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Yeah, it was renamed "Scout Life" but its pretty much still the same sort of content in general.
/r/MensRights12/05/23 03:37 PM
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I just want to point out. The people we will send to space (men OR women) and the people who sign up to be on reality TV are different breeds...
/r/MensRights10/05/23 02:14 PM
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Is this a strange version of "Find the biggest dude, and fight him (make sure you win)" - Except for Girlboss'? Bravo, this is straight manipulation by her handlers. Sad that this NYT author is now part of the continued con.
/r/MensRights08/05/23 07:51 PM
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Fan of Norah as well R.I.P. I think you're going to generally find a wide spectrum of dudes here? I don't expect everyone to agree with everything I post. Also I was a real shithead when I first started posting here. I think trans men are stuck in the corner existing just like cis men. Have some of your favorite mind-altering substance (not too much, and not at all if you're sober!) and enjoy/hate the ride.
/r/MensRights03/05/23 06:35 PM
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I don't need society to be nicer to me to be a good parent. Sure as shit don't need praise. The only validation I need is that my sons are doing well.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 07:52 PM
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Funny you say that. I first created my account to bitch on MensRights when I was a sad, lonely bro who only had first dates. ~10+ years later and I poke the bees nest just so there's a different voice on occasion.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 07:00 PM
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You can't say that here. Downvoted myself to get the ball rolling.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 06:45 PM
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Admiral Charles Fritzgerald really did dudes dirty.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 12:55 PM
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In regards to market timing, single men have better market timing (more likely to buy a house when prices are low and sell when high). That's a good one. Buy low, sell high you say? I kind of feel like I've heard that one from infancy. "Buy low, sell high" - even in MMORPGs and random single-player video games with an Economy...
/r/MensRights13/04/23 01:32 PM
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Here to disrupt the echo chamber occasionally.
/r/MensRights30/03/23 12:58 PM
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https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/mar/30/the-men-who-give-up-on-their-spouses-when-they-have-cancer PEOPLE!!
/r/MensRights30/03/23 12:50 AM
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Lottery win leads women to divorce, Cancer diagnosis leads men to divorce. People, man!
/r/MensRights29/03/23 06:58 PM
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revealed in a subscriber-only Q&A with her fans The subset of people who would Subscribe to this model Attend a Q&A with this model should lead you to believe that conversations are not going to be the cutting-edge of good discourse... I could be wrong though, there might be some good stuff going on there. Probably not relevant to any of my interests though.
/r/MensRights29/03/23 12:27 PM
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There are facebook groups that hate you're a man, twitters that hate men, subreddits that hate men, youtubes and forums and blogs that all hate men. I don't care about that stuff. That's probably the easiest part. Gotta say if all those other things occur, I am too busy living my life to even process that it happens!
/r/MensRights21/03/23 02:37 PM
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Yeah so conversation with the mother. Telling the sister that your choices are not her concern.
/r/MensRights14/03/23 04:57 PM
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I have to listen to her sister preach far left feminism Tell her to shut the fuck up, and let you raise your child.
/r/MensRights14/03/23 04:19 PM
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But who cares. Let whomever wants to go their own way go. I always wondered why MGTOW was constantly attempting to reinforce their narrative, and it'll be the same for WGTOW.
/r/MensRights06/03/23 02:09 PM
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I think talking about stuff helps some people. Pretty sure it wouldn't help me through. I know my issues and accept them. I don't look at them as something wrong or troubling. They just are. Maybe my neurodivergence is geared toward just dealing with "it".
/r/MensRights01/03/23 10:29 PM
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There are some aspects to this ecosystem that are similar to a bucket, filled with crabs. It's not always like this! Just enough to see it on a regular basis, and to not be surprised when it happens.
/r/MensRights23/02/23 01:01 PM
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OH JEEZ I'm Sorry! It was in my buffer. I'm sure you weren't aware of the episode. Put the correct link. But it started off as a joke and now seems to have people to participate in the real world. And I guess, planning events for girls only. I find it hilarious to be honest.
/r/MensRights15/02/23 07:59 PM
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It was a great episode of Parks and Recreation. In order to find love for "beautiful spinsters". People take things to seriously, then heap additional seriousness on top of it! CORRECT LINK! OP IS not lyin. Downvoting myself.
/r/MensRights15/02/23 07:32 PM
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I mean. Sure she's "an adult"... So what if she can't drink in the US or rent a car (except New York/Alabama). We expect her to navigate the world as an autonomous free-thinking individual, and her direction is to take advantage of Leonardo DiCaprio. She's gonna be fine.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 08:07 PM
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I think women are kind of infantilized by default?
/r/MensRights08/02/23 09:01 PM
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Oh I am afraid of what algorithms may target my sons. Kinda wish I didn't click these links!!
/r/MensRights01/02/23 06:09 PM
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Oh hey Morgantown, WV is on there! I can tell you that is not the flex some of the posters here would think it is.
/r/MensRights01/02/23 05:45 PM
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Even though it may seem unfair to the father-that he is "supporting another man's child"-he is, in fact, supporting his own. It would have been incredibly hard, to not consider my sons my sons after two years... I get the point though, no winners here.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 07:22 PM
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Something he didn't like!
/r/MensRights20/12/22 06:37 PM
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Isn't 97% of the random video chat with strangers shit-talking?
/r/MensRights20/12/22 02:38 PM
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"Clickbait" - There may be something to it - neither sex wants to treat their sexual counterpart like a juvenile in every other aspect other the relationship. Its tiring.
/r/MensRights15/12/22 01:35 PM
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I explained the high suicide rates, the draft, how we lose in custody battles regardless of our status, how the me too and times up movement has now become a weapon, how we dont get doors opened for us, we dont get beers bought, we dont get our bags carried, we dont get all our female friends helping us just because we are attractive, we dont get special treatment, how while I supported the government not controlling a woman's body...a father of that child I believe should co-sign on an abortion…
/r/MensRights13/12/22 03:08 PM
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K. I'm not trying to pile on your professor, but it is a great argument, just needs additional support. Also I think it would make an interesting research topic (side-project?) if you wanted to pursue the field later on.
/r/MensRights08/12/22 08:53 PM
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Fair.
/r/MensRights08/12/22 02:29 PM
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Yup. I've "been kissed" many times and was supposed to feel grateful. I've had "test grabs" to make sure my crotch was worth their time. That's why I stopped going out when younger. When I brought it up I was dismissed. Its an interesting position to be in, looking back.
/r/MensRights08/12/22 02:07 PM
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TBH I'd be slightly disappointed that they didn't suggest more research is required... Is this Undergrad?
/r/MensRights08/12/22 02:03 PM
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I take some solace in realizing all of the problems people encounter are just remixes of the ones their predecessors faced. Right now the "Men's Rights Movement" is akin to second-wave feminism(?) and I bet there would be a lot to learn about how they navigated through it, if only the dudes involved weren't default anti-feminist.
/r/MensRights08/12/22 02:00 PM
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The woman from out of state i never met in person. Just text conversations. I'm not trying to be an asshole. You potentially gave attention/time/intimacy to not your wife. That shit hurts! Also you may be a better partner now, but it seems like she's still stuck in the pain. That's unfortunate. I hope that she'll be able to move forward, with or without you... At the very least make sure your collective children are supported.
/r/MensRights06/12/22 07:39 PM
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But i need this turnoil to stop for good. Please help. BRUH You two need to figure out a way to separate. She needs to get a job, because she'll be better off on her own. You'll be better off on your own. "inappropriate conversations" with women cheating three times cheating a fourth time Causing that dude to track down/find your wife! You say you've worked hard to restore/fix, but some things can't be fixed.
/r/MensRights06/12/22 03:59 PM
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Also don't forget HR (at least in the US) is there to protect the company.
/r/MensRights02/12/22 12:52 PM
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TBH, to a degree my College experience was like a strange Summer Camp. And this was over 20 years ago. Seems to have been worth it for the most part, although I may have benefited more jumping into work, then going to school part time or something. Did that post-college and paid off waaaaaay more.
/r/MensRights01/12/22 03:59 PM
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Oh I didn't finish my sentence on the first part! Too many tabs! I meant to say That that her words are being looked at via a modern lens. I have to imagine that she was surrounded by suffering, at home, in her vicinity and finally when she was on her own working. She was a rebel's rebel and at the time of her words it wasn't so much hypocrisy as striving for something that society wasn't going to let happen.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 03:26 PM
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not because men need it but because their wives and kids need it I've taken "sick" days to watch my kids, or when my better half could not. Sometimes (generally when they were on the up-swing), we had a lot of fun. I needed it too. Taking care of someone can be incredibly gratifying.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 03:14 PM
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Yeah, I don't think you can really interpret the words of someone who wrote in 1897, then worked in factories at the turn of the next century... I'll bet that she's an inspiration to some Radical Feminists though.
/r/MensRights30/11/22 01:56 PM
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Also apparently you can keep people from certain geographic regions from accessing your content? If they had any smarts (despite the fact they fucking made their content in the school...) they would make sure the entire Southwestern portion of the United States could not access it. But also, fucking film in your basement or something! DAMN
/r/MensRights16/11/22 08:05 PM
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Can't get past the blanket thread. That poor lady!
/r/MensRights16/11/22 05:59 PM
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But it can be when your goal is to find something specific...
/r/MensRights15/11/22 05:01 PM
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an incel called when that person can't find a husband? Incel
/r/MensRights11/11/22 08:15 PM
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I personally don't find issue with either term. There are things that certainly make the lives of men harder. Some of those things may be encapsulated by those two terms. But it is not the full story. I can say that "the patriarchy" caused me to think I needed to laugh at someone for displaying non-male features or something. However, as a man I eventually realized that those features were admirable in ways. Because "the patriarchy" allowed me to work through my feelings (maybe not in a way a fe…
/r/MensRights01/11/22 03:30 PM
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At that point the users of the boards are in a whirlpool of self-defeat. I'm kind of like the user above, I was an Incel, and just dealt with it. Until I wasn't. I didn't have a feedback loop of misery in my face. I have literal empathy because if not for the Internet being what it was ~01-05, I could have fallen in the trap too!
/r/MensRights01/11/22 12:53 PM
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Yeah I've had it happen a few times. I remember trying to go home late at night one time... Walked to the entrance to the apartment, with a woman i've never seen before a little bit in front of me. She was struggling with her bag (possibly scared I don't really know) at the door. I whipped out my key fob, beeped myself in then apologized for locking the door behind me because - Safety. To be fair I used to give of a slightly scummy aura, and drank a lot. Met her again at a condo board meeting th…
/r/MensRights31/10/22 05:09 PM
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Resentment. I hope the OP can figure out what her problem is. It's obviously already started to become the family's problem, based on the description of her reaction in front of the children. Unfortunately I don't see any responses from him... My suggestion is to not let this go.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 01:31 PM
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I do in fact love me some Idle simula... His examples/scenarios are overly-complicated. I guess that's to be expected from the outside. I think about the "decisions I make". There's no real... declaration. We just do it, and if I'm asked why, I explain. Same goes when she makes decisions. If its something we need to talk about, we talk about it. Its' freewheeling I guess. Also I've been horribly bad at times. Never been called a misogynist. I am starting to wonder if I've just done things comple…
/r/MensRights28/10/22 07:57 PM
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Is this fanfic? If not, the man you're engaged to should see a lawyer. If it is fanfic, then it's a little too much. I'd suggest bringing it down a notch.
/r/MensRights26/10/22 07:45 PM
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My wife certainly went out and had fun, and maybe entertained attention from other dudes when we were your age. Then she met me, and her boundaries came about after we talked about being serious... Heck, I admitted to some stuff that happened before the talk, and here we are - happy, committed and hopefully she'll get my Life Insurance payout at a convenient time/etc. I think you've just not met the right person. Enjoy the ride!
/r/MensRights25/10/22 04:00 PM
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Yeah, and no one should have to walk about with a ruler buuuuut...
/r/MensRights19/10/22 02:06 PM
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There are 300+ versions of Monopoly - this isn't a big deal.
/r/MensRights19/10/22 01:08 PM
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yet this question ”set her off”. You don't know what she's had to deal with?
/r/MensRights10/10/22 03:14 PM
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I would say for sure, don't let it build up. In the context of the other poster, find a tiny thing you agree with. She may come from her specific "feminist" perspective, but at least you may kinda-sorta be on the same page. If she brings up something she found on tik-tok or youtube, or whatever just nod and back off. You're trying to talk to her, not a content creator! (Who spent hours/days to craft something that is designed to get people to watch more)
/r/MensRights10/10/22 02:17 PM
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And finally what advice would you give a feminist raising a son? The part where feminism worries about men being able to express their feelings... I'm sure its there somewhere. I'll check 101. That should totally be emphasized. Being able to talk about and/or express what's going on is important for your son and whomever your son (if he chooses to) creates a life with in the future.
/r/MensRights05/10/22 07:00 PM
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But what irritates me beyond belief is the condescending tone and virtue signaling. I think you're in a what some refer to as a physical echo chamber. You can attempt to "argue" specific points, but I think your best bet to engage with your family is to find things you agree with and just add nuance in that regard. Essentially, adding grey to those areas. Also sorry, no one is going to "win".
/r/MensRights05/10/22 04:44 PM
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I read one part where someone said that they'd be willing to do it if they knew it was related to some sort of anxiety. Then someone said that if there is anxiety, it would be helpful if the person (man obviously) was upfront about it. But also, maybe don't ask right after the woman is recovering from childbirth, after 9 months of having their bodies irrevocably changed!
/r/MensRights04/10/22 02:29 PM
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Scrapped a Gritty Conan the Barbarian Series, Forced it To Move To Netflix So does this mean the Gritty Conan will come to Netflix? 'Cause that sounds great! I hope people get their heads chopped off, and someone loses a toe! So very Toxic!
/r/MensRights22/09/22 07:16 PM
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We have twice as many women flying US military jets as we do men teaching kindergarten. You can totally write that in an article, without a citation to back in up, and I'll believe it 100%.
/r/MensRights21/09/22 11:41 AM
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Oh gosh I now remember that this happened to me in college (wasn't Katy Perry obviously) and I did in fact feel some type of way about it. One of the worst parts was her telling everyone that I should be "happy" and me itching almost painfully, wishing to tell her that I was not and would definitely not like another kiss from her ever. I didn't, because I didn't want to hurt her feelings! Assault is assault.
/r/MensRights19/09/22 01:50 PM
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Depending on how long there is to prep - Read some "Feminism 101". Find stuff that you agree with, that supports your point. There will be a wedge, you literally just need to catch it. You can even start by stating you agree with them on a "bunch of stuff". There's a lot of literature and it's held to academic standards - why ain't no one studying men. They're going to talk about beer commercials and scantily clad women. Probably a good point. I know this part from experience - Don't look like y…
/r/MensRights15/09/22 01:08 AM
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blugh - I read it. I opened the link thinking to myself - "I don't care". I read a few paragraphs and was all - "Why am I looking at this". What the fuck.
/r/MensRights12/09/22 02:44 PM
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Is that Feminism, or a crazy woman who is nuts?
/r/MensRights02/09/22 02:30 PM
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I mean... don't tell my wife who I love... But yeah, I am not anywhere near the "ideal" physically, and yet - happy life with a wonderful woman! We have had conversations about how me being financially stable was a plus, but her not making any stupid financial decisions was a plus for me!
/r/MensRights01/09/22 06:11 PM
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When I found out that my in-laws decided to get proactive couples counseling before they were married, I knew I was headed in the right direction.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 05:27 PM
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The jokes/ribbing/fantasies/etc happened. But how many horny teenage boys actually lived their dreams? Not many. There's likely no real reason to suspect that boys will hurt your daughters, but the possibility is there? Shaking your fist, or making vague inarticulate threats in impotency seems to be something people have always just done. My oldest son just stopped trying to "go out" with the first girl who's dad threatened him. Him telling me it wasn't serious made no difference to him/me. It m…
/r/MensRights29/08/22 02:55 PM
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Schafler describes the kind of shame that young women express to her in her practice. I really do wonder. Is it that there aren't enough young men expressing anything to therapists so we have this one-way view of how things are? Survey says! Maybe! That appears to be a statistically significant difference(?) - So yeah. My wife believes wholeheartedly that I would not benefit from therapy (based on her experience, based on my personality) so my trials and tribulations from 21 -4x are lost to the …
/r/MensRights29/08/22 01:12 PM
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:)
/r/MensRights25/08/22 08:35 PM
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I'm of the belief that its not that important. Like - if you're with someone who wasn't a virgin two years ago, what does it matter now? But like you say - its your preference. And as such, you should be allowed to look for who you want. It does seem fairly simple.
/r/MensRights25/08/22 07:21 PM
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Yeah not sure how someone's sexual orientation is related to a person's personal habits... This seems like a stretch to get people worked up.
/r/MensRights24/08/22 11:43 AM
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Enough of a Feminist to make 'em mad when I point out specific issues/topics that are based on the literature! But not enough to get a shirt.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 07:44 PM
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She was a contrarian, and proud of it. I still think/talk about the bowling league section of Self-Made Man. Dudes today get their camaraderie playing online video games mostly(?) and I think there's something to be said about hanging out, and doing stuff (does not matter what!) "IRL". I recently sat in a room with a bunch of guys (and one lady "trainer") for work. I knew some of them from being in the same work environment for a long time. It was a blast. We talked about hunting, and beer (non-…
/r/MensRights19/08/22 04:17 PM
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The more often the PT article is mentioned, the more people have a chance to react. The reaction of certain segments will just be angry, reflexive hate. This is just the way it is. 1M Shiba Inu Cryptocurrency bet that he's going to turn this experience into a "Best-Seller" expose telling everyone the truth about how modern men are... broken, or whatever his editor believes will get more traction.
/r/MensRights16/08/22 06:21 PM
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Double-down and tell them that it's the kyriarchy, and when they look at you in confusion just give 'em a sad smile and tell them that they can just jump aboard the next set of theories if they pay attention.
/r/MensRights15/08/22 02:26 PM
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You understand that this site want clicks, and you've helped them out. Doesn't matter if the psychology is sound, or even if the article is good. They just want your views....
/r/MensRights11/08/22 07:39 PM
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right - hey why is this dude not in his box
/r/MensRights11/08/22 03:29 PM
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I didn't duct tape anyone to a wall, but I did wear a home-made metal helmet while drunk in college, and invite shots to the head... Ah youth.
/r/MensRights19/07/22 06:28 PM
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Interpersonal relationships are complicated. I just thought I was "OK" - not nice, but definitely not a true asshole. Pretty much I knew/know my failings and for the most part I am willing to admit and work on most of them. The mixture of whatever is in my personality works great for my wife, but would probably piss of some of her friends, and vice-versa. I almost went out with one of her friends years back, and let me tell you - I thank any higher powers willing to listen that it did not work o…
/r/MensRights14/07/22 06:21 PM
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Yeah I'm not reading teen vogue. Pretty sure none of my teen-aged cousins are reading teen vogue either...
/r/MensRights13/07/22 02:15 PM
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For a good 40 seconds after reading the Merriam-Webster definition of pusillanimous I thought maybe /u/GuaranteeUpstairs218 was the world's greatest Hacker or something. Learn new things every day!
/r/MensRights13/07/22 12:13 PM
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Are we on the fifth wave? I remember being sympathetic to Feminism a while back. But any question I asked was immediately answered with - "Go check out 101" , which I get. Having people constantly ask the same questions (even in good faith) is tiring! Then I happened to meet my now wife, and when I asked her she staunchly confirmed she wasn't a Feminist, and yet she had a ton of the Feminist stuff I though was positive. Then I realized that the labels are just... ways to separate ourselves or so…
/r/MensRights11/07/22 07:20 PM
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I'm appreciated. I also appreciate my wife. The person who is the mother of your child sounds pretty horrible. ​ She said my mother died 3 weeks ago and didn't want to hear it. Like I'm maybe willing to chalk this up to post-partum depression, but that's beyond the pale. This has nothing to do with "modern women" or whatever sociological issues we face as a society in general. This is a shit reaction. You don't have to take this, it could turn around and eventually you could become a great coupl…
/r/MensRights07/07/22 01:12 PM
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She now thinks by me saying that, I'm her ally. Sometimes the best thing you can do is be that voice in the background making someone question themselves. You know where she stands, she should know where you stand, and hopefully the 'toxicity' will not be as strong as it originally was/is. But not really up to you to improve her thinking - you're just giving her the gift of perspective.
/r/MensRights29/06/22 01:43 PM
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They say "what do you know about how difficult it is to be a woman??" ofcourse I know it! I lived 18 years being socially a woman! Super important that your voice is part of the conversation, at least in this HeteroNormativeCis-GenderedBiologicallyandSociallyPresentingMale's personal opinion (just some dude really). It is all incredibly complicated, and I don't expect there will be some sort of answer/solution within our lives. I see your post below about loneliness, and a response about being i…
/r/MensRights24/06/22 06:54 PM
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Ultimately I was told they "feel uncomfortable allowing me in their subreddit because I associate with MRAs" and am subbed here. That sucks, and its their loss. You can still be an animal rights advocate from the shadows - Helping them achieve their goal despite their efforts to... have less people around to achieve their goals. It is what it is. But also, personally I thought I could believe in Men's rights without being a "MRA"? Life is fucking complicated!!!
/r/MensRights22/06/22 07:55 PM
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Having different bodies on a magazine cover doesn't really strike me as a... Men's Right's issue. Is this just an attempt to defend Mr. Peterson at all costs? I think, and sometimes even say all kinds of crap, and when the people who hear the crap I may spout have something to say about it I'm never surprised! But my crap isn't ever directed at their image, or something they're truly proud of - and TBH the model should be proud to be on the cover of Sports Illustrated!
/r/MensRights20/05/22 12:06 PM
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Think I've heard that one before. Some strange, incredibly smart fellow named Pink Elephant or SWP Disciple or something... No need to be specific...
/r/MensRights18/05/22 12:01 AM
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Hmmm. Yes, it is certainly a difference between coverage for each gender... ​ This was a scary and dizzyingly complicated story, and femcels, whoserage was quieter and whose presence was smaller, didn’t really factorin. Possibly because they're just online complaining, and no single individuals have taken any action that paints the group as a whole, as being dangerous... I think maybe the thing we can all agree on is that journalists looking for content that primarily revolves around peoples' ex…
/r/MensRights17/05/22 07:54 PM
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What's super funny about "mansplaning"? Some people who may in fact be actively mansplaned regularly sometimes don't even give a fuck. Like some person in a social setting is trying to tell you something incorrect (a fact that just happens to be in the specialty that you've devoted your life to, and get gobs of money doing?) does not matter. They laugh about it with their friends who are in related fields. Those friends just assume/know random people in social settings tend to be idiots. Then wh…
/r/MensRights17/05/22 12:18 PM
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We can do like 10 things at the same time (collectively) at least.
/r/MensRights09/05/22 06:25 PM
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Super science says... maybe?
/r/MensRights09/05/22 04:44 PM
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Yeah it is awful to see a dead baby being removed from a womb. It is also awful to know you're carrying a dead baby. And worse - to have people ask when its due and ask you about names/etc. And yet...
/r/MensRights06/05/22 07:50 PM
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Something tells me that specific fact won't get much traction here...
/r/MensRights06/05/22 02:07 PM
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There are tons of different versions of Monopoly...
/r/MensRights05/05/22 08:32 PM
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"I don't find it logical in tall girls wearing heels, you tower over allguys and its painful for you anyways. If a girl who is very short wearsit, it kind of makes sense." I believe... that the implication she hears is that something that other women wear "to make them appear more attractive"/"feel sexy" is used against her because she happens to be tall? Probably just made her angry. But the other stuff appears to be post-fifth-wave ideas that are being created as the plane is flying? I think t…
/r/MensRights28/04/22 07:19 PM
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This whole world of looking at things people post on the internet, then recreating the scenarios and labeling it as a "challenge" (or whatever) is foreign to me. The next week is his prank going to be cutting her hair or dying her dog blue or something? I'm glad to be too old for this shit now.
/r/MensRights28/04/22 02:50 PM
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Possibly? But the tent is large in the US, and includes people who may disagree with the position. Decisions have been made, we see the results. A middle ground seems to be an impossible destination... But then. "The Best interest's of the child" That is not having any sort of involvement with a person who does not want them. It wouldn't be a problem if the two people who created the child agreed - but that's not happening!
/r/MensRights28/04/22 01:04 PM
4

