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Lol yup. I'm the same way. Religion is a scam as far as I'm concerned. There are lots of good religious people but religion also attracts its fair share of sociopaths and people with checkered pasts because it provides an easy excuse to show that "you're a better person now". And of course surprise surprise, those people in the end haven't changed one bit.
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/21 06:57 PM
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That seems strange then.
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/21 06:51 PM
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There are wrongs on both sides. Dudes shouldn't be acting slick with married women and married women shouldn't be acting slick behind their husband's back.
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/21 06:50 PM
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Be weary of older women (28+) suddenly going all Christian like big time. These women have a serious checkered past (probably fucked 100+ dudes in the past) and then they become "born again" and think they get a free pass. They especially prey on Christian men because they're more likely to consider marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/21 06:46 PM
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Thats why you stay away from the trashy women. It is easy to go to this type of women because they're easier to get in bed but those type of women always return to the streets I've noticed. Doesnt matter how good of a "catch" you are. Has nothing to do with you as a man. Has everything to do with how she was raised.
/r/Divorce_Men21/12/21 06:39 PM
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Op is one of those guys that's so pathetic that he has convinced himself that he has found his soulmate. Even though the partner is basically abusive, they just cling on. This is how cucks are made and why Cucks stick around even though the woman is fucking every dude in town. There are a few other guys on here exactly like op and they have some of the craziest stories I've ever read....their stories could be made into movies I'm sure lol. Op doesn't know what type of woman he has. This woman is…
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/21 08:14 PM
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If you're lucky some guy will love bomb her and you can use that as leverage to get her to agree quicker so she can move on to the paradise that Mr love bomber is promising to provide.
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/21 07:54 PM
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Now you see why men say to not get married and the family courts are corrupt and biased against men.
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/21 11:44 PM
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And the Republican women tend to lean conservative who tend to want strong families (husband/wife etc). Dems are loaded with feminists, lgbtq, and others who are sympathetic to those ideology. For those groups, having strong families is of zero importance.
/r/Divorce_Men14/12/21 11:34 PM
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Exactly. Tell her whatever she wants to hear so you can move on uncontested.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/21 11:45 PM
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Comments like this is why I will never have kids. So glad I got a vasectomy.
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/21 06:41 PM
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The situation you are in is the exact reason men say to never have kids. Who cares about having a "legacy". I don't care about passing on my DNA at all.
/r/Divorce_Men10/12/21 06:21 PM
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Trying to promote her bull shit theories that don't work. This is what you get when you get a PhD is some fake social studies subject.
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/21 10:43 PM
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The more you read into it the more you realize that marriage is a waste of time. If sex is what you desire then you're better off just staying in a committed relationship instead. Once the tingles are gone, either party can easily move on. Men just need to accept that women get bored easily and to just let them go. I see way too many men trying to rope down women using marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/21 10:41 PM
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Very true
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/21 08:52 PM
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Be careful of that situation where women invoke the domestic violence. Her domestic violence against you will be dismissed but you will be crushed if you even touch her (even in self defense). The only thing you can do is flee the house and let things blow over. She is likely mentally ill
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/21 08:24 PM
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And meanwhile men are just standing there holding their dick. What a shame really.
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/21 08:13 PM
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The advice on here is actually really good. The shit advice is in other sub's like relationship advice. Even the advice in divorce sub is kinda iffy. Too many people telling people to try to fix stuff when the marriage is already sinking quickly.
