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| 4 | I keep running into this problem where women are nice and friendly and we can really vibe, but when I start to make it clear I'm interested in them sexually they pull away big time.Ironically I'd say one of my strong suits is that I'm able to get sexual with women and it doesn't put them off. Like I'll make some dirty jokes and they laugh, etc. But when I make it about my attraction to them they don't like it as much | /r/seduction | 02/01/19 05:29 AM |
| 1 | I quickly get bored of women I meet.I find with women (people) we often don't have the same interests but we look at life the same way. Like some people work hard and play had, some people like to stop and smell the roses. It's about how you look at the world more than it's about categories of items you both check yes to. | /r/seduction | 21/10/18 06:36 AM |
| 1 | What are some of the best cheap first date ideas that aren't mainstream?This type of mindset isn't healthy. Everyone has these "bare minimum" standards but it's been shown time and time again to be unnecessary in many circumstances. I've had great times with two cups of coffee and a walk in the park. | /r/seduction | 21/10/18 06:30 AM |
| 3 | How to Have John D. Rockefeller ConfidenceNo one got the ladies wetter than John D. Rockerfeller | /r/seduction | 21/10/18 06:28 AM |
| 3 | How do I deal with thisThis girl doesn't know what she wants. I wouldn't try to figure out a person acting erratic. There's a lot of young crazy girls out there, don't think because they have something you want that they aren't nuts sometimes lol A lot of women only want to know they can have you. Once they can it's over, like literally you can't even say yes to anything. Good luck figuring that out, best advice is to flirt with other girls around her, don't agree to too much in conversation, yet still do things like … | /r/seduction | 21/10/18 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Currently in a college club with more than 6 girls. How does one fit in?Learn how to have fun. Forget about the girls as someone to hook up with and just enjoy yourself, seriously. You won't get them if you're not having fun anyway. Not being stuffed up and being able to let loose is a lot of seduction and something more guys have problems with than don't. You know how rare it is to find a guy who truly acts like a positive, fun person and doesn't get weird around women? Ultimately you'll get laid with those things alone, so just learn how to love the moment you're … | /r/seduction | 21/10/18 06:07 AM |
| 1 | This is going to sound kind of messed up, but if you want to have more "positive female attention" you'll do very well fitting an archetype/stereotype than being totally unique.I'm referring to Jungian archetypes. I'm specifically saying that if you can tap into these more evolved forms of the collective conscious that you will see people's behavior change based on it. These types are by Jung's definition himself impossible to define, so I listed stuff more tangible examples that reflects the underlying type. I don't think you should specifically use trendy or established trends. Some of the best naturals don't fit any superficial types yet trigger a deep connection in… | /r/seduction | 23/07/18 07:37 PM |
| 3 | How to respond to the shit test: "You smoke a lot for an 18 year old!" ?"Quit being critical, we're trying to have fun." Then don't talk to her for a bit. This may be way too rough, but I'm not much for being friendly to people who say these sorts of things. Blow them out of the water with it. | /r/seduction | 14/07/18 03:52 PM |
| 1 | I want to have meaning in life"The answer is don't think about it." Grandpa Rick | /r/seduction | 13/11/17 04:45 PM |
| – | I don't think I could ever attract a girl with my personalitySo the honest approach can work. Tell the girl you're shy or not the type to usually chat up a stranger. It may seem like it would make women friendzone/stop talking to you, but I'd bet anyone who loses interest would have done so inevitably. Thing is girls aren't going to open you, you still have to do the nervous stuff. It just buys you some leniency and gets your insecurity out there, thereby making it less of an insecurity. If you say it and are awkward they get it but if you're not they for… | /r/seduction | 13/11/17 04:36 AM |
| 0 | Should I listen to what PUA’s say?It's really about chemistry. Just like with women/any person, you need to need to have positive chemistry with a teacher to learn the most. Hopefully you've found someone who clicks with you, I know Tyler really helped me see through my depression so I'll always be thankful. | /r/seduction | 13/11/17 04:19 AM |
| – | Should I listen to what PUA’s say?Watch some RSD videos to start. You should check out others after you know enough to tell if someone is a quack. | /r/seduction | 12/11/17 02:54 PM |
| – | [Sticking Point] Fear of abandonment while having abundance!There's no answer to this other than you're valuing them (and their attention to you) too much for your own benefit/optimization. So ask yourself, "How do I care about something less than I do already?" It's a tough question though but as some suggestions? Just recognize you're investing a lot in her emotionally already. Just recognize, don't get mad at yourself for doing it (being you). And then do other things. Do it for the distraction, but also because you'll find something you like which yo… | /r/seduction | 12/11/17 02:52 PM |
| 2 | I have a limiting belief. I firmly believe that having sex with a girl without the potential for a future in terms of relationships is meaningless. How do I improve this?It's not about the result, it's a process. See the relationship as a series of moments instead of an ultimate goal. Hint: There's people who have gotten divorced three times and are happier than the guy who married the love of his life in HS. | /r/seduction | 12/11/17 02:31 PM |
| 1 | So What is it that You do that Makes You Feel Like, "The Prize" or Raises Your Self Esteem?I don't think everyone sees it like that. It's not what you do but how you do it. Anything that makes you focus outward will work. The thing is it has to be more interesting than the inside of your head. | /r/seduction | 01/03/17 02:26 AM |
| – | Last night i realized I suck to be around sometimes because I offer no value, but I honestly don't know how or where to start. Help?Honestly I also really like EDM shows and have met cool people there too. I just need to go to another show soon or something. | /r/seduction | 27/02/17 01:03 AM |
| – | Last night i realized I suck to be around sometimes because I offer no value, but I honestly don't know how or where to start. Help?I'm bad at wrecking vibes lol I'll say something and conversations sometimes crash... I think you're right, cause conversation is definitely my issue. | /r/seduction | 26/02/17 07:48 PM |
| – | Last night i realized I suck to be around sometimes because I offer no value, but I honestly don't know how or where to start. Help?Haven't done it in over a year but it changes you, makes you see people differently... | /r/seduction | 26/02/17 05:40 PM |
| – | Last night i realized I suck to be around sometimes because I offer no value, but I honestly don't know how or where to start. Help?Acid lol | /r/seduction | 26/02/17 05:14 PM |
| – | Last night i realized I suck to be around sometimes because I offer no value, but I honestly don't know how or where to start. Help?Nothing specific I would just like the experience. I love learning new things, and you'd learn so much doing that. Now that I think about it I'd open up some Buddhist temples in parts of America with no exposure to it, like in the south. That would definitely be my thing. I can't seem to have good conversations about Buddhism at parties though lol | /r/seduction | 26/02/17 04:46 PM |
| – | Last night i realized I suck to be around sometimes because I offer no value, but I honestly don't know how or where to start. Help?I'd start a business definitely, but I still wouldn't ball out too hard or anything (I'm into minimalism a lot). That probably is a boring answer though which I don't get. I've actually said this same thing on Tinder and they didn't respond back... | /r/seduction | 26/02/17 04:36 PM |
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