I almost get what the dude is saying? But I didn't want my sons to reject masculine stereotypes so much as I just didn't push anything on them. They had dolls and dinosaurs when they were just blobs of potential. Then we watched Cars. After that it was 100% vehicles (of all types) 200% of the time. I also hugged/kissed them (the horror) but let them jump off stuff and smash things (cause I'm a monster) for fun. ​ He had to define his own identity, not influenced by my own bias of what I deemed t…
/r/MensRights25/04/22 01:32 PM
3

I may be close to a Feminist man? I won't go march for Feminism or anything. I don't call myself a Feminist. But there are some results of earlier-ish Feminism that I can agree was worth the fight. ​ Maybe they'd been abusive towards a woman themselves and so identify as feminist in attempt to make atonement. This is probably the most accurate description for me, however I was not abusive. I was (probably still am) an asshole - who did not take a stand when other people were being abusive to wom…
/r/MensRights19/04/22 02:23 PM
3

That's a good one.
/r/MensRights18/04/22 05:42 PM
6

Yeah, if someone decided to write an article specifically about Lyme's Disease I wouldn't complain about the lack of discourse for Progeria. BUT I am happy to give my opinions on this stuff, even if it goes against the grain here.
/r/MensRights14/04/22 05:27 PM
-22

OK. So I just read the article, but its also in your picture. The context isn't about the War in general, its specifically about the Refugee experience. Heck the only people she interviews are refugees in Poland who as we all know, are mostly women. It’s a story that I heard over and over from women refugees in Poland.They told me that their priorities were simple: a safe place to livewith their children, far from the bombs and battles. An article about a specific viewpoint doesn't necessarily m…
/r/MensRights14/04/22 03:14 PM
1

TBH once we realized that I just straight up work better with actual lists of stuff (but I don't like... expect my wife to put the list together, we just go over them and compare so we don't waste effort) things worked waaaaaaaaay better for us.
/r/MensRights11/04/22 05:32 PM
33

Judgments by male participants of male victims of assaults carried out by women changed notably over time. The 2019 male cohort was less likely to judge that the victim initiated or encouraged the incident (40% in 1984 compared with 15% in 2019) and derived pleasure from it (47.4% in 1984 compared with 5.8% in 2019). In contrast, the 2019 female cohort was more likely to attribute victim encouragement (26.9% compared with 4.3% in 1984) and pleasure to the male victim (25% in 2019 compared with 5…
/r/MensRights09/03/22 05:15 PM
15

Indeed unfortunate it had to be in a situation like this of course, but good to remember that a ton of them are there and will do the best they can with whatever is available...
/r/PussyPassDenied08/03/22 07:20 PM
12

Yep, not a lot of men doing this. I know of one (older gent) in the Midwest of the US who adopted. He's apparently a great single-father. His kids appear to be happy and well adjusted. I'm assuming he's ecstatic seeing them grow into good people. He does not have an obvious partner, and seemingly doesn't need one to enact a positive change for future generations! Optimal? I guess not. But those children were destined to be in the system for their entire lives. That's sub-optimal, and if those ch…
/r/MensRights15/02/22 05:57 PM
19

To be "fair" there are a lot of things terfs... dislike... as women in Switzerland can retire one year earlier than men Not sure why there's even a difference at all if that's the case. Also, Switzerland is Neutral? Is the training mostly for domestic deployments/disasters?
/r/MensRights14/02/22 07:58 PM
2