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/21 07:49 PM
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Interesting. I have a slightly different definition of what an alpha is....simply a man that can get women easily. The criteria for alpha is set by women based on whatever they pick for sexual activity. So based on that, a male heavy drinker could be an alpha to certain women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/21 01:24 AM
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Yeah it is their insecurities (I don't want to be alone!) That ultimately compromise them. I have no idea where the logic comes from because just because you get married doesn't mean the wife will do anything a wife is typically expected. The law doesn't require her to do anything at all and most states have no pentalties at all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/11/21 12:29 AM
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This only happens because men put these attributes out there ("I want to start a family!") And then it screws them over. Every man needs to take an inventory of what they offer a woman...money, stability, free labor, emotional labor, kids, house, college educated, status career, looks whatever. If you want to find women that is sexually attracted to you then the only thing you should disclose is your looks, personality and so on. Keep everything else a secret or down play it. If she doesn't fuck…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/11/21 11:37 PM
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No it hasnt but I always keep one foot on the exit if any games start being played. I've noticed that if women see you are serious about your rules then they take you more serious. If she sees you are a pushover then she is more likely to not take you serious. Worked pretty good for me so far. Back when I was younger I had all sorts of women cheating on me and so on.
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/21 06:46 PM
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I'm just giving you the high-level of it. It is called the sexy-son hypothesis if you're interested in reading up on it. Yes I would do the DNA test just so you have some clarity at least. The general rule is never date single moms and this is why. They're not stable and make shit decisions and this is a prime example of it. At this point only thing you can do is pick up the pieces from this mess and move forward. I wouldn't talk to her further unless it is about kids. Not after she pulls a stun…
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/21 06:01 PM
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You can't sell to her if she can't refinance or pony up the cash to do that.
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/21 05:45 PM
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That story is veryyyy common. Women these days are actively encouraged to be "strong and independent" which sadly means destroying their family structure to go chase tingles with dozens of random men. She went with you because most likely you are stable, reliable and a good family man but maybe you are not up to par in sexual attractiveness. So what she does is uses you for what you're good at (providing for and raising children) while other men might be losers but she is sexually attracted to t…
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/21 05:39 PM
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Nothing wrong with being single. You'll always have your son so won't technically be alone alone. Life gets better as long as you are making progress towards it. Best regards
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/21 11:27 PM
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Nothing wrong with that. I do the same thing and recommend it. I do hookups, if I like the person then shift to committed fwb or a relationship. If the spark dies then I just get out and find someone else. I would never get married personally either so I don't blame you. It is a smart move to make.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/21 09:13 PM
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Yeah my comments were about the far left. I don't have any problem with centrist left or centrist right. My point of the post was more to challenge you into seeing the core problems. You need to look more at what role you are playing as a man. You might be left politically but playing a conservative male role (provider, protector etc.). If that is the case then you would be better off with a conservative woman. Ive been with both types of "left" women and "right/conservative" women. The conserva…
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/21 08:19 PM
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Likely true but you could still make them write up a report.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/21 08:08 PM
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There is a letter written by Thomas Jefferson to a friend written about women. His advice to the friend was that he needs to learn to love the v because every other part of the body will sag or develop wrinkles lol.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/21 08:04 PM
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Exactly this. Men are socially trained to have conservative social values for men (provider, protector etc.) while feminism has allowed women to justify abandoning traditional female roles. Those traditional female roles are now viewed as "oppression". Men need to change. Being the provider, protector etc. Is also oppression. Men just don't realize it. Take note the men who fare the worst are those who allow the wife to play a conservative role (sahm, not working). The courts don't have conserva…
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/21 07:49 PM
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It is crazy common these days. Something like 80% of all purchase decisions are made by women because the man just works and the wife does the shopping. Problem is women are often spenders more than investors. If an increase of income comes they upgrade lifestyle instead of considering investing the excess.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/21 07:43 PM
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I agree but the far left takes it way too far. For example, when the far left says straight white males are the problem....well that statement is quite litterally misandrist, sexist and racist. Yet this is from the group that claims to be trying to stop hate in the world lol. I also dont think straight white males by default are privileged since there are lots of straight white males that are total losers. Also yes I agree that people on the far right are nutty as well.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/21 07:29 PM
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If she disappears with the kids without telling you go to law enforcement and say your kids are missing and you think the mother kidnapped them.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/21 05:51 PM
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GET THE FUCK OUT NOW. THIS WOMAN IS A MENTALLY ILL NUTTER AND PROBABLY SOCIOPATHIC. yes all caps is warranted to emphasize urgency.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/21 05:40 PM
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Wow man you really need to wise up about that far-left ideology. It is the main reason why women these days are so nutty. They straight up hate men (look at how they complain about the supposed patriarchy). A lot of the talk gets passed over as equality but do take note that none of these supposed feminists are interested in making more fair laws in family court. It is simply how they as a gender get more power. I have also dated far-left women and that new age spirituality is the norm. These wo…
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/21 04:54 PM
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You also need to realize that emotion is a source of weakness. It makes people do stupid stuff. You can have emotions but never let it compromise the rational mind. I would only interact with her in the kids affairs and nothing else. Just find a new woman. You can do better.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/21 10:43 PM
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Get out while you can.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/21 09:57 PM
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You don't appear weak, you are weak. Do you know what I do when my ex come back? Block and delete. You need to do the same. Time to man up.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/21 09:55 PM
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Man the fuck up already and file on her. If she isn't in love with you then it is time to go. Why would you even want to live with such a person anyways?
