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Yes, have many children. But don't get fucked. You can have both. Just need some imagination to implement. You will be a better father and partner for not feeling locked down. The key is to live in HER house and pay your share of the fair marketable rent. (Not the entire mortgage and property taxes, etc). Why would you want to pay HER? Simple: your income properties are generating passive income and good cashflow you do not want to be on the hook for her reno's and repairs you have economic leve…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 08:33 PM
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If you're negging on dating apps... then you are texting too much.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/17 03:19 AM
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1200 km to see a women? Got to be fucking kidding me. Slight oneitis? MAJOR oneitis Some days I don't even want to drive 10 minutes to get guaranteed awesome sex. It went downhill from HB 7/10 met at club
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 03:34 PM
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Soft Next for 7 days. Your biggest mistake was arguing with her for a few minutes. Keep that shit to less than 5 seconds next time. You're welcome
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 10:41 PM
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This is brilliant. It's a Win-Win-Win You = Win since you are more hygiene and dont accidentally drop stuff in toilet Her = Win since she gets what she wants "put seat down" Your guests = Win due to hygeine and presentation. There is another way to look at things however. Never buy a house with a woman Never let a woman move into your house Never sign a lease with a woman Never sign a loan, credit card, or joint bank account with a woman. Never move into a woman's house without a written lease/c…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/17 06:07 PM
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Did you meet up on the next day? Either way, please update us
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 03:50 PM
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You wrote all that to just confess you're an alcoholic that crossed the line with your friends wife. Talk about indirect beta.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 03:45 PM
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1 hour? Way too long. 1 woman I'm dealing with is at about 15 minutes per lay (4 lays no drama... 1 lay about 1 hour) She's definitely on the line. But the sex is incredible. Other woman.... literally about 1-2 minutes per lay
/r/TheRedPill20/08/17 07:08 AM
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I fuck hot bitches from these sites. You're doing it wrong.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 07:42 AM
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The point is not that I can afford things. It's that they are investing in me more than I'm investing in them. Actually, I had to cut down 11 hour days to only 8 hours. Decided it's best to only make 14k/month and have a life. Now I can easily manage 4 plates (see each of them once or twice in a 2 week period). Most I did was 7 plates and all I was doing was fucking and getting taken out by women. Lasted only for about a month and a half before I dumped my lower tier women
/r/TheRedPill14/08/17 07:32 AM
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Earlier than that. "Then we all get back together and they start talking about going to the casino. I say, no thanks it has been a long week at work. Pass. They beg me to stay, and the girl I'm with says she wants to go out with them and asks if they can take her home" No woman shall contradict me like that in front of strangers and gets into a car with a strange man. No matter how many other bitches he has with him. This is straight up low quality woman that is nothing but an FB (even then, I w…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 07:14 AM
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Actually told a plate that I got fresh socks from the store and if she's too loud, I'm going to stuff them in her mouth. So before we started drinking, I showed her the socks. When she was loud, stuffed it right in there and fucked her. She loved it
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 01:44 AM
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I don't mind if they lay there since im pretty dominant. As long as she gives you the eyes of a submissive sex toy. Barring that, im out of there
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 08:09 PM
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This. I would be ashamed of my 20 year old self if I talked like OP. Most people forget that we're on a massive rock, hurdling through space, and illimunated by a giant trillion ton nuclear explosion and fighting for dear life. And you want help to reproduce. Your ancestors raped and pillaged and survived millions of years. A long line of winners. Stop being a fucking pussy and decide and take what you want out of this Universe. Jesus Christ
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 06:45 PM
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Girlfriend and you havent had sex? She's not your girlfriend. Start with a dose of limiting your texting with her to 1 time per week max. Start escalating every opportunity. Rejects your advances? No big deal, really Then be prepared to make an excuse that you have work/other plans/family time. Be a stone cold, but fun motherfucker. You will get to a point where this is automatic and you wont even notice women anymore
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 06:42 PM
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10 minutes soft? I have that issue when: Girl doesn't "smell right" (not bad, but not for me) Girl is lumpy in wrong places Girl won't shut the fuck up during sex I'm nervous
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 06:40 PM
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Cringe. Why are you investing your feelings into a women? You have family and your guy friends for that. Too much drama. You fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/17 02:18 PM
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Some of us think our genes are superior and see it as a duty to society to give it more quality alphas
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 07:57 PM
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Yes. Good for a night or two or more. Raising your children however is another story.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 01:54 PM
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Takes them down by 1-2 points at least. Usually their personality takes a hit first and then their bodies as it is ravaged by alpha after alpha. 9/10 times it is some bullshit dragon/butterfly/chinese character/cherry fruit. If I would get a tattoo... it would be faces of dear family members or some epic psychedelic poem I wrote after a crazy trip. I dig those kind of tattoos. I'm almost ashamed of myself for banging questionable tattooed pussy. Wondering how many other guys rode that leathery b…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 05:19 AM
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Tattooed hottie? Is there such a thing? I also stood up a girl and she waited 45 minutes. Then I messaged her every 2 weeks until she finally agreed to meet again. Then we fucked, again and again....
/r/TheRedPill02/08/17 01:59 PM
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I was with 2 very wealthy women. Doesn't change anything really. Not sure how I can fuck her wallet and don't care. Women need lots of money like they need their own dick
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 02:06 PM
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If she's frustrated because you arent giving her what she wants, then you're doing something right. Dont change that. Now, she kissed other guys. But she also ADMITTED it. Huge red flag. Be her sex buddy and nothing more. If you can't control your feelings or ejaculate.... then let her go
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 02:03 PM
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Nicely played. Many times women will throw out a line after a couple good dates to the tune off "no chemistry, looking for something different" when I know she had a blast and was wet from our interaction. I just ignore her text or just tell her she's funny and message her again like nothing happened a week or two later. Then we get together 1-2 more times and bang. There's a difference between being persistent, needy and chasing women.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 02:01 PM
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Yeah, basically. Don't call me the same thing she calls orbiters Don't talk like a man to me I'm not your dude, buddy. I'm not your buddy, guy
/r/TheRedPill25/07/17 01:25 AM
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If you want to encourage her to call you "dude" then so be it. I'd rather say "woman, suck my dick". To each their own
/r/TheRedPill24/07/17 01:27 PM
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She called him "dude" within a minute of starting the video and called him "man" and "dude" several times throughout the course of the video. It floors me to realize that the couple talking are together because her mannerisms show that she thinks she's better or more worthy than him. Slightly or moderately repulsed by him. Some of my plates tried to call me "man" or dude in first few dates. The moment a woman calls me "dude" in a sentence is the moment I repeat back to her "dude?" And let her co…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/17 02:51 PM
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The OP insinuated that you owe her for carrying the children. I'm merely pointing out that there is a market price for carrying your children that is less than the half your assets of 30 years of earnings. I'm not sure about what is advantageous or not
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 04:29 AM
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Clearly she was not an Anal virgin. Not sure how I feel about ass fucking on first night. Then again, I only like anal with a women when I know that I was the first to go there. Something special about taking her second virginity
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 12:30 PM
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Men do the work. I wouldn't have it any other way.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 02:39 AM

She will be happier as common law. She will keep her attraction for you. That's one of the best gifts a man can give to the mother of her children. There is also a market price for carrying children. It is determined by the price you have to pay to have a surrogate mother give birth. Somewhere around 20k - 50k. Which is tiny compared to half your assets over a lifetime. Your argument fails when looking at facts and market forces for said "labor".
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 04:31 PM
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I am describing the process by which all mental illnesses are added to the DSM. Look up how they get added to DSM 4, DSM 5, etc. You will be amazed. They are voted in with no scientific inquiry. Don't get emotional and patriotic on me here. I'm describing the facts of how "PTSD", and other mental illnesses are added to the DSM. You are also equivocating "PTSD" (aka Shell Shock, Combat Stress, etc) with non-war situations here. You are also twisting my statement to somehow mean that "PTSD" is not…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 05:06 AM

The definition of PTSD is voted into the DSM by a bunch of Psychiatrists using a show of hands. No scientific studies have ever shown that PTSD, or ANY "mental illness" exists. ZERO. There is no test, no experiment that can be done to diagnose anyone. The evidence for these so called mental disorders is laughable at best. Don't get me wrong, OP. Your feelings are real and valid and worthy of acknowledgement. But you also don't kid yourself and justify anything in your life cuz "PTSD". You would …
/r/TheRedPill03/07/17 02:50 AM
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I have read the Laws of Success about 5 times now. It is life changing. The audio book versions are up on the Pirate Bay. Do not underestimate the impact this will have on your life. ALL modern self help authors trace back to Hill. Truly marvelous
/r/TheRedPill30/06/17 06:36 AM
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You bought movie tickets the moment she uttered "Mummy" No fucking way. That's some Freudian stuff right there. That's the critical error that caused everything else after.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 02:49 PM
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You got with someone you wouldnt fuck? Disgusting. The lesson here is don't hook up with hags.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 01:41 PM
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Get testosterone checked. Take vitamin D. Lots of bench and squats. Tell her you don't get hard on the first time and just make her cum with your fingers/tongue. Repeat. Works for me (ED on first bang)
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 02:34 PM

One time a chick offered to meet up immediately after matching. I agreed to meet at her place (I thought I was picking her up). She invited me "upstairs". My first thought was that I would get robbed, drugged, and find my kidney missing. It's not about humanity but personal safety.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 03:36 PM

That wouldn't be fun at all. Half yhe enjoyment is "catching her" and seeing her bubbly little personality come through.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 02:07 PM

I have also experienced women hitting on me like that. The worst is when a woman offers for you to "come upstairs" to her place after having just met from an online dating site. It made me realize why women are so disgusted/scared about guys willing to "give it up" so quickly. It's creepy as fuck to get offered sex and compliments purely based on my looks and no idea about my personality.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 04:44 AM
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In order of success for me: Tinder, PoF, Coffee Meets Bagel, eharmony, okcupid, blendr, bumble
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 12:22 PM
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Ask her where's she's from? Ask her what she does for work/school? FAIL. All strangers ask her that and she will see you as a stranger
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 12:21 PM

I have a similar story. But she was a bitch. Just took me 3 years to realize it after i dumped her. Im 34 and get rejected 98% of the time. Thankfully i approach about 150 woman per month (online) which translates to 2-3 new lays per month. Now got 5 plates.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 04:12 AM

Great story, I have been there when a woman tries the Venue Change. Ive also been there of having a phone conversation before meeting (where chemistry was great and talking for hours). What I learned is, as you say: NEVER accept Venue Change. It's either where I suggest or do date. NEVER talk on the phone before date. That's for proven people worthy of your time. And NEVER have dinner with a women. At best a drink or tea at some nice place. End it at the 1 hour mark. Once I feel it is not going …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/17 03:31 AM
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There are a ton of women in Pharmacy school. Best you stay away so you remove yourself from that pool of men to improve my odds
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 03:17 PM
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This is awful. Another reason to be the best man you can be and get a job (or build a business) that allows you to work from home so you can home school your kids (if kids are your thing).
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 08:13 PM
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Text her the next day. You don't want regret sex to turn into rape charges. Plus you don't want her to feel like a whore. This works great for me everytime. I'll then message her that night( after the "how's it going" text or next day after to set up next date within a week. Do NOT say you had a good time. Just ask how her day is and maybe share an observation of your day that relates to a conversation you had with her on your first date.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/17 04:31 AM
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A man should look in his own backyard before another's. First step is to help himself (get the bitch out of his house). Second step is to counsel him. I don't see you giving actionable and practical advice that will help OP.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/17 07:10 PM

