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All evidence to the contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:34 PM
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Have you considered becoming a hermit?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:11 AM
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Tinder is beyond desperate. If I’m paying 5 bills (which I wouldn’t), then I better be able to message non-matches infinitely (consent issue aside). And damn, for $500 a month that sub needs to come with a (good) hooker every other month. I have no idea what they’re thinking with this move. It’s getting nothing but bad publicity and almost no one is going to sign up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:08 AM
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Barring some kind of widespread catastrophe (zombie apocalypse please please please🤞), there will always be apps. Good looking dudes will always find success there and there will always be validation seeking women, looking to get laid by guys out of their (relationship) league. Recent stats show that men are moving away from apps. Quality women (ie youngish, thin, attractive, drug-free) aren’t using apps, or they only use them sporadically. It’s a circus for them, I’m sure. As we know, only a sm…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:00 AM
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Move to an Asian country
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 10:21 AM
5

Depends how short, how handsome your face is, how in shape you are, how financially well off you are and what the average height of women are in your area. Assuming you’re at least 5’5, it’s not necessarily a death sentence, as long as you have something else going for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 02:50 AM
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I have never witnessed a woman offer to physically protect an adult man from another man or woman. For that matter, I’ve never witnessed a woman offer to assist an adult man (or woman) in any capacity that may result in her physical harm (ie high water rescue, animal attack, etc), outside of police and fire women. I have witnessed multiple instances of men protecting other men and women. In my opinion, women (generally) aren’t willing to take the chance of being physically harmed to assist an ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 02:02 AM
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Not sure. Hopefully she goes the full ride.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/10/23 06:45 PM
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You’re not going to get an honest or straight answer. As we’re seeing they’re just skirting the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:20 AM
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No one is really being THAT pedantic. But yeah, if she fucked Chad on the first date, but is making Todd wait two months, I’d understand if Todd feels a way about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 07:19 AM
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Not sure. Each jurisdiction has its own policies. Anything but life seems like a travesty. She plotted a murder, which resulted in the deaths of two people and the grievous injury of a third person. In most jurisdictions (USA), if your co-conspirator is killed, then you’re hit with a murder charge for their death. I (personally) don’t get why we bother incarcerating people like this. There’s no rehabilitation for someone who plans out a murder. Execute them, or create a penal colony that we dump…
/r/PussyPassDenied03/10/23 07:13 AM
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26 years…pussy pass granted. She’ll be out in half that time.
/r/PussyPassDenied03/10/23 03:55 AM
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Ok…I lived through the 80s/90s/00s. I personally cold approached women regularly and have seen it done countless times. Perhaps your experiences are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 04:35 PM
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Sure, AND prior to OLD, men habitually cold approached women in most public spaces. There weren’t too many places that were considered out of bounds to hit on a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 03:34 PM
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You must be pretty young, because that’s simply not how things worked prior to the normalization of OLD.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:56 PM
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How do you think people got together before the internet?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:10 PM
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Social circles acquired through hobbies. The bulk of guys on OLD are just looking to get laid. If they’re tall/attractive, it’s a 95% chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 01:34 AM
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Every younger woman (up to 17 years diff - 21/38 being the biggest) I’ve hooked up with/dated has pursued me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 07:16 PM
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Why bother responding you’re not gonna play?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/23 04:29 AM
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And it’s even funnier, because if it’s a gay couple (M/M) then they suddenly don’t care about the age gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 10:01 PM
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According to Reddit, you’re a rape apologist if you don’t think there should be a presumption of innocence for alleged rapists (like in every single other criminal accusation).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:15 PM
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You can’t. Life’s not fair. Most crimes go unpunished.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 08:14 PM
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Asking for a friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:33 AM
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Accessing photos someone has posted themselves isn’t remotely illegal. You’re silly. These women aren’t his partner(s). They’re strangers. Why should he trust them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:27 AM
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Hacking is illegal. Spying on you in public is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:17 AM
3

