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Yeah man, it got passed last year at the UN Special Session for Dating and Relationships. It also defined long-distance relationships as anything over 100km (about 60 miles), and defined a Cougar as a woman a) over the age of 38 who is b) dating a man no older than half her age + 5 years. Can't believe you didn't hear about this. So if you do decide to date her, I would be very careful and maybe get her some tall boots, or else you should slouch when you're out in public together.
/r/seduction22/05/17 06:49 PM
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Yes, the official limit is 7.25" difference if you're under 6 feet tall, and 8.5" difference if you're over 6'. Sorry to tell you that, but rules are rules.
/r/seduction22/05/17 02:20 PM
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Again, you don't need to worry about whether or not you can get into an LTR. You need to worry about whether or not you can have a conversation for 5 minutes with a stranger. Succeed at that a few times before you worry about what kind of relationship you're capable of. Have you taken any action since last time I sent you a message? If not, why are you wasting both of our time with endless words?
/r/seduction21/05/17 06:53 PM
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I have no idea if the shirt thing would work, having never tried it. What I do know is that there is a CHANCE you might meet someone by doing that, and there is absolutely 0 chance of meeting someone by staying home posting on Reddit, so it would be better than what you're doing now. I have tried a lot of brazen things before. Some worked way better than I thought they would. Some didn't work at all, and were mildly embarrassing. However, nothing I did ever got me physically harmed, or had any l…
/r/seduction19/05/17 01:14 PM
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100% right. There is no shortcut. You have to consistently put in the work. It will take time. However, the time is going to pass anyway, and you're either going to spend it by pointlessly posting here as you have been doing, and be the exact same self that you so loathe currently, or you can spend the time putting in the effort and reaping the rewards.
/r/seduction18/05/17 08:35 PM
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Dude, stop blaming everything on your autism. First off, you're self-diagnosed, and from reading a lot of your posts, it sounds more like you're just a normal guy who has low self-confidence and hasn't built up much social skills. Furthermore, even if you're the most autistic person ever to walk the earth, using that as an excuse is sabotaging yourself and doing the opposite of helping. So let it go. I've given you tons of alternative suggestions: Get fit. Learn skills. Help people. Force yourse…
/r/seduction18/05/17 08:33 PM
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I see you've resumed posting stupid shit on Reddit. Did you take any action since you asked for help yesterday?
/r/seduction15/05/17 01:36 PM
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What are you after here? Are you hoping someone will tell you that it's too late so you can justify giving up? It's not too late, you should be getting off your ass and doing something, but you're not doing that and you have only yourself to blame. Here's the good news: After reading this message, you can either a) do nothing, and feel bad about yourself, as you should, or b) do something, and then feel good about yourself. It's really not more complicated than that. I've already given you some …
/r/seduction14/05/17 05:08 PM
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You don't stop feeling like shit all the time by thinking more and reading more. You break the cycle by doing more. You say you won't accept living an entire lifetime without having a single intimate encounter. Sure seems like you will accept it, since apparently that's more palatable to you then putting yourself through some non-life-threatening discomfort.
/r/seduction12/05/17 02:09 PM
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If you would have met me when I was younger, you would have thought I was autistic too. I had a very narrow set of interests, didn't have many friends, didn't like spending time with other people my age or even my family, and couldn't get out of my own head and see a broader perspective if my life depended on it. Who knows if I was "officially" autistic or not. It really doesn't matter. I'm curious, are you going to do anything this week to move forward, or are you planning to keep doing the sam…
/r/seduction10/05/17 04:23 AM
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I recommend you stop reading; you have been doing plenty of that and, if there was any benefit to you before, it's not helping now. At this point, it's pathological: you are living vicariously through other people's experience, but experiencing nothing of your own life. Maybe you're hoping that if you read enough, or you just read the right thing, that things will change for you. That's not how it works; if it did, you would have changed by now. I can attest to the fact that people over 30 are a…
/r/seduction09/05/17 02:54 PM
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Yes man, you could. Will you ever try?
