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Manwhorelio/r/seduction11/07/16 01:11 PM
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Manwhorelio/r/seduction01/06/13 11:40 AM
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This conversation comes off so fake, lol. And this guy saying "happy to be here for you :)" Hahaha! The astroturfing on Reddit.com/r/seduction these days is STRONG. Already caught y'all on here trying to trick guys into identifying themselves. Now what's this fake vanilla bullshit you're trying to sell on seddit as sexting between fwb's? So lame.
/r/seduction21/12/19 12:51 AM
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Oh I go boom for sure
/r/seduction25/11/19 06:51 PM
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Says the dude with the grammatical error. Is that a cultural thing?
/r/seduction25/11/19 06:06 PM
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Solid advice. His tip on recording yourself and listening to the playback is a must for "hardcases", or really for anyone looking to accelerate learning and results. A lot of people massively hold themselves back with little vocal and behavioral mannerisms that totally sabotage results. When it comes to women, it's not about the things you do right, it's about the little things you do wrong that crush your results. Especially in the beginning of your journey. Great post
/r/seduction03/09/19 08:09 PM
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What does "hookup" mean
/r/seduction01/09/19 11:33 PM
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So she risked you not having plans in taking it further?
/r/seduction01/09/19 10:38 AM
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You think she feels bad because you don't have plans to take it further?
/r/seduction01/09/19 06:13 AM
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What are you texting these girls? Sounds like that's where your current bottleneck is
/r/seduction01/09/19 06:09 AM
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So what exactly defined this as a study date? How'd it get set up
/r/seduction01/09/19 06:07 AM
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Don't do this.
/r/seduction01/09/19 06:06 AM
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But Todd doesn't actually teach the program himself, does he? He has an assistant do it
/r/seduction01/09/19 06:03 AM
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https://www.manwhore.org/coaching/index.html Not as widely circulated but been around a long time. Well known instructor from ten years ago
/r/seduction01/09/19 06:03 AM
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Lmao
/r/seduction30/08/19 11:22 AM
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Well you say that but you report you're only having it once a month now?
/r/seduction30/08/19 06:44 AM
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You talk during sex or have any kind of dialogue during intimacy?
/r/seduction30/08/19 03:45 AM
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Perfect
/r/seduction28/08/19 11:21 PM
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Don't trip or worry about "being seductive" or bringing your game or whatnot.. just socialize and meet people and grow your network of acquaintances. A lot of natural seduction will flow from that plus it's practicing the same skills. Read through these: http://www.manwhore.org/category/social-circle-game/
/r/seduction28/08/19 09:46 PM
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Yep opening smoothly like that is the way to go. Lots of guys have to sort of "front-load" their value when they're starting out because they lack conversational/vibing skills. But the "hollywood pua" style approach certainly will come with a natural fail rate as plenty of otherwise interested women will take the easy "politely decline" way out from the ultimatum you just popped on them. That being said can you still open women squarely like that? Hell yeah, sometimes that's just the genuine cal…
/r/seduction28/08/19 09:34 PM
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Nice!
/r/seduction28/08/19 06:41 PM
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Wait, what..? How is this supposed to help in the slightest
/r/seduction28/08/19 05:39 AM
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And at the end don't be afraid to look in her eyes and tell her, "You're mine."
/r/seduction27/08/19 12:27 AM
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Cool. Sounds like everything's progressing well, don't be afraid to close the deal this time around.
/r/seduction27/08/19 12:16 AM
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Right, this is actually somewhat typical, and don't worry you'll probably never lose it, BUT.. you need to analyze exactly WHAT you change in your behavior, and trim that out. I caught myself a couple times when I was a kid banging some beautiful girl and just acting dumb after. It almost never worked out. You're essentially freezing up in some way that's registering behaviorally. Well that's not really... competitive, if you catch my drift. Here's something written up on it from years ago: http…
/r/seduction26/08/19 10:54 PM
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Just do a more social-based logistical close and you're golden. Something along the lines of, "Well you seem cool, we're going to such 'n such a bar this Friday, you should come." That sort of thing. Works GREAT in college. Actually works great in any social situation. Here's a few solid articles on social circle game and getting laid: https://www.manwhore.org/category/social-circle-game/
/r/seduction26/08/19 10:46 PM
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Well that would be assuming intimacy that may or may not actually be there. You haven't kissed her yet?
/r/seduction26/08/19 09:58 PM
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Ok what exactly are you asking? Do you want a "real relationship" with her as well? You're referring to a monogamous relationship I'm assuming?
