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| 1 | Fat single mom asks The Big Question. No hookups! | WhereAreAllTheGoodMenUnless your partner was an abusive fuck, stay with them. Because people (especially women) are told if they aren't happy and their "needs" are not being met, to leave. It doesn't matter if there will be collateral damage to others. It doesn't matter if you'll be hurt financially in the long run. Because your fee fees matter more than anything else. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/06/26 03:38 PM |
| 28 | Single mom is NOT looking for hook ups! It's time to settle down! Which means YOU need to ManUp™! | WhereAreAllTheGoodMenWell, she's probably broke as hell right now and needs help. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/06/26 03:33 PM |
| – | Her giving “her best” to another man before is irrelevant.She sucked it up and suffered for someone she's no longer with. That has the potential to make someone wonder why they were more open with some else then they are with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 07:42 PM |
| – | Her giving “her best” to another man before is irrelevant.If we are talking, she previously bit her tongue and held back tears to put up with anal every Friday for three years, hell no. She's stronger and a better person for learning to say no. Some would argue that that she didn't learn to say no soon enough or she has bad judgement. Why would you willingly be with someone that repeatedly caused you pain and violated consent? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 03:04 PM |
| – | Her giving “her best” to another man before is irrelevant.Am I misunderstanding? Yes. Lets say she wasn't a fan of something but did it anyways. It wasn't a one off thing either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 02:50 PM |
| – | Her giving “her best” to another man before is irrelevant.I don't think we're talking about that scenario. It's if someone did it repeatedly for someone else, even if they weren't a fan of it, but won't do the same for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 02:47 PM |
| 3 | The women saying “Youre alone because your personality is terrible” are NOT the women actively dating terrible men.you should hygiene Where are all these men with terrible hygiene? I'd like to know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/26 09:28 PM |
| 3 | Where Are All the Gym Chads?Winner winner chicken dinner. How much you wanna bet men have approached her but they were either invisible to her or they did it in a non flirtatious fashion, for obvious reasons? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/04/26 01:17 PM |
| 1 | But I feel like I don't have a choice! | WhereAreAllTheGoodMenYou always have a choice, my dear. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/03/26 08:14 PM |
| 6 | Ick! Elite men have hobbies and work out to stay fit! | WhereAreAllTheGoodMenWhat it usually means is they didn't simp hard enough and bow to her every wish. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/11/25 10:22 PM |
| 7 | Ick! Elite men have hobbies and work out to stay fit! | WhereAreAllTheGoodMenProbably related to how most women can make it into the top 50% bracket by just not overeating and doing basic hygiene. That, and not being a complete bitch or slut. Skews their calibration a bit. I'd just take not being a complete bitch at this point. A little humility can go a long way. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/11/25 10:21 PM |
| – | Why do men here act surprised that women like attractive men ?Because men, most likely average or below average looking ones, are often told that looks don't matter (as much) and so called personality matters more to women. In many of the movies you reference, especially romantic comedies, they try to make the man be a lovable loser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 10:47 AM |
| 5 | There aren't enough tats or piercings on this "lady." Hard pass.Gross | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/09/25 12:35 AM |
| 2 | The problem is not being likable AND not having good looks (and being broke).Have you been to an incel forum. There is a reason the term got associated with sexist virgins. Not all incels are on so called incel forums. Like with many things, it's just the vocal minority. I can't believe this has to be pointed out. Youre showing you know that incels have a problem, Like a lot of people, you don't know what an incel actually is. The word incel is derived from the two words Involuntary and Celibate. Technically, I'm an incel because my wife is undergoing cancer treatments i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/25 11:50 AM |
| 3 | The problem is not being likable AND not having good looks (and being broke).It's Lilith, so no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Why doesn't Red Pill offer more mental health support for men?It goes deeper. If you have a broken leg, yet you learn "go do the gym fatso", you will hurt yourself more. If you're unemployed and broke, thinking about your day/night game might not be the best solution now. This shows OP doesn't even understand what the so called Red Pill is, and this is coming from someone who is no-pill. The example OP gives of so called red Pill telling mentally ill males who are not medicated to approach 100 women is a non-sequitur. From my possibly incorrect understandi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Society doesn't really hate older womenThis is going to sound shallow AF, but many people don't parlay their looks/health/youth/etc. into a match or whatever. It goes for both men and women. There were plenty of times I screwed up and wanted a do over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 02:50 PM |
