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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	How do I deal with the guilt of leaving my wife who is vulnerable because of a single mistake. The bar is in hell, man. Gaming is a fine hobby but not when it impedes basic personal responsibilities like cleaning the fucking house you share with your partner.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/08/24 01:17 PM
3	How do I deal with the guilt of leaving my wife who is vulnerable because of a single mistake. My brother in Christ, reread what you wrote. You had (at least) one boundary in your relationship: no affairs, extramarital or otherwise. And she couldn't even abide by that less than a year in. This is after you admittedly doing more than your fair share around the house and spoiling her. Mental health issues can explain character flaws and poor decisions. They give important context them. They do not excuse them. A diagnosis later in life can be difficult to navigate but it's ultimately your e…	/r/Divorce_Men	14/08/24 01:14 PM
2	Final Moment It's not up to her, it's up to you. You're the father. You have equal rights to the child. Those rights may have to be established through the court system but they're yours if you want them.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/24 05:39 PM
2	Final Moment The longer you wait, the worse you'll look in the eyes of the court when you eventually do try. You can get a custody order that changes as the child grows older; you might begin with supervised visits but you can eventually get overnights and weekends. It's doable.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/24 05:33 PM
4	Final Moment I really feel for your situation. I hope you rethink being in your son's life. You can get joint custody or even just weekends if you want. You can petition for a name change if it's that important to you. Not saying it'll be easy or your coparent will be less toxic but it's worth it imo	/r/Divorce_Men	09/08/24 02:34 AM

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