Moved in? Like it just happened to him? OP had to actively decide to allow a co-tenant. Don't let him off for his bad decision. You're speaking like a woman...as if "it just happened to him". Jesus christ
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 08:46 PM

The only question that matters here is: Why did YOU allow another tenant to move in without your consent? This is all on you.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 08:38 PM
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I never said solid career aspirations. Just a 'womanly' degree that's still useful (accounting for instance) Or would you prefer a women that has no education or a fine arts degree? A woman with an accounting degree can work from home and help my business grow.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/17 03:56 AM
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Graba your face? Dominance play right there. The only time a woman can touch my face is when my dick is inside her.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 03:22 AM
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Best outcome? Here's my Alpha fantasy she's at least 10 years my junior. I'm 34 she's a virgin or had at most 1 sex partner before she's foreign, but has gotten her own residency/citizenship has good parents, loves her dad. Healthy family life Has a real degree (accounting) wants children Doesn't want Legal Marriage (common law will suffice) loves cooking beautiful body doesn't gossip loves investing and has ambitious plans pays for half of everything loves blowjobs and swallowing high sex drive…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 02:26 AM
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How would I get unlimited easy sex if I stopped using these apps?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 03:12 PM

Which type of marriage are you referring to? There are a couple types: Legal Marriage Common Law Marriage What is wrong with having a wedding, with no Marriage contract and living in a woman's house (while your own properties are rented out)? I got this shit down pat. I can have children (and happy to pay child support if I must... since ya know... kids gotta eat). Some people lack the creativity and imagination to pass on their genes without getting financially and psychologically fucked
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 01:57 AM

It is his fault. He signed the Marriage Contract. He was aware of the risks it entailed. Heck, I take responsibility for my own Birth. I chose to be born and all that entails. Fault implies that causality exists. It does not. There is not clear line of responsibility in a quantum existence. It is all YOU. Oh, you say it is not? Then what measure/test can you apply if situation X or consequence Y is some Z% in your control? Too many people, too eagerly proclaim: "Poor me, it was out of my control…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 01:46 AM
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Use paragraphs. Very hard to read
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 12:54 AM
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Wtf is Master of None. Get off the damn couch
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 03:03 AM
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Your height. Some men would give their entire life savings for it. You have it all. Now just need back to back regimens of p90x for 6-9 months and you're golden. I lost 55 pounds in 10 months ans changed my life at age 28. I'm 34 now and thank my past self for taking that step
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 07:04 PM

Who cares? You get to go and she loses her money. Not sure what the issue is. You can even get her ticket for free and take another plate. You do have another plate, don't you?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 09:52 PM
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I can't do ONS either due to ED. But I get a raging hardon after the 2nd "date" with a plate. I'm more comfortable with her then and know she has properly submitted to me
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 04:22 PM
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In a previous post of yours you admited: "I'm middle eastern and I fucked more girls than you, your dad, and your grandpa combined" Maybe your parents tried to arrange dates with stank ass pussy for you and got... a bad taste in your mouth? Enjoy your sorority girls
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 01:10 PM

Women with hairy arms have high testosterone and very high sex drives.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 01:02 PM
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Too old? What are you talking about. The cure for Oneitis is spinning more plates
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 05:29 AM

I Only date Guyanese, Carribean, Latin, Bengali, Afghan, and Indian women. I'm white. It is a numbers game. Out of a 120 first dates in the past year. Only 1 was NOT one of the above. I'm also near Toronto which is the most culturally diverse place in the world.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 05:28 AM

Jesus man. These things are all liabilities. Liabilities takes money out of your pocket. Assets put money into your pocket. You know what makes women horny? When I tell them I fucking dug a hole to plant a tree in my own backyard or did some gardening at my house. But I say none of that until I know she's down or already gave me the bang.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 04:13 AM
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This is not Wealth. This is conspicuous consumption.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 04:10 AM

Too much drama. All for what? To pretend that Mother and Father can... what? Telling someone to do something (ie: shut her mouth) is guy-drama. Cringe, I'm sorry you all had to experience something that was easily avoidable.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 03:57 AM

Polygamy is the natural sexual strategy for me. Women could be perfect, but he needs to spread his seed. No need to invoke blaming women here, although it can be a contributing factor
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 03:05 AM
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You are so far off the mark that it's hilarious. In all of what you said. All wrong. I'm 34 and faster, stronger and slay women aged 20-25 like nothing. 2-3 dates MAX to sex with the 'good, innocent, sexy' ones (and sluts too, but careful with those). I can literally smell their pussies getting wet as they are talking to me on the first date. They grope me, and pay for the dates (not always the first date, but 100% of time on 2nd date). It's fucking surreal. Do you know what I call getting 1 hou…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 03:04 AM
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How cringeworthy that someone would brag about a Tinder match. I would get out of earshot of that conversation or the hairs on my arm would raise in embarrassment of this buffoon. Online dating matches mean nothing. I have gone on over 120+ first dates in one year and have probably "matched" with a 1000 women. It's to the point where I'll get matches and they don't register. I even forget to reply to half of them or respond a few days later. I could have an amazing first and 2nd date and assume …
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 02:49 AM
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Yes, RP is like finding out Santa doesn't exist. But the Presents keep getting bigger and more plentiful. That's the joy of spinning multiple foreign women (South Asian, my type) that are younger than 24. Way better than believing in "True Love". I'm as carefree as a single man, with the benefits of having multiple LTRs that love me. Just had my 34th birthday. Best RP present ever. Thank you all!
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 11:10 PM

The result would have been same if she cheated. The proximate cause of the pain is cheating, but the Ultimate cause is Marriage Contract Rights
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 05:01 PM
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Talk about the blind leading the blind. The poor buy liabilities first and then whatever is "left" is barely anything and don't end up investing much at all.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 03:34 AM
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I had a similar goal as you. But after reading Rich Dad, Poor Dad.... I bought a small apartment building (4 units) with a downpayment equal to my classic dream car. It generated $1000/month in profit. Then I waited about 3 years and bought my car with the profits. The poor as so because they focus on buying liabilities aka depreciating "assets" (rusting hunks of metal). The wealthy focus on buying appreciating assets that put money in their pockets every month.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 03:31 AM
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Being pedantic here... Your greatest asset is your health. Your greatest resource is time.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 03:26 AM
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Only the poor and unfortunate say money cannot buy happiness. Money is a form of captured reciprocal altruism. It's a way of tracking the value/happiness you brought to others.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 03:25 AM
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The poor say 'Money is the root of all evil'. The wealthy say 'The lack of money is the root of all evil'
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 03:22 AM
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My name is Chad and I got a STEM degree. They are throwing around 120k/year jobs like it's nothing. Oh and I broker mortgages on the side since it's laugably easy money. My guess is you do not have a STEM degree with abundance of offers.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 08:59 PM

Why did you delete the post? I was in middle of reading it last night , then fell asleep. Started reading rest of it today and accidentally clicked another link. Came back to your post and now it is gone to my horror. Can you please send me a DM of your post?
/r/TheRedPill27/05/17 01:34 PM
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Check the definition of alcoholic. 2+ drinks a week and you are one. Getting her and you wasted on date 1 is a huge red flag for all
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 12:57 PM

Yes. Being an alcoholic can get shit serious fast. That is OP's problem in the field report.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 04:54 AM
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What the hell are you doing getting yourself and a woman drunk on the first date? Sounds more like a confession of an alcoholic than anything else. You wouldn't have had to make the Blue Pill move of asking if she wanted to have sex if you and her had the liquor in check. I hope by MGTOW you mean quitting your drinking problem. No other lessons can be gleaned from this. And a woman asking you to hit her? First off... grab her by the neck (tiny force) and then playfully slap her and grab her mout…
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 04:53 AM

Too much drama. She made you react, you lost your cool. "Here, let me get you a broom" "No problem, seems like you're busy... maybe we can get together another time" "Would you like to go home or be dropped off near your place?" "I don't have much time to go out of my way since I realized I have some work to do, but can drop you off near your place"
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 01:38 AM
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This should get more upvotes. Except the part about verbalizing your intentions of other women. Instead do it and let your actions speak. If a woman is choosing to leave you because of X. Then she didn't care enough.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 03:16 AM
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Isn't thinking that it's awkward to examine vagina's operating in the Feminine frame? Don't see what is awkward about it
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 01:02 PM
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This x1000. A woman like this is the pinnacle and "makes it all worth it". Never settle for less from her
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 03:50 AM
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First date: she pays always. I shit you not. I get about 2-3 new women to pay for first dates (coffee/drinks) a week. Next one's on me. She ghosts me? Least I didn't buy her a drink. She likes me? Great, my turn to pay... alternate there after.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 06:51 PM
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3 seconds of dominance is a lifetime for many. He has come far and some may say it be impossible to have that many moments
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 06:43 PM

Yep, I'm getting paid through my corporation too. Love the write-offs right. Figure I will save 200k and let it slowly leak out as retained earnings over a few years through my corporation. Another rule I have is that the client cannot be within a 2 hour driving distance. Since then I never have to see them in person (waste of gas and time).
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 05:23 AM

One of my girls also paid for dinner, at a traditional restaurant with her sweet brown massive DDD tits hanging out. She's from the same culture as the South Asian cuisine (family restaurant) that I took her to. Told her I'm never getting married. But she already knew that. There's no point for a man. Took it great and paid (while being shy that she dressed like a slut and took her to her cultures dining place - I told her to dress like that) She's a great, Sexy women. If you are high value to h…
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 04:19 AM

I got fired from one contract job last week. Doesn't matter since I had another full time one at same time (80 hour weeks) and signed another last night for full time as well. They all pay over 150k/year each. I treat my jobs/customers like woman: interchangeable.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 02:02 PM
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Fail. She was never yours. It's only your turn. Clearly she wants tobget railed by you. Why don't you give it to her. It's not your place to decide how a women spends her time or what she does/put into her body. ABMALT = All Beta Men Are Like That. Getting yourself into a drama-ridden, sulking, and angry boy is lame. You knew she would be fucking/seeing some other guy in no time. After all, you claim you are "naturally red pilled" (hint: No, you are not. Anymore than there are "natural leaders")
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 04:02 PM
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Why does your LTR have a say in your mission and goals? I'm a real estate investor and a softward entrepreneur.... barely making any money on paper. Yet I can support 2 children and everything on my own pay. Who needs a woman to tell you how to do that? Get to work
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 04:53 AM

If she's pushing you away even once, then you lost. That's Soft Nextable behaviour
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 04:43 AM

What std for fucksake. I can tell you whether it matters or not. Which one damnit
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 04:42 AM
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Shit does hit the fan all the time. Watch what happens when a disaster strikes and there's no electricity or running water for a week or two. It's a good plan to have a bug out bag and know how to survive away from your coddled existence.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/17 05:08 AM
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Awesome post. Apt favorite quotes of mine: Build your own dreams, or someone will hire you to build theirs. Mind your own business (not JOB)
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 02:54 AM
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A plague? More like a constant stream of sweet pussy coming my way while just swiping right on the can
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 04:21 AM
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Corporate route gives money. But you lose your time (your greatest and most valuable resource). Only a business or real estate provides you with wealth (health + time)
/r/TheRedPill09/05/17 04:16 AM