| 8 | The problem is not being likable AND not having good looks (and being broke).OP is famous around these parts for posts like these. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 12:45 PM |
| 5 | The problem is not being likable AND not having good looks (and being broke).No one is expecting you too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 12:44 PM |
| 17 | The problem is not being likable AND not having good looks (and being broke).It's the so called "pretty privilege," also known as the halo effect, except it is applied to both men and women and across multiple realms. For example, attractive people tend to "interview better" subsequently leading to more job offers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 12:40 PM |
| 12 | The problem is not being likable AND not having good looks (and being broke).It's a classic Lilith post... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 12:35 PM |
| 1 | I think women don’t lower our standards because we are expected to act like we didn’t. Thoughts?You can't tell me with a straight face that you didn't find someone all that physically attractive at first but felt different once you got to know them? If the answer is a no, then that's a you problem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 05:07 PM |
| 2 | I think women don’t lower our standards because we are expected to act like we didn’t. Thoughts?I'm going to play Devil's Advocate here fore a second - if finding companionship, having a family and what not is a priority, she's going to have to get over that and address her issues - whether by going to therapy, losing what or whatever else she needs to do. There are plenty of successful relationships out there where the couple might not be most attractive people but they make it work and are happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/25 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think women attracted to majority of guys?Never heard that term before? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think women attracted to majority of guys?Analysis paralysis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/25 02:44 PM |
| – | What are some secrets men dont tell women?It's possible to make no mistakes and still lose. That's life. The advice that /u/snappy033 and I have given simply increases your odds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 06:22 PM |
| – | What are some secrets men dont tell women?What's that advice that's given out so frequently around here? No one owes you a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 01:13 PM |
| – | What are some secrets men dont tell women?You can keep telling yourself that, but at the end of the day, she's still got that degree that she got limited value from and a massive amount of debt. I can't tell you how many female acquaintances I've had over the years that had to go back and get a second degree because the first one ended up being useless. This shows poor decision making, and men tend to want less problems, because men end up being the problem solvers in relationships. How is this alarming to many women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 12:54 PM |
| – | What are some secrets men dont tell women?Your education and job are nice but don’t move the needle much for us unless you are spending money on us regularly. I'd go one step farther - Education can even be a hindrance if someone went into a lot of debt to get a degree especially if it has limited value in the workforce. In other words, if you have $100K in student loans for that English degree and are working as a barista. It's not that education is bad, it's just the reality of how we do it in the modern day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/25 11:11 AM |
| 3 | lusting after a body =/= unconditional loveSure. I don't disagree. But anyone who is being honest with themselves understands this. If the goal is an LTR, one should understand that physical attraction is likely to wane over the years, let alone accidents or illness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/25 05:05 PM |
| 1 | *If you think* there’s anything condemnable about childless men ruling out single mothers as potential partners, do you think it would be reasonable for a man to expect potential partners to accommodate other interests of his choosing, to the same extent that children interfere with singles datingIt's hateful because it's random men dunking on single moms as a whole. Not single moms interested in dating him. Nothing to do with "logistics". You couldn't be more wrong. For starters, a single parent is going to have less free time to pursue other potential interests, one of which is dating, for obvious reasons. Maybe, maybe not. You don't know who's fault it is. You're right, but I'm pointing out that it's a potential red flag. But to shit on the parent actually taking care of the kid is wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 04:46 PM |
