I’m arguing that isolation is a choice, nothing you have said disproves that. Having a girlfriend or not doesn’t stop you from having your own life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/11/20 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Do men do better than women in isolation?Are you literally saying the outside world is nothing but women and sex to you? Take a freaking holiday, learn a language, get a hobby, learn to exist without the approval of women. No girl wants to date a guy who doesn’t exist and enjoy life for himself anyway. And seriously knock off the women have it easier in society shit. It’s easier to say that if you have never had to live as a woman but try being even just a tiny bit outside of society’s ideals for women and see what happens. I’m over we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/20 10:52 PM |
| 3 | Do men do better than women in isolation?I find it somewhat amusing than men look at women as inferior yet the idea of a life without them equates to a shitty existence. Maybe that’s the real difference between gender. Not having a boyfriend sucks but it’s really not the be all and end all and if I can holiday in Japan once a year and float around on my house boat the rest of the time I will be happy and fulfilled regardless of men. I’m actually starting to feel sorry for all of you, you push the idea that women are co dependant but th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/20 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Do men do better than women in isolation?Which has nothing to do with what I said about isolation 🤦♀️ as long as you aren’t a piece of shit you can still have friends and a social life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/20 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Do men do better than women in isolation?My response was to sir manalot and you jumped on the thread so assuming you agree with his point? Literally have said nothing man hating this entire time 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/20 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Do men do better than women in isolation?Okay except I don’t hate men and also I don’t live in America so I can’t answer that. I do however know a lot of women cashing in some serious money on Etsy over here doing sewing related crafts. 🤷🏼♀️ I’m literally not even hating, you made a generalisation blaming women for your own isolation and I pointed out it was flawed. Quit getting so butt hurt over the internet. If what I said resonated with you enough to get you this wound up then maybe you need to force yourself to ask yourself some h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/20 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Do men do better than women in isolation?Lol if you say so 🙈 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/20 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Do men do better than women in isolation?Still not getting it pal - I think what your really saying is you don’t have a gf and therefor have zero motivation to do anything productive without one. That’s on you not us😓 You don’t need a girlfriend to get a good job, to go for pints with your mates or have female/male friends and a social life. It’s extremely over dramatic to claim you are isolated because you can’t get a gf. Your lonely and your choosing to isolate as a result. It’s your choice. No one has forced you to become a hermit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/20 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Do men do better than women in isolation?You are way off base from the original post but ok. How many people sitting at home playing video games are streamers? Earning an income, treating gaming as a career rather than entertainment. I know a game streamer, she has a full time job then comes home and treats her streaming the same way, she still squeezes in a social life and leaves her home regularly. Also men who hunt typically have a social group. In fact streamers typically have a social group. This is not the group I was addressing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/20 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Do men do better than women in isolation?These aren’t ‘female spaces’ these are literally competitive work spaces. Funny how you don’t bat an eyelid at a guy trying to get a head in his career but when women do it suddenly they are catty and bitchy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/20 08:21 PM |
| -2 | Do men do better than women in isolation?Your kidding right? People make a living or at least side money from crochet and knitting. It’s an activity that results in actual productivity and potential profit 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/20 08:16 PM |
| -1 | Do men do better than women in isolation?That’s not really relevant. If she is doing something that’s actually productive with that time then she isn’t lacking motivation or ambition or whining in the internet. She is obviously living the life she wants and likely still has a social life as far as she wants one. If she lives like that then sits on reddit complaining about how men have isolated her then sure it applies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/20 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Do men do better than women in isolation?Name 1? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/20 01:00 PM |
| 2 | Do men do better than women in isolation?I’m not even sure what that means. The world is full of plenty female spaces where women are thriving? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/20 12:34 PM |
