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Muscular I would agree, strong guys yes. Pretty? Boring af to be honest. But gym bros are loved more by guys than girls because of the sport they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 04:41 PM
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Amongst girls sure, but amongst guys not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 02:54 PM
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Girls gain their popularity by being pretty in highschool while boys gain their popularity based on their interests. The thing bout girls is that if their interest is make up etc from a young age, then they will be perceived as pretty more likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/24 07:23 AM
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I'm autistic and to be honest dating was really easy because I'm good at entertaining someone
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/24 10:37 AM
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My gf reading this with her face like 🤨🤨🤨 Ah hilarious, I love people on this subreddit. Just clueless about the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 10:30 AM
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No need to have these niche jobs nobody want to do to make it far in this world. Lawyer, judge, detective, architect, accountant, doctor, .... Lots of successful practices that women can do, especially if they sacrifice the time needed to build and maintain a relationship. Silly question if you ask me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:55 PM
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Unless they are ugly Idk who would have been talking to them but it definitely wouldn't have been me
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 08:26 AM
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Pragmatic solution to prevent headache. Women just tend to be spoilt brats more often. Someone has to keep the peace around or else it would just be a chaotic toxic relationship. One person being mature is all it takes usually. Sometimes it's worth the headache, but most of the time it isn't because it's about petty stuff. You're going to have a lot of headaches and many failed relationships if you can't give in time to time. Same goes for women. One time the guy gives in, other time the gal giv…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:25 AM
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You just get isolated from the rest when you have nothing to show for it but still act like a spoilt brat
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/23 07:22 AM
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Yeah I'm hella nice and I'm an asshole. Since I'm an asshole I never had any problem dating. Problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 04:30 PM
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Not having kids just comes with an easier life. People are getting lazy. They want the easy life. I can get as much joy from having a dog than from having a kid. However I'm aware not everyone is capable of experiencing that. If I get a kid then it's by accident. The kid will be lucky to be alive. That is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 08:35 AM
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I'm attracted to like 10% of women and like 1% of guys. Thank god we're living in an age of massive supply and access. Has made my life very easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:34 PM
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I only ever met people when I was looking for a relationship or such. Whenever I'm in a relationship I instantly let 95% of my social circle die out. It's easy to hop in and out of those things. People are social creatures.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 02:17 PM
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Imagine only one of the two were available, does that mean you need to eat the one? Sure you'll starve without any food, but is it good to only eat ice cream? You'll get diabetes and your teeth will be ruined. Isn't it better to just go and find better food?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 12:13 PM
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Wrong analogy. Brocolli is good for you while ice cream is bad for you. These traits are good for a man's mental health and other traits are bad for his mental health. Saying you can't get what you want is irrelevant here. Men are competitive. They will do effort to get what they want if they can't then they just lost the competition with other men for the women that do have these traits. I haven't had to lower myself for women with negative traits, why would I ever do that? Being in a relations…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 11:42 AM
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Not allowing male friends is just a headache I wouldn't be bothered having. I don't limit anyone because I'm not a Karen, definitely not going to be a Karen bitch boy in a relationship. If they wanna do something then do it. If I don't like it then I just remove them from my life. Simple as that. I don't have to sink so low as to require others to obey me. I don't haggle with prices. Either I like it or I don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:24 PM
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Or she's 24 cm shorter than you and your equipment down there has more girth and length than a banana 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:59 AM
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What do you find interesting
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:58 PM
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When guys say that women are boring then it's because these guys have to carry the conversations themselves and the woman just sits back and enjoys the conversation being created for her while putting in little to no effort because the effort is already being done.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 09:08 AM
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I honestly would have had more trouble dating if I had a job back then. It's easy as fk to date when no job, got all the time and energy in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 06:53 AM
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No idea why, but yeah. Their women are all hot tempered and loud. Stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 05:10 PM