| -1 | *If you think* there’s anything condemnable about childless men ruling out single mothers as potential partners, do you think it would be reasonable for a man to expect potential partners to accommodate other interests of his choosing, to the same extent that children interfere with singles datingAllow me to play Devil's Advocate for a second.... Is it really hateful though? Or is it that there are logistics that have to be navigated that some men don't want to deal with for whatever reason? Also, pointing out that the woman in the situation might have some responsibility in her being a single mother is not hateful either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 12:24 PM |
| – | Love and sex is not a rightOnly on PPD do we assume the worst outcomes. I suggest you touch grass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 04:46 PM |
| – | Love and sex is not a rightDevil's Advocate: Why does the conversation automatically go to rape? Why can't it just be that a non trivial percentage of men are checking out of society? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 12:33 PM |
| 3 | Love and sex is not a rightBut alcohol or nicotine are unhealthy. Relationships and sex, on the other hand, can be very healthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Love and sex is not a rightWill keep happening but at a lesser rate. What will happen if there are not enough people to staff police departments, schools, hospitals, nuclear power plants, etc.? What happens to social welfare programs like Social Security when not enough people are paying into it (and the people who claim benefits are living longer and longer)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 09:30 PM |
| 17 | Love and sex is not a rightOf course it's not a right. But, it makes for healthier people, much like having food, shelter and clothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 02:46 PM |
| 1 | There nothing wrong in a 30 year old man dating a 20 year old girlThey were just as messed up as he is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 09:26 PM |
| 3 | There nothing wrong in a 30 year old man dating a 20 year old girl. I know load of couples where the man is ~36 and woman ~25 when they met, theyre now all married and no one cares. Because, IMO, people can generally be "grown-up" by 25 if you know what I mean - finished school, started career, moved out of parents (or at least have a plan too) and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 12:31 PM |
| 3 | There nothing wrong in a 30 year old man dating a 20 year old girlI think it's even simpler: For myself and most people I know, the years between 18-25 have significant growth and upheaval, such that you may become a bit of a different person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 12:28 PM |
| 5 | There nothing wrong in a 30 year old man dating a 20 year old girlI can hardly imagine the emotionally stunted nature of a man who would be fulfilled by a relationship with a 20-yo woman. She's not even old enough to legally drink. I know a guy that was in relationships like this, where he was 28-30 (or older) and dated women 8-10 years older. He was mentally ill to the point of being disabled, though. As a friend group, we'd try to get him to see the light and tell him that sort of thing isn't good for his mental health in the long run. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 12:25 PM |
| 18 | Women dont view having access to causal sex as a benefitI don't think this is the main point people are making. It's that women can go meet 100 (or whatever large number) guys, so there's a greater chance of finding someone that is interested in having an LTR, if that their goal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Decentering men, the 4B Movement, MGTOW & "monk mode" are all just copes for men and women who are sexually unsuccessful or failed at dating.Yes, I'm saying it's a little bit of a cope for the redpillers who fantasize about gym and money maxxing in their 40s-50s to give them a chance with a chick in her 20s outside of sugar baby arrangement. Hyperbole much? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 01:49 PM |
| – | “Accountability” is just a useless redpill buzzword at this point.You probably know three men and you’re related to two of them. You're being too generous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 07:59 PM |
| 7 | Men being thirsty is the reason women have so much leverage in the dating gameAgreed, men tend to have a higher sex drive and would be willing to sleep with a wider variety of women than the reverse, for various reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Existence of cuckold porn proves that more men than you think want to be cuckedOnly on PPD. OP posted such classics as "only unattractive women like to be choked" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/25 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Until men care about men’s mental health, women shouldn’t care about it either.That's par for the course with this particular poster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Until men care about men’s mental health, women shouldn’t care about it either.So being vulnerable and honest about one's feelings is being whiny and toxic now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 03:18 PM |
| 5 | Until men care about men’s mental health, women shouldn’t care about it either.And when hes weak in front of her he becomes ugly. Came here to say this. Many women find men who show any type of vulnerability, weakness, doubt, etc. as unattractive. So, of they aren't going to open up female friends or family memebers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 09:06 PM |
