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| 171 | The end of academia | Rant/Venting | ManOfGrapes | /r/TheRedPill | 20/10/14 06:17 PM |
| 50 | Walk A Mile In Her Lies | Rant/Venting | ManOfGrapes | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/15 09:16 PM |
| 8 | Is this worth continuing? | ManOfGrapes | /r/askTRP | 18/09/14 05:06 AM | |
| 0 | Can't finish with a condom on | ManOfGrapes | /r/askTRP | 06/09/14 01:03 AM |
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| 25 | Red Pill BetasI think this applies to a lot of the 21con guys. I was looking through the pictures and kept asking myself where all the jacked guys were. Most looked like they haven't stepped foot in the gym in years. Some of them are older, definitely, but still didn't look like they were in great shape. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/17 01:01 PM |
| 16 | GNC testosterone boosters?Complete gimmick. Eat steak, lift, sleep, that will increase t-levels substantially if you aren't doing those things already. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/17 04:45 AM |
| 2 | How can start fishing?Hit up the bait shops near piers or popular surf fishing areas. Craigslist is great for getting good rods at a solid price. In FL all of the old people sell their gear every year for the latest and greatest. It's the same thing with golf clubs. You can get yourself set up for less than $100. Join meetup.com or something similar online in addition to asking guys you see at the pier or at the shop about getting started. Feel free to PM if you have any questions. I run my own club in NJ, used to li… | /r/askTRP | 07/03/17 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Fucking my ex's sister.Sounds like your ex has a lot of baggage and drama shit. Not sure that it would be fun to deal with the inevitable shitstorm that would come your way post-fucking of the sister. Either way, I think even mentioning your ex (option 1) to her might make her uncomfortable. Suggesting a get together in a conversation sometime might be the best way to go. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/17 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Me and friend are going a trip with 2 girls. How to make sure f/foursome close? Booze/weed will be involvedIs it just you four? | /r/askTRP | 25/02/17 12:02 PM |
| 2 | LTRs Are Like a Business Transaction - You Get What You NegotiateThat's his male hamster speaking. If you dig even a little bit, it's insane how much money is in the business of prescribing substances. And now it's takes no effort to obtain otherwise illicit substances, the easier it is to access the easier it is to get more money. Sad for a couple days? Here's a note for some anti-depressants. Feeling a little anxious? Here's some benzos. Kid's bouncing off the walls ignoring his math problems from his overweight teacher? Give him some speed. When there's bi… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/17 01:07 AM |
| 7 | LTRs Are Like a Business Transaction - You Get What You NegotiateCan't imagine how much those pharm companies rake in from boys fidgeting in their seats. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/17 11:35 PM |
| 3 | Living with a ChadYeah, in that situation it's best to take the loss. I'm not about night life either, day game is what works for me. I think it's a matter of finding what and where works best for you. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/17 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Living with a ChadLmfao did you miss the part where he said celebrity/famous? Also most of these YouTube deals are usually staged. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/17 11:28 PM |
| 5 | Is this guy beta or alpha? Gladiator the movie.He also sat around whining like a bitch to his sister, and then had to stab Maximus pre-fight because he wasn't nearly as good. Some Machiavellian traits sure, but no dark triad man by any means. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/17 03:26 PM |
| 4 | How do i stop getting anxiety attacks when GF goes out clubbing?Why are you exclusive with a club slut? | /r/askTRP | 23/02/17 12:02 AM |
| 5 | My 31 yr old Uncle (surgeon) got shamed because he refused to marry a post-wall 30 year oldBeen reporting all of the BP comments. Must be something in the air today. I thought we all understood that at 26, she's been railed by numerous dudes and isn't worthy of marriage. The guy made a smart decision and invested in himself for the future. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/02/17 02:30 PM |
| 18 | I snooped at her messaging, and I'm know a better man thanks to it.Worthy of it's own post, imo. It's amazing how women can flip the narrative in mere seconds. I get this kind of shit all the time in my ltr, where magically things she can't do like see her family, be with friends at certain times when we've already made plans.. are 100% my fault in her mind. Thanks for the example. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/17 08:12 PM |
| 1 | To all high schoolers on TRP, heed my advice. Go to a university that has a greek life and get a stem degree. You will be missing out majorly in life if you don’t.Are you near a major city? If so, I would recommend real estate. It can be a nice side gig, or if you really enjoy it, full-time. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/17 03:31 AM |
| 0 | For some reason you're married to a girl, and she posts this on your Facebook wallFuck this is a great A&A haha will definitely use this | /r/askTRP | 11/01/17 04:50 PM |
| 8 | Columbia University Suspends Wrestling Season Over Lewd TextsI'm ashamed to have attended that shithole. Mattress girl walks away clean despite ruining a man's life, but these guys get suspended for a group chat. Unbelievable. Hope they can still find a way to have a good time, wrestlers were always the most fun to party with. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/16 12:49 AM |
| 1 | "Grow up" : Guys (even on here) who judge and attack guys their age trying to live the partying/hedonistic lifestyle are not that different than post wall women who want men in their prime to settle down.I mean any way you look at it, the lifestyle is physically detrimental. If you're serious about the gym, you can't expect to party all the time. Having said that, an excellent compromise: host the damn party. Since you have to take care of logistics like setting up, making sure the booze is flowing and that people don't shit on your rug, there isn't a ton of time to pound shots. It's a great way to socialize and essentially get free pussy without destroying your health. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/16 11:08 PM |
| 2 | Brock Turner decision (lenient? False ruling?)And I'm sure it was definitely the first time the courts have ever ruled against a man. /s | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/16 01:19 PM |
| 2 | How I RP with $15 every time I go out.They're truly horrible for you, not to mention that it's literally some sweaty guy standing in a hot car all day dripping over the food. Having said that, I don't regret the few times sitting on the toilet for a few hours after a late-night Halal run. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/16 03:17 AM |
| 10 | Sexual assault awareness programs on college campuses are heavily biased against men and take away all accountability from womenJust watch your six, man. As someone who recently graduated from an extremely liberal institution, don't buy a bit what that orientation shares, but also try to remain as stoic as possible. Numerous events/mandatory programs like the one you experience were shoved down my throat, and it enraged me. But it wasn't worth it since there was nothing I could do. Just know that even the smallest of incidents, sexual or otherwise, can royally screw you over in school. In my later years I realized that I… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/16 02:41 PM |
| 25 | Recent female college grad discusses how many females really feel about modern day hookup culture.Sometimes I’d leave an earring on his bedside table when I left, before he woke up. A reason to come back. That's the beginnings of a stage 5 right there. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/16 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Divorce not related to financial strain but instead husband's employment status - BloombergTo take that a step further, her years of manipulation, her feelings, are her reality. Thus, the born-again virgin. Religious girls are some of the scariest imo. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/16 02:07 PM |
| 10 | Female college student basically proclaims casual sex is great and makes it seem like it is the default, widespread sex life during college.If you're looking for LTR material, unfortunately the answer is yes. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/16 11:04 AM |
| 6 | Me [27 M] with my wife [24 F] together for almost 10 years, married for 1.5, I am panicking about being married, don't know what to do. She changed in the last months.At 27, you have plenty of time to shape your life the way you want it to be. Consider yourself lucky that you found this sub. Most don't, even fewer internalize. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/16 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Look at men’s bodies, notice how disgusting most of them are.I'm not one for drugs, but Scar Tissue is a fantastic read and he has an incredible story. Very RP in its own way. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/16 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Behavior around a group of potentially hostile peopleIf your gut is telling you something, listen to it. If you cross the street, odds are they aren't going to run after you. If they do, then you know made the right call. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/16 05:41 PM |