/r/seduction26/08/19 09:31 PM
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"Judging" from one of your other posts you're dealing with a bit of a self-esteem issue. It's really not normal to be turned off by a girl coming onto you. You've got feelings and desires for positive reciprocal attention ingrained in you from a young age. From a quick scan of your posts I can see you are "new to the game", so a lack of experience and familiarity would certainly detract from just being able to let go and experiencing and enjoying the situation. But it's still something you need …
/r/seduction26/08/19 07:22 PM
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You've got to push the "Oh all good man! Didn't know. Good job. Have a good night." As soon as you realize what's going on. Don't let him rile himself up or validate his antics
/r/seduction26/08/19 05:11 PM
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You need to move forward with logistics and start planning meetups with this girl asap
/r/seduction26/08/19 12:15 PM
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Here's a good article on it from years ago: http://www.manwhore.org/lmr-series-part-i-being-the-prize/
/r/seduction26/08/19 09:46 AM
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You're going to need to create some distance between you and this girl or she's going to start embedding this same stuff in club activities and that's not going to be cool. Now you can either handle it like mentioned and just tell her what's up and cut it short, or you can segue this into a friends with benefits situation. But, if you cut it short and she's the spiteful type, she could make things awkward and difficult for you at this club you're both in, and if you plan on hooking up with other…
/r/seduction26/08/19 07:04 AM
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As a word of caution, medication and women don't mix. Not sure what other issues you're referring to, but psychotropic prescriptions will take you out of the game pretty effectively.
/r/seduction25/08/19 07:02 PM
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And how will this help you with women?
/r/seduction25/08/19 06:48 PM
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What sort of therapy?
/r/seduction25/08/19 06:34 PM
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Try some toastmaster events or improv classes. Can you close? Or are you still building intimacy skills?
/r/seduction25/08/19 05:53 PM
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Got a plan for that?
/r/seduction25/08/19 04:30 PM
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No, he could escalate the physical intimacy however he wanted, it never really works out the same. But a half hour of oral initially is just not a good showing. It's like taking a girl to a fancy dinner and then expecting sexual intimacy as quid pro quo. It's not a natural consummation of intimacy it's more transactional at that point. Can you do it? Sure, when you're young and dumb, and girls are too. You hit your twenties and you're still going at it like that and you're going to consistently …
/r/seduction25/08/19 04:27 PM
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Toastmasters and improv classes will help. Depends on how fast you want to learn to be effective. Can you engage women and actually begin intimate relationships with them? Or you still stuck not being able to close very well
/r/seduction25/08/19 10:23 AM
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Yeah get her instagram and shoot her a dm referencing the conversation you had with her. Ask her how her errands went and tell her don't worry you won't tell anyone she's secretly spiderman
/r/seduction25/08/19 10:21 AM
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Were you tiptoeing around these women when you had them out? Taking them from place to place, walking, sitting, standing around gives so much natural context for incidental or even playful touching. You remember how you did it back in the day?
/r/seduction25/08/19 10:19 AM
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Calling a girl a grandma is never a good idea. That was the main mistake you made everything else was superfluous. Would you fuck your grandma? No. So don't call her that
/r/seduction25/08/19 10:14 AM
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You want to practice your conversational and personnel logistics skills, mang. Just stopping a girl and saying hi probably won't cut it. Those are skills you can definitely hone and get good at.
/r/seduction25/08/19 10:08 AM
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Did you write up any of your old pickup experiences? Going back over those can be very invigorating. I took a break back in 2010 for about eight months. Reading my old content really got me back in touch with the old beast
/r/seduction25/08/19 10:07 AM
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Yes it's quite common for girls to back out right before sex. In fact most women at some point will initiate a "freeze" on a guy just to see how he reacts. Obviously this can be extremely frustrating especially when it's at the end. But there's ways of dealing with it when it happens, and even better there are ways of preventing it in the first place. Anyway not sure how experienced you are with women and these sorts of intimate scenarios, BUT, I will say that it's generally not a good idea to g…
/r/seduction25/08/19 10:03 AM
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What're your strong points with girls? Where do you get hung up at?
/r/seduction25/08/19 09:58 AM
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Ok bud going to talk about some learning points from your first lil situation then hit the second. So regarding the first.. if you find yourself at this point and stage in your "game" as not being able to "vibe" and talk for extended periods of time really well with girls/women.. the BEST thing you can do is take these little 1-on-1 situations with girls on TRIPS. E.g. GO PLACES. The activity will keep things between you and the girl dynamic and engaging, and even smooth. It'll work to cover up …
/r/seduction25/08/19 09:55 AM
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Very good
/r/seduction26/05/18 01:36 AM
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goodness man? What the hell is that.. trying to stay in character? That's completely disingenuous and 100% transparent. Do you even TALK to women? Lol Look, we were talking about stuff like this on Rsdn TEN years ago. Y'all are just trying to turn seddit into a marketing and sales funnel. It's not right.
/r/seduction26/04/18 10:13 PM
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Not too much. Though out of all the sleazy marketing assholes out there it's clear to me he's one of the legit ones. The guy clearly has a lot of game and experience.
/r/seduction24/04/18 03:47 AM
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This is abundance mindset to you? Lol
/r/seduction24/04/18 03:47 AM
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This just sounds like pure, made up bullshit. Every pickup "fr" cliche used with zero extraneous detail. You're in SF?
/r/seduction23/04/18 01:14 PM
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Negative. I've been training hundreds of guys in this industry for over a decade now. This is pure fluff nonsense. Are you part of this little marketing scheme they got going on in seddit too?
/r/seduction21/04/18 07:34 PM
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You're proving my point that is more made up nonsense. I've trained with almost every big name instructor out there. None of us attempt to claim such bogus results. Apparently you guys think you're safe having converted seddit to a money farm.