Drug dealers are objectively worse than drug users.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:15 AM
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A seasoned (female) phycologist once told me that it is a giant red flag it the majority of a woman’s friends are men. And, If women like a woman, she will have female friends. If women (collectively) don’t like a woman, something is wrong with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 02:23 AM
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“She recently passed.”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:19 PM
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I believe the setup was, he was presenting a photo of Jerry’s model girlfriend as his recently deceased wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 10:18 PM
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For every master manipulator, there are fifty guys (and women for that matter), that are practically wearing a sign that reads, “I will wreck your like if you date me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:33 AM
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Outliers don’t disprove anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:49 AM
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Would you agree that your bad experiences with creepy men aren’t the respectful men’s problem and shouldn’t prevent them from (respectfully) approaching you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 03:48 AM
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Agreed. Fidelity and stability are largely about self control. We all have lustful and crazy thoughts. We choose to act on them, or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 03:14 PM
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None of those issues are directly linked to age. People of all ages are unstable and cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:20 PM
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I actually do know one. She was 18 and he was 32. I gave him all sorts of hell about it. As far as I know they’re still doing good, ten years and three kids later. Not really sure what she saw in him. She was pretty hot and he already had a couple kids and was short and ugly. Nice guy though.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 08:17 PM
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One of the side effects (that has benefited me), is that a lot of guys are unwilling, or lack the skill, to approach women outside of OLD. Since most women aren’t on OLD, they’re not getting approached irl like they would be 15 years ago. I came up before online dating was normalized, so I had to actually develop the skills to talk to women irl.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:16 AM
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You’re confusing wanting to sleep with you with wanting to seriously date you. A majority of men will fuck sub-par women, if it’s an easy lay.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:07 AM
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I’m only going to hit on one of your points. I agree with you and I see no point in getting married if you’re not (planning on) having kids. A family isn’t two people. I’m not taking the risk of divorce and losing a ton of my money, if I’m not at least getting kids out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:47 AM
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I agree. It’s not a gender specific thing. In my experience, immature adults (like children) crave structure. When you provide that structure, or “put them in their place,” they are more content. This doesn’t only apply to romantic relationships. It could be a platonic, or a work relationship. Also, the structure has to come from someone they respect, or they’ll push back against the correction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:19 PM
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I’d take the 7 who is wet for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:01 PM
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Dude is good looking and in shape. She’s…not. She should absolutely not be concerned about a few inches if he’s willing to talk to her.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/08/23 12:24 PM
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That’s 95% of women. Never put them on a pedestal. Never treat them like they’re a queen. I’m not saying don’t respect your women and be kind to her, but women want someone too look up to, not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/23 09:08 PM
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Assuming he wasn’t paying for sex with trafficked women, then playing women seems objectively worse, as he’s doing harm to those women. That being said, (most) women aren’t logical beings, and they will much prefer a guy that has mistreated women over a guy that has been with prostitutes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:47 AM
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I’ve never heard (nor doubt I ever will) here a (straight/gay/bi) man say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 11:23 PM
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Not arguing, but how do you know they’re pedos?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/23 12:36 AM
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I’m aware. But the people posting on Twitter tend to be young liberals. The majority of Americans are older independents who don’t spend all day on social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:22 PM
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Or hit it and quit it. Edit: And don’t give her your last name.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:25 PM
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Works less hours doesn’t necessarily equate to works equally hard. What if one partner works a physically demanding, outside job (and for arguments sake, makes significantly more) and the other works a desk job in a climate controlled office?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 03:17 PM
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That’s the internet…not representative of real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:14 PM
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Consider who is into them, tweens, teens and early 20s. Young girls (generally) like young guys. Outside of some outliers, 35 year old chicks aren’t swooning over K-pop stars. They want the Brawny Man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:37 AM
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I typically find Asian women attractive. She just isn’t attractive to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:08 PM
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The third is ugly, but four is good looking for her age (just dressed down). I’m 80% sure it’s Elizabeth Gracen, who is an actress/model and was ridiculously pretty when she was young.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 02:48 AM
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Or a lamp?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 02:57 PM
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Whenever some high priced pimp’s/madam’s little black book turns up, there are inevitably names of men on their that don’t have to pay for sex. The type of men that could get laid with the ease of a moderately attractive woman…yet they still pay for it (at least on occasion). I wonder why.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 04:33 AM
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I think you could probably say the same about men. Their ideal woman propositions them for no strings sex…are most men turning that down?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 09:36 PM
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I’ve seen it both ways. I dated a woman that was an easy 9.5. 5’10 with tits and ass that were so nice, they looked fake. Men wouldn’t approach her because they assumed she was out of their league. I’m 5’9, moderately attractive, balding and I don’t have a lot of money. I just had the confidence to approach her. On the other side of things, I’ve had women tell me they thought I was too good for them and assumed I was only going after them to have some fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 10:11 AM
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I think it largely depends on the woman’s opinion of OLD. If she stays away from OLD, then she probably realistic standards and hasn’t over valued herself, due to the attention she gets on there. Fortunately, less women use OLD than men. I’ve met women IRL and OLD, with about the same amount of success, so I don’t really have a dog in the fight.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:25 PM
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What you you wrote is apt, but most guys will take fucking shallow hotties over nothing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 03:18 PM