| 0 | Do men do better than women in isolation?No one is forcing men into isolation. It’s your choice to stay home and play games instead of getting an outdoor hobby. You don’t need a girlfriend to leave your own house, you just have zero motivation and ambition to do so without one and that’s probably why you are undesirable 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/20 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Women have nothing to complain about in dating.Lol some one is butt hurt xD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/20 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Women have nothing to complain about in dating.The majority of criminals being raised by single parents has everything to do with stability in the home and nothing to do with gender. Environment is the biggest factor in criminal behaviour. Couples can typically earn a larger income, afford to live in a better area and send their children to better schools in areas with more positive role models. It’s literal sociology. We can miscarry by choice it’s called abortion, we also have contraceptives. Society wouldn’t perform well if women were red… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/20 03:32 AM |
| 1 | Has an unsolicited dick pick ever gotten you laid?If I wasn’t scared would I feel bad.... I still think it depends on the guy and also his intentions and approach. Some chads come on strong and make it immediately clear they are out for a shag, they talk to you in a very intimidating/looking down in you sort of way so I don’t feel guilty just intimidated. I might feel like I misjudged him if he takes the rejection well but even if they aren’t aggressive about it they usually turn passive aggressive so I just king of feel like... well fuck you t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/20 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Has an unsolicited dick pick ever gotten you laid?Guilt is the main feeling I seem to have. Mainly because I don’t want to embarrass or hurt the man for just trying his luck. But I will admit I’m an empath by nature so I seem to care more than some people do about hurting others unnecessarily. However I have friends who have said they feel bad and others that have expressed fear. I think it depends on who hits on them, the location and also their own passes experience. I feel guilty if I say no to a clearly anxious not so attractive guy, I’m te… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/20 01:36 AM |
| 2 | What do you recommend a guy do if he has an extremely (genetically) ugly face?I mean I know you said things that can’t be improved but there are many treatments for cystic acne and general skincare can always improve it. Depending on how bad all these features are I’m not sure I would date him because it might be hard to be aroused by him. Surgery might be the best bet to fix his features. That said personality and familiarity can go a long way. Ugly is ugly but you can always turn the lights off and if his other qualities far out weigh his face I could probably catch fee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/20 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Women have nothing to complain about in dating.So the overall point here is men are so simple that they just want to fuck And women therefor are wrong to complain because they don’t just want to fuck when if they did just fuck anyway men would be happy (ignoring the fact women wouldn’t) How are men supposed to be superior again? 🤔🤔🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/20 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Women have nothing to complain about in dating.That’s hilarious. Even if it’s true you cannot reproduce without us so without us there are no men or women to fuck 🤦♀️ most men suck at, can’t or won’t raise children which is actually a long demanding job which is why so many women are opting out. If there is zero value in that then what’s the point in having a woman. In fact if we are zero value why are all you men so obsessed with us 😂 go fuck each other and leave us alone. Despite what you tell yourselves we don’t need men beyond reproduct… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/20 09:44 PM |
| 2 | Women who want to "get to know each other deeply" actually just want constant attentionGetting to know your partner is like getting to know your friends. The ones you share the most with are the ones you are closest too. This is because you know the good the bad the ugly and CHoose them anyway and that they have done the same. Your basically saying you want a girl who will commit everything to you while expecting minimum interaction from you aka zero effort. You can’t have your cake and eat it to. If you want her to truly love you then you need to let her know who you really are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/20 08:58 PM |
| 49 | Women, do you know exactly what makes you sexually attracted to men?Honestly as much as I like giving objective answers I can’t. I have no idea what draws me to certain men and not others. I have types but it appears it couldn’t be further from set in stone which is to say I have found men the exact opposite of what I think I like to be very attractive. I’m just not sure that female sexuality is as easy to outline as male. I can’t say oh he needs abbs and a nice ass and to be so many feet tall because honestly even when I’m just looking for sex aesthetics seem t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/20 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Have you guys noticed a decrease in women attention towards you just the last couple of years?Plenty of single men their however I think it’s harder for younger/newer men to find matches/get responses. Particularly if you are aiming for a full vanilla hook up. Even I tend to stick within the older range since women go their either to fulfill a fetish or find an experienced bed partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/20 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Have you guys noticed a decrease in women attention towards you just the last couple of years?It’s not just for swinging although some couples like to find a third rather than another couple. It’s a shame