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| 1 | Do you think it's morally ok for a 30+ year old guy to have a casual sexual relationship with an 18 year old girl?Casual sex has nothing to do with having things in common. I think it’s creepy for anyone to think that’s the only criteria it takes in order to have sex. Can you imagine going to a social network meet up and expect casual sex with anyone there just because there’s commonality amongst the group? What if the group is for young women looking for sugar daddy’s? It’s coming full circle now. I think you’re the one with the protector fetish. Repent for your guilt now! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Do you think it's morally ok for a 30+ year old guy to have a casual sexual relationship with an 18 year old girl?The moment both parties agree to consent, it’s nobody else’s business. At least here in the states, we’ve got a whole justice system for protecting young people and although it’s run by the imperfect nature of human, we as a society as a whole are all held accountable to make sure all of our young people are safe including ourselves. It’ll never be perfect. Just like every other crime and injustice that is fought to deter against. As a matter of fact, I would say our country’s sex crime violator… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/22 05:07 PM |
| 1 | To avoid being a "starter wife" or "forever girlfriend," this is the best dating strategy for women:The topic at hand is good as far as an introduction to a relationship goes. What happens in conclusion is a completely different factor. To even get to the “starter wife” or “forever girlfriend” title still requires the premise you’re vying for. A “forever wife” is only obtainable through a course of strong willpower to maintain attractiveness, being pleasant and unrelenting care. That’s not even speaking on the behalf of men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/21 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Do extremely loyal men exist or are they only acting?Appreciate your candidness, it helps provide on the insight you’re trying accomplish. If you haven’t tried reaching out to the previous lovers you’ve had, you may need to lower your standards a bit. In the dating world, you cannot control what previous life experience anyone has. It is ultimately their decisions that is exclusive on to their right and not meant to be lived through vicariously by anyone else. Enjoy a kiss here and there. Affection is not meant to be have a rigid structure. It is … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Do extremely loyal men exist or are they only acting?Dating all depends on the value of your underlying value and the kind of man you are looking for. I respectfully ask. Do you feel as though you are the most physically attractive that you possibly can be? If so, are you willing to date any man on the basis that he is extremely loyal and nothing else? If you can genuinely say yes to those two questions, move to a big city if needed and your chances will dramatically increase. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 03:48 PM |
| 2 | A woman stopped dating me because I was a virgin. How do I keep from getting redpilled after this happened?Hey man, keep your head up. Not all women will disparage you for being a virgin. However, you can walk away with some key takeaways that will help you moving forward. From women’s perspective, life experience plays a big role in the values you truly hold. You won’t be able to tap into certain conversations or perspectives without actually getting through them. If you absolutely can not get laid right now, seriously consider hiring a prostitute. Don’t be afraid to act questions. They will be comp… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/11/21 03:07 PM |
| 3 | Men, is it true that if you like someone you'll make an effort to plan a nicer date than usual?Context is bigger than anything. Women who dress to impress and show up early, you have to tread along the dates with more consideration. You certainly don’t want to show up like you don’t belong there unless you’re there to achieve nothing. The women who have lower or no expectation, it can make them feel off put if you overdress. Giving off any indication of expectation can turn them off. Being pleasant and having good hygiene should always be a baseline. TLDR; Depends on the girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Career/success/status/money/muscles - all things that impress other men, not women. Why do men fixate on things that largely impress other men?Sugar babies, any social media platform, or simply going out into the public in a major city. Skills pays the bills and women naturally gravitate to the ones who can provide the most resources. Since you actually want to get technical. https://deepblue.lib.umich.edu/bitstream/handle/2027.42/29156/0000200.pdf “Research by more than 50 scientists studying more than 10,000 individuals inhabiting 33 countries, six continents, and five islands supports the hypothesis that women have evolved mate pref… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/11/21 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Career/success/status/money/muscles - all things that impress other men, not women. Why do men fixate on things that largely impress other men?Most attractive women prefer the latter. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/11/21 10:26 AM |
| 1 | Career/success/status/money/muscles - all things that impress other men, not women. Why do men fixate on things that largely impress other men?Interestingly, I've personally met more men in my life who care about the woman's career/ambition/success than I have women. You are referring to feminine men. The fact of the matter is, our society encourages men to be less masculine and to praise them when they attribute their attraction to women who are ambitious, empowered and /or career-oriented. Those women are the ones who also joke about men being cuck-holded and “boy toys.” As ineloquent as that comes off, it’s hard for me to get away f… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/11/21 10:22 AM |