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/21 09:52 PM
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Men these days are still dumb enough to think marriage is about more than money/finances. Marriage provides financial benefits to the lesser earning spouse. That's it. Go to other parts of reddit and you'll see people outright ignoring this.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/21 09:44 PM
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Could work out in the end. If she remarries then alimony gets terminated. She might also be willing to divorce amicably.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/21 09:41 PM
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No. I need to know how much she makes and how much investments she has. Need to know her mental health history and so on. That's for serious relationships. If we are talking about hookups then all I care about is if she is hot or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:45 AM
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I thought computers were banned in Amish towns?? What's going on here mister 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 12:34 AM
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Correct but for most men that is a hard pill to swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 12:26 AM
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I can see where fds comes from because it is difficult to find a hvm per their standards. It is no different from incel. Incel wants sex but can't get it so the incel says most women are shit. For fds they want hvm to love them unconditional, have lots of money and get married to her. When that doesn't happen they say most men are shit. I've done a lot of profile digging to see who your typical fds member is. From what I can see it is a 30-40 year old, obese, black woman. Based on what I've seen…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 12:17 AM
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Exactly. Women know how to use the hookup apps and just keep their hookups dead silent to everyone. Most guys will keep the hookup on the down low as well. Hooking up has been normalized and doesn't have the stigma it used to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 12:02 AM
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It shows that the vast majority of men are not desireable to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:56 PM
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I'm a short guy and height is such a big issue that I would tell women my height (in OLD) within the first few moments of conversation just to not waste my time. Lots of women bail but not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:52 PM
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And also you don't even need to spend any money at these places. I've done mall dates where we just walked around and just chatted. The whole point of the date is to see if you have chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:48 PM
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It also happens the other way too. I have a male friend that knocked up a girl. He told her no problem he wants the kid and will help raise it. She said no because the guy was low income and she told him she only fucked him because she was horny and drunk..... Yes she did abort his kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:42 PM
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This question is asked at women, not men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:25 PM
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The purpose of that question is to force women to self-reflect on their dating standards. Women often want top tier male traits but don't have top tier female traits to offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:23 PM
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Yeah I get you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 11:16 PM
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I think for most trp men they subscribe to the basic beliefs that resonante with them. The variations come from their own lived experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:52 PM
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Men can also speak up too. Nothing wrong with asking a woman how she likes to be fucked and what her kinks are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:47 PM
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Thats the impression I get from your post. I have no idea why you need money to date. You don't really. Just do free stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:45 PM
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100% same experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:35 PM
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Incels in trp is mostly an outlier from what I noticed. Most trp people know that doing violence against women is basically the worst thing you can do because the justice system will destroy your life. That's why it is so important for men to distance themselves from toxic women. Of course people who don't want men opting out of traditional roles in scoity need to make it seem like trp/mgtow is all about incels and hating women. Very far from the reality. They just want men to stay in traditiona…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:28 PM
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If you can't get women now what makes you think you can get them in the future. I have a high income and high net worth and guess what? Having money simply attracts gold diggers. You don't want to be with those type of women who are only with you for money. Once the money is gone or you stop giving them money they go bye bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:14 PM
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In reality, mgtows will end up listening to the stories of other men who got screwed by women and lost their pension, house, kids etc. Just because you are married or in a ltr doesnt mean that will always be your situation. 50% of all marriages end in divorce and 80% are initiated by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 09:09 PM
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Mgtow and similar can either be voluntarily celibate (monk) or pursue relationships. I'm personally mgtow but pursue friend with benefits relationships. I don't hate women but I understand where they're coming from in the sense that women employ a dual mating strategy and get bored after a few months/years before wanting to go with someone else. I understand that all of my fwb relationship have an expiration date.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 08:58 PM