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I am a god so I am myself. Only be yourself if you're a confident individual 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 01:25 PM
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Am just disagreeing with OP. A guy can easily make himself attractive. Also OP says that we find 90% of women attractive. It's more like 10% in my case. But whatever, I'm not quite the neurotypical so take that with a grain of salt.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:54 AM
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I see, like Mike from 90 days fiancé. Everyone has a type. I have never had someone who was interested in me lose their interest because I have muscle. Doesn't happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:50 PM
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Where do these muscles come from you think? You think just because someone is fat, that all his muscle appeared from thin air? I don't even know what you mean with gym body. You have people with low or high or medium metabolism and then you have their frame and then they go to the gym to add their blueprint's muscle on it like it was intended to be. Then you have a lean guy with muscle or a fat guy with muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:10 PM
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Idk bout that, the difference in attitude whenever I took shirt off was quite 0 to 100 every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:09 AM
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I'm attractive as fuck man. I worked out 6 times a week all year until now I have a tendon injury so I'll cut it back to 5 after recovery. Gyms are filled by men, not women. Sure women can workout outside of a gym easier than guys can because they don't need weights. Still, a lot of guys do effort to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 10:44 AM
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I never limited my dating pool to geography. Dated in my own country Belgium. Italy, Costa Rica, Ireland, .. the rest I've forgotten. My wife's indonesian. 10600 km apart. She moving to me instead of the other way around. Going myself to Indonesia would be possible but the Belgian labour market is just better. I can earn more in Belgium alone than we can do together in Indonesia. Have never had such an easy relationship. The Costa Rica one was hot tempered. Latin culture is no joke. The Italian …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:40 AM
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I'm a man, engaged to a woman. Yeah I don't really care about money as long as it are essential purchases. Like I'm fine with paying for tuition for my fiancée's master in laws. Which will be 6540 euros plus 2024's indexation. She won't work during her master's. She hasn't worked in 4 years. It doesn't matter. I got fired last week and will just look for another job. We're smart though. Me and my brother own 50% each of our parental house and the land next to it. Valued at around 1 million euros…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 09:02 AM
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It's legal here in Belgium but: it would ruin my reputation, it's icky because it's a stranger. Am always in a committed relationship. Although when I was in my late teens me and my buddy did walk past the prostitution street in Brussels. The amount of men just standing there, excited as if they were about to buy the latest new entertainment. It was something to observe.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 07:34 AM
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"is crying a turn on" Well 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 07:08 PM
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Pick your environment carefully where you are enjoying yourself and are seeking to be entertaining and entertained by people. Need to feel the flow and go with it. Have fun. When you're having fun then girls fly to you like moths to a lamp. Am diagnosed with autism and I've done this. There's no reason why you shouldn't aim to have fun. You don't have to change your personality. Just go for it. Enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 10:28 PM
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Legit so many women are crazy not gonna lie. Most of my exes are coocoo in the head. Mental boom. When period's nearing my wife goes mad crazy too. Then they call it toxic relationships. Maybe be a man for a change and learn that just because your punches don't hurt you still shouldn't be going at full power. It's exhausting. But anyways, yeah, sure. Toxic and unfulfilling relationships keep happening to them, not by them. And yeah I see the cute irony
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 09:35 PM
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I'm happily married, I just am sadistic as well. I truly do not see a reality where there aren't lonely miserable women due to the fact there are lonely miserable men. Just the women tend to not accept it as easily, and the here's the fun part. When it happens, they still don't accept it and it truly already is too late for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 07:04 PM
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"it's harder for women to find a mate as they get older. Rudder wrote in a blog post for OkCupid in 2010: "a man, as he gets older, searches for relatively younger and younger women. Meanwhile his upper acceptable limit hovers only a token amount above his own age."" Simply every guy younger than you isn't interested in you and guys die earlier than women as well. When the guys prefer to be single than with an older woman, and the young women are competed for, then the "lonely men" that are comp…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:23 PM
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Who says it started 6 months ago?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:16 PM
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Young women get massive amount of attention. Attention isn't endless. If one group gets all the attention then that means another group gets no attention. Going from a lot of attention to no attention will be a harsh shock which likely isn't predicted correctly. Once it's there then it's there to stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:13 PM
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Gradually losing your looks while they are never coming back must be quite agonising 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 05:10 PM
