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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 25 | Q4W- Would you rather have women be the initiators in sexual interest as the status quo? | Question For Women | ManDomesticated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/19 03:52 PM |
| 17 | How do you feel about female marriage proposals? | ManDomesticated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/19 09:10 PM | |
| 11 | Q4All: What kind of dating advice did you get early in life? | Discussion | ManDomesticated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 04:36 PM |
| 9 | How well would monogamy hold up if men had freedom of choice rather than women? | ManDomesticated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/19 02:31 PM | |
| 5 | Gender and Expectations | ManDomesticated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/19 02:43 PM | |
| 3 | Q4W: What was the last romantic thing you did for man? | ManDomesticated | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/19 12:11 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Q4W: what was the last romantic thing you did for a man?I would know, I made the replies, sweetie. It was just those two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/19 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What was the last romantic thing you did for man?That sounds like he's a lazy asshole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/19 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather LTR a woman who’s willing to date a man’s “potential” or LTR a woman who only dates a “fully realized” man?Whats giving you trouble? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you rather LTR a woman who’s willing to date a man’s “potential” or LTR a woman who only dates a “fully realized” man?You used the term 'sex strike'. The intent was pretty clear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you rather LTR a woman who’s willing to date a man’s “potential” or LTR a woman who only dates a “fully realized” man?Like, accountable for what? His actions? In what area is he supposed to be competent in? Amd future time orientation sounds a lot like you're banking on his eventual promotion. You know, a money thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you rather LTR a woman who’s willing to date a man’s “potential” or LTR a woman who only dates a “fully realized” man?You're going to have to elaborate; accountavility and competency are vague, and I have no idea what FTO means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you rather LTR a woman who’s willing to date a man’s “potential” or LTR a woman who only dates a “fully realized” man?Its one thing to improve yourself on your own terms. Its another when some manipulative asshole tries to make you improve by withholding sex. One is striving for a healthier you, the other is bowing down to a piece of shit. See the difference? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you rather LTR a woman who’s willing to date a man’s “potential” or LTR a woman who only dates a “fully realized” man?Yeah, fuck that noise. Talk about our issues like an adult or hit the bricks. I have no respect for women who hold intimacy hostage to get their way. I'm not opposed to self improvement, but expecting it out of someone else is a fools errand. Its basically admitting you're not good enough to hook the man you want, so you're going to bully someone to be your little trophy. Absolutely ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you rather LTR a woman who’s willing to date a man’s “potential” or LTR a woman who only dates a “fully realized” man?A woman who drives a man to be their 'best self' that much most likely wants to live a comfier lifestyle. Its a means to an end. Either way, its completely foolish for a woman to expect a man to mold himself into a better person after his relationship needs are met. One of the only reasons men improve themselves at all is to score puss (Companionship, w/e). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Q4M: Would you rather LTR a woman who’s willing to date a man’s “potential” or LTR a woman who only dates a “fully realized” man?Id rather be treated like a romantic partner and not a fuggen meal ticket, for starters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 03:35 PM |
| 1 | The reason pick me girls fail is because men love women who challenge them not ones who just roll over and do whatever he wants.By being down to earth enough to realize we are in the burgeoning stages of dating. Desperation is a stinky cologne, and their mannerisms during a couple dates is enough to display that. Basically just be chill. I personally have zero tolerance for stupid games. Other men dont, but eh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: do you aspire to be a leader of men or a fucker of women?Never gave a frenchmans fuck about anything related to status. I want to scrape by in this world to enjoy doing what I do for a living, and if it lets me express myself as well, thats a bonus. So, fucker of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 03:16 PM |
| 11 | The reason pick me girls fail is because men love women who challenge them not ones who just roll over and do whatever he wants.Why does this have to be a black and white issue? Why is it only completely submissive doormats vs a game-playing asshole? If want a girl who has enough agency to think the world wont end if we split, and also wont disrespect me to think they can manipulate me into liking them more with snakey bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 02:49 PM |
| 3 | “Yes, Dear”: Henpecked Husbands and One-Sided Relationship DynamicsI've known a guy who married a woman who, on their first date, told him to change his entire appearance if they are to be together. Let me reiterate this; he married her. Of course they got divorced 6 months later... I had had a girl I was seeing start to treat me like I was a misbehaving child because I had went to the casino with my father for my birthday and lost,like 40 dollars. Know what I did? Dumped her ass immediately. I think that A) These relationships definitely exist, and B) There's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/19 02:18 PM |
