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[FIELD REPORT]ManicBrklyDreamGrl/r/RedPillWomen10/12/15 02:51 AM
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I'm really sorry, but he very well could be. People can, will, and do lie about such serious things to get what they want.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/16 12:54 PM
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These are fantastic goals! Major kudos. For the recipe binder, I tried PepperPlate etc but have been happiest with CopyMeThat. It's easy to input new recipes, copy ones you find on the web (two button clicks is usually all it takes), and you can search by tags as well as ingredients.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/16 07:46 PM
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Your scheduler is awesome! Thank you so much for sharing! I've loathed using apps to track house cleaning - have tried Reminders, Wunderlist, Any.Do, etcetera. Some things are still better done on paper.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/16 07:42 PM
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Continue weight lifting, expand moves and cardio styles being used (this is slow, deliberate work for me because I have a disability). How I've set myself up for success: bought RunKeeper Pro, heavier weights, and will start going more regularly to spin class Find a better balance between being social and solitary. How I've set myself up for success: I will start connecting with the women in my life who are only acquaintances but whom I hold a lot of respect for Stop poking the bear. I could rea…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/16 01:45 AM
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There are a ton of fabulous suggestions in here already! The only ones that I do that haven't been mentioned yet are: flowers and candles all around the house (mood setting, my guy at least really digs it) prepping him an unusual joint (saw you mention getting high and massaging - kief covered joints and conical spliffs are a nice deviation) or doing something fun with your bong (ice, joint-in-bowl, etc) find a dress in the back of your closet that you never wear anymore and wouldn't mind destro…
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/15 06:59 PM
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I enjoyed reading it :) Good on you with all the self-improvement!
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/15 05:38 PM
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Wat? Our entire conversation has been you bringing up stuff that doesn't seem to apply, and me asking for clarification. That's the opposite of reading into messages.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/15 05:27 PM
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I was not lurking, I sent two messages and used my Reddit username. I got back on and had that message I quoted waiting for me. Geez, so because I didn't understand something, and then edited a comment to say thanks but I wouldn't be going back, I'm acting like I'm owed something? Perhaps I think I'm owed basic civility, but that's it.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/15 05:25 PM
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This was not "blunt." You're reading something into my messages that simply isn't there. Thank you for your time.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/15 05:24 PM
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Not everyone just knows how to handle new technology. When trying to get involved in a social community, and then being booted for not understanding fast enough, I find it hard to imagine that anyone wouldn't feel unwelcome.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/15 05:19 PM
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I quoted the message verbatim. Is what I quoted the same message at the top? I did not even have the opportunity to respond, I was silenced. When did I claim I was being attacked? You've been exceptionally uncharitable and I wanted to know if you were actually trying to help me.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/15 05:18 PM
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No, I was not.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/15 05:16 PM
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What on Earth are you on about? I did participate and see what was going on. That message was only for me. And I did already say I was being sensitive, are you trying to help me or do you have a thorn in your side?
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/15 05:11 PM
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No, I most certainly did not have another username there. I used the same one as I do on here.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/15 05:07 PM
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Because I could see and know what transpired?