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Men are aggressive advertisements. Women just pick the advertisement they like. What if men stop their behaviour of seeking sex? Women would have to do more effort. Men would simply do less effort. Which isn't automatically so. Pandas are literally too lazy to have sex. Pandas going extinct.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:53 PM
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Human race would go extinct
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:45 PM
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You're having difficulty accepting that I just mentioned a phenomenon that is happening. It's not weird. You do things that aren't logical. You are not only a product of nature but also a product of your environment. There's things that you are doing without knowing why you even do them. Just that it is what is being done. 46% of women, who in the past had the hose in their hands, still want men to pay the first date. Without knowing that for this to happen they actually need that hose, which th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 04:18 PM
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Less than half of the women in the study (46%) think that paying for the date is the guy's responsibility. Men and women also disagree on whether women should foot the bill instead. Just 2% of men want women to pay when they're on a first date. Data shows it well. OP is pissed about a tradition. I explained the tradition that she is pissed about. Even though women now have income, it's still a thing that men pay for first date. The information given to women is far more. But men, who all think t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 03:23 PM
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There was a ladder with a banana on top. Every time a monkey climbed the ladder to get the banana then all the monkeys would be sprayed by a water hose as punishment. After a while whenever a monkey climbed that ladder, the other monkeys would beat the monkey up because afterwards they would get sprayed by a water hose. After a new generation of monkeys was born, the water hose was no longer used as punishment. But whenever a monkey climbed that ladder for a banana, he would be beaten up by the …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/23 06:44 AM
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Am autistic but I consider myself masculine. Mainly because of weightlifting increasing testosterone and such. I love to dominate. I'm quite a reserved guy when I'm not around people that I trust/know. But in familiar circles I'm quite relaxed and even loud. The reserved fella isn't appealing, but the relaxed and loud fella is appealing quite a lot. It is quite weird to me but I can't really control who gets to see which of the two. It very much feels like two different people. It depends who I …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:50 PM
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My wife says it's worse when women cheat because indeed they do it for emotions while men cheat cuz horny. Men can cheat while there's nothing wrong with the relationship beside the bedroom. Women can cheat when there's a problem in the relationship while the bedroom is fine. Is the one worse than the other? I don't know. They both could be compared to having hunger and eating food because of it. Horny, have sex because of it. Emotionally not satisfied, having a second relationship because of it…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:33 AM
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Autists together strong 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:02 AM
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I did another approach. I just kept talking to people I'm interested in and it's obvious when they are interested in me. I never asked them out, which plays out as hard to get I guess. After a while they end up asking me out or make it painfully obvious that they wanna be asked out. You don't need to be a dog chasing a car filled with meat. Patience is often a good thing. Like allowing wine to ferment. It takes patience while keeping the environment perfect for it to ferment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 09:01 AM
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Mystery method?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:58 AM
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My boss actually asked me how the workplace could accommodate for my autistic needs. Very weird thing to hear as a 28 year old man that has gone his whole life trying to accommodate for everyone else by observing and mimicking. I don't know how to accept any help so I just said no need, I wouldn't even know how accommodation would look like. But in reality I guess they are just fine with me only communicating to them for work reasons. He hasn't fired me yet. Not like my first job haha, after one…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:53 AM
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You do have emotions though. Like have you had a pet? You had a relationship with that pet then. For me the greatest gift my pet could give me is not punishing me for having my eyes on him whenever I wanted to observe him. Now black pill would say that the dog only likes me because I feed him. True to an extent. But black pill doesn't say anything why I liked my dog. Sure black pill is seductive to me, it makes it easy to understand others. But it's not the whole truth. Just because we don't see…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:47 AM
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Similar. Except for being masculin. I'm a man. She's a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 08:17 AM
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Just as you have seen flat ass women with rectangle body shape have boyfriends I have seen short guys have girlfriends. They still both have it more difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 06:00 PM
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I've seen many couples where the man is shorter (and angrier haha)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 05:12 PM
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I literally rejected ugly people. Maybe it's because I'm autistic that my experiences are different but I have standards mate. It's true I guess. I saw how most guys chase women like dogs chasing a car filled with meat. Why would I ever do that? It's pathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 05:10 PM