you can’t find it as it’s a more developed and honest space. Everyone is welcome as long as you play respectfully. A lot of people have actually found their LTRs there because no one pretends about what they are looking for and interested in | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/20 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Have you guys noticed a decrease in women attention towards you just the last couple of years?Take a google :P it’s one of a few sites older women use to get more experienced and giving partners in bed. That said I’ve also come across a few virgins(male) wanting their first experience too. Generally for people with and without fetishes to explore on a straight forward adult level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/20 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Have you guys noticed a decrease in women attention towards you just the last couple of years?Not here in the U.K. or at least not hook up apps like tinder and badoo and all that. Most Older women have the experience to know if they want to hook up with a stranger to go somewhere like fab swingers, the rest go to LTR sites. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/20 09:11 PM |
| 10 | Men if you were women, what kind of women do you want to be?It’s called a hypothetical scenario 🤦♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/20 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Have you guys noticed a decrease in women attention towards you just the last couple of years?I think it’s more of an age thing. It’s a lies that young girls want older guys or rather a misunderstanding. They want a guy 2-3 years older not a guy in his 30s. Tinder is a young woman’s game. At 28 I and most my friends stopped playing a while back. Those 18-24 year olds aren’t interested in a man in his 30s. Sorry not saying it’s fair that’s just how it is. It’s also becoming more acceptable for women to like young men and more feminine men hence the growing love of kpop idols. If you are a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/20 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Women, how different you think your life would be if you were born as a man?I probably wouldn’t have been the target of so many predators growing up so that’s a plus. I wouldn’t have periods once a month or have been hospitalised and nearly faced death if not for my womb. Would never have been so high risk for cancer. I can think of a lot of scenarios even in day to day where I might not have felt so uncomfortable or been as targeted as I was. My mother always babied and made excuses for her sons while we the girls were made to do chores and cook from an early age. That… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/20 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Kurt Vonnegut on marriage and divorceStraight a way I see the flawed logic. People weren’t happier they just weren’t able to escape mostly because of the pressure of their families. Just look at the Muslim community. These so called devoted Muslims with their devoted wives they will never divorce run around my area drinking taking drugs sleeping with prostitutes and generally treating their wives more like their mothers. It’s not the life they want it’s the life they have to have. Same for the women. I believe that while some peopl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 09:29 PM |
| 1 | men who have looksmaxxed do you feel that the effort was worth the results ?I feel like the chances are if you were after just one specific girl if she didn’t like you before all that work she probably won’t like you after either. But I think it’s right that men who look max gain a lot of confidence in the same way women do because they whole world in general is nicer to you. I experienced this as a woman when going from obese to slim and was almost stunned by how nice a cashier would be to be, even an obviously straight female cashier. This is a huge confidence boost i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/20 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think young men gravitate to the redpill?Good grooming an hygiene is literally the difference between getting laid or not for a lot of people. 🤷🏼♀️ also fashion comes under grooming for men 🤦♀️ Also do keep in mind that the gym doesn’t fix every man either. Particularly since chubby chasing/skinny chasing is more common than going for a guy with a six pack. Woman want a career sure, but they don’t want to be the bread winner anymore than the husband is. They want things split equally and for their partner to contribute equally to mai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think young men gravitate to the redpill?Thanks for being mature about it. I too kind of feel like our sexual leverage is unfair on men. I feel like life would be better for all of us if we as women either desired sex more or if men desires it less. I do think the fact that women are somewhat complacent to not enjoying sex and are then conditioned to use it more like a means to get what you want rather than an equal exchange is creating a lot of chaos. I am guilty of feeling like a guy owes me something after sex because he got off but… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 03:31 AM |
| 7 | Why do you think young men gravitate to the redpill?Weight does not = low value that’s a shallow concept that ignores the fact that while you may dislike the extra pounds a lot of men genuinely don’t. In fact there are places around the world that prefer women big as a standard. Also the current standard (which differs greatly from when U.K. size 14-16 was the normal for women) ignores many female biological factors and also the science that actually tells us people who are overweight are actually more likely to put live those with normal bmi I a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 02:47 AM |