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Wide hips, loose lips.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 01:21 AM
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I’m not sure what you mean by “looseness”, but some women are definitely loose. I’m sure for a variety of reasons. Not all vaginas are the of equal tightness (or tight at all).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 11:14 PM
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I think you’re on the right track. Best bet is to move to a small/medium size, politically conservative (even if you yourself are liberal) town that is geographically segregated from other populated areas.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 07:32 PM
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Oh, I agree with you. I think we’re headed towards (at the very least) a soft collapse of society. There might not be anything the governments can (or rather, would be willing to) do to stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:42 PM
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If I had to guess…within 100 years western countries will enact laws to promote the nuclear family. I could only speculate what those laws will be. Perhaps they’ll de-insensitive single parenthood by diminishing or abolishing most entitlement programs. They may de-insensitive divorce by abolishing child support and all forms of alimony. If Western countries want to sustain their populations, they’ll have to take drastic measures.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 09:33 AM
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He may never know if he doesn’t ask, or if she lies. Is dishonesty something you’d advocate? Why would her reason for not waiting matter to me? Actions (may) have consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 03:48 AM
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Or you have a very low n-count and can honestly say you withheld for every other partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:09 AM
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For your own sake, don’t tell this to any guy that you’re actually interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:06 AM
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Nope, I just expect consistency. We’re not talking about a one time indiscretion while drunk. If she consistently did one thing and now wants to do things differently, then it’s a no. Life’s not fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:04 AM
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1) He may have side chicks (you’ll probably never know). 2) If he was loyal, he knew that the second things didn’t work out, he could be fucking. 3) You have him on a pedestal and he’s not really a chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:02 AM
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Unless you’ve withheld for every other guy, he’s gonna be resentful about it, if you make him wait. There is no absolute way to secure commitment, if you haven’t been consistent with other guys in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 01:58 AM
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So if all three were non-existent issues, do you think you’d still be married to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:16 AM
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But bro still got to regularly bang a girl 24 years his junior. I call it a win provided you didn’t divorce-rape him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:15 AM
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That’s fair
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 12:08 PM
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You’re moving to goal post. I’m aware wealthy people generally marry other wealthy people. We’re specifically talking about situations where one partner is wealthy and the other isn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:24 AM
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Right? Because she can’t just make stuff up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 02:21 AM
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Sure, wealthy people (trying not to use gendered pronouns because I don’t care if its MF, MM, or FF), who got together before the wealth came in, or a situation where the wealthy partner wasn’t smart enough to get a prenup. Why on Earth would a 1%er who brought someone into their wealth accept that arrangement? If the wealthy partner has nothing to lose (not married to the person or has iron clad prenup) by the dissolution of the relationship, why would they except disloyalty from the the non-we…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 09:06 PM
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But not open side pieces, like him. If she’s got a side piece, then she’s cheating, because that’s the arrangement. And it only goes on until she gets caught. Then all the luxuries go away and she’s back living with her parents and he’s onto a younger hotter girl. If I’m a billionaire and I’m in a polygamous relationship with you, you better be damn sure I’m having a PI check in on you once in a while. Reverse the genders, or make it a same sex couple and I’d say the same thing. You don’t like i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:54 PM
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Not sure if you’ve ever watched the above referenced podcast, but they often have guys on there that do this. Millionaires that are in polygamous marriages/relationships. They also feature monogamous men too. The show is basically poking fun at young women for being hypocrites in their expectations of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:47 PM
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But that’s the thing, YOU can’t. That’s the “arrangement.” If a billionaire is financing your luxurious lifestyle, why would he (or she) accept you sleeping with other people? They’re bringing the money and in return expect fidelity and loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:42 PM
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From a pragmatic point of view, if physical attraction was extremely important to a man, it’d make sense for him to marry a much younger woman. She’d stay attractive much longer. And as (most) men get older, their threshold of what they find attractive expands. For instance, I find women in their 40s to be more attractive than I did 15 years ago. I do think women (and men to a lesser extent) hit a hard wall where there attractiveness drops off dramatically. Even with exercise and good living, it…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:23 AM
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I suppose. I think having a kid intentionally with no dad in the picture is far more irresponsible. I think intentionally having a kid when you’re poor is far more irresponsible. However, no one is complaining en mass that those people suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:57 AM
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And he’s right. That doesn’t mean he’s advocating that you trade a woman in at a certain age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:42 AM
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My point is, of all the irresponsible circumstances one could bring a kid into the world, being elderly isn’t even the top 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 05:41 AM
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I’d much rather my dad be a 90 year old famous millionaire than some PoS, that abuses me, abandons me, or doesn’t have the resources to care for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:36 AM
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Reread what he wrote.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:33 AM
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Ok, let’s say you’re a mutant and don’t age. You’re 80 with the appearance of a 25 year old. Would he still be a perv, or is it only because the guy appears old?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:32 AM
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But she’d always stay younger than me. If we get together when I’m 42 and she’s 22, she’ll always be 20 years younger than me. I can’t speak for every guy, but if I’m single at 62 and a cute 42 year old is interested in me, id be pretty pumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:30 AM
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But “younger” is relative. If I’m 65, I’d be ecstatic to have a 40 year old girlfriend. If I start a relationship when I’m 45 and she’s 25, she’ll always be younger than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:28 AM
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You’re either very attractive or attracted to unassertive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 10:36 PM
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Unless we suffer some kind of wide scale disaster that forces us out of our current mindset and to become very reliant on our community and family, I don’t see things ever going back to the way they were.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 09:28 AM