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What's the deal with men and ass/boobs/thighs preferences? Btw I dislike big boobs. Just think they are fat. But I still have preferences. And it makes or breaks it. Preferences are just that. It either clicks or it doesn't. Some girls probably like short guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:26 PM
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Yeah in the last 60 years we only increased our population from 9 to 11m. Thanks to only having one sibling my inheritance is 500k euros and will appreciate to 1 million in 20 years. We'll only have one kid so that the kid can work for luxuries, not for the rat race.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 05:40 AM
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Belgium has a median net wealth of 250k USD per adult. The women are financially independent because of this. We're more left wing than America, by a long shot. For example your taxes are 26% and here it's 42% of GDP. Your ideal of having power is not easily done here. At a workplace there is only one boss and 15 employees. That boss could just as well be female. Not really easy to become powerful so it's good that it's not necessary. I'd even say using power to get women will leave you in a tox…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 05:31 AM
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Divorce rate in Belgium is 40%. I'm Belgian, not Californian. You're nitpicking statistics where it fits your views. In Belgium, 56% of 25-34 year-old women had a tertiary qualification in 2020 compared to 41% of their male peers. What do these stats tell you if it's the true story. My deduction in countries like Indonesia is that divorce is on the rise because people who married through power are losing their power over their spouse. But I'm not marrying for or because of power. I am of the phi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 05:15 AM
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This is wrong. Men who get the woman they want are powerful to an extent. It takes mutual effort afterwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 04:56 AM
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That fella just got something because of things he did. You brand him as powerful. That's fine. But power isn't the means to get something. Other stuff being the means to get something is what makes you powerful. So what good is the power here? The power didn't get you anything. You have it and thus have power. So what do you want to do with this power, if anything at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:07 PM
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I desire and love power. While I don't want to dominate people. Live and let live. But having control always will feel good and secure. Does this have anything to do with sexuality? Aside of sadism being a sexual thing, I don't think so. Desiring power and women are unrelated.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:02 PM
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They are just people like you and me bruv Why would she make a video montage out of our moments together to rewatch it every so often? There's nothing to gain there materially
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 10:27 AM
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I had partners age 21 to 25 without ever having had a job. People like you don't realise that love is also a transaction. It's just a transaction you have difficulty providing. So you force yourself to get enough money so that you can buy it with work transactions. Which is void of emotion. Like buying a car or a house you want to buy a wife. Kinda silly. Why even have a relationship if the transaction isn't love, etc? If the only transaction you desire is social status and sex. Then book escort…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:57 AM
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Me and my wife did a 10600 km long distance relationship for years. It's fine. If you have difficulty with it then that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:24 AM
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Now me and my wife love watching 90 days fiancé. Lovely show. I also love picking out the autistic people out of the crowds. What I have noticed is that women really care for their partner when they are autistic. They always say something within the lines of "I understand you, while everyone else doesn't". Because the autistic fellas clearly have (quite funny) problems just being understood by other people. They completely and utterly reject the autistic person's point of view because "other peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 03:30 PM
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Okay let's tackle this logically. Autism is often a genetic thing right? Born with it. I got it from my dad who also has autism. For genetics to be a thing, you must have had people in your bloodline that had the exact same thing that you have and they procreated. If you are the proof that it works, then why not cheer up?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 02:35 PM
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Calling me socially adept is funny because in the 8 hours I've been at work today all I said was " good morning". Literally not a single other word. The people here think I'm a weirdo and blabla it doesn't matter. It's basically because I only have "earn money" as goal here. If I wanna be social with people. I'd go to a place where people go to relax, are singled out and where I can catch them off guard on 1 on 1. Create new stories. But if I were to be the person I have been at school or work, …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:49 PM
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Never had an issue going to gym but I have a home gym since 6 years ago. Even just buying kettlebells is enough to do full body workouts with. They are quite fun. I excel at observing things and copy pasting it. I'm a chameleon. With 10 different people I have 10 varrying personalities. I noticed that other people don't do this. They are the same person with everyone, something I can't imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:36 PM