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FDS "high value man" is just a man that let's women exploit him easily. Just look at all their little rules for men. You basically have to be her servant lol. A real high value man wouldn't bother doing all that shit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:55 PM
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That's fair but also not realistic since love takes time to really develop. If someone is telling you they love you very early on that's almost always a sign of manipulation. For women, I have no idea how you balance it because usually fuck boys just crowd out everywhere to the point where legitimate relationship-seeking men simply can't be found. Fuck boys almost always play the game better especially in the first interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:34 PM
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I am a man. IMO, it varies. For men if you have lots of appealing traits and high confidence (you know you are valuable to women) then you're likely to not commit. If you think you are low value then you are more likely to offer commitment easily because you know you have little to offer a woman. For some men, marriage is basically their ace card and they use it to try to trap women into relationships to secure sex. A high status man that knows he is high status will be highly unlikely to commit…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:26 PM
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Those women are going for the top 1% of men. They just try to put in more effort doing it. Really reminds me of pick up artists just with a different goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:18 PM
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It is as long as they are happy and content. The ones I know appear to have a lot of bitterness and financial problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:16 PM
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Women can get the benefits of both systems but men can't. Under court of law, men are always viewed as the provider by default. The only exception is when the man is disabled or low income which in that case, he simply defaults on the provider role. Feminists have molded family courts to their benefits. Men take no interest in such issues until they're the ones getting taken advantage of. Too little too late in that situation. The best thing men can do is wise up to reality and learn how to prot…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:07 PM
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Exactly this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 07:01 PM
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Society has told men that it is okay to be fragile instead of strong so of course there is a generation of weak men. Nothing wrong with that. The problem is women still want strong men to play a traditional provider role. Thus creates a rather large expectations gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:47 PM
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Exactly. Society has changed. Most men looking for a sahm are just trying to trap a woman anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:45 PM
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I think it is dead entirely. Women are no longer bound by law a of the past that limited women's rights. I think the faster we can move away from traditional customs (like marriage) and move faster to something like hookups, friends with benefits and open relationships, the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:40 PM
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Woman insisting on man paying everything is a red flag. 50/50 is completely reasonable. Keep in mind that if you pay 100% on dates then that's how she will expect everything going forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:37 PM
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That's why you tell the man how you want to be pleasured and demand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:33 PM
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If there are no good women, why are you simping to them like gods in the porn subs? You have a porn addiction get some treatment for that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/21 12:35 AM
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Divorce is your only way out but you're going to get wrecked financially since you let her be a sahm. Be prepared to pay max child support and max alimony (possibly for life but maybe not). I've seen many people in this exact same situation. Your wife is not sexually attracted to you and most likely just used you for your money and to have kids. She does not love you. If you lost your job she would likely just leave you. That's the sad truth but it is the reality. If you are going to divorce mak…
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/21 10:02 PM
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What's been done has been done. I would recommend to just cut your expenses to the bone. Review every line item of your spending and see if you can eliminate it entirely or downgrade it. Throw everything you have at the credit card debt. Do a debt consolition loan to get the interest lower if you can. After that try to throw as much money as you can into the stock market. Your story is a good example of why men should never marry low income women or allow her to be a stay at home. If you do that…
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/21 09:51 PM
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Yeah because women want what they can't get and when you walk around not chasing pussy your confidence and non verbal body language changes. Women are hard wired to pick up on those signals. Men that are desperate and thirsty for pussy just come off as weak.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/21 09:34 PM
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You don't need to be in a relationship. I have a friend with benefits and we just hang out and bang when it is fun. Low stress and fun. No need for a committed relationship.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/21 09:28 PM
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Prenups are pretty easy to get tossed and the judge can invalidate clauses if he thinks it is unfair.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/21 09:18 PM
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Always rent anything that flies, floats or fucks. 1.5m could get one hell of a lot of escorts.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/21 09:15 PM
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These days I get a major ego boost turning women down. Not sure what it is but it feels amazing.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/21 09:13 PM