Seems like a lot of effort to watch all of this... I wouldn't watch a long form anti-feminist video either to be fair.
/r/MensRights10/02/22 06:47 PM
7

You can literally find anyone saying anything on the internet. according to a study by affairs website illicitencounters.com. Weird, some of the users of this cheating webste are reporting that their cheating had led to a positive outcome, then someone else who has cheated is trying to get people to think that her cheating was positive...
/r/MensRights07/02/22 07:12 PM
14

For sure, that's totally someone grasping at straws.
/r/MensRights31/01/22 01:48 PM
42

Regarding her BFs they've likely never encountered anyone with an actual sex addiction. They have a young, seemingly sex-positive GF who claims to have a sex addiction- and to be frank, anyone can say anything about themselves. When I was 23 I would have probably stabbed someone for that /s (kinda/sorta) But seriously, there's no fucking way I could have even begun to understand what that addiction truly meant, even if I believed it. Additionally her BFs probably don't stick around long enough t…
/r/MensRights31/01/22 01:07 PM
2

JFC - R.I.P Mr. Billon.
/r/MensRights27/01/22 02:35 PM
19

If it is used to create or improve stuff - I want it.
/r/MensRights25/01/22 06:09 PM
8

What kind of punishment for the "crime" are you expecting? Is this something you'd want some lashings for or something...?
/r/MensRights03/12/21 02:43 PM
3

whenever girls in my class hit me and smack me or do anything else Why is anyone in your class touching you without your consent. If you do them the kindness of asking them not to hit you what happens? You shouldn't have to ask them not to assault you, and you shouldn't be in the position to work yourself into a mindfrenzy coming up with an "appropriate" reaction. I mention doing them the kindness of asking them not to hit you, because other people will hit back, and will hit back hard enough to…
/r/MensRights23/11/21 07:45 PM
29

Suppressing my emotions makes me more resilient (at least for now!) Knowing that I kinda-sorta default towards suppressing my emotions is helpful. I happen to be in the age range not asked though, so I guess how I feel doesn't matter. /s I've managed not to sing this out loud when being told of my other half's stress levels. The youngin's are too young to care and glad we're always around! It'll be weird unwinding this all.
/r/MensRights23/11/21 05:52 PM
2

I do extra work at the beginning of the week. That way I can spend Friday looking all over the place.
/r/MensRights12/10/21 04:00 PM
7

I do not believe I've ever met a "radical feminist" but I want to say I would enjoy engaging them in discussion. The problem they might have with me is that I've floated around a lot of various communities and have pretty decent knowledge of some of the concepts/information they may rely on. Not with the explicit purpose of tripping them up of course. I know the "fun" I would have would be a red-flag to them though, so I'd probably do some of what Flashy_Glove mentioned and keep my views to myse…
/r/MensRights21/09/21 12:37 PM
2

:( I've read a post on a different subreddit that claimed to be by a person who was convicted of possessing very disturbing material. They claimed to be reformed, and that they understood the gravity of their actions. They even said that even though they did not produce the content that theu came to understand (to a degree of course) what the existence of it meant, and the impact it had on Victims. You could probably find it. I don't know what that person felt/feels. I would normally call them a…
/r/PussyPassDenied02/08/21 07:00 PM
3

Indeed, this is just sad.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/07/21 03:49 PM
2

In my head everything that happens near or on a military base is magnified by 1k, but I'm an outsider. I had family who lived on bases when I was younger and you best believe we minded our p's+q's when visiting - I probably just sat around with my hands folded... Is that right? Dunno - it wasn't our home, like it was hers... I just feel like this didn't have to happen. She's in dire straights, but the place for resolution of the situation she was in was not the entrance to the military base. But…
/r/PussyPassDenied07/07/21 02:27 PM
1

I am probably fairly left leaning but I had/have friends who are literally John Birch members - which may be "ultraconservative". If you know the individual, that label doesn't mean much in the grand scheme of things when you interact regularly. It's just one weird thing I know about them, but we're friends, so there are lots of weird things I know about them....
/r/MensRights26/06/21 10:12 PM
4

Lots of cultures do that. English is pretty pervasive.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/02/21 06:46 PM
1

+1 for deer jerky.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/09/19 07:16 PM
20

He just honestly saw his job as a father to be as engaged and invested as mine as a mother The fact that this is at all surprising makes my head hurt.
/r/MensRights11/07/12 02:44 PM
2

I don't think its serious.
/r/MensRights10/07/12 09:16 PM
8

I'd think that the part of the cycle where 'All Men Are Perverts' would be something that resonates here; "Men must take steps to protect themselves from false accusations. A sense of paranoia develops"
/r/MensRights10/07/12 05:47 PM
6

When the mother had earlier wanted to enrol the boys in competitive hockey, it was noted, the father refused, citing that it would take too much time and would infringe on his custody time. Yeah. Hockey is usually at all times, but I think lacrosse is mostly after school.
/r/MensRights10/07/12 02:32 PM
1

There’s an increasing preasure in the blogosphere to always get it right, to be the perfect feminist, which is impossible and unrealistic – and frankly dangerous for a movement that’s supposed to move in reality. So I’m bringing it back. The feminism that's a frowny-face over everything doesn't even work for ardent feminist supporters. There's going to be a range of opinions and over-looking things because of convenience or preference I guess. At least she can admit it.
/r/MensRights10/07/12 02:29 PM
3

Huh. Good for them. It sounds like the first lady took a shitty situation (wedding date, no groom) and turned it into something positive. Hopefully that second lady is on the way to that too.
/r/MensRights03/07/12 08:40 PM
3

I actually went from there to other 'radical' feminist websites. They're definitely out there, and with a following.They refer to the feminist types that I know a funfems for various reasons and seem to be transphobic. I can't imagine that there are legions of them though...
/r/MensRights03/07/12 10:51 AM
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As an aside, I think this was actually a publicity stunt or viral ad of some sort. As for me? I always make a note of the kind of people who post that sort of thing and stay away. They have nothing to offer me, and don't want any of what I have to offer them.
/r/MensRights02/07/12 09:52 PM
4

I agree. I've never actually come across any feminists that espouse even a tiny bit of this sort of belief. Also from one of the articles on that site; womyn ok I've seen this and know what it means womon welp, back to square one. I'm confused. edit: mah god. it goes on and on. You can't possibly equate most feminists (especially around here) with wherever the fuck that link eventually leads to.
/r/MensRights02/07/12 08:52 PM
1

Fathers who actively seek custody obtain either primary or joint physical custody over 70% of the time. Reports indicate, however, that in some cases perceptions of gender bias may discourage fathers from seeking custody and stereotypes about fathers may sometimes affect case outcomes. Understanding that a father can be just as important a parent as a mother is important needs to be stressed. If the 70% statistic is true in general (other jurisdictions) and men aren't contesting because they don…
/r/MensRights02/07/12 05:54 PM
2

lol http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rc__Zbwm-IU&feature=related love that shit
/r/MensRights02/07/12 03:37 PM
3

I can't help but feel bad for someone who feels like this. Maybe he was socialized to actually treat women differently to some degree, but being so afraid of women that he thinks they'll flip-the-fuck out because of his mere presence and interaction with them is absurd. And one thing is, I've seen real "creepy". It's the sort of thing that causes silence at a table full of people (men and women). I haven't seen it often, and the people who do it aren't doomed to a life of loneliness or being ost…
/r/MensRights02/07/12 01:49 PM
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It's originally from Cosmo. I'm pretty sure no one I interact with on a regular basis puts much stock in Cosmo.
/r/MensRights02/07/12 01:38 PM
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yep
/r/MensRights01/07/12 07:46 PM
5

As for the moral issue of the photos, try to negotiate a fair payment from Mr. "You're So Vain" for your property. You'll feel better about yourself for not turning your high-school romp into sleaze. But if I see news that a recording artist is embarrassed over the release of youthful "compromising pictures," I'll hope you're laughing all the way to the bank. Wow. That is some crazy advice.
/r/MensRights01/07/12 02:28 PM
1

although considering that another study recently claimed women spent three hours a week redoing their partners' chores, maybe this news isn't that great for ladies after all. lol
/r/MensRights29/06/12 08:20 PM
4

Trawling Reddit for content for to drive their own traffic is pretty low. I guess it doesn't hurt that it's easy to find objectionable stuff. by the angry divorcees several guys who need hugs That'll win 'em over!!
/r/MensRights29/06/12 08:19 PM
20

:P
/r/MensRights27/06/12 08:24 PM
1

There are some tournaments that offer equal purses. But none of the Grand Slam ones do as far as I know. edit: guess I'm wrong
/r/MensRights27/06/12 04:22 PM
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Weird. I go 4 times a week. Am I obsessed? Or a gym rat? meatheads Body-obsessed beefcakes Men with a desire to get seriously jacked may be channeling their negative self-esteem toward women. gym rats This writer is shit.
/r/MensRights27/06/12 11:19 AM
2

Good.
/r/MensRights26/06/12 06:27 PM
2

I said "You know what else has a huge following? Actual BDSM. Like the real life stuff with chains and whips. Huge following != always worth getting involved in." You know. She could just be ashamed that she's into it. Or scared of what you'd think of her desire for it. Ask her if she wants to actually engage in it. If she's of the mindset that anything other than Ozzie and Harriet sexuality = bad then everything out of the "norm" will make her uncomfortable even if she's into it on some level.
/r/MensRights26/06/12 12:28 PM
3

Terry is probably my favorite character in a "fantasy" show in a long, long time.
/r/MensRights26/06/12 12:02 PM
5

Pregnant women (through pregnancy and up to 6 weeks after birth or after pregnancy ends). Breastfeeding women (up to infant’s 1st birthday) Nonbreastfeeding postpartum women (up to 6 months after the birth of an infant or after pregnancy ends) Infants (up to 1st birthday). WIC serves 53 percent of all infants born in the United States. Children up to their 5th birthday. I don't know about anyone else, but the group that WIC targets makes perfect sense to me. It says they serve nutritionally at r…
/r/MensRights26/06/12 01:40 AM
4

If you are heterosexual, those sexual partners you desire so much do not reciprocate your urgency. Tested by going up to random college women and asking them to have sex. Weird how that doesn't work. 50% of the guys who asked for dates out of the blue got them though.
/r/MensRights24/06/12 04:18 PM
1

Even if he's a huge tool, he's still a victim and should be treated as such. I understand what you're saying but any excuse to make it seem like his actions should result in what she did don't help. She doesn't get a pass because she's pregnant. She doesn't get a pass because she's stressed and dealing with the baby after it's born. He shouldn't have to take it.
/r/MensRights22/06/12 03:40 PM
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NO. It's a $1. keep the change
/r/MensRights22/06/12 11:58 AM
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Contribute yes. Bring up an entirely different line of discussion? There's all kinds of shit out there about how when a woman talks men derail the conversation or have to say 'no but me too!' or whatever. It's almost a meme at this point. The dude highlighted in pink does a slightly better job of it. He acknowledges and validates what she's saying without immediately bringing up men and when he does it's to reinforce that both issues are important. I would say that there are some women out there…
/r/MensRights22/06/12 11:55 AM
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Well why did you have to bring it up in the first place? What made you feel like your two cents had to be put in? It's just like if you were to talk about men who are falsely accused of sexual crimes and she posted that one-in-four women are assaulted by people they know and most go unreported. That's what they mean by derailing. The person who you highlighted in purple is ridiculous though.
/r/MensRights22/06/12 11:38 AM
8

dat analogy it needs some work
/r/MensRights22/06/12 11:31 AM
2

The second one mostly. It's like you're not really grieving but you are. Grieving for lost potential? I dunno.
/r/MensRights21/06/12 07:21 PM
2

Because there are men out there who don't rage and try to deal with it while still respecting the woman's ultimate decision but don't believe that their lives are better for it.
/r/MensRights21/06/12 06:46 PM
6

Men still enjoy the luxury of being able to choose their level of parental engagement. Some walk away and never see their baby. Others dedicate the rest of their lives to their kid's welfare. Which path they choose is totally their decision, and they can (and do) reconsider that relationship at any time, at will. Women have no such choice. Once we're pregnant, we're in it, full-on, for the next 20 years, whether we want to be or not. Since we don't enjoy the wide leeway men are granted on the en…
/r/MensRights21/06/12 05:28 PM
5

Wow. That story is nuts.
/r/MensRights21/06/12 04:19 PM
1

Yeah, its a pretty good video. Definitely worth a listen to if you have the time.
/r/MensRights21/06/12 01:10 PM
1

I guess they can slam it all they want. Sounds like he gets to play anyway. ''At the sensitive age of 13, reaching puberty and being so body conscious, our girls are faced with modifying their game to eliminate or reduce body contact, when they didn't sign up for a mixed competition. ''It's unfair and it puts the girls under pressure when it should not be there in the first place.' yep Also what the... Is this just basketball with out a backboard and dribbling?
/r/MensRights20/06/12 08:34 PM
-16

in which you're supposed to answer "yes". They made me see a psychiatrist to discuss the handful of questions I got "wrong" uhhhh So you are interviewing for a job and then they ask you to take a "personality" test. They get your results and refer you to a psychologist who talks to you about your sex life? hokay But then you complain that women don't have dating problems and females lolo That's bullshit, I can't believe we still live in a society. Stupid Friendzone. Feminazis and welfare. hargla…
/r/MensRights20/06/12 04:05 PM
8

Why does this bother you?
/r/MensRights20/06/12 03:57 PM
1

Yeah, that's probably where I fall in. I imagine the author of the article apologizes a lot for his actions... When I objectify women, it’s because I feel disconnected, less present, less in my heart, and less in my body. The remedy is simple now. Get back in my body and heart. Once I get connected to me again, I notice how I can appreciate a beautiful woman and I’m in my body, connected to my heart. It has a totally different quality. She feels it and I feel it. Can't really make heads-or-tails…
/r/MensRights20/06/12 12:32 PM
2

