ManMadeGod90 Archive

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1	How to avoid the friendzone Those questions are common once you've been on a few dates and had sex. Sometimes they come up sooner though, like during the first date or when you match with a girl on dating apps. Being honest about you want is fairer to her, but can also show that you have options, as opposed to saying whatever you think she wants to hear.	/r/seduction	11/10/24 02:38 AM
2	How to avoid the friendzone It's not (always) a female characteristic. But these friendzone situations usually have men offering attention to women in exchange for sex (which is never given) . Sometimes the woman is just to nice to outright reject the guy. But there are also a lot of manipulative women who enjoy having a guy to toy with.	/r/seduction	10/10/24 11:14 AM
1	How to avoid the friendzone You ask her out quite early. When she asks what kind of relationship you want, you tell her.	/r/seduction	10/10/24 11:08 AM
1	How to avoid the friendzone Have you never been attracted to a girl without knowing her personality? Most guys know within seconds based on looks alone.	/r/seduction	10/10/24 11:06 AM
3	Paying for the meal? If you go more casual it's possible that she will reject you. But a healthier way to think about it is that you are filtering out the girls who are more interested in gifts and free meals than you. On the other hand, she might notice that unlike other guys, you aren't simping. Many girls will appreciate you more if you aren't trying too hard to win them over.	/r/seduction	10/10/24 07:30 AM
3	Paying for the meal? You can also end a coffee day whenever you want. After 10 mins or 4 hours. People don't seem to realise that you don't need booze or fancy dinners for a first date to go well	/r/seduction	10/10/24 07:24 AM
1	Need help with dates That can be tricky because it's not so easy to use touch. Are you familiar with the "kino escalation ladder"? It sounds "gamey" but it's very useful. I think building up physical touch is the easiest way to escalate on a date. Try sitting side by side and/or changing venues. Give both of you plenty of opportunities for touch, starting casual/friendly. As long as she's comfortable, you can keep escalating towards kissing or more	/r/seduction	07/10/24 08:02 AM
2	Online Dating - What does slow game look like? That's fair. Maybe just be more aggressive with your filtering. I get that you don't want to waste time (and probably) money on dating girls if it leads nowhere. I do think you learn more about people on dates that from texting though. If you have a few matches, maybe just make an educated guess who is likely to be most compatible and take her on a first date. It can be really basic, coffee and a walk in the park or something. If you don't like her, you can end it in 15 minutes. If you like her …	/r/seduction	04/10/24 06:48 AM
1	Online Dating - What does slow game look like? It's possible to do things slowly, I've seen other guys build a connection with a girl gradually and only get physical after several weeks or months. But I think it's a dumb approach for a guy to take. It only seems to work if the girl is really into you. Often she ends up taking the lead and might get frustrated. And you need to remember that your competition probably isn't as patient as you, and their impatience can come across as boldness, which many women love. You can make all the deep conn…	/r/seduction	03/10/24 01:49 PM
1	Need help with dates It's hard to tell what your problem is without more detail. But I noticed a huge difference by leading and escalating more. Where do you take your dates? Is it easy to casually touch them, or are you stuck to a seat, talking across a table?	/r/seduction	03/10/24 01:15 PM
3	How to know if she wants to kiss you (so you don't make it awkward) Totally agree. A "no" is often just a "not yet". Your reaction reveals if she is your only shot at happiness, or just another date. Reacting in a calm, relaxed way can make her more attracted to you	/r/seduction	27/09/24 02:08 PM
9	How to know if she wants to kiss you (so you don't make it awkward) Asking for a kiss sounds crazy. If you need to verbalise it, then just say that you want to kiss her, in a calm or light-hearted way. Then watch her reaction. You've checked for consent without sounding like a beggar.	/r/seduction	27/09/24 02:05 PM
5	How do you guys juggle dating multiple girls? The most I ever did was casual relationships with 2 girls at once. It was exhausting and took too much time from hobbies and too much concentration from my work. This was the easiest scenario as well. Both girls weren't particularly demanding. The guys with high lay counts must be investing a lot of time.	/r/seduction	25/09/24 05:18 PM
1	do younger women like older men? lets settle this debate As far as I can tell, the average woman likes a guy close to her age or slightly older. It gets a bit murky because age is usually tied up with status. We've all noticed that in school, the girls went after college guys or the guys with cars. With bigger age gaps I think it varies more from one woman to the next. But there are plenty of young girls that will consider guys 10+ years older, and I'm not just talking about gold diggers. There are also plenty of girls that would never consider that t…	/r/seduction	12/07/24 07:50 AM
5	Necessary to escalate at a coffee or stroll in the park date? Disagree, you can be surprisingly forward with coffee dates. And making a high effort for someone you don't know seems needy in my opinion. Also, some girls may not want to get drunk with you yet. For these reasons, I save drinking and dinner dates for later, once you actually like the girl, and usually after you've already had sex.	/r/seduction	09/07/24 08:27 AM
1	Necessary to escalate at a coffee or stroll in the park date? This is my preferred type of date. Call it a coffee date, meet them during the day like a Sunday afternoon. But I touch them early and often, starting with a hug when you first meet. Although it's a coffee date, we are actually going to several places (museum, park, stores etc) and walking in between. The walking parts are great because you have a lot of flexibility in when to touch her, how close you stand etc. And it's also quite natural to take her hand as you walk. I don't know if you have t…	/r/seduction	09/07/24 08:20 AM
2	Advice on dating books? Agreed. I really like Models, but if I had to recommend a single book this one wins.	/r/seduction	20/06/24 01:22 PM
1	Advice on dating books? Dating Essentials for Men by Robert Glover - Simple, practical advice for getting out, meeting people and approaching women in a laid back but masculine way. He advocates "testing for interest", it's a great approach that minimises anxiety and awkwardness. You starts with an innocuous question and then get more direct and bold with the girls who show interest. No need to memorise techniques or lines. Models by Mark Manson - Best I've read for mindset. Encourages you to "polarise" women i.e. make…	/r/seduction	20/06/24 01:21 PM
1	Will most girls ghost you if you don't make a move on your dates? Try to at least kiss on the first date. Assume that she wants to... She made time to go on a date with you, didn't she? Similarly, try to have sex with her the first time she is at your place, or you at hers. I try to kiss on the first date. If all goes well I try to get them home. Even with a daytime date, you can often get to sex quickly. You lose nothing by trying. In fact, it often comes across as bold or smooth. If you get rejection, take it gracefully. Back off for a while and try again la…	/r/seduction	10/04/24 08:55 AM
-1	How to respond to age difference Joke that she is too old for you. Did this with a 22 year old, I'm 34. Some girls are put off by the age gap, some are into it. But if you feel weird about it, she will too.	/r/seduction	09/04/24 01:57 PM