ManipulativeJA Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Advised to post here for a more fair perspective into my relationship.	Ask Red Pill	ManipulativeJA	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/13 04:35 AM

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-16	Advised to post here for a more fair perspective into my relationship. Its more I can't imagine marrying a girl who did what Beth did. But I mean I like her, and I like her a lot. You aren't with someone for six, seven months without emotions developing. I felt like shit because I don't know I felt like I was hers, and it was wrong to be with others. I'm a pretty monogamous person at my core, and this was out of character. I like romance... does that make me that odd?	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/13 08:28 AM
-57	Advised to post here for a more fair perspective into my relationship. Dude, you have the timeline wrong. I said I didn't want an exclusive relationship AFTER the fuckfest. Before the fuckfest we were dating seriously and hanging out all the time. Telling each other how special this was and all sorts of mushy new relationship talk. I was dating her with the plan/hope of making her my girlfriend. Monogamy was strongly implied, but yeah not spelled out. And she took advantage of that. I've learned a lesson for the future for sure, but it hurt like hell then. Our mono…	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/13 08:25 AM
-17	Advised to post here for a more fair perspective into my relationship. This middle ground that we have is kind of messy. Not quite my girlfriend, but everyone knows we are together. I was thinking of upgrading our relationship, but I'm having some doubts. How would I play the lets just be friends card? She has been with me because of the hope of me making her mine, and to pull that now wouldn't go over well. Not that I'm scared of her, but she would be really hurt. I'm not saying its not a good idea... just how the hell do I pull it off?	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/13 08:19 AM
-25	Advised to post here for a more fair perspective into my relationship. Haha. It means that we just made out and she blew me. I've only had PIV sex twice outside of whatever Beth and I have had. She on the other hand.... I've never really thought about it like that. Honest answer. I like being in a relationship and I crave those love emotions. I know it might not seem the case, but I'm like a romantic at heart and I don't know if like my heart is in chasing. I've got to think about things. Its just I'd like to plan us things this summer, not go chase drunk girls. Kn…	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/13 08:16 AM
-19	Advised to post here for a more fair perspective into my relationship. Nah, she isn't marriage material. But she is a cool girl. With /r/relationships, I think it was just like all women who were hurt by guys. I have to go back and look at the comments again, but didn't seem like any neckbeards were writing them... lol. But they hated me. Do you think a girl can change? I haven't been the nicest to her, and I've (yeah hypocritcally) really harsh on her and I'm almost certain she hasn't done anything with any other guys since. Is it just a matter of time though? I f…	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/13 06:23 AM
-24	Advised to post here for a more fair perspective into my relationship. Dude, it bugged me too. What the fuck, you have your fun and now you want to settle down? It pissed me off so much, and for the longest time it would just draw fury out of me. I've made my peace with it now, but it was just the worst to me. So disrespectful too. And there was no need for the sex romp. I was at my best then and she still went and had her fuckfest. You might be right with the new slate. Its just I've become attached to her, and I like talking to her and hanging out with her. We ar…	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/13 06:20 AM
-16	Advised to post here for a more fair perspective into my relationship. I've never considered that! She doesn't know I've slept with other people, but I've been kind of distant with her and mean to her. I guess like its the girls like assholes theory? Kind of? But there are benefits of having a girlfriend, right? I kind of want a partner. Don't get me wrong it is fun to hook-up, but its an empty fun. And I'm way too jealous to be with someone who is hooking up with other people. That I know. What do you think about just keeping the status quo. Not confessing and sta…	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/13 06:17 AM
-21	Advised to post here for a more fair perspective into my relationship. It was strongly implied and there wasn't any reason for her to go elsewhere. I guess it was technically okay, but it cut really deep.	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/13 06:14 AM
-35	Advised to post here for a more fair perspective into my relationship. I was feeling kind of guilty before posting, and if you look at that thread, every single comment is wrecking me. Asshole, loser, bro-pig, etc. I've felt like shit for the past day honestly. I don't think she was worthy of my respect because of how she treated me and our relationship. The issue is I'm kind of attached now, and the idea of ending it isn't crazy appealing. I like having someone to just hang out with, who loves having sex with me, likes to take care of me, and just all those like r…	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/13 05:08 AM