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It's a spectrum so experiences can vary. I'm diagnosed autistic by my psychiatrist and I didn't speak until I was 5. I basically didn't speak at school when I was an infant. When I'm within a group that I don't trust then I cannot get myself to speak. But anyways, none of that affects 1 on 1. I just got rid of my barriers and focused on what I excelled at. What is easy for me isn't easy for someone else. For example lifting 160 kg is easy for me, because I practiced lifting weights over and over…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 01:20 PM
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Nah I'd say go find a way. It's always there. It just needs intelligence. You learn. You see what works and what doesn't work. Also requires good attitude. Positive thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:10 PM
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Not how I experienced it. It does help that I got obsessed about working out when I was 17/18 so by the time I got interested in dating I was in a desirable shape. Think Hollywood skinny guy but muscular. I'd probably have had a lot more difficulty if I didn't have that as advertisement tool. Oh wells. I'd suggest everyone to get into physical great shape. It has numerous benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:54 AM
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Never felt negative to me. My wife describes herself as clingy but I like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:17 AM
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There are thousands if not millions of women. Selection is the easy and a rather fun part. When you handle it a method that has worked before, it will likely keep working.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:17 AM
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We're good at spending a lot of time on an interest. This can be another person. So we're good with clingy people. Clingy people tend to want boyfriends. Thanks to this it's easy to grow a relationship quickly. Other people would have issues with that and have stunted relationship growth because they cannot spend 16 hours a day 7 days a week with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 11:12 AM
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Imo dating while having autism is easy. Since we excel in 1 on 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:17 AM
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"Persons raised in divorced families tend to have less positive attitudes towards marriage, and more positive attitudes towards divorce. This negative attitude about marriage leads to decreased commitment to romantic relationships, which in turn is related to lower relationship quality." 😳 When OP is a stereotype Btw, my parents and her parents aren't divorced. We have had ex partners who we never wanted to marry. We marry eachother because our relationship is good. We're also both confident tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 05:50 PM
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We need lube to make it work, but I do love having a large dick. It fits me because I like to be dominant personality wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 05:56 AM
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I only have one wife. I'd have musée Rodin burn down to the ground and I wouldn't care. I care about my wife. Simple Even so. Only reason I cross border to go to France would be to see my french mate or be there on vacation together with my wife. Why not hit 2 birds with one rock.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:37 AM
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Then I hope you want a submissive man
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:51 PM
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That's not give and take. That's take and no giving.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:24 PM
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The ugly ones cheat more because they can't waste any opportunity given to them. So just go for someone you find attractive. Healthiest option. Then he will also need to find you attractive. Selection completed. Then you actually need to be compatible and this takes a while to figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 08:31 AM
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Life expectancy in Belgium is 82 years old. In 1891 this was 62 years old. That's without the death of infants. Just how old people could get. You doomsday people are truly weirdos. Everything's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:52 AM
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Weirdos, life has never been this good.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 12:44 AM
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Because these emotional beings will have their trust broken beyond repair if you ask if they cheated. They aren't autistic like you and me, son. They don't view it logically as a way to provide sound proof. It ain't like that, son. Buckle up
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 08:01 PM
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I'm glad I'm alive. It would be selfish to not give life to someone who will likely also enjoy being alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:53 AM
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Well, if my child wants to not be poor, yeah. But if you want to be childless. Heck if I wanna be childless then I can be in my early 20s for the rest of my life. Using the 500k euros that my parents left me. But that would be selfish wouldn't it 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 07:31 AM
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Never seen a gun beside at the waist of a police officer or military in Brussels
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:46 AM
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I'd want to shame men who find overweight women attractive but sadly I'm too lazy to shame people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:37 AM
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Fat women have always been invisible women to me. I don't think I've ever even talked to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 03:00 AM
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You're 25, basically a baby who got away not having to work in order to exist. Been shot at? Is this something I'm too European to understand? Like it's okay. People live their early 20s for fun. A pension before having to work. But now we have 4 decades of work to do, playtime is over. Settle down and be productive. Be shot at and punched lmao what is that good for.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:59 AM