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/15 05:07 PM
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Thank you! Edit: Nevermind. I got back on there and there was a message saying, "come back when youll participate properly." Is it always so aggressive? I'm probably being too sensitive because I'm sick, but I feel disrespected and unwelcome.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/15 04:59 PM
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I did a few minutes ago :/
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/15 04:59 PM
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WingNut kicked me off, I guess I still don't understand it
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/15 04:51 PM
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Thank you! I'll be on once I manage to get out of bed :)
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/15 04:17 PM
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I totally understand the frustration that comes with depression treatment. I just wanted to be NORMAL already and get to doing normal everyday stuff!! It was so frustrating to have that desire without being able to follow through. This is actually very common when people are getting used to their meds and new routine. In the meantime, I recommend trying to fulfill your needs in as low key a way as possible. I too absolutely love going to school and have a combined total of 8 years worth in vario…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/15 03:33 PM
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I've ventured into different IRC channels before but never got the hang of them. Would anyone care to give me a little advice? I would've loved to be on it yesterday, I'm dealing with food poisoning right now
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/15 03:27 PM
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This also seems to be common in the college crowd, too - both genders alike. Even society women talk about such things (though without guessing as to the condition of others' nether regions). If you're sticking out like a sore thumb because of something so basic as hygiene, people are going to talk.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/15 05:02 AM
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Doesn't matter, you're still working around other people who deserve to not have their olfactory senses offended when it can be avoided.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/15 04:59 AM
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Indeed. Quality > quantity, all the way, but sometimes I'm too reactionary and stringent. I have to work harder at evaluating whether or not some personality traits and habits are deal breakers.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/15 12:23 AM
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Happy New Year, everyone! This is my favorite holiday because it's so full of joy and optimism. Who doesn't love a clean slate? This year was major. I got out of monk mode and my life is now on my terms. I declared the major I've always wanted to study and teach, rather than the safe and respectable choice. I found the man I want to marry and he wants to marry me! Those are the biggest things. I started jogging. I held a few jobs and learned how to not work myself into the ground out of perfecti…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/15 12:10 AM
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There is nothing inherently wrong with saying, "This is important to me." If you feel off about it, it might be because you're sub/consciously testing him, being manipulative or unreasonable, etcetera. Like somebody else said above, men are reasonable. They will appreciate if you reserve importance for truly important things, especially when you express that priority as a fact with which they may do what they feel is best. I say "fact" because if it is important, you aren't going to waffle over …
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/15 01:39 PM
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rawspicebar.com ! Has been great so far
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/15 06:17 AM
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Awesome! :D
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/15 06:16 AM
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It's not like we're out every weekend having adventures, but some kind of indulgence happens weekly, if that makes sense! Maybe one whiskey Wednesday a month, hiking one weekend, spending a Saturday in the kitchen, plus there are at least 20 work days a month so it isn't too hard to find two or more blocks of time for a brief meet up. And Shower Scotch is doable any day of the week! We work ~6 days a week so it's nice to take your mind off things and get away from stressors.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/15 05:32 AM
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We have a spice mix subscription that injects some freshness when we cook because it typically is something we haven't tried before (this month is Norwegian, for example). We spend the evenings cooking together already but this makes it a special occasion. AirBnB. It can be super fun to drop $50 for the night, buy some steaks and wine, and go romp around* in a novel place. We're going "glamping" in January in a really cool-looking tent, complete with rug-covered floors, a king bed, and a wood bu…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/15 06:25 PM
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Abandonment (prolonged) gives fault, or at least gives you reason to get in front of a judge, from what I understand. Out of state filing is still an option but I've been told by lawyers (IANAL) that you'd be hard up to find a judge willing to deal with it. Well thought out pre-nups help, but if someone is determined enough, of course they can make things difficult and painful. Judges are still hesitant to deal outside the lines with covenant marriages from what I understand so that is deterred …
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/15 03:43 PM
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I don't expect marriage. I hope for it, because a man being willing to marry me means that he trusts me and knows I will be a good life partner. As for the divorce concerns, we have decided upon an unusual option: covenant marriage, which basically eliminates the possibility of no-fault divorce.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/15 02:59 PM
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I've been called 'frigid' and other variations of that so many times, I've lost count. I don't like sexual innuendo or physical touching, either, and have not compromised on that. Laughing at myself (a lot) and being interested in others has made a world of difference. Being willing to not come off as picture-perfect seems to have made me more personable. And sure, it's easy to say you care about others, but you're icing the majority of people out if you commandeer conversations to only be about…
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/15 05:20 AM
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Maybe try a paid service, where the men are a bit more serious? I had fantastic luck on Match and only had to pay for one month.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/15 05:10 AM
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It didn't smell quite right, that's all I can really say! I think the combo would have been much better with an apple or two thrown in, maybe :) Springtime scents would be amazing. The first thought I had was lemon and lavender!