| 1 | If men weren’t accusing women of being whores for no reason, women would have a better view of paternity tests.But as /u/Impossible-Layer-991 stated, you're likely keeping a bank account/credit cards/etc. of your own in case your husband turns out to be an abusive douche bag. Asking for a paternity test is no different than that. This is not a hard concept to understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 06:16 PM |
| 2 | If men weren’t accusing women of being whores for no reason, women would have a better view of paternity tests.We'll not be indulging your double standards. If /u/LillthOfBabylon didn't have double standards, she'd have no standards at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 05:29 PM |
| 4 | Only unattractive women ask to be choked during sexShe likes to be choked, and well, you know....... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Only unattractive women ask to be choked during sexOnly on PPD.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 04:48 PM |
| 1 | If the roles were reversed and women were held to the same dating standards as men they would be just as hateful and bitterI think you underestimate the male sex drive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/25 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Men should stop lying about having low standardsFor example, if you are in a town with 1000 men and 10 women, and all the women are dysfunctional druggies, refusing to date a dysfunctional druggie isn't "high standards" even though it disqualifies all of the women. And then there's going to be men that wine and dine those 10 women because it may be better than nothing for the time being. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/25 02:19 PM |
| – | What’s going on with the ‘older men mainly want younger women to manipulate them’ claim?You're ignoring the hypothetical, clearly states: it is when she had done it multiple times across a long period of time, then she suddenly stops when she is with you If she didn't like the sex act then she shouldn't have done it with the ex more than once or twice. It's like if a man bought his ex expensive jewelry or cars or whatever and then turns around and will cheap out on you. How would you feel? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/25 08:06 PM |
| 5 | Why are some men hateful of women when other men are their biggest competitors?These ideas aren't mutually exclusive - that women can act irrationally (according to some men) and men compete with each other for attention from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/25 08:21 PM |
| 18 | "Do Men Even Like Women Anymore?"And women leave men when they lose their jobs. People are shallow. News at 11. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/02/25 12:29 AM |
| 48 | "Do Men Even Like Women Anymore?"When I was dating, most women I met were not very interesting. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 19/02/25 12:26 AM |
| 1 | The fat acceptance movement is not a big deal. Too many people are obsessed with hating it.Agreed. On the flip side, it's also why it's sometimes unhelpful to say "eat less" and "just lift, bro." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 07:37 PM |
| 2 | The fat acceptance movement is not a big deal. Too many people are obsessed with hating it.second, it isn’t just that Americans are lazy. Our entire system is set up to be really really toxic to us. I've argued that there are socioeconomic and technological components to the obesity problem and we, as a society, haven't quite caught up. For example, I am old enough to remember my great grandmother who was born in 1906 to immigrant parents. They were dirt poor. My great grandmother had to quit school in 3rd or 4th grade in order to get a job to contribute to the family. The jobs they w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/25 05:21 PM |
| 1 | You can't complain about being lonely while failing to form/maintain social bonds.Normally your replies aren’t this disjointed and illogical That's expected of Lillth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 01:00 PM |
| 5 | As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex"But withholding information that could possibly change the nature of the relationship is still a lie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 01:28 PM |
| 7 | As a woman, I really don't get the logic behind "I got used for sex"The problem I have is women pinning the blame on men for themselves choosing poorly. If you (general) claim to be able to sniff out bad men, creepy men, users, misogynists, then how do so many get “tricked” by these players? Because it's easier that way and doesn't make you look bad. Saying he was stingy with money and didn't let me buy shit sounds better than he didn't think it was a good idea to buy the latest Louis Vuitton purse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/25 01:23 PM |
| 0 | Men have been misblamed for the overturning of Roe v Wade; the true culprit is religious conservatives, and it's time to stop saddling liberal-minded men with collective guilt and enabling conservative women to enjoy unmerited collective innocenceI came here to say this. Legal scholars and judges on both ends of the political spectrum, thought that the rationale behind the Roe v. Wade decision was awful weak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/24 09:44 PM |