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Because there are more male geniuses than female geniuses and women are typically drawn to people, not things. Just to balance my point, there are more male idiots than female and men overwhelmingly do the destroying (however you choose to interpret that word).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:17 AM
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Percentage? Who is to say. I would say a conservative number would be tens of millions of men over the last 100 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:13 AM
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Correct, but the infrastructure was created by a lot of men. Millions of men. By “create,” I assumed OP also meant build.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:12 AM
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Perhaps not easy, but it’s low skilled work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 05:10 AM
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Precisely. Being a Chad isn’t gonna stop some insane Betabux from planting one in your dome.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 11:38 AM
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That’s why you always test your kids. Do it in secret if you have to, but do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 01:01 AM
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That’s why I don’t date women who travel, or go out socially (with some exceptions) without me. I also don’t date women who have male connections beyond family and acquaintanceships. And before anyone jumps on me, I also adhere to my own boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:59 AM
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Banging married chicks is an L. I’ve been propositioned and I’m just disgusted by them. And it’s just unsafe. I’m not risking some jealous husband shooting me. No one’s hot enough to risk that. And the one time a married girl tricked me, I told her husband. Sad sack stayed with her unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 12:57 AM
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A lot of women (on here) claim that attempts to contact them outside certain universally accepted venues (bars, clubs, parties), give them the right to be hostile to you. Personally, I don’t care and if someone became upset because I tried talking to them, I’d probably laugh, BUT a lot of (young) guys are dissuaded by the notion that they’ll be labeled as a predator for trying to talk to a girl at the supermarket.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 09:42 PM
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Exactly. Women aren’t a monolith. A girl isn’t going to care where where you approach her, if she’s into you. Sure, there are exceptions and I wouldn’t try picking up a girl at her grandma’s funeral.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 06:03 AM
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Your hypothetical isn’t great. Most women are going to react positively to a picnic, since it requires planning and effort. A better hypothetical would be an extravagant date vs a hangout at his place.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 04:25 AM
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It seems to be the basic consensus that as long as you’re an average looking woman, you’ll be mostly fine. As a man, unless you’re exceptionally good looking, you’re probably screwed. In the particular circumstance where the man is average or ugly, I’d advise you spend your 20s on building a career/wealth in the hopes that you could attract a woman that would tolerate your disability.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:40 PM
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“for curiosity’s sake”
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 05:20 PM
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You CAN have it all…just not all at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 03:43 PM
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Try to marry a wealthy man that was 10 to 15 years older. Have several children within a few years. That way, even if the relationship didn’t work out, I’d be set with child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:36 PM
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41 19 - 28 Realistically, I probably wouldn’t (seriously)date someone under 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 01:26 PM
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Young people are far more likely to follow trends, but ok.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 07:24 PM
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Cue women trying to explain that it’s not the same thing. I love watching Whatever where this exact question comes up every segment and the women start flopping like a fish out of water. You can not expect a traditional man if you are not a traditional woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 12:35 AM
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Women tend to rate their attractiveness with their hair and makeup done, with flattering clothes on. Men could care less how hot a girl looks with makeup on if she looks like a troll straight out of the shower.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 07:45 PM
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So, every woman that is posting revealing photos is a wannabe influencer? If you believe that I’ve got a bridge I’d like to sell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 06:07 AM
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Unless she’s (or he’s) making money, what is the point of an attached woman (or man) posting revealing pictures on a public profile? Why do they need that attention if they’re in a relationship? Why are they giving men (or women) an opportunity to temp them? If you don’t think a big component of fidelity is avoiding temptation, then I’ve got a bridge I’d like to sell you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:41 AM
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You’re joking? There are hundreds of thousands of women on Instagram that aren’t anything close to “Influencer” level, that are posting revealing photos. There are only a small minority of women (or people in general) making money off of Instagram.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:36 AM
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I was actually jerking your dad off at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 02:33 AM
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Probably not, but if it’s something she did seldomly, I wouldn’t necessarily see it as a red flag. However, within a relationship, I would expect her to never be out at a bar after 8:00 pm without me. I would also abide by the same boundary, even if she didn’t have a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:37 PM
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What about crack addicts?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:15 PM
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They were also probably going out late to bars with they’re single friends, but I wouldn’t tolerate that in a relationship, nor would I do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:11 PM
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Some things don’t warrant compromise. If my SO is doing drugs, there’s no compromise, if they’re flirting with others, there’s no compromise, if they’re acting single on the internet, there’s no compromise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:09 PM
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Yup. Instagram is essentially a dating site for hot women. If your account is public and you’re posting revealing pics, then you’re acting single.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 10:07 PM
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Let me be clear. Im imaging a catalyst (an event) that will completely upend human society. Think WW3 with a limited nuclear exchange, a planet wide ecological disaster, a super volcano erupting, the ice caps melting or a medium size meteor hit. Access to birth control would be limited, or non-existent for a good while. I don’t think such events are likely in our lifetimes, but it’s only a matter of time before something happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 10:55 PM
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Because it’s how people naturally organize themselves outside of a nanny government. All of recorded human history shows us this. The normalization of the non-traditional household is a phenomenon of the last 50 years. Without the societal safety net to keep you and your children safe from harm, men and women have no choice but to organize themselves in a certain way so they can live with a modicum of comfort. What we commonly refer to as the traditional, or nuclear family.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 07:50 PM
2