| 0 | Tips for the young married alphaYou're describing my exact situation. Keeps looking for "support" (attention) constantly while I try to get work done, and it's been ongoing for months. It came to head when I essentially told her I would never start a family or life with her ever down the line if she didn't change her behavior. The next day she fucked me twice. It was one of the weirdest changes in attitude I've ever seen. For reference, I had tried to up the beta to pacify her. I took her out to dinner a bit more, and got invo… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/16 04:34 PM |
| 1 | A couple months ago I touched this dudes girlfriends ass. On Instagram, he just tagged me on a post where I was talking with my bro about how fighting isnt necessary unless someone touces you and he said "I'll beat your ass". He's 6'5", I'm 5'6".Yep, ignore. And shit, that's a tough situation, those zero tolerance policies are nonsense. I'd suggest backing off from the girl entirely, avoid the guy as much as possible, just not worth risking your education on it. But if someone hit me, I'd slug them right back. YMMV. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/16 05:19 AM |
| 4 | A couple months ago I touched this dudes girlfriends ass. On Instagram, he just tagged me on a post where I was talking with my bro about how fighting isnt necessary unless someone touces you and he said "I'll beat your ass". He's 6'5", I'm 5'6".I can't ever think of a time when a provocation on social media led to anything good or productive. The only time you should engage with this guy verbally or otherwise is if he takes a swing at you. The first person to throw a punch loses. | /r/askTRP | 30/04/16 05:10 AM |
| 2 | Best cities in the USA for bachelors, both old and young. Feel free to add to this very short list!Can confirm, you invest a shit ton (money, time, energy) on simply maintaining a lifestyle or for little return. Tinder is loaded with hambeasts, cave trolls and orcs, and the fit women are usually career driven. A lot of people shit where they eat. To me, yes there are a lot of women. There are also a lot of women everywhere else. You're better off in an growing, smaller city like Tampa. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/16 01:25 PM |
| 2 | How does one deal with the brink of entering a depressive state?You might not be able to go to the gym right now, but you can control your diet. Diet is just as important when trying to look good/lose weight/whatever your goal is. Eat clean, cut out all shit food and stick to it. The expression "you are what you eat" is quite true. What you also need is a plan, something where you set goals for yourself that are realistic and will help you move forward with your life. Start small, and have a plan for the gym ready to go when you are finally healthy. Secondly… | /r/askTRP | 27/04/16 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Initiating ContactWomen like a man who takes action. You should be the one setting up dates, but don't let it dictate your schedule. Along with that, there's a natural give and take, chances are if you've just fucked her well, she'll hit you up sooner or later. | /r/askTRP | 27/04/16 03:15 AM |
| 1 | How can I break out of complacency?And finally, I have no long term goals. I don't want to get married or have kids, I don't want to be well known or well regarded. If you've never felt the need to wake up early because you can't wait to work on your passion or hobby, then you've never lived. Goals are everything, you need to find what drives you. Absolutely no one can tell you what that is, it's something that you need to find out for yourself. Start trying things, even shit you could never see yourself doing -- climbing, brewin… | /r/askTRP | 24/04/16 05:05 AM |
| 3 | Theory Weekend - No Stupid Questions Thread Part IIThe usual advice is having experience with plates before moving into LTR. This is due to getting used to the shit/comfort tests employed by women, the more you get them the better you get at dealing with them. Having said that, from personal experience, it isn't necessary for it to happen. TRP, as you've discovered yourself, can improve a relationship almost immediately. The catch is to apply it gradually and covertly, so that there isn't a giant backlash from your SO, i.e. you display too many … | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/16 04:45 AM |
| 4 | HuntFinally, someone wrote this post. Hunting is an excellent way to snap out of your pedestaling. And there's nothing like spending a whole day tracking your prey, and then finally seeing it on your dinner table. If you want to see an Alpha, check out Cameron Hanes. The man is jacked and wakes up, lifts and runs 10 miles up a mountain and then goes at it with his bow. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/04/16 02:14 PM |
| 22 | A Beginners Guide: Being a Red-Pill MaleThe compound lifts he describes will improve your posture immensely. Stretch everyday, and when you stand squeeze your shoulder blades slightly together. I've also found that not looking at the ground as much when I walk was something I had to kick to improve my posture. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/04/16 03:55 AM |
| 1 | An RP Primer to Social MediaA lot of comments here are debating social media usage, etc. But I think it's important to note that it can be used as a tool to screen plates and potential LTRs. Chicks post everything about their lives now, and for those born in the early-mid 90s, you know can see as far back to their beginnings in the SMP. This includes relationship status, pics, posts, etc. -- all things that should absolutely be evaluated when moving forward with a girl. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/16 06:58 AM |
| 1 | Emotional bonding with womenI suggest you read this: https://therationalmale.com/2014/11/21/intimacy/ | /r/askTRP | 17/04/16 04:03 AM |
| 3 | How do I into fun?I see this question all the time on here. Dates are so simple, but they require you to have hobbies first. Rock climbing, archery, biking, climbing, swimming, filmmaking, whatever it is you like that displays value, just bring them along. If you don't have hobbies, get some. Secondly, drop the mindset of not planning on sex at the end, as you appear boring. Girls love a guy who is clear with his intentions, and you need to constantly escalate. In all of this, don't curtail your lifestyle to a gi… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/16 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Could Anybody Imagine A Woman Doing This?Agreed, I think the answer to OP's question is an obvious no. Doesn't really matter if he has money or not, or whatever his situation is, he is deliberately going against his best interests. The societal programming you mentioned apparently affects all levels, including supposed high-status males. Amazing. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/16 03:42 AM |
| 3 | College Freshman Accused of RapeAs much as a fraternity can be an awesome place to make life long friends and connections, its leaders will protect their asses to whatever end they need to, even if that means tossing one of their own under the bus, especially when it comes to rape allegations. Talk to a lawyer, and do not talk about any of this with your brothers. Confide in your parents or whoever it is you trust outside of campus. Colleges are not a safe place for a young man these days, keep your guard up. | /r/askTRP | 16/04/16 04:11 AM |
| 1 | How to get a job on a fishing ship.Back in FL I had buddies that were super passionate about fishing, they would basically just talk to the guys at the docks when looking for a gig. It's a much smaller world since it's more blue collar. Cold calling would probably work best in your situation. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/16 03:28 AM |
| 6 | Positive Male Organizations Do Not ExistHunting groups should be added to that list. Women aren't the type to field dress a deer. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/04/16 03:40 PM |
| 1 | What should I do in my current LTR?It's completely natural. IMO, try not to focus on whether or not you'll be with her forever. Statistics don't favor that. Focus on what's in front of you (lifting, reading, etc.). You might find that as you grow that your view of her changes, for better or worse. For reference, I'm a couple years older than you, and been with my LTR for a couple years. I check out chicks all the time. It's just how we are programmed. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/16 05:17 AM |
| 7 | The only one you can save is yourselfIn no way should any RP man help those that exist outside of the manosphere. It is not our responsibility, or fight or whatever BP mindset trick to save anyone, man or woman. Rollo's recent article touched on this: This is because men have been conditioned over the course of successive generations to think they are some kind of hero for ‘saving’ a woman from her own breeding decisions by directly or indirectly forgiving indiscretions and supporting and raising a child he didn’t father. I think t… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/16 04:11 AM |
| 3 | For all you newbies, this is for you.Some of that mushroom tip action | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/16 03:19 AM |