"The problem is, you think you have time" - Buddha
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 04:04 PM
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White women turn me off. I'm European Caucasian and strongly prefer non-white. I didn't read "hot white girls" as fetish. Juat read it as "hot girls that happen to be white". Which is a major turn off for me.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 01:10 AM
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I used to get that feeling. Not anymore. I think the reason is that I used to act too much like a boyfriend and "offered them the world". The guilt would come from the cognitive dissonance of having spent so much mental and physical energy coupled with being fully spent on someone that I over extended myself for. Now, I don't act like a boyfriend, don't over extend myself and get no strings attached sex from my plates. No guilt because I only spent max 1-2 hours on first date and only 1-3 hours …
/r/TheRedPill07/05/17 01:28 PM
1

Whoa there. Someone has to share that there's a less expensive (time and money) way to get what you want. Didn't realize you had experience in online community building. Care to share links to the communities you have built? I love it when someone rips me a new one... your enemies and those that disagree are the best for personal improvement and feedback. Don't be so soft. I appreciated your post and learned something from it. It's what makes this place great.... having men that share their thou…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 09:52 PM

The girls I'm sleeping with also do that for me. Not seeing the connection here.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 03:23 PM

What's the cost per lay count?
/r/TheRedPill05/05/17 02:10 PM
2

She's not a plate until you achieve lock-in- having sex at least twice.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/17 11:46 AM
1

Giving up life to build wealth? What are you talking about. Life is great and loving every minute of it. I will be going to Bali for 2 months (once again, I'm a remote software development consultant and work wherever) next month and then mexico resort for 2 months. Plus I'm super efficient, so can get away some days doing only 7 hours and no one is the wiser. Materialism? More like the experiences of a lifetime and retire by 34. Keep dreaming
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 03:40 AM
1

Ok, how do you plan on not working to 70 years old while having the best time of your life in your late 20's and well into your 30's? Open to hearing suggestions
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 01:32 AM
1

If monk mode isn't self improvement and "going for it"... then what is it? Bank 250k this year and buy another rental multiplex. Then wind down to only 14k/month working regular 40 hours a week. Retired for life since I now own a few apartment buildings. Done at age of 33. Let me know how your savings and retirement plan goes for you.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 09:32 PM
1

I meant net income. 20k net and see how you burn out. What about 50k net per month? A million? The point is that at some point you would happily work a lot and treat it as your life's work. Ghandi didnt bitch
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 08:20 PM

Since math is maybe not a strong suit for some people, I'll list the hours here. Sleep = 8 hours Getting ready to go out = 1 hour Eating = 30 minutes Errands = 30 minutes Work = 11 hours Reading/study = 30 minutes That's 21.5 hours per day. Left with 2.5 hours per day. Left with about 15 hours per week residual. Each plate takes about 3 hours per week which averages to 9 hours a week. Another 6 hours left for going out with friends/calling family. Work out for an hour a day. Each plate takes no …
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 11:35 AM

And you got paid 20k/month? Try getting paid 40k/month and then try again
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 11:28 AM

Software. But I get up to do 3 sun salutations every 25 minutes
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 12:37 AM

Working 80+ hours now and earning 24k/month actually. Love building software and counting my money. A busy man with Vision does not burn out. Used to work 80+ hours for an employer earning only 9k/month and burned out.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 07:29 PM

Burnout is a psychological state. It's almost impossible to burn out working 70+ hour weeks for doing something you love and getting paid 20k/month
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 07:08 PM

There is a cookie cutter solution to legal marriage: DON'T DO IT. You should not put yourself, your family at risk by being forced to pay alimony. It's as simple and cookie cutter as you get.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 07:04 PM

I've already won enough bread to feed myself, my unborn children for years. What if she's already won enough bread as well and has mad savings? Should I still pay for her then? If you get married and expect a stay at home mom not to eventually divorce you AND CLAIM alimony, then you deserve what you get.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 05:10 PM
1

I'm 33 and regularly get with girls that young. 28? You're still a baby. Jeez
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 03:12 PM
3

I would rather go out with the women on the left
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 02:57 PM
1

Just jerk off 4 times a day and chill and play video games after you get home from your sub-100k job.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 06:48 AM

There's that "SHOULD" word. So if I'm the Stay at home dad and take care of my kids, dogs, and the house (and I will be since I do only remote software consulting)... they you are saying she should pay for MY house and food? I'm misunderstanding your logic perhaps? I can raise my own kids and will not depend on a woman HAVING to be there. Why 'should' anyone else expect otherwise?
/r/TheRedPill30/04/17 06:46 AM
1

Needy, Outcome dependent. Why does it bother you what she does with her time, body and phone? Did you sign a contract with her? Blows my mind that there's nothing better to do than check a woman's phone. Have you that much time on your hands?
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 02:42 PM
2

You've been triggered. Now get the fuck out if you take offense to what some stupid shit here said. I love mixed people and have a hard on Brown girl fetish. I come from mixed background and poverty and shit from my home country. I'm too busy crushing it at life to get offended by some asshole on the other side of the continent. If I withdrew anytime someone offended me, I would be living in the mountains, alone.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 04:06 AM

Don't want to 'see anything related to her, Except seeing posts and replies on Reddit'. Fixed that for you
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 12:25 AM

I have to say... I give you a 4/10. What could be been done differently to have morr dignity (and better chance of getting her as a plate) Bad: over verbalized how she 'disrespected' you gave her guy-drama blocking someone is childish (burn bridges?) having to tell yourself you need no closure, is closure. Best to be so busy that you forget in first place Never agree to anything like a "break" ... wtf is that texted too much, talked too much Good: Stood your ground have strong resolve (just poor…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/17 11:05 PM
4

This is great, needed to hear it
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 12:32 PM

Doctors get paid as corporations in Canada. He's a radiologist. After tax is 600k. Turned down a 1 mil/year job in bum fuck nowhere to be in a mega city
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 07:44 PM

Says the man giving advice Reddit.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 07:42 PM

The real question is why OP is wasting his time with losers.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 07:37 PM
2

This. Who the fuck has that much time to eavesdrop and then write about it. Jesus
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 07:36 PM
0

Tell her you have a kid only on the first date. Do not put it into your online dating profile
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 03:57 PM

20k? That's great, now invest it instead of letting inflation eat away at it on your checking account. Find a way to make 20k in a month and every month after that. My friend took us out for drinks and blew 15k on bottle service in a single night. But it's no big deal because his bi-weekly paychecks are 25k (he's a Doctor...age 32)
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 05:28 AM
1

Yes, pay interest. Which is tax deductible. There is always risk. Key is to manage it. Example: Buy investment property with small downpayment. Use banks money for mortgage. Use tenants money to pay down mortgage
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 09:37 PM

I like to use other people's cash and money for my investments.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 10:55 AM

Cuckholdry is where a man makes his wife have sex with another man. OLTR is not official marriage. You aren't making her do anything.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/17 01:57 AM

Too many guys have defeatist attitude about MLTR and OLTR... so they just stick to LTR. There are alpha 1.0, alpha 2.0 and beta behaviours. Not such thing as alpha and beta ideas or sounds. Whether
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 11:57 PM

Are getting braces less Alpha too?
/r/TheRedPill18/04/17 10:42 PM
2

I wear a tshirt that says "Brown girl fetish"
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 04:10 PM

Loan for tv. Bad Loan for investment. Good
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 04:09 PM
1

It is relevant to your situation. Trust me... just ignore it all... act like nothing happened and don't make same mistake twice
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 01:45 PM

Certainly not relevant anymore now that OP has removed the post
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 01:43 PM

You disrespected her in public. She Soft Nexted you. Lift and spin more plates
/r/TheRedPill17/04/17 05:24 AM
3

Don't do shit because women like it. Jesus. Do it because you love it.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 04:24 PM
1

Escalating to dirty talk and then text /snapchat? Wtf That's not eacalating. That's wasting time on text. You should be using text only to schedule a meetup and then do real kino and escalation.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 04:20 PM

Where's the pyramid? Was looking for a visual
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 04:06 PM
1

I didn't say it was mildy difficult and back out. I said that if it no longer suited me. As in, I have better options for clients/customers/contracts. If someone crosses the line of drama/disrespect then they get Soft Nexted or Hard Nexted (clients/customers included). When there are multiple income streams ALREADY and other clients/customers wanting to enter my life (waiting in line), then there is no need to put up with anyone's bullshit. You tell another man where to go. Because everything I …
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 02:44 PM
1

Yes, the matches are rarer. I get about 10 matches per week women aged 29-32. Only about 2-3 matches of under 25 a week. I'm lean, lift and have good style.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/17 02:39 PM

You can get hsv1 and hsv2 in either place. Still won't have issues if you a) get lots of sleep b) take vitamin D c) exercise regularly
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 06:17 PM

Wow. Thanks for the tip to stay away!
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 02:12 PM

I'm 33 and only took TRP last year. No regrets. Life actually gets better in your 30's. I keep getting older, but they stay the same age!
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 02:09 PM

Squats, bench press, bicep curls boost your testosterone. Plus it's better if your women are: your type/attractive (extra points if she is of ethnicity/body type that you fap to) all love swallowing and worship your cock If you are with a girl that you cannot get an erection with after sleeping with her dozens of times. Then she is not for you
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 02:07 PM

You most certainly have had HPV. Pretty much everyone gets it at some point.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 02:01 PM

This is terrible advice, so many upvotes makes me wonder. First off, there is no disclosure requirement for herpes, it is a skin condition that is most often passed on from parents to their kids (kissing, touching). That's why about 80% of population have anti-bodies. You going to sue parents too? Maybe the government and courts can help you get your revenge. Sound familiar? "Emotional damages" makes me think this is a troll post. Don't be a fucking pussy for getting a skin condition that 80% of…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 01:59 PM

Dude... it's not that bad. Unless you have herpes in the eye or some shit like then (sorry of that's the case) I know how you are feeling and it's taboo and all this shit blah blah blah. But it's not life threatening and pretty much goes away completely with lifting weights, cardio and 8 hours of sleep EVERY night (plus 4000IU vitamin D every day which everyone here should be taking no matter what anyways)
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 01:53 PM

Herpes? Who cares.... 80% of people have it. Get lots of sleep and keep your immune system tops and you will be fine and experience little to no outbreaks. If you feel like you need more control, take 1000IU of L-Lysine per day, stay away from foods with high Arginine (nuts, almonds, etc) drink plenty of water and LIFT weights. Don't spend a decade feeling inferior and THEN realizing you were a complete dumbass for worrying about something that does not matter. Always use condoms, don't fuck any…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 01:51 PM

Fail. If you think you were borderline abusive, then you were. That's guy-drama. Fun fact: Where do macro aggressions get hamstered into a post on micro aggressions? In your post. Spin more plates and lift more
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 01:44 PM
-1

Not sure if this is an insightful post are dumb as fuck
/r/TheRedPill15/04/17 01:39 PM

Where's the lay? WTF I'm willing to bet you will not get the lay. Why? Too much communication. Too much sexualizing experience up front (she will flake from the pressure). Prove me wrong
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 07:31 PM

