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I think women aren't as hung up about being single as men are generally.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 02:21 PM
3

Idk, it would have to be on a case by case basis, but in general, it usually would be not too bad
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:10 PM
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30 isn‘t super young. I wonder how much they‘d have in common, but it isn’t the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:05 PM
3

Depends on how young the younger person is. A 20 year old with a 40 year old is much worse than a 40 year old with a 60 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:59 PM
2

Probably. But, despite it being rare, vasectomies can fail. I could see some men using this as a fail safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:46 PM
1

That makes sense. It would be similar to a surrogacy or sperm donor contract in that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/25 02:43 PM
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Good point. I think some of this also applies to older millennial women like myself as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:52 PM
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I mean, he certainly doesn't help the situation. It isn't entirely his fault, but he is part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 02:51 PM
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Yeah. It may be unfortunate, but it's true. If you don't start socializing and forming relationships, it's going to be much more difficult to do so as an adult later on.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:51 PM
14

Same. As long as he doesn't blame women for it/make it women's problem, I have no issue with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:40 PM
2

For a FWB situation, sure but an actual relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 07:27 PM
1

Idk if women resent men by default, by and large. If anything, I think I'm indifferent to men by default, and the same goes for other women as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 03:53 PM
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That’s my point. If he isn’t happy about that, then the relationship isn’t right for them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 10:03 PM
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I can understand not putting your own safety in danger, but the least he can do is call the police/ ambulance
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 06:02 PM
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But it makes sense that she would withhold sex if she doesn't want to risk pregnancy. He did make a choice by not getting one, he gives up a normal sex life with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:48 PM
1

Pretty sure the hormone changes from pregnancy/childbirth are much more extreme than the general hormonal fluctuations that women have. That's why women who are pregnant/recently gave birth should have people who can help and support them during that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:44 PM
2

True, but it is an explanation for her reaction, and should be taken into account
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/24 01:42 PM
14

Also, his current marriage seems more like an arrangement, not based on love or mutual attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 12:54 PM
1

I think when they're old enough to ask for it. I asked my mom if I could have my ears pierced when I was 7 or 8, so I had it done then
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/24 06:40 PM
2

There are certainly more childfree women than women deciding to have children on their own through sperm donors
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/24 04:25 PM
5

I don't think men or women are any different inherently when it comes to social skills, but I do believe that girls are socialized from a very young age, without the parents even realizing it, to be more agreeable and more social
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:02 PM
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I think she's saying she does straight from work to the gym, therefore, doesn't have a chance to remove her makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:47 PM
1

To some degree, yes. If it's hot outside, shorts or a sundress will be more comfortable than long pants or a long sleeve top. It also makes sense at the gym. Even if the room is cold, you'd easily get sweaty if doing an intense work out. Don't know why anyone would wear makeup at the gym though, unless its for insta photos. It would become a mess in no time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 04:42 PM
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Then you’re basically a sociopath, if you don’t have empathy for a child that you bonded with for years. Who cares about what kind of person the mother is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:36 PM
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Before birth
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:34 PM
1

I already clarified in a previous post, it’s not a lie, because he was made aware right away
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:20 PM
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It’s cruel to the child, assuming they were old enough to form a bond at least
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 07:19 PM
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I’ve literally never heard any woman, feminist or not, say that not getting periods is male privilege. That’s ridiculous, if true. As for child support, I would do it, if it meant that the child would be on the streets/in the foster system otherwise. I think any woman with any iota of empathy would agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:56 PM
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Biology isn’t fair though. Like, why would a woman be raising her husband’s affair child, unless something happened to the bio mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:48 PM
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I'm thinking more the 2nd case, though the first case could be possible if it was a one night stand/open relationship and he was okay with it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:39 PM
2

I suppose. Though once the kid is grown, I don't think there's anything that could stop them
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:37 PM
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Couldn't they still have an uncle type role in the child's life, even if they don't have custody?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:35 PM
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Yeah, I can understand if he doesn't want, say, as much of a financial role in the child's life, but to not be in their life at all? That's just cruel.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:34 PM
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No, not tricked. Like, what if she told him before the birth that the baby isn’t his, but he decides “okay, I’ll raise the child as my own anyway”. Would you have an issue with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:31 PM
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Plenty of women raise children who aren't theirs, what are you talking about? I've even heard of grandmothers or aunts stepping in. I imagine raising a child that resulted from an affair from her husband would be pretty rare though, but that's because of biology. The child would most likely be raised by the woman who gave birth to them, unless something happened to her, or the child was abandoned or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:24 PM
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What if a man makes a conscious, voluntary decision to raise a child knowing that it isn't biologically his? Are you against that? I don't see that as much different that choosing to adopt.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:13 PM
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I'd say past a certain age, that's probably true, say after age 35 or so. For an early 20's person in college, I'd say most aren't fat yet, and certainly most would not have had children
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:00 PM
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Unless he's a complete shut in/severely depressed, has no social skills or a really awful personality, then yes
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 12:57 PM
1

