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| 4 | I'm lost. My wife doesn't love me anymore and wants separation and divorce. I am devastatedReading this situation, it’s a devastating thing to be faced with. But if we’re being honest, the less devastating part isthat she is defaulting to a behavior we’ve seen many women do time after time, and more so devastating because the sheer amount of time that will have been wasted after the divorce. With that said. Talk to a therapist or do whatever you’ve got to do to get over this hump to the other aside, where you’re able to embrace the new lease on life. You honestly don’t want to waste a… | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/04/25 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Does a woman that helps a man even exist?The biological chemistry is real, and I’m not saying it doesn’t matter. Here’s the reality:Having sex with someone and enjoying their company doesn’t guarantee them being your life long partner lol. As you mentioned two people often enter relationships with two different motives. End of the day, as long as both adults are consenting, o think the next best factor to add is that they are honest about what they’re looking for. The bio connection is one thing, but it’s women’s responsibility to main… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/25 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Does a woman that helps a man even exist?How does that automatically equate to someone getting hurt?There are people out there in both genders who are looking no strings attached fun | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/25 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Not attracted to women my own age…Agreed man. I saw your posts from before and we actually have a very similar situation as far as the timeline of our old relationships and what we were dealing with. Best thing one can do is search for whatever brings peace. Good luck to you | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/25 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Does a woman that helps a man even exist?I think since you’re asking, a part of you wants to find someone else again, but the hurt side of you is deterred from the thought of revisiting what you just went through. There are great women out there that you would appreciate 10X better after marrying one that was your headache. But you’ll only appreciate it if you heal, so you can see them for who they are, and through the lens of pain and mistrust. But that sounds a ways down the road. For now get out there and just have fun with no strin… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/25 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Hey Guys…Most definitely bro. I appreciate that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/25 10:23 AM |
| 2 | Not attracted to women my own age…What’s your type? What type of city do you live in? Do those things line up? If not consider being around places that are accessible to what you’re looking for. I’m going through a divorce too and me and my wife had recently left Los Angeles and moved to the suburbs in Pomona. Not much to loo at hear but slightly overweight suburban moms. So the plan is to move back to the city. I stay fit and take care of my appearance. Why not? There’s a couple girls at my CrossFit gym right now I know would b… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/25 10:20 AM |
| 2 | What will divorced life look like?I concur with this | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/02/25 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Hey Guys…since we have take months apart* | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/25 06:58 AM |
| 2 | Hey Guys…Dude although my STBX and I don’t have kids together( THANK GOD) I can completely relate since we have taken months to go back to her home country in Kazakhstan, I feel like I’ve gained years back to my life. No drama, cooking and eating what I want, spending however long I want to at the gym with no guilt, not getting blown up while sharing a few drinks at the bar with friends. And the mental brain fog is GONE. Is was able to end last year strong at work and win the Summit Award for the most sa… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/25 06:57 AM |
| 1 | AdviceI’d advise to spend this time doing some soul searching and figuring out if you want to keep your current relationship. You know as a woman that relations with another dude will just complicate things and make things more confusing for you . Talking legal action against him from my perspective has made any road to recovery long a difficult. Decide whether he’s worth that to you. And go buy new batteries for your vibrator in the mean time… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/25 06:51 AM |
| 2 | Flip Flopping or...?Def sounds like you could be dealing with a borderline personality disorder. My STBX does the same. Let her tell it, I abandoned her when I deployed for a year. Meanwhile I payed for every bill we had while I was gone while she got to keep every penny from her salary plus what I sent her bi weekly, only for me to come home to find out in all that time she only saved $2K!! But since I managed to save and invest my money wisely and have a large savings, I’m a bad guy because her account is dry. Bu… | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/25 06:43 AM |
| 1 | Coping with betrayal from wife. Having hard time.I get that having kids complicates things.. but you gotta decide you’ll be there for your kids no matter what, and keep that promise. As far as the cheater.. you don’t owe her shit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/25 06:22 AM |
| 2 | Hard to forgiveYes! Plenty of drama-free skanks there 🤣 | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/25 04:24 AM |
| 7 | Hard to forgiveOnly person you need to forgive is yourself. I’m having to do the same thing. I feel dumb for not seeing certain flaws in my soon to be ex as well. But once you forgive yourself and eventually move on you make room for what’s next in life | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/25 04:23 AM |
| 1 | I’m out.Understandable. I’d rip the band aid if I were in your shoes. Sounds inevitable. And according to lawyers I’ve been talking to, it’s less shitty if you file than when you’re the one being served the papers. Good luck to you. I’m sure you can find peace on the other side of things | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/12/24 07:04 AM |
| 5 | I’m out.No sex in 3 years was enough said. Where does your family fit into the picture. Do they have an opinion either way? | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/12/24 02:56 AM |
| 3 | Abusive Wife? (Review this checklist to know)I think we are looking at a generation of men and women that were raised by jaded single moms. That coupled with the social attack on masculinity seems to have created the nightmare we are witnessing | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/24 06:44 AM |
| 1 | Abusive Wife? (Review this checklist to know)I hear you man. And I can only imagine with kids how much more difficult it would make it to make the final decision to leave! Just know there’s guys out here in real time that feel your pain bro, for whatever it’s worth. You deserve respect, to be appreciated and have your needs met too. People always ask me when I plan to have little ones, and it literally makes me sick to my stomach to hold back the real answer. Because I want nothing more right now than to start a family right now. But I ref… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/12/24 06:19 AM |
| 3 | Abusive Wife? (Review this checklist to know)Man, while I hate to hear you’re dealing with that, it does help to hear someone is going through something so similar. My wife went wild on me too last time I mentioned us separating. My dad, who’s been married to my mom over 30 years, gave the best advice which is not tell my wife my next move, because she lost that privilege when she started acting irrationally. This situation really sucks because I’ve always been the guy to take my life decisions very carefully and have been leading a succes… | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/12/24 11:55 PM |
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