By relentlessly promoting the notion that violent crime victims are primarily female, feminist ideologues have done a great job of framing "violence against women" as the central issue. I think the feminists would say that the reason you would intervene with a little girl as opposed to just ignoring the situation with a boy is because women are seen in general as weak and unable to protect themselves. In the specific situation that the author writes, the benevolent sexism even though a negative …
/r/MensRights20/06/12 11:57 AM
2

I think 'stare' and 'gawk' are relevant to what he's trying to relate when he talks about "objectifying" a woman. It's a fine line between appreciating someone's form and straight up using their body for your mind's pleasures.
/r/MensRights20/06/12 11:47 AM
16

I do have a hard time imagining that it would even happen.
/r/MensRights20/06/12 10:55 AM
6

Great video. None of the participants in it want to take anything away from the women who need help, I think the phrase "shine a spotlight to see who else is there" is a great way to phrase it.
/r/MensRights19/06/12 09:55 PM
8

The following ad has Abby Wambach making a predatory assessment of another female soccer player. The sexual overtones are hard to ignore, with the mannish Wambach leering at the exhausted, more attractive competitor what
/r/MensRights19/06/12 09:41 PM
9

Who cares? Just take the pictures. When did this become a thing exactly?
/r/MensRights19/06/12 07:51 PM
2

fuck yeah it is
/r/MensRights19/06/12 07:43 PM
2

I too am not a bit tamed, I too am untranslatable, I sound my barbaric YAWP over the roofs of the world. To me it means everything and nothing. Its who I am, uexplainable and not something I can apologize for. I can be held accountable for my actions and make amends, but only for things that I know I've done wrong. Whenever someone tells me to 'man up' or 'be a man' I laugh and tell them I never wasn't.
/r/MensRights19/06/12 07:28 PM
11

He didn't lie about beating off, he lied about looking at downloading and looking at other women, even though he knew it was a sore point for his wife for whatever reason. Maybe if he fessed up early on in the relationship she would have dumped him. He'll never know because he lied about it waaaay in the beginning then kept up the lie during the entire relationship, removing that option from her. So what if the lie was about porn. Its still a lie.
/r/MensRights19/06/12 07:19 PM
3

Scientific evidence + TMZ Picture = no
/r/MensRights17/06/12 02:16 AM
31

I love how nobody wants to press charges. If this guy's cell-phone went missing in his pockets and through the wash he'd be in jail as a scum-bag wife-beater. They should definitely use this as an example to show that you shouldn't try to game the system because of a rough breakup.
/r/MensRights16/06/12 07:08 PM
8

Have you been in contact with your kids at all?
/r/MensRights16/06/12 07:01 PM
2

The ad dollars spent probably aren't so close either.
/r/MensRights16/06/12 06:28 PM
2

For men who might refuse to comply, party representatives suggested a separate set of toilets clearly labeled for stand-up urination only. oh the hugh manatee
/r/MensRights16/06/12 02:05 PM
2

Oh hey, that last link is hella NSFW. ...concerned about an increase of underage prostitution, with scores of orphaned or destitute teenagers lured - and often forced - to service clients... In Ukraine, underage sexual workers are rarely treated as victims of child molestation or forced labor, but instead are often punished and harassed for engaging in prostitution.... The country's leaders have done little to alter the image of Ukraine as a top destination for sex tourists and men shopping for …
/r/MensRights16/06/12 01:03 PM
5

I don't have a problem with this. I don't think there needs to be a version with women. There are men who do the things they are saying every single day. Maybe they think those men might slip? OK. Thanks for the reminder, I'll be sure to keep being a decent human being.
/r/MensRights15/06/12 08:58 PM
12

That guy is gonna die of shock once they do the rest of the books. I wonder if he knows that a lot of it is toned down for the small-screen.
/r/MensRights15/06/12 08:35 PM
11

People don't understand how hard it is to watch your father get mocked by countless female rape victims and even counsellors during group therapy because of his sex. I don't understand how so many people have the capacity to be so cruel to another human being. One thing you have to understand about anybody that's dealt with trauma in their lives is at some point they're going to be angry and lash out in ways that seem strange or aggressive. You and your family might have to work extra hard to fi…
/r/MensRights15/06/12 05:23 PM
1

No apologies needed good sir!
/r/MensRights15/06/12 02:30 PM
1

In your example at the end of the video the woman was being an asshole. To you and your friend, because she's an asshole. If she had been a man would you have just stood there and took it? I wouldn't. Don't put up with that shit from either gender. Its easy enough to say, but you'll notice a real difference from everyone when you wear your backbone on your sleeve.
/r/MensRights15/06/12 01:45 PM
1

She's reacting to something that the man has done (in her mind, at least). Well. He's Anthony Cromartie. He plays football and has kids. That's what he does. Being married to someone who thinks faking a suicide attempt is a legitimate method to detect cheating makes sense when you put it in the context of his life. He makes bad choices.
/r/MensRights15/06/12 01:37 PM
5

Good lord. I wonder how many of the comments will be like the ones Feminist Frequency got... None.
/r/MensRights15/06/12 11:06 AM
1

I think that the argument would be that nothing would stop those horrible men from committing violence against women. Because there's something wrong with them in particular not the culture at large. The overarching serious message that our society has (also thanks to the Patriarchy) that women are weak and should be protected, should win out shouldn't it?
/r/MensRights13/06/12 09:51 PM
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insight/discussion as to why our society scapegoats men From what I gather, in a Patriarchal society, men don't get that their jokes, cat-calls, and general ridiculous behavior keep some women leery, intimidated, or scared. Or that it influences their behavior. And more importantly they don't think that it influences other men's behavior.. Where rape culture comes in is that those men don't condemn other men for those things? They laugh some things off, or make their own jokes. And if they do ac…
/r/MensRights13/06/12 08:39 PM
1

The male psyche seems to resist input whenever it's too direct or seems forcibly imposed. lol
/r/MensRights13/06/12 01:44 PM
3

I hoped to avoid compounding mistakes on both sides. If I'm going to be a misogynist, I do it after hitting a girl. I'm not sure if hitting her makes you a misogynist, but it makes you a jerk. A beer to the eyes? Not that big of a deal. You could have responded in kind or just left it at that. Made light of the situation and removed yourself or anything other than slap her. If she is angry enough to put a beer in your face, (I guess in hindsight) you should have realized that putting your hands …
/r/MensRights13/06/12 11:51 AM
1

What really kinda got my goatwas that I know some 'mike' people who also are actually named Michela or Michelle. They just assumed, and nobody fucking wins now.
/r/MensRights10/06/12 04:32 AM
105

This space is for womyn only" mike should have just left I can safely say that you bitches are fucked up ugh good job mike
/r/MensRights09/06/12 06:59 PM
8

It even says that the best answer was picked by the person who posted the question.
/r/MensRights09/06/12 05:17 PM
26

I don't care if you're a troll. You're going to have to work hard to get justice. Speak to the media. Send letters to your congressman and the congressman in the district she's in. Document every single interaction you have with the police and CPS. Ask for their records. Be a shit-stain on their underpants. Don't give up. Try to get in contact with your daughter even if it's for a minute and your ex is listening in on the conversation. Make sure that she knows that you still love her and are thi…
/r/MensRights09/06/12 01:58 PM
2

as I know far too much about them HA. My thoughts exactly.
/r/MensRights09/06/12 01:29 PM
3

The front page was dominated at that time by men posting for the Mens Rights Subreddit, and women posing naked for Gone Wild shots. Which of us seem to be marginalizing women and objectifying them? Just a guess. Do you have both subreddits subscribed? the way they choose to portray themselves That's why.
/r/MensRights08/06/12 06:42 PM
3

Now this was kind of a shitty deal because I was 17 at the time, he was 19 and in college. After a lot of thinking I decided not to tell him. He had so much going on and had such a big dream ahead of him that I didn't want to ruin it. I dropped out of high school and cut off all contact with him since we would still text and hang out from time to time and moved with my family to the town my mom grew up in in another state. I got my GED and am attending community college. My daughter is five now …
/r/MensRights08/06/12 02:14 PM
1

This distinctive moral voice, says Gilligan, speaks a language of care that emphasizes relationships and responsibilities. Seemingly, this language is largely unintelligible to Kohlbergian researchers who speak the dominant moral language of traditional ethics—namely, a language of justice that stresses rights and rules. I don't think that the point is that 'traditional ethics' are bad, but that they don't address some of the things that women are concerned with. Women are taught to live for oth…
/r/MensRights08/06/12 01:48 PM
3

There's a horrible part of me that doesn't feel bad for him. The worst part is that I guess you can't do it part-time unless you're wearing a mask or something. I wonder what he was expecting when he got in. Was it because he had no other option? Or didn't think of the ramifications of being a performer?
/r/MensRights08/06/12 12:37 PM
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Someone in another subreddit about a different situation brought up something I've never considered. He wasn't defending himself, he was escalating the situation. He throws the water at the lady in red The lady in white throws something else He pushes her then swings for her face He's not defending himself at that point.
/r/MensRights07/06/12 09:51 PM
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I always thought that that excuse was the easiest one to make. Porn and video games aren't a replacement for real interactions with women and actually doing shit yourself. It's almost like someone described the phenomena to him, and he's making more of it than it is. This shit isn't the holo-deck... And what exactly does he mean by guys who "drop of out society"? Are they hiding? What are the signs? I'm not married, am I one of them?
/r/MensRights07/06/12 08:35 PM
9

Wow. My question is, why didn't they look at the video immediately?
/r/MensRights07/06/12 08:31 PM
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I read the article, and it certainly doesn't do justice to African American women or men good and bad. I spent awhile frequenting places on the internet that were more or less geared towards the experiences of Black people in America, specifically the issues men have with women and vice versa. And do you know what I've learned? That shit is fucking complicated and the internet is the wrong medium for discussing it. An article or video, and comments just seem to galvanize people on one extreme or…
/r/MensRights07/06/12 08:20 PM
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I didn't respond directly to the first comment by replying to it. It was the only other comment when I posted.
/r/MensRights03/06/12 03:38 PM
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So he on some level believes that she was telling the truth because; but it turns out she was telling the truth And his answer to dumping her because he thought she was lying send her fucking 'flowers or something'. I'll shame that shit day or night. probably just a troll though
/r/MensRights02/06/12 09:12 PM
12

Turns out she actually was raped though it seemed extremely unlikely to me. What the fuck. Why are you doubting her. Should I just like. Send her some flowers or something. This I can't even
/r/MensRights02/06/12 08:27 PM
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Does feminism even touch on the specific issues involving paternity? I know they do on after the baby is born and the women's role at home and/or in the workplace...
/r/MensRights02/06/12 06:09 PM
1

It doesn't.
/r/MensRights02/06/12 04:57 PM
3

kiss at make-out point LAWL
/r/MensRights02/06/12 01:16 PM
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And even if there are some women like that, why obsess over them.
/r/MensRights25/05/12 10:40 PM
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Today on Facebook I came across a photo, shared and “liked” hundreds of times, that said: Her first mistake. And now I can't take the rest of it seriously, but I'll read on anyway.
/r/MensRights25/05/12 10:04 PM
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You can't argue with that picture. I hardly think that those men are "decent", but that act happened in broad daylight, with hundreds of other men and women looking and someone with enough wherewithal to take a picture. Someone might say, 'well if some guy stepped in he could have died'. But that's part of the problem. To the guys the message is I can't step in I might lose my life. To the women, holy shit this might happen to me.
/r/MensRights25/05/12 09:36 PM
8

Never heard of the old maid/spinster aka cat lady?
/r/MensRights25/05/12 05:54 PM
1

If it works for him it works for him. And who's to say he didn't do any of your "rules"? To be honest though, I can't tell what the hell that guy's thinking. His post is more esoteric/poetic than the one the one you linked.
/r/MensRights25/05/12 03:01 PM
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I gave snarky answers before but I'll answer all for real-reals. Once you get married you'll also be taking on her $300k debt. She can't really pay it off during her residency, but she'll be able to start chipping away at it once she's done. You two need to talk about that debt and decide what your long-term plan with it is. That debt is a weight that you're stuck with. Don't take on any major debt until it is managable/acceptable in case things do go wrong. Tell her that the amount is scary and…
/r/MensRights25/05/12 12:38 AM
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Ctrl-F - love 0 of 0
/r/MensRights24/05/12 11:10 PM
7

That's a weird answer.
/r/MensRights24/05/12 11:10 PM
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The other week I had the privilege of attending the REDACTED Women in Leadership event, which included a “Career Fair” with information booths from across the Technology organization. It was a great opportunity to talk about what we do in REDACTED at our booth alongside REDACTED from the REDACTED – our booth attracted quite a crowd! It sounds like the event was hosted by an outside group that champions Women in Leadership. Attending that outside event and then saying that both men and women with…
/r/MensRights24/05/12 09:42 PM
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Male or female, take advantage of the career development tools and mentoring opportunities available to you.
/r/MensRights24/05/12 09:07 PM
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I don't really see the difference between this and a lump payment for a medical mistake. They're just masking it as child support for some odd reason. Also if it was "negligence" SUPER QUOTATION MARKS and he wanted to save the fetus' life, then the doctor should be responsible, because she was there for an abortion! I'm sure this story will fuck her son up all kinds of ways though.
/r/MensRights24/05/12 09:01 PM
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I don't know many men who are actually like this, and those I do know are bumbling idiots who everyone hates and shames for doing stuff like this. I think that most women don't actually know the men who cat-call or harass them on the street. It's usually a random stranger. When I walk with my sister and she's a little bit ahead, I see that shit. The occasional dude who will stop and stare, or someone who tries to get her attention by saying something. I've never seen someone corner her, or put h…
/r/MensRights23/05/12 11:19 PM
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Is the overuse of video games and pervasiveness of online porn causing the demise of guys? What does this mean exactly? I'll bet I'd have to buy their book to get the answer. The excessive use of video games and online porn in pursuit of the next thing is creating a generation of risk-adverse guys who are unable (and unwilling) to navigate the complexities and risks inherent to real-life relationships, school and employment. And yet there are guys having real-life relationships, in school, and e…
/r/MensRights23/05/12 08:57 PM
1

