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DISCUSSIONMaleficent_Youth_175/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 08:03 AM
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DISCUSSIONMaleficent_Youth_175/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 07:39 PM
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DISCUSSIONMaleficent_Youth_175/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 01:13 PM
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RANTMaleficent_Youth_175/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 11:53 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEMaleficent_Youth_175/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 08:37 PM
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DISCUSSIONMaleficent_Youth_175/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 04:53 PM
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DiscussionMaleficent_Youth_175/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 07:34 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYMaleficent_Youth_175/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 09:03 AM
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How-To High ValueMaleficent_Youth_175/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 07:53 AM
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LVM LOGICMaleficent_Youth_175/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:27 AM
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DISCUSSIONMaleficent_Youth_175/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 10:15 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEMaleficent_Youth_175/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 07:30 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEMaleficent_Youth_175/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 12:53 PM
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DISCUSSIONMaleficent_Youth_175/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 06:40 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEMaleficent_Youth_175/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 05:09 PM
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DISCUSSIONMaleficent_Youth_175/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:05 PM
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LIES MEN TELLMaleficent_Youth_175/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 08:05 AM
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DISCUSSIONMaleficent_Youth_175/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:49 PM
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DISCUSSIONMaleficent_Youth_175/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:36 PM
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Sleeping Beauty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 06:49 AM
-3

My boyfriend is one of these men. You can have him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 06:46 AM
2

Agreed. Nothing wrong with seeking support here imo ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 06:18 AM
-1

You can read the handbook and still want support from real women on here 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 06:14 AM
11

Omg ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 06:10 AM
-5

Oh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 08:07 PM
9

If they're not ready to be helped they wouldn't be here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 08:02 PM
-34

She's sexualised herself to get his attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 08:00 PM
-1

It's nice to talk to other people sometimes. The handbook is nice but sometimes you just want to talk to someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:58 PM
-5

But why does she need to sexualise herself to impress a LVM?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:57 PM
11

Nothing wrong with helping our fellow sisters imo 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:53 PM
31

Why would you want to impress a man who has cheated on you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:51 PM
9

All the menz
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 02:57 PM
78

🤲👑👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 08:27 AM
4

He did have access to counselling on the NHS but he just decided he didn't need it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 06:05 AM
43

I want my boyfriend to go counselling for depression but he thinks he can handle it alone by exercising and eating healthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 05:27 AM
21

It's like when I ask my boyfriend why he didn't date me for 4 years. He keeps saying he had no money or he "forgot". I keep asking over and over why he ignored my needs but the answer is never good enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 05:23 AM
2

You're right. Thank you. I'm just hoping this will get better but maybe it won't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 06:23 PM
3

He's exercising more and given up caffeine but that's about it. I asked him to go counseling and he rang up but then decided he didn't need it at this point in time. I'm depressed too and am having therapy, exercising, eating healthy. I still managed to plan fun things for us. I love him so much, I feel at home when I cuddle him. He's totally committed to me and he loves me but we're not having fun. Relationships to me should be about fun, experiencing life together. But he ignored my requests f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 05:56 PM
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Men probably piss in them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 05:52 PM
4

I love him so much, he's a lovely person, porn-free, loving and nurturing. But I'm not happy. I can't help but wonder if I'm self-sabotaging or if I have relationship OCD which is making me obsess over problems that don't exist. I used to be so certain I wanted to marry him and have a home together and pets. But now I'm always thinking of other men, and about sex with men that aren't him. Yet I think I'm just living in a fairytale world. I think I resent him for not planning fun things for us to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 05:00 PM
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I don't really know what I mean when I say it feels like a friendship honestly. I can't put my finger on it. I've just stopped seeing my boyfriend in my future so much. I don't understand it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 04:29 PM
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Follow your heart ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 02:46 PM
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Thank you. It's hard because he really regrets what he's done and is trying hard to make more effort. I wish I could take a magic pill and feel better about things!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 02:46 PM
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It's a shame because he really is so wonderful in other ways. He doesn't even look at other women, doesn't watch porn, shares all my feminist views, he drives far to see me, cooks for me, is loving and nurturing and would go out of his way to help me and his family. But I feel so romantically neglected ☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 08:36 AM
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How are you feeling about things?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 08:35 AM
2