| 3 | How do you develop the confidence to have sex and dominate when you have low sexual experience?First, read the sex god method if you haven't already. Second, get out of your head. When you bed a girl, instincts take over. Unless you have extremely low T-levels, or brought home a crippled landwhale smothered in face paint, you won't have to worry about keeping it up. Be selfish in bed. If you finish early so what, don't make it about her, make it about you. And after you lay a few, you'll wonder why you ever even needed to post here. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/16 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Don't lie to yourself. Kill your hamster to become a man.Oh man, the hangover workout is killer. I've actually had some amazing workouts sweating out the bullshit from the night before (in no one do I condone this). I've always wondered if I was the only one that wakes up feeling extremely guilty after a night out, even if I didn't drink that much or do anything ridiculous. To me that's time I could've spent sleeping or reading. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/16 04:07 AM |
| 2 | LTR watched porn plot of BF letting his GF fuck his friendIf all else is good just file it away. LTR's require molding, with the right frame she'll never mention anything like that again. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/16 07:07 PM |
| 5 | Is anyone just completely disgusted by women?Lmao 17 likes for that. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/16 07:05 PM |
| 4 | Damaged GoodsFor me, the thing that I cannot get over about promiscuous women is [my] idea that they don't respect their future husbands. This is really it. While yes, most young women these days do not have a strong male presence to guide them, I'm not buying the bullshit that they don't know any better. If you're getting penetrated by multiple men in your teens onward you don't deserve the ring. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/04/16 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Growing your social circle at 42I disagree with number 5. Go to a barber, they will make you look like a man. Edit: number fucking 5, not 6. can't type. | /r/askTRP | 05/04/16 12:15 AM |
| 6 | Nervous about an LTR, need adviceJust enjoy it while it lasts, that's all you can do because she is not yours, it's only your turn. You need to keep an abundance mentality, and remember that she is no unicorn. I've found that picking a hobby to invest in more than my LTR kills any sort of oneitis. Not sure what it is, but the more I sink bullseyes with my bow, the less I'd let a woman take over my life. | /r/askTRP | 30/03/16 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Moving to NYC: Need RP adviceYeah I was in Queens last year, moved to SI so I could still work in Manhattan. On the same page though I'm looking literally everywhere else. NYC is not for the average RP man. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Moving to NYC: Need RP adviceFuck yes, and the prices are great. Can't understand those types that can't tolerate a short ferry ride to Manhattan. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 04:57 AM |
| 30 | "My husband [33M] is depressed and I'm [33F] fucking over it"I don't necessarily think the marriage is at stake (for better or for worse you know!). I'm not going to divorce my husband just because he is unemployed and suffering from depression. But it is affecting how I see him and on some level, my attraction for him. I think it would hurt his feelings and do more harm than good if I told him that. That one was good, I mean, psh, she would never cheat on him or anything like that. My favorite is the response: Wow. Your husband needs to realize what a ca… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/03/16 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Need Advice On LiftingWhat's your height? While it's important to have high protein intake, don't be afraid of carbs or fats. They give you energy and you won't be fucking miserable cutting. Figure out the calories you need first, reduce by a couple hundred and go from there. What's your current routine? | /r/askTRP | 25/03/16 03:03 PM |
| 11 | Wife wants to support her family and siblingsThat's a load of crap. Women love to hypothetically reverse the roles and say they would do something. Notice how they're never actually in that position to make a hard decision about something. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/16 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Reduce your misogyny by being manlyLocation probably has something to do with it too. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/16 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Reduce your misogyny by being manlyIn the mean time, you've been told a mountain of bullshit that you think is right, like that we want a girl with a degree, or that you can do anything we can do, only better. It's all designed to keep you miserable so you're easy to control, and why do they want to control you? so you will buy shit to feel better. It's shit like this that keeps things heading in the direction that they are, nothing ever breaks this chain of power. This comment was excellent. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/03/16 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Guy hitting on my GF at the bar. Did I handle this alright?No one respects the hot couples in public where mingling is the goal (no one). Honestly this merits a post by itself. When you're at bars/alcohol is involved, all bets are off the table, except for possibly a classy joint. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/16 11:44 PM |
| 4 | Dating and race: Is being white a sexual death sentence in 2016?I feel like the fact that I was born white is one of the major reasons that I'm suffering romantically. Male hamstering right here. From what you've described, it seems like you're in an area where there's a large black population, perhaps that is why you perceive this. Competing with them as an average white dude just feels like I'm destined for failure. You've already shot off your balls before you've started playing. Ditch this attitude and brush up on the sidebar. If you're good looking and … | /r/askTRP | 20/03/16 04:22 AM |
| 1 | How to approach girls in loud setting?I dealt with this a lot in early college. Ultimately, it ended up turning me off to parties and clubs. You can't expect to have a full conversations, instead use lines that get them to do shots with you/play pong/dance whatever that allows you to escalate physically. My advice: play your strong hand and stick to your art fairs. Day game lets you show that you aren't a boring fuck. If you have a hobby, bring her along. Rock climbing, paddle boats, charity crap, 10x easier to pick up a plate, prob… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/16 04:16 AM |
| 1 | busting in GF on the PillWomen get off buckets when it comes to spunk. They want it everywhere. This is fucking poetry. Usually don't laugh much on TRP but this got me. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/16 03:56 AM |
| 16 | I killed the romance in my relationshipRight on. All these other comments talk about not showing weakness, well when you get sick and projectile vomit, you really can't hide that shit. We're fucking human. Any women that leaves you over an injury or illness is a cheeseburger slut and should be disposed of accordingly. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/16 12:48 PM |
| 19 | GF broke up. I said cool and peace'd. Now she's at my door...It's tough to turn a previous LTR into a plate, since they almost never put aside old feelings. Their end goal will be to take up your time all in the hopes of getting back together. Tread carefully, limit contact and make it clear you aren't interested in restarting a relationship. Usually saying you want to remain friends works. | /r/askTRP | 16/03/16 07:25 PM |
| 8 | Most Guys Give Up Way Too Easy + FRI agree. A gym for a woman is significantly different than a regular guy going to the gym. Girls know exactly what they're doing when they wear tight clothing and do half-assed good morning exercises. Like you said, the fact that she gave it up the first day after a few drinks is more telling. Golden rule of watch what women do, not what they say. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/03/16 07:17 PM |
| 6 | Roommate plays video games after lights out.Motherfucking hated that shit when my roommate would do it back in the day. Made it clear to him that it wasn't okay, and if he wanted to play it at abnormal hours he had to go somewhere else. Sleep is not something to be fucked with OP, do whatever is necessary. But I didn't even have to threaten him with getting the RA involved. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/16 05:31 AM |
| 11 | Self-awareness is a woman's best friend.Her primary attribute as an LTR is her ability to introspect to the best of her ability and recognise when she is being silly. Well put. They're pretty simple creatures really, half the time they're just hungry or something. When my LTR complains about something trivial and it's disrupting what I do, I take a minute to call her on it and then offer two generic solutions to her problem. I never look to actually solve it, only engage and deflect. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/03/16 06:16 PM |