/r/seduction21/04/18 07:27 PM
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Aside from the fact I've been speaking at global men's conferences for over a decade? Been running bootcamps for almost as long? Lol. Don't try to sell me your bullshit, kiddo. You're a sleazy ass marketer peddling crap.
/r/seduction21/04/18 09:46 AM
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This is UTTER horseshit. You guys are being farmed like a bunch of milk cows. This is not useful advice this is just more neo-therapy peddled as "skills" so you can all tell yourselves you're "good" with women, when there's nothing actually applicable here.
/r/seduction21/04/18 08:25 AM
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A pretty disturbing reveal I'd say..
/r/seduction17/04/18 04:32 AM
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Really? That surprises me about Corey Wayne, but he IS old school, and old school guys are notorious for having "game denialist" blindspots.
/r/seduction17/04/18 01:03 AM
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Excellent. And just remember, this works for "ugly" guys as well.
/r/seduction08/04/18 03:20 AM
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Right here, lol
/r/seduction05/03/18 08:55 AM
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^ You guys are all lazy, sensitive bitches.
/r/seduction05/03/18 08:55 AM
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You don't know me bish
/r/seduction09/01/18 08:01 PM
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Lol. How do you weird bastards know my name Another marvelous review and flawless victory for my drills-based seduction training program. And another virgin lost his tail this week as well. Cheerio
/r/seduction09/01/18 08:01 PM
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Here's more: https://erikaawakening.com/epic-fail-email-from-mark-manson/
/r/seduction09/01/18 12:56 PM
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Mark Manson is essentially a fraud that rose to popularity by sleeping with Erika Awakening by lying to her about his intentions. That is how he created his initial audience. He then began peddling absolutely mediocre dating advice that appealed to the general mainstream. There's more explained here: http://www.manwhore.org/forum/content/breakdown-goals-and-aspirations-mensexposecom#comment-90825
/r/seduction09/01/18 12:54 PM
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Well no most pickup vids are real it's just that when you find out which ones are the sleazeballs you point them the fuck out
/r/seduction08/01/18 03:42 AM
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What'd you think of them?
/r/seduction07/01/18 10:44 PM
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This guy (Tom Torero) got caught paying an actress for a "kiss-close" in his infield footage. This guy has zero credibility he should no longer be teaching pickup
/r/seduction07/01/18 08:25 PM
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I wrote it. ;)
/r/seduction28/09/17 07:29 AM
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Try this dating podcast between a male and female dating coach. Honestly I think it's one of the best podcasts on seduction ever created.. it's with Jessica "Vajayjay" and "Manwhore" https://soundcloud.com/manwhore_datingcoach/tracks
/r/seduction19/09/17 08:49 PM
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You have zero conversational skills apparently. You need to practice that first before you start harassing girls with your awkwardness.
/r/seduction13/09/17 08:27 AM
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This is pure dogshit. Try this instead: http://manwhore.org/forum/content/19-rules-text-game-you-must-know
/r/seduction07/09/17 06:02 AM
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What DOES excite you? Making money? Science? Discovering new things?
/r/seduction15/07/17 06:32 AM
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You don't avoid those thoughts. Because they're true. You BECOME good enough. It's a trainable skill set. https://www.manwhore.org/coaching/index.html
/r/seduction05/05/17 01:49 AM
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You guys fall for the most inane of marketing ploys.. from the most recent newbie/junior coaches to hit the ranks. Constantly, over and over again. I can link to thread after thread on the main seddit. Yet you turn your noses up to ACTUAL advanced content. I've never understood reddit/r/seduction for that reason. It was just an intro. Maybe he shouldn't have said, "I've been asked to.." which granted came off a bit weird. But clearly he's strictly giving his own opinion here. I'm just going to s…
/r/seduction30/04/17 03:05 AM
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This is some utter bullshit.