| 2 | If sex is such a high priority, what's the point of a relationship?No, they're not. Asking a guy to have a decent job is not asking for too much. I mean, the middle class has been evaporating for some time now.. But wouldnt it make sense for a womans standards to rise in a world where their autonomy is on the upswing? Maybe you dont notice it because you're female, but it is there. Because the particular problems guys talk about it 75% of the time are self-inflicted. Like what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 02:02 PM |
| 2 | If sex is such a high priority, what's the point of a relationship?If someone is able to find a sex-filled happy relationship, I'm cool. My issue is with people who are complaining that they don't have a sex-filled relationship. Instead of complaining, just have ONS and FWB. It'd be far easier and less stressful. Hahaaaa. Most men have way more stress finding casual sex putside of a relationship than inside one. Make an average male Tinder account and see for yourself. I definitely don't understand when those types of people want families. Kids are the ultimate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 01:55 PM |
| 1 | If sex is such a high priority, what's the point of a relationship?That and womens standards are rising. I mean, its fun to throw all of our problems on mens shoulders, but we dont have to fulfill that all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/19 01:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: These days, it is more beneficial for lonely women to get knocked up by very attractive men that pump and dump than try to date unattractive men.I will if he calls me back after he pumps and dumps. Wow, what a saint you are. After its too late to do anything, you're willing to tell him his life might be ruined. So that begs the question, if he's a guy you really want to use for sperm (yes, you are using him, making you just as bad as, if not 5x worse than a pump and dumper), would you tell him before you do anything? Or would you tell a little white lie to get what you want? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 08:55 PM |
| 1 | CMV: These days, it is more beneficial for lonely women to get knocked up by very attractive men that pump and dump than try to date unattractive men.When guys pretend they like me to have sex with me, they are doing the same thing. I am willing to bet you don't attack them like this. I am taking advantage of the cards that I am dealt. One is suckering somebody out of tens of thousands in child support and putting a single parent child in the world. The other hurts your fee fees. Which one is worse? Why would he trust me to not get knocked up? Do you know how babies are made? If he is choosing to go without a condom, how is it my fault? Becau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 08:00 PM |
| 1 | What is a unpopular or obscure opinion or theory you have relating to this sub that you havent had a chance to voice because it hasn't come up yet/lately?I dont come on the sub to do that, I come here to escape it. If I wanted to do that I'd just post on IncelTears. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 07:20 PM |
| 1 | CMV: These days, it is more beneficial for lonely women to get knocked up by very attractive men that pump and dump than try to date unattractive men.I do because men who are serious about avoiding pregnancy wear condoms or get vasectomies. There is nothing ethically wrong with letting nature take its course. Thats like saying there's nothing ethically wrong with fooling people with telephone scams; you're being a deceptive asshole trying to take advantage of others and then blaming the victim because they're too stupid. The man's financial wellbeing should be his priority. Entrusting that in the hands of a stranger is hardly my fault. A fami… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 07:03 PM |
| 5 | What is a unpopular or obscure opinion or theory you have relating to this sub that you havent had a chance to voice because it hasn't come up yet/lately?Maybe more unspoken than anything, but people whose posts are dripping with emotional baggage detract from the sub, and it comes from both men and women alike. These people usually make CMV threads just to argue as opposed to try to gain any sort of understanding. But, others are just abrasive people who have knee-jerk reaction replies as well. I suppose it comes with the territory, but still. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 06:45 PM |
| 2 | CMV: These days, it is more beneficial for lonely women to get knocked up by very attractive men that pump and dump than try to date unattractive men.Your plan will work in the sense that culling the entire homeless population slaughterhouse style will result in a net gain for America. Of course it'll work, but its wildly unethical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 06:37 PM |
| 1 | CMV: These days, it is more beneficial for lonely women to get knocked up by very attractive men that pump and dump than try to date unattractive men.You make a line of ethics at poking holes in condoms but not at birthing a child with an unwilling father? You're ruining the man financially and putting a life out into a world that has a single parent, just because you 'wanted' one, like it was a handbag or something. People arent put into this world for your own amusement, they are autonomous beings. It is a massive responsibility to not raise a piece of shit and make the world a worse place as the result of your baby fever. And someone who i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 06:21 PM |