I think a lot of it is pressure from society, family and friends
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 08:36 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 04:08 PM
8

The way they treat women in that country, I'm not surprised that they are reluctant to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/24 03:43 PM
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Okay, that’s not too bad then. By “sweet”, do you mean nice/kind, because that should be the default for anyone basically.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:51 PM
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That's a really big list, especially if all of these are potential dealbreakers. I only have like 2 or 3 dealbreakers
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 07:46 PM
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Not really if it's a one time thing and you'll likely never see each other again. Not really sure why you'd need to lie about it in that case though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:00 PM
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Only if I met a really amazing guy, but I'm not out there purposely looking for it. If it happens, it happens. If not, that's fine
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/24 01:24 PM
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I'm sure in most cases, the mother would rather have the father around than receive child support
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:12 PM
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It's not a perfect solution, but it's the best we have. I'm not sure what the answer is. I'm sure taxpayers wouldn't be happy if their taxes went towards child support paid by the government.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 02:11 PM
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How does that make one less horny? It just means more restraint, or perhaps other outlets to horniness
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:19 PM
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Women can be as horny as men, but they are much more hesitant to actually have sex, and would prefer to get a release in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 04:16 PM
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Yeah, that's what my parents did. My mom stayed home when my brother and I were little, but once we were school aged, she went back to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/24 04:09 PM
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Honestly, same. If a relationship happens, that's great, but I'm not counting on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:48 PM
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Idk about that. A woman at a cafe is most likely either waiting for someone else to show up, or will leave in 5 minutes. A woman walking her dog is usually has something to do or somewhere to go afterward, such as to work, or to make supper, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 04:35 PM
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Dating as a teenager is not the same as dating as an adult. I honestly consider teenage dating more like practice for the real thing, in most cases
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 02:28 PM
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I mean, if both people are living with their parents, that would make dating logistically difficult
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:43 PM
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Are all of those out of wedlock births to single mothers though? What about a couple that is 100% committed, raise their child/children together, but don't feel the need for the government to be involved in their relationship. Many unmarried couples raise children together in Europe, and their children seem to end up alright for the most part. Why doesn't it work in America?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:33 PM
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It would depend of which field he works in. If he’s self employed, he could choose his own hours. There may be a bit of a pay decrease, but I doubt it would be a 500K difference
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:16 PM
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Why wouldn't it be the case? There'd be less incentive for him to work 60+ hours a week if his wife also earns a good salary. He could find himself a job with less hours if his current job doesn't allow for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:05 PM
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She could still have her own bank account that he contributes to. Also, if she had a career before marriage, those assets would be hers in the case of a divorce. A prenup could stipulate this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 01:02 PM
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If anything, I think the housewife would be more exhausted, especially if the children are young and not in school yet. This would especially be the case if there's no outside help. In case #2, if there are children, they'd most likely need a nanny or daycare, at least part time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:59 PM
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Yeah, if the guy is making $1M a year, wouldn't he most likely hire a maid, maybe even a chef and nanny to take some of the workload off the wife? Obviously, she'd still have to do some of the work, since the staff won't be around 24/7.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 12:57 PM
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I think companies just don't want sexual harassment suits and the like. It could also make a breakup extra awkward if you still have to see each other at work everyday.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 01:03 PM
0