Lol scrotes be mad 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 01:59 PM
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My boyfriend and I have been together 4 years. He was in debt when we met, not much but he has only recently paid it off. We met on a video game so I guess I can't complain that he was more concerned with gaming than planning dates for us. I look after myself, go to the gym, watch what I eat. He didn't even groom his beard. Now however, he knows I'm one foot out the door so he's started working out, he is gaming less, he is going to plan dates after lockdown, he's looking for a better job. I'm s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 09:07 AM
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He's an automatic -10000 for simply existing, who the fuck is he to call anyone a 4 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 08:58 AM
-7

Lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 07:46 AM
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Omfg 😭❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 07:44 AM
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It seems mean to stay with him whilst building a support network with the intent to leave him ☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 08:47 PM
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You're probably right. I'm just scared to be alone. I don't have a support network and my boyfriend loves me deeply. It's hard to walk away from that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 08:04 PM
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I only saw him on weekends before lockdown as we live in different cities, and then lockdown happened and I didn't see him for 3 months but still felt this way 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:27 PM
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Can you elaborate please? Are you saying that me daydreaming of other men doesn't actually mean I want out of my relationship?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 04:55 PM
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You can have all three?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 04:38 PM
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Yes this is my fear. It's absolutely awful because he loves me unconditionally and I love him, but it's just not the same. I may never find another man like him. Despite these flaws he has been so devoted to me, doesn't even look at other women or watch porn. But I'm so, so disappointed. He really regrets his decisions in the past and he is changing everything he can to be a better man for me. I hope my feels come back because it's heart breaking for both of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 04:23 PM
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"To my quarantine bae". Omg, I love this lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 04:21 PM
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Love that last line.. lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 02:55 PM
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Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 02:17 PM
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This makes so much sense. I'm asking this question because I find myself questioning if I have chemistry with my boyfriend. Lately I find myself thinking about sex with other men all the time. It's not right, and I feel so awful about it. I can't work out whether I feel like this because I'm just a Pickmeisha with a high sex drive looking for male validation, or what. Thanks for your insightful comment, it has given me much to think about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 02:12 PM
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This is what I'm going through. For 4 years my boyfriend has been earning very little money working for his Dad. He's taken 4 years to pay off debt. That's 4 years of us not being able to live together, no proposal, no holidays or dates because of money. Now he knows I have one foot out the door, he's doing a 180. It seems very genuine. He wants to plan dates and is looking for higher paid work. The debt is paid off. Yet now I feel indifferent to him. I hope my feelings towards him get better. W…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 09:03 AM
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And so you should ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 07:17 AM
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He's looking for work, yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 07:17 AM
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Not currently but he says he will when he's got a better job 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:45 AM
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Love and stability really. We share the same morals and I know he'd be by my side for life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:44 AM
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What made you want to leave, can I ask?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 10:28 PM
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Is it bad that I like heart jewellery 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 10:21 PM
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This makes me think I should stay with my wonderful and stable boyfriend who I am having doubts about. Because at least I know he loves me unconditionally and will always be there. I'm having doubts because I'm craving excitement from other men and want to be wined and dined but maybe I'm focusing on the wrong things. Thoughts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 10:20 PM
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Omggg 🌷🌸🌹🌻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 07:31 PM
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I love FTND! ♥️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 07:55 AM
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Amateur porn is often filmed without the women knowing (hidden cameras) or it's revenge porn. I highly doubt many women would happily upload themselves to Pornhub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 04:47 PM
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I'm guessing Hot Girls Wanted is one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:07 PM
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THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU 👏♥️👏♥️👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:06 PM
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It's true he didn't do those things but most of that was due to a lack of money. He cooks for me, even when he's round mine he won't let me do the cooking. He drives 2 hours to see me every weekend. He makes me handmade gifts. He bought and built for me a gaming PC. He buys me incredibly thoughtful presents. He's not as bad as I've made him sound. He's a wonderful dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 11:59 AM
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I did think I fancied him though. Desire ebbs and flows doesn't it? He's an attractive guy. Ughh. I know I should probably leave but I'm scared to be alone, scared to hurt him and scared to walk away from someone who loves me unconditionally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 08:20 AM
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Yeah. You're right. I wish porn didn't exist. Then it would be so much easier to walk away. I want a companion to experience life with and go on adventures with. It's sad to think most men watch porn. And if they say they don't then they're likely lying. I'm lucky to have a man who considers porn to be cheating. I'm nowt special, I'm not high value or anything, so why should I deserve better than him? I'm average looking, bordering on ugly 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 08:04 AM
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I hope you're right. But he is a lovely person. He is loyal and wonderful. He offers me stability and commitment. Surely those things matter more than dates?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 07:36 AM
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You do realise I was joking when I said she's ancient?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 07:35 AM
1

