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| 1 | 30 days. 30 people. Any advice?Try instead of introducing yourself, ask their name, then "nice to meet you ____" without giving your name. It is a good way to gauge interest. If they are interested they will ask your name. If not they won't. | /r/seduction | 14/04/21 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Did these girls mock me and laughing at me? Off what to think good or badThis again? Wow | /r/seduction | 03/05/19 12:40 AM |
| 3 | Guys: how would you take this if you were me? I think she’s being weird but idkThis guy is a troll. Hence the -25 karma. | /r/seduction | 29/04/19 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Contextualize this rejection for me (I rarely if ever turn to Seddit for advice, but someone can probably smack some sense in to me)Depends what you are looking for. Seems you are looking for hidden meaning when she was very straightforward with you. Sounds like she just doesnt want a relationship right now. If she isnt jumping in a relationship with someone else there is no reason to think otherwise. This other commenter was pretty spot on with his analysis. That said, if you are looking for a relationship you need to look elsewhere. If you are looking for friends to hang with and have fun with, then you got it. | /r/seduction | 24/04/19 12:16 PM |
| 3 | Is it ok to ask a girl if she has a boyfriend straight out the gate?I would reccomend building interest first. There are other ways to display your intentions. | /r/seduction | 22/04/19 11:41 AM |
| 4 | I have a date with a tall girl and I’m nervous.There are so many things to worry about that you can control. Dont sweat the things you can't. | /r/seduction | 22/04/19 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Pickup advice for someone that's newly single after a long-term relationship?That is true but has nothing to do with age. | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 10:58 AM |
| 2 | Do you guys text the girls you date?No idea what these other commenters are talking about. Texting is no good. What you are doing now, texting to meet up, is best all around. Stick with it. | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Pickup advice for someone that's newly single after a long-term relationship?What is this supposed to mean? Guys of all ages study pick up.. | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 02:24 AM |
| 3 | What should i know about sexJust be honest and talk about it. You can thank me later. | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Don’t know if she’s interested or notYou miss every shot you dont take! | /r/seduction | 21/04/19 02:18 AM |
| 1 | She (21f) seems interested but wants to be single and not date anyone?Just dont try to label it. Have fun. If something happens good if not. Oh well. | /r/seduction | 07/04/19 02:14 AM |
| 1 | How can I deal with a girl that’s knocked on my door twice and doesn’t seem to get the messageThis | /r/seduction | 07/04/19 01:02 AM |
| 4 | Tinder and shit testsYou shouldn't respond to an aggressive opening aggressively. Makes you seem affected by it. Like you are getting defensive. Try a more playful retort. | /r/seduction | 07/04/19 12:58 AM |
| 1 | She (21f) seems interested but wants to be single and not date anyone?She has been very forthcoming with you. She wants casual. Hang out and have fun with no commitment. If you are into it stay the course and get her alone. If you are looking for more then you need to look elsewhere. | /r/seduction | 07/04/19 12:53 AM |
| 2 | One Year LaterLots of comments I didnt read but sound like the tldr is worked on myself then it worked. | /r/seduction | 16/03/19 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Is this Megan Fox Gaming On Christiano Ronaldo Or What? With Her Writing The "I don't remember..." Part Looks Like She's Disqualifying HimYup she is pointing out that is is photoshopped and seems disappointed. | /r/seduction | 10/03/19 06:42 PM |
| 2 | How can I value myself better after this situation with my ex I can see I’ve just been too nice and just messing up too muchThis is not a dating advice sub. Wrong place for this. | /r/seduction | 10/03/19 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Ex GF wants a "possible" relationship if we start hooking upWhen did this become a relationship advice sub? | /r/seduction | 10/03/19 12:14 PM |
| 1 | How to keep the girl interested? (Highschool)High school is not like real world dating. Kids are immature emotionally and developmentally. Traditional strategies dont work as well. Try a Teen sub... | /r/seduction | 08/01/19 12:53 AM |
| 2 | If someone tries to AMOG you by saying in front of the group, “Have you fucked her yet?”, what do you say?His words mirror mine in the core idea that you cant let it be known that it bothers you. The goal is just to show that you have the confidence to deal with it. If it was just a passive comment outside the social circle then that may work. If this person will remain in the group after the comment you may not be able to avoid responding to it without your position being lessened. | /r/seduction | 06/01/19 04:05 AM |
| 2 | If someone tries to AMOG you by saying in front of the group, “Have you fucked her yet?”, what do you say?Depending on the situation and his social status that could be a bad move. If she views it as him saying she is easy she could be turned off by your lack of response as not sticking up for her. | /r/seduction | 06/01/19 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Struggling!!Keep your head up and do some research of material out there. But you are young. Focus on studies and you personal goals first. It will come. | /r/seduction | 06/01/19 01:52 AM |
