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| 1 | "Why Does He Do That?" by Lundy Bancroft has a whole section describing the abuse tactics of softbois (Mr. Sensitive in the book)"Men are just plain manipulative. I’ve had a ton of dates, relationships, and hookups. Either from bars, common friends, or hookup apps (Adult Friend Finder, Tinder, Bumble). And they are all the same. Just differs in the way how they manipulate you. It sucks. " | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/22 05:09 AM |
| 1 | A Kiss Can't Lie: If he doesn’t kiss you, he‘s not in love with you.I agree with this. Kissing is a sign of affection. Kissing is a sign of affection that’s why whenever I hook up with guys I meet from Bumble or Adult Friend Finder. I avoid kissing them. Yes, we can have sex but kissing alone is a no-no, that’s relationship privilege. So If you are not getting any kisses from your partner. Think twice my friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/22 05:07 AM |
| 1 | 'When my husband told me to shush during labour I knew our marriage was over'Nice decision. I had a hookup on Adult Friend Finder who accidentally got me pregnant. It’s a good thing that he was willing to support me and the baby. I thought he was different. But when I was in labor, he asked if I was just overacting with the pain. So there, I ran as fast as I could lol. We are good without you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/22 05:06 AM |
| 1 | r/MGTOW sums up the dating world: “Most men can't get most women, most women find most men unworthy”. Thoughts?We can’t help it. Women are traumatized by men in all aspects. From professional life to dating life. Screw it. Just be single. People will judge you anyway. I’ve been in relationships and it's just disappointing. I would rather have meaningless hookups on apps like Tinder and Adult Friend Finder. You just go home afterward with no disappointments unless they had a shitty performance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/22 05:06 AM |
| 1 | West Elm Caleb: Women Warn Each Other about LVM on TikTok, Patriarchy Immediately Freaks Out"He deserves it. It’s just about time for women to stand together. All I can say is we all have to be careful about dating and hookup apps. I’ve matched and hooked up with several high-value men from Bumble and Adult Friend Finder who turned out to be scammers. It’s a good thing that women are now given warnings about this. We are tired of being manipulated." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/22 05:04 AM |
| 1 | I’m 37, I might be single for ever — and I’m happy with that"I’m 34 and I feel the same. I’ve dated a lot. Hooked up a lot. Met guys from bars, hooked up with guys from hookup apps (Tinder, Adult Friend Finder, Bumble), went on blind dates, etc. And men just never fail to disappoint. They have set the bar high when it comes to trauma and trust issues. I would rather stay single. I’m now single for 4 years and I’ve never felt so free and in control." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/22 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Be careful with Dominican menI’m done with Dominican Men. I’ve hooked up with several men from this hookup app called Adult Friend Finder and it’s just a no. They are misogynistic and toxic. Maybe it’s because of their culture or because I just matched with shitty men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/22 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Things you can say to piss off men (he has an entire series).“No” One of the best words that piss men off! Lol! They just can’t accept no for an answer. I matched with a couple of guys on Tinder and Adult Friend Finder, and once you said no, it’s an auto-un-match! Lol, men nowadays just want to take the easy route. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/22 05:02 AM |
| 1 | For anyone watching love is blind, a huge narcissist is in the show...Shayne.."I knew he was a narcissist! I’ve hooked up and dated someone from Adult Friend Finder who is exactly like him! Once you’ve dealt with a couple of narcissistic men, you’ll easily get to know them immediately just by the first look! Just sucks up all your energy! " | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/22 04:59 AM |
| 1 | The 6/6/6 rule is just asking for a normal guy.It’s our right to look for standards in men. Men have gave women nothing but trauma and high value men are really hard to find. I’ve been on several hookups and dates from Tinder and Adult Friend Finder and I have yet to find a high value man. I know it’s the wrong place to find for one but hookups apps are the biggest pool of men. As a woman who has been treated like shit several times, I think it’s just about time that we look for a man with high standards. It is what it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/22 04:59 AM |
| 1 | How do I get him to chase me again?The more distant you are to men. The more they want you. This is proven. I have male friends and I’ve had several hookups on Bumble and Adult Friend Finder. All of them have this similar traits. The more emotionally unavailable you are to them, the more they want you. It’s about the thrill of the chase. Men are wired to work hard to get what they want so the moment they get it, they tend to lose interest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/22 04:58 AM |