With his abundance mentality he will have another job soon. Im willling to walk away from any situation within 2 seconds if it does not suit me. Including all my clients and jobs. Never have one income stream
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 09:53 PM
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Yes, it is gossip. But he is still making a good point. Gossip is defined aa talking about someone specific you know when they are not present. At some level all studies and adectodal experiences involved gossip as the subject matter to build ideas from. There are a number of things the priveleged class get to do, including stay at home parenthood: getting 8 hours of sleep every night not commuting for hours each day multiple vacations a year one or both parents being stay at home These are foun…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/17 01:41 AM
1

Fail. She led the interaction and took you to meet her parents. Actions not words. Actions showed that you wasted time with someone disinterested
/r/TheRedPill10/04/17 01:00 PM
52

Not reading this post helped me tremendously.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 07:10 AM

Also, do not worry about working long term. Us millenials prefer jobs that last 1 - 3 years tops (or get laid off due to shifting labour market and major techno-structural changes are underway) The job market is shit (even if you make 150k/year like me)... who wants to spend the better part of the sunniest parts of the days indoor working for some asshole with a bunch of douches for colleagues? Mind Your Own Business
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 07:08 AM

Sales? What does buying a duplex/triplex/4plex for yourself to live in (and rent the other units) have to do with sales? If the property market is over inflated (ie: no cashflow left after paying mortgage, taxes and insurance) then that has everything to do with deciding not to make a dumb decision. Every market has gems to find with effort (took me over a year of intense effort to find my dream triplex that is beautiful and generates cashflow to allow me to truly live for free) It's like saying…
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 07:05 AM
1

And then the NSA has your DNA too. Fuck that
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 06:47 AM
1

It's not easy being beta after sex when you have 5 plates. What kind of garbage is this
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 06:46 AM

Real estate is not part of your values? You mean you live in a cardboard box? Real estate puts a roof over your head. You care very deeply about real estate (unless you live in a cardboard box).
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 06:27 AM
1

Agree and Amplify (someone said Make it Worse.... they are correct). Or ignore it. You should be so busy with your mission/goals/lifting/spinning other plates that you dont even bat an eye. Trust me, it's a great feeling when you realize a day later that you passed a shit test without even noticing it barely or trying
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 06:18 AM
1

Paying her rent and car? First things: If you are on the lease. Give notice immediately to terminate it. If you are on the car note... take the car back immediately and sell it. Cut your losses. Those 2 things will show you the way forward
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 06:08 AM
1

I feel your pain. It must have been hard to love her. The solution? Cease all contact, lawyer up and start lifting and spinning more plates (sorry, not sorry.... you know what you have to do)
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 06:05 AM
7

If the conversation goes to a place that you did not plan, or is not furthering your goala, then you are operating in her frame. Take control back
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 04:13 AM
1

Ive got one FB like that myself... I acted too much like a BF and broke my own rules of cuddling and seeing her more than once a week. Thankfully I have 4 other plates where I didn't fuck up in that way.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 08:09 PM
1

Then be clear to yourself that she is an MLTR and not just an FB
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 07:47 PM

Should not flake. That's disrespectful and she would be right to Soft Next you then. You did alright, just more drama may come your way in future. Soft Next means completely ignoring her with no warning for 3-7 days... then picking things back up like nothing every happened
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 07:46 PM

Not bad, but you responded to her drama by complaining about her "treating you like shit? Became a mini drama queen. The result? Short term gain (sex tonight). Long term => more drama from here. Could have just Soft Nexted her for 3-7 days
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 07:38 PM
8

No stronger bond. As you can see the bond was so strong that she cried and became needy... which caused you to further lose frame. You want her coming back for more and she will come back for more with: Giving her orgasm (s) and fucking her like it's your last time before going to prison not talking too much and seeing her too often and not texting too much
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 11:05 PM

Let me count your mistakes: snuggling too much after sex seeing her more than once a week saying "When I'm with you, your the only girl that matters and I expect you to treat me the same." being too verbose and telling her your banging other girls (Should have just said something like "it's complicated" as another poster said.... and fired back with a topic changing question)
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 09:57 PM
3

This is juvenile. Why didnt you fuck her? Ghosts don't talk, let alone fucking snapchat a girls best friend. Wtf is this? This is probably the funniest lame post I have seen here in a couple of weeks. I mean that as a compliment.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 05:16 AM
1

That's a fucking awesome story and nugget of wisdom. You made my day Sir!
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 05:10 AM
1

Look within yourself before blaming anyone
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 09:48 PM
14

You get Oneitis because you do not have enough plates. I used to be like that, but it is hard to get Oneitis when you have 3-5 plates on the go that you had sex with recently. Spin More Plates.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 06:50 PM
2

Outcome Independence. That's the key. DEPENDing on making her feel a certain way...is not good for success. It should not matter what she does because you are busy working on your mission/goals (career, health, family, etc) If your goal is HER, then that is Oneitis (hatred or love, she's the "one" of your efforts) Next her and Spin More Plates. She may even come to you in a few months.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 06:47 PM

You waited too long to say Hello. Finishing your dinner and no balls to say Hello at the start. That was the mistake that cost you.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 05:07 PM

What are you after? Ie: your goal. You didn't ghost her because ghosts are invisible (and she sees you around). At nest was a Next. Not clear on what your request is here
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 01:10 PM
1

3 days. Including friday night
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 01:28 PM
1

Soft next her for 3-7 days.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 01:27 PM

I nailed it this weekend with 4 of my 5 plates, again.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 12:24 PM

Banging 1 or 2 girls in a 3 month span... it's a stretch to call that a plate. But i will accept. Try banging 5 plates in 5 days, and then repeating that within the next 2 weeks
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 12:21 AM

You're the Alpha fucks. He's the beta bux. She will fill less guilty the more you pleasure her and the more you lift
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 12:10 AM
2

You identified your mistakes. Like the others pointed out.... it was your intention to do this... should not have lost frame
/r/TheRedPill03/04/17 12:00 AM
1

I don't ask about paternity test. I merely bring up the talk about abortion/children. And then slip in there "with any child, I would always get a paternity test before signing birth certificate" It's not a question to her, it is a statement.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 06:01 PM

You do have feelings for her. Or you wouldn't be posting here. Ignore her completely. Make her initiate get togethers. Make sure she pays her share, or at least alternate paying. Be seen/have with other women. Escalate touching her. After a few weeks/months... go for the kiss. If she recoils/turns away then walk away and next her. Be prepared to walk at any moment.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 05:17 PM
25

Should have played along for at least 3 months. That way you know she will carry the pregnancy to term and then see the look on her face when you tell her about your vasectomy.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 04:07 PM
1

No, you don't just sleep with anyone you want (almost, but not fully). You can't sleep with OLTRs friends/family. You can't sleep with your OLTRs coworkers/boss. You can't sleep with ex's you used to love. You always use condoms.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/17 01:57 AM

End game is that you obtain healthy grand children. Signing a peice of paper with the goverment is not end game.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 05:04 PM

Wow. "Faithful" There is nothing unfaithful about you and your wife getting some on the side in an open relationship.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 05:00 PM
1

This. (not sure why the downvotes since it is actually nuanced position). Maybe the guy and his wife are in an open relationship. Maybe she allowed him to "do it once"... for whatever reason. You can be in an emotionally committed open relationship people!
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 04:59 PM

Jesus, just tell her you're not exclusive aand there's no dilemna about resisting urge to cheat. Simple
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 04:49 PM
5

All humans revolve around relationships, autistic dumbass. ALL of them. The Self == Other. Women are more intune to this that's all
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 05:04 AM
5

Tinder is great. Haters gonna hate. OP's abuse of statistics is laughable.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 05:31 PM
2

The solution is simply: lift weigts and get in the BEST shape of your life. Women will be hitting on you all the time, and she will notice and either a) up her level of fitness b) several of those women will sweep you away from her and you go living an awesome life
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/17 03:40 PM
1

Going on a trip alone is boring?? WTF are you talking about. THAT is the problem that repulsed her. If you don't LOVE your own company, why would anyone else?
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 03:29 PM
3

I also don't have a "job". I have a corporation and do bullshit that is tax optimized. If someone tried to disrespect me "You got no job" then I laugh with: "No shit!" What the hell are you doing offering a full trip to someone for free? Rich or not, she wouls have found a way to make you feel bad (because you were acting like needy beta)
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 07:07 AM
2

You missed the point. IF you are ALREADY tall, ripped, stylish bad boy type AND you are an engineer... then you slay pussy like Zeus. Plus it is very masculine to be able to build actual, useful things in the real and online realms.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 05:21 PM
2

Your mistakes with her: not at least escalating to kiss by 2nd date not at least doing everything to escalate to sex by 2nd date not getting sex by 3rd date asking her "whats up" is needy behaviour. Dig a much deeper hole now probably leaning in too much to her when she's talking probably not letting her express herself and properly listening to her answers to your leading quesions (ie: up your conversational active-listening game) Your foundational mistakes: Not approaching multiple woman per d…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 05:09 PM

"In general you’ll tell her straight what she has done which is unacceptable. You’ll tell her not to do it ever again. Then you’ll tell her how you want her to behave and usually end by commanding her to apologise and think of a way to make it up to you." Sounds like Guy Drama. Why do you desire to be respected so much so that you will set "her straight"? Wouldn't a Soft Next be equally or more effective at accomplishing the same ends?
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 05:02 PM

It is a "beta" job on the sense that there are a lot of beta's in it. Which is awesome, since it is easy to be the best (less competition in your field for woman). Look at salary stats for a field and then pick one with the highest pay. Be careful about being a lawyer tho... a lot of that shit will get automated quick with Smart Contracts (ie: ethereum) over the next 10 years. I'm a software engineer, and I am upset that Salary/consulting rate is only about 160k/year. Should have become a MD and…
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 02:28 PM

Rich Dad, Poor Dad Start there and work studiously to buy your first duplex/triplex/fourplex. It will take concerted effort and focus, since other guys like me are always on the hunt for the gem of these properties. It is more than worth it, over any other kind of big purchase or investment
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 04:44 AM

I'm 33 and discovered TRP last year. Don't feel I have missed out at all. More than happy with my life. 20 years old? You know what will be your stupidest mistake? Picking a dumb degree or not buying an investment property soon enough. Don't be a dumbass and do yourself a favour and make sure you retire by 35. It's a beautiful view from here
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 10:10 PM

That's why I love engineering. Because you can be the top 20% of men in general... and them automatically be top 5-10% SMV of software developers. And make a ton of money
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 04:23 PM
1

Others reject you. Because you reject yourself. Unless you are grotesque or hideously ugly, in which case you should save up or borrow money for serious plastic surgery
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 03:24 PM
1

I'm coming from a time and place in my life where pussy is so overflowing that I have to go out of my way to hide evidence from friends, woman, family. Sexual pre-selection photos on Facebook? Sure, a couple select ones with friends/attractive women. Creating new Facebook wall posts with new FBs/woman? HELL NO Invites drama and then someone will say something and then I'll spend 3 minutes time "educating" or "setting them straight" It's Alpha Male 1.0 behaviour (wanting to feel respected and set…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 08:07 PM
0