| 1 | "The best way to get over a girl is to get on somebody else." But how do you do that when you are down from a breakup/rejection?That isnt the best way. Best way is to remember what you have to offer and reflect on what went wrong. If it was serious then you are allowed to be hurt and be sad. Why did you break up? Was it something you did? Work on yourself. Work on your flaws. Go to the gym. Go out to have fun and enjoy yourself. | /r/seduction | 06/01/19 01:50 AM |
| 2 | If someone tries to AMOG you by saying in front of the group, “Have you fucked her yet?”, what do you say?Matters more your confidence in your reply. Just dont let it bother you. Blow it off any way you want. Direct reply or a redirect but dont get defensive. | /r/seduction | 06/01/19 01:43 AM |
| 3 | kind of have a girlfriend now but don't really like herWhat are you trying to get from this post? Affirmation? You stated you dont really like her and want to pursue others. So do it? The reasons are meaningless. | /r/seduction | 02/01/19 07:22 PM |
| 1 | No dates. What's wrong with me?Should start from the initial interaction. There are 7.5 billion people in the world, why should she talk to you? It's up to you to present that reason. They are not going to seek it out. | /r/seduction | 01/01/19 08:44 PM |
| 2 | I'm starting to get into dates again but I couldn't get this.Move on. On another note, dont ever send more than one picture. If she wants to see you she can meet up. | /r/seduction | 01/01/19 08:19 PM |
| 1 | No dates. What's wrong with me?Because if you weren't then THEY would want to talk to YOU. Nothing to get defensive about. I'm not saying there is anything wrong with you. Just trying to help. Very well may be an easy fix. Sounds like you really want to do better. I would suggest doing some more research on opening and building the conversation. Do you qualify them? High energy questions? Any negs? Escalation will not work if you havent set it up with conversation. | /r/seduction | 01/01/19 08:16 PM |
| 3 | No dates. What's wrong with me?Hate to tell you bro but you are BORING to girls. Most likely from being overly nice. This is very easy to not see in yourself. If you chat up girls all the time and dont get a reaction, then you need to change up your approach. You need to incite feelings of excitement and desire. Make her want to talk to you. Want to know more. | /r/seduction | 01/01/19 08:03 PM |
| 1 | I'm starting to get into dates again but I couldn't get this.Ask her? | /r/seduction | 01/01/19 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Is being a “good guy” and a “nice guy” the same thing?Nice guy is not the same as a good guy. Good guy is a positive quality and a Nice guy usually refers to someone overly nice. | /r/seduction | 26/12/18 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Told my female friend I wanna fuck her, now what?Just invite her to a situation you could fuck without mentioning it or asking about it. #1 rule: girls dont want to be seen as a slut. Keeping it unspoken is your best bet. | /r/seduction | 26/12/18 06:50 PM |
| 1 | How to ask a girl out with a message?Just act like it didn't happen. Keep on keepin on | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 08:22 PM |
| 2 | How to ask a girl out with a message?No confidence in that message with a big "I'm not not worthy" at the end. Started out with a good line. "I prefer to talk about philosophy outdoors" But then you just fell apart. Need to tell her what you want. "I prefer to discuss philosophy outdoors like in ancient Rome, let's further this discussion on a walk through the park(Togas optional)" | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 07:50 PM |
| 2 | DId I blow a chance here or was it’s nothing? U.K.This guy again... | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 02:38 PM |
| 1 | What should I have done in this scenarioEnjoy the bands | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 06:18 PM |
| – | Niche hobbies sabotaging my dating?Over 7000 karma and only post other than this is a troll? Yeah grow up. | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 09:19 PM |
| 3 | How do i seduce a girl I just met?Sounds like you are looking for beginner tips. I would suggest searching this sub for that. Lots of good posts. Be careful though, as your post is close to against the rules here and kind of trolling | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 07:22 PM |
| – | If a girl has handsome guy friends...Worth is the idea that having you in her life will improve her situation(money, status, power socially). | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Niche hobbies sabotaging my dating?The problem with your attitude is that it is very closed and negative. The hobby just limits your prospects. More people will give you a shot if you have familiar less obscure hobbies that you have in common. That is not to say you cannot attract people who do not share them. If you have high value to women otherwise and the confidence to own your hobbies, what you do with your other time will not hinder that. | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 07:12 PM |
| 3 | If a girl has handsome guy friends...Then she still needs someone. If you think you are not good enough for her the you probably aren't mentally. You need to work on yourself to build your confidence. | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Niche hobbies sabotaging my dating?From this post it sounds like your attitude is sabotaging your dating more than your hobbies. But to answer your question, they CAN sabotage your dating. Think of it as a side dish with a meal. A good one that compliments the meal can make it better but one that is unpleasant can ruin the whole meal. Some people will still eat the second meal but most will choose the first. | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 06:52 PM |
