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I love this idea. I’m going to try these out and see if it generates the feelings I’m looking for
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/23 08:02 PM
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Well that was the point of asking this sub, right? How can I feel this way sooner so these men wouldn’t have to wait too long.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/23 08:01 PM
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Da Firstly thank you for such thorough and actionable advice. I feel like I have a direction and that greatly helps. Some clarifications and follow ups. 1) What has helped you with the ‘actually feeling emotions in the moment’ bit? I find it hard to be mindful with an attention deficit brain that’s always spacing out. 2) I don’t use BCP and I’m not sexually active outside LTRs but I’ll keep this in mind. 3) Love this. I feel like I’m drawn to certain personality traits and physical features but …
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/23 03:25 AM
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What would be your advice to me then? I don’t think I chase unavailable guys. But I can’t imagine staying with someone I barely want to touch for 50+ years either. Help a sister out.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/23 12:47 AM
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Thank you for your elaborate reply. You make a lot of sense. I’m not sure how to vet for men who spark this fire in me early on. Though you hit the nail on the head as that’s exactly what I’m looking for. I always assumed that the passion would automatically come if there was compatibility in other areas but I guess not. I wish there was a way to vet for both marriage compatibility and chemistry.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/23 10:51 PM
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I find them very attractive to look at but the thought of kissing them or holding their hand sometimes puts me off. And it’s not that they aren’t confident and intellectually stimulating. I just find it hard to establish romantic love till there is serious emotional connection.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/23 10:41 PM
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Thank you. I am trying to intentionally date and steer relationships towards milestones. I hope I luck out and find someone attractive who also possesses the qualities I want in a husband. Wishful thinking.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/23 10:35 PM
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I appreciate the reply and agree with the article. But I’m not dealing with a man who doesn’t want me back. I’m only wondering if I’ll eventually grow to love men I don’t desire at first (because so many women do). I actually never pursue men who don’t show much interest at first for this very reason. I was afraid that the answer is that I won’t be able to tell till I invest time and energy into it. But it is what it is. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/23 10:31 PM
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I’m South Asian and almost all my family members and friends had arranged marriages. I don’t like how a few examples of successful marriages are used to convince everyone that AM is better than dating. Yes, many couples in fact do have successful arranged marriages but many also don’t. The stigma of divorce and remarriage is so high that people choose to stay unhappily married. This unhappiness projects on their families. Amongst the friends who are in my age range (25-35), I’ve noticed that peo…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/23 10:10 PM
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The past is bound to resurface at some point. If you see a future with this man, you should be honest about the points that you mentioned. You only have to mention the high level points. Tell him you’ll elaborate only if he feels comfortable. Sometimes, they’ll want to know everything. Sometimes, they prefer to not know the details so they feel at ease.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 08:23 PM
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+1 to this. I find it ridiculous that THIS is what people consider triggering. It may be a dream scenario to some but OP may be an awesome person who deserves someone like him. The purpose of this group is to give straightforward advice, not make judgements on whether someone matches up to their partner. A lifestyle change can be hard for anyone. Especially because some Masters degrees require a complete re-assessment of priorities. I went to B-school myself for an MBA and barely had time to eat…
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/23 07:52 PM
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Oh wow. I never though of this as a solution. I did attend a therapist recommended workshop on how to better manage anger triggers. From what I’ve heard, abuser intervention programs focus also a lot on how to manage gaslighting, control and other things which I’m not sure is relevant to me. But let me see if there are any excerpts that are useful to my situation. Thank you for your help!
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/23 04:45 PM
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That’s a nice lifelong rule to follow. I feel like I know of this in theory, but in the past I’ve gone from 0-100 really fast. The mean action occurs so suddenly that no theoretical knowledge at that point is strong enough to prevent it. But thanks a lot and I will try to be better. I really appreciate it Regarding the respect thing, I’d like to err on the side of respecting everyone anyway. I’m definitely going to find a kind, reliable man worthy or respect but I wouldn’t want to be mean even i…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/23 04:36 PM
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