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Amen. Don't get married just stay single and date around. Once the tingles are gone simply move on.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/21 06:53 AM
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Yup they do unfortunately. I know a guy personally white knighted himself into marrying a woman like that. 3 kids with 3 different Father. None were his.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 12:23 AM
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Because tingles and chad talked to me!!!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 12:19 AM
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Likely a failed baby trap. Poor bastard is going to lose his left nut in child support though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 12:16 AM
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Those women who swipe right on everybody.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 12:15 AM
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Its a black Friday amazon prime special too
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 12:14 AM
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Country boys know how to survive
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/11/21 12:12 AM
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Crazy nut job of a mom that is
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/21 11:25 PM
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just admit you mentally get off by being abused by this disgusting woman. The marriage was over before you even got married. Once you got to residency and those other women were flirting with you, that was your sign to bail. But you didn't like an idiot. You are an extremely weak man at a very basic level. And the fact that after all the abuse you're still in the matrix proves it. This woman has single handily destroyed your life and stole your happiness, yet you still cling to her like a child …
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/21 11:12 PM
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So you've filed for divorce, correct? I personally have no idea what the hangup with cleaning is. I live alone and my place is spotless. Just always stay tidy and do a deep scrub every 6 months and you're golden. Train the kid to clean up after themselves too.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/21 06:23 PM
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And then post on reddit 1 year asking what to do when she got a bad boy side bf.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/11/21 12:54 AM
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Exactly. The proof is there based on the data we can see children raised by single mothers have a myriad of problems compared to children raised in 2 parent household.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/21 12:37 AM
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Yeah for sure. Old is a waste these days. Just make sure you vet like crazy and don't be afraid to cut lose and run if red flags pop up. That's the only way I've been able to stay safe.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/21 12:06 AM
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It is because men have failed politically and allowed feminism to take over the family courts. Now you see the end results - men are second class citizens. Very obvious what happened here. You've been stripped of your rights as a man.
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/21 12:00 AM
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Just some word of advice. If you are going to go on a date, just do a video chat first. This will allow you to pre-screen out fatties and catfish. You would be surprised how many are out there. Don't waste your money until you've done at least one video chat.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/21 11:54 PM
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Just don't play the game. Just walk away.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/21 10:36 PM
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Way too young to be talking about adult conversations like that.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/21 09:32 PM
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You're probably more center left. She is far-left based on what you describe. Yup and the level of delusion is off the charts with her it seems. I would get away from her as much as possible. She is crazy and dangerous. Make sure you keep a close eye on your son. It sounds like she is a misandrist and might engage in child abuse.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/21 09:15 PM
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Add in all the antipsychotic drugs many of these feminists are on these days. That stuff really fucks up your system.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/11/21 08:42 PM
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Absolutely. Leftist do that because they need to break down the family and make society vulnerable to an authoritarian regime. Take note the ones saying they're "antifascist" are also the ones cheering on government authoritarianism.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/21 08:26 PM
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It is society that fosters narcissistic beliefs in people. Women are just more prone it because society puts pressure on women to be perfect. A collective delusion is created where we repeat that women are perfect and men are bad. We need to change this but I doubt it will happen. So the only thing a man can do is identify mental illness, narcissist traits and flee when they see the warning signs. Of course, society also trains men to be weak men instead of strong. A strong man does not tolerate…
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/21 07:43 PM
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They gaslight because in their head they are the perfect person who could do no wrong. So they rewrite history in their head where they are always the victim.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/21 07:39 PM
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Absolutely horrible thing that family courts would do something like this.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/21 07:35 PM
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Likely talking to a divorce lawyer on the side. Make sure you are recording everything to protect yourself and absolutely do not engage in arguments or even physically touch her at all (no more hugs, kisses etc.). She is getting everything in order when the ball drops. Get the divorce filed on her before she files!