| 2 | If a girl has handsome guy friends...Yes. Confidence and worth will trump looks. If they are "friends" then she obviously finds them lacking in one or the other. | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Am I interpreting this wrong?You left out how you left things after the walked you to class part. Should have number closed then. Was there a reason not to? She may have been disappointed that you didn't ask and that dropped your worth to her by showing her you aren't confident. Her "ignoring" you is most likely a test. You need to show her you have the confidence to break through that and get her number. Ie approach and be direct "hey (insert name here), we had a blast chatting the other day. You should give me your number… | /r/seduction | 05/12/18 06:29 PM |
| 3 | How do I take this form these girls at work?Again? Really? You post this multipld times every day... | /r/seduction | 30/11/18 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Went on a fun adventure with a girl, but no response when I texted her. Where did I go wrong??In her mind, you going your own way said you are puting your workout as higher priority than her. A simple "Mind if I join you?" After you both declared different intentions for your workout would have gave her the chance to decide that instead of you. | /r/seduction | 29/11/18 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Went on a fun adventure with a girl, but no response when I texted her. Where did I go wrong??Well for starters why did you ditch her at the gym? You asked her about going together to another gym and she said yes. You get there and didnt work out with her? She even told you she had a bad workout(she wanted you to join her) you failed that one and it even opened a door to offer to help next time and you missed that too. There were probably other things she said/did that you didnt mention because you didnt notice. | /r/seduction | 29/11/18 08:48 PM |
| 1 | (30m) women and dating are confusing and stressing me outIf it is someone you dont have to see every day then go for it. | /r/seduction | 29/11/18 08:12 PM |
| 2 | (30m) women and dating are confusing and stressing me outDon't shit where you sleep. If you go for more and it doesnt work out it will most likely end up awkward | /r/seduction | 29/11/18 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Are there any SOBER pickup-ers?You can order just a 7up or something and no one will care. | /r/seduction | 29/11/18 07:38 PM |
| 5 | How do I tell if it’s a date?Calling it a date will just add pressure on both of you. Just hang out and have fun and if you click escalate it. As for how to get a second date. Keep her wanting to know more. | /r/seduction | 29/11/18 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Its a question that seems to be commonly asked, can someone help me understand the elusive second date?Unfortunately in the internet world with so many options available, yes that is the reality. | /r/seduction | 28/11/18 10:39 PM |
| 4 | Its a question that seems to be commonly asked, can someone help me understand the elusive second date?Sounds like OP, as well as a few comments, after the dates you are being too needy(thirsty). You doing give her a chance to chase you. Next time try not texting the girl after. Wait for her to text you and do not instantly reply when she does. Then use texts to set up a next date. Women like a challenge. | /r/seduction | 28/11/18 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Why did these customers act like this? Should I be insecure about it or was I paranoid? U.K.Made a new account to post this nonsense again? | /r/seduction | 28/11/18 08:55 PM |
| 4 | Girl flakes on me, I’m fussed but not too fussedEven though you made an effort not to, you were being needy and chasing. Didnt give her the opportunity or desire to chase you. | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Forgive the beta question. After a good Tinder date, do you text her the next day or give it a minute ?Depends what you are looking for out of this. If looking for a relationship then feel free to text her now. If you just want fun and dont want her to get attached then wait a few days and text. | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Got number; not sure how to proceedJust get drinks and have fun. She probably hasn't decided yet if it's more, but she is willing to give it a shot. Dont tell her you are interested in more that will just make it weird and put pressure and expectations on things. Show her while you are getting drinks and having a good time. | /r/seduction | 25/11/18 01:12 PM |
| 0 | My storyTLDR = To long didn't read. A Summary. Ain't no one have time to ready that wall of text. | /r/seduction | 18/11/18 03:08 AM |
| 0 | My storyWhere is the tldr? | /r/seduction | 18/11/18 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Another night out solo, lost state when i got insultedNo idea why you are bothered by it, but he was jealous. What I have done in a situation like this is use a twist on your pull to introduce the next girl to him instead of to yourself. Or if its s pair even better. Everyone is just trying to have fun. | /r/seduction | 17/11/18 06:32 PM |
| 3 | What's the best advice/quote about "not giving a fuck" that you've heard"Fuck it" | /r/seduction | 17/11/18 06:18 PM |
| 5 | How can I maximize my success with girls in my current shitty college situation?Just Ask. But remember you have to see them every day so start casual like lunch or coffee or a study date to not make it awkward if they aren't interested. | /r/seduction | 14/11/18 01:12 AM |
| 5 | Girl customers at work made me uneasy...was they picking on me? U.K.Reported AGAIN. this is ag least 5 times he has posted this. | /r/seduction | 09/11/18 02:03 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Post-Halloween K-close x2, now starting to flake..If you choose to contact her again, it should be a straight to the point message setting up a meetup. That's it. if she says no without a suggestion of another time then don't respond. | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 05:59 PM |
