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Yes I'm sure my hippy mother wanted me to be just like my father. A boring socially awkward nerd with an inferiority complex who doesn't like kids or people really. I'm sure she wouldn't have wanted me to be like any man she actually ever liked
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 09:29 PM
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Agreed! Should have been easier for me to see from the start frankly. Lol I mean, I think a lot or most men would agree that they would like sex often. There are asexuals and all, and frankly, I don't get them, but respect their feelings. I'd guess you mean that men would be thought of as strange if they admitted to not wanting constant sex. Plenty of guys probably couldn't handle that now that I think about that. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 11:24 PM
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I'm so sorry that people have treated you so poorly. Especially the men who you chose to be in relationships with, very sad. You have some very strange exs. I hate all those comments. Like your supposed to like sex but then not too much or you'll cheat?!?! Also, the orgasming easy thing is great for you, but that comment made my head spin. Lmfao. Sounds like how my ex treated me. So down for sex whenever we saw each other. Then we moved in together and it was like she had already fulfilled her e…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 09:59 PM
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That's too bad. Sorry that sex wasn't as guaranteed as you'd have liked in your past relationships. I've been in similar situations with exs that when we would fight or they would act like I was their butler I had a hard time getting excited to please them. I wonder how poor impulse control could equal passion? It kind of makes sense, but for a lot of guys myself included, any lack of impulse control in the realm of sex or seduction is turned into "you're a creep", "I'm uncomfortable", "you only…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:35 PM
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Is the stereotype we are not living up to that we are sex crazed maniacs? Cuz from what I see we pretty much all are. Is that why some women seem to like criminals? Cuz they think they are sex fiends? most have longer than desired refractory periods. That's just funny😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 08:03 PM
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Sure, do lol. That's how you know lol I still feel like it could be a legit messaging app since I've been on it for that. Looked nice, had good features. 100% just for Indian scammers, tho😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:32 PM
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Catfished. 70% of my convos on Tinder went well until they tell me to add their WhatsApp lol. I did it once. I've never had so many spam calls in my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:20 PM
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Well I guess if it's a sum of "can you get a date" women win hands down every second of every day. If the win condition is "feels safe on a date" idk I guess guys win. Idk I'm lonely and too anxious to even bother anymore. I uninstalled all dating apps cuz it's just a place for guys to get phished (most of my experience with "matches") or just seeing profile after profile of women ">6ft, >8in, >100k swipe left
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 02:16 PM
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Well, yeah, sure. You are going to possibly meet a stranger for sex or at least a date. I would think that would be really scary for women. Except they don't really like guys who wouldn't be able to hurt them (too weak) or who wouldn't want to hurt anyone (nice guy). So yeah it would be hard to vet the slim margin of men that could dominate me in the bedroom but also not be too nice or sweet to me, but also not too mean and angry. That would be a difficult game to play. I guess the male experien…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:59 PM
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I mean, you are OP. This is your thread talking about how women have it harder in dating. Then you say that, lol. Clearly, we are not the same. Haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:35 PM
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I agree. I'm assuming that'd why all the OLD is dry. Everyone up in the inmates DMs😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 01:04 PM
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It's a lot of words to say that that would mean the remainder of my life would be really good! I don't see the issue? Not a feminist🤮 or a simp💀 smh No man should fear death by snu snu
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:47 PM
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Also I just want to point out that there are sites that specifically let you exchange letters with currently incarcerated violent offenders. They have profiles about their likes and interests and get to post pictures of themselves there. If women were so worried about guys being violent, then these sites wouldn't exist, and women wouldn't be writing these guys looking to hookup when they get out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:42 PM
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You're right. The real epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 12:38 PM
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Scarcity: The feeling that you'd gladly let a woman kill you as long as it was a nice night
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/24 03:19 AM
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Also point 2. It's cathartic to know that I'll never be happy then😁
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/24 10:12 PM
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I think it's the nature of OS relations. Women have no inherent need or want to "take care" of a man. So any "flaw" that would in theory make her put forth effort into the other person would be a fate worse than death. I don't think it makes you ablist, though, if I thought you were not fit to pass on your genes, I may be seen as to have a thin mustache as well...