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Yeah this worked wonders for me. Became top of the food chain as early as age 21 after working out at 18. Girls better work out as well or they will never be able to look like their early 20s ever again. They just don't have the know how, the determination or the time to figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:52 AM
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Most women are unattractive and it's the lack of taking care of their bodies which over time catches up with them. Men are far more actively in shape
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:46 AM
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A charming, thriving, confident intelligent man that outcompetes other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 12:35 PM
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Yeah I'm aiming to only have one child because that way can make the financial life of the child better. For growing up it's better to have 2 children because I'm sure an only child will be lonely. Can get a dog I guess. But financially it's a lot better to be an only child. Can gift the kid a house that will stand there for its entire life. That way living costs will be majorily (correct spelling?) reduced.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:55 AM
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Yeah lack of time will do that I guess. I'm autistic but I had time to become muscular and to spend time with people. Sure I'm poorer now than I would have been if I used my early 20s to work. But I'm completely fine with that. Just a career delay of 5 years. Nothing special in west Europe anyways. Youth unemployment is high here as we're not burdened by student debt and we aren't kicked out of the home at an early age.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:39 AM
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Why no such choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:29 AM
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Bitter taste isn't there if you have been both the bad boy type in your youth and the boring guy when growing older. You're just insecure. I have the option of both and my brain literally thinks the bad boy type is unrewarding. After my last break up I had the opportunity to be a "bad boy" again. I simply had no desire for it at all. It's more something for when you're in your early 20s and experimenting with fellow young people who also have no experience. I'm glad I have that experience, just …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:54 AM
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If women have their shit together more than men, then why would men earn more money than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:48 AM
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You need both. Sexual attraction to say hi and personal compatibility to stay.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 03:20 PM
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You have 10 people in a room. The probability of divorce with each one of them will be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 12:02 PM
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Neither mine or her parents got divorced and obviously had kids. Now my mate never had his dad around and oh boy does he have attachment issues. But neither me, her or another mate whose parents never divorced show such issues. "If your parents married others after divorcing, you're 91 percent more likely to get divorced" see? It makes sense. 60% of marriages do not end in divorce. With exes I had quite some issues. With her I have no such issues, we're just compatible. She had issues with her e…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 11:39 AM
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Sorry for being young, I guess 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 07:53 AM
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The employment rate of autists is 10% and yet I have a job. I'm a speshul booooooy. Statistics get blown away 💁🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:55 AM
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"I don't need to put any effort" Why do I have this view on relationships of all being bad over time? 🤔🤔🤔 It's almost as if having a healthy relationship is the same as having a healthy body. It takes effort. I don't have difficulty doing effort. I workout 6 times a week and it's basically routine. I know how to keep our relationship healthy and she puts in effort as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:57 AM
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Well if you don't put in the effort and have the right mindset then of course you will. That's called self fulfilling prophecy. Basically just being a bitch 💁🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:52 AM
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When I was 17 to 21 I just couldn't stop getting bored from flings. Like it was all fun and games. Then whoops bored out of my skull. I guess I can entertain myself with just about anyone for a little while. Then went into a longer relationship. Still got bored after a year. Then got back together with her and things changed. Then she was the first one to break up with me. My little cute ego went kaboom for the very first time. Fun stuff. However then I met my wife. 4 years going. Never got bore…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:48 AM
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Single folks are weird yo
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:38 AM
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Can I just laugh at you? Cuz this is just funny to me. Well, it's a you problem. Have fun with it I'd say. Buuuut to be contributing with a comment. Nah, been together already 4 years, we tested our compatibility by spending 16 hours together day after day for about a year before I went and got a job. We already had a few relationships behind us so we knew what's what. Now 4 years later, still wanna spend every waking moment together.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:35 AM
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With your description I'm nice at work and an asshole in my private life. I've found that being nice and polite is the easiest way to keep people away from you. Which I love, tremendously. I'm not a people's man and if I were to behave like my normal self toward strangers then sure I'd be an asshole but I'd also be a lot more familiar with them and we'd hit it off. I do not have time or energy for that. When you want to attract people, then be playful and entertaining. Most easily achieved perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 07:24 AM