How did you gain confidence?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 07:34 AM
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Ancient!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 06:05 AM
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Well, he wants to now. Just wish he did it sooner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 06:05 AM
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What do you mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 06:04 AM
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❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 11:22 PM
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The problem is I'm frustrated that after 4 years because of his financial situation, paying off debt etc we don't live together, we've not been able to go on holiday and dates etc. I asked him to date me but he didn't bother, blaming a lack of money. He is now beating himself up and saying he should have planned dates for me that didn't cost a lot. Going out on adventures and travelling are something I really wanted to do with my partner so I resent him a bit for not doing any of that with me in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 11:13 PM
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You might see it as pathetic but if these women entertained these men before, surely it's a step forward for them to offer a witty retort. Maybe when they level up some more they'll just block the men immediately. It's all progress!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 10:27 PM
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I've been having therapy on and off for 10 years. Hope things get better. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 10:24 PM
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I know. It's just hard. I'm worried I'm broken for life after going through childhood trauma 😬 I feel so ashamed of my existence. I really struggle to make friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 10:07 PM
1

Well I have a loving boyfriend, he's not a predator at all. I've been quite lucky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 09:54 PM
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So could it be I might not be unhappiness with my partner, I'm just unhappy in myself which makes me dissatisfied with my relationship?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 08:40 PM
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Thank you so much for your genuine concern for me. It means a lot. It's hard to walk away from someone kind who loves me and would give his life for me. I don't want to hurt him. I'll give this time and maybe one day I'll be strong enough to walk away if he truly isn't right for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 08:00 PM
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Why should it always be down to me to initiate sex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 07:56 PM
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I just get really depressed. I think I'm an anxious extrovert. If I'm not around people I'm left with my horrible negative thoughts stemming from childhood trauma and my mind often drifts to suicidal ideation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 03:18 PM
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Thank you so much. He really is a wonderful person, the only issue is sex, lack of money (he spent years paying off debt and he's only just managed to do so) and complacency when it comes to dating. This nagging doubt is driving me to madness. I can't help but think I'm self-sabotaging. Your words ring true. I'm just terrified of making the wrong choice and of being alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 03:16 PM
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It's difficult because he's so wonderful in so many ways, he really is. He treats me like royalty. But we're just not having sex. Yet we have great physical affection, lots of cuddles and he'd do anything for me. It's just super difficult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 03:13 PM
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Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 10:34 AM
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I just can't help but wonder if I'm doing this because deep down I feel like I don't deserve a stable and loving relationship. Will I always just go from relationship to relationship, disappointed when the spark inevitably ends? I feel so bad, I told this man I wanted him, I wanted to marry him, to live with him. And for a time I did. Everything was so perfect. I finally had the family I never did in the form of my wonderful and accepting in-laws. I've got unconditional love from a man who would…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 10:14 AM
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Thank you so much. It's just terrifying, the thought of leaving someone who loves me unconditionally and I know who would be holding my hand on my death bed, to face a life of loneliness. I don't just mean romantic loneliness, but I don't have much of a support network outside of him. I know he deserves better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 10:05 AM
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I don't know if we are sexually compatible or not. We're both shy and he's very respectful of women so doesn't want to initiate because he's afraid it's the wrong time. I used to initiate otherwise we'd never have sex but I got fed up of being the one to initiate absolutely everything, like plans for dates, weekends away, where we might live, and sex. So I don't initiate and we don't have sex. He is an attractive enough guy but I don't look at him at think, "Wow, I fancy you." I'm thinking about…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 09:45 AM
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Thank you for this. It's becoming clearer what I need to do. But I don't trust myself. I'm scared I'll end up making the wrong decision and breaking both our hearts for nothing. But he deserves someone who is 100% sure about him. I'm having therapy so hoping things become clearer still ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 09:09 AM
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So true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:59 PM
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I do all that. I think it's just because I'm not worth looking at lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:42 AM
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Thank you, well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 11:27 AM