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 04:09 PM
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I'm not sexualizing children, lady. You were trying to stunt on men on this sub, saying your son has so many gfs, lolol And you didn't teach him anything? Except it's obviously not the same thing then? And maybe don't compare the kids playing to adult's in actual adult relationships? Then, you said that parents shouldn't teach their kids how to flirt or be attractive? Yes, they should teach their SONS how to be MEN, which will, by proxy, teach them how to be attractive to women. Women do not nee…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:51 PM
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So where on earth did your 9 year old pick up how to flirt, be seductive, or be sexually attractive? Wtf? Like there are other ways to be attractive. Mothers will help their daughters do makeup all the time. That isn't seen as a big deal, but it's quite a large part of seduction for women. The role of a parent should be to prepare the child for a world that isn't going to be kind to them. I'd say it would be the role of a father to teach their son how to flirt or be attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:38 PM
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Does this make your son better than these guys? Lol. Or should that not be a measure of someone's worth?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 11:02 PM
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You’re imposing your own thoughts on opinions on those women. This is literally a mind projection fallacy. Ok. Well, I don't know those people you are right. In a vast majority of cases, people don't want to die alone. Though with modernity, we will see if that holds true. The majority of my friends are married and thus off the market This does make me feel like you are on the younger side. Most of my friends are divorced or have kids w someone they didn't marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:47 PM
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So basically a woman not being attracted to you initially doesn’t mean there’s zero potential for sexual attraction. Yes, not zero potential, just a potential of wasted time and effort. So, if a man does pursue a woman who isn't actively sexually attracted, and maybe needs time to warm up. You'd never know that from the woman who has no intention of doing anything other than using them for validation/money. I also don't know you or your age. So it's possible that you've just not experienced a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 10:28 PM
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No, women wanting casual sex or a fun trip on a yacht are successfully going after good sex and someone with a yacht. That’s not at all representative of people in long term relationships or actively seeking LTRs I'd agree that plenty of women would be successful in the procurement of good sex on yachts, if they wanted that. I'd assume most do. Why wouldn't they? They would only be unsuccessful if they went their looking for a long term relationship. The same women will eventually want to have s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:28 PM
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I do pretty much agree with you. Except I do really think women get the ice if you act like you want do date them. I've only ever been rejected by women who I act like I like. And the only relationships I've been in I was either trying to not be in a relationship at all or wasn't that interested in the girl at first and that made her try. I think their is a disconnect in what we see as "casual sex" and "relationship". If I'm not attractive enough for a woman to have casual sex with me. Then if I…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:19 PM
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As far as I can tell. Women do have around the same libido as men. They just hide their escapades better, before tiktok that is. I think that more and more men libido is lowering. That could be due to health issues, environmental issues, or social. I believe that young men have been shamed into believing their sexuality is evil. So they repress that part of themselves, like how when womens sexuality was moralized in the past. This has led to the situations we see today, in that women are looking…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:09 PM
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No, not really. I've just learned that in modernity, a man "looking for a relationship" is an ick to any woman. Apparently, it's because men hold the keys to relationships, so we shouldn't be looking to women to date us. So I've got to act aloof and can't get emotionally attached to a women, cuz they hate that. Younger women, I believe, are looking for physical characteristics along with sociopathic levels of confidence. Older women look for those things and the willingness to spend money on the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 09:01 PM
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Also, I'd like a relationship with someone who does want to be in a relationship with me. With not being 6ft or 100k a month earner it's reallt just going to be most women waiting for this sort of man to wife them up. They won't. And guys waiting for a woman who actually wants a relationship with them, they don't want that either. So we all, men and women, are just going to go our own way? Seems like a bit of a waste if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:47 PM
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I wouldn't want someone who would want a relationship with anyone. Idk if people are more selective either. Maybe they are selective about who they date/talk to. They are not selective with who to hook up with, or else there wouldn't be so much trauma of past relationships. They would have selected correctly for what they were looking for. I assume they got what they wanted one way or the other. Life is finite, and we all have the possibility of dying tomorrow or later this afternoon. I've seen …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 08:41 PM
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Why would these guys need to lie? Where does lying come into play? If you're normal and enjoy sex then dudes wouldn't need to lie to get it? They'd just offer you sex or ask for it? These dudes who are not getting any sex definitely theorize how awesome it would be to have sex, duh. Eventually, the women who "enjoyed sex" will fantasize about a man who actually wants to financially support then so they don't have to work a full time job.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:24 PM