| 9 | Why do you think young men gravitate to the redpill?You realise that doesn’t work right? I mean women constantly work on their appearance including spending huge amounts of money on hair make up and clothes to max out their attraction. This is because we know men like attractive women and the more attractive the man is the more attractive a woman he wants so to max our chances we max our looks. Also I don’t think men are evil for pursuing people they think are attractive. It’s a very small group of butt hurt women that blame men for wanting to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/20 12:35 AM |
| 3 | Would you choose to help another Woman over your own Son?If my son raped or abused a woman I would not take his side. Basically it boils down to who was at fault. I take the side that needs taking. I would defend him to death if a woman wronged him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/20 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Are men's hatred for women and women's hatred for men equally justified/valid?Women don’t hate or fear other men by being cautious around them. You would be cautious around a lion unless you knew it was caged does that mean you hate or fear lions in general? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/20 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Are men's hatred for women and women's hatred for men equally justified/valid?Okay you’re officially boring and this weird mansplaining thing your doing, I literally didn’t believe in it until now. You apparently have low reading comprehension either that or you just chose to take what you want from a conversation rather than listen to what is being said. Self defence classes don’t work for the majority of us, chances are the guys stronger than you anyway and most people freeze up from fear when it happens. That girl was 13, her attacker was a 20 something year old man, b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/20 01:22 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men can be better parents than women.What women are those? Do you mean because we make man flu jokes while babying you through your cold and dealing with our own? Women are not known for abandoning men when they are sick, maybe you are projecting some kind of personal experience but it really isn’t all that common. Most women I know actually baby their husbands/boyfriends to the point it’s sickening and a bit creepy. My fella had a cold so I went to shop to buy him medicine and do the whole poor baby spiel. Are you telling me you w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/20 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Are men's hatred for women and women's hatred for men equally justified/valid?Oh I see So we should all wait until a man actually begins the assault to start taking measures to protect ourselves? Does that mean you will stop blaming us for not being cautious enough? It’s not as if women being suspicious at night hinders anyone but actual rapists and muggers. A little girl was raped in London today, on her way to school a man grabbed her dragged her off and thankfully a woman was able to be suspicious and intervene but the man still orally raped the girl before her help ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/20 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Dating / HeightCan I just say not everyone cares. Literally unless you have some actual hight impairment like dwarfism dilligaf 🤷🏼♀️ The whole women obsess about hight thing never made huge sense to me in that most the girls I know don’t care and the few that do are just stuck up pretty bitches who want a man in the same way they want a handbag.same with men. Your not going to get any shorter so do what makes you happy. Why miss out on something as simple but pleasing as heels because your scared of what men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/20 02:19 AM |
| 15 | Women who choose to remain single and childless, rather than settle, is a net positive for society.Your kidding right. We are the most disgusting species and you want to keep that going? For who’s benefit exactly? We are already destroying not just our habitat but every other living things. We are closer to a parasite in nature than any other organism. Let us die out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/20 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Are men's hatred for women and women's hatred for men equally justified/valid?Lol I’m literally done with this 😂 rape can happen any time any where, we have no idea how many times hyper vigilance has saved women what I do know is all 3 times I was assaulted I wasn’t being suspicious of men due to alcoholism and generally being in an area I thought was safe. You are literally saying it’s a figment of your imagination until it isn’t in which case you sound like the sort of guy who would happily blame us and ask well what were you wearing/why did you talk to him or get close… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/20 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Are men's hatred for women and women's hatred for men equally justified/valid?Oh I see. So because it’s not all men we should just live with being sexually assaulted. I already told you the solution is to have that alley regularly patrolled by police to prevent lurkers 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/20 12:42 PM |
| 3 | Are men's hatred for women and women's hatred for men equally justified/valid?https://thetab.com/uk/leeds/2020/10/24/petition-launched-after-ex-student-assaulted-near-headingley-stadium-52689 By the way this is the article about the alleyway | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/20 04:20 AM |