| 63 | The Rational Male – GhostingThis is an aspect of the pill that is a tough one to swallow. In the three years of actively practicing RP values and reading everyday, I have slowly lost contact or no longer associate with those that might hinder my progress toward self-improvement. Even among my closest friends I quickly learned that you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink. The weird part is, I don't actively see this transition. I think it's a slow, natural process, because when you gravitate toward hard … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/16 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Read the smear campaign question on TRP a few days ago so I have to ask, how are you supposed to approach girls in a college kind of environment if you are NOT a part of that scene?This is it exactly, natural is the only way unless you're at a party or some social function. The key is to put yourself in positions where things can occur naturally, frequently. It's as simple as never staying in your dorm room, or even leaving the door to your room open a lot. Edit: OP doesn't go to the college, was using this as an example as how simple it is. | /r/askTRP | 07/03/16 03:27 AM |
| 7 | DAE realise that all those girls in porn are going to be somebody's boyfriend/husband one day?It really shouldn't be a factor in turning you off porn, the sidebar should have already done that. But yeah, betas are everywhere man. But it really takes a certain kind of stupid to wife up a pornstar, you might as well cut off your balls while you're at it. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/16 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Anyone Else Not Drink?I haven't had a drink in over six months. I feel fucking great. Day game becomes significantly more important when you stop, but it's worth it since you'll start finding higher quality girls. Used to be a party animal too. Just not worth it. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/16 06:09 AM |
| 5 | [Serious] I want kids. Pretty sure I have to be married for that to happen. What do I do? / How do I know if the girl is right?LTR material has been discussed on here a number of times before but usually not with the end goal of kids/marriage. Honestly, I think a lot of the same traits apply (low kill count, submissive, polite) but with a heavier emphasis on nurturing and caring qualities. Another good indicator is to see how she deals with children in real life. My current LTR is awesome with my two nephews. She's kind, warm, and they love her. Obviously still 10,000 miles from even considering that shit, but it's good… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/16 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Choosing a major.This is by far the best response. Telling OP to pursue a STEM field even if he possibly has no genuine interest is poor advice, as he is more likely to not do exceedingly well. The degree is a huge commitment of both time and money, and it's prime years where one can be shaping themselves both physically and mentally. Colleges are not necessarily the best place to do so anymore, with outrageous price tags and rape accusations at every corner. OP needs to have his finances accounted for, and a tr… | /r/TheRedPill | 21/02/16 10:29 PM |
| 5 | Bill Burr on society judging successful men who cheat.I think one of the important reasons to consider is if she has a boyfriend or is married how the other guy will react. Most of them being BP, they likely could turn violent quickly. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/16 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Getting a girl to invest before meeting her.Snapchat definitely. In fact, snapchat her a picture of you with other girls if possible. Highly recommend this. Instant SMV booster. Always be closing, it's the rule of sales and it's the rule of poon. If a girl really wants to meet up with you, she'll make it happen, remember that. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/16 04:36 AM |
| 2 | Should I soft next my pre BP female friend?Remember that when cultivating relationships with women it's imperative that you establish your intent early. Kino, escalation, flirting are all great ways to do so. This way they understand you're not in it for friendship. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 06:04 AM |
| 12 | Potential LTR confides in me...She's not LTR material. That's a shitload of drama waiting to happen that you do not want a piece of. Plate status definitely. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 05:59 AM |
| 8 | Should I soft next my pre BP female friend?This is usually a no-win scenario. Once a women has you pegged as a beta bitch you're there forever. You could put on 50 lbs of muscle and she will always view you that way. This is especially intensified if you eventually become wealthier. I would advise soft nexting. If she's good company, doesn't get in the way of your goals, doesn't cockblock -- that's a big one, then sure, keep her on the back burner. But women usually make shitty friends, might as well get the benefits from it too. Go find… | /r/askTRP | 12/02/16 05:56 AM |
| 36 | Mateguarding- Don't do it.Let's be real, if you're doing it right, your bitch will be mateguarding you instead. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/16 06:09 PM |
| 43 | Mateguarding- Don't do it.OP gonna ruffle some newbie feathers with this post. Anyway, in the past six months I've upped my passive dread big time with my woman. I've improved a lot in the gym, done well on the job front, etc. but I've also made it a huge point to not give a fuck about sex. I denied her passively the other day by continuing to focus on the budget stuff I was working on and she lost it. Kept begging for it. Finally gave it to her after I finished, but whatever. The point is, I've been noticing a lot more … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/02/16 05:03 AM |
| 4 | Never, ever be a hero, and disassociate yourself from the party life at all costs.Seeing a lot of comments questioning why one shouldn't party in situations like these. In short, everyone around you is intoxicated -- emotions run high quickly, fights break out all the time. It's so easy to get into a situation that you do not want to be in. Is it worth a) your health b) possibly having SJW's get your ass into some hot water with the school c) STDs? All for some quick wet hole? For those that disagree with OP: The day game can be quite lucrative. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/16 06:10 AM |
| 2 | Red DespairAbsolutely. They don't want to put in the work to learn game, which can take years and years to perfect and develop. Sure, some have it harder than others but that's just the damn point of TRP isn't it, to better yourself to have a fighting shot and do things for yourself instead of wet slimehole. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/01/16 05:23 PM |
| 2 | To enjoy the decline, or to start a family, that is the questionUse a proxy. Worked wonders for me back in the high school days. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/16 06:19 AM |
| 2 | Catch her before it happens. Best Android spying tools?Best reply so far. He's attempting to do the whole trust but verify, but he's going full beta on this shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 03:31 PM |
| 6 | Go Full PatriarchYou don't take GLO too seriously, that's the point. Or maybe you do and go full black knight. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/01/16 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Losing interest in LTR, not too sure if I'm being rational about itIn my opinion, a man should have banged at least several girls before embarking on a serious relationship -- it builds outcome independence, which is crucial to maintain in LTRs. To answer your question, no you are not being ridiculous. Attraction cannot be negotiated, however it seems as if you should be shaking things up in the bedroom. It's up to you to lead her -- are you honestly fucking her as well as you can? Do you take the lead? Do you make her want to satisfy you? I would advise readin… | /r/askTRP | 19/01/16 10:45 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of "The Defining Decade"? (marrying in your 20s)As men, we're only just coming into our prime in our twenties, and I'd rather build my body and mind rather than destroy it. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/16 06:10 PM |
| 9 | Flashback Post #3: Men are not happy by ArchwingerIf you don't believe women are oppressed and raped constantly or assume they are wonderful by default, you are sexist. If you dont fight for gay rights, you are a homophobe. If you mention blacks in crime, you are racist. If you don't greet a horde of muslims with open arms, you're an islamaphobe. This about sums up the message(s) of the echo chambers in the feminist subreddits, mass-media articles and movies we see today. Thanks for putting into words what I haven't been able to. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/16 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Whats your favorite RP-Truth one-liner?Such a great feeling of satisfaction. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/16 09:40 PM |
| 4 | How to Filter out a girl like a JediSidebar, read all of the articles there as well. Some basic terms to know: AF - Alpha Fucks, BB -- Beta Bux, ONS - one night stand, LTR -- long term relationship | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/15 08:16 PM |
| 7 | How to Filter out a girl like a JediThe point is, women have no reason to give the truth on that matter. They know their kill count matters, so they'll always tell you something lower than it actually is. With guys, they tend to exaggerate their numbers because it shows that they are worth fucking. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/15 06:04 PM |