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I think women who are slightly older and have already gotten enough cheap sex from men who they find attractive still have romantic relationships on a pedestal. Or at least provider relationships where they feel taken care of. A majority of men do not see women as disposable. Women who treat themselves and their relationships as disposable are who men see as disposable. If women wanted to have romantic relationships with guys they'd only have to look to someone who obviously wanted them. We all …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 06:16 PM
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Yeah, all of those fears and anxieties of the possibilities of those sorts of relationships are very valid. Actually, I'm pretty sure that is the exact reason that I and plenty of other guys are not bothering approaching women either. The thing is if women start approaching all they are going to get is pumped and dumped or years and years of relationship even if she is not his type and doesn't like her, just because there are no other options for him to jump on. Do you think that is just the nat…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 04:09 PM
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I'm not sure how accurate the stats are but isn't the gay male divorce rate like ~20%? I've seen different stats but that is significantly lower than Straight/Lesbian marriages that divorce at >%70. Lesbian marriages actually have a higher divorce rate than straight couples. The reason that a woman should approach a guy is so the man knows she's interested. I would be much more interested in a woman who came up to talk to me (regardless of physical attraction), then a woman who didn't come talk …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:39 PM
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There are plenty of women around that would love to have you as their SO, BF, ect and not have sex. That seems like it should be the top tier of relationships for women imo. All the benefits of a man and none of the annoyance of wanting sex. I'd think u'd have it made pal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:28 PM
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This is the problem with that, too. Are you saying that men have women in their social circles that they haven't dated but have the availability to date? I don't think most social circles look like this. If you meet a woman and become friends, great! If years down the line, you decide you want a relationship with that person? They already have you in the friend zone? So that is a no-go. I have female friends, even ones that I would date, but apparently that means that I am not their real friend …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 09:30 PM
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Isn't this the real problem, though? It's not 500 messages. Those are 500 REAL PEOPLE who probably like you, or want to get to know you. Hell I'm sure most of them would be more than happy to "suck your tits" but I'm shocked they actually said it. The ones who just say "Hey" probably do want to have sex? I mean if this is OLD and you have pictures? I'm confused what else you'd be offering? It's work to read reddit too but you and I are both here. Except reading reddit isn't getting you sex, or m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:56 PM
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I agree the average penis size is plenty for most women. They do say that they don't need porn star sized members. Then we see how they all act when pics of Drakes dick leak. Average may be perfectly fine, great even. The female lust after black dudes or very large dudes makes me think that in fact, they'd like it as big as possible. JS. I could be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:35 PM
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I think any man would date any woman he likes. As long as he is available. No man is looking to anyone else about who to date besides himself and the other person. If a guy will not date you, but likes you, he's dating someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:31 PM
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I can sympathize with socially inexperienced guys. They face a very steep learning curve, and due to how this plays out the rejection and awkwardness is front-loaded. This can be very discouraging and difficult to overcome, because it's not really a skill that you can become adept with by yourself. It's not like practicing piano at home being able to play publicly once you're good enough. Even when you're bad at it, there will be people there to witness it and the way they handle it can be painf…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 08:27 PM
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Hey, I appreciate that! I'm sure I can find someway to not feel like a piece of trash for not being in a relationship. This convo sure made me feel like one. Getting of this website will probably help. Have a great weekend🤘🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:56 PM
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I'm looking for a relationship where I don't have to be the sole support unit in their live. That's a great way to put it! It's hard to be someones only source of human connection. That is how my ex treated me. Made it where I couldn't even hang out with my few friends from HS. God forbid I meet new people or a new friend. Good from me to look at it from this point of view. Cuz I was miserable being treated like that! I wouldn't want to treat a woman like that. Maybe that is a big reason women d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:49 PM
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Wouldn't you want to be the best thing in someone's life? Seems like a nice spot to be. But that's coming from my perspective. I can imagine a woman feeling off put by that if they want to be more open and not locked down to any one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:41 PM
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I have understood you this whole time, friend. I'm following the u/TRTGymBro1 train because it's probably going somewhere interesting. I absolutely agree with this comment and I do see where you are coming from and would love to be in that mind state!!! However this is how I, and many will read this. People who cannot love themselves (me) are doomed to live miserable lives. Women have options so they don't actually need to be in relationships to get validation. Women want men who are already hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:38 PM