Nope. she slapped him, she continued on her tirade, and then after he put his glasses back on he slapped her back. She didn't raise her hands again until after she was crying. revokes most standards of honor involved in a fight. lol
/r/MensRights23/05/12 02:08 AM
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He's a cop. He could just arrest her for battering. Instead he stooped to her level and hit her back like a child. She wasn't a threat, he could have taken the cuffs out but I guess it was more important to get even...
/r/MensRights22/05/12 11:45 PM
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has a child Everything after that doesn't matter. The child can't help that his/her mother or father is "crazy". Your boyfriend can't help that his "crazy ex" has custody of the child as of right now. As someone who's on his side but not directly involved, the best you can do is help him keep a good environment for the best case scenario of his child being with him, and help to keep his spirits up if/when things don't go his way. There was an article posted earlier about post-divorced men, and i…
/r/MensRights18/05/12 04:14 AM
3

An "out of the blue" request for divorce is different from ignoring the fact that you're growing apart from your spouse. A wife snipes at everything he does, but he never stops to ask why she's always angry. I don't know if that mirrors the experience of people here, but it is relevant to what the article is about. I think they're talking about a specific type of man one that as they say, has certain aspects of his life run by his wife; the one who would plan the vacations/send the Christmas car…
/r/MensRights17/05/12 08:50 PM
2

Why does it matter what they say? It's a good idea, if executed properly. And if it helps even a few young men, then it would be worth tons more ridicule or laughter.
/r/MensRights17/05/12 08:15 PM
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You should talk to her. I guess the part that hurts the most is that I know for a fact that if I retaliated in any way, I'd probably be sitting in a jail cell right now. But avoid anything that references that. Does the fact that you're not going to hit her back really hurt the most? More than the fact that she targeted a specific region of your body that she knew would cause the most pain? Tell her that joking around is joking around, but that the pain from that crosses the line. I could hear h…
/r/MensRights17/05/12 08:11 PM
2

How do you even find something like this. It has a much relevancy to real feminism as this does to reality. Relevant!, and probably a better example of the 'unhinged misandrists'.
/r/MensRights17/05/12 02:35 PM
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I recently won a wrongful termination case against my former employer. I didn't know that the money you would win in a lawsuit after a divorce counts as 'income' like wages do...
/r/MensRights17/05/12 02:04 PM
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I don't think that link is what you think it is...
/r/MensRights17/05/12 01:08 PM
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Ronan says women exploit these laws to stay in the US. “They know our laws before they get here, and then they get free citizenship," he claims, while their American husbands face imprisonment. He says this fraud has a domestic source: "The immigrant women wouldn't know how to do it if they hadn't learned from the American women." I really hope this isn't "its moment". Anything to do with immigration is easy pickins for one side of our political dynamic. And I don't have any sympathy for men who…
/r/MensRights17/05/12 12:34 PM
1

I don't read the links on the sidebar, and I don't have control over them either. But I still get lumped up with them because I post here. You don't even mention anything about rights... just about how horrible and unfair and cruel women are, and how all women treat men terribly. I think you actually used a string of horrible adjectives to describe how all men are treated, by all women. I think. That calling out posts that do this (you know, the ones oddly similar to yours) is the right thing to…
/r/MensRights16/05/12 08:43 PM
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This argument makes the completely unwarranted assumption that by providing men with a new birth control option it somehow relieves women of their own obligation to their reproductive health. That's an excellent point.
/r/MensRights15/05/12 04:24 PM
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These responses are hilarious. You can't trust men to take the pill. You can't trust that men won't cheat once they're on the pill. I wonder how many of those same arguments were pointed out in opinion pieces back in the '60s.
/r/MensRights15/05/12 02:43 PM
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and I can not for the life of me allow a girl to pay on a date Don't be like that bro. Is it chauvinistic to feel this way? Maybe, but it's not the worst thing in the world to feel in this case I think. Maybe you guys can alternate or split the bill. Don't think of it as one person being "the man" and the other person being other. That's a trap that you put yourself into.
/r/MensRights15/05/12 02:15 PM
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An anecdote from some Brazilian talk-show probably does not represent 'feminists, and probably most women'. I'm guessing that they'd be happy that men are able to share in the responsibility of preventing unwanted pregnancies. But don't let that stop the whargl blargl
/r/MensRights15/05/12 01:03 PM
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Hmm. It might take some time rooting out the blog I first saw it on. I'll reply if I find it though! And by more complicated I mean you can't just blame things on men/women. A lot of the 'Patriarchy' is men keeping women down full stop. When people talk about kyriarchy, they're willing to believe that a woman's power and privilege can be used against a man or one man's power and privilege can be used against another man.
/r/MensRights14/05/12 08:36 PM
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Is it really though? There are some things that keep men down that women either don't or can't acknowledge. And anything that references that is better than something that completely ignores or marginalizes it.
/r/MensRights14/05/12 07:10 PM
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I heard about it last year. It actually was coined by a feminist. What's interesting about it is that there a lots of little things that people bring up in random threads here that would fall under it. Unfortunately it seems to make things more complicated. I think a good example of it is like when Anne Romney talked about being a Stay at Home Mother. She's rich, she's married to a powerful man. That makes her more powerful and privileged than a man or woman staying at home because it would lite…
/r/MensRights14/05/12 06:21 PM
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I don't think 'oppressed' is really the right word for this specific part of life that he's looking at, but whatevs. The drop out rate, degree completion, life-expectancy, and incarceration rates all have different influences, and in some cases are obviously linked. Someone who drops out isn't going to complete that degree for example. But someone who is incarcerated might not even get the chance to drop out and complete a degree, and would probably have a lower life expectancy because jail is f…
/r/MensRights14/05/12 02:38 PM
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And because of all those things demonizing women is the inevitable result? It seems like a lot of the posts, especially recently are put here more to tear women, their accomplishments, and their gender down as opposed to helping men. That isn't to say that you should never bring up the specific cases when women are in the wrong and men are their victims, but you can't just vilify an entire gender because of anecdotal examples and your own fears.
/r/MensRights09/05/12 09:36 PM
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Is this something that actually happened? I'd just walk away.
/r/MensRights09/05/12 08:36 PM
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what the hell is this
/r/MensRights09/05/12 05:38 PM
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If you're really hurting and someone responds by telling you to 'man up' then they aren't worth your time, full stop.
/r/MensRights09/05/12 03:59 PM
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I'm not banned. I've even posted there before. I have no problem with pointing out crazy shit posted by anyone.
/r/MensRights09/05/12 03:57 PM
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I think it is more simple and that it is basically unrequited love where the infatuated guy won't chase the woman, but remain friends under the hope that it develops into something more. And their argument is that the guy is desperate, weak or clingy for taking that path. However the assumption that the guy is weak and clingy, is just literally an assumption. 'unrequited love'? 'infatuated guy won't chase the woman'? If that's the case, then the guy is the one making the assumption. He assumes t…
/r/MensRights09/05/12 10:42 AM
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30 days to convince someone to have a baby? If he doesn't want a baby, 30 days of spreadsheets, charts, and text-messages aren't going to change anything. They probably shoulda talked about this for real-reals before tying that knot. edit: Also it seems they already have a child?
/r/MensRights08/05/12 06:20 PM
0

I agree brony.
/r/MensRights08/05/12 03:39 PM
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no also TIL Jay-Z has a goofy laugh.
/r/MensRights08/05/12 12:56 PM
2

It's a 10 min. talk on a stage. It isn't a masterwork of critical theory. Maybe many here weren't taught what he was taught, and that's great for you. But that doesn't mean that there aren't boys who grow up believing that becoming the stereotypical strong man is what you do, and that anything less makes you weak. I don't think the link between having to be that man and violence is as strong as he believes (not even close) though.
/r/MensRights08/05/12 11:44 AM
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Yeah, 'misogynistic' is to harsh of a word. I think you can say that they 'objectify' women. That's an entirely different type of argument against them. But the old joke (in some places) is that men read them 'for the articles'. Which is partly true. Usually the articles they have are stupid and/or fun. But I don't think there's much denying that beautiful women, doing things isn't a draw.
/r/MensRights07/05/12 09:40 PM
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http://www.ted.com/talks/view/lang/en//id/1031 I like this talk, especially the first part. I've never had someone tell me to "Man Up", but I imagine I'd tell them that I refuse to be in their stupid man-box.
/r/MensRights07/05/12 02:26 PM
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In summary, guys suck because they simply aren’t thinking of stability and commitment ’til their late thirties. More than that, they have no reason to think about stability and commitment. American society today even rewards and reinforces their selfish pursuits and flighty attitudes. The be-all and end-all of society is apparently getting hitched and (I'm guessing) pumping out kids... Your accomplishments don't matter if you don't have a Mrs. living with you, or aren't referred to as such yours…
/r/MensRights07/05/12 02:02 PM
1

You know what's kind of funny? Some of the points that this video brings up are also used in some feminist arguments. When you talk about 'people' in a submarine, or 'individuals' trapped in a coal-mine, you think men. It doesn't have to be clarified because it is the default. That isn't to say that his point that they tend emphasize when men do things wrong isn't a real one though.
/r/MensRights07/05/12 01:46 PM
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frsrs Everything doesn't always have to be 'lol us too!!' But if for some reason you feel the need to do that, make the poster. Create a tumblr and put up motivational posters that you draw strength from and other people can share too.
/r/MensRights07/05/12 01:33 PM
1

Is 'fatherless home' taken to mean a residence with children that have absolutely no contact with or influence from their father, or one where the father is still in the picture, but the primary residence and custody belong to the mother?
/r/MensRights07/05/12 01:30 PM
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I agree. I had a great experience with the Greek system's men and women, and we worked really fucking hard not to be the negatively termed "frat". The guys I lived with were a lot more inclusive than what I'm guessing most redditor's experiences have been, and were welcoming of pretty much anyone. I wish more people could experience the good side of that life. Although, I'd say that you definitely still need some oversight..
/r/MensRights04/05/12 08:23 PM
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Oh yeah, not you I meant in the title of the OP sorry.
/r/MensRights04/05/12 03:48 PM
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This study can only really comment directly on the variables they used. Matthew vs. Martha and the cosmetic surgery IPO. I always take experiments using students in the relevant field with a grain of salt, but what they observed with ~200 people can't be argued with in that specific scenario. I wouldn't extrapolate it to the world at large (but I'm sure we'll see newsreports doing just that) but maybe there's a link? The key word is maybe though, this shouldn't be used as ammo definitively sayin…
/r/MensRights04/05/12 03:11 PM
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Welcome to the feminism community! This is a space for discussing and promoting awareness of issues related to equality for women. Please help us preserve the intent of this space as a place for feminists to work together, and consider visiting r/AskFeminists if you are seeking to discuss or ask feminists for their perspectives or feedback. They're trying to do something specific there, that doesn't always directly, or indirectly include the experiences of men. I'm hoping that that's what this p…
/r/MensRights04/05/12 02:24 PM
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That's a good point. Framing them as roommates would be more apt in this situation. The common law stuff is weird to me.
/r/MensRights04/05/12 11:02 AM
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hah. 'Anger can be too, in its own way.' Sometimes I'll type stuff, delete some of it, think for a second and then start to type again. Or leave the window open to do something else, then come back and continue on with something different. Pretty much I'm shit at proofreading.
/r/MensRights04/05/12 01:37 AM
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Trust me. You don't have to apologize, especially not to me. And venting is good. Anger is too can be too in its own way. I just think that there has to be an upside eventually, and that it is what we should all be focusing on.
/r/MensRights04/05/12 12:21 AM
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Feminism has ruined the women in this generation. I refuse to ever let myself become the victim of another one...... This story seems to be less about Feminism's effect on a generation than your girlfriend's descent into I dunno. Also, did you get a lawyer? Cops don't necessarily have your specific interests in mind when they get a call.. And to be honest, if you're going to stay away from all women because of one, then you're still a victim, but not of Feminism.
/r/MensRights04/05/12 12:07 AM
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Saying that you're pregnant two weeks before conception Cutting funding to prenatal care and replacing it with ___ There might be other things, there's too much bad news in the world, so I've been limiting my intake.
/r/MensRights03/05/12 07:05 PM
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Sorry man, I didn't mean to make light of your situation. I think that realizing that they way you grew up and what they put your through was wrong is important. And this should be one of the places that you can do it without worrying that people will dismiss you. Their shit is their problem, and being able to rise above it says a lot about you. Don't let the turkeys keep you down!
/r/MensRights03/05/12 06:54 PM
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truth
/r/MensRights03/05/12 06:40 PM
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Have there been examples of girls who dominate a traditionally male sport?I'm hoping that they wouldn't be denied the right to play because of it. I get the problem, but it doesn't seem right considering how the opposite would end up...
/r/MensRights03/05/12 02:34 PM
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He's not real. And he's from the era that was close to when the Feminist movements got rolling. I don't think they'll take it personally. Plus he's not real. Might as well point to Archie Bunker.
/r/MensRights03/05/12 02:28 PM
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haha, nope. I realized yesterday looking through messages that I was banned from one of their splinter groups 8 months ago because of how much I posted here. I was all, 'oh that's lame' and went about my business.
/r/MensRights03/05/12 12:03 PM
1

I don't think I've ever come across pages and pages of examples of women harassing men in video games. I don't even think that I've heard any women harassing men in vent or mumble or in chats. That isn't to say there aren't any lady trolls, but they just seem to be less ubiquitous than the stereotypical dude on Xbox spewing hate like breathing air
/r/MensRights03/05/12 11:41 AM
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But it hits all the right notes! A childhood spent without a father, surrounded by women who apparently hate all the men, no male role-models, self-hate because of his gender, then an epiphany driven by mensrights. It's like an Easter miracle!
/r/MensRights03/05/12 11:25 AM
12