| 3 | Are men's hatred for women and women's hatred for men equally justified/valid?Why is it relevant why I’m in the alley. Let’s say it’s the infamous alley next to headingley stadium in Leeds U.K. . The one that is being paroled nightly because of the sheer number of sexual assaults. This is an alley I had to walk through daily for transport reasons, in winter it gets darker earlier making it almost impossible to avoid the threat of the alley. The threat was real, there have been countless assaults there. Am I imagining that? Am I imagining my friend who was nearly raped and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/20 04:13 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men can be better parents than women.What exactly does that have to do with children? A woman has to nurture her children not her husband. I’ve been sick and not had so much as sympathy from my partner. I had a molar pregnancy and despite being together for two years he didn’t once come to see me in the hospital despite the surgery going wrong and almost costing me my life. Can I say for certainty that means he will be a bad father? Sorry but it’s really not a woman’s job to mother you unless you are her son. If you were really tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/20 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Has an unsolicited dick pick ever gotten you laid?I have responded ‘positively’ in the passed due to a fucked up fear I have of upsetting or humiliating men (I have no idea why I have this or where it comes from I just chalk it up to being a decent person) for some reason out right blocking unwanted contacts makes me feel like I am being rude so I usually try to ‘phase’ them out like I’ll throw in a complement and tell them I’m busy and have to go for now and then not look at their messages for days then give another lame excuse (because god fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/20 01:45 AM |
| 3 | Are men's hatred for women and women's hatred for men equally justified/valid?I’m not saying the fear is constant but their are times it’s justified. You have to remember that fear is part of our survival instincts. Men don’t typically fear women but if she is holding you at gun point it would be stupid not to. It just so happens that there are more situations in which men present a potential danger to women than their are women being a potential danger to men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/20 01:32 AM |
| 7 | Are men's hatred for women and women's hatred for men equally justified/valid?Why is that ridicules though? Literally this entire page is dedicated (as are man others) to men expressing hate towards women because they can’t get laid. There is a whole movement dedicated to this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/20 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Are men's hatred for women and women's hatred for men equally justified/valid?Fearing men as a group is ridiculous? Boy either you skipped history class and smoked too much weed or some one has been telling lies | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/20 01:09 AM |
| 5 | Are men's hatred for women and women's hatred for men equally justified/valid?Men live life on cheat mode and still expect women to feel sorry for then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/20 01:08 AM |
| 4 | Are men's hatred for women and women's hatred for men equally justified/valid?Youn have clearly never felt afraid to walk down a dark alley. We aren’t just told these horror stories growing up, they are in the news, on posters and billboards and experiences our friends have had. If you grew up with the whole world telling you cats are dangerous at night and can potentially seriously hurt or even kill you. would you be so willing to drop your guard or not panic when a cat crosses the street towards you at night. Even if you feel safe around them during the day? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/20 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 October 2020)Enjoy your freedom :) I have found emotionally detaching myself from men to be liberating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 October 2020)I don’t really know where to ask this question so I will stick it here. As a female I am asking both genders why is there so much negativity around porn consumption. I might be out of the loop but can some one give me some actual reasoning why porn consumption is bad, and is this idea directed only at men or do people feel women should not consume porn as well? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 October 2020)I’m pretty sure crazy cat ladies don’t have the best reputation. Men who consume lots of porn are porn sick. Any woman who had cats instead of a boyfriend is crazy 🤷🏼♀️ it’s not fair on either side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (25 October 2020)Sorry but for the majority of women casual sex is always an option regardless of age. She will lose interest in sex before she runs out of options. The sheer number of young men in places like fab swingers looking for a cougar, her options are only as limited as the limits she places on herself :( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Should men be lowering or upping their standards?I’m late to this one but I wanted to chime in It depends on what those expectations are I feel like men should raise their expectations in how they should be treated. No one should be abused or treated like a doormat But I do think some men should lower their expectations of beauty particularly when beauty as we know it today really isn’t real. A great deal of vanity goes into that look and frankly it’s wasted time, if we added up all the hours we waste just maintaining our ‘average’ appearance … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/20 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Do you care that a man genuinely wants to get to know you as a person if you aren’t attracted to him ?This one is interesting. I think I can agree that if he is absolutely not my type I would have to at least be forthcoming and warn him that nothing may come of his effort. That said I don’t find looks to be massively important, like their nice to have in a man but in terms of LTR I think his morals and behaviour are the most important aspect of him. He could be the richest sexiest man on earth but if he has a poor approach to people and life in general that’s an instant no from me. A guy wanting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/20 03:41 AM |