I’m sure everyone has there own definition, but not leaving a marriage over anything but major issues (physical abuse, cheating, etc) seems to be a traditional thing. And it’s not exclusively a woman thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:06 PM
0

The majority of marriages end due to financial issues. And since you brought up abuse, women are the aggressors in 40% of domestic violence cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:02 AM
3

Agreed. I don’t think it’ll be in our lifetime though. I think there will be a catalyst that will force people to return to traditional gender roles. Unfortunately, that catalyst will probably be a very unpleasant event, or series of events.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 04:01 AM
0

So, all women have a price? Got it. Your average Joe isn’t staying with a cheater for money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:55 AM
3

Sure, you have extreme cases, but most of these trad guys are just advocating that you don’t throw away your spouse of 15 years because you’re “not happy,” or you “fell out of love,” or you “need to find yourself.” If your spouse is cheating, or kicking your ass, then yeah, that’s a good reason to leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/23 03:54 AM
7

Women’s checklist: 1 - 96 (of which 4% of men will tick half of) Men’s checklist: Be at least a 6 Don’t be an asshole Be loyal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 09:35 PM
8

That sounds great on paper
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:17 PM
2

If you’re thinking that hard about it, then you’re probably internalizing it. If it didn’t bother you, you wouldn’t even contemplate on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 08:00 PM
7

So, if he’d been well dressed, clean cut and handsome, she might have entertained him. To be fair, I don’t want homeless approaching me either, but I don’t scream at them from 30 feet away, nor do I think they have nefarious intentions just because they’re homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:11 PM
1

Idk, because the women I’m acquaintances with very often refer to women as females. I don’t think that word is a pejorative, or indicative of a certain opinion about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:06 PM
2

Right? For all we know, he was trying to tell her she forgot an item at checkout.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:03 PM
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They do…with unattractive women. I’d dare any moderately attractive woman to ask their single guy friends if they would like to be fwbs. 90% will say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:56 PM
8

L
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 10:14 AM
2

He’s 6’3. It doesn’t really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:08 AM
1

The guy is tall, incredibly in shape, handsome and aggressive. Even if he was making $80k, he’d still be slaying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:07 AM
1

I mean, if the options are no sex (or infrequent sex with sub-par women), or balls deep in new shallow insta-thot every other day, I’ll take the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 10:05 AM
4