/r/seduction17/04/17 03:55 AM
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I can't believe shit like this gets 60 comments and 186 likes. No wonder advanced material never makes headway on here
/r/seduction26/03/17 09:12 PM
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Great stuff, thanks
/r/seduction24/03/17 09:32 PM
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How exactly did you make your "move". That's the issue. Nothing else
/r/seduction18/01/17 04:19 AM
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Look dude, I'm telling you right now as a guy who's been in multiple long-term relationships with beautiful women, and has been a dating coach for years. You HAVE to experience that high-level bachelor phase. It's NOT superficial, that's social programming/conditioning and you don't have to listen to it. Tell her you need some time apart, to yourself, and you want to have a wild period and sow some wild oats. A girl DOES understand that. She may even support you in some very wild and interesting…
/r/seduction18/01/17 03:21 AM
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This guy nailed it ^ You show a girl you have a fun sexual side by... acting like you both know you want to have sex, then fucking her. It's really that easy. He laid it out. Do it
/r/seduction10/01/17 12:52 AM
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Damn homey I hope you laced her coffee with acid
/r/seduction09/01/17 02:06 AM
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No I'm definitely not typical seddit, lol. This place is not what I expected
/r/seduction05/01/17 10:21 AM
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Blown away this post doesn't have more attention and likes. But seddit is a backwards place I've noticed. Cheers mate. Good stuff
/r/seduction05/01/17 07:15 AM
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There's less margin for error with higher caliber women. They expect more and know they deserve a guy that's fearless and does what he wants- they're simply not attracted to timid dudes. This is why you'll sometimes see them with shameless douchebags. The higher the calibre of woman the more fearless, ruthless and shameless you must be with them. Your "mental model" is currently working against you, you have to expand it beforehand or you'll get stuck in "flinch" mode. Do some visualizations bef…
/r/seduction31/12/16 01:02 AM
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That's if you consume a lot. Just have a couple drinks and you're golden
/r/seduction31/12/16 12:50 AM
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She's more attractive than usual? Her piercing eye contact? Her bulging adam's apple? Why
/r/seduction29/12/16 08:23 AM
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How old are you? Just have a couple drinks to relax. Start with thumbwar, and the staring game. It'll be so on by then you'll both be making moves on each other
/r/seduction27/12/16 11:43 PM
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Work on improving your voice you speak wistfully almost feminine. I suppose the pink sweatshirt doesn't help much either :p I started thinning at the same age. Just shave it if it looks bad that's what I did. It never stopped me from being a featured speaker at men's conferences or a dating coach. Get on it
/r/seduction27/12/16 11:42 PM
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https://www.manwhore.org/how-to-text-a-girl-you-like/
/r/seduction27/12/16 11:37 PM
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Really?That's your reply. That's stupid. You've got no business sticking your newbie nose into posts you can't speak to
/r/seduction27/12/16 08:53 AM
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Holmes you're speaking from ignorance here. I've been around speaking at conferences, teaching in the community for a decade now. You can look up my old stuff at the 21 Convention from '07-10. I'm not a marketer or a spammer in fact I'm absolutely terrible at it lol. But my content is some of the best in the community. Always has been
/r/seduction27/12/16 08:33 AM
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Is this how you sjw's try to battle on the internet. Just stupid little inane comments like this
/r/seduction27/12/16 08:01 AM
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My point is that you made overgeneralized statement after overgeneralized statement. Unfair, uncouth and a bit stupid, and simply WRONG. If you want help, be worthy of it first.
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:28 PM
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Eat a dick you little turd.
/r/seduction21/11/16 11:22 PM
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You're just a kid, you haven't experienced SHIT. An intelligent attractive girl would make you shit your pants. Do you even know how to have an intelligent conversation that's also seductive? Or are you just looking to talk about star trek.
/r/seduction01/11/16 01:04 AM
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You associate looks with being airheaded. This is not at all the case. It is simply your lack of social skills.
/r/seduction31/10/16 11:42 AM
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How long have you been in the community? How long have you been looking for an increase in your skills in this area?
/r/seduction11/09/16 08:45 PM
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Here you go mang: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pqX3u12wTqw
/r/seduction24/08/16 12:09 PM
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Smart man.
/r/seduction23/07/16 11:14 PM
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Lol. This guy's got the right idea
/r/seduction23/07/16 11:13 PM
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You handled your feelings in a way that makes a lot of women uncomfortable. First off you should NEVER handle stuff like that over social media. It puts both of you at a disadvantage, it's devoid of personal intimacy, and it points to the idea that you simply didn't have the balls to tell her in person, you had to do it behind the mask of social media. All of these are very clear signs to a woman that you're not someone she should pursue sexual intimacy with. There's no excuse for this.. you eit…
/r/seduction20/07/16 10:30 PM
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Yes but there's no point to working off that premise it doesn't do him any good. Besides she doesn't sound like those things... yet. I'm simply helping him see another perspective he hasn't thought of.
/r/seduction16/07/16 09:51 PM
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Good. Is this a habit with her? Do you see her engage with her friends on this high/intense of a level? Is this just her regular temperament turned on you so to speak?
/r/seduction16/07/16 09:49 PM
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It's not mind reading. If you don't take the time to learn it you'll simply face the consequences
/r/seduction16/07/16 02:34 PM
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Sounds like you're one of those passive guys that just stands there and stares at a girl when she's upset by something. You need to learn how to communicate with a girl on that level
/r/seduction16/07/16 11:29 AM
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http://www.manwhore.org/skype-training-w-mw/
/r/seduction16/07/16 11:13 AM
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No it just means he's got a controlled idea of where he's going and what he needs to do to get it done. They're basically just saying "I want a man who isn't lazy, who's going after what he wants in life in an organized way." That is SUPER sexy to a woman.
/r/seduction14/07/16 10:12 AM
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C'mon now you can't be that naive
/r/seduction12/07/16 06:53 PM
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I've written plenty of concrete, detail-oriented guides on seduction and getting laid, going back as far as 2005 when I was a military officer, speaking at the 21 Convention starting in 2007 and guest instructing for Real Social Dynamics 08-12. You can read plenty of those here: http://www.manwhore.org/lay-reports/ That is not the point of this article. If you simply can't see the "experience" you could be having reading this article, that's fine. Just try not to spread your unimaginative bullsh…
/r/seduction12/07/16 10:05 AM
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Some married women are so self-righteous and haughty it's almost comical. Until they realize their husband is constantly thinking about cheating on them or has already, and has to be thinking about someone ELSE while he's fucking her. If you can't see the value of this article as a woman then you're really fucked.