| 5 | Fatherly Guidance Series: On PlanningI'd agree most here didn't have the experience of a strong father. He might've been physically there as a person, but not much more than that. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/12/15 03:26 AM |
| 1 | How did I handle this situation as an "Future Alpha"?Pay no attention to the neckbeard troll. I would agree with the first comment -- ignore Jim. TRP's advice on a lot of matters is to walk away from a bad situation, or one that does not deserve your attention. You have better things to do than worry about what Jim does or feels, unless he is directly hurting you, etc. An Alpha would pay him no mind and remain stoic, unless confronted again -- always let him be the aggressor, the first one to throw a punch/get upset loses. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/15 07:01 AM |
| 2 | Christmas datesShe's most likely doing a bunch of holiday shit so I'd opt for a New Year's party if I were you. Bitches go crazy for New Year's, it's second only to Saint Patty's Day. But I wouldn't really worry too much about holiday stuff, go do something you like to do so she can see how awesome you are. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/15 06:56 AM |
| 1 | GF broke up with me, she said she "doesn't feel like we're right for each other"She said that with her previous boyfriend she was in love with him the whole time, but with me she didn't really love me as much as she wanted to. What more do you need? You didn't give her the tingles. She's probably an Alpha widow or looking to branch swing, or both. because this girl is very valuable to me How? She isn't made of gold, and unless she cooks and fucks like a girl on the cover of a 1950s Life magazine, she's nothing to you if she isn't into you. She said it has nothing to do with… | /r/askTRP | 20/12/15 06:52 AM |
| 33 | LPT gives Blue Pill advice on "What to do when your partner has a crush"First thought that crossed my mind. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/15 01:33 AM |
| 9 | Women undergo a robotic transformation when you start behaving betaI read through some old emails between an ex-GF and I, and the things I said are absolutely nauseating. God this is so real. Checked some emails from a few years back as well, couldn't stop laughing at what a bitch I was. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/15 06:52 AM |
| 6 | Women undergo a robotic transformation when you start behaving betaDoesn't work in an LTR, that's why they're Red Pill on hard mode. If you're too alpha, they'll feel like you aren't committed, and wreck shit. If you're too beta, they'll feel like you aren't a man, and wreck shit. That happy medium can be damn near impossible to find. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/15 06:49 AM |
| 22 | GayLubeOil's Ultimate Christmas Gift Giving Guide!I can vouch for the blanket. Did this last Christmas for my LTR after seeing GLO's post back then. Put pictures of myself doing awesome things and some ridiculous faces and not a single picture of her. She was stunned and it drove her crazy. It's become the blanket that we bang on whenever we go camping, etc. Saved myself a shitload of money while messing with my woman, would highly recommend. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/15 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Hormones, not just a female issue.I have naturally higher blood pressure, would a doctor be less willing to prescribe TRT if this is the case? Also, is this as simple as going to a regular family physician, or is there somewhere else I should be going? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/15 05:36 PM |
| 0 | FR: She also cheats because you're not successful enoughThis really is the best answer. There are a million reasons why a bitch will cheat, you can do your absolute best to prevent that and still fail. Focus on yourself instead. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/15 07:19 PM |
| 19 | Not enjoying clubs, but should I go just to protect my LTR girl ?You don't LTR a club girl. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/15 01:58 PM |
| 11 | The Secret of a Tender ElamNow cover your Elam in white guilt. This is why I can't read your posts in class, I end up pissing myself. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/10/15 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Women in their 30s who are unable to get beta bucks commitment require covering up the causes for riding the CC to serve the female imperative. One of the MAIN reasons for feminism.Both men and women are capable of controlling their biological sexual desires. Not every woman needs to be a whore by ditching her man at the sight of a better one, nor will every man ditch his woman to fuck a young blonde. Many men, myself included, would commit to a woman at a young age if the legal system wasn't fucked, and most women were worth committing too. Read the damn sidebar. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/15 07:05 PM |
| 9 | A man's role in modern society, and a healthy dose of MGTOWHere's one conclusion: fuck the system. Fuck it. It's broken. It does not work for us anymore, and over time it keeps decaying. Fuck working for large corporations and having no autonomy, fuck globalization making us compete with Chinese sweatshops, fuck divorce rape, fuck the morning commute, fuck the evening commute, fuck expensive housing, fuck student loans, fuck Caitlyn Jenner, fuck the national debt, fuck racism and fuck white guilt, fuck it all. Fuck everyone. You must read my thoughts. I… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/15 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Dealing with an emotional girlfriendShe's trying to lock you down, shame you into provider status. LTR is the ultimate balancing act. It's good to console her and be that emotional rock, but make sure it doesn't become a habit. The next time she cries just continue what you're doing, and talk to her like she isn't. It takes time with LTRs to mold them into your frame. especially if she just can't say what's on her mind Have you ever met a woman who actually does this? | /r/askTRP | 18/10/15 05:29 AM |
| 10 | Men don't take women on "dinner" dates because women don't want to go on them, and also unattractive people have different experiences than attractive onesBring them into your frame, man, that's part of the experience for them. It's also a big tenet of TRP -- don't change for women. What do you like to do? Rock climb? Tennis? Whatever it is, bring them along. Works out since they'll either be wet from you being so exciting, or worth keeping around if they happen to actually be interested in you. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/15 09:49 PM |
| 17 | Self-control is vital: Nature has not adapted to modern societyMy woman was crying the other night about one thing or another, and I found myself getting irritated. Thought about calling her an annoying bitch, maybe dumping a bucket of water on her and even going over to her and consoling her, like a good little boy -- a full range of reactions. But I realized that she was doing what women will do, taking her emotional rollercoaster ride and slamming it into my frame. Trying to capitalize on my ocean of testosterone flowing through my body, hoping to see a … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/15 04:31 PM |
| 9 | FraternityJust so everyone is aware of the state of Greek Life: it is nearly impossible to stay active on your own terms without the crushing fist of the administration fucking you over. Events have to be registered. If you don't own the house itself outright you can forget about doing half the shit you think you'll be able to do. Fraternity men walk around with targets on the back of their heads -- one of the few reasons they remain open is due to financial contributions from alumni. Having said all of t… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/15 11:33 AM |
| 8 | "In praise of the beta male"Yes, it is this unhappiness. She'll be chasing those tingles and never truly get it except in a few side flings -- what is she going to do at 50? At 50 most men are (or can be) still in the game. No, it's not a straight up revenge, but as men, we have it better in the long haul. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/15 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Aspiring writer? Content producer? Really clever twitterer?Interested in both writing/social media. Currently employed for both. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/09/15 03:39 AM |
| 3 | Articles like this are why I'm grateful for TRPStandards are at a new low, so much now that they essentially don't exist. It boils down to a lack of accountability -- no one is actually forced to take care of themselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/15 03:17 AM |
| 1 | In your honest opinion, what is the best way to do college?As someone who is coming out of the school thing now, just know that it's a completely different ballgame than even five years ago with all of the false rape accusations, pussification of young men, etc. It seems like you're looking to do engineering or the like, which is good. The studies always have to be there, so get in the habit of doing a little reading/work each day, always be ahead so you don't have to worry about deadlines. Socially, join a frat if you feel at home with the guys there. … | /r/askTRP | 14/09/15 06:20 AM |
| 6 | Organic Cane Sugar: An 18-year old fresh out of his first LTRIf you are young, approach them with awareness. You should be approaching an LTR with awareness no matter what age you are. In fact, LTR isn't a goal, it either materializes after a time with a girl or it doesn't. But good on you for ending that shit. By no means am I old, but I wish I'd ended my first LTR way earlier than I did. At 18, and entering a trade, the whole world awaits you. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/15 05:55 AM |