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Makes sense I guess. Idk what you'd call it if you were single and have no want for sex or relationship and then just like someone and decide that maybe you do want those things? I guess it wouldn't be called lonely though, so you're right. From this comment section even I've learned that men should never chase women, as it will turn them off. And men, if attractive, should be the ones being chased exclusively.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 07:10 PM
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What on earth are women getting into relationships for if not on account of them being lonely?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:35 PM
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I also don't know that I find there are more advantages to wanting a relationship/sex than if I didn't. Again if I didn't want those things, I'd be currently happy cuz I didn't have them. When I was in a horrible relationship, and wanted to be single, I didn't want a relationship or sex. Then I left and felt great! Being single was soooo much better than being in an abusive relationship. That is still the case, just not in a good one either.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:34 PM
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Exactly you were strangers? And you had to go out and meet this person? Probably actively wanted to date her? Wanted to have sex with her? Loved her enough to marry her even?!? I just can't imagine that a happy relationship came from anything other than you actively trying to date your current wife. No I think you were born a little baby. Then you grew up into u/TRTGymBro1 lol No I think you moved through plenty of different relationships and had plenty of heartbreak. No I don't think my "way" w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:30 PM
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Thanks bro! I hope so too! You're a boss and I'm glad you have a happy relationship too😊 Here's to hoping!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:09 PM
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I wouldn't want you to! You seem very happy! I'm genuinely happy for you dude! Just making a point that trying to convince people it's ok to not be in a relationship and that you don't need one to be happy, while actively being in a happy relationship. Idk it just seems a little mean? Like I get you're trying to help but it comes off as you know better than us because you are in a relationship. You probably don't really know what it takes to actually get into the relationship your in. Your partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:07 PM
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That follows, and I'd agree. I would want women to have a guard up for people. The problem is usually past relationships with men they were actually sexually attracted to that hurt them in one way physically/emotionally. And sure, they may not rationally think that, but the number of women who think that if a man talks to her for a minute, he wants to have sex and they need to gtfo. Like we are all some fantasy villains. Idk, maybe people are like that, and I'm just naive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:02 PM
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I don't want to come off rude. Would you be willing to leave the relationship you are currently in? Would you bring single change anything about your current mentality?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:18 PM
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I'd sure like for this to be the case dude. You talked to me the other day, literally about this same thing. It's funny to me, how well you seem to be doing in your life. They you come here to try to help people. I hate that your words fall on deaf ears, mine included. I'd love to take your words and say "He's right! If I just stop wanting to have sex then all the ladies will come running". If I were like you, and already having sex with various females whenever I so choose, then I'm sure I'd no…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 05:13 PM
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That's true. A female serial killer (even if it was string of bad relationships/flings) would have a hard time convincing everyone they were not a misandrist, I agree. Since I don't have the data I'll just assume that I'm wrong about the criminal justice system. And the thought that a man would be a serial killer of women for the sake that they are women (usually a specific looking type) does happen. These are serial killers with psychological problems clearly. I wouldn't put murders of any gend…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:53 PM
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That is true. Plenty of men do have those sorts of opinions. If I could expand on that idea it holds at least a little bit of weight. Female sexuality is empowered at this point (I approve). While even the idea that a lot men would want to have sex with women makes their stomach turn. It seems to male sexuality is demonized and treated like a nuisance at best and assault at worst. That would be fine if they were not sexually attracted to men and they didn't give them the time of day. These women…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:46 PM
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There are LOTS of men KILLING women for being women?!?! Tf? And do something about it? They have already disseminated male hate to the entirety of western culture. That's wayyy more damage to the human race than any crazy lady killing some guys. Most people wouldn't care about that? They probably had it coming to them? They probably tried to sexually assault her and she just defended herself. Even if she did get charged with murder she'd be out in a year or 2. The fact that words can be violence…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:32 PM
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We should be upset with "bad men". I don't see why we should not be upset with the women who associate with them. The ones who give women the impression that men are "bad" when clearly it's just the sort of men they choose to spend time with. Not to say that they were asking to be sexually assaulted or anything like that before someone takes that out of context. What are we going to say to these "bad men" that would possibly change their actions or ways of being ? Not that we could convince wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:23 PM