/r/seduction12/07/16 09:22 AM
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Haha!
/r/seduction11/07/16 06:56 PM
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That's called getting lost in the "pickup" sauce, bro. There are MULTIPLE amazingly masculine and dominant archetypes portrayed, and you focus on the ONE that is in adulation of the feminine? Lol. Don't fall for some of the manosphere's b.s. on the matter. The truth of the matter is if you cannot learn to DEEPLY appreciate and adore the feminine you will live a cursed life. No way around it, it'll poison you in so many ways.
/r/seduction11/07/16 06:55 PM
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Haha! Naw but definitely in breaking it down afterwards those are the things I need to point out to guide other guys along. Just make sure you're not one of the poor slobs I mentioned in it. There's LOTS of dudes out there attempting to claim superiority in some way just to make themselves feel better when in actuality they've got NOTHING going on for themselves results-wise with women and are just mentally/emotionally jerking themselves off.
/r/seduction08/07/16 05:34 AM
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Sure I'm absolutely interested. The site's been around since about 2008. Generated a few hundred thousand.. but yes it's outdated.
/r/seduction08/07/16 12:57 AM
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That's a HUGE topic/subject matter. I run a training program that deals with this specifically. http://www.manwhore.org/skype-training-w-mw/ Otherwise start taking improv and attending toastmasters. Do it every week for at least a few months.
/r/seduction07/07/16 04:49 PM
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It depends on a lot of factors/details you haven't articulated yet. If you just do it a couple times a week you'll be fine though.
/r/seduction07/07/16 04:49 PM
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Have you made any money with your web dev knowledge?
/r/seduction07/07/16 02:59 PM
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You should stand there the exact same way. Your voice should be powerful enough to carry to a girl's ear, height should not matter.
/r/seduction07/07/16 10:29 AM
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Dude you can't be such a rollover. That's pathetic. No wonder you went home alone. Shame on you
/r/seduction07/07/16 10:28 AM
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Okay.. reason I'm asking is so I can give you some examples from your own life that you can transfer over to women that are embedded naturally with dominance/assertiveness. The MOST important aspects of assertiveness and dominance you need to understand is vocal projection and tonality. With those you can command most of the rest.
/r/seduction06/07/16 03:32 PM
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That actually says a lot of good things about you. And makes it clear you've got potential. Take a look at this it's something I wrote years ago while guest instructing for Rsd: https://www.manwhore.org/douchebag-laid/ So what sorts of reactions and experiences do you have when you wear clothes that show off your body? What about other things that draw attention to yourself? Other hairstyles aside from growing it out? Earrings?
/r/seduction06/07/16 03:30 PM
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The ability to qualify your statements after the fact is simply good conversational etiquette. "I had a 4 and it was really easy." "But that's 'cuz I was a booksmarts motherfucker! Batman in the classroom, Joker in the sheets!" Or something like that. It doesn't HAVE to be that pointedly good but you catch my drift. You could have simply gone with the first part and moved on.
/r/seduction06/07/16 11:58 AM
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Yeah bro it's the modern era.. you HAVE to bust out good text game. Really.. because most of the time you won't get a chance otherwise. Check this out: https://www.manwhore.org/how-to-text-a-girl-you-like/ There are several other articles on the site with text game examples as well. If I were you I'd throw up a couple of your text convos I imagine we'd be able to spot pretty easily what's wrong with them.
/r/seduction06/07/16 11:54 AM
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Here's ONE thing you can do that massively seems to cement the good vibes after that initial date/hookup. CALL THEM THE NEXT DAY, and have a casual "subdued" conversation. No bells and whistles, keep the vibe close to your chest and just talk. It cements the intimacy between you two. Here's the thing.. women FEEL sex a bit differently than men and on a different rhythm. They're LOOKING to see if you've had the same experience. Well in the fast-paced "pua" lifestyle we sometimes forget that what …
/r/seduction06/07/16 11:50 AM
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What exactly are you trying to accomplish with direct game? Back in 2000 when I first hit college I was VERY direct about wanting to make friends and set up social outings with the new people I met. I was VERY well received. I was also direct here 'n there with telling girls I thought they were hot and/or I wanted a "romantic" experience with them. So yes being "direct" can be a great thing. If however you don't have a lot of social skills, e.g. you can carry a fun engaging conversations, but yo…
/r/seduction06/07/16 11:39 AM
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How many pictures do you have of yourself engaged in an activity of some sort? Do you have pictures of yourself? Do you read the newspaper or follow current events or any sort of trends at all?