/r/seduction08/05/17 12:08 PM
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If you're worried about your twiggy arms, then work out. If you're worried about not being well-dressed, then dress better. Another weekend has come and gone, you've managed to waste plenty of time on reddit, but you've done nothing to improve your situation. You're a little older and a little less likely to ever have sex. I'm saying this for your own good: GO TAKE ACTION. YOU WILL DIE A VIRGIN IF YOU KEEP THIS UP.
/r/seduction08/05/17 12:06 PM
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The truth that I'm trying to convey to you is that there's a type of person who can start with nothing and be successful, and there's another type of person who can start with everything and still find a way to fail. And most people are in the middle: they are given more than some people, less than other people, and what they do with it is mostly due to their own actions. Success or failure comes from inside and goes out into the world, not the other way around. But I have a feeling you aren't r…
/r/seduction05/05/17 03:51 PM
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I think you cite it frequently even though every time you claim it doesn't help you. Some random Cracked author doesn't know everything about the world. That's his opinion. If you don't like it, or think it's not helping you, stop obsessing about it. The fact that you can't take action isn't the fault of women, or society, or the author of that article, or whoever you decided to argue with on reddit on any given day. It's 100% your responsibility. But let's play by your rules for a second. What …
/r/seduction04/05/17 06:57 PM
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You don't need more inspiration, you need to take action. You're here every single day, complaining, bitching, talking about how nothing will work and there's no use trying. Please for the love of God, either try or give up. Look back at your post history, scroll back for months or years. Nothing has changed, except that you've gotten older. If I had to bet, I'd say I could check your post history again this time next year and you'd still be doing the same thing. When will it end?
/r/seduction02/05/17 05:42 PM
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Not sure why, but I'm lucky that this clicked for me early on. Try taking a longer view of things, and looking at things from an outside point of view. Short term/personal is perspective is "that person didn't want to talk to me - what's wrong with me?" Long term/3rd person view is "What did I learn from that interaction?What can I do differently next time?"
/r/seduction28/04/17 01:35 PM
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the other reply is correct, it comes off as confidence and shows that you're present and engaged with the other person. Besides, it helps to practice always making eye contact so it's your default behavior, so that when you are attracted you don't have to do it consciously since it's already ingrained.
/r/seduction26/04/17 02:44 PM
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Make more eye contact You're supposed to be anxious. Deal with it. Be interesting and take care of yourself. Pickup should not be the only thing you practice and are good at. If you're not having fun, you're doing it wrong. Don't take anything personally.
/r/seduction25/04/17 10:55 PM
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Tell the second part of your brain to shut up
/r/seduction18/04/17 11:30 PM
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Guess you better give up then. Nobody with an ugly face has ever had sex.
/r/seduction18/04/17 11:28 PM
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Based on the fact that youve tried a million times and know from experience, or on something else?
/r/seduction10/04/17 06:25 PM
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I think momentum is a self-reinforcing cycle for good or bad. I'm actually in a bad cycle this week, where I drank too much on Saturday, so I was hung over Sunday, so I played video games all day and into the night, so I was tired on Monday morning, and being tired means I don't have energy and am not thinking clearly enough to break the cycle, etc. etc. etc. Contrast that with an ideal week, where I take time on Sunday to get groceries, cook a healthy meal, do some chores, and go to bed early. …
/r/seduction14/03/17 02:26 PM
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No, they should not point to "give up." The fact that you don't like yourself is your biggest barrier. You could start by working on giving yourself reasons to like yourself (eat well, start exercising seriously [not just walking a few times a week], read, write, create, etc), or you could just decide that you like yourself for no reason at all. It might seem like there are "unlimited options" out there, and yeah, it doesn't sound like you're going to be pulling strippers and fashion models righ…
/r/seduction13/03/17 03:05 PM
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have you given up or not?
/r/seduction12/03/17 08:51 AM
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I am sure, because I'm speaking from personal experience, because I go out and have interactions with people. When you do the same you can have an opinion on it.
/r/seduction12/03/17 08:50 AM
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Forget about getting reported for harassment. The way that this happens is an overly confident guy has an overpowering energy level, is super confident and sexual and unafraid, and this scares people. The shy guy who tries to say hi and is too nervous to touch the girl or say something cocky is never going to be reported for "harassment."