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They probably are scattered around the world within many pockets of regular and shitty people. The sorts of women that exist around them physically. What sorts or women should we be associating with? I personally try to associate exclusively with women who have as few negative opinions of men as possible. Most of those women who do have positive opinions of men have a very narrow view of what men should be. That or they are very openly sexual, which is fine. Better than the alternative.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 09:13 PM
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No they are mostly just decent men who thought women were telling them the truth about what they liked in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 08:47 PM
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I think you hit the nail on the head honestly
/r/seduction25/04/24 08:41 PM
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I feel like at this point I have a keen understanding of the female position in all of this. I feel bad for the women who don't have it as easy as the guys on this site make it out. I can understand why they wouldn't want to be in a relationship at all and why sex may be different for the majority. I don't have a fear of being alone forever. I have a fear of being alone right now. Fear that time, location, access are the real factors at play. Plenty of women, who could have been great for me, de…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:48 PM
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I guess I'll give the trtgymbro life a try and see if it makes any of your concepts easier to grasp. It's not like I can't understand where you are coming from. I just can't agree because that's not what I see in the world. Good luck to you too man, in whatever gives you trouble.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 08:18 PM
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I mean, I agree with everything you said. I will stick on your word "should". Yeah men should want to be in relationships, not need to be in them. The biological urge to ejaculate aside, men need sex and relationships to feel needed. Women, while not having sex or being in a relationship, will still feel needed. This is because our society tells women they are more than their sex. That their sex isn't important and it's who they are as a person that matters. Except they will treat the men in the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 07:30 PM
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I guess the issue is the WANT. No one wants to be the secondary position and be the one that wants a relationship more. I'd be so happy to just never date again. I'd be able to go out with my friends and laugh and have fun. I could go to the club and dance or do whatever it is single women "who don't need no man" do. Being a man, that just isn't the case. If you are a man, who is in a relationship with one woman, or completely single. You will ALWAYS be on the receiving end of these possible los…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 05:00 PM
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This just makes me wonder why any woman would even try to be "friends" with a guy. This is obviously the intent so any "friendship" will be surface level at best. I've been friend zoned and also had to friendzone women. I just respect them enough not to lead them on. I've been "friends" with women who seem to want more than friendship with me, but want to be able to get to know me or be able to be friends with me before being lovers. This doesn't work for anyone involved. They just lose respect …
/r/seduction19/04/24 04:18 PM
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I completely agree with this. Except I'm not sure I care or want a monogamous partner at this point. They all seem to be like OPs post. Will want you to be exclusive with them regardless of their relationship with you. I'd rather a woman who is at least open enough to say she isn't monogamous. And not be lying about it. I get ghosted constantly on dating apps cuz I'll be upfront when the women "want a real relationship". Like I'm sorry, but I doubt it, you're on online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 04:40 PM
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Hope we can both be more attractive with that knowledge. At least we'll be more fun that way! Always a good thing🤘😁🔥
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 05:12 PM
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My thoughts exactly. Probably was going to say stability or caring or something. I've talked to seemingly stable women on here. And let me tell you they don't like "boring". Which is all you are doing by trying to not be "toxic"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:13 PM
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What does your security attract you to? If you don't mind me asking?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 01:02 PM
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True that! I've not been happier in my life. Even if I'm lonely, I get to be free. I have met really great people online who have been so supportive of me. Like you, I really appreciate the convo, miss. I've started to make friends in real life too!😁 I wish I could have gotten that in my relationship, god! Like a little appreciation could have gone soo far!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:42 AM
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I've been doing really well finding myself, I'm back, actually. Lol. I deserve a really good partner. And I deserve forcing myself to wait to find that person, wish I'd met more people. Guess that makes sense now. Though I'm certain I'm not happy being alone, now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:33 AM
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Yup! I've learned that. I've learned so much recently. Thank you for being so sweet! It's is very much appreciated. It's nice to talk to women who appreciate their partners and really men in general! Sadly, half the women I do talk to on places like this would laugh at my face for even mentioning abuse from a woman to a man, let alone that man being me. Sad people, really. Keep being awesome!😁
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:19 AM
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Well, yeah, why would she? Lol. If I spent time with others, there was less of my time for her. If I went out anywhere, I'd need friends for that, I'd have at least the opportunity to meet some other woman. I'm starting to realize how weird my relationship was. Or my parents' relationship for that matter. I'm not sure other people have all those same issues. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 03:05 AM
