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Hey buddy, Approach Anxiety is very common. We all get it, especially in the day time which is considered a non-social environment. We get anxiety because of either fear of rejection or outcome dependency. The key to approach anxiety is building momentum, but how the fuck do you build momentum when you can't even approach in the first place!? It's all about PROGRESSIVE ACTION. Any new behavior or habit you try to build, will consist you leaving your comfort zone. The idea is to first get used to…
/r/seduction21/04/15 07:29 PM
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I know that feeling man..I grew up a beta guy and had to man the fuck up.... I can definitely relate to "sliding back to the comfort zone"....it does happen and the worst part is when you have a great opportunity and all of a sudden that annoying fuckin beta voice comes back to haunt you... I can feel your anger in this post and it can hit hard, but at the end of the day you're going to use that anger to drive you to take action!
/r/seduction14/01/15 04:38 AM
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Of course it's seems backwards - We as human beings tend to over-complicate things. I can highly relate where you're coming from because I used to have the same mindset, especially when taking action. I needed a girl to complete me in order to help me move forward with my goals....and MAN it sounded so backwards but the emotions behind those beliefs were so strong. As the social norm goes, aside from the myth of "money" and "looks" .....women are attracted to men that are "confident", but how ca…
/r/seduction08/01/15 04:42 AM
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I noticed your list is all based on external sources such as new clothes, learning to cook, etc.....You're lacking self-acceptance at this moment and it's like the only way you can accomplish these "external goals" is to "find someone to complete you" FIRST, then you can move forward with those goals. I know where you're coming from, you're trying to fight your insecurities with your mind, which is creating a stronger inner-conflict. What you resist, persists. Think about that for a moment. When…
/r/seduction08/01/15 03:35 AM
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Hey GGDoll123, I know where you're coming from buddy. I grew up with a lack of self-confidence and really low self-esteem myself. The worst thing anyone can tell you is "just be yourself" or "there are plenty of fish in the sea".. especially when you have "oneitis" those are just words that will give you temporary reassurance. And believe me, I know what it's like to dream about "what you can say to a girl" but then in the actual moment itself you have all this uncomfortable body language showin…
/r/seduction08/01/15 03:06 AM
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Branman - You're not the only one out there. Drill 2 is where most people are stuck and it can really fck w/ your head, so they will find the easiest type of approach to avoid embarrassment but still hold a weak frame with the actual girl that is less likely to get you the result. Remember, you're doing DRILL 2 for yourself, NOT FOR OTHERS. If I were you, before you go out in the field, close your eyes and VISUALIZE yourself approaching in front of others and feel the pain and humiliation of the…
/r/seduction02/01/15 05:52 PM
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Hi Macguyer, Good to know you do are a natural and self-taught which means you do have basic social skills and can do shit at night game. Most people can socialize in a night environment, based on it being a social environment (everyone is out to meet people)......Day Game is a different ball game. When going into Day Game, it's all about understanding the battlefield you are walking into, so you have a realistic idea of the what you're getting into. Keep in mind the following: 1 - Day Game is b…
/r/seduction03/12/14 03:02 PM
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Losing momentum is normal. Functional stuff can be super annoying, cause you want to get to the point already by getting in her panties....but what's great about functional openers....as you said... it really helps you warm up. The moment you know LOGICALLY what gives you momentum, you will progressively get there Manny
/r/seduction02/12/14 02:12 AM
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Hi Senescence, I understand where you are coming from...especially when dealing with criticism from others. (huge area of my life that I have dealt with) We all as human beings are critical creatures of ourselves which results in being critical towards others. It's very common. Based on the 2 critiques that these girls gave you: 1 - looking angry when you eat 2 - chewing with your mouth open It's all about how much you value their opinions. When things that are outside of your control (your phys…
/r/seduction01/12/14 02:59 AM
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Hey blinky...agree with pmathrock - I know what you mean though...you seem to be going from 1 extreme to the other. Either sounding boring OR giving her a fucking life story. You must access that balance. When it comes to STORYTELLING (big fundamental) - it's all based on the delivery, hitting the emotional spikes, and engaging her (whether you're catching up w/ the girl or if it's a stranger). So you have a lot of information and you want to express yourself, it must be done in small dosages. T…
/r/seduction01/12/14 02:32 AM
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Hello Smokestackslattery, Congratulations on staying sober...it's very tough when it comes to dealing with addiction. Not a dumb question at all. Based on what you're experiencing is completely normal, especially now that you're not dependent on alcohol to approach, so it can makes it tougher...PLUS- you're gaming in a non-social environment which also makes it much more difficult. I have also been on the same boat as you especially after I would build some great momentum in approaching women...…
/r/seduction01/12/14 01:53 AM
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