'Caught lying' or just completely mistaken?
/r/MensRights02/05/12 08:23 PM
1

It's not happening to them. Popular culture has always told them that women who hit men do it because they deserve it, and it is funny.
/r/MensRights02/05/12 06:42 PM
1

Talk to 10 self-identifying Feminists and you'll get 10 definitions of what Feminism means to them. Who do you want to apologize? There's no feminisim-pope! All the feminists I've met are pretty cool, and not even close to crazy or fanatical. But I've never met any of the people you've quoted, or even anyone who subscribes to the 'beat men with pipes' brand of Feminism. I don't put much hope in the extremists of feminism, just like the extremists of men's rights.
/r/MensRights02/05/12 11:35 AM
2

Sounds about right. They're both fabulously wealthy. She makes close to $2 million a year. They could have come up with some sort of arrangement, but; The two haven’t been able to come to an agreement, so the case is going to trial. Can't feel nuthin' for neither of 'em. Also she can ask for whatever she wants, but that doesn't mean she'll get it. Waiting six fucking years to establish paternity sounds scummy...
/r/MensRights01/05/12 06:55 PM
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Look up the school's policy for sexual harassment and attempt to bring up the director's behavior to HR or the administration, or the dean of the school. Document your attempts. The EMT class isn't his personal dating service. He's doing a disservice to the students, and the people they might potentially interact with.
/r/MensRights01/05/12 06:09 PM
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I actually don't think there's anything wrong with wanting to know if a child is yours biologically. Good or bad, people do put a lot of stock into it. That isn't to say that it is impossible to build the same love for a child that's adopted though. But thinking your world is one way, then being told it's actually upside down is probably a shock that no one should have to deal with.
/r/MensRights01/05/12 05:48 PM
6

I'm generally opposed to anyone making physical changes to another person's body without their consent.
/r/MensRights01/05/12 01:58 PM
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I know there's a lot of hyperbole around here, but no one can possibly agree that slipping someone an abortion pill is anything other than pure evil.
/r/MensRights01/05/12 01:40 PM
2

shakesville really isn't a place for discussion, especially discussion that calls into question what their brand of Feminism is. I once posted something that I thought was evenhanded and even supportive (because in general I probably am) and I was jumped on by the blogger and then her mods because the things I brought up were '101' meh
/r/MensRights01/05/12 12:11 PM
1

I think there's a bunch in there that's true, and even though its brought up in a feminist context it doesn't lessen that. Also I'm kinda willing to overlook some of the stuff I have a problem with because you gotta start somewhere.
/r/MensRights03/12/11 03:52 AM
1

MEH
/r/MensRights03/12/11 03:45 AM
6

If you plug your ears at the right time and pretend real hard you can almost pretend that its gender neutral.
/r/MensRights02/12/11 07:31 AM
2

downloading spyware since 2011
/r/MensRights02/12/11 07:22 AM
3

I thought people posting illegal things got that taken down...
/r/MensRights01/12/11 02:31 PM
1

That's actually a good point. I don't remember, but I think the big one wasn't necessarily predicated on a physical relation in return. It's win-win for both the dude that wants to take women out for fancy dinners and duddette that wants said fancy dinners. But it requires a level of honesty/introspection that she probably didn't want to engage in.
/r/MensRights30/11/11 09:26 PM
0

I don't think sex is fair trade for dinner.
/r/MensRights30/11/11 09:15 PM
2

I think the 'scene' in New York and other large cities is unique. The personalities that place attracts makes events like this totally believable.
/r/MensRights30/11/11 08:55 PM
5

The statistics he cites aren't usually brought up when feminists discuss privilege. Or they'll say " The Patriarchy Hurts Men TooTM " and leave it at that. In effect this article talks past the things he even [linked](www.amptoons.com/blog/the-male-privilege-checklist) to. The disposability of men and boys is a separate (still important) issue and should be brought up independently of feminism, and not as a reaction to dismiss it.
/r/MensRights30/11/11 04:23 PM
2

They linked me too. It's cool bro, they ain't monsters.
/r/MensRights29/11/11 10:52 PM
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he said, "I could never have kids." At the time having kids was not a priority for me, so I brushed it aside. heh. Did she not probe? Was he not clear? If they had a real conversation about it, it would have come up.
/r/MensRights29/11/11 08:47 PM
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Corporations get nearly 70% of their profit from women workers who earn $2 a day. Multinational corporations derive 68% of their global profits from women workers who are paid the equivalent of $2 a day while creating products sold for hundreds of dollars in the US and European markets: electronics, garments, toys. One is from the Feministing article and the other is from the Violence Against Women website. I'd be more inclined to believe the second, because of the context it's put in. The first…
/r/MensRights29/11/11 04:09 PM
1

It could just as easily be argued as a good thing that men don't burden each other with drama. whut
/r/MensRights29/11/11 03:47 PM
26

Ouch. Poor kid. Scary to think that his life is basically ruined and getting his name back is the worst kind of uphill battle.
/r/MensRights29/11/11 03:41 PM
1

I get what you're saying. "Lies, damned lies, and statistics" right? Except in this case it's not statistics, but raw numbers. The primary caregiver and/or hours spent with the child probably matters in this case. I looked over the source, but it's 80+ pages and the footnotes for that particular table weren't obvious. Yeah, maybe it's a smear, but at least it's one based in reality?
/r/MensRights29/11/11 01:03 PM
3

In the context of this campaign it means "Bystander Intervention".
/r/MensRights29/11/11 01:00 AM
1

This is another thing that, on the surface, I have no real qualms with. But if their claims are to be taken as true everyone can stop rape. I looked at their Bystander Intervention PDF and... it's not really well though out... Recent research suggests that men come to BI more slowly than women. I can already hear the giggles, and at that point the crowd is lost. I guess the sentiment is kinda in the right place, but the execution is abysmal. I'm all about decreasing the amount of assaults on cam…
/r/MensRights28/11/11 10:49 PM
1

I agree with the general statement that there is "objectification of women in advertising". Women's bodies are used to sell EVERYTHING. This poster is pretty tame compared to what you see out there regularly though, I guess they couldn't find anything more egregious on campus? Why the heck are all those condoms on the floor?
/r/MensRights28/11/11 05:44 PM
0

I think that there's just a bigger pool from the men to pull from.
/r/MensRights26/11/11 01:36 AM
5

The original work commissioned by Fast Company was to create theoretical ad campaigns that were Pro-Girl (and if you look at the examples, largely Anti-Boy). The statistics that the ad campaigns used were completely made up. One of the problems here is that those made up statistics and Jezebel's claimed statistics will be re-tweeted, re-blogged, conflated, and so divorced from the original ads and disclaimers that you'll get people who will believe them. After seeing this I wouldn't be surprised…
/r/MensRights26/11/11 01:31 AM
2

My arms. They are not up in. The latinworks ad was creative though. I think it's the best one. Also if they were after attention it worked. Some of their design crap is neat.
/r/MensRights22/11/11 04:38 PM
3

The author contends that people weren't afraid to accuse Sandusky of the first, but instead were hung up on accusing him of the second, because the second is not a crime so much as an insult, a secret shame, and accusing the good coach of something like that is just unspeakable. That's actually a really good point, I didn't think of it that way
/r/MensRights22/11/11 12:45 AM
10

Cool. I'd like to use my short-lived Reddit celebrity status to tell all the folks out in the world to support you local Famer's Market and Give Peace a Chance!!
/r/MensRights21/11/11 11:00 PM
1

That I can't have kids isn't really that important compared to that, it would only be important to a woman who intended to not respect my wishes. At least that's the way I see it. I find it odd that that's where you go with it. I've been telling them that as soon as it was more than just casual dating. And that makes sense. You get serious and see a future together and that future literally doesn't involve children and they don't want what you want.
/r/MensRights21/11/11 08:27 PM
6

I know there has to be a fear of missing something on the part of the administration, but this is pretty far-fetched.
/r/MensRights21/11/11 02:19 PM
54

Does anyone believe that if a burly graduate student had walked in on a 58-year-old man raping a naked little girl in the shower, he would have left without calling the police and without trying to rescue the girl? But the victim in this case was a boy, and so Mr. McQueary left and called his dad (who didn’t seem to think that it was a matter for the police either). I think that part of it is that boys aren't always seen as real victims, even in this case when McQueary had eyes on it and felt un…
/r/MensRights21/11/11 02:12 PM
1

No comments? This is pretty good stuff. I know a bunch of you here will particularly like the parts about 'how a generation's views of masculinity grew up in the shadow of feminism'. I actually want to watch thirtysomething now. I thought it was about jerks being douchebags, or like Melrose's Place, but apparently it's good? Gotta watch it though, I'm not gonna give you a time-stamp.
/r/MensRights18/11/11 07:17 PM
4

Well hopefully the man has a lawyer, and he's looking out for his best interests. I don't think there's anything you can actually do beyond telling your sister that she needs to tell the truth before this goes too far. And you say your family's angry? Make sure they don't act on the anger. If your sister is already "in the system" for similar accusations then hopefully the lawyer will dig it up. Do you know for a fact that she made it up? You might be compelled to come to court to testify to tha…
/r/MensRights18/11/11 05:14 PM
1

You sexist assholes should get voluntarily sterilized and NEVER reproduce. I only think some of the people here should be sterilized and never reproduce, also if you paid for it, some would gladly do so. I think we all agree that these two guys are scumbags though.
/r/MensRights18/11/11 04:11 PM
1

Maybe I should post things like this at A Voice For Men, where the audience actually gives a fuck. Sure, go ahead. Post it to as many other places as you want until they respond with the comments you'll accept.
/r/MensRights18/11/11 02:50 PM
0

She's in front of the camera because she's espousing a belief that's insane. They took advantage of her to paint the OWS movement as a group of crazy people saying crazy things. They've been doing that regularly. I doubt she's a feminist or has any coherent belief beyond what she happens to put on cardboard scraps. I've walked down that street. For every person with a sign saying that the 'aliens are coming' or the 'end is nigh', there are ten regular people who just fade into the background. AB…
/r/MensRights18/11/11 01:14 PM
3

This is a bad situation all around, but it's always a bad situation when an adult has sex with a minor. And in this case, it's an adult put in a supervisory situation with a minor who has known problems. I read both her original posts they had their intended effect on me (maybe they still do) and if true it's hard not to feel for her. I've always assumed that a youth counselor knows exactly what to do and say when dealing with their charges, and that there are multiple safeguards (like cameras a…
/r/MensRights17/11/11 02:20 PM
74

I really have no interest in going as it's just a box to check off to say, "Oh well, I tried that." You're not going to get anything out of it if you go in with that attitude. You might as well save your time and theirs and just skip it. I don't know what problems you two are facing... There's someone else that my wife somewhat knows about but doesn't know the details. OH. You're the problem here? And presumably she wants to work it out? IF you want to stay with your wife and get past your indis…
/r/MensRights17/11/11 01:36 PM
3

I think it really depends on the kid. If you have a child that's honestly and truly boy/girl crazy and spends all their time seeking the attention of the opposite sex, then maybe it could be a good idea. They'll still be constantly thinking about girls/boys, but at least there won't be that immediate distraction. I liked being in class with girls and women, I learned a lot from them and hopefully they learned a bunch from me. I'm still pretty good friends with a lot of them too.
/r/MensRights17/11/11 01:31 PM
3

You just sound angry.
/r/MensRights16/11/11 03:21 PM
2

What are the rules of succession when an elected official is deemed unfit to serve, or what is the process to get her labeled as it?
/r/MensRights15/11/11 08:54 PM
2

The second question about the gender of the victims was raised by a reader of the earlier On Parenting post on Penn State. He wrote to me in an e-mail: “My theory on it is that many people in America are so anti-gay that they blame the victims. Yes even 10-year-old-boys. People are going to judge them as willing participants who would eventually just be gay adults. I hate to say these things, but this is what I have observed and this is why predators continue to target children who are easy to m…
/r/MensRights12/11/11 03:15 AM
1

That's kind of how I feel. There's a myriad of messages in our culture telling girls that they should speak out to someone. There's nowhere for boys to go. And when the girls get justice their heroes. The boys become lepers if they're acknowledged as victims at all.
/r/MensRights11/11/11 09:43 PM
1

amongst my acquaintances, mainly middle-class professional males, fatherhood is quite rare That doesn't surprise me in the least. When I was in college I didn't hang out with anyone who was a father either. The author doesn't know many people with children, because that's who he chooses to surround himself with. Avoiding fatherhood isn't an indication of anything, unless you have a child and tell it to get lost. And you can't blame that on feminism.
/r/MensRights11/11/11 09:06 PM
14

This current generation of men also seems to be extremely hesitant to take on the responsibilities of marriage and family. But.. women are marrying later because they're working hard and furthering their careers. Why do they get let off the hook when it comes to "responsibilities of marriage and family", which is apparently the sum total of one's existence in this world?
/r/MensRights05/11/11 06:42 PM
1

Volunteering is an excellent idea!
/r/MensRights04/11/11 06:43 PM
8

Is he involved in any after-school activities? I know it sounds stupid, but boxing, track, football, martial-arts, or just fishing out of a creek regularly with someone he trusts could do wonders. I went into the school earlier this week and it's filled with over-sensitive authoritarian women who seem to want to punish young men into submission. Even if this is true, you're not going to get anywhere with them with that attitude. If you and your father feel that that particular classroom and/or t…
/r/MensRights04/11/11 05:51 PM
1

Guy specific brands of nail-polish, looking after your Fleshlight, and Guylashes. Sure, why not!
/r/MensRights04/11/11 01:13 PM
18