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Exactly! We don't all have access to that. And it's so pointless worrying about looking flawless. I find Baddie Winkle way more inspiring personally. I want to be like her one day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 10:37 AM
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She's had a nose job and possibly a face lift. She's a human being not a robot, she should be showing signs of ageing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 10:36 AM
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Not really as easy for those of us who can't afford botox and plastic surgery 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 10:01 AM
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They're probably watching it too. Boys will be boys etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 08:11 AM
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I get this at work! It's so frustrating. I ask a lot of questions and encourage people to talk but people rarely ask me anything and when they do they just aren't even listening. So, following.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 08:09 AM
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For me personally I cannot tolerate porn in a relationship! It depends how much of a deal breaker it is for you. I think it's so pathetic how men say they need porn especially during lockdown. What did men do before the internet?! It's such a weak excuse. Does he not have imagination? Sure he can just recall the memories from the last porn he watched 🙄 What does your gut tell you? Do you want this relationship to work?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 08:08 AM
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Here here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 10:24 PM
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So fucking true! Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 09:07 PM
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I don't know the difference between chemistry and love. I guess sometimes it feels like our conversations don't flow. Yet other times we can talk for ages, like about feminism. What does it mean to be compatible? We're compatible in that our values are the same, but I think we are quite different in some ways too. Lately I find myself imagining life with other men. It's awful because he's so wonderful. I'm just wondering if the sexual attraction is there! Fml.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:58 PM
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Ah, men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:55 PM
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The bar is in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 12:43 PM
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Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 11:00 AM
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How do you work out what you deserve? I'm with a wonderful porn-free man but I don't know if I fancy him. I love him so much and he treats me like a Queen. But I don't know if the chemistry is there. How do I know my expectations are too high and possibly the result of watching too many films with romantic, sexy and attractive men lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 10:42 AM
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Huh? What do you mean? My boyfriend is sickened by porn. As in it disgusts him. We can have great sex when we get going. Maybe it doesn't matter if I don't fancy him like mad. We can't have it all can we?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 09:16 AM
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Even if the man wasn't porn sick and just uses porn once a week, it's a no from me. I love my boyfriend very much I just don't know if the spark is there. I crave chemistry and passion with a man but that soon fizzles out I suppose. My boyfriend is loving and nurturing and such a great man. I'm so torn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 08:27 AM
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I have a great boyfriend but I just don't know if I fancy him 😬 He is sickened by porn, OnlyFans etc. I'm in a real dilemma. I crave sex with a man I actually fancy but I know if I left my boyfriend I'm unlikely to find a man like him again. It's good that you don't care about men haha. Surround yourself with friends ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 07:57 AM
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It makes me so sick how men pay for OnlyFans instead of using that money to make their partner happy, get them a bunch of flowers or put it towards a date. Instead they pay to cheat. Just goes to show how little men value their relationships. It's so depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 06:16 AM
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Really? OF is more personal. Paying for porn. It's so disrespectful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 05:43 AM
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Yeah he really is an amazing man. I'm very lucky to know him. Which is what makes my ambivalence so difficult!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 08:56 PM
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That's the depressing thing. You never truly know someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 08:55 PM
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I definitely care about him. Sometimes I just want passion and someone I truly fancy. But I can't imagine having that and a porn-free man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 08:19 PM
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Shame about the misogynistic language.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 01:00 AM
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That's what I'm saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 09:52 PM
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Only half?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 08:47 PM
13

Lmao 🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 07:57 AM
3

Agreed 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 07:13 AM
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Sounds like my sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:13 PM
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I am just trying to work out if these doubts are normal. If I'm scared of commitment. If I'm self-sabotaging. I'll give it time. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 01:58 PM
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