I do feel like it's true for certain women, particularly those that may be somewhere on the demisexual spectrum.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 01:01 PM
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Yeah. If he really is that rich (which I doubt). He could afford to take a few years off work while the children are young to care for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:09 PM
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I agree. It wouldn't work unless you are wealthy enough to afford nannies, maids, etc. Or, you have family that live close by or even live with you, and are willing and able to help out on short notice. Maybe adopting an older, school age child might be a bit more feasible, but I'd still advise against willingly becoming a single parent unless you meet that criteria
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 02:04 PM
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Because they aren't educated about birth control, and also can't have access it it/can't afford it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/24 04:15 PM
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Casual sex is only liberating if you actually want to have it though. If your making yourself have it, then it is quite the opposite. We should just let people do what they want in that regard, as long as it isn't hurting anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:19 PM
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I think a large number of people in general would fall under demisexual to one degree or another. Only if it is significant would it be considered an orientation of sorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 04:17 PM
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Yeah, yaoi/boylove is really popular in anime/hentai, especially with straight women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 06:10 PM
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You do know that asexuality is a variant of normal, right? Nothing wrong with their hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:25 PM
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If she's always been that way, and it doesn't bother her, I don't see why she'd need to see a doctor about it. If it is a new issue, or of she sees it as a problem, then that's a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:23 PM
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u/Lina-Inverse Wouldn't a non- traditional partner be better for an autistic person? They would likely be more accepting of their differences. Also, they'd be less likely to go by the book or follow a conventional life path(marriage, children, etc.), which many people on the spectrum don't want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/23 05:11 PM
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Married men tend to be happier than single men, and also tend to be in better health. There doesn't seem to be as strong an association with health and happiness for women. Many studies have shown this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:24 PM
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I do think that pretty women will generally get more attention, especially from men. Even myself, if I wear a dress, and do my hair & makeup, I do get treated better by men in particular. If a woman isn't conventionally good looking and/or obese, they generally tend to be ignored by society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 05:22 PM
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That's an interesting theory. In the past, marriage seemed to be beneficial to men socially, and women financially. Now that women are able to have careers, the financial benefit isn't as strong as it used to be, whereas, the social benefit is still there for men. It could be said that marriage is becoming more obsolete for women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:08 PM
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I think she meant that same sex marriage only became legal anywhere in the world about 20 years ago, so it's impossible to say, track how gay marriages went from 50 years ago, since they didn't exist back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 05:01 PM
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I'd say domestic violence is almost always worse than cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 04:55 PM
1

I didn't realize that, but I have the same diagnosis, and that does seem true. I mean, I have a hard time understanding NT people period, but I relate to NT men better than NT women for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:05 PM
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Also, I don't think using an artificial womb for a pregnancy from start to finish will be very common, at least at first. More than likely, it would mainly be used for extremely premature babies, to help them develop.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:07 PM
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Don't the vast majority of women who use surrogates have a male partner? Is OP trying to say that he's not on board with it? I can see not many men using surrogates on their own though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:01 PM
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That's what I was thinking. If they aren't religious, they're going to have less of an issue with divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 03:58 PM
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Did you take into account that perhaps more autistic people don't want to get into relationships or have children?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 08:15 PM
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D Seems like the best choice. B would be my 2nd choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 02:25 PM
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I don't think most of us do. If it is constant, then she needs counselling/therapy, as there is likely some trauma causing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 04:33 PM
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An Instagram model is not a "regular girl" though. 99% of women will never experience these kinds of dates
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 03:39 PM
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The problem is a lot of ND men have a very "incel" way of thinking, which is not very attractive. I'd only be willing to date a ND man who doesn't have this issue, which can be difficult to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 04:57 PM
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I think that it's implied that a divorce would be acceptable in cases of abuse. Also, people can always change their vows, probably don't even have to have them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:54 PM
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If someone is clinically obese, they are fat. If they are overweight, but not quite obese, I'd say they are chubby. Note: I say this as a fat person
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 01:26 PM
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Pets are less work and far less expensive than children.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:06 PM
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Same. As long as I have enough money to be comfortable, I don't really care. I would probably do what I did and go to college as well, so I have something to fall back on if things don't work out , or a second income is needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 02:00 PM
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50/50, except for my property taxes, as I own my condo, I'd pay it myself most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:01 PM
1