| 2 | CMV: women should not sign prenupsIt depends on what you mean by "the male is planning and preparing for a divorce." It could just mean the man takes away incentives for the woman to up and leave for trivial reasons and get half his stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 11:04 AM |
| 5 | Do you think it's possible to find someone who won't judge you for your past?I would have guessed 60's easily. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/09/24 08:37 PM |
| 9 | Do you think it's possible to find someone who won't judge you for your past?The drugs. Don't forget the drugs! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/09/24 08:34 PM |
| 5 | Do you think it's possible to find someone who won't judge you for your past?Oh gawd no. no. Make it stop! What did we deserve to get this? And never trust someone with a face tat. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/09/24 08:31 PM |
| 3 | Extremely ugly women deserve princess treatment too.I know plenty of uggos whose husbands treat them like queens - because they are kind, sweet, pleasant to be around, and put their husband's needs above their own. If you're approaching relationships with an attitude of "What's in it for me?" without bringing much more to the table (i.e. youth and beauty), then yeah - you're not going to have much success. I couldn't have said it better myself. She probably radiates the entitlement vibe thus making her not approachable. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/09/24 08:13 PM |
| 6 | Extremely ugly women deserve princess treatment too.This is an interesting question, especially since she brought up the "no porn" thing at the end. She seems to think 10/10 women get special treatment, but 10/10 of men do too. In other words, I think there is research to indicate attractive people tend to do better in dating and in careers. This is pretty self explanatory. Regarding her standards, she doesn't seem to understand everyone has to settle. If you don't, you're going to be alone the rest of your life. Settling isn't bad. Regarding the… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 03/09/24 08:06 PM |
| 12 | Am I self-sabotaging or should I trust my instincts?It's confirmation bias. I'd argue the "bad hygiene" might be embellished, like if they go out dancing and they both sweat a bit which is understandable. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/08/24 07:04 PM |
| – | The dating market does not suck for womenThe point being made is that if you find 95% of men unattractive, maybe the problem is you, not the men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/24 12:45 PM |
| 8 | Wash away all your bad choices and bungled relationships with Abusive Ex™️Writes a short profile But men are the boring unattractive ones. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 22/08/24 09:09 PM |
| 13 | "Women might be pickier, but their preferences are also unique to each one of them", actually they're rather similarmen also fuck goats and pies. And couches. Don't forget the couches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/24 02:19 PM |
| – | Why do so many straight men seem to want anal sex with their women? Will you be in an LTR with a woman if she says she abhors the idea?That's not really the issue, in and of itself. It's when he/she does something (consensual of course) for someone else that they don't like, repeatedly and the person on the receiving end didn't really mean anything in the grand scheme of things. It's like if I took an ex on expensive vacations frequently but them I'm a home body with you - you might feel a bit cheated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 02:01 PM |
| – | Why do so many straight men seem to want anal sex with their women? Will you be in an LTR with a woman if she says she abhors the idea?People shouldn't have a problem with a one off thing where they gave something a chance and didn't like it. It's when they continually did something with people that "didn't mean anything" but now don't. How would you like it if a man didn't want to go down on you or do PIV, but did it with all his former partners quite regularly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 01:37 PM |
| – | Why do so many straight men seem to want anal sex with their women? Will you be in an LTR with a woman if she says she abhors the idea?You don't speak for all women. There are many women who find anal play pleasurable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/24 01:31 PM |
| 5 | She sort of reminds me of Mimi Bobeck on the Drew Carey Show.Just. Ew. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/08/24 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Nostalgia post: she's sick of men on dating apps who talk about hiking "at nozium"I remember talking with a woman years ago who was a cougar and obese. She only wanted to date men that were in shape. But, the irony is she was always DTF/into kinky sex and BDSM, so it didn't matter if the man wanted to stay with her. She even agreed that there was hypocrisy that men were more willing to lay with a heavier woman than the reverse, but she'd do nothing about it herself. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 20/08/24 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Do men just not care about being abused as much as women?Well, men tend to have a stronger sex drive then women, so there's that. Not saying it's right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Do men just not care about being abused as much as women?Being in abusive relationships tends to erode sense of self. Except when people are chronically lonely, they already have poor or no sense of self. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/24 02:54 PM |
