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Many men don't realise that they are in a abusive relationship because there is no physical violence against them, that was me until I saw a poster saying that men can be victims of domestic abuse and then I found a domestic abuse agency for men (abused men in Scotland) and during the first phone call I was told that I was in a abusive marriage and that I needed to make a plan to leave and it took me about two years to leave because I stayed for my kids. I now volunteer at a mens group for victi…
/r/MensRights11/07/23 11:11 PM
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It's a learnt behaviour like perpetrators of domestic abuse there are no excuses for their behaviour (many people have bad experiences in life but don't go on to be abusive)they just feel that they have a right to behave like that and that its for the victims benefit and the fact that they get pleasure from the control over their victim is a bonus or their are just plain narcissists with a need to control others.
/r/MensRights01/07/23 07:24 AM
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Check out the story of Erin Pizzey a woman who opened the first woman's refuge (womans aid)in London in the 70s and how she became a mens rights activist and a advocate against domestic violence, and her treatment by the feminist movement .
/r/MensRights20/06/23 02:26 PM
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All the feminists and Karen's behind railings every 2nd and 4th Saturday would make it safer for men and boys to go about their normal activities without fear of being falsely accused of just being their.
/r/MensRights26/05/23 05:23 AM
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They are funded by women's aid .
/r/MensRights13/04/23 12:58 AM
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ManKind initiative is a domestic abuse agency for men. If in Scotland Amis is the one to call. Mensadvice line is part of womans aid.
/r/MensRights13/04/23 12:55 AM
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If you are in the UK, please check out Andy's men club .
/r/MensRights13/03/23 11:46 AM
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There is a lack of awareness among men of what constitutes domestic abuse (that was me until about 4 years ago when I escaped a abusive marriage) and this is always portrayed in awareness campaigns and films and tv dramas that males are always the perpetrators of domestic abuse and very rarely females. Who is more likely to make false accusations ? Male or a female? So if there was more awareness of what constitutes domestic abuse and that anyone can be a victim whether Male or female ,and until…
/r/MensRights18/02/23 07:53 AM
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Contact a domestic abuse agency for men, also in order to protect yourself make a statement to your local police station about her behaviour even if they don't do anything it's recorded incase she goes to the police you have already made a statement.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 04:45 PM
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A professor Elizabeth Bates of the university of Lancaster UK has written several papers on domestic abuse against men, check out her research papers on the subject.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 10:05 PM
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Many mothers suffer with postnatal depression after giving birth, but they are not abusive to their partners. There are NO excuses for domestic abuse.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 08:45 AM
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If Sweden has a domestic abuse agency for men, please contact them for help and advice.
/r/MensRights01/01/23 05:16 PM
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Very true, we men need to talk more openly about domestic abuse just as we have been encouraged to talk about our mental health and the media etc needs to get on board like it has done with mens mental health and that it's no longer a weakness but a strength to discuss and admit that men are equally victims of domestic abuse as are women .
/r/MensRights21/12/22 06:52 PM
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I saw a poster like that in a gents toilet a few years ago, I felt that something wasn't right in my marriage but because there was no physical violence I didn't think it was domestic abuse ,but seeing such a poster I contacted a domestic abuse agency for men (AMIS abused men in Scotland) and after the first call they advised me to make a plan and to leave as my wife was being abusive to me .
/r/MensRights21/12/22 04:24 PM
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Hi consider contacting a domestic abuse agency for men for some advice. As a male survivor of domestic abuse I help out at a mens group for male survivors and their is a trained adviser there that is able to offer suggestions and advice regarding such issues I have been personally given such advice and found it helpful and it worked.
/r/MensRights17/12/22 09:49 PM
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If any men are struggling with their mental health in the UK. Check out Andysmanclub.co.uk .
/r/MensRights18/11/22 06:39 PM
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I was helped and supported by a local domestic abuse agency who were part of womens aid but got kicked out because they supported and helped Male victims of domestic abuse and we are settings up a stall in a local shopping centre on Saturday to promote international mens day and highlight that men are victims of domestic abuse and their are people who will believe and help them.
/r/MensRights17/11/22 07:04 PM
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In the UK their are Mankind.org.uk Mens advice line AMIS,abused men in Scotland. Many agency's now are inclusive of all genders you just have to find them.
/r/MensRights07/08/22 09:59 AM
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Please contact a domestic abuse agency for men for help and advice,they can help you make a plan to escape. Part of the escape plan is to gather your important documents eg birth certificate, passport and bank statements etc ,and also when you do leave please contact the local police to inform them about your situation and make a statement even if they don't do anything it's for your protection incase she makes a false accusation against you. Take care and stay safe
/r/MensRights07/08/22 09:39 AM
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Ok ,your choice lawyers and therapist don't understand the dynamics of domestic abuse .wouldn't do any harm to speak to a domestic abuse adviser, many of them are survivors of domestic abuse themselves.