| 26 | Girlfriend is on trip and might be going out with a group of guys.Why are you not with her? Girls on trips always get into situations where "it just happened." | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/15 02:50 AM |
| 7 | Fraternity mistake..tips?You don't join a fraternity to get women. You join it for the brotherhood. Go where you feel the most welcome and where you think you will be successful/have the most fun. Once that happens, the chicks just come. If you can't go where you want to, wait. It's not a big deal to rush spring semester. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/15 04:05 AM |
| 11 | Post-wall woman on r/okcupid has wild threesomes and multiple fuckbuddies, then wonders why men won't commit to her. Commenters put together their heads to figure out this perplexing mystery.This is what every man here must internalize. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/09/15 08:20 PM |
| 13 | Virgins are boring. The cons of inexperience from Eastern EuropeAt the end of the day, there are are million practical reasons to go for low-count women as compared to a little thrill in the sack, who can put you at risk for STDs, crazy bullshit, etc. You also cannot ever determine how many a girl has truly had, this is why at TRP we judge a girl for how she presents herself: is she feminine? caring? kind? submissive? a relationship with an inexperienced girl can bore you because of lack of dread Most men do not even know what dread is. Dread is a tool, and … | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/15 07:47 PM |
| 5 | LTRing a women with high partner count is like LTRing an alcoholicThere is no denying the slutiness of sloots. However, I don't quite understand how someone would LTR someone with a notch count up to 20. Not that you can actually determine their number, of course. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/15 02:52 AM |
| 9 | LTRing a women with high partner count is like LTRing an alcoholic20? Is that low these days? Damn. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/08/15 10:02 PM |
| 12 | Hypergamy 101 - Women See Men the Way Men See JobsGod this is gold. I laughed, but such a perfect way to describe it. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/15 08:54 PM |
| 9 | On Jon Krakauer's new anti-rape book MissoulaIt is, indeed, a shame that Krakauer fell for what 99% of the Western world falls for everyday. But as we all know, most are and will never be ready to view the world through TRP. Putting his ignorance aside, he's a great author. Into Thin Air is a wonderful read. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/05/15 10:15 PM |
| 6 | The Secret Housework RatioYou should be able to instinctively feel this. If you feel like you are doing too much, then back off. But it's a lot more fluid than you would think. /u/Archwinger had a good post about this, about making your woman feel more appreciated when doing housework: http://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/3278bm/order_your_wife_around/ | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/04/15 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Own Your Shit Weekly - April 07, 2015Think you could do a post on that decision? I'd be interested to hear more about your situation. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/04/15 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Woman's relationship with her mother... what's appropriate?You need to be more specific. If her mother is impinging upon your relationship to the extent that it's effectively ruining it, then you need to confront your SO, and if you must, deliver an ultimatum. Certain things are dealbreakers, but you shouldn't force her to choose between her mother and you. You'll lose. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/15 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Woman's relationship with her mother... what's appropriate?Should be a healthy relationship. The level of communication isn't that important, as long as it's there. The relationship that you should be focusing on is the one with her dad, because he set the precedent for all guys that follow. Does she look up to him? Does to talk about him frequently? Is she "daddy's little girl?" Girls that don't have strong relationships with their father are not good relationship material. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/15 01:57 AM |
| 4 | Giving woman mini-orgasms.Well yeah, don't stare at them like they have a third eye. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/15 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Giving woman mini-orgasms.You're spot on. People will find you much more personable if you're able to hold eye contact and maintain a conversation. It seems so simple, but so many people are completely unable to do this anymore. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/15 05:55 PM |
| 7 | Opinions on this shit test?Passed. You got her curious, she's gonna jump on the hamster wheel and think about it for a bit and then if you continue to play your cards right, she'll jump on you. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/15 08:02 PM |
| 1 | (20) Male looking for help moving forwardFirst thing, take a day and just do whatever the hell you want to do, but don't spend it in bed like a lazy sloth. After that, ask yourself why the fuck you would want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you. I'm in school myself right now, and I dislike it quite a bit. However, you have two years of school left to turn yourself into something awesome. Do NOT let some dumb girl define who you are. Do NOT let her define what you are capable of. The breakup is going to hurt for a long t… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/15 03:40 AM |
| 27 | Shit Tests Are Attempts To Renegotiate For More In Exchange For LessExcellent post. The next day I was offered a premium service upgrade, which included two previously unavailable and highly exotic activities, and it was all for the agreeable price of the dinner date that she had hoped for. I laughed. But yes, sexual strategy is merely a game. It can be reduced to an economic, pragmatic level of thinking, which revolves around an exchange of goods. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/03/15 01:55 AM |
| 3 | How does TRP see more 'traditional' relationships that fit neither AF or BB?Rollo recently wrote a piece about this: http://therationalmale.com/2015/03/16/making-up-for-missing-out/ He writes extensively about this phase in his new book, which covers the Redevlopment/Reinsurance phase. But in any case, the middle ground your refer to is LTR game theory, where one must manage to be Alpha (the best option for her) while also providing certain Beta traits, that come in the form of provision. It's merely a combination of both. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/15 02:06 AM |
| 20 | How Men Love / Male CommitmentAnd this is why I come to this sub every single day, it's a constant reminder that the fairytale ending is not real. It took a lot to get the dynamic I wanted in the relationship I have now, and one of the things that helped me get to that point was telling myself to remain distant emotionally, because I am not naturally Machiavellian as /u/IllimitableMan pointed out. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/03/15 11:35 PM |
| 9 | How to deal with other male competition?Frame. Assuming your SMV is high enough, she won't want to leave and go after the guys that are pursuing her. Secondly, it does not sound like you are in an environment conducive to your strengths. If you are at a bar/club, keep that abundance mentality strong. If she isn't interested in you to a degree that you like, move on to the next one. There's plenty of strange out there. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/15 05:12 PM |
| 3 | I'll keep this short and sweet- Woman's definition of love...If women weren't capable of controlling their hypergamy, then monogamy/LTRs would not be possible at all. They aren't rare exceptions, they are difficult. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 08:35 PM |
| 4 | Women don't just give "alpha" guys their best sex. They give them their best emotional intimacy, too.They’d rather sit in front of the TV with their men than actually talk to them, and when they do talk, it’s usually a one-sided affair where the man listens while she complains. Poor bastard. That's why it's always smart to have a sock on hand, in case you need to shove it in her mouth. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/03/15 06:11 PM |
| 4 | "If you won't settle for a woman who has been riding the CC and wracking high numbers, why should a woman who has low numbers go for a guy with high numbers?" - my plate. What's the answer here?http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2yn18l/psa_regarding_new_guidelines_courtesy_of_your_new/ | /r/askTRP | 12/03/15 02:35 AM |
| 1 | "If you won't settle for a woman who has been riding the CC and wracking high numbers, why should a woman who has low numbers go for a guy with high numbers?" - my plate. What's the answer here?There are no women on the internet. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/15 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Lurker on Red Pill with one main concern, please explain.A) No true red piller is hating on women, we accept them for what they are. This sub recently has had a surge in crappy posts bitching about how some overweight women in her 40s is cuckolding her husband blah blah blah, read the sidebar instead. B) Stop labeling yourself as whatever and go hit the gym. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/15 03:08 AM |