If you have only one or the other, I imagine that you'd be excited if the next was the opposite sex...
/r/MensRights04/11/11 12:06 PM
2

I actually just want to know why. Pheromones? Are all the regular riders female and that's who the horses are used to?
/r/MensRights03/11/11 07:59 PM
5

They shouldn't do that.
/r/MensRights03/11/11 03:07 PM
6

meh The people who really believe this drivel end up self-selecting themselves out of rewarding relationships. Seen it a million times.
/r/MensRights03/11/11 11:35 AM
50

They both sound like idiots, but at least he was trying to be helpful by keeping the door open. I'm sure she's on the forums she likes to frequent saying how this dude roidraged on her because she tried to tell him she didn't need the door held. Pressing sexual assault charges is pretty horrible though. I'm glad that he has the video cameras for proof.
/r/MensRights02/11/11 08:18 PM
1

The daughter or the mother? The daughter was abused and isn't the best judge of who should and shouldn't be blamed.
/r/MensRights02/11/11 07:44 PM
-5

Right. They didn't take a picture of her, they took a picture of her body pretty much ignoring everything that the Slut Walk was supposed to be about, and past that, they didn't even quote the right people. I agree that she has no expectation of privacy, but she shouldn't have been objectified during a protest against objectification. I also went to the original article, I hate reading third-hand interpretations of things.
/r/MensRights28/10/11 04:09 PM
5

This video has been identified by Epilepsy Action to potentially trigger seizures for people with photosensitive epilepsy. Dammit Kanye.
/r/MensRights28/10/11 03:48 PM
2

That's great journalism Lou.
/r/MensRights28/10/11 03:42 PM
1

Not the Titus I was expecting
/r/MensRights27/10/11 12:37 PM
2

My first and a fond Scout leader from back in the day was a woman. I never really thought anything of it.
/r/MensRights26/10/11 09:46 PM
2

I think it says more about her that she thinks that the man held the door open for her because she was a woman, and not because she had an armful of papers and was tottering up the stairs in unpractical shoes.
/r/MensRights26/10/11 09:06 PM
6

I've seen this episode of Parks and Rec. Rob Swanson was awesome as usual.
/r/MensRights26/10/11 09:00 PM
2

I had a male teacher in the fourth grade, and I to this day still remember him as one of the coolest men I've known. I'm not sure if he's still at it, but he was just as capable of taking care of nine-year olds as any woman, and he was a great role-model for all the boys in the school. It is an real shame that the perception that men in elementary education is that they're 'less manly' or 'weak' because I would have to say that they help create strong future-men.
/r/MensRights02/09/11 08:48 PM
1

Is this for real? I don't think they're using the same definition of cat-calling...
/r/MensRights27/08/11 03:17 PM
1

And then she said “I wouldn’t want you to think we were ungrateful.” Wham…like a stack of bricks. She’s exhausted, stressed, near to dropping with relief. She’s left her home, her belongings. She doesn’t have a job. Beyond the tiny cash envelop in her kitchen, she didn’t have any real means to care for her self or her daughter. And yet she felt the need to be grateful. To express gratitude in case we might somehow take offense if she failed to do so. Fuck Gratitude. In context I completely under…
/r/MensRights27/08/11 01:36 PM
5

That's a good point. If I remember correctly there are some cases of people who've been refused the morning-after pill (as in the couple goes but the pharmacist refuses on religious/personal reasons) or other post-copulative contraception methods.
/r/MensRights25/08/11 07:25 PM
2

Not really analogous, but I get it.
/r/MensRights25/08/11 01:49 PM
3

And she has no right to complain when she goes around posing in her underwear. Not really sure what that has to do with anything. Would she only have a right to complain if she only did photo-shoots in Family Circle?
/r/MensRights02/08/11 09:38 PM
7

Hero? This caused some trouble, however, when Walsh loaned his 2010 campaign $35,000 of his own money, and took foreign vacations with his girlfriend, which suggested he wasn’t quite as broke as he’d led his children and ex-wife to believe. I don't know how he could ever be considered a hero. And he ran on a fiscally conservative platform? AWESOME.
/r/MensRights28/07/11 06:45 PM
2

I don't know what the deal is with that FAQ on the sidebar. I don't really look at the sidebars to reddits. But did you click it? I did. And what was the thread? Someone posting a link to that Feminism 101 blog or FAQ I guess, saying if you read it all your misconceptions would disappear. Kinda like the OP was doing! The way I've seen that FAQ used is kind of like how some fundamentalists view their particular brand of worship. The answers and accepted questions are all in the same place. I get …
/r/MensRights28/07/11 04:30 PM
1

That's why I was all, "not all Feminists are dogmatic of course, I'm guessing your wife isn't but that resource is".
/r/MensRights28/07/11 04:02 PM
0

When you told her what you thought about feminism she dismissed it and pointed you to something that has all the answers with no room for discussion or new ideas. Dogma. That's not to say that all Feminists are dogmatic of course, I'm guessing your wife isn't, but that resource is. Why didn't she break down your preconceptions herself, with her understanding of Feminism. There are so many types/waves/schools of Feminists out there, that you really need to talk to any one individual before gettin…
/r/MensRights28/07/11 03:32 PM
6

I'm willing to give the OP the benefit of doubt. Firstly I always get linked to those 101 blogs when I post on "feminist-oriented" blogs or websites. Apparently I need to read, understand, and believe it all before putting my thoughts out there. And also I need to understand that as a man, there are sometimes when my voice should not be around at all even if the conversation is directly related to or even about men. That's actually a personal pet peeve of mine. It seems to be limited to establis…
/r/MensRights28/07/11 03:15 PM
1

Haha, I'm not sure if I get your metaphor. Is the gun the woman? Or the head?? From a pro-life perspective really this is a non-argument. For you once the seeds of life are sown the end result is always a baby. Fine. Instead of an abortion, one person wants to put the baby up for adoption. Doesn't matter who, but one thinks that it's as morally repugnant to place the baby in another home as you might think a first trimester abortion is (I don't know much about the specifics of abortion). Who get…
/r/MensRights27/07/11 08:31 PM
4

some of them are paying $3,000 for a 30-hour course at the Moral Education Center for Women that teaches “techniques to make them more attractive, from how to put on make-up in the most flattering way to how to spot a liar by looking at his facial expressions Wealthy, eligible bachelors spend around $4,500 as an introductory fee to meet girls who complete the course. Genius
/r/MensRights27/07/11 11:29 AM
14

Exactly. I wonder if some people have just not been in contact with pregnant women for the entire nine months it takes to spit out a baby. That's no joke! It takes a huge toll on the body even in the earlier stages. In an ideal situation you have friends and family and the full support of a spouse or lover to lessen the impact, and women are still literally knocked off their feet. Financial abortion sounds all well and good, but it just doesn't seem feasible.
/r/MensRights27/07/11 11:20 AM
21

No. Don't take it out on the kids...
/r/MensRights25/07/11 07:22 PM
1

Ha, it's hard. I have a younger sister who's getting to "that age" where boys find her attractive and she finds them attractive. It's actually in my eyes that I see no one as good enough for her, I can't imagine how I'd feel if I had a daughter of my own.
/r/MensRights25/07/11 03:05 PM
2

Pretty much. Especially if you're talking about particular parts of Manhattan.
/r/MensRights25/07/11 01:34 PM
7

Meh. I have no problem with her life-choice and don't really care about any rationalization of it. According to some on this sub-reddit, she did some random unknown guy a favor by not divorcing him. But now you are living with the consequences. You are paying the cost of being true to yourself. There are a few hints of the truth within all the foofy things. Nothing wrong with being alone, you just have to find some purpose in life that isn't related to "conventional" mom/dad/2.5 kids/dog/house.
/r/MensRights25/07/11 01:22 PM
1

Well, actually it's 'ad hominem, thy name is ForMensRights the redditor who has a problem with me apparently' To be fair...
/r/MensRights22/07/11 06:09 PM
5

I doubt feminism will help anyone in Somalia. And to be perfectly honest, the problems in those countries go so far beyond what most people in the first world can comprehend. Co-opting their suffering for any reason is reprehensible.
/r/MensRights22/07/11 05:58 PM
3

Punishment?
/r/MensRights22/07/11 12:20 PM
1

Introspection is a hard thing to do. Good to see someone putting the results of it in the public sphere.
/r/MensRights21/07/11 08:50 PM
3

I watched this on Netflix after a recommendation from friends. It's an incredibly powerful story. It's really personal, but definitely accessible to strangers. edit: Didn't know anything going in either.
/r/MensRights21/07/11 08:07 PM
4

There's nothing I can post that would top what life's already done to her.
/r/MensRights21/07/11 05:48 PM
4

Your assumptions that being a man means having power, wealth, and strength flies in the face of the reality of many men who don't have any of those things. Same for attraction and women, and I'm not sure I entirely understand your meaning with it... But for the sake of this argument I'll let that go. Lots of guys will tell you that women are often insecure about their looks, and I think that's true. From experience I can tell you that you're better off calling a woman a cunt instead of calling h…
/r/MensRights21/07/11 02:23 PM
1

You don't have to be gay to stay away from women. If you truly hate women then live your life as best you can without them. The ones that presumably caused you to hate them have nothing to do with the ones you don't know yet. Do them, and apparently yourself, a favor by limiting your contact until you can separate your hate of some women from the XX population at large...
/r/MensRights20/07/11 06:56 PM
3

A blanket ignore? What about the people who post in various subreddits who are reasonable (like I think I am).
/r/MensRights20/07/11 03:44 PM
2

I post here and on twox, and sometimes in feminisms. I think that the heat is getting to people. Turning everyone a bit crazy.
/r/MensRights20/07/11 03:35 PM
35

My original thought was that Charles was kind of a hanger on. I hate to go there, but I can't imagine the scenario otherwise. He knows what she's about, and what other better way to win points than to show how great he is compared to those "cretins"?
/r/MensRights19/07/11 09:08 PM
2

I do this mostly to piss her off There's your problem right here.
/r/MensRights19/07/11 03:57 PM
8

What would you do.
/r/MensRights19/07/11 03:47 PM
3

The father doesn't want the child, and is broke from another woman who wronged him and is bleeding him dry for support for children he never wanted and never gets to see One super-cold part of me would say that this isn't the child or woman's problem. If he doesn't have the money to help with an abortion and the woman can't bring herself to go through with the procedure, then the only other option is to look into adoption, struggle to raise the baby (because raising a baby is more money than an …
/r/MensRights16/07/11 06:42 PM
12

Not a billion, don't be ridiculous. If a man was caught eating out his son's 15 yo female classmates, then there would have been outrage from women's groups and the media, and the police, and the prosecutors. He would be a pedophile and danger to the community, and there's no way probation would be in the picture. But obviously since the 15 year old was a boy he wanted it, he was probably asking for it and obviously enjoyed having an early sexual experience with a middle-aged woman because all b…
/r/MensRights16/07/11 06:29 PM
18

Guess you missed the part where her 13-year old daughter jumped in on the orgy. I'll bet you feel some outrage now though.
/r/MensRights16/07/11 06:07 PM
2

I find it funny that the only one even remotely bringing up how making light of this is ridiculous is Sarah Gilbert.
/r/MensRights16/07/11 02:49 PM
1

Not directly, no. But the anxiety some young men feel when talking to women is an issue, and I really believe that positive strategies (ie: women are people bros no reason to be nervous) need to drown out the negative ones. That's good for men, and women too.
/r/MensRights16/07/11 02:09 PM
9

Well it's not like BDSM was largely accepted before feminism. If it isn't feminism it would've been religion, or not being a Victorian lady or whatever.
/r/MensRights16/07/11 01:23 PM
8

Wow. Well I guess she can look on her mantle and reminisce about the punches to the face she took in the ring to earn them...
/r/MensRights15/07/11 04:36 PM
9

From the article; When I was about 14 through 17, hanging around in an urban environment, with no car, and spending a lot of time at night on foot going places, I learned to do this trick. Say I'm walking down State Street and it's 1:00 AM and there's a woman walking in front of me in the same direction. With very few exceptions, I'll overtake her, and there will then be this long, maybe one-third of a city block long period when I'm right behind her, then right next to her, then just in front o…
/r/MensRights15/07/11 12:37 PM
6

All the PUA stuff seems to be a response to a lack of power some guys feel when dating or even talking to women. Not that that excuses any of the more manipulative techniques of course. If so many women find the "PUA culture" so bad, then a few of them needs to come up with alternatives for the dudes who are willing to take advice to heart. Because those dudes are out there, and if being a pickup artist works even some of the time then saying "no stop, bad" without that alternative is just a was…
/r/MensRights15/07/11 12:20 PM
2

Hoo-boy the best part of this is all the hard data collected from the CDC/Census/NCES.
/r/MensRights14/07/11 09:31 PM
6

Was I insensitive? Was I an asshole? She's being immature. But she'll get over it.
/r/MensRights14/07/11 07:30 PM
6

Stop calling it manorexia, get the dudes the help they need. Tell the people who make jokes to stuff it. Simple as that for me.
/r/MensRights14/07/11 06:16 PM
1

Not sure why this is here. If this is real, then this woman needs real help, and was failed by everything and everyone. A 16-year old shouldn't have had to be put in a position where this is a real option for survival.
/r/MensRights13/07/11 04:33 PM
4

It sort of sounds like he just got out of a bad relationship. Every once in awhile I'll have to tune out female friends talking about how 'all men are dogs' or whatever. This is pretty much the same thing wrapped in a different package.
/r/MensRights09/07/11 08:26 PM
12

She says no, and then they both part ways. And that's where it actually ended. Everything else is internet Bullshit. Including this!! And my post!!!!
/r/MensRights09/07/11 02:25 PM
6

That's an excellent point!
/r/MensRights09/07/11 01:27 PM
5

I've watched some of her videos in the past. She'd probably be disappointed to know that part of the reason I did was because I find her super freakin' attractive. Sometimes she makes some good points, but every once in awhile she channels some of the stuff that make my eyes glaze over. And sometimes I kind of get the sense that she has a problem with EVERYTHING. Hard to take anyone seriously when that happens.
/r/MensRights09/07/11 01:25 PM
2