Everyone does this to an extent. They are just more aware, more comfortable and less angry with knowing this basic psychological aspect. It's called "Priming" This is about taking lead of the conversation and guiding it to what you both want (sex, fun, relationship, making babies, etc) Perhaps you can be more disingenuous and just guide the conversation to CARS and whatever are bullshit hobby people have instead of romance? Give me a break. You and the women are dating for a sexual relationship …
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 08:01 PM

Yes, educating woman about your life is a good use of time. Are you sleeping with her, or planning on sleeping with her? Or is it someone inconsequential to your goals?
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 06:25 PM
4

You better not have told her you loved her before she told you the same. Man, you blew it if you did.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 05:34 PM

Show off your FB's, girls, etc on Facebook... and then act surprised when people comment on them in a way you did not anticipate. You're giving yourself drama
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 04:44 PM
8

Always aim for higher standards for yourself and everyone in your life. Keep upgrading everything
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 05:56 AM
1

Invite her over on the first date? And I do care "who has to pay". Since I have 5 plates and it's important they pay their share and also continue to sleep with me.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 01:27 AM
2

What's wrong with doing the odd gig, through your corporation, and then using the money from said odd gig to pay for internet, cell phone, etc? It's not all or nothing, guys. I started out merely incorporating myself and doing the odd job (made 30 dollars in first year!). Then 500 dollars next year. Then 4000 in after, and now pulling in about 23,000 this year. All while having another job and slowly moving all to consulting. Best part? All the losses from the first couple years can be carried f…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 05:08 PM
1

Maybe. The conversion ratio of a new girl to plate is at BEST 40%. I'm in aggressive plate building mode, then I will tone it down like you say. Go out with 5-8, spread out over 2 days in a week or so. Then make your pick and add her to the roster.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 02:30 PM

The standard answer to a woman that cancels, flakes or won't agree to a meet up is: No problem. I'll make other plans then. Some other time. This preserves your value and show's that she will need to step it up with you if she wants to meet. I can't tell you how many times woman do a comolete 180 and about face after dropping that line.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 02:26 PM
1

Speak for yourself. I have a lot more free time than you, clearly. Now you are asking for free articles written by me on how I made my wealth. Maybe go buy those books that you seek, or make the posts yourself on your own time. Nice try, cheapskate. Yes, have 5 plates and they are wonderful HB7/8's (in process of replacing the HB7's with HB8/9's slowly, hence the importance of being top of the game all the time)
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 08:31 PM
2

Right, so you will "go Dutch" EACH and EVERY SINGLE time you go out? 100% of all interactions? I call bullshit. Cheque Game is useful for analyzing situations, and not just giving a "single, simple solution" with basically saying "Go Dutch For All Interactions"
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 07:05 PM
-1

It's her body and time. Not yours. She is free to do with it as she pleases without having a controlling type like you in her life. You know what bothers me more than a girl sleeping with another guy? That I would have to only have sex with 1 women while in a committed relationship. I get to bang my 3-5 FB's while (non-legally) married and she can bang some other dude if she feels like it (about 60% of women will NOT take you up on the offer and prefer to only be with you.... even though you did…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 04:40 PM
3

This. 2) is the path I've gone before. Unfortunately I did that to a work colleague where his daughter was an HB10, age 19. I was 20 and had a girlfriend at the time. face palm
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 03:58 PM
1

I think it's ok the alternate who pays full tab with a plate. If the bill is large, then I will insist on splitting it regardless of who's turn it was to pay. I only think it is OK to pay full tab on First cheap date with someone that is truly into you. However would love to hear other peoples success/data on how it works out if they do not pay the first.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 03:39 PM

This is interesting. I like the "Do you want me to pay for both of us" Even with coffee it can easily cost up to $10 for 2. If I go out on 4 first dates a week (and I do... for about 6 months straight) then that is around $150/month. Small amount, but in 10 years that is over $20,000. Plus, I want to increase her investment in me. All of this short circuits if it is the First date AND she likes you a lot (and you like her)
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 03:33 PM
1

Yes, pay for first date. 2nd date is at your place
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 06:09 AM

You did the right thing totally. However. There was another totally right way to do it as well. You sitting/walking with her? Right? And you had a plan for you and her. Right?? Always see the outcome in mind. Always Be Closing (ABC). My objective is to always direct and lead the interaction to sex. Always. This means that I am only talking to women to: ask her out or for her number setting up next meet up talking while escalating while having sex talking after sex If you did not have a goal in m…
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 02:56 AM
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Yes, there is a plan for multi-venue first dates and it would be more like you describe. I don't do multi-venue first dates because I keep the first date short (less than an hour).... then the 2nd date is at my place where I escalate all the way. Thanks for the feedback
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 01:52 AM
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Yes, wanted to still emphasize that you can be the silent provider type in your mind (if that's your thing) when you KNOW she's down. Best plan instead of all of this? Dates that cost no money (but I don't mind paying 20 bucks for first date, and knowing full well I will do the "You got this?" line on the subsequent meetup that costs money) edit Agreed on others posts about not man shaming. Leaving original post as is for posterity
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 01:49 AM
4

No smile at all. Not chummy. Not anything. Just business casual, almost like asking your teammate to pick up the tab when you both have company credit cards: "You got this?"
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 01:39 AM
1

Happy with each other, got an awesome vibe, she's down. You are "digging it" with her.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 01:37 AM

No cocky grin in this case. Just casual like between good friends
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 12:21 AM

Casual, like as if it's your good friends turn to pay. I'm usually leaning back, talking to her (usually she is talking and I'm listening) and then casually look at bill and then her in the eyes and saying "You got this?" Asking confidently, with it still sounding like a no-big-deal kind of a question. She will reply with "yeah", "ok", "sure".... then act like nothing happened and ask her a question about what she was talking about.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 10:09 PM

Do what I do to get cheaper dinners and often free meals: When the check comes, say casually "You got this?". I've only had it twice where she offered to split it. The rest, she paid. You're welcome, you hungry and poor bastards
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 08:31 PM
2

There are no accidental or unplanned pregnancies. If there were unplanned pregnancies, then a baby would just magically appear out of no where from a woman and no one around to help her. You didnt say "unplanned-or-undecided-by-man pregnancy". But "accidental" or "unplanned". The point is that the woman, and her caregivers, had it planned so adequately that she had a bed to stay on, people happened to be around, medical supplies, and even blankets for the child were brought in well in anticipati…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 06:50 PM
1

Grey area. Depends on a number of factors: did she thrust it at you did she make eye contact and smile nicely? did she ask if you can take it / offer her more / etc did she touch your arm, leg while doing it cultural expectations? (Eastern Europe vs. The God awful North American hosting etiquette) If you felt she was on the demanding/colder side. Then you did good.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 04:25 PM

There are no "accidental pregnancies" There are at least 5 decisions a person must make to have a child in their life. Have sex or not? Use BC pills or not? Use condom or not? Shoot load inside or not? Use Plan B or not? Get abortion or not? Give baby up for adoption or not? There are no accidental pregnancies, just decisions. Accidental pregnancies is in the Feminine Imperative's lack of agency hamstering vocabulary.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 04:17 PM
1

No, for fucksake. Isn't it obvious?
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 06:19 AM

A Soft Next is where you COMPLETELY ignore her for 3-7 days, duration depends on how bad her drama directed at you was. Delete her texts, ignore calls, do not give her the satisfaction of knowing you are responding or affected by her in the slightest. After the Soft Next, message her with a quick hello and schedule your next meetup. Do not talk about it at all. If she brings up how you ignored her or how she feels bad. Just play it cool, "No problem, let's check out X this Sunday at 5pm.." "Cool…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 01:15 AM

Let us enumerate some of your mistakes: Why not f-close before brewery? It was 2nd meetup after all. She may have taken it as a "date" in your early interaction which sprung boyfriend feelings (and hence drama earlier than needed) verbalized too much on your view of relationships. You even talked about "nexting". Should have verbalized less and fired back with your own questions Arguing? It takes two to dance. Wtf? If a chick starts arguing, I pass her shit tests a couple times, then give her up…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 09:25 PM
2

Lol. I commend your perseverance. That's an awful lot of shit experiences. Welcome :)
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 06:11 AM
2

Next time you know exactly what to do though. I even told a woman I'm going to bite her finger off if she brings it up again anywhere near me. Moment anyone gets in my face and feel the personal violation... is the moment I am prepared to calmly get up and walk away to never see them again with any words uttered. I'm doing her a small favour by grabbing her hand and then caressing her cheek as if she was a small child or a pet. Showing affection and dominance. If she doesn't melt, and instead re…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/17 03:35 AM
1

That would be even lamer. I gave him the benefit of the doubt
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 06:24 PM
0

She's a solid 5. If she lost some weight then 7
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 06:04 PM
3

She touched Your face? I hope you grabbed her hand gently and moved it away and then grabbed her neck and hair gently while looking into her eyes
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 05:16 PM
2

You got oneitis. Stop it. You should easily be openinh dozens of girls a week and going on dates with girls at least a couple times a week. Get more plates. Not her. Because you don't eat where you shit
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 06:53 AM

2 minutes before the date...i text her that im almost there. Then i join her 3-5 mins late
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 06:36 AM
1

Im the same way with limp dick when im nervous the first time. Happened with all 5 plates. My go to FB always makea me rocked hard (after 2nd time sex). There's some things i do to mitigate consequences. Cutting out porn was the biggest
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 06:35 AM
1

There's a way to start a family without handing your balls over and allowing the government to have a shotgun to your head. Dm me
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/17 05:08 PM
0

You automatically become Common Law married in Canada after living together for a while. She is, in effect, pushing for marriage. I can't believe you have other plates (maybe they are ugly and you made mistake of having your main plate being the most attractive of the bunch). Oneitis
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/17 05:05 PM
0

You will be miserable living with her. This is a disaster in the making. Look at your own words. You know what to do
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/17 04:38 PM

Do NOT let a plate upgrade herself to a status relationship. Whether she was an ONS, FB, MLTR (low or high end) or whatever... YOU choose to upgrade/downgrade her WHEN YOU want. She deserves a Soft Next for this kind of pushy behaviour. And you're being a pussy for having weak boundaries.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/03/17 04:37 PM
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Every week I simply schedule about 6 first dates (+- 2). Some days I schedule 4 back to back (2 hours apart). Then we then day comes inevitable: a couple flake out at least and for the remaining I end up flaking out on them because I'm not excited by their conversation or I'm busy with work/doing my stuff. I have consistently cancelled on about 3 girls a week for about a year straight and go on 2+ higher quality dates as a result per week. It's a numbers game and this helps me become non-emotion…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 03:48 PM

You know what it's called when I have 2 girls back to back? Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday or Sunday. Get used to it. You should go for f-close on 2nd date tho. Do NOT k-close on first date
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 06:41 AM
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It's a good sign that she blew up and got mad at you. It's good self control to not talk to her after that either. Should have probably waited a week if not longer to contact her tho
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 06:39 AM

I did that to a beautiful Desi girl in Canada. 7 years together. She fucked me right up until the wedding night to her arranged marriage husband. Then she fucked me again before they had their first kid. Now hoping to fuck her again soon.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 06:20 AM

What the fuck are you doing at such a shitty bar where the best entertainment you have is watching a fat man child getting made gun of by tattooed hags. Clearly it was the highlight of your night because you a) filmed it, and b) you posted it, and c) you wrote about it. What the fuck dude? Now we're laughing at you. Lol
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 06:06 AM
5