/r/seduction10/03/17 04:09 PM
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I mean you, I mean anyone else who is scared to take a risk, I mean myself if I get lazy and disconnected from reality. I mean everybody. It's harsh, but it's true and you know it. Again, the point isn't to beat you down, it's to try to help you acknowledge reality: posting excuses here isn't going to get you what you want. Going out and socializing isn't going to physically hurt you. If you want your life to change, you are going to have to go through some uncomfortable experiences. There's no …
/r/seduction10/03/17 04:07 PM
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I asked him this the other day. The answer is no, he hasn't ever approached anyone, at least in the last year. This guy complains constantly but is unwilling to take any advice or make any effort. It's depressing actually.
/r/seduction09/03/17 07:25 PM
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Apparently your need to feel comfortable is a higher priority to you than sex. Evolution literally exists to weed you out of the gene pool, since you're too weak and mentally fragile to even be mildly uncomfortable. "Slow death" my ass, you feel some anxiety, like everyone here did when they were just starting out. The difference between the people here who now have options with women and you is not actually looks, height, or money, it's the ability to try and fail even when it's difficult. Obvi…
/r/seduction09/03/17 02:33 PM
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Nothing wrong with that. You have two options then: Meet a girl who is willing to do have sex with you. This is achievable, but it will require you to get a girl back to your house willingly. To do that you're going to have to ask a girl to come to your house. To do that, you're going to have to be talking to a girl outside of your house. You probably won't get a good response to inviting her back to your house unless you've spent several hours with her, so you're going to have to be able to hav…
/r/seduction08/03/17 06:06 AM
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So what's the goal you're oriented towards?
/r/seduction07/03/17 02:23 PM
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I want results This is hilarious coming from you, who is completely unwilling to try anything.
/r/seduction06/03/17 04:52 PM
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I think you need to make up your mind, are you going to try to do this or give up? If you're going to do it, then go do it. If you're not, then stop posting negative shit and excuses here. People here are very willing to help, but we don't need any more of your pointless whining cluttering up an otherwise good discussion. Either start taking action, or head over to /r/incels where you can find like-minded people to validate your sob story and defeatism. Edit: Again this sounds harsh, but the poi…
/r/seduction05/03/17 08:17 PM
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STOP BITCHING AND GO TAKE ACTION
/r/seduction04/03/17 03:56 PM
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I notice you're posting a lot, but I wonder what action you're taking. In the last 7 days, how many times have you... approached a girl or talked to a stranger? exercised? created something? learned something new? did something interesting? If you're waiting til you feel great about life to take action, you're going to be waiting til you die. Start taking action consistently for a while and you might find the mental side takes care of itself. If I'm wrong and you are taking action, tell me. If y…
/r/seduction23/02/17 03:30 PM
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What are those passionate hobbies? I really want to know. That's a good starting point. Can you recognize all the negative stuff you're telling yourself? "This cannot work for me." "That's not me." "I am X." "I wouldn't want to bridge into social situations." "Socializing is the bane of my existence." None of that is objectively true, like gravity or magnetism are. They are just your subjective beliefs and perceptions about the world. about the world, which you're reinforcing the more you repeat…
/r/seduction22/02/17 02:29 PM
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Did you end up making the list of things you like about yourself? Sounds like a good place to start.
/r/seduction22/02/17 02:21 PM
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I didn't say anything about not having to expend tons of effort. I have a lot of advantages and still had to work at it, so if you have less than me you may have to work harder. C'est la vie.