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I'm autistic and the OP has a certain logic, but just lacks life experience to realise the logic is wrong. If OP is autistic as well then I would suggest observing people's behaviour instead of theorycrafting the perfect human. The perfect human doesn't exist, too many chemicals affecting us. Like you can suffer depression and the smallest setback will make you weep like a small child. People are far too complex to be treated as one dimensional transactional beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 12:25 PM
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You really wrote "cheap men like you". Ahahahha In my young 20s I deliberately spent no money on the people I entertained myself with. I learned dating with falling and getting up. Young people are really immature you know? I got bored quickly. Now that I'm 28 I don't mind spending more money, I'm gonna pay for a 6500 euros masters of law for my wife. But in the first 3 years that me and my wife dated she saw none of my money and I saw none of her money. It's natural to me. We enjoyed eachother'…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 09:52 AM
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All the make up is marketed toward women. There's 0 competition of men doing make up. So there's no need. I'd also say I am getting more appealing to look at as I age. Age 17-20 was a bad age because only minors were interested in me. Then age 21+ it was getting good, growing more masculine features. Now at 28 it's great. Will still be great when I'm 40. Working out 6 times a week raises my testosterone so all fine tbh. The man that completes with me because of make up is only going to attract B…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:34 AM
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Women do more effort to look good than men do in general. I wiped out a lot of competition by just working out 6 times a week. However I just have the same clothes for years upon years. I trim my facial hair and put gel into my hair to show forehead and that's that. I eat whatever I want, I burn so many calories it doesn't matter. Women try so many different outfits, gotta get good at applying make up. Has to moderately workout. Has to diet. Doesn't really sound like a lot, but they have to wake…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:21 AM
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Imagine your value as a person is being in your early 20s. That's just silly. I've kept dating my own age as I got older. For some reason my ex thought I'd go for someone who is younger than 18 when I was 24. I guess because she thought she had outgrown me at age 21. But nah I went for someone age 23 and now we're 28 and still well in sync. The closer the age, the easier it is tbh. Going through the same phase of life at the same time is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 12:52 PM
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It's easier to be hot than to be famous
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 07:30 AM
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Someone I don't trust. First need to be comfortable. Can take 4 days. Can take 4 years. Depends on the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:52 AM
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You forget one thing. Not all men want casual sex. I never wanted a stranger to touch my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 05:41 AM
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A happy and healthy spouse that I don't love? That's like working to make my boss and his clients happy but without paying me. Idc about the marriage part. I only do it because I love my wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 09:00 PM
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Tbh I think I have a 20:1 ratio on giving people Belgian/European tax advise on Reddit than at my job 😅 However my fellow autistic people have a 10% employment ratio so I guess I should be grateful to have a job at all. Divorce could end up badly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:42 PM
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I love what I can do with accounting and tax theory, but my job doesn't give one shit about what I can do with it. It just asks me the technical side like which codes to fill in with what specific numbers. Very mind numbing work. Hence I probably don't like my job here in Belgium. Marriage could be seen the same way. You can love the person but marriage could be a chore. Maybe I'm just not the right kind of person to be introduced to your point of view because it's so entirely opposite of mine. …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 08:18 PM
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Why not? Because it would never feel good at its emotional core. You want to go home after work TO YOUR WORK? Crazy, just crazy Sure it's been done, arranged marriages function well with the woman staying at home and the man working 6 days a week. But in western society? It's just weird
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:19 PM
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Oi I'm autistic and haven't been single over 7 years 🤷🏻‍♂️ Also have a net worth of 530k euros, workout 6 times a week and have a post graduate. But I'm autistic 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 06:07 PM
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I never complimented women until I got to know them. Then I complimented where they lacked compliments. Someone confident with her looks I'd compliment with how clever she is. Someone insecure about looks I'd compliment on her looks. It's only logical that scarcity is more valuable. Never complimented a stranger though. Like who does that? Weird ass mrfkers for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 04:35 PM
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Dating was very fun for me because I was just entertaining myself with people As a result I haven't been single for more than 1 month the last 7 years
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/23 11:47 AM
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Ahahahahhahahhaha this too funny. My man be asking questions
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 05:42 PM
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