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/21 05:52 PM
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Family court does not care about children and often does more harm than good.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/21 05:46 PM
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So you want to stay in a relationship where there is no love? That's on you man. I'll pass.
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/21 04:23 PM
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Exactly. This lady should be arrested. She is trying to romance scam a dude.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/21 07:54 PM
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"If I can get this rich chump, just imagine what I can monkey brach to next month."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/21 07:49 PM
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The rule of thumb has always been if the woman is sexually interested in you, she knows within the first 2 minutes. Women even openly say this. So you're best off just shooting your shot and dropping your number before you leave. If she is interested she will contact you. The whole dating thing is just designed to allow women to vet men for marriage. Beta guys will go down that route while alpha guys know they can get sex by other means.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/21 07:41 PM
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It is okay to have those feelings (every dude been there, let's be honest). It is perfectly okay to just walk away from dating if it isn't in your best interest anymore.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/21 07:32 PM
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Men: I've had my fun in my 20s and now that im 30 with a successful career, home and investment portfolio I'm not going to date anymore. Never going to marry or have kids. Women: You can't do that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/21 07:26 PM
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🐷🐷🐷
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/21 07:21 PM
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And getting a high credit score isn't even that hard. I had an 800 score when I was like 20 by just having a single credit card and paying it off every month.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/11/21 07:16 PM
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This is what you do. Get a shirt with a front shirt pocket. Modify the pocket so the camera lense is visible. Might have to cut a hole in the shirt. Now anytime you are home and the wife is there. Have the phone in your front shirt pocket recording. Now you're collecting evidence if any stuff starts going down. Get a large SD card for the phone. Buy an online cloud storage service to backup the videos. There are camera apps that will automatically upload the video to the cloud service in real ti…
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/21 04:59 PM
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Exactly. Men need to wise up that marriage is just about money. Has nothing to do with love, faithful, sex.
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/21 02:03 AM
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IRA because higher appreciation in the markets.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/21 10:44 PM
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Friends with benefits is where it is at.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/21 10:43 PM
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Women will make every excuse why they are different. Just say no.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/21 08:39 PM
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I hope he asked that as a joke
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/21 08:38 PM
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Yeah thats love bombing. Fun to be with women like that because they kiss your ass but it is always a manipulation. Elvis made a song about these type of women called devil in disguise. Elvis is often noted as being the "model guy" but I whole heartedly believe he put warnings to other guys. Look at the song can't help falling in love with you. It is often regarded as a romantic song but it starts with the phrase "fools rush in where angels fear to tread"....quite literally a warning to men abou…
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/21 08:36 PM
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Yeah it is a good vetting technique.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/21 08:29 PM
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This the truth and it is really hard to argue with it. That's why my guess is people who don't like comments like this resort to name calling ("you're just a boy who doesn't want to man up and get married"). I ask men all the time why they're getting married and what they get from it. Everytime the comments are simply a fairytale dream of what marriage offers a man - love, sex, faithfulness etc. But we all know that marriage doesn't entitle you to that. It can all fizzle away with time and it us…
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/21 08:23 PM
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That's a smart idea as well. Focus on yourself and achieveing your goals.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/21 08:05 PM
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Same here. I have a high income and a high net worth too for my age. The risks to me are immense. I've simply taken it off the table. Not worth it.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/21 08:04 PM
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We are just being realistic as men. Finding a quality woman is extremely difficult. That's just the reality. But yes, some women are not like that. Now how do you find them?