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Yeah. It's the worst, I miss the connection a lot. I've gotten to find myself again, which is nice. I get to have friends! I get to talk to people whenever I want, like now, for instance. I get to wake up every day for me. Dating hasn't really been the easiest Most people dating seem horrible frankly. Reddit has some decent people, I've actually met really great people here. Still end up fighting over crap for no reason. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:57 AM
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Fair. Lol. I'm just lonely and left my horrible ltr of a similar variety to yours. I'm glad you appreciate your husband. Go tell him you love him❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:42 AM
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Nope. You seem like a relatively well functioning adult. Get off reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:40 AM
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Thanks, I will. Do you talk to your husband like you talk to these scum on reddit? Do you have conversations about the way you feel about men with your husband? How does he feel about your opinion of the male sex? Does he get appreciated for cleaning your house? Does he get appreciated for being so "perfect" or are you not the kind of woman who appreciates men like that? Would that be to "quirky" of your husband, to have emotions and want appreciation? Something tells me yeah, it may be a little…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:31 AM
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Agreed! As far as I can tell at this point, "toxic masculinity" was a trick. I'd give it all the same credit as women telling me to "be nice" to them. Why? So you can not like me and like some other dude that will not "just be nice". We gotta be toxic, fellas🤘 Wish it weren't so
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:26 AM
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I think you are confused about male and female relations in general...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 02:19 AM
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Absolutely agreed. It's not "assholes" who hook up and get married. Lol. It's the asshole who comes in, does whatever they want to a woman, then leaves for something else. That somehow is the key to all of these stories. If you don't leave, you are the "nice guy" who gets left, and if you do leave, maybe you get to be "the one that got away." Sounds so much better than being the loser who got dumped, as sad as that still all is. The only way for a woman to have any respect for you, is to never s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:10 PM
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I also think society at large has lied to young men, not just popular media. You would think, being a child, that some romantic comedy could somehow be indicative of real life. I think a lot of young women feel that way, too. We don't think sex or women is a reward for "good behavior." Most of us realize at this point what is going on, more and more each day. We stopped looking to media and to what women say they want. We started looking at the men you actually choose to spend time with, and we …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:51 PM
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Fucking gottem🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:36 PM
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A tolerable personality? Do you think that your diatribe against half the world population is a tolerable personality type? That being said, all of what you said is almost 100% true. I think the only disconnect you have is that men would like to have sex with attractive women. We don't "look up" to assholes who "pump and dump bitches". We look up to men who have the sexual attraction to be able to sleep with women we would like to sleep with. Yeah, I'm pretty nice, not the nicest, just honest. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 07:34 PM
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I absolutely agree! I wouldn't know what to do? Lol. Give ugly dudes a chance, sure maybe? Say they are ugly, no. Think they are ugly, also no. So don't be with someone you don't think is attractive enough for you. It does feel like women are being stuck up when they date only extremely good looking dudes. But I'm sure we look the same only dating good looking women. I guess just do whatever you want and don't let anyone tell you what to do. Also try not to think that people who are less attract…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 01:07 PM
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My thoughts exactly! Are any women really like that? Seems like they either are like how I said. Or if they are "for the streets" idk that they have anyone to look up to? They are already doing what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:53 PM
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I think my child eyes must be confused then. Yeah you can fall in love without seeing someone naked. You can fall in love with someone, be in a committed monogamous relationship, and still not have sex really. Seems like the other side of that coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 08:02 PM
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I mean, you said that the "assholes" were "successful" so even you think they are winning. Why shouldn't a dude? Not even at all true, either. Sex and love go hand in hand. I think that a woman would be envious of a woman with a great relationship with their husband who loves them and adores them. If she wanted to be a gold digger, she just could do that. But obvious they don't want that, they are jealous of the woman who can get a guy to be loyal to her, and that looks beautiful and is happy. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:48 PM
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Jeez shots fired. But you ain't wrong. Guys gotta be both ultra unwaveringly masculine and strong, while also sweet and kind and never offend anyone. It's literally polar opposites. I think the moral of the story is that you can't please everyone. Have as much or as little sex as ud like. And live your life according to your own values, no one elses. ✌️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 08:30 PM
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I love this post so much. How many fucking times I've heard "Just treat us like humans" so many times. Have literally gotten laughed at in private fb group by a woman making that same argument. I said that I don't feel like women treat me like a human either. Like the nerve of some people. People treat people like shit and also treat people really well. Treating women plutonicly is exactly how women don't want to be treated, by a man persuing her. If you do just want to be friends, treat them li…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:24 AM