| 1 | TIL the guy accused of rape by Emma "The Mattress" Sulkowicz was raised a to be a feminist.Haha one can only assume. I'm sure they're planning a full assault come spring time. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/02/15 05:03 PM |
| 5 | TIL the guy accused of rape by Emma "The Mattress" Sulkowicz was raised a to be a feminist.It's interesting to note that ever since winter has come, the mattresses have gone away. I guess rape only matters when it's warm outside. #yesallnarcoleptics | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/15 10:39 PM |
| 17 | [FR] LTR shit tests and treating her like a childWay to destroy the shit tests with an iron fist. LTR shit tests are different in that they are more subtle -- such was your case. Nice job on holding frame. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/15 12:34 AM |
| 4 | Fight your neediness and oneititis. Keep moving forwardThere's another post out there about not getting into a LTR with a 9 or 10. Sure, there's preference involved, but assuming you have impeccable frame (if you've absorbed everything here) then why not? Important to keep in mind: 'Enjoy them for what they are'. Fuckin A right. If you take them for anything other than this, then you are still plugged in. No woman is perfect, and guess what, neither are you. No woman is ever going to meet every single last standard you have, get over it. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/15 12:28 AM |
| 0 | Don't forget to laugh.What I think of when a hoe starts hamstering: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9SjmL_WVI4A | /r/TheRedPill | 21/01/15 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Blindsided breakup. Should have seen it coming.For a recently unplugged, it's often easy to forget that a woman's promiscuity is quite similar to a man's commitment -- it is the ultimate tool in a man's arsenal against the feminine imperative. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/01/15 03:45 AM |
| 0 | Self-defense and martial artsThis is fucking awesome, and it makes me wonder why more people don't do this. For the life of me, I can't understand how one gets into a bar fight, unless a person is absolutely initiating physical contact and there is no other way around it. You're strategy here is the best one -- walk the fuck away. And if it isn't easy, find a way. The guy was defeated, but he didn't feel that way, while I slipped out of a situation that might have escalated. Most people would see this as swallowing your pri… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/01/15 04:29 AM |
| 7 | Am I the only one around here not attracted to sluts and easy-lays?Be you. Building off of this. If you're discouraged by the scene around you, then change the crowd you hang around and the places you visit. You cannot expect to meet LTR women/non-sluts by frequenting clubs/bars. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/01/15 09:34 PM |
| 10 | Women and EducationThis is taken out of context. GLO's point is that women do not want to think and make decisions for themselves. They enjoy the illusion of having control over everything, even in situations that are completely ludicrous, thus -- hamstering. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/15 05:25 PM |
| 5 | How To Make Your Woman Have Sex: A ParableI agree, I think OP understands this but it didn't come off that way in the story he told. Most married RP men on here admit that they always employ some form of soft dread anyway. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/15 05:08 PM |
| 41 | How To Make Your Woman Have Sex: A ParableThat was it? Trick his wife into sex? Mess with her mind so that she'd grudgingly spread her legs? That's called the tingles, Bobby. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/15 02:30 PM |
| 1 | In economic terms, the value of women is greatly inflated and we are headed to a bubble collapse.Not necessarily, MGTOWs still engage in RP principles and some still have plates. They don't entirely opt out. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/01/15 08:56 PM |
| 2 | (FR) Got a kiss and a number at a club. Not sure how to progress.Escalate. Instead of talking about the party, talk about her or yourself and then move onto making plans. There's plenty of Tinder examples/texting game on here. I would suggest reading through Gatsby's guide, it's fantastic. Ideally, you want to be able to close on a date in a short amount of time. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/01/15 01:45 AM |
| 20 | Lowered ExpectationsWho knows, maybe he just loves bacon. But really, the flame has gone out of this guy. I think it's important to never settle, and if you ever find yourself in a Waffle House late at night with poor posture, a nasty haircut and a land whale sitting across the booth from you - you've settled. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/14 05:41 PM |
| 84 | Show me you can be a leader in this relationship, and you will have my blessingFantastic insight you provided to him. It's unfortunate that he was unable to even attempt to change, but then again, blue pill conditioning is ingrained deep in this generation. BE THE KIND OF MAN YOU WANT YOUR DAUGHTER TO MARRY. You are clearly providing an excellent frame of reference for your daughter, as she knew to break it off after some consideration. Well done OP. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 04:44 AM |
| 1 | At what sexual partner number would you deem a girl unfit for a LTR?An ideal woman understands what a family is, and that means that she has had a strong relationship with her father. Without that presence in her life, she will seek validation elsewhere, i.e. an attention whore/slut. Not LTR material. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/14 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Getting rid of the smartphone?You're not that fucking important: like I said, ten years ago, it wasn't like this. You're not fucking missing anything. Hit the nail on the head. Everyone believes that they are unique and special. They aren't. Amazing what a validation box can do to one's ego. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/14 01:37 AM |
| 8 | At what sexual partner number would you deem a girl unfit for a LTR?This question has come up before, and each time someone is looking for some magical number. The truth is, there isn't one because A) You can never be sure of her number B) A slut will always be a slut. You should really be focusing on her behavior and her past -- does she act feminine? Does she cook/clean? Is she submissive? Does she often talk of past parties or past hookups? Does she have a strong relationship with her parents? So while it would be nice to glean a number from her, you probably… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/12/14 02:33 PM |
| 9 | Women are not what you expect them to beI enjoy these concise posts. No bullshit, just straight to the point. Just be fucking awesome, and strive to be the best you can be every single fucking day. The women will come. And they will stay. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/14 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Can I get a podcast guest?I think this would be a great asset for the community. Joe Rogan experience is very RP itself, but doesn't cover what we cover here. Good thinking OP. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/14 07:23 PM |
| 111 | Do women ever end a relationship without someone lined up?I think in certain circumstances, a woman may not have another cock in waiting. What you should remember is how easy it is for a woman to get laid. All she would need to do is take a stroll down to the local bar with a nice layer of face paint, a pair of heels and a revealing dress and she'll be on her back within the hour. So whether or not there is a cock in waiting doesn't really matter -- the option is always there for her. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/14 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Here's a handy list of what not to do.I would never trust a woman to cook my steak properly, but I'll be damned if I cook anything else beyond that. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 12:33 AM |
| 1 | NEVER EVER trust women who say/act like they are "one of the guys" and have "mostly guy friends"I'm in agreement with you. Honestly, if a girl isn't a slut, and she has a tattoo.. it's a turn on for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/14 03:15 AM |
| 54 | Do girls tell their friends all the intimate details?You bet your ass they know everything. Women love drama, they love gossiping -- it's what they do. You can expect all of her friends to know every detail of your relationship. Use it to your advantage to win over her friends, and it sounds like you already have. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/14 01:47 AM |
| 5 | The end of academiaKeep your mouth shut. Feminism is illogical, and you cannot reason with feminists. Remember, the only person you can control is yourself, so make yourself the absolute best person you can be, and count the days until you can get the fuck out of there. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/10/14 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to follow TRP and cut off all ties to popular culture?You can, and it's called MGTOW. But in reality, an alpha dominates his social environment, presenting himself as the best option. You do not have to follow the meaningless trends or latest nonsense in the media, but being able to hold your own in a conversation is a necessity. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 04:40 AM |
