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| 2 | Women's self centeredness doesn't allow them to see things beyond themselves and what they can get from men.Requiring men to pay is an effective filtering method. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Women's self centeredness doesn't allow them to see things beyond themselves and what they can get from men.There are large numbers of men who expect women to ruin their bodies, risk their health and sacrifice their time and energy having their children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 02:34 PM |
| 6 | Women's self centeredness doesn't allow them to see things beyond themselves and what they can get from men.I think the problem is that men don't discuss it beforehand. If you expect to split the bill, tell her and allow her to make a choice. She might not feel the date is worth her time which is probably why men aren't upfront. Instead they want to lure the woman out then pressure her to split the bill. It's manipulation which causes her to be angry which the man interprets as entitlement. Just be upfront, allow the woman to decide if spending time with you is worth the expense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Women's self centeredness doesn't allow them to see things beyond themselves and what they can get from men.Women do understand this, which is why they vote the way they do. Distaste at the choices men offer on an individual level is driving women to turn the government into the ultimate replacement for men. The government is becoming the strong man provider that demands submission from men instead of women and uses that submission to provide for women and children. Not just submission in terms of taxes, but also social pressure to recite false pieties for whatever social issues women choose. It will … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 02:16 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers have some smidge of truth, but it's exaggerated and twisted.Take your meds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers have some smidge of truth, but it's exaggerated and twisted.I would turn Obama down for about a million reasons. Any kind of selectivity can be spun as bigotry. Not having standards doesn't make you a better person, just desperate. Almost every person on the planet is a result of their ancestors being selective about who they reproduce with. The fact you have no standards is immoral in my eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Redpillers have some smidge of truth, but it's exaggerated and twisted.Labeling me a bad person for not conforming my dating life to your experiences, a complete stranger, is pretty weird. Your experiences and desires are not universal. No one is entitled to date anyone else. Everyone is allowed to use whatever metrics they feel serve their interests. You pay no cost if I take your advice and end up in a dissatisfying relationship so why should I conform to your experiences? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers have some smidge of truth, but it's exaggerated and twisted.So it's ok to make choices based on stereotypes if it reduces the risk of harm. I think bad relationships are harmful so I apply your logic when picking partners. For example, I don't date men who come from broken homes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers have some smidge of truth, but it's exaggerated and twisted.Are you open to dating convicted sexual criminals? I'm sure there are some who were wrongfully convicted, are you willing to judge them on a case by case basis? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers have some smidge of truth, but it's exaggerated and twisted.I think it's more harmful to give into romantic instincts. Especially considering biological drives. How would this heuristic harm you: When in a dating context, ask: what would an emotionally healthy person do? Then do that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 09:51 PM |
| 0 | Redpillers have some smidge of truth, but it's exaggerated and twisted.It's about as useful as any heuristic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Redpillers have some smidge of truth, but it's exaggerated and twisted.Stereotype Accuracy is One of the Largest and Most Replicable Effects in All of Social Psychology "Over 50 studies have now been performed assessing the accuracy of demographic, national, political, and other stereotypes. Stereotype accuracy is one of the largest and most replicable effects in all of social psychology... fewer than 5% of all effects in social psychology exceeded r’s of .50. In contrast, nearly all consensual stereotype accuracy correlations and about half of all personal stereot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Stop the "emotional labor"I did ballet and we were constantly told to suck it up and focus on performance. My brothers were taught about how to be good sports and not gloat over wins and stuff. The whole "good game, good game" hand shaking routine at the end of games. I don't really think any of that stuff makes too much difference with how people are as adults. A lot of how people are just comes down to genetics. The idea we're all blank slates and the environment determines behavior is mostly a myth aside from very ext… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 09:21 AM |
| 2 | Stop the "emotional labor"I don't mind talking about it, but it seems like deflection to ask a question rather than answer my original one requesting some concrete examples of how "Women are raised to proactively be caretakers emotionally. Often filling in the gap by guys being raised not to. Men are often not raised to be proactive partners in that, women are raised to take up the slack." I don't really know exactly what you mean by "the caretaking in your family was the same." I don't think it was the same among any of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 09:04 AM |
| 3 | Stop the "emotional labor"But what are some concrete examples? I wasn't raised this way so I'm curious. You say this as if everyone should just accept this for true but I have a bunch of brothers and sisters and this was not the norm for us. If anything my brothers were expected to caretake the younger kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 07:11 AM |
| 2 | Redpillers have some smidge of truth, but it's exaggerated and twisted.It might not for you, but you might have more capacity in certain areas than other people do. Like maybe you're better with stress tolerance. Maybe you're just young or haven't met a lot of people so you don't see how they start fitting into types. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 06:50 AM |
| 6 | Stop the "emotional labor"Men are often not raised to be proactive partners in that, women are raised to take up the slack. Can you tell me what this means? I don't think I was raised to take up slack so I'm curious what you're referring to here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 06:45 AM |
| 3 | Redpillers have some smidge of truth, but it's exaggerated and twisted.I don't think anyone likes to do this, but it is a useful tool for dealing with people. Not everyone wants to treat every person like a unique and special star, so simplifying dynamics saves time and energy. These kinds of models will never be completely accurate and they will never be loving, but this kind of objectification and dehumanization is what our society is trending towards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 04:39 AM |
| 4 | Stop the "emotional labor"I kind of see men as being either fast-twitch and slow-twitch muscles. There's the kind who do big grand gestures then coast, and the type who won't give big gestures but will put in more sustained effort. Of course then you have the flab, who do neither! Those are the types mostly interested in arguing with women online. They differ in their speed of contraction, energy source, and resistance to fatigue. Fast-twitch fibers contract rapidly for short bursts of intense activity like sprinting, wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 04:28 AM |
| 9 | Stop the "emotional labor"Men only know how to relate to people through hierarchy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 03:30 AM |
| 8 | Stop the "emotional labor"Sex with porn addicted men is not enjoyable. The idea of men providing a financial safety net is not the norm. If a woman gets seriously ill there is a good chance her husband will divorce her. Women can adopt children or use a donor. If you can't make an emotional connection with a woman there is really no point in being in a relationship. Many women would rather be alone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 03:29 AM |
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