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Personal experience in my own and other relationships I've witnessed first and second hand. Just speaking my truth and wanting to feel seen. I'm just venting on here like 99%. Things are going ok, but yeah, women treat men like that plenty. I'm perfectly willing to recognize the absolute trash that women have to go through, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 05:03 AM
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No, I actually do believe that women like large, apparently dad bod type dudes. I was just asking. Lots of different women like lots of different stuff. Dad bod isn't my body type, but some women do like mine too, even if it's not the most muscular either, I'm trying. Lol. I was questioning the reasoning or what about that is sexy. Since I don't find large men attractive, it's hard to know, I guess. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:59 AM
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Makes sense to me, actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 04:56 AM
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As for why dad bods are attractive it’s because hugging a chiseled statue is uncomfortable Yeah. I follow that. Sucks I've got such a high metabolism and am atheltic. So yeah I'm probably not the comfiest cuddle I guess. Lol Yeah, that's exactly how my ex treated me. Like I was some stupid dude who would cheat at the first drop of a hat from some slut. Like, yeah, I like women, and I like sex, kinky stuff even. I also loved her and wouldn't have done that in a million years, that jealousy and an…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 06:25 PM
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I absolutely agree. Like even if I were not abused personally, if people like me were being abused, I would feel really bad about myself and think I'm not worth being alive. (Kind of how I grew up) So I can understand the situation. I think it's great that women have more automony now. I'm hoping we can be as equal as possible, thay would be dope. You can call it what you'd like. Idc if 80% of men die sexless losers or whatever, no skin of my back. But if a women is going to be with me, she's go…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:41 PM
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I mean, yeah, that is attention grabbing. Positive female sexuality is great. Lots of fun. I'd love casual sex but idk who cares, I guess. Most women who are actually down are trash people I've found. And they are looking for way less nice people than me anyway so sol, I guess. Haha. Yall do not need to be super hot to attract anything less than top 1% chads. Women just, in my experience, like to try to shack up with dudes who are very strong and dominant and try to change them. That seems to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:32 PM
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Ok well I doubt that highly. Just saying. Since I'd do pretty much any standard man thing for a woman anytime, charismatic and can hold a convo, work out every day, have a good job (Network Analyist for health system), apparently have the genetic lottery facial features and metabolism. No, the entire point of the “dad bod” meme is that women DO find it sexy. See that I just don't understand. I do not think women actually think that is sexy, just safe. I could really be wrong since I'm not a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:23 PM
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I mean that the women with kid/kids I wouldn't mind datinf have attachment issues and emotional trauma from being women in the world.... Not that hard to follow I wouldn't say. If you're genuinely reading to understand at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:17 PM
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What? Are we using the same subreddit? This place is like 90% men complaining about women. I'm new to this sub, yall are a lot nicer than most subs on this platform. No, a switch did not flip. How old are you? 31, and what would be a good analogy for the situation? Train wreck, dumpster fire? Like we all pretty fucked up around here, js.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 05:15 PM
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I won't, not anymore. I would probably tolerate that again from someone, but now I realize that it's not sexy and no one is going to want me to try so hard, so I've no idea how to handle things I guess. Lol. Just working, having fun, and talking to people. Ain't no women out here trying to date anything less than a top 1% chad anyway. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:30 PM
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Yeah, I didn't mind the challenge of trying to compete, and most women want you to compete for their affections. It does seem like dating and relationships are just a series of hoops to jump through. That's just my interpretation, though. Friends are generally the only ones that don't want you to jump though a million hoops, in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:28 PM
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I absolutely agree with that, too! She's already regretted her decisions. She used to talk to any dude who wanted "to talk." Didn't really bother me until She's going to halloween parties without me. Pretty obvious what had been going on the entire time. While I was forbidden from even using fb 🤣 Byeeeeeee✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:17 PM
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No, she did want to get married, actually. She was pumped about it. L But it just ended up being yet another challenge that I was supposed to surpass while also being constantly demeaned and treated like I didn't deserve the person I was with. So yeah I couldn't do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:15 PM
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And I'm pretty sure most women who are in relationships see how far they can push their partner. To see if they are loyal or will stay "no matter what." When that behavior is toleranted, women lose interest. Didn't realize that at the time. Don't let your partner treat you like a piece of meat or a trash can or a butler for that matter. If I had thought women liked self-respect, I would assume they wouldn't tell dudes to stop repecting themselves constantly, not that that is what you are doing. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:12 PM