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/15 03:04 PM
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I'm 26 and childless so maybe I shouldn't even be commenting at all, but this has been a fear of mine as well when I consider being financially vulnerable. Many, many kudos on getting things as good as they are now - that's such an accomplishment. I have heard from a few surrendered women that maintaining marketable skills can be done while being vulnerable that will not create a sense of mistrust between them and their husbands. It depends entirely on what you do, but keeping up to date on what…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/15 06:27 PM
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I bet that would! I tried last night with what I had on hand - cinnamon stick, lemon slices, and cloves. To be honest it was not the greatest. I'm going to do oranges and use more herbs like you did, surely that's the trick :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/15 03:23 PM
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I go home for the holidays so I do not decorate, but I know they're approaching when I've suddenly lost all my counter space :( Will definitely be using my little crockpot to make home fragrance! What a brilliant idea - thanks for sharing :)
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/15 06:15 PM
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I'm guessing that this isn't a planned pregnancy and he isn't fully emotionally connected to being a father, yet Edit: OP's comment confirms. I kinda feel bad for this guy. Clearly he was dating someone with no immediate plans for fatherhood and now his life is radically changing in ways he didn't consent to. Of course it isn't reasonable to hold onto wanting your life to remain exactly the same with a child coming, but this woman is spending $1600/month on food for herself alone and refusing to…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/15 05:07 AM
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I'm sure it is different for each woman, but I think you have the gist of it at least in my case
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/15 05:00 AM
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Thank you! It's terrible that this is our current cultural climate. I'm so grateful to be in a situation where persecution for traditional or "old school" values would actually only serve to increase my SMV. I pray for things to change - everyone would be so much happier.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/15 04:53 AM
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The issue you're raising is simple: you want to have your cake and eat it too, made by a baker who should worship the ground you walk upon just because you have opinions. You are obstinate. You are hypocritical. You are very, very defensive of the illusory world you think you live in where you are the best thing since sliced bread. You aren't arguing with us... You are throwing a tantrum. Argumentation does not involve stamping your foot and saying WELL WHY CAN'T I HAVE IT ALL MYYYY WAY? God ble…
/r/askMRP09/12/15 05:47 PM
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I've wondered what has caused peoples' memory to just... Not... Remember what happened two decades ago. My pet theory is that we didn't have the Internet and quite as much news/media fear mongering. I know that's always been a thing, but having gone over older news storylines, it seems like we get whipped into a froth over everything now. That is a not well researched theory, of course. You might have just provided me with another topic for independent study in my current program!
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/15 02:39 PM
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I keep hearing that phrase, that the recent recession was the worst since the Depression. It wasn't - my macro professor spent three weeks on it just last year. How quickly we all forget! I'm pretty sure it was the mid-80s (definitely that decade) where we had a far more drastic drop, with the 90s rebounding from that instability. We would do well to remember that the economy always swings like a pendulum, and this panicky reaction to recessions actually make them far worse and longer lasting!
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/15 02:20 PM
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That's a very good point! I hadn't thought of that. Thank you :) It made him very happy, he has been more affectionate than ever and talks about the future a lot. He is a very trustworthy man with a strong sense of self-control and level-headedness. It was all my own personal crap that made me uncomfortable with the idea at first.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/15 01:47 PM
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Hello! Sorry if I don't do this right... Haven't checked in before. Need to work on pushiness. In example, we were walking in the park the other week and I remembered a conversation we had about him getting friends interviews for the position at his work that just opened up. He said it was a great idea and had somebody in mind, but when I asked about it he said he'd forgotten to. Instead of taking the hint, I stopped walking and told him he could text his friend right now. As soon as the words c…
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/15 12:15 AM
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I hope you like it! The gelatin dessert episode (season 5 episode 1) showed me where I was going wrong with blooming! The eggplant episode in the same season also helped me finally figure out how to cook those rascals in a palatable way :)
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/15 06:53 PM
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Have you seen his show Good Eats? It's on Netflix and wow is it good
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/15 03:50 AM
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/r/slowcooking and food52.com are my favorite sources. SlowCooking is great for week nights and Food 52 has a lot of fun stuff for more special occasions. I use copymethat.com to catalogue recipes and browse other womens' collections - it's so useful! Edit: also, my cooking idol is Alton Brown. His recipes are intuitive and proven, and he's so charismatic!