/r/seduction06/07/16 08:41 AM
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Yes step 1 is social skills.. step 2 is seduction. I think you're fine honestly.. if you didn't find someone you wanted to have a deeper conversation with maybe that's okay? Typically men develop social skills for a particular purpose. For instance guys in the community develop them to get better results with women. And yes it DOES help.. the more engrossed a woman becomes with a man conversationally and therefore emotionally and mentally, (barring him losing masculine value in some way through …
/r/seduction06/07/16 08:39 AM
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Sure this is easy to explain.. So as an example, a LOT of guys hate on other guys when they wear clothes that dramatically show off their physique or otherwise draw attention to themselves. It's slandered as "douchebag" behavior. Things like wearing wife beaters, or spiking your hair up, or wearing anything that is even slightly exorbitant or draws attention to yourself will inspire resentment even hatred from other men. But it's FAKE. Disparaging the competition is actually a very common male m…
/r/seduction06/07/16 08:35 AM
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Yes as said already, assertiveness is THE #1 skill to have with women. Can't get around it. In your case what happened is being a 6'4" black dude with naturally intimidating presence you never HAD to develop it, so you're deficient in this area. Do you play any sports? Any "extreme" activities? What's your family like?
/r/seduction06/07/16 08:22 AM
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Exactly. It's basically the MOST important skill to have with women
/r/seduction06/07/16 08:20 AM
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Alright I'll ask the guys on my forum
/r/seduction06/07/16 08:04 AM
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Honestly dude I used to not have to do stuff like that. Students came to me/found me when they were ready. Now I'm having to compete with a bunch of sleazy marketers and newb pua's that have ZERO coaching skills. So yes hence the "Click Here" stuff- which does work. If you've got constructive feedback or some ideas on that let me know.
/r/seduction06/07/16 08:03 AM
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Holmes I've been around a very long time. Maybe you're not familiar with me, that's ok, but you can find my conference talks going as far back as 2007. Sorry you don't like my site. lol
/r/seduction05/07/16 06:12 PM
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What are your basic conversational skills like? Can you strike up conversations with random people and have a good time?
/r/seduction05/07/16 06:25 AM
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Dude these are lame ass excuses. You're 19 yrs old that makes you a baby. Develop your conversational skills, become a more expressive person, learn to give out GOOD energy.. the rest will follow. If you don't you will simply continue in the same life quagmire. There's no such thing as a "natural", only people who've developed themselves or BEEN developed.
/r/seduction05/07/16 06:24 AM
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That's actually a great base to come from. I get the fact that in some ways it's closed you off, but in other ways it's built great potential. You're NOT a slave to social groupthink, you don't have a lot of social expectations ingrained in you, you're used to doing your own thing. You need to take this and FLY with it. Start expressing yourself as a strong independent male. Women immediately notice this
/r/seduction05/07/16 06:21 AM
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Ha! No man. Here: https://www.manwhore.org/predator-and-prey/
/r/seduction05/07/16 06:09 AM
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And yes you're doing it everywhere without realizing it lol. It's extremely common I'd say the majority of the male population is locked into this sort of mentality/behavior.
/r/seduction03/07/16 04:35 PM
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Aww man that's a killer. You have to start shifting your mentality and your behavior. What sorts of life experiences do you have that are more in-tune with a boss/employee type relationship? Or some sort of "social leader"
/r/seduction03/07/16 04:34 PM
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Give some more context?
/r/seduction03/07/16 01:10 PM
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Naw the marketing is actually quite mild. Check it out you'll have a solid time. I'm no longer associated with Rsd but I can tell you quite plainly you're simply going to have a good time and you'll def be better off than if you hadn't gone.
/r/seduction03/07/16 12:55 PM
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https://www.manwhore.org/skype-training-w-mw/
/r/seduction03/07/16 11:22 AM
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There's NOTHING wrong with needing a dating coach. You actually let yourself descend way lower than that homey. There's no shame in getting a coach/trainer.
/r/seduction03/07/16 11:21 AM
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Yessir. Cycle back and forth between this and your conversational "funny guy" mode and you'll kill it. Just remember that if a lot of people are around, especially her friends or potentially OTHER women you may be interested in- or are interested in YOU.. don't make the "slowed down vibe" TOO pointed or obvious. A lil sprinkle here 'n there goes a LONG way.
/r/seduction03/07/16 11:13 AM
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Right on. There are plenty of older guys going back to college absolutely KILLING it. It may take them 6 mths to figure it out but once they do they've got young lil underclassmen girls chasing them down to fuck them in cars, dorms, wherever.
/r/seduction03/07/16 11:00 AM
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You're stuck in what I call "HR" mode. All of your interactions and relationships are "pleasant". This is not seduction. I don't mean to be crass, but social dominance is what gets panties wet and legs spread. You need to develop an identify and M.O. OUTSIDE of your job! Just understand this takes some time and development, but it will SAVE YOUR LIFE! I don't throw that around facetiously
/r/seduction03/07/16 10:57 AM
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We can talk "what to say" as long as we like.. but the subcommunication is truly ALL that matters. SOLID vocal projection and tonality. Not sleazy car salesman tonality.. that's falsetto. PUSHING with your voice. You'll kill it with almost anything!
/r/seduction03/07/16 10:52 AM
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No you DEFINITELY want to banter her, it's quite important at that point. Let me show you an example... http://manwhore.org/forum/content/shaping-super-hotties-behaviour-over-text
/r/seduction20/08/14 09:17 PM
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Here's a link to some text convos/snippets that describes another texting dynamic ENTIRELY.. but it correlates with the current discussion because you MUST be aware of this dynamic.. too many guys are too set on everything being a competition or frame battle, they have no idea when to relax and "be with her". http://manwhore.org/forum/content/i-hit-jackpot-found-90-my-old-archived-text-conversations
/r/seduction09/08/14 06:13 AM
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I just got done with a coaching session with a lesbian student. A girl that was VERY interested in her, no games or pretense, flaked on a date they'd set up last Friday. The response.. none, she didn't even care. Flaking or changing plans to a girl is NOT a big deal.