| 8 | Waiting untill marriageWrong sub for this. | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Women keep using me for filler but why am I mad...Stop hooking up with married chicks? | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 01:01 PM |
| 3 | Im doing something wrong in all of my dates?Dont over-think it. If she rejects you outright, it's not because you are in public. It is the move to kiss her that is the right play here. It will go one of 3 ways: 1. She shuts you down completely - not enough escalation 2. She is weirded out by people staring - opens door to take it private 3. She welcomes it - most likely outcome if you have escalated properly | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 12:08 PM |
| 18 | Thoughts on going out with a girl who flaked twice? (long)Delete their numbers and move on. They are not interested. | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 11:49 AM |
| 2 | Im doing something wrong in all of my dates?Stop caring what those other people think. Kiss her at the bar. If you get shit for it from other people that is a good Segway into "let's go back to my place" | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Are girls attracted to a "Dexter personality"Not really the place for this. But they would find it boring and move on quickly. | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 11:24 AM |
| 4 | Girl I cold approached may think I'm stalking her..can I fix this?Do nothing! | /r/seduction | 07/11/18 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Tips for seducing a (light) FWBSounds like she is only half interested. If Friday she shuts you down again I would move on. She is just playing games. | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Tips for seducing a (light) FWBThat's a good suggestion. I do that too. Taking your own shirt off while making out is good because it shows her your intentions without giving her a chance to block you. Plus shows confidence. | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 05:15 PM |
| 1 | You write your own book(my story and my journey)This is the wrong place for this post. Do not mean to belittle your experiences, but it is not what this subreddit is for. | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Tips for seducing a (light) FWBSo many unknowns. Ages? Only kissed? You said "fool around with her", how far has it gone? How long have you known eachother? How long have you been making moves? Not enough real information in your post to answer. | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 04:09 PM |
| 0 | Curious about what y'all would doThis is so not true. It is a first text. The context was a shit test not a "lure", your first message is very important in this encounter. Just be direct and set up a date. Invite her to join you in something you are already going to do. Ie. "I'm going to Mario's to grab pizza with some friends tomorrow if you want to join us." This shows interest but that you have your own life. If she declines then it is on her to offer a suggestion. | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 02:03 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Post-Halloween K-close x2, now starting to flake..You are probably just overthinking it. I would give it a few days of silence. See if she reaches out to you. Maybe get out and approach more girls to get your mind out of the tunnel. Remember you have options and dont let her forget either | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 05:13 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Post-Halloween K-close x2, now starting to flake..Sounds like you are not far off base. I would try making plans without her and inviting her along."hey I am going to a comedy show with some friends Monday night at 7 if you want to come along, I heard this show will hilarious." You have presented her with a great time that is happening with or without her. So even if she does not go she will most likely ask about it. Also as for your "missed opportunity" as a rule of thumb give the woman the chance to make that decision to wait until after you … | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 04:21 PM |
| 3 | How to txt a girl when you just got her number.Be yourself. Be playful. First and most importantly your main goal of texting is to set up dates. Save the full conversation for on the date. Build interest by being mysterious. Open discussions to find common interests but leave open answers to make her want to learn more. | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 01:41 PM |
| 3 | Can a woman continue to go out with you and still not be interested?With no attempt at escalation you put yourself squarely in the friendzone. You are also showing her you are a beta by following her around dancing with only her. If you still want to pull her, you need to stop focusing on her. Make a point to tell her she is "a good friend", effectively telling her you are friend zoning her. Dance with other girls and flirt with others when you are out with her. You need to make her realize your value and you have other options. | /r/seduction | 05/11/18 12:55 PM |
| 3 | Advice for asking someone outSounds to me like she is trying to get you to invite her for one of your "fun and interesting weekends". I would start there. As others have said, do not suggest escalating before that as it may get awkward if you get rejected. Escalate during your time togethe | /r/seduction | 04/11/18 12:39 PM |
| 2 | New semester how to do I talk to gears in new lecture hallsBest advice, talk to everyone you can, guys/girl, everyone. Builds confidence and you will learn what works and what does not. | /r/seduction | 04/11/18 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Advice for the lost: A bitch can't save you!So you expected to make a connection with a hooker and didnt and somehow made this realization out of that? Very misleading post with no real merit. | /r/seduction | 04/11/18 12:47 AM |
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