Maninthepenombra Archive

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3	If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate? flirting automatically happens when you're conveying interest in a playful way, it's basically poetry. It can even happen physically, looking into the person's eyes while rubbing their hand. You're conveying attraction without outright saying it (you can also convey it by saying it but putting it in a witty way). The core of it is fun and playfulness. You might start doing things like dropping your voice and slowing down the tempo in your speech. You're basically oozing your desire with your bod…	/r/seduction	04/05/26 09:15 AM
4	If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate? genuinely moving past it without acting weird about it can actually get you a second chance	/r/seduction	04/05/26 09:01 AM
5	Curious what yall do when you’re having a girl over to hook up. Little bit of banter, watch something, have great conversation, when you're both super comfortable start escalating physically by having your hand on her in some way, then start moving that hand in increasingly more intimate places, then when the threshold of sensuality has been met, you can start making out and it should be home run from there	/r/seduction	03/05/26 10:23 AM
5	How many times does a women sees a man and goes, “damn he’s muscular and hot” Women most definitely get turned on by muscles, anyone going from skinny to muscular or fat to lean can attest to the increase in sexual attraction, it's just that it's not the only factor to a woman's attraction. a trash fit can cancel the muscles out, a wimpy personality can cancel the muscles out. If you become muscular and level up your charisma, your mouthpiece and your fits all at the same time, you're going to notice that the muscles will pull their weight quite a bit. But they are not th…	/r/seduction	03/05/26 10:05 AM
2	Are young women not attracted to men anymore? Some women are genuinely asexual (as are some men) and there is the case to be made that men on average don't take care of their looks nearly as much as women do which contributes to this sentiment but I'm willling to bet that for the most part most of those women are only saying that due to a broader agenda that they're trying to push, one that decenters men or rather deprioritizes them and this would be an overpronounciation of that agenda. Now i can't really speak for the ratios of the women …	/r/seduction	28/04/26 11:04 AM
0	I posted that hooking up is fairly easy and the general consensus was it is not...0 prob the energy you give out, some people just give boyfriend energy, you have to exude something different if you're trying to hook up, more sexually charismatic than accommodating and warm. Also yeah the setting matters, you're gonna meet so many women who just want to fuck you if you're at clubs and bars and places like that	/r/seduction	25/04/26 08:10 PM
1	What is the most important key to flirting ? Being relaxed, i mean truly relaxed, not caring what the outcome is, you produce your best work when you're enjoying yourself and you don't perceive the stakes	/r/seduction	07/01/26 11:46 PM
1	How to keep composure I wonder why you're so geeked over them, have you never seen big boobs?	/r/seduction	11/07/25 06:18 PM
6	How do i have sex with my moms friend? this is reddit	/r/seduction	06/08/24 01:26 PM
5	Fastest Bar Lay lowkey lmfaooooo	/r/seduction	04/08/24 08:25 AM
52	What's exactly charisma? the ability to charm people around you, make them see you in a favorable light with your demeanor, actions and words.	/r/seduction	11/07/24 10:17 PM
3	Do guys do shit tests, or is it predominantly a thing women do? or...most importantly if you can take her seriously. They'll tell you their red flags	/r/seduction	02/07/24 06:09 PM
1	Do guys do shit tests, or is it predominantly a thing women do? personally i see it as something you do from a position of power and not something that is gender specific i think more guys would shit test women if they actually had the option of having many women have and display desire for them.	/r/seduction	02/07/24 06:06 PM
1	Do you really enjoy flirting or am I the only one who doesn't? it should be fun maybe you're doing it wrong	/r/seduction	03/05/24 01:05 PM
2	Are btch shields and sht tests really a thing? I didn't hear him say that they are an adversary	/r/seduction	23/04/24 02:21 PM
3	Need some advice tbh something similar happened to my buddy, she found a new dude and he made her block him	/r/seduction	13/04/24 01:39 PM
1	How do I get her out of the friendzone? ngl, you got cooked king	/r/seduction	07/04/24 08:02 AM