| 2 | CMV: more matches don't mean anything if they're all poor optionsMaybe he just doesn't like cheese on his burger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 07:58 PM |
| 3 | I love being the cool aunt."Is the guy being uninteresting or lacking chemistry going to matter to you a decade from now when he's picking you up from the hospital?" Truer words haven't been spoken. I vaguely remember talking to a woman who was in her 40's who was bitching about not being able to find "chemistry" with anyone. I was blunt with her and told her that she was chasing lust, not love and that was the reason why she was that old and never married. In other words, if everyone smells like shit, maybe check the bot… | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/08/24 02:04 PM |
| 1 | I had no desire to be a free prostituteyou remove sexual gratification from the equation most women have almost nothing to offer. and as we are seeing men are deciding not to bother, to their credit. This is what I have been advising my single friends on doing [and probably have to do myself sooner rather than later]. Part of it is trying to find a healthy outlet and stop trying to simp for below average women. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/08/24 11:18 AM |
| 3 | I had no desire to be a free prostituteBoring defines most of them. Especially those with degrees in some subject that nobody cares about. I remember someone in PPD trying to chew me out for basically stating this - that most people are average by definition and that no one cares that you got your degree and now work as a wage slave in the corporate cube farm. That's not all that impressive. She was basically telling me I downplaying women's accomplishments and couldn't tell her anything that would not make her boring. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/08/24 11:15 AM |
| 2 | I love being the cool aunt.she effectively had a mental block - in You know, if therapists or her "friends" were actually helpful, they would help her get rid of this block. I'm not saying she'd find men that were a 2 or 3 in looks to be attractive, but it would open possibilities. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/08/24 10:59 AM |
| 4 | I love being the cool aunt.To expand on that, I think it's also about supporting others like your significant other and kids. Many times, people aren't willing to swallow their pride and what not. For example, my wife was diagnosed with aggressive stage 4 gynecological cancer last year. If she were to be single, she would have been totally f*cked and I personally don't think she would have been alive a year later because she has a support system in place. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/08/24 10:56 AM |
| 2 | I love being the cool aunt.If you were happy with how your life turned out, you wouldn't be complaining on the Internet and trying to justify your decisions. Also, it is more than likely that she's insufferable and looks down on others. If finding a partner and having a family was such a priority, then she would have needed an attitude adjustment of sorts. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 07/08/24 10:49 AM |
| – | Many RP men it seems, have a dilemma. They don’t want a marriage/LTR with ‘the whore’, but at the same time resent women who are making them wait. Also, many passport bros who are going to Asian/African countries to meet ‘trad wife/gf’ are simply not equipped to handle a genuinely traditional 0-5n cGood luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 03:47 PM |
| – | Many RP men it seems, have a dilemma. They don’t want a marriage/LTR with ‘the whore’, but at the same time resent women who are making them wait. Also, many passport bros who are going to Asian/African countries to meet ‘trad wife/gf’ are simply not equipped to handle a genuinely traditional 0-5n cPeople who claim to be RP and then do what you claim aren't really RP or they have warped standards or something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 03:21 PM |
| – | Many RP men it seems, have a dilemma. They don’t want a marriage/LTR with ‘the whore’, but at the same time resent women who are making them wait. Also, many passport bros who are going to Asian/African countries to meet ‘trad wife/gf’ are simply not equipped to handle a genuinely traditional 0-5n cThis is not really flushed out in RP spaces. The issue men have: A woman was having casual sex right up until she meets Mr. Right then makes him wait. This is kind of hypocritical and makes men wonder if you have self control. Men want to feel like women are interested in them specifically. Women that had proverbial hot and kinky sex enthusiastically with other men, but won't do the same with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/24 03:15 PM |
| 9 | So no one told you life was gonna be this wayAdd Jennifer Aniston to the line of tone deaf people. Vance is of course generalizing as the vast majority of people are able to procreate especially if they don't wait too long to try. What Vance was referring to is the classic "boss babe" who claims they "don't need no man," so they only date the top 1% or whatever and then end up alone in their 40's or 50's working their shitty job processing spread sheets in a cube farm. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 31/07/24 03:19 PM |