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/15 12:42 AM
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You most certainly can! STEM men are great. Sure, some do not embrace the captain role, but the same is true for all kinds of men. My boyfriend is in STEM (chemical R&D) and is the better than the best Captain I ever imagined.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/15 06:25 PM
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Both ideas are great! Cookies are always a winner, too. If you're at all culinarily (is that a word?) inclined, enough good things can't be said about The NYT's Chocolate Chip Cookies, which I found a very good adaptation of here as the "24 Hour, 24 Dollar Cookie." The adaptation seems to work better in an arid environment but YMMV. It takes 36 hours to do due to resting times but it is so, so worth it. A gift's meaning is in the thought and effort, so a labor of love is always a good option if …
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/15 03:12 AM
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And I hadn't heard about bacon salt! Thank you - a new, cool thing to try out! I'm sure my boyfriend will flip his biscuit when I tell him about it. And yes... Dreamy indeed! I'm very thankful to be in this place in our life.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/15 08:45 PM
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Maybe something is happening poorly with your communication during this bit: After a few dates I generally ask guys if they'd like to come over and have me make them dinner. This has happened four times now and it's always the same. They are usually very enthusiastic. They comment on how nice it is, then ask me if I'm secretly married and if my husband is "away or something". I tell them I've never been married and that I live alone. They ask how much I make and I tell them and they go silent. W…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/15 03:50 PM
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That sounds very thoughtful and sweet to include his son. I don't think it'd be too much but you know him better than we do!
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/15 03:37 PM
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We weren't able to hide our gifts from each other! Gave my boyfriend a vaporizer and a tailored plaid robe for Hannukah. I always try to gift people things that they wouldn't ordinarily buy for themselves, but will provide a marked improvement in their daily life. He gave me the KitchenAid pasta roller and cutter set - so awesome!! I'm hoping to still find a pair of boat shoes for him because our new dog ate his, but I have had a hard time finding an affordable option in size 14.5. If anyone can…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/15 03:35 PM
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I was invited to Thanksgiving with my boyfriend and his family, but I've balked at the idea. We have only been dating since July and my own family will be in town. We both love to cook, though, so we'll be doing a little meal just for ourselves the day before. I worry about having to do a quick turn-around on my kitchen for the next day, but 'tis the season. Any feedback would be great! B & B Menu: Main event: Ina Garten's Engagement Chicken (just because it's amazing) Komatsuna mixed salad (Jap…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/15 06:39 PM
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Thank you! The day smoky eye that you linked to is lovely. I'll try to replicate it. My coloring is like Kristen Stewart's (she's the celebrity people liken me to), but her eye makeup usually seems way too heavy. /r/makeup addiction has helped a lot with learning to apply makeup! I just haven't yet found a good balance.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/15 09:21 PM
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100% yes on taking good care of yourself. Since focusing on my hair and skin, things have improved. /r/skincareaddiction is a game changer! But I have big eyes and small, relatively flat lips with a heart shaped face, so I struggle to figure out how to accentuate anything without it seeming overdone. Night time makeup is easy because I can just do a smoky eye, but for day it has been hard to figure out how to balance things. Might you have any tips?
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/15 06:24 PM
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What about a delivery of something he particularly likes, in general? A jumbo bag of beef jerky or a basket of Bartlett pears is a sure way to get my guy to cheer up. That way you aren't trying to mother him or intrude - just sending him something nice.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/15 03:45 PM
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