| 2 | Career/success/status/money/muscles - all things that impress other men, not women. Why do men fixate on things that largely impress other men?The most successful men have the most opportunities with the more attractive females. Try being a conventionally unattractive male who is low income. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/11/21 10:11 AM |
| 1 | Career/success/status/money/muscles - all things that impress other men, not women. Why do men fixate on things that largely impress other men?Under what basis are you taking about? They certainly aren’t doing it for a lack of women. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/11/21 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Career/success/status/money/muscles - all things that impress other men, not women. Why do men fixate on things that largely impress other men?Career/success/status/money/muscles - all things that impress other men, not women. Why do men fixate on things that largely impress other men? You say women are not impressed by all of the things you just mentioned. Well, the most attractive women are picking them. The prerogative is not to impress women, it’s to set a strong foundation. A guy who is successful, or has lots of muscles or whatever is often used as an example by men as "the ideal guy." (I'm exempting pro athletes or celebrities f… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/11/21 10:04 AM |
| 2 | What do you think are the worst and best dating platitudes?I am not entirely sure if this is a positive platitude or not. A good notion to stand by is to be a great and engaged listener. This would also apply to the individual themself. If you can’t hear how you convey yourself in conversation, there’s a likelihood you will come off boring or unable to present value to the person you’re dating. The worst platitude? “Be yourself.” This has to be the most anecdotal statement you could tell anyone which makes it an antithesis to what advice is. One’s self … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 09:22 AM |
| 1 | How do you answer, “what do you bring to the table?”I’m saying physically in present moment. Metaphysically, we are all doing what is deemed necessary. Even if an ideal attractive woman is expending time to multiple men, there’s still only a select amount of options that excludes the rest of the men who are on the other side of the ratio. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 11:14 PM |
| 0 | How do you answer, “what do you bring to the table?”Women leverage the sex. Their companionship is unmatched by what men can offer to other men. So their time under that premise is a commodity. An ideal attractive woman can only spend time with one man at a time. Man to man interaction only reaches to a deep cerebral level to a limited amount of people within social circles. We all only have so much time on our hands regardless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 09:17 PM |
| 2 | How do you answer, “what do you bring to the table?”You have to entrust other people even if it is at your sake. We don’t get the choice otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 09:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you answer, “what do you bring to the table?”This largely depends on both parties’ disposition. If the interaction of the date has push and pull momentum, the conversation can easily transcend to asking the question without giving up ground of discernment. Long story short, as long as the attitude doesn’t come off as interrogating and is timed when there’s rapport that has been built. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 09:04 PM |
| 1 | How do you answer, “what do you bring to the table?”Have to speak anecdotally here. Within the last year before I became married to my on and off girlfriend, having about a dozen dates with different women, most of which translated to second dates, I can tell you that I have never asked that question. Neither have I ever heard any of my male friends and acquaintances that range from all kinds of backgrounds say that they even care to ask that question. I have a successful background in sales and have a wide network of men and women that I can rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 08:50 PM |
| 1 | In regards to education. What if we taught our children that looks, finances and social statuses does play a role when it comes to attracting the other gender?I don’t think it would change the social dynamic. If anything, it just speeds up the actuality to what we live in today. Whether or not how you were raised, kids will eventually catch on that all of factors mentioned to OP’s title. It’s your duty and responsibility to adhere to maximizing your sexual value. Not up to someone to teach you that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 11:26 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men don't actually slut shame in real life. This is entirely a female construct that they direct at men to blame for their internalized guiltSince you’re posting anecdotally OP, I’ll share my experiences. I’m thirty years old and I do recall during high school, that teenage boys at that time wanted to disassociate and make fun of any teenage girl that had been accounted to being promiscuous among the boys. I’m sure that may very well play a role of how anyone, particularly women hold slut shaming to any kind of degree or not care altogether. Either way, men in light of women within many social settings will disparage or disregard slu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/21 11:02 AM |
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