/r/seduction05/08/14 04:20 AM
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I've updated this article and added quite a few more samples/examples.
/r/seduction20/06/14 07:50 AM
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Hey dude what's going on, thx for the love. I've got a few more resources for you to check out. You're absolutely on the right track, you just got to throw a couple more things into the mix. Below is the free chapter giveaway from my upcoming textgame ebook coming out. It is KILLER, and definitely not like other free giveaways ;) http://manwhore.org/forum/content/fast-furious-texting-strategy-strippers-and-cocktail-waitresses-free-chapter-giveaway-manwho So there's proper "persistence", even bei…
/r/seduction12/04/14 02:06 AM
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There are a couple other ways to properly set up sexting with a girl, but the article has some good ones you can't go wrong with
/r/seduction20/01/14 06:12 AM
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Saabalicious I'm going to take this and post it on my forum and let the guys take a peep at it. I'll post the thread link up here so you can read their views on it. I think it's very right on myself, I think there's a couple things you should probably tweak a bit to make it more fitting, but it's truthful and definitely represents a perspective that should be more openly understood.
/r/seduction20/01/14 06:05 AM
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When did we meet holmes?
/r/seduction04/06/13 08:26 AM
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No what I meant by mass texts are joke texts you find online. There are plenty here: http://manwhore.org/text-message-database.php
/r/seduction03/06/13 11:23 AM
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Well holmes it'll be pretty clear from the texting. I imagine it's NOT over, you just need to handle it a bit smarter. You see what's wrong with what you're saying you did? You're violating #4. Figure out her schedule first. You're doing everything right, starting with something funny, then not seeing if she's available before you ask her out! Post up some of the convo you've been having with her I'll take a look
/r/seduction02/06/13 11:42 PM
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Ha! One of the most important skills EVER. But actually it's the one area where copypasta actually is quite effective ;) There are all kinds of mass texts floating around out there that are quite effective as conversation starters. Just make sure to make it "real" afterwards.
/r/seduction01/06/13 09:26 PM
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Hey man I'm really glad to help.
/r/seduction01/06/13 09:19 PM
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Thx for the shout-out Cougar. Is this an example of you are what you eat? ;)
/r/seduction17/02/13 10:13 PM
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It's a topnotch site with lots of incredibly useful info. Here are some reviews of training guys have done thru the site: http://manwhore.org/forum/content/review-after-1-month-manwhore-training http://manwhore.org/forum/content/i-did-manwhore-skype-coaching http://manwhore.org/forum/content/thanks-manwhore-reviews-mw-coaching
/r/seduction17/10/12 12:09 AM
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The issue with focusing too much on pickup material is the same issue with videogames or watching tv. It satisfies a guy's urge for accomplishment and purpose, while not actually changing his behavior.
/r/seduction18/06/12 07:17 AM
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Proper text game should mask any kind of initial awkwardness with a new girl. Lots of guys talk about only using text game to set up logistics and/or dates, however it can be used as MUCH more powerful tool. You can convert 30 second #closes into lays with good text game. I've done it many many times. Do not discount text game out of unfamiliarity. Take the time to learn it it will BLOW UP your game. If you're curious there's a bunch of guys learning text game here: http://manwhore.org/forum The…
/r/seduction24/05/12 09:40 PM
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Hey man I would for sure. Who do you want me to contact?
/r/seduction23/03/12 10:33 PM
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Did you see the membership section on my site? It has a ton more audio/podcasts on it plus my text convos and online convos that lead to lays. I've got a ton of free content as you know but I figured I'd release more personal stuff and get paid a little for my time lol.
/r/seduction23/03/12 12:35 AM
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Thx man I appreciate the shout-out. I've started writing LR's again so stay tuned I put a new one up weekly. And yes I agree with you, not sure why more guys don't write up LRs. It's the great equalizer
/r/seduction22/03/12 11:25 PM
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Yep it's definitely a different, slow-roast kind of spin on regular game. You can't be overly aggressive and push for the close super hard. Also you have a LOT more time to develop attraction, comfort, physical escalation- all that jazz. From what I'm reading from these replies they seem to think it's all just a one-shot one-kill. Not true at all. In social circle game you can end up with a lot of girls that did NOT like you at first but after hanging with you for awhile they ended up being into…
/r/seduction18/12/11 03:22 PM
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So.. is that the new method of writing LR's..? Some kind of my little pony screenwritten style
/r/seduction16/12/11 11:42 PM
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The ability to 'approach' and maintain your value is probably the definition of the difference between beginner and intermediate in the game. Don't think of it as approaching think of it as arriving. You belong there. Think of it as stepping in and just owning that space and everyone in it.