Less eye glare. Looks like your tormented soul is escaping your sexy, demonic corpse
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 04:49 AM

Your eyes look like spawn of Satan. Fix the eyes at least. Also start doing chest/press exercises for 2 months. 3 times a week. Then take picture again
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 02:03 AM

Semi-chad here. Once I put up my abs pic... I now have women open me. My response? One word responses and "Want to hangout in a few?" I can't believe I never put my topless photo up before. Also helps that I"ve been fucking liftiny and dieting for a year.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 10:51 PM

Anecdotal. Data please. Preferably in the form: Matches > Openers > Replies > Phone numbers > First dates > Lays This is a sales funnel and understanding where the drop off happens provides you with actionable insight on how to improve. Your conversion ratio would be Lays/Matches. However time is not free either and you will want to understand your Return On Investment (ROI). Take the total time spent for all phases and divide it by the number of conversions (lays). That number gives you the tot…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 10:43 PM
2

It sure will tell you volumes about her. Except the women I want to get with almost always will not accept. I will be able to tell that she may have been a woman I wanted to be with, but she declined or never responded. This technique you propose is a filter for high N-count women, ugly women, or extremely young and naive women. A friend recently convinced a 23 year old hottie to come over on first date at his place. He fucked her too. She was actually innocent and cried for 2 weeks after he gho…
/r/TheRedPill16/03/17 02:07 PM

Actually, her house then becomes the Matrimonial Home and you can take half of her place in event of divorce. See the beauty of this plan is that: worst case you don't lose anything she would be losing rent money from you (if she is renting and you decided to move in) best case is you get half her house (event of divorce? Etc).... which is still bad to get married anyways so may not be the actual Beat case, but you get my point.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 04:21 PM

If a woman lives with you...in the case of a lease... you will be in for a lot of drama and huge disruption to your life when your relationship ends (all relationships end). If a woman lives with you in your house, then under Marriage and Common Law that becomes the Matrimonial Home ( in Canada). She has every right to force you to sell and take half of it.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 03:00 PM

Pay HER directly. Not... Pay her rent. I know it can be read both ways. ... I used to pay my ex half of the "marketable rent" of her house when I lived with her. I'm in real estate so it's not too hard to compute what that is. The beauty of this is that if she dumps you/you dump her.... then she stops receiving payments immediately since you move out asap. Bonus points if you have a bedroom/another house that you keep vacant and can move in a 2 minute notice. She can fuck Chad, but then loses $6…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 02:51 PM

Bingo. This. I like to meet the girl in public, nice place for tea/coffee for less than an hour. If she passes that, then 2nd date is at my place Reasons: first date is very cheap first date is fast filter out catfish and sluts
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 02:07 PM

The problem with this is that it will bring in all the ho's too quickly.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 01:57 PM

You dodged a fucking bullet. Don't second guess yourself
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 07:30 AM

Don't ever let her move into your house (if you have one before meeting her). Don't ever buy a house together. Pay her rent to live in her home. Don't ever share bank accounts, loans, credit cards, or any assets. Sign a co-habitation agreement. Never get legally married (have a wonderful wedding ceremony if you must, but do NOT SIGN any papers)
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 07:24 AM
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I have 5 plates. All HB7/8's. They range from cute to very cute. Each banged and swallowed my load in the past 10 days. See them each once a week or every second week for a few hours (bang, drinks/food/chill, bang again). Plus they pay their fair share (alternate who pays for outings if we do go out) AND get this... 4 of them are about 100km away and drive in to see me. They are in fields of accounting, corporate sales, engineering, and biology. It would be a breeze to add another. But having 14…
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 11:57 PM
3

The fact that you have Oneitis and posting here tells me that you are a beta. Next. Spin more plates
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 04:09 PM
5

Be unrelentless in upping your standards for yourself and for all the women in your life. My goal is 14 plates with all of them being HB9/10's and cooking for me.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 03:44 AM
2

Beat me to it. Except I was going to go further and say she already did (and hence why quiet)
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 12:22 AM
1

Wouldnt mind getting married? Why?
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 12:20 AM
1

Them those cannot be Red Pill woman if they are low class, over 25 years old, etc.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 01:44 PM
1

Where can I find the "Official" definition? Woman also have Disney/societal programming and a Beta woman gets screwed too. In my mind a Red Pill woman would play flawlessly
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 01:44 PM
0

She would get settled by 21-23 years old and raise a beautiful family until the kids are 5 years old or so. Pair bonding intact
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 01:42 PM
2

But why not live in a cheaper apartment and rent out the other one at higher rent?
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 01:40 PM
1

You look the girl in her eye like a delicious peice of meat and start kissing her. Immediately run your hand on her shoulders and move to the ass quick. Keep kissing and start pulling her shirt off and keep undressing her. Then you fuck her or get a blowjob or whatever. Jesus Christ Man... I almost think you are trolling us here
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 06:21 AM
1

Im white and Only date Indian/desi girls. Am I fucking racist? Abso-fucking-lutely. Love brown girls like chocolate cream pie. You know what pisses me off? Brown girls who want brown guys. Those fucking racist bitches!
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 06:17 AM
1

Dude, you don't have confidence or abundance. Until approaching girls feels like a job (clock in tons of time and you are no longer feeling pain of rejection)... then you will be awkward and not very confident. You are faking it. A confident man would have thought nothing of it after a few minutes let alone hours later and then write a post about it.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 06:12 AM
1

You are shameful. Your approach with a Group of woman is awful and 99% of even white guys here would have been laughed out. Read Day Bang by Roosh and then come back in a few months after implementing it and tell us how it worked. You may have other victomhood issues you need to deal with. I have tons of Indian/Desi friends that slay like mad.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 06:10 AM
1

Monk mode? Just fucking tighten up your physique and approach girls everywhere. Im 6 feet tall and used to be 60 pounds overweight. What I would give to be 6 foot 4 and overweight and your age. I would slay pussy like A God for decades. Stop being a bitch and enjoy your Godlike genes you lucky bastard
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 06:04 AM
2

I got goosebumps when she said "fried chicken". Creepy and Awkward!
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 05:54 AM
2

Why can't you spend time with her regardless of $$$ payout? What does some labels such as Blue Pill have to do with mooching free rent?
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 05:32 AM
2

Thanks for this. Visiting Budapest in the summer
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 05:27 AM
1

Well, I have 20 years of development experience myself and a comp sci degree. It would cost you $50 bucks and a lot of your time. Time is the most precious asset. So I doubt it is wise to charge yourself 1 Cent per hour. The effective cost is higher. It would take me between 10 to 25 hours to build a robust bot (more likely a week with test cases). So between $500 to a few thousand in our earning power. So for the other guys watching: expect to pay a few thousand dollars for a simple Tinder bot
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 01:56 AM
1

There are bots for both sexes. Meanwhile I'm crushing it on my Tinder game and do take it seriously (about as easy to get an attractive young girl as ordering a pizza) and you're planning tech/startup ideas on a service you don't use with your dick on hand.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 10:56 PM
1

I'll take the bait. I'll pay you $100 for it since I'm looking for a contractor to do it. When can you start? Ill pay via Paypal/whatever convenient for you. I will post the results for everyone to see within a week to back up your claim.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 10:47 PM
1

Tinder already has a shit tonne of these bots that do exactly that and more. Clearly you have not been on Tinder long. Each week I get about 6-12 matches that are bots trying to dup me out of money or scam me. I'm also an IT guy and would rather lift weights and make more money to continue being the top 20%. Get out there and improve yourself instead of this childish intellectual masturbation. Disgusting
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 10:19 PM
1

Dear sweet baby kittens.... you must be a troll. She is fucking other guys at the same time or at least seeing more. Get that into your head. Take her off the pedestal. You are the prize, let her earn you. Not the other way around
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 10:16 PM
1

You are going to crash and fucking burn with that plan. Guaranteed. You have it so backwards... First thing: date 1 should be less than an hour long (coffee/tea/drinks). Fucking end it early on a high note. Do not fucking compliment her at all. And Lean back. Ask her questions and let her talk. date 2. Invite her to your place to watch a movie at home or drinks or board games. Anything. Go for the kiss when sitting next to her. She resists? Let her go home and focus on other girls. This isnt goi…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 10:15 PM
7

Find yourself a 21-23 year old Virgin foreigner at University. Bus stops near University, coffee shops near university. Lock her down asap with getting her pregnant. Do not share bank accounts, do not buy a house together, do not pay her way. Simply have the couple kids you want over the course of a few years. Then eject. Have your gorgeous kids, a few great years with the mother. Focus on your health and career. Be a great father and bang as many 18-27 year olds for the rest of your life.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 10:06 PM
5

All woman lie about their sexual partners. Occassionally you find a virgin.. but they are exceptions to the rule. Real question is why you even cared in the first place. Anytime a woman tries to tell me she has been with X guys I respond with laughter and cockiness: "oh yeah? I Believe you...I don't really care if you were with 10 times as many. Doesn't phase me" Serves to show her she can open up. But I really don't care about her number of it is greater than 0. 0 or many. If she is 0 there wil…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 10:03 PM

Anyone else have a hard time reading what the fuck this is about?
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 06:36 AM
2

Maybe should also let your nose hairs grow as they should too. Perhaps while at it grow hair down to ass length and braid it too.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 04:59 AM
1

Doesn't seem very "lone". Perhaps the dictionary needs to be updated.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 04:57 AM
1

Your mistakes: Not focusing on many woman at the same time You should have went for the kiss by the 2nd meet-up. No later. Your logistics suck (ie: what is your end game?). Don't meetup where you cannot have her come to your place/her place/hotel. Texting with her too frequently, for other reasons than to setup next "date" Haven't been lifting enough Care too much Your status is lower than hers (because she is NOT asking her girlfriends on how to get you to make a move -- it is YOU asking for ad…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 04:10 AM
1

Oneitis How can a woman that banged your friend be LTR material?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 03:55 PM

Lone wolf to me actually means being Alone (with the woman). Only online dating provides that. Should be called Pack Wolf... since there is a pack of guys competing there with you.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 03:40 AM

Dude, no. Texting is only for logistics. She is wasting your time. Honestly, please believe me when I say that it is killing your chances. "What are you up to this week... want to grab drinks in a bit?" That's your ticket. If she rejects, Next.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 05:56 AM

My typical number of messages to get the phone number is 4-6: my opener, her reply, another message, and her reply. Sometimes it takes another to segue into the task for a total of 6. I have a handy trick I use to guage which variation and how to "move along" the conversation to the ask. DM me if you want to know. I feel like I hit jackpot
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 05:53 AM
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It means she is at least into you. Not fucking you is a clear signal she is not.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 05:48 AM

I like where this is going. Can you elaborate s bit more?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 05:47 AM

This exemplifies precisely the irony and awful attitude. Read my comment above. THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS FREE RENT. I should know, since I own properties and apartment buildings. If the marketable rent for a place I own is $3000/month and I choose to move into it (say instead of me renting a cheaper place or moving into another place I own that rents for 1800/month)... then I am wastimg an opportunity to save and invest. Why the fuck did you not buy a small apartment building with your 16 years…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 10:48 PM