/r/MensRights19/07/22 03:49 PM
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Please contact a domestic abuse agency for men for help and advice asap and make a plan to leave when it's safe to do so. There are NO excuses for domestic abuse. Sadly today many people have mental health issues but are not abusive to their partners. Perpetrators of domestic abuse do not change.
/r/MensRights19/07/22 03:40 PM
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A professor Elizabeth Bates of the university of Lancaster and her colleagues have written many articles about domestic abuse against men and I'm sure if you were to look at her reports you will see that the numbers are 50/50 as regards who are the perpetrators of domestic abuse.
/r/MensRights24/06/22 09:02 AM
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Thanks for sharing, its great that academics especially female academics are researching this issue and highlighting that men are victims of all types of domestic abuse and violence to the same numbers as female victims. Hopefully this will encourage Male victims to reach out for help as their is now helplines for men to call and they will be helped and importantly believed.
/r/MensRights05/06/22 06:17 PM
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Jonny Depp admitted in court and took responsibility that he had issues with drink and drugs and occasionally overreacted when the pressures of domestic abuse got to him. (Victim) Amber heard in court tried to excuse her behaviour and blame Jonny for her outbursts and minimize her actions and took no responsibility for her actions as not that bad and again blamed Jonny, and clearly lied regarding the payment to a domestic abuse charity. (Perpetrator) And now the media is just focusing on Depp's …
/r/MensRights02/06/22 08:42 AM
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A professor Elizabeth Bates of the university of Lancaster has also written many papers on domestic abuse against men in the UK. AMIS abused men in Scotland.
/r/MensRights31/03/22 02:33 PM
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AMIS, abused men in Scotland
/r/MensRights22/03/22 06:46 PM
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AMIS, abused men in Scotland.
/r/MensRights19/03/22 03:41 PM
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Check out a professor Elizabeth Bates of the university of Lancaster in the UK, she has written a lot of papers on domestic abuse against men and is a supporter of domestic abuse charities for Male victims.
/r/MensRights15/03/22 04:43 PM
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This lady should be awarded a OBE/MBE for her work in highlighting domestic abuse against men. I know feminists won't allow it.
/r/MensRights20/02/22 10:36 AM
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AMIS for any men in Scotland that are victims of domestic abuse.
/r/MensRights15/02/22 02:34 PM
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I stayed in my abusive marriage for years because of my kids (29 +24), while they were at school and also when they went to university to help and support them and when one of them said they were going to do a PhD ,I knew at 56 years old I couldn't stay with their abusive mother for another 4years so I left my abusive wife and she has manipulate them so they won't speak to me I have reached out several times and they have blocked any communication with me in 3 years ,even at my mother's funeral …
/r/MensRights06/02/22 09:05 PM
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Hi give mankind or mens advice line or if in Scotland Abused men in Scotland a call ,just type the names in Google. Have used them myself very understanding and helpful. Take care
/r/MensRights06/01/22 12:55 AM
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Hi check out a Dr Elizabeth bates of the university of Lancaster she has written several papers on domestic abuse against men, she also supports AMIS and other mens domestic abuse agency's.
/r/MensRights23/12/21 10:22 PM
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Thanks for the correction, dyslexic
/r/MensRights23/12/21 09:14 PM
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Excellent post, womans aid needs to stop making domestic abuse as solely against women and girls as though it's a competition, its would be more productive for all involved if womans aid concentrated on the whole problem that anyone can and are victims of domestic abuse, which I believe would benefit all. As a Male survivor of domestic abuse initially was helped by a Male agency AMIS(ran by helpful and understanding women)then after I left the abusive marriage I was directed to a local domestic …
/r/MensRights23/12/21 08:29 PM
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Hi I'm not sure, I only read about Male victims of domestic abuse as I was a victim of domestic abuse.
/r/MensRights06/12/21 01:30 PM
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Yes ,thanks, she is supporting abused men in Scotland and mankind .
/r/MensRights06/12/21 01:13 PM
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A professor Elizabeth Bates at the university of Cumbria has produced papers on Male victims of domestic abuse, and the numbers were about 50/50 regarding Male and female victims. (Don't know how to post them on reddit)
/r/MensRights06/12/21 12:31 PM
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Thanks, and if I remember correctly womans aid tried to defend her and said the poor husband was the abusive one.
/r/MensRights14/11/21 08:22 AM
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I was put in a homeless shelter with men with drug and alcohol problems, and men just released from prison, because their was no where else to house me .
/r/MensRights21/04/21 10:04 AM
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Having been involved in a mens domestic abuse group in the discussions with Male victims of domestic violence by their female abuser, the Male victims all said that they would not hit a woman, How often do Male victims defend themselves and their female abuser then calls the police on them?
/r/MensRights03/01/21 10:52 PM
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