| 1 | CMV: These days, it is more beneficial for lonely women to get knocked up by very attractive men that pump and dump than try to date unattractive men.Your proposed alternative is to be a massive douche canoe to an innocent person. Might as well prick holes in the condom while you're at it, go for the gold, who cares. Also, talking about men and children's attractiveness levels like your breeding dogs is creepy af. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/19 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Sex is not a need. It's a desire.You would be amazed at how incredibly easy it is to fall in that mindset though, especially at a younger age. Boys are told they have to be confident at an age when they're the most insecure. Its really easy to put sex on a pedestal when its the cornerstone of all of your insecurities as well. Its honestly really difficult to explain how many different factors into each of these issues. The one thing I know for sure is that we are absolutely failing in our ability to help young men cope with the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Sex is not a need. It's a desire.Honestly thats all you had to say. The NAMBLA stuff, the addiction stuff, the wild hypothetical scenarios really detract from what the heart of the argument is actually about. Because NOW I understand where you're coming from. I think its a mix of a lot of different things, but the crux is rooted in envy; they see some of their peers attract women (seemingly) effortlessly, and they piece together that they arent worthy of affection. So in the world of Cosmic Justice, they should be able to get t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Sex is not a need. It's a desire.My argument wasnt that you were incorrect. My argument was that your point is remakrably tone deaf. You dont understand what its like to be a man, and at this rate you never will. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Sex is not a need. It's a desire.Going straight towards the extreme doesnt really help your argument. It just puts your emotional investment to the argument on display, and it makes it harder for the other person to understand where you're coming from. It sounds like you created this thread just to argue above anything else, so I wont entertain you further. But imagine sex taking on an entirely new meaning that what you've grown up with; that instead of being a potential danger, it becomes not only a primal desire but a measure… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 12:08 PM |
| 0 | Sex is not a need. It's a desire.I think men and women look at sex markedly differently, and I think it colors your opinions by a noticable degree. I dont see how you can bring out this kind of argument without understanding what its like growing up as a male. I mean, you're technically correct, but it just reeks of tone-deafness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Is dating hard for woman or are woman just playing victim?You seem upset. Is something bothering you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 02:21 PM |
| 6 | Is dating hard for woman or are woman just playing victim?Its not worth the risk. You can invalidate me all you want, but facts are facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 01:19 PM |
| 4 | Is dating hard for woman or are woman just playing victim?A) its legal in like one part of one state. Lets be realistic. B) The generous boyfriend thing sounds like magical unicorn land. For one, I dont make six figures. As far as your options are concerned, I'll give you the same advice I give men who struggle with attracting women; work on yourself. Improve yourself in every aspect until you can get what you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 01:08 PM |
| 5 | Is dating hard for woman or are woman just playing victim?No, men cannot pay for casual sex. Its been made illegal, and its a massive risk not only for health reasons, but for your reputation and your career aspects if you get caught. Tired of people just brushing this off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Men who complain about not getting any sex, complain about not getting the validation they like to receiveThere are half truths. Part of it is validation, but honestly boning is pretty great too. I also do catch myself getting jealous of a womans ease of getting validation, but through every level of attraction, not just sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 07:40 PM |
| 1 | How many men have been at least once with a hooker/escort or to a strip club?Been to strip clubs in my younger days. It was great because I didnt have to work like a dog to get acknowledgement from women. It also helped the 'skin hunger' (its a real medical thing, and yes it does sound creepy) that would happen during my lonely periods. Prostitution? No. Wouldnt take a chance with stupid illegal shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Discussion: If men believe that women's movements are effective, why don't men have men's movements?Because telling people to accept your physical deficiencies still isnt going to make women fall for you. Thats kind of the crux behind those insecurities. I mean, you can tell at me about fat acceptance all day but its not gonna make me want to date a 350 pound woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/19 05:25 PM |
| 3 | Men and entitlement to sexDude, look at her profile. Dont waste your time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/19 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Men who come after women instead of other men are dangerous.You cannot just deflect men to infight, because if there's ever a legitimate problem with society that falls upon the womans' shoulders, then you'd never be allowed to discuss it. That would just create a toxic loop where women are off the hook and men hate their lives more and more. So, while it would be convenient for you if no fingers were ever pointed in your direction, just stop. Its an internet forum, you arent in any danger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/19 04:21 PM |
| 1 | The "Fisherman" analogy: ExplainedThis analogy doesnt represent what dialogue with the opposite sex actually gives you. You dont necessarily get the best advice in all areas of dating talking to the opposite sex, but it does give you their perspective, which for some people (ones with little to no meaningful contact with the opposite sex) can be invaluable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/19 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: Why do women have so little empathy for men who don't make the first move?Women dont have to deal with it, so they're gonna feel less empathy. Kinda like how you see a particular set of men toss around rape jokes like nothing. When I was dealing with approach anxiety, I thought I wanted empathy too, but honestly it only serves to validate the justifications in your head and completely ignores the real roots of your problems. And approach anxiety is something you're going to have to deal with sooner or later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/19 01:33 PM |
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