| 4 | Felt like a wimp and still feel like one after 21 years.Have a voice and make yourself heard. Practice having a deeper voice. Adopt an abundance mentality, so you messed up with this one, tell yourself you'll do better with the next one. It's a process. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/14 01:21 AM |
| 27 | Every time I see a girl now all I can think about is how much dick she's hadYou shouldn't be using Facebook to look at girls. It's a useful tool to see if a girl is a slut or not, but beyond that social media severely inflates their value and more. Increase your SMV, and lay more girls. If you're looking for a LTR, then look for higher quality girls, not the ones that are Facebook whores. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/10/14 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Is this worth continuing?Thank you all for your responses. Invariably, as /u/Misteralcala said, it's impossible to fix other people. This is my first relationship since swallowing the pill a year ago, so it's that much more difficult to watch someone you care about self-destruct. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/14 01:06 PM |
| 3 | A.O. Scott (New York Times) inadvertently hits on TRP truth by dissecting Mad MenThe author eloquently discusses the cesspool of nonsense that we now consume as media, but fails to draw the correct conclusion. He states, "Mothers and fathers act like teenagers; little children are wise beyond their years. Girls light out for the territory and boys cloister themselves in secret gardens... The world is our playground, without a dad or a mom in sight." I'm pretty sure that is the definition of chaos. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/09/14 11:14 PM |
| 27 | For the first time since records began, there are more single people than married in the USIt's interesting to note that under /r/news the thread is filled with commenters saying how they oppose marriage because of the eventual divorce that will (probably) come about. There's a ridiculous amount of AWALT examples, including this guy: It is I agree, I've been single for over 7 years but with what the last one put me though I have no drive anymore to do anything with relationships. I had the love of my life turn into a totally different person after a semester of college. She went from … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/14 07:37 PM |
| 5 | Wife took guys phone number, then called me to tell me....Read your above comment about it being a deadbedroom. That should be your first priority. Increase your SMV as much as possible i.e. lifting, engaging in more of your own hobbies, etc. Knowing this now, a confrontation will get you nowhere. If you can fix the deadbedroom, as well as increase SMV, then these types of situations will not happen anymore. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/14 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Wife took guys phone number, then called me to tell me....Was it the security guy's number or the celebs? If it's security then that's a huge red flag. Unless she's in law enforcement there's no need to have his number. From here, I would either confront her about it (if it's the security guy) and if not, run subtle dread. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/14 03:36 PM |
| 3 | "Relationships, the Red Pill, and you" -- LTR advice on the sidebar doesn't seem alpha at all. What do you think?there is always control in a relationship. question is just – who has it? This is the main point of the article. If you can tell yourself that she is just another child, and not put her on a pedestal, you will have the control. Like a child, you set boundaries, and if she breaks them, you walk. You are not trying to control them. Instead, you are setting your own standards about what you want from the relationship. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/14 01:29 PM |
| 1 | women and girls dreaming of their weddings and having childrenUnfortunately, however, logic cannot be applied to this situation. You can't reason with most women on this front. That's how they've been raised, and there's no changing their mindset. To further that point: this is part of the reason TRP advocates having your own mission before anything else. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/14 01:29 AM |
| 1 | LTR Theory & Tips MEGATHREADInteresting perspective, I had not thought of it like that. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/14 06:31 PM |
| 1 | LTR Theory & Tips MEGATHREADAn application like Tinder, which allows for women to sift through hundreds of men in mere minutes, has had a significant impact. Of course, biologic tendencies will never change, but it's still vastly different than before. My OP was pointing out the difficulties in adapting. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/14 06:01 PM |
| 1 | LTR Theory & Tips MEGATHREADCouldn't agree more. Hindsight is 20/20. Thanks for the link. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/14 05:54 PM |
| 1 | LTR Theory & Tips MEGATHREADIn no way am I blaming technology. I am in control of my own life. However, my point was that tech has changed the game. It is an entirely different ball game than ten years ago. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/14 05:53 PM |
| 1 | LTR Theory & Tips MEGATHREADCurrently in a LTR at a young age. I swallowed the pill right as I agreed to be exclusive. Needless to say, it's been an eye-opening experience. The most gut-wrenching realization is that my generation is done for. Phones, tablets, FB, IG, etc. have absolutely destroyed any sense of integrity that we once had. Zero accountability. Zero responsibility. But I digress, the LTR is a ticking time bomb. She is obsessed with material possesions, goes to a fashion school, and no matter how well I mainta… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/14 04:45 PM |
| 1 | What books do you read or would recommend to others?The Meditations by Marcus Aurelius | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/14 01:20 AM |
| 0 | Text from (past) oneitisThis happened to me recently as well. Of course it depends on how things were when you last talked, but for me, it's been pretty great to see how she reacts now that I've swallowed the pill. I would look at it as a potential plate situation. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/14 01:27 AM |
| 17 | The Redefinition of Marriage.This idea is that the basic unit of a society is not an individual, but a family. A society composed of weak, disconnected, or broken families is a broken society. Civilization was formed out of the need to survive. Each member within a community played a specific role that was essential to larger society. Marriage, in turn, created accountability for both the man and the woman. However, today's society no longer has that need. We have machines that can take care of all of those responsibilities… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/14 08:15 PM |
| 7 | New to TRP, need help with girlfriend.Maintain frame. Tell her that if she is going to act like a child then you will treat her as such. The PMS excuse is a classic shit test, but by maintaining frame you can absolutely turn that raging hormonal cycle into some productive sexy time. (This is, of course, assuming that she is actually on her period.) | /r/TheRedPill | 03/08/14 07:56 PM |
| 1 | How to greet a girl when you first meet her?A hug will break the awkwardness of first contact. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/14 12:53 AM |
| 29 | American Women are WhoresThe United States has reached a tipping point of social decline from which there is no going back. And this is the real kicker. What happens now? Who the hell knows, but I'll tell you this much: I'll never settle down with an American woman that isn't a virgin. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/07/14 06:34 PM |
| 6 | The New trailor to "50 Shades of Grey" is the most blatant Red Pill example I've ever seen in film. (Link included)If you want to have a good laugh: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt2322441/board/thread/231320317 | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/14 09:07 PM |
| 5 | Wherein a guy's GF suggests cuckolding, and he drops her instantlyThank you for reminding me. When I read the OP I had to read it twice to make sure I hadn't misread. Absolutely insane. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/14 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else's sexuality take a hit when they swallowed the pill?I agree with this. The only thing I do not understand is how TRP advocates treating women (as godmodus said) as "real life creatures." Well, if you know someone that behaves like a child, how can you realistically treat them as anything other than that? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/14 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Id like some good start up ideas about being RedpillThis should be in askTRP, but yes, like everyone knows around here, lift. And you should probably question your friendship with Josh. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/07/14 02:09 AM |
| 4 | Women aren't women anymore. So men aren't marrying them.This is a great response. It's a real shame that it's come to this for a lot of men. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/14 03:51 AM |
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