Wouldn't have been awkward if it worked!
/r/MensRights08/07/11 09:54 PM
1

Definitely interested in seeing the sort of replies that generates.
/r/MensRights08/07/11 09:43 PM
1

Zawojski said her daughter's life spiraled downward a month after Hoffman's brother was fatally shot in a standoff with Atlantic County authorities at the home he shared with his mother and sister last year. Nothing but tragedy here.
/r/MensRights08/07/11 09:32 PM
1

I know! But there's sexual harassment so it's not OK.
/r/MensRights08/07/11 08:25 PM
1

haha.
/r/MensRights08/07/11 03:49 PM
3

The main problem I have with all these blog sites and their outrage is that you have to click link after link to get after the offending post.
/r/MensRights08/07/11 01:31 PM
1

Well. She does make a point of consistently saying that she's talking about "cheating men" and "men who don't want to take responsibility of their actions".
/r/MensRights30/06/11 04:43 PM
12

meh There's a reason why there are so many single women in New York, and if they want to claim it's because they're a different species more power to 'em. I guess since they're so awesome they can get anti-polygamy laws passed so the whole lot of 'em can marry the few millionaire bankers available.
/r/MensRights27/06/11 07:43 PM
3

Looks fade, and women beautiful women usually face a rude awakening because as the saying goes girls turn 18 everyday.
/r/MensRights22/06/11 02:17 PM
7

One thing that I do think is definitely real is not being judged on your looks instead of your accomplishments or skills.
/r/MensRights22/06/11 01:21 PM
1

She has a fucking memoir?
/r/MensRights22/06/11 11:33 AM
5

Remember how some websites were wondering why women in congress weren't caught up in sex scandals? Someone should ask them why male teachers don't have sex with their students...
/r/MensRights21/06/11 09:48 PM
12

Another woman is breastfeeding our son. Uh. What? This has nothing to do with entitlement or sexism. That's fucked up.
/r/MensRights21/06/11 12:58 PM
1

Good? An advisor whispering in the king's (queen's lol) ear can have as much effect or more than the ruler themselves. The problem however, is being heard without immediately being branded an enemy.
/r/MensRights21/06/11 12:15 PM
1

Here's a poll. This is of ~17:31.
/r/MensRights15/06/11 09:36 PM
1

damn dude NSFW doesn't cover it.
/r/MensRights15/06/11 09:31 PM
1

Definitely a good way of putting it, I've never thought about it like that before.
/r/MensRights15/06/11 11:34 AM
9

and offering to do the driving on a long distance journey. Yesssss saying that you cannot live without her could also be sexist. Wait what
/r/MensRights15/06/11 11:28 AM
2

And at this point, I honestly don’t know whether that’s something I should apologize for or not. In an ideal world, this wouldn’t be the case, but in an ideal world, the first factor I mentioned would be diminished and the second nonexistent. Since we live in the real world, I’m provisionally comfortable with my prejudice, though always open to new ideas that might change my perspective. Thoughts? Those are her actual words. Give credit where credit is due.
/r/MensRights13/06/11 04:06 PM
3

That woman isn't blaming the patriarchy for shit.
/r/MensRights12/06/11 08:20 PM
1

0_o
/r/MensRights11/06/11 01:33 PM
2

Not the ones that want statutory rape laws between minors thrown out of the books entirely. Just sayin'
/r/MensRights10/06/11 05:55 PM
9

What clothes are decidedly and universally "anti-slut"? That's one of the problems with this sort of argument? In the 1800s it was showing a little bit of ankle, and the 1920s it was showing some knee. Burqas for all ladies leaving their houses unaccompanied by male family members or their husbands?
/r/MensRights10/06/11 01:43 PM
1

Resent maybe? He probably loves his mom, why don't you etc. Or the mom could inadvertently or worse purposefully poison them against you. Or maybe not, who knows. The only way to combat it is to be a real force in the child's life, and sometimes the other person doesn't make it as easy/accessible as it could be. But if she's bat-shit crazy after your kid is born, she was probably bat-shit crazy before.
/r/MensRights10/06/11 01:28 PM
1

So, I guess there's some shades of grey to this; if the roles were reversed and this happened to a young girl by a bunch of adolescent boys...I'd be a lot more upset as a parent. That's only because I think the motivations behind it would be different if it was done by boys, I mean as a guy, I'm not going to kid myself; a bunch of 8th grade boys stripping a 10 year old girl wouldn't be just extremely cruel, although non-sexual like this video seems. Part of the problem. You can explain away or d…
/r/MensRights09/06/11 06:49 PM
2

WELCOME TO ROCHESTER. MAY YOWAH STAHY BE MAHRRY
/r/MensRights09/06/11 01:39 PM
2

WOW What the fuck is wrong with his mother? "It went a little too far?" What a stupid bitch. I hope she'll at least get him help for dealing with this entire ordeal and not tell him to "man up"
/r/MensRights09/06/11 12:52 PM
1

That’s when the naked man emerged from the bush and started following her. For some reason I can't summon rage about this. In fact, one flasher, Xavier Chouart, was later dubbed “The Greasy Pig” by police after he had oiled himself up so much that he literally slipped out of the hands of an officer giving chase. Amazing. Let's not defend dudes like this please.
/r/MensRights09/06/11 12:49 PM
0

Definitely sounds like a sociopath. Figures she'd look like that. I wonder what it would take to put her in the slammer. This doesn't even sounds real.
/r/MensRights28/05/11 07:27 PM
2

and restaraunts that play Muzak I lol'd
/r/MensRights20/05/11 03:41 PM
3

That was creepy as hell. I'm sure the police officer thought it was a welcome break though.
/r/MensRights19/05/11 08:53 PM
5

Oh boy. The kid totally wants to go. The lady thinks this video will help, but pretty much it's gonna be the exact opposite.
/r/MensRights19/05/11 08:45 PM
2

Beating someone at a drinking game doesn't mean drinking the most... Also most rugby drinking-games leave everyone a "loser".
/r/MensRights19/05/11 01:58 PM
0

what
/r/MensRights19/05/11 01:42 PM
1

I'm against it when it is against their will or children. I don't care if adults make rational decisions to do it as a profession, but I think there should be some regulation to keep diseases in check as much as possible.
/r/MensRights18/05/11 02:51 PM
0

Breasts aren't exactly analogous to your wang. I get it though.
/r/MensRights18/05/11 02:49 PM
2

lol If a dude needs real help, and not just a face to bitch about what their wife/girlfriend/mom/dad said to them then they need to get it! Depression is real, bi-polar disorder is real, and anything that de-stigmatizes peoples' willingness to seek help for it beyond drinking/drugging themselves into oblivion is A-ok in my book, even when it's wrapped as condescendingly as this campaign.
/r/MensRights11/05/11 11:52 PM
1

I'm guessing it's a respnose to r/beatingwomen??
/r/MensRights11/05/11 11:47 PM
1

"You know how there's military wives, and NFL wives, and Pastors' wives..." lol This lady isn't actually a prison wife, this is all hypothetical. And it sounds like she's completely romanticizing inmates, what they go through, and the effect it has on people on both sides of the bars. Here's how it's effecting this woman After listening to the entire thing, I'm guessing that this is literally her diary put on video.
/r/MensRights09/05/11 10:10 PM
6

on the "verge of homelessness". I simply cannot imagine that putting this out in open court wouldn't lead to you having primary custody. Get a lawyer who will work for you, not just some guy in a suit phoning it in, and even if you do find someone decent call every goddamn day and make sure they do their job.
/r/MensRights09/05/11 12:12 AM
3

If the woman you've had kids with spends the child-support money on herself or frivolous things, then she was a horrible choice before the children were even in the picture.
/r/MensRights04/05/11 01:39 PM
1

come on dude. It is entirely possible that she's crazy, but a more likely story is that she's tired of being the one "in charge" in the bedroom and wants something different. Not everything is a conspiracy by feminists.
/r/MensRights02/05/11 09:00 PM
1

Any time I see this I think that the dudes who buy into it somewhat deserve their fate. Platonic guy pal who always seemed to want to spend time with you. PLATONIC GUY PAL. Not POTENTIAL BOYFRIEND. Those dudes need to make their intentions clear. It's literally that simple.
/r/MensRights27/04/11 06:33 PM
1

maybe? Most Cosmo stuff is after the relationship is "established" though.
/r/MensRights20/04/11 11:46 AM
2

I tried to watch it, I thought that the first segment was going to be more fair, but in the end, even after he had the woman admit she reacted to verbal abuse with violence Phil ended up telling the man that it was his responsibility and fault for what was going on. And the dude agreed. The second guy was obviously a scumbag though.
/r/MensRights19/04/11 01:05 PM
2

In the first video she kept saying how her situations "wasn't fair". The only thing I kept thinking was that the only unfair thing was that her two kids would never get a chance to live their own lives, and work past the mistakes of their parents. fuck her
/r/MensRights14/04/11 02:17 PM
1

In this case, Sara Rue was all about how she was a larger lady and all proud of it and all that jazz. She's lost a lot of weight since she was younger, and is obviously proud of her transformation. She's not a mascot anymore, and now there's a backlash.
/r/MensRights13/04/11 12:16 PM
3

What's the problem? If your partner's body is being sapped dry by a parasite then you gotta do your best to not take things personally and help out. I cracked a few ribs once, and I was an asshole, I can't even imagine having a baby in my body for nine months. What would your suggestion be when dealing with a pregnant woman... I'm hoping the beer is a joke.
/r/MensRights13/04/11 12:05 PM
1

Damn. This is rough. I couldn't imagine taking care of an child with autism and cancer. I really feel for her, sounds like an impossible situation.
/r/MensRights13/04/11 11:49 AM
1

Like the 18-year old dudes with 16-year GFs or what?
/r/MensRights12/04/11 08:17 PM
32

I agree with everything except 6. There are tons of people who say they are depressed, and full of it, but real depression can kill.
/r/MensRights12/04/11 02:56 PM
44

She cited federal law, and from the language I'm guessing it cuts both ways. BTW I'm quitting my job and becoming a gymnastics reporter later today.
/r/MensRights12/04/11 11:47 AM
1

Fuck that. All I got from that trailer is that red-heads and Marisa Tomei are hot.
/r/MensRights11/04/11 05:26 PM
1

Niqubs for everyone!!
/r/MensRights11/04/11 04:59 PM
1

Did you read it? She actually criticizes Rosin.
/r/MensRights11/04/11 04:57 PM
4

Fantasy Baseball. I've only met a few women who've been into it, but it's a way for dudes to socialize over stuff. If you run a good league with drafts and trades and such that occur in-person at times, then it's a great way to bring up other things.
/r/MensRights06/04/11 04:50 PM
0

lol I do the opposite. I know there are some women where I work who expect the door to be held open for them when they're anywhere within the vicinity, but I only hold open doors for people who are right behind me.
/r/MensRights06/04/11 11:53 AM
2

Does that actually happen? Forgive my ignorance, but if I find out about a kid years later (and my name isn't on the birth certificate) can I be forced to pay back child support?
/r/MensRights05/04/11 02:35 PM
1

He fit the mold so well because he was insane, or a sociopath, whatever. I should re-watch it too!!
/r/MensRights02/04/11 09:24 PM
0

I don't know about "Game", but it sounds like his father hasn't had a spine for a long time, and he's on the same path. If for some strange reason I was in a restaurant with someone else paying and had the same experience, there's no way I wouldn't give the workers the shit they deserve, especially since the other person is treating me. Plus I hate people in Ray-Bans so there's that.
/r/MensRights31/03/11 07:55 PM
1

That's pretty awesome. I've been punched in the face for going on stage uninvited. It happens. But I guess SXSW is a prominent venue. But who the hell cares what punk writers or internet community members think (I doubt any of them are fans). This sounds like it'll only be an issue with the people who will go out of their way to make it an issue.
/r/MensRights30/03/11 09:27 PM
1

I've recently seen a few TV shows that had Stay at Home Dads as characters. In both, (the Good Wife and Fairly Legal) the original introduction to the characters had them framed in a way that made them "less men", (that's not entirely accurate, but I can't think of any other way to describe it) overly obsessed with their babies, and weak. Both shows have strong female main characters, QUITE THE COINCIDENCE EH? But recent episodes have had a better balance of their nurturing side and introduction…
/r/MensRights26/03/11 01:49 PM
2

Where are all the dudes living the life of Old School? I wasn't even living that when I was living in a Fraternity house. I never understand why people use movies, TV shows, or even celebrities as a literal mirror to reality.
/r/MensRights24/03/11 12:13 PM
1

I always feel a kind of pity for the guys involved with this, and to me feeling pity for another person is the worst thing. I just want to tell the dude who had the daughter, that his problems had/have nothing to do with not having an SO. Things don't work out even during the best of circumstances, and tossing in a cultural/language barrier and the complications of emigrating into the mix is just insane.
/r/MensRights23/03/11 09:16 PM
1

How about if she asked you to ask her to marry her.
/r/MensRights17/03/11 12:17 PM
2

Very nice.
/r/MensRights10/03/11 02:20 AM
6

How old are you both? I'm guessing this isn't the first physical altercation between you two, but you have nothing to apologize for if you're defending yourself. Tell her you'll accept apology from her for attacking you (if in fact you will) and that you guys can go from there. The closest I'd come to an apology is telling her that she won't get hit if she keeps her hands to herself.
/r/MensRights10/03/11 01:59 AM
3

No she was prosecuted for it. http://www.ktla.com/news/landing/ktla-teen-mom-amber-portwood-arrested,0,2725446.story
/r/MensRights24/02/11 02:46 PM
6

This doesn't happen to me. People hand me their babies all the time.
/r/MensRights13/01/11 12:27 PM
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