| 10 | Are our standards unrealistic? Should we settle? What is good enough? At what age should we just give up?sticking to their demands Just remember, we don't negotiate with terrorists women. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/07/24 06:59 PM |
| 9 | Are our standards unrealistic? Should we settle? What is good enough? At what age should we just give up?some people never learn | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/07/24 06:54 PM |
| 6 | Are our standards unrealistic? Should we settle? What is good enough? At what age should we just give up?Just a nit. If someone is a 6.5, a 4 isn't really settling as most people are average and would probably fall somewhere between a 3 or 4 and 7 if we were to assume a standard distribution. In other words, they both would be in the fat section of the curve. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 26/07/24 06:51 PM |
| 1 | What do men want women to do when they become sexually undesirable as they age?As far as a way you could set yourself apart regardless of age is having the ability to bring tranquility with your presence. Far too many women are argumentative and have lots of baggage and drama they bring to a relationship. We aren't saying don't have your own ideas or opinions just don't bring chaos into our lives. I agree with this and the reverse is also true. The other person should help (or at least try) to make your life easier and more enjoyable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 10:19 AM |
| 2 | What do men want women to do when they become sexually undesirable as they age?I‘m almost 23. My youth is almost over and I have never had a relationship. This is wrong. What can woman offer besides looks and youth? Do you have any hobbies? What are your interests? What is your outlook on life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/24 10:17 AM |
| 1 | Woman who want marriage should make it clear from get go and not give him years waiting for him to pop the question. There's no dearth of guys who would drag you for yearsI'd argue that those men aren't HMV by definition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 11:06 AM |
| 1 | The hatred of single moms comes from jealousy.So, what's the difference between that and men raging against single moms just to get outrage and clicks? Seems to have worked well on you.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 09:39 PM |
| 1 | The hatred of single moms comes from jealousy.How many times are men being told that Fresh and Fit and Whatever don't represent real life and they are just a grift to generate outrage and clicks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 09:29 PM |
| 1 | The hatred of single moms comes from jealousy./u/Delifier ignored them because Youtube and Tik Tok aren't real and don't speak for the experiences of most men or women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 09:17 PM |
| 2 | The hatred of single moms comes from jealousy.Because it's a quality Lilith shit post. I dated a single mom one with a small child. Didn't work out due to logistics mainly. That's why many men have a preference. Nothing to do with hate or jealousy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 09:13 PM |
| 3 | Men are the problem...They're complaining about the Chads and Tyrones who won't settle down with them and only treat them like shite. And they have nothing to offer Chad or Tyrone other than pussy, which they are drowning in anyways. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/07/24 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Men are the problem...i bet its filled with "im just TOO SUCCESSFUL, and men are INTIMIDATED BY ME" coping. Something I've thought about over the years is that many of these women sold their souls to the devil and usually are mean or a pain in the ass to get along with because they have become the men they want to marry. In other words, they aren't fun to be around and it has nothing to do with success or intimidation. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/07/24 10:49 AM |
| 10 | The Gilgamesh and Beowulf of LeftoversBecause there's 3 sides to every story, what he said, what she said and the truth. We only have her side of the story and based on what she wrote, it's obvious she's a giant train wreck. Also, like with a lot of things these days, just because you claim someone is abusive does not make it so. Someone could claim that the other party is abusive because of the normal disagreements people have. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 16/07/24 10:39 AM |
| 53 | And this mom is a borderline Stacy so you know less attractive moms are having a harder time getting "high-value" men to commit.I feel like telling these women the obvious.... That's what you get for pro-creating with the wrong guy. And it's not abuse if he didn't buy you the Louis Vuitton purse. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 24/07/23 03:16 PM |
| 11 | Overweight mom of 6 wants a tall, athletic man to move in and take over where her ex left off.I came here to share this sentiment. Her profile screams entitlement, no humility and red flags. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 21/07/23 05:05 PM |
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