/r/seduction21/02/17 04:56 PM
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In addition to what G_Refined said, decide to take in high-quality media (books, podcasts, full albums from lots of genres) instead of low-quality (Facebook news feed, clickbait, etc). This will give you new perspectives and a source to draw from in conversation. I'll reiterate G_Refined's point that you need to get our of your comfort zone and do actual things. If you're the organizer of an activity (get everyone together at the park, host a party, etc.) that's even better. Finally, practice an…
/r/seduction21/02/17 02:54 PM
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Seems like negative self-talk is the first thing you need to get over if you want to improve. "I have no fucking choice." "I'm a disabled autistic guy." "I have no advantages." "I have low prospects." "I can't improve the way you're saying." "I can't take your suggestions." Yes, some people WOULD be interested in something different. If your brain works differently, you need to find out how to use that to your advantage - that might mean being a little bit different. Most people I've met who thi…
/r/seduction21/02/17 02:26 PM
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Yes, you were the inspiration for this thread. I hope you'll consider the examples given here (especially /u/everydayvloke's response) and decide to stop telling yourself that you have no chance, and instead redirect that energy into trying new things until something starts to click, which it eventually will if you keep at it. If you don't do that, then I hope you'll stop visiting here and give up completely on women, instead of returning here to post negativity and excuses about why your situat…
/r/seduction21/02/17 02:16 PM
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exactly what I'm looking for, thanks man. if he's on this site, I'd love to hear him comment directly on the topic
/r/seduction20/02/17 06:05 PM
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Having some trouble parsing your first sentence - the idea is to provide some counter-examples showing that people with the same issues the complainers have can actually be successful. No point in denying that there certain norms in our culture about who should and shouldn't be successful - we all know it, especially people who don't conform to those norms. I'd like to demonstrate that that perception doesn't have to be reality.
/r/seduction20/02/17 06:03 PM
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I was expecting to read "turn gay."
/r/seduction19/02/17 12:23 AM
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This sub is for people who want to work towards success in this area no matter where theyre starting out. The sub for pathetic victims is over at /r/incels.
/r/seduction12/02/17 01:33 PM
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Start with the low hanging fruit: take care of yourself, exercise, eat well, wear clean clothes, shave, and dont have a disgusting house. All the tricks in the book dont make up for being a slob. Once thats done, you want to be moving towards the following adjectives: confident, happy, engaged, interesting, funny, relaxed, non-reactive. You want to put people at ease, not make them nervous. Mystery method is a good model for how an interaction goes from start to finish in general terms, but dont…
/r/seduction09/02/17 06:05 AM
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eye contact eye contact eye contact. Talk slow and make more eye contact. If you find yourself looking at something else besides her lips, then at that point you should resume making eye contact. Move within 3 feet of her if you're further away than that, but not too close. Then continue the eye contact. Blatantly obvious isn't a horrible thing, but if you really need plausible deniability, just remember that all good conversationalists MAKE EYE CONTACT.
/r/seduction02/02/17 05:13 PM
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You have a couple options: a) dont do any approaches until you get your invisalign off because someone might comment on it and hurt your feelings. B) do approaches anyway, and someone might comment on it and hurt your feelings. I think option B is in your best interest
/r/seduction26/01/17 03:18 PM
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If you ever see/say: No X is ever Y All A's are/do B You have to either N or M You're looking at a global generalization, and All Global Generalizations are False (see what I did there?)
/r/seduction28/12/16 10:38 PM
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Just one?
/r/seduction15/11/16 11:26 PM
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In my experience, what makes you interesting is what you DO, not some abstract idea of who you are. If you're a boring person, but you start doing 10 interesting things every week, congratulations, you are now an interesting person. The low-hanging fruit includes stuff like playing music, working out, going to meetup groups, reading, regularly practicing a creative hobby. So yeah, it is possible that you're a boring person right now, but there's a pretty simple fix for it.
/r/seduction10/11/16 05:47 PM
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Telling someone WHAT you like isn't that interesting. Mention it, but focus on WHY you like it. Is it the feeling behind the lyrics? Is it the stage persona? Is it the backstory behind the band? Is it the chops of the musicians? Is it because no one else knows the bands so you feel special? (Hopefully not). Just focus on what YOU like and WHY and don't put down anyone else for their preferences.