/r/seduction16/12/11 11:34 PM
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He's probably just going thru an awkward phase. Don't worry he's feeling strange about it right now too ;b
/r/seduction16/12/11 05:31 AM
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Honestly if you're trying to initiate play time it's really not more comfort you need to build with another girl, it's physical escalation game and playful but firm dominance in the bedroom. This is the paradigm shift that is super hard for bi girls to fathom because they are SO USED to being manhandled and guided to sex by real guys (so they adopt a passive mentality on sex), OR, they're so slowly coerced into it by weak males that take weeks or endless amounts of dates to finally feel comforta…
/r/seduction15/12/11 05:52 AM
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Lots of game (80%) or more is passive/hard to observe. In fact a lot of guys spend years in the community just to be able to develop the elusive unspoken shit that drives girls nuts. The fact this girl doesn't like you and it's bothering you is causing you to act different. Of course you're going to read this and then OVERreact and try to "prove to her" that you don't care, and then of course you will have the same problem. Just chill out and interact with them both. Attraction can sometimes be …
/r/seduction15/12/11 05:43 AM
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Hey fellas, thx for repping my post! The article in question is not actually an article it's an outline of a talk I gave so of course it's open to SERIOUS misinterpretation. It looks like a lot of you got value out of it and some misunderstood, which is fine, but if I can help clarify in any way I will do so. The crazy remarks is just a symptom of being completely unstifled and being the "life of the party". Girls (and people in general) are just drawn to this kind of person. It's not the actual…
/r/seduction03/12/11 06:18 PM
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Hm that's interesting. What kind of logistics are you dealing with? If you're in college (or something similar in a social sense) that's your answer right there.. It's not that sleeping over is a bigger deal than sex, it's that she can get laid undercover without anyone knowing, however sleeping over is not so easy to hide. Vin Dicarlo talks about something he calls "Objection Game", which is basically taking into account what the girl is thinking/concerned about at all times. In this case it's …
/r/seduction29/10/11 10:26 PM
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I don't know if I can believe this mang. When you find an hb10 you usually try to keep them around...
/r/seduction28/10/11 04:09 PM
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The first time I change the subject usually that's enough. The second time she brings it up I look at her and just say, "Hey I don't want to talk about some other dude." Girls know its not something another dude wants to talk about. If she IS talking about it she's either 1) testing you to see if it's ok to use you like an emotional dishrag 2) you ARE her emotional dishrag 3) it just came up naturally and you need to let her know its not a subject she can discuss with you 4) she wants you to man…
/r/seduction28/10/11 04:07 PM
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Lol. I think she's got a good point
/r/seduction28/10/11 03:42 PM
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Being aware of your body (in a meditative sense) will help a lot here. Eckart Tolle teaches to always be aware and "feel" your body at all times. I think in your case you're probably stiff in your body and not even aware of it.
/r/seduction28/10/11 03:35 PM
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I've had a couple 5 minute meet-to-lays in the last couple months, another couple same night lays that took a couple hours and I'm not even sure how many first dates that ended in sex. It really depends on what you front-load the interaction with. I was teaching on bootcamp with Tyler (RSD) and randomly ran into this girl in the lobby of Roosevelt Hotel, we started out extremely casual and friendly and then I told her very matter-of-factly I wanted to motorboat her (she had these huge breasts st…
/r/seduction28/10/11 03:34 PM
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Ah super interesting man. I had a secret clearance as well for awhile I know exactly what you're talking about. Regardless the truth remains the same. High-value and handling yourself like a bad ass man not only will keep girls from feeling cheap by having sex with you but it will also attract them to you in the first place. And in that case I have another caveat.. you don't want to fuck and chuck girls you meet they do get resentful. Hang out with her a bit the next morning if you think she nee…
/r/seduction16/08/11 09:26 AM
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Sadly enough the fact you have to ask this means yes you need to beware of the potential for a rape accusation. You're coming off low-value and scared. Those are the kinds of guys that get accused of rape. Your high-value, confident dudes don't get accused of rape. And sometimes they ARE the ones raping for real. Rape is an issue of the value in a girl's eyes she perceives you as having. If you come off like a lowly peon but somehow manage to put your weiner inside her then YES she will be super…
/r/seduction15/08/11 01:16 AM
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Hey Redposter thx for the plug. Actually I appreciate your comment about my choice of wording I think it's worth me taking another look at. As far as some of the comments go.. interestingly enough you CAN inspire a girl to be a nurturer as well as a lover. In fact it's an incredibly fulfilling relationship for both you AND her. What it comes down to is the context in which she fulfills/brings out her nurturing side... So e.g. I have had several girlfriends that would love to cook for me, or clea…
/r/seduction06/08/11 11:08 AM
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Ah that's an interesting point about David Deida.
/r/seduction22/06/11 02:42 AM
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What's up fellas I'm the owner of the site so I'll answer any questions about it you may have. I work for Real Social Dynamics and have been coaching for about 2-3 years now. To some this post seems a bit over the top? But I can assure you this is a very easy and simple way of flirting with a girl and making her realize you're a sexual guy she can get physical with fast. Remember.. YOU set the expectations for a girl from the start. She will step up to meet them it's just feminine nature. Cheers…
/r/seduction20/06/11 09:47 PM
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