Dude, that's called dependance. I expect nothing from my parents. Sure it is likely I will get a payout. But I expected none of it and encourage them to live a long and healthy life and spend on what they please. Jesus christ, this woman is responsible for giving you the most precious asset (being born, time, health) and you are judging her for living it up. For fucks sake... you moves into prime real estate that would have easily earmed thousands of dollars in rent per month. A penny saved is a…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 10:42 PM
1

She was your date. Lead like a fucking man. He is bigger than you? Tell him you guys are busy. He doesn't leave? Treat him like a violent vagrant that won't leave: grab her hand walk somewhere else. She doesn't come with you? Then she had no intention of being with you anymore at the point and you walk away. This is why I schedule 2-4 tinder dates back to back in a single day. Each are less than 1 hour long. The 2nd date is where I escalate (at my place). If a woman gives me a nuclear shit test …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 10:28 PM
1

Hilarious. Why the downvotes
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 10:24 PM
7

And those are the things you discovered. What else is she stealing besides your dignity? You know what to do.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 10:13 PM
5

Uhmmm... covert communication
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 09:37 PM

Lol @ "Spread her legs and send you a notarized letter allowing you entry? "
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 07:42 PM
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Here are your screw ups. You're welcome you go for the kiss on 2nd or 3rd date. In the middle, never at the end. Ask her to come close and go for it. If she rejects you, then you get up and leave. Tell her nicely "it was nice meeting you". Pay your own tab and let her pay for what she consumed/ordered. Seriously, I have done this and i get the kiss 9/10 times. you dont ask her to dance. Unless you are a hip hop star. If you must, then you grab her hand and lead her there. If she rejects or resis…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 07:35 PM
1

Going out to bars and hitting on them is a waste of time. Online game is so easy that almost everyday I'm blown away at knowing I will have a deluge of beautiful pussy enter my life for as long as I live (or at least for another 20 years) I had shitty levels of success at first and decided to optimize. Certainly never crossed my mind to get with fatties or beasts.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 04:33 PM

Yes, read that shit for hours and days. If there are a 1000 people here that read your post in 1 minute... the you just wasted over 15 hours of peoples total collective time. Shame
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 02:52 PM

Trim your goddamn neckline and get some mustache wax already. Studies show that men with beards are sexier to women. Once I grew out my beard, my online dating game, in street game doubled in results. She is simply trying to make you less sexy
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 01:14 PM

Digusting. Puked a little in my mouth as i read that
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 03:23 AM

You can tell the first timers from the rest because their text game is overly open and they message frequently. Love them
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 03:09 AM
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Well... true you need a great profile and to be on point with your copy paste text game. However HB8's come knocking down my online profiles and it has never been so easy to get passive stream of women coming my way. And I'm 33 years old, decent shape, and a beard to die for. About 20 matches per week. About 5-10 first dates per week and another couple plates added to the roster. I will be up to 14 plates by May at this rate. Hold on fellas, it's going to be a wild summer. If anyone wants to kno…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 03:07 AM

Come back and share after you banged her. Dont count your chickens before they hatch.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 05:53 AM
0

Oh god dude :( I know Exactly what you are feeling. I had the same situation with a gorgeous brown girl at age 2w (I was her first for everything) and had a great thing going (understatement). We were together for 7 fucking years. Yes, it was a big waste of time for me. I wrote letters and similar crap. Guess it fed my own soul. Next time I won't be a pussy. But now I'm addicted to having 5 plates on rotation. Fuck me.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/17 05:54 AM

Do not sign birth certificate. If you want to, go ahead.... but not before getting DNA test.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 07:58 AM

I was sad for another reason reading the post: she is 2 points below his SMV and has no other plates while granting exclusivity (or perceived exclusivity) to her
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 05:30 PM

Of course there are exceptions to the rule (15 mins quickie, etc). Half of marriages involve the woman cheating in secret. Best to know what you are dealing with at least.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 11:57 PM

How is that at her expense? You didn't ask what the man can do, but what a woman can. Here is my end of the deal: make her orgasm everytime (at least 1 hour long sex) always workout and be attractive and stylish earn serious money and wealth building clean toilets, plumbing, carpentry, etc zero drama targetted at her she can also have FWB's She doesn't have to cook. But then she can clean the toilets and fix things when they break. Seems perfectly equal and reasonable to me.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 09:27 PM
1

It's amazing how a coin toss level of confidence is the best we can do.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 04:50 PM
5

How is his frame impeccable? Frame is options. Does the following sound like a man with options? "I considered it.....but knowing the repercussions, I held my ground and never went over there. Those words stuck with me and it affected my relationship with my girlfriend" If a woman sends some puffs of air over your way ... and you can't stop thinking about it.... then you are clearly not spinning enough plates.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 03:04 PM
1

This. It is loving snd supportive and non-needy on your part.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 08:17 AM

Because she isn't for you. She's replaceable. Right around the corner is a woman that is younger, more attractive, and totally into you that doesn't give you half the shit she does. You will enjoy Blackdragon's free Podcast titled "She's replaceable"
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 07:53 AM

No. You can have an OLTR with children in a Common Law marriage (go ahead, have your wedding party and cake... but skip signing the fucking contract with the government). Not hard people. Ps. There are LTRs, MLTRs, and OLTRs These terms add sharpness and clarity to your thinking judgment abilities
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 07:47 AM

Let this be a lesson to you to never promise exclusivity/monogamy to a women. Had you kept frame you would be free to do as you wish and not worry that someone has dominion over you and your balls.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 07:43 AM

Perfect redpill wife? Does not exist. Signing a one-sided agreement with the government does not make sense for strong men (as the laws are currently written) Perhaps you mean Common Law married? For starters: excellent and voracious deep throating skills no drama (perhaps 20 seconds of drama is acceptable once a year) loves to cook and feed a man be attractive and fit accept that he will bang FWB's on the side and give him no drama over it give him the kids he desires (if any) That would be a g…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 07:41 AM
1

Not convinced that writing imaginary love/hate letters or a "list" is a good solution. At best it is a stop gap for Beta behaviour in transition. Dangerous territory of the mind here. Love and hate come from the same place: emotional attachment. The fact that you are spending time writing and thinking about her is emotional attachment. Writing pseudo love/hate letters to someone that wants nothing to do with you is still Oneitis. The best way I get over Oneitis is to be so busy with my Mission/g…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 06:54 AM

2 girls is great! Happy for you. My journey took me 10 months of online dating game. Got my first bang 4 months in. Have 5 plates now and meet about 1-3 NEW girls per week and literally cancel 2-4 other NEW dates per week since they are lower ranking and im very busy with work and the better prospects. The rush of dopamine to my brain and self worth is tremendous when every goddamn week each girl comes by and gets serviced with 1-2 hour long sex where the orgasm 1-4 times each and ALL of them ha…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 06:37 AM

Im going to keep replying to your comments since you are still not getting what the other commenters are saying. Please devour the sidebar and start pounding the weights. It only took me 180 days to become lean and fit and lose 60 pounds and get serious definition (p90x back to back twice baby!). You will understand and feel amazed you get there in a few short months.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 06:24 AM
1

He's right. It is a shit test, but she still could be planning on fucking him (or already did) Either way your attitude should be "Cool, have fun!" Internally and externally. There is no punishment or ghosting to be given since she didn't disrespect you or give you drama. She is free to do what she wants with her time and body as she pleases. Carry on... and follow the texting advice in my earlier comment here and lift and spin more plates.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 06:22 AM

Do not fucking message her with any of that shit. You will put the final nail in the coffin. Aloof. Light hearted. Short but funny replies (dont try hard tho). Only text her if it is to get her on your calendar. Otherwise the only time YOU text her is to REPLY to the texts that SHE initiated.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 06:18 AM

Lock her down? What the hell is that? You mean with rope or a marriage certificate? It's like trying to tighten your fists around water. Does not even make sense.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 06:16 AM

You are the prize motherfucker. She probably is fucking him. If that bothers you, then she loses the prize. If it doesn't bother you, then she can have the prize temporarily while you are satisfied in her other "performances". Lift motherfucker. You wouldn't care if you were so fit that you had a harem where each fucks and sucks you off every week. Ive got 5 girls... it does hurt a bit when one drops off or I get "micro-oneitis" over a mew potential plate.... for about 5 minutes (trying to get t…
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 06:13 AM

Tell her that you are at a stage in your life where this is not acceptable. She can choose to do what she wishes however: You will not sign any birth certificate. You will have no contact with her forever You will have no contact with any potential child ever You would only pay child support if forced by a paternity test and court order. She can receive the checks in the mail and will never hear from you ever again.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 06:00 AM
1

The feeling of being "in demand" by having sex with a participant that ia genuinely attracted to you is very different from paying for sex with a prostitute. You may fulfil your carnal desires, but you won't feel like "you got it"
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 05:49 AM
2

Did anyone else crack up when they read: "We moved into a trailer.... I was the man o' that house, and I was running a damn good ship....I was drinkin', smokin' my weed, and maintaining a 3.0gpa..." Makes me almost think the whole story is made up
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 06:54 AM
1

Sure, that's easier than taking a few minutes each day to copy paste messages and follow up. Maybe you will find a hot tranny boy there.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 02:23 PM
2

Being a caring person is deciding, and doing, the right thing. Just like deciding not to fart at the dinner table because you care about the people you are with. It is an act of consideration. Messaging a girl after sex is something guys dont do because they may FEEL they come off needy (even though they WANT to message her). Giving good rational reason to express these feelings is perfectly genuine.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 02:20 PM
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Next! Sexual attraction is never negotiated. Lift more weights
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 02:17 PM

Get fucking viagara as if your life deoends on it. Also, make sure to give her an orgasm with your tongue/finger even if it takes an hour before intercourse. That's what I do since I also go limp the first one or two times of attempting to have sex with a woman. Godspeed
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 02:16 PM

Fully agreed with Tteabag91, I will add my thoughts however. You apologize too much (Never apologize unless you ran over the dog by accident, etc) You are too available to her and have little interests outside your "relationshit" Start lifting weights and eating better. Get at least 8 hours of sleep. Don't let her get awat with taking your sleep. Allow her 20 seconds of verbal abuse. Not a second longer. If she continues, get up and LEAVE and say NOTHING. Do NOT answer her text or calls for a fe…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 06:28 AM
3

This is a tremendous share. Deep in theory and has clarifies many things for me.
/r/TheRedPill23/02/17 06:15 AM
8

Good man. Now do yourself a favour and get Gardasil-9 (HPV) vaccine
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 10:01 PM
1

You will always get distracted. If you are "focusing" you are doing it wrong and limiting how deep you can go. The key is to not focus on focusing on not focusing... (The Middle Way) Do not follow the thoughts, simply acknowledge them as if you are seeing something while floating along a river
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 09:06 PM
2

I know what you mean. But overtly she still crossed a line.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 03:44 PM

The part about emotional investment is gold. Saved to my Evernote and will be reviewing all this for a while. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill21/02/17 03:45 AM

False rape accusations are very real. This is an insurance policy against that. Would you say that proper dinner table etiquette is treating the other diners as "objects".
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 09:58 PM

And have her think it is a ONS or you are a boyfriend so fast. No thank you First date shouls be for comfort building and attraction
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 03:27 PM
4