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/21 06:51 PM
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Bingo. Nothing wrong with someone saying they have a preference for money. I'm a man and I'll admit I am a gold digger. I love successful career women the most. Now just to find one to put a ring on....that's the hard part.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/21 06:42 PM
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Men are foolish for falling for the marriage scam. Men, wise the hell up already.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/21 05:12 PM
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Nothing you can do. You're going to get financially destroyed in divorce since she is low income and basically disabled. Should have learned your lesson with the first marriage. Marriage isn't something you want to get involved with especially with your income. Your entire financial future is compromised due to this. If you aren't happy, get out of it and move on. You'll get punched in the face financially though so be prepared for that.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/21 05:11 PM
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Completely agree. These days relationships are too sporadic to consider marriage. Getting divorced has too big of an impact financially and does not even guarantee you anything if she falls out of love, cheats, or does some other wild behavior out of the norm. That's the problem with marriage. It is foolish to think soulmates exist. People grow in different directions. It is foolish for men to think they can rope down a woman through marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/21 05:03 PM
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Based on the stories I read on here. It is the married folks you have to worry about.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/21 05:01 PM
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That won't protect you much. You have to make sure she makes more than you, has higher assets and good financial sense. Then if anything goes south, the asset split will be fair and stuff like alimony will be off the table. She might even pay you.
/r/Divorce_Men29/10/21 04:29 PM
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All women are like that.....no one cares about the impossible to find women that are truely different.
/r/Divorce_Men27/10/21 07:16 PM
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You'll find someone else to be with that isn't a pos.
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/21 08:14 PM
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As they say, weak men get taken for a ride.
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/21 05:15 PM
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Legal separation is literally pointless. You should have divorced 3 years ago.
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/21 05:13 PM
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Yes it is fucked up. She is a stupid whore who will probably get an std from that dude. You should be happy this pos is out of your life.
/r/Divorce_Men26/10/21 05:09 PM
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Exactly this. Hire a shark lawyer and clean her out.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/21 07:18 AM
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You need to get out and socialize. Don't just mope around at home.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/21 07:15 AM
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If you want to spite the rebound wife/gf. Make sure to turn her down and mention something about how you've become extremely happy/successful/better financially and then ignore them. Women become super jealous when they see you enjoying new found wealth/happiness without them. Bonus points if you can get some young attractive female to snap some pics with. You can play her off as a gf to maximize the jealousy :)
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/21 07:10 AM
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Yup but they aren't and never will be. Over time my guess is that as more men say no to relationships and marriage their tactics are going to get more agressive.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/21 08:43 PM
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The entitlement is amazing and women have all sorts of ways they rationalize it. If your gf/wife keeps stories about every time you fucked up (especially stories from years ago) thats a very bad sign. I've noticed women who do stuff like that are the worst.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/21 08:30 PM
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Marriage rates are plummeting and i could see it accelerating. Of course except more shaming from women about how men need to commit.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/21 08:10 PM
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Definetely tell it to help others. Many men stuffer for far too long because most advice given assumes men are in the wrong and need to just work on themselves to make the wife happy. Narc traits in women are on the rise due to social media.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/21 08:04 PM
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So glad you escaped and are a survivor. You need to help others in this situation because there are many men suffering. I see in other subs where the wife is a narc and the husband is asking for advice. There are actual jackasses out there that tell him to be a better man, work on himself to meet her demands, and marriage counseling.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/21 07:50 PM
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Also most important with dealing with a narc is that they are often sociopaths. Be careful dealing with them as they can easily put you in the ground. Female prisons are mostly these types of women where they chopped up the kids or husband. Watch dateline and you'll see stories about these women often. All the narc traits are there in the story. Often times the man was a push over that did everything to keep the narc happy.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/21 07:40 PM
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For men you need to read up on red pill theory and female nature. The more you understand the better you'll be. In terms of dating you need to only do hookups or friends with benefits. If you commit then don't let her drill any hooks into you (moving in, having a child etc.). Avoid giving her money or anything stupid like that. Remember most important a man holds all the cards to commitment so always withhold it or dangle it but never commit. Never marry. Never have kids. Read this sub since lot…
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/21 07:08 PM
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