I used to think like that, but it doesn't really make sense to set a specific time frame, just do it when you are ready to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 01:48 PM
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I think if you aren't actively looking for a partner (not on dating apps, not going to parties, events for single people, etc.), then you are likely single by choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 02:48 PM
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But there is a big difference between a hookup/ fwb/ short term relationship than a couple who have been together for years, and discussed having a child beforehand, but just didn't feel the need for marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 04:48 PM
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"charging her phone, get McDonalds, twerk, eat hot chip & lie." Don't forget be bisexual
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:52 PM
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Clocks out at 7 or 8? I doubt she's working a 12 hour day most days tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:50 PM
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Not a man, but will answer anyway: Pretty good, maybe a tad boring. 7/10. Some travel/more hobbies might be good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 07:48 PM
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I feel like this is something a couple should discuss early in the relationship. Like when discussing having children, you could ask if they'd be okay with a paternity test to confirm that you are the father in the event of a pregnancy. If it's a dealbreaker for you, you can move on, or, you can just trust your partner. I don't think this should be something that the government should be involved in, as it is a personal matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:52 PM
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Yeah, unless the pregnancy was by IVF, you wouldn't know the exact date of conception.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:47 PM
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It's possible that they may not know if she was with 2 or more men during the week or so that the baby could have been conceived. She also may not know his name, or may not be able to contact him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:45 PM
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u/neverjumpthegate: They may not know who the biological father is, but a DNA test could rule out the man requesting the DNA test.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 02:44 PM
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I think it varies from person to person more so than by gender. A woman with a baby or young child is probably doing much more work than the average man, but if she doesn't have children, or they are older, it's possible to man may be doing more.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:40 PM
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I never did that. I was the one taking out the garbage. As for heavy lifting, I'd lift whatever I physically could on my own, and if I couldn't, I'd ask a 2nd person to help me, not have them do it alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:34 PM
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Changing a nappy takes 2 minutes tops. And you need to do it maybe 5 or 6 times a day. Easy. Depends on how fussy the baby is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:31 PM
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Men's chores around the house seem to be once a week or so, at most, whereas women's chores tend to be a daily thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:30 PM
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How exactly do they count hours worked, does commuting to work, or shuttling children around count or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 01:29 PM
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I don't get it, can't a person just live alone and be celibate if they want to? Why do they have to be part of any organization?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 01:52 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:51 PM
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Maybe. Depends on how many children, how old they are, and if the mother is around or not. I'm not really interested in being the primary caregiver.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 02:47 PM
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If you're 35+, there is a higher chance of being "high risk" but it isn't a guarantee. They would just want to do more testing to make sure everything is okay. Someone under 35 could also be high risk, just depends on health in general, as well as plain luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:42 PM
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u/skon7 Yeah, I don't get it. Why can't women travel to see the world and learn about new cultures, like men do. Why is it often about either trying to get laid or for golddigging to some guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:56 PM
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So you don't mind travelling, you just don't like people saying it's a hobby? Kind of a strange take, but okay then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 02:44 PM
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I've met people who don't like to travel
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:48 PM
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u/ComfortableOk5003: Why do you consider it a red flag? Isn't going out of your comfort zone and adventurousness usually a positive thing? Also, I do definitely consider it a hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:48 PM
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u/Kilatypus That's a bit presumptuous. I mean, it could be the case, but not usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:46 PM
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True. I think autism would be a much bigger handicap in regards to developing relationships that ADHD would be in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 01:44 PM
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I'd probably just pay for it myself if I needed it. I probably wouldn't even mention it if it was a hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 06:38 PM
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Why would they have to have sex with the guy? Couldn't they just be artificially inseminated? Still seems like a terrible idea, with forced pregnancy and all, but nobody has to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:03 PM
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I think US culture is just more conservative and a bit behind the times.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 05:09 PM
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Yep, same thing happened to me. If you'd asked me in my early 20's if I wanted kids, I would've said yes. Once I was in my mid-late 20's it was maybe no, and now in my 30's it is a hard no.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:41 PM
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I agree. Came to the conclusion in my late 20's that I would have to forgo having children, both for financial and personal reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:36 PM
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Because then they will feel like they were taken advantage of. Believe it or not, there are some women out there who don't want a committed relationship either. They may be harder to find, but it would be better for yourself as well in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 02:28 PM
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You might be better off in a fwb type of situation, but you'd need to be honest and upfront about that at the beginning.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:56 PM
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Even as a childfree woman, a guy making those kind of comments would be a huge turnoff. It's fine if you don't want children, but you don't need to insult people who do.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:50 PM
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Same
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:48 PM
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Depends on the demographics of your area. Many people are having children later. Even in the past, like when my mom was 40, she would have had an 8 year old and 6 year old. Definitely not old enough to have a part time job or drivers license.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:40 PM
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I assumed they meant not currently married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:28 PM
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I tried the female version, but that one didn't say no children. I'm childfree, so I assume my chances are lower than they actually are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:25 PM
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Probably because women age 18-29 are a small proportion of the population altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:21 PM
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How has it impacted your sex drive?: A little bit, but I have a low drive anyway, so it doesn't bother me Are you single and on birth control?: Yes Are you on it for reasons others than avoiding pregnancy?: Yes, for heavy bleeding Have you explored other contraceptives such as IUD, condoms, etc?: I've thought about it, but never tried anything other than birth control pills, and of course, condoms while sexually active
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 02:04 PM
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