ManyElk Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	Self improvement is making my insecurities worse and while it doesn't make me hate people it doesn't really make me want relationships anymore Self-improvement is thinly veiled self-validation. “Look how strong and independent I’m becoming.” When so many legit strong independent people don’t mention it because they just are. I am wondering if something like this happen to people who are more or less socially quite isolated. Because if they just spend like a few hours in a week socializing and meeting people, they will know that in real life, justlike what you have said, most people are constantly improving everything about themselves..…	/r/ExRedPill	11/12/19 09:22 AM
7	How do you get into a hookup then (in a non-toxic way)? If you feel comfortable, pm me your online dating account, maybe I can suggest some improvements. A friend of mine unknowingly put on some passive-aggresive sounding sentences in his profile and got no matches and after I gave some suggestions, now he got more matches and dates. Of course your location matters a lot too. The more you live in highly populated, international, fast paced and high income megacity, the better your chance.	/r/ExRedPill	09/12/19 11:49 AM
3	Can't get over dick size Not sexually. Physically. His dad loved his corporal punishment.	/r/ExRedPill	26/11/19 12:58 AM
3	Can't get over dick size It is like a a devil's circle. I know that ideally one supposed to listen to the one who trully love us. But even we know that when our parents said that we are the prettiest/most handsome person ever, it is only their own eyes and it is not enough.	/r/ExRedPill	25/11/19 10:15 PM
2	It all comes back to one thing: Sex is overrated Last week I ran into an old colleague who told me he had travelled to different countries teaching English - lots of different countries. This is a guy who decided he wanted to see the world and give something back at the same time. Yep. Most of us have that kind of friend. I am just extra lucky to have several of them. That kind of life might not be the best if you want to have kids...but is it really though? There are children who grew up with globetrotting parents and they are doing just fine…	/r/ExRedPill	25/11/19 09:43 PM
2	It all comes back to one thing: Sex is overrated Honestly I do not know. I always imagined being a good husband/wife, being a good daughter/son, being a good aunt/uncle, being a good friend/sidekicks, being a good neighbors, etc... is more of a state of being. Just like when you are being picked as class president and thinking about doing your best at it. Hard to imagine it as a true calling. But people are individuals of course. Though...I have had several ocassions at school, for students to talk about what they want to be in the future. Pre…	/r/ExRedPill	25/11/19 09:35 PM
7	Can't get over dick size This gentleman's post here from yesterday's thread at r/askmen was similar to my experience with dating men who are either short or have small penis. https://old.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/e0ysny/how_did_the_level_of_physical_attraction_towards/f8l8mbo/ It is always their own insecurity that killed the passion. Just like...that gentleman's ex-GF who always thought that she was ugly. And nope, no matter what I said, what I did, nope. Never mattered. They had this bad picture of themselves that …	/r/ExRedPill	25/11/19 09:00 PM
14	It all comes back to one thing: Sex is overrated +1 for this post. Great post that resonates so well with me (and many of my friends), OP. Maybe it is the geographical location, maybe it is the type of the society that had been moving on from that our purpose on this earth is to have kids and to continue our genes, therefore, we must pair/get laid upbringing/brain-washing. Maybe it is also because I live in a place where prostitution is legal for both men and women. I haven't seen these much emphasis on getting laid or having a partner in real…	/r/ExRedPill	25/11/19 08:43 PM
0	Red Pill mentality in a nut shell? Why or why not? Fucking hell! Very frustrating reading this. You are like this because of your parents and their shitty parenting, now you are punishing just random women like me. What the fuck I had to do with you being raised confused and weak and unable to fit in in high school. I was not there, I did not know who the fuck you are. Now I have to be worry that a guy I happen to date someday is hating me inside...for something that happened in his past that I had zero thing to do with it. Fucking hell. This is…	/r/ExRedPill	24/11/19 01:01 PM
39	Trying to figure out what happened to the Red Pill culture and drove it to insanity? was a post condemning a women for being a pro marathon runner and living in van. This hit hard, because I've lived in a place where it will probably drive many Red Pillers crazy (and some true, non-bitter MGTOW, rejoiced/happy). It is a small island in Caribbean. A great island for water related activities. So many things to do there for men and women. Diving, kayaking, exploring, fishing, etc...etc... You see women and men with great bodies because of years of physical activities, living their …	/r/ExRedPill	23/11/19 03:06 PM
2	Help me escape? OP, will it help to re-read your story but change the gender of the characters in the story? So it will be a story of a woman being abused and taken advantage of by 3 different men? Because that happens also. And not only to heterosexual person, but also to homosexual person. It will make you feel not so alone in your struggle and not so alienated. That was what a friend of mine told me when I told him (many years ago), that my very first BF was cheating on me...with my childhood bestfriend and …	/r/ExRedPill	14/11/19 02:01 PM
7	The Prevalence of Red Pill/Incel Subs Shows That Danger is Lurking where do you suggest they express it instead? MMA, Boxing, all other kind of sports, give them a day pass at a junkyard?	/r/ExRedPill	09/11/19 12:30 PM
2	American History X (My story) Oh boy...this post reads as if it was written from a very narcissistic point of view. OP, have you ever done any, just any kind of semi long term charity works where the focus is not on you, you, you. Have you ever stopped and think about other people for a second? Go out and chat up homeless people. Help out in refugees center or something. Anything. Just to give you a break from only thinking about yourself.	/r/ExRedPill	08/11/19 12:24 PM
9	Question for exredpills and women:How do you deal with the fact that she will always be attracted to an alpha male(a very attractive male)? But what use going into relationship if you cannot even enjoy it because you are thinking that she will leave you anyway if there is a more attractive guy around? Maybe try this: You spend time around places with a lot of people. Just do some people watching. You'd bound to see many unattractive people who are hands in hands with their partners. Now can you really honestly say to yourself that all of those partners will go for someone else if they had the chance?	/r/ExRedPill	06/01/19 06:15 PM
23	Question for exredpills and women:How do you deal with the fact that she will always be attracted to an alpha male(a very attractive male)? Try to tell this to women who believe that men will cheat with younger women no matter what and see how these women will still not believe any of your words. It is because women like that are never open for changing their minds, they just want validation. Just like you right now, who will not believe any of us here who is try to tell you differently. People can say anything here, but you have or own reality. You have decided on it. Nothing we say will change your mind. So why bother asking at al…	/r/ExRedPill	06/01/19 05:38 PM