| 2 | Why don’t women like video games or board games generally?Sorry but as a huge RPG fan particularly jrpg with many female friends I can say for certain a huge number of us love rpg/story driven games probably more than any other games. It’s no secret that women love stories, we read the most fiction of the genders by quite a fair bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/20 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t women like video games or board games generally?I think it’s pretty straight forward and you kind of answered it yourself There is a stigma attached to gaming that it’s only for children and loser men who sit in their mums basement. While this idea is slowly changing and the stigma isn’t as bad when you look at my generation and older gens so 30+ you are going to find that mentality is quite strong. Think of it the same way you do racism, most of us are educated out of that mindset, some or the older generation accept the new information and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/20 03:21 AM |
| 3 | The potential to cheatI don’t really want to go into to much detail but let’s just say 1. We have the sort of friendship where we tell each other secrets 2. I met him because I’m one of the many girls he likes to flirt with 3. I personally know at least 3 other girls he flirts with 4. I know that at least one girl has ‘given him an opening’ and I will say she was a looker and him not so much. He legit gets a thrill from flirting but never follows it through. We are comfortable enough together as a result of all the f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/20 01:26 AM |
| 2 | The potential to cheatSorry for some reason this posted to the wrong comment 😆 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/20 12:30 AM |
| 4 | The potential to cheatI have to disagree I’m friends with a guy who is a serial flirted and even goes as far as to flirt with women online behind his partner back however what truly baffles me is he never acts on it even when he knows he can get away with it. I don’t know if it’s just because he likes to feel desired by women or something else, it’s always been a bit of a puzzle to me but I can say for sure he really hasn’t cheated 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/20 12:06 AM |
| 0 | The potential to cheatSo to add as honestly as I can I have actually cheated twice in my life. The first time is my biggest regret, my first boyfriend and love. The thing is the motivation behind it is a confused ball of teenage hormones. My first real crush initially rejected me, my desires for him were powerful and I was a little over obsessed. I finally got over him by throwing myself into my first relationship, I honestly had no complaints about him as a partner, he was everything I could have asked for. And the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/20 12:03 AM |
| 1 | RPers: do women suck no matter what they do?Crap 😱 I didn’t realise it was that long, sorry and kudos to you if you can be bothered to read it 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 10:26 PM |
| 1 | RPers: do women suck no matter what they do?Firstly I do appreciate what you have said but the problem is you cannot generalise. I’m sure a lot of women do like a man who dominates, and many women do want to be mothers. But more than you realise many women want the opposite but are pressured into thinking these desires are ‘wrong’. I think an example of this is age. We have been made to believe that it is natural selection that women choose older men but the more I observe my fellow females the more I realise that it’s societal fear that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 10:26 PM |
| 6 | Has your sex and romantic life improved as you've gotten older?Tbf I would probably lose most of my sex drive by the time I can’t attract men. Like I said the quality of men has no bearing when I have no LTR to consider, I sleep with young men because I can, same way a man would in my position. My choices thinning out doesn’t really affect me, I don’t need to care what kind of person they are, they are nothing but a scratch for an itch. I cannot however say my behaviour is reflective of other women’s behaviours or attitudes. I’m such what of an outcast for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 08:22 PM |
| 1 | RPers: do women suck no matter what they do?I find it bizarre that you interpret feminists as a desire to be superior or assume women don’t value men on a larger scale. Actually as I write this I CAN see why. Woman get screwed over by men all the time no matter what they do, even if they play the perfect wife, have low numbers or where virgin. rather than only blaming the man responsible they start to blame all men. This is because we are less resilient than we realise. It’s also a response we have to misogyny, women encounter it many tim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 06:43 PM |
| 6 | Has your sex and romantic life improved as you've gotten older?28 F wgtow. I feel like I get a lot more attention than I used too but I’m not sure if that’s just a reaction to me being off the market. My sex life is better mostly because I now only ever have sex on my terms my way with a disregard for his pleasure (not saying it’s right but hey they do it) and since I’m no longer looking for a long term guy my options have opened up significantly, unashamed to admit I’ve been jumping on the young fuckboys to scratch my itch so I don’t have to settle in the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 06:26 PM |
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