/r/seduction26/07/16 07:35 PM
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Maybe think of it in terms of "How does my relationship with clothes demonstratethat I give a shit about myself?" examples: At the end of the day, I put away my clothes or put them in the laundry basket rather than throwing them in a pile on my floor. This is because I give a shit about taking care of my possessions and my living space. I wear clean, neat clothes rather than dirty, wrinkly clothes. This is because I give a shit about how I look and smell. I budget enough money and time to buy th…
/r/seduction05/07/16 11:42 PM
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Sure, there are a few reasons I believe that: If a woman is ambitious/successful, then hard work is part of her value system. If a man is lazy, then those are not his values. Relationships work best when the two parties have some shared values. A hard-working man cares about his life and his impact on the world. A lazy man is just coasting through, trying to stay alive until he dies. Which one sounds more attractive? Willingness to work means willingness to contribute, to add value. Laziness mea…
/r/seduction22/03/16 11:01 PM
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I can relate to this problem, and I think there can be some validity to the feeling in some cases. For example, let's say I'm attracted to highly ambitious and successful women. Does a man who's lazy deserve a successful woman? I think no; a hard-working man passionate about his craft deserves her. Let's say I'm attracted to super fit women. Does a man who eats fast food and doesn't exercise deserve her? I would say no; a man who respects his body as much as she respects hers deserves her. What …
/r/seduction22/03/16 08:41 PM
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You can't control either so don't waste any more thought on it
/r/seduction20/12/15 08:26 PM
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As an exercise, pick a work out of one of the sentences above and see how many ways you could make conversation out of it. I'll use "free": Did you know today is national doughnut day? You may be able to get a free doughnut. One time I had a girlfriend whose mother was literally a slave in her childhood. I wonder how she felt when she was finally free. When I was about 13, a guy from my church was trying to tell me about a contraption that continuously generates energy. Even then I knew that fre…
/r/seduction05/06/15 03:03 PM
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Here are the 3 things that I think are most important when it comes to this: Take genuine interest in what the person is saying. If the other person is willing to talk about themselves, and you're interested in them, just keep asking questions and the conversation will keep going. Other people aren't as naturally garrulous. For these people, you'll have to contribute more content yourself. Just remove the filter and say anything about anything. If you're frequently stimulating your mind with boo…
/r/seduction04/06/15 05:54 PM
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Well written and informative
/r/seduction26/03/15 09:51 AM
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You aren't intrinsically shy, you just don't have the skills right now of opening up and initiating conversation. I used to be the same way. Now I'm what you would call outgoing, but that's just because I pushed through the wall enough times and now it comes naturally. The only answer I'm aware of is to act like an outgoing person a little bit every day until you're no longer faking it, it's part of your natural personality.
/r/seduction21/08/14 06:23 PM
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Try switching up your routine a little bit. Rather than asking for the number at the end, ask for it in the middle of a conversational thread - even if it's abrupt. Once you get it, pick up on the half-finished thread and keep the momentum going for a few more minutes at least. Another thing you can try: Once you get the number, if the interaction is about to end, try being very real with the girl. Don't try to "play it cool" (example: "Good talking to you, I'll hit you up sometime") Instead, ho…
/r/seduction30/07/14 09:10 PM
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I think this is one of the rare occasions when you can act a little silly or use some self-deprecating humor. While you want the girl to see you as "higher-value," in my experience you don't want her to see you as "out of her league." Normally I would advise against acting silly/dumb or using self-deprecating humor, but if the girl seems to be intimidated by you, try using a bit in moderation.
/r/seduction30/07/14 04:37 PM
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If you can't stop trolling, why not try including the person you're interacting with in on the troll. Make it a game with the two of you vs. something else, rather than you vs. the other person. I suggest working towards being positive and genuine, but this might be a small step in the right direction.
/r/seduction23/07/14 03:20 PM
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Here's some practical advice: Your mood may be affected largely due to your diet and other habits. Cut out sugar, add veggies, and get enough sleep & sun and you may find that your mood improves rapidly. If you live in a city (which it sounds like you do), check out Meetup.com. This is a very good way to meet people in an environment tailored to meeting people. When you go to one of them, talk to everyone, and if you want to hang out with someone tell them and get their number or email. This inc…
/r/seduction23/05/14 07:27 PM
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You're not being the flower
/r/seduction09/01/14 10:29 PM
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Sounds to me like a limiting belief. I suggest that there is a way to live your life which literally attracts people (men and women) to you. It takes work so maybe it's not easier, but it's also not impossible
/r/seduction23/06/13 03:29 AM
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Why is that?
/r/seduction22/06/13 01:50 PM
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if you are afraid you'll go in and not talk to anyone, or try to talk to people and get a cold response, try this: do something that makes you feel like you're OFFERING value, not trying to leech it off of others. The most obvious thing would be to bring jello shots or beer or something people would appreciate, but if you use your imagination you can come up with something you can do to make the party better for some or all of the people there.
/r/seduction18/04/13 06:29 PM
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