You are a slave to pussy and still pedestalizing woman. Create a Mission in life that will be your grand work. Your big goals. Woman are the byproduct and "side fun" for you working on your Mission
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 03:21 PM
1

No LTR is easy. Why not an MLTR or OLTR?
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 07:01 AM
1

You spent 10 bucks on a child for valentines day? WTF. Girls spend money on Me for Valentines day and I reward them with orgasms. WTF is wrong with you
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 06:59 AM
-1

My girls let me fuck their mouths for 30 to 60 minutes every fucking time we had sex. (Yes... i made her cum a 1 to 4 times at the beginning intercourse so I feel no guilt) None of them did this before. None of them would take down a load for anyone before. Now they gargle and I get to tell them how sexy they look with tears in their eyes.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 02:55 PM
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Posting on reddit, dating sites, etc is the Real World. Whether I am autistic or not (I'm not) does not change the fact that I have constant stream gorgeous pussy coming into my life. I picked up 2 girls via day game this past year as well, but it's easier to copy paste the same message and swipe.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 02:48 PM
2

Have a relationship with both and offer exclusivity to no one. Make sure to only spend time with each of them once a week and make sure you give them orgasms everytime you have sex. Don't act like a boyfriend and start texting or calling either with lovey dovey messages or they will kick you to the curb.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 02:42 PM
1

That's like saying TV is being spammed. Youtube is merely a marketing channel. He's not saying "get on Youtube". He's saying find your niche and use an appropriate marketing channel to reach your audience.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 04:52 AM

He's got his own content-marketing business now and an entrepreneural spirit. He is the kind of person that will employ people like you in the future.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 04:50 AM
2

Read Roosh's "Day Bang". He calls it the "Elderly Chat". Dear God do not talk about your med school shit when opening up. Do a fucking Elderly Opener and you will be fine.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 04:29 AM

This. It is a numbers game. My game is online game and send out about 100 openers per week across 6 dating apps (Tinder, Eharmony, POF, Bumble, Happn, Blendr). Guess how many respond per week with anything at all? About 20 Of those 20... about half don't agree to meet up The remaining 10 agree to meet and about half of them flake out. The remaining 5... have first dates (less than 1 hour coffee chat about things as described in Blackdragons "First Date" podcast. Of those 5...2 of them will ghost…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 04:24 AM
0

That's a great story and I am happy you found a better path. Your conclusion of "Women are honestly pathetic, emotional creatures..." is more of an ironic projection of your perceived past self. You blew your load on yourself because that's what You Really Wanted back then (behaviour not words) Women are not the enemy nor is it healthy for a man to emote such scorn and bitterness towards his past relationship. But I can understand it is part of the healing process and wish you success and happin…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 04:11 AM

I ALWAYS go limp when banging a new girl with a condom. I shit you not. Just happenwd to me a few days ago again. Hell... it sometimes happens on the 2nd time we are about to have sex too. (What a SHITTY feeling!) What I am going to tell you... is going to make things alright for you and your girls. I have 5 women in my life that I bang regularly. Ranging from 8 months to a few weeks in my life. Recently fucked all of them in within past week. EVERY SINGLE ONE OF THEM EXPERIENCED MY LIMP CONDOM …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 05:52 AM
1

Dude, 90%+ of women come back (read Blackdragonblog). There's nothing wrong with women reentering your life as a perma FB, assuming she didn't disrespect you so badly that she deserved a Hard Next. If she did do something that bad, then stroking your ego by confessing your sins is making you into a bigger pussy and best to keep your shortcomings to yourself (verbalizing your failures creates a bigger and stronger feedback loop).
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 05:31 AM

There are MLTRs and OLTR and LTR (monogamous) Which ones do you mean are "easy"? Please be more specific. To me... FB's are the easiest, then MLTRs and then OLTR
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 05:22 AM

STOP! Do not message her again. Let me reply proper by editting this in a couple mins
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 03:13 AM

He treated her like "gold". He stopped seeing the other girls and cut off perfectly good friendships. The problem is the opposite you describe. He was TOO "nice". She's getting fucked by Chad as we speak right now.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 03:06 AM

"What did I do wrong I have no idea. My heart is so shattered right now and there's a huge void inside of me. I was banging 3 girls at the time until she came along and then I dumped them." This. You got oneitis and compromised your own values. She will likely be back (Blackdragon quote a 90%+ return rate for his girls). But. You had to reply in an outcome independent way. Such as: "Alright cool, have fun!" (Instant long Soft Next aka LSNFTE) You put her in your calendar/spreadsheet and message …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 02:47 AM

That's not true that I don't care about them. I would prefer they stay in my life forever and treat them with respect always and never lie. If a woman bitches that you didn't get her anything, or you fear such drama, then frame/power balance has been shifted. Any drama or disrespect is dealt with a Soft Next. Not cash out of your own pocket.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 02:09 AM

Why? Should I buy flowers for all my "girlfriends"? (3 FB's and 2 MLTRs each fucked in past week) Or should I pick The Special Snowflake and give flowers to that one? How would you handle that many women in your life?
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 01:49 AM
2

Seconded on the fuck up on letter her move into your place. Why? I own my own place and would never have a woman move in with me. If anything I will keep my place vacant and just "sleep over" at her place. That way you do not become Common Law married and keep your balls and privacy
/r/TheRedPill16/02/17 01:42 AM

From Blackdragonblog.... OLTR = Open Long Term Relationship where she accepts and allows you to bang FB's on the side (and you allow her to do the same)
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 09:33 PM
2

And neither gave you any orgasms or anything else of meaningful value
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 09:01 PM

Tough one...If she got you something worth more than 10 bucks .. then you probably lost frame long ago and thinks you are her boyfriend. The question to ask yourself is... did you upgrade her to girlfriend (read: OLTR) yourself or is she pushing for that status?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 08:13 PM
1

Celica 1994 GT-FOUR right here baby
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 03:47 AM
4

You reward that positive behavior by giving her an orgasm (or two or three)
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 03:45 AM

Software engineer here making mid 6 figures amd getting raped with taxes. I should have become a medical doctor. Why? Because the pay here (in Canada) for a specialist like a radiologist starts at 500k/year. My buddy just turned down an offer for 1 million dollar Base salary in some hick town out West so he could stay downtown in a big city here (read: more sexy woman) PLUS over here a doctor gets paid as a Corporation as therefore can write off a lot of stuff and save more. Work for 5 years as …
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 09:15 PM

Had to google "blanket ladder". I want one now for my bathroom.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 09:04 PM
1

Fair points. I have been a long time lurker here and just getting started. I've understood TRP to be about Sexual strategy and not Asexual strategy. Therefore anyone commenting on matters of Sex is fair game to highlight whether they have any modern (ie: recent) experiences that can support their own hamstering/philsophizing/writings. Otherwise it is like a Chef giving advice to other Chef's, or aspiring Chefs, when they haven't cooked a meal in months or years. Regarding whether someone can lie…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 08:17 PM
1

It IS the other way around. You are the one making it screwed up (and every other guy on radio, TV, and social media) One of my girls in the harem is making me dinner tonight. Totally forgot it was valentine's day. I'm grabbing the beer and condoms. This is not hard people. Start your relationship off with the right non-needy, non-supplicating frame. Make sure you never see her more than once every week (or never closer than 5 days between each date OCCASSIONALLY) Read Blackdragon's posts and yo…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 08:08 PM

By accident I agreed to hang out with a woman today (one of the 5 that I am banging each week). Just realized today it is Valentine's day (I actually suggested "Tuesday" would work better for the dinner idea when she asked last week) She offered to cook me dinner laat week and I told her I will bring over our favourite beer (she likes the same brew that I do... odd). Total cost for me: $15 bucks and about 30 cents worth of gas. Total cost to her: likely less than $20 for the ingredients. Don't t…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 08:03 PM
3

"Special" So special that you and millions of other men are doing pretty much the same thing.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 07:58 PM
1

She gets amazing orgasm(s) and so do I. What's the issue again?
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 04:09 PM
1

A woman cannot cheat if you tell her she is free to do what she wants to her body and screw whatever guy she likes (you may or may not want to stick around given circumstances) Remember, no one can "cheat" unless you ALLOW it. Let me say it differently: Human interactions of Self and Other are Complementary (As in Bohr's Principle of Complementarity in the LITERAL sense) Therefore... her "cheating" is a possibility because you allow the definition of cheating to be a possibility. Get it? All my …
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 05:44 AM
1

I feel for you. Thank you for sharing. My own war stories are pretty horrendous that I cannot open up about here, at least not yet. Look at it another way...you would have lost that money for another reason if it wasn't for her. Likely to a con man (and the sex would have sucked) Don't feel bad because you are "banging someone elses girl"... she does not belong to anyone but herself and is capable of making her own choices. You are a star to her and you can look at it as positive or negative as …
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 05:33 AM

I keep it sustainable: only 2 FB's and 2 MLTRs and replace them as needed. It does not burn me out since: FB's are only once every 2-3 weeks (more if MLTR gives me drama... then I go fuck my fav FB with a simple text "I'm coming over in 30) MLTRs are at most once a week Girls bring me food, baked goods and make dinner for me (man needs nourishment) NO texts initiated by me EVER for the sake of it. Just respond if they do. Only initiate to set up next date with MLTRs Rest of my time is spent on m…
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 04:25 PM

She did not respond "favorably" to you. You wasted minutes or hours of your time with her. All you got was a bunch of drama Result? One post and validation that you think you Did the Right Thing. There is nothing wrong with having a forgiven FB for some initial ASD if she profusely apologizes and promises to not so it again. The real concern here is the "20 lbs" of weight you mention. I would bet it is closer to 30 - 40 lbs you are worried about and that's actually why you didn't take up her off…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 05:50 AM
1

Woman and man each have a 50% chance of cheating on a "monogamous" relationship (monogamous in quotes because it was actually a 1-way covert non-monogamy) 85% of marriages will end. A girl cannot cheat on my because I don't care what she does with her own time. My girls are well aware I have other woman and they accept it. Cheating is impossible when you are honest and in a non-monogamous relationship. Accept those facts and act accordingly. Life is FANTASTIC. --edit-- For all future readers... …
/r/TheRedPill07/02/17 05:28 AM
1

Zero. But it made for a good (modified) story
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 12:34 AM
1

She seemed unstable and took it as a slight against her, I guess.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 12:33 AM
1

I'm not sure what the lesson is here. Both of you fucked 50+ people. Why are you not moving on from her? 6 figures is nothing (assuming < 120k) and tons of guys that are beta as hell make that much, that I know of in my life.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/17 12:32 AM

This is an abusive relationship. It was long over and this will lead to a mental fuck of a downward spiral that will cost one their sanity, friends, employment and financial resources. Proceed at your own peril.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 07:18 AM
5

Yes, ignore her (almost) completely and have her see you with other chicks (that you are fucking).
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 07:14 AM
20

Breezy story about going out to a club in Calgary 2006 ca. and getting punched by a girl and receiving a black eye for a week.. We're out on a 'students night out' at some decent club and I'm standing at the bar waiting to get a drink. In front of me is a girl wearing a black shirt and ripped jeans with medium black hair and a nose piercing. Semi rage-against-the-machine or slightly emo looking. I watch the girl place an empty glass beer bottle on the counter in front of me and I say something t…
/r/TheRedPill28/01/17 06:48 AM
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