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Yeah you'd think that, me too. I mean we were long distance for half that time. And me trying to marry her actually told me she wasn't the one. There is no appreciation for literally anything I do, besides sex. Yeah I too have learned the hard way. People are pretty fed up with one another it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 04:07 PM
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Also, at this point, I'd date a thick single Mom and help her raise not my kid/kids (if that's what they want). That is apparently the threshold most men will not cross. I however would but it seems like even that group of women absolutely hate men for the most part, or act so entitled that yeah couldn't possibly, Miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:57 AM
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I do agree, actually. Women are still out here looking for "traditional men" that is actually the comments I see way more. Not men being upset that they can't find a trad wife. They can't find a woman who would have even a nice conversation with them. Or even want to be courted at all. Idk if that is too traditional at this point. I'd love for women to ask men out. That would be a great world, currently. I don't really love the whole boss lady vibe in a relationship, but it is hot and powetful w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:37 AM
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Women just get to be "thick" now while dudes have "dad bods." One is still sexy. The other is not. I'm 5'8 and have very thin hair that I shave, in a if you grew it out it would be good, but I can't. Can't get taller either. Been hitting the gym hard, talk to as many people as I can, going to do fun things with my friends, working hard at work, buying new clothes. I kind of think I won the genetic lottery on facial features and metabolism. Height at the end of the day is all these ladies are rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:28 AM
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But that should be none of the women in the current dating market. So why are things still that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:24 AM
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Not true, really. My 8 year ltr was really just a one night for both of us, but we did a great job, so it worked out for quite a while. Also, she had quite a bit of power with that one night stand, ngl. Our relationship was based mainly on sex though so it's different than at least most talked about female relationships. Also, women use men for all kinds of other things besides sex, seeing how long they will tolerate abuse or how long they will continue to do everything for them while not liftin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:15 AM
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I don't know that a woman needs to improve her status to be with any man, really, but that could just be me. I do agree, though. Just look for less attractive people and give up trying to date. Women will get around to ya when you're good enough. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 11:06 AM
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Oh, I think I misspoke somewhere, I’m neurotypical. Not the manic pixie dream girl nor the neurotic introvert. I like people and I go outside. Sorry. No, I got that you were saying you're neurotypical, yeah. You seem pretty grounded, from what I can tell. I grew up in the woods mostly, but work inside a comfy office now! Haha. Talk to folks constantly when I'm not arguing with ppl on here for whatever reason...lol The best interactions in my life come from strangers when I wear a free hugs shirt…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:25 AM
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Hey, I don’t have blue hair, a single tattoo, and only one cat. You should get some tattoos, but keep it to the one cat. Lol You are most certainly not the typical ND on this site! Or most others I've been on at least. It's funny how we can get shit from both sides, some judging our lack of hyper masculinity and others any trace left of it. I'm thankfully pretty damn close to the real middle. I get to be hated by conservatives and leftists alike!🤣🙌 I appreciate you just saying what you like. Mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 01:00 AM
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I’m glad you left. And I hope the next one appreciates you and fucks you silly. Thanks, me too! Lmao. You're great! That all really does make sense. My ex was quite a diehard leftist, hence the abuse, I guess. I've taken both pills and went to rehab at this point, so I really couldn't care less. I don't expect a woman to be submissive. I do think more conservative women are great, and stoic practice is something we all can benefit from. Emotional disregulation in men is pretty ick, so I feel ya …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:56 PM
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We all don't think that. I agree completely. How'd you expect to dom when you need your diaper changed? But also needing any kind of emotional support from a woman kills the mood for them, for some reason. Dudes have been told their whole lives to not stand up and be strong because that's toxic. But that's again my life experience. I got to do all the menial housework and chores, take care of animals, go to the store, make food, clean up, buy her whatever she wants. Still no sex and I get told, …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:24 PM
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Men in LTRs lose attraction to their partners because of mental and psychological abuse. That's what happened to my relationship. And I'm sure most other sexless loveless relationships. If you treat your SO like they are your property, it is their responsibility to prove you wrong. Doesn't matter the sex of the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/24 10:12 PM
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All very true. Sad world. We men all suck and these women would like us to all die. There, I said it. 🤣✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:06 PM
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Ok. Well, I disagree. Since I've seen that irl, too. Seems like a rock and a hard place.
/r/seduction07/02/24 07:51 PM
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Yeah, except people get called rapist for trying anything now adays. So I just keep myself to myself.
/r/seduction07/02/24 07:47 PM
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It's so funny to me that you never really know. Like you could get invited over to that house and try to have sex only to be rejected. If you don't try, then you fail, too.
/r/seduction07/02/24 07:30 PM
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