| 1 | “Come over, let’s cuddle”Cuddling is a fuckboi’s term for fucking. I’ve matched with several guys from Bumble and Adult Friend Finder who used this term. Believe it or not, cuddling ends up to fucking. It’s a no brainer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/22 04:57 AM |
| 1 | What is a high value man (HVM)? What traits should we be seeking in a partner? Share your thoughts below.Emotional availability, temper control, respect. Many men lack in these traits. I’ve met and hooked up with a lot of men from Bumble, Tinder, and Adult Friend Finder and I’ve only met very few men with these traits. For me these are some traits of a guy that has potential to build an amazing family. Women doesn’t have to do all the work you know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/22 04:57 AM |
| 2 | The Best Revenge Isn't Revenge: It's SILENCE.I totally agree on this! Silence is the best revenge! I’ve learned this the hard way.After I broke up with my ex, I started hooking up with people from Bumble and Adult Friend Finder just to prove to him that I can play the same game. Eventually, I realized that it left me more emotionally wounded. Also, they don’t care! They will just laugh at you. But once they don’t hear or see anything from you, that’s the time they act crazy and realize that letting you go was a mistake. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/22 04:56 AM |
| 1 | What are some “boyfriend privileges” that you shouldn’t give a guy before you’re officially together?For me, it’s my time, effort, meeting my friends and family. I am currently hooking up with guys from Bumble and Adult Friend Finder and the only time and effort they will get from me is meeting up just to hookup. But when it comes to dates, meeting my friends and my family, I only give that as boyfriend privilege. Technically anything that is personal, I only provide that if I am in a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/22 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Men respond better to silence vs cOmMuNicAtIonI completely agree!Men are wired to block off emotions and communication is equivalent to showing emotions. This is one of the things I’ve learned from men I hooked up with from clubs and hookup apps (Tinder, Adult Friend Finder, Bumble). They value silence more than communication. It sucks for us women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/22 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Dating “inequality” “data analysis”-🤣Another “lower your standards” theory. Such BS. It’s really hard to find a high-value man nowadays. Funny because they want us to lower our standards and not to step their game up. That’s why I gave up dating. I’m just plainly hooking up right now till the deserving man comes. I use either POF or Adult Friend Finder when I am looking for a hookup. No commitments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/22 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Spin off: how to tell if a man has a small dickThis happened to me twice! I’ve had hookups from Adult Friend Finder and they both have micropenises. I should’ve asked for a dick pick before agreeing to meet up. Not a good experience. I just left afterward and ghosted them. I know I’m mean but it is what it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/22 04:53 AM |
| 1 | LV and HV, is there ever a MVM/NVM?Yes, there are a lot of NVM out there. Especially on hook-up apps (Bumble, Tinder, Adult Friend Finder). Some are good and was able to have amazing hookups and dates with them. But a big percentage of them are NVMs. Just the worst. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/22 04:52 AM |
| 1 | How do you find out a guy’s dick size without sleeping with them?Basic, ask for a dick pic! Lol! This works all the time. I’ve had a lot of matches from hookup apps like Tinder and Adult Friend Finder and most of the time they will even send you dick pics without asking! Haha! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/22 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Tinder users will soon be able to access a background check database"Sudden drop of male Tinder users haha! I’ve met a lot of scammers from Tinder that’s why I stopped using it. I've had more success getting dates on POF, Bumble, and eHarmony when looking for a relationship. For hookups, Adult Friend Finder has worked really well for me." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/22 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guy"Lower your standards = Allow men to treat you like crap. This sucks. I’ve been on several dates and hookups from apps like Tinder and Adult Friend Finder and finding a good guy is so rare! Let's say about 5% out of a hundred %. And they want us to lower our standards? I would rather be single. Lol" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/22 04:50 AM |
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