Agreed. The notion that any man that has used a prostitute, can’t get free sex, is erroneous. Wealthy celebrities have been known to use escorts. Do women really think those men can’t pull women? Of course they can, but dropping a grand on a pro is less of a hassle than going out, vetting a girl and maybe getting her to sleep with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:24 AM
1

You’re assuming the men’s offers weren’t genuine. Some probably were. I agree that a lot of the women in that sub felt that the unsolicited invitations was harassing, but welcome to the internet. No one’s forcing anyone to be here. If someone can’t handle trolls, then leave. Just because it might have been harassing, doesn’t mean that they didn’t disprove that a femcel isn’t the female equivalent of an incel.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 05:19 AM
0

There was. But then they kept getting unsolicited offers for sex from men, thus proving the a femcel isn’t a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:22 AM
7

I’ve literally met women that have admitted they are turned on by wealth. They exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:02 PM
2

No kidding.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:01 PM
0

Women in the West lie about caring.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 08:00 PM
5

Online sex worker
/r/PussyPassDenied19/03/23 04:42 PM
3

No clue. Men literally built and maintain the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 04:26 AM
3

poundmetoo
/r/PussyPassDenied17/03/23 04:47 AM
8

Sure, maybe like 5% of (extremely introverted) chicks, this is true for. The rest are very obvious about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 04:22 PM
2

Sounds like she’s afraid to ask because it’ll result in him bouncing her, or, if he doesn’t, it’ll make the relationship awkward moving forward.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:22 PM
2

Could be a combo of things, or one big thing. Higher status men (generally) want a partner of the same social status. You’re younger and a student, ie not of his social status. Also, you’re sleeping with Tinder dates. This makes me assume you are promiscuous. Are you? Is he aware of this? He might want a more chaste woman as a serious partner. It doesn’t matter if he’s also promiscuous. He is wealthy and handsome. He has the luxury of being a hypocrite. You appear conveniently attractive, but ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 02:20 PM
2

And being handsome isn’t even enough. I’ve known dudes that are tall and handsome, but they’re complete goobers, and/or are overweight, so it throws off their vibe and they don’t get chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/23 01:53 PM
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False. Women aren’t being charged because their claims aren’t provable. They’re being charged in the small number of cases where the guy can prove, without a shadow of a doubt, that he didn’t do it.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/03/23 06:04 PM
2

I don’t get it. I have too much pride to simp. On top of that, it’s a colossal waste of time. There is literally no chance that some e-thot is gonna see the message, let alone respond to it. If I were a girl and discovered the guy I was dating was an online simp, I’d immediately get the ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 05:11 PM
9

If I were them, then I’d rather pay for a prostitute than simp for internet chicks. At least then, I’d get to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:31 AM
16

I straight up cringe at the simpery on the internet. The droves of men telling insta-thots how beautiful they are is disgusting. What’s the point? There isn’t any chance (zero) that she’s gonna notice any of these dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/23 06:23 AM
0

Just because she didn’t like anal with an ex doesn’t mean she won’t like it with me. What if he went really fast and rough, but I’m slow and gentle. She may discover she actually really likes it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 07:40 PM
5

Exactly. “But, but, what if they tried it and didn’t like it?” If they tried it multiple times and NOW they don’t like it, then I call bullshit. Assuming it’s something I want to do, then we’re doing it on the reg, or I’m out. If they tried it once and didn’t like it, then they can try it once more with me an rediscover that they don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 08:28 PM
4

I’d argue that seeing women and couples in real life is more of a reminder.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 07:11 AM
1

I’m guessing you just listened to that SSM video on YouTube…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:31 PM
36

Women being single = still getting laid whenever she wants, but not technically being in a relationship. On that point, when vetting for a girlfriend, don’t ask when their last relationship was, ask them when they last had sex. Man being single = hasn’t had sex since his last relationship (unless he’s too 15% in looks and/or charisma).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/23 05:10 PM
3

If you were take all makeup away, I’d say on average, men are more attractive. If
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 02:33 AM
4

There is an undeniable correlation between male criminality and single motherhood. It’s well documented.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 12:33 PM
3

Weird kink
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:11 AM
2

And THAT’s what a lot of people are missing. You’re not upset with her getting the gift, but her reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:42 AM
5

He could have gotten her a few yellow roses (signifying friendship), or had the children give her a gift (from them). This is stupid over the top. AND there’s already a holiday for him to recognize the mother of his children.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:40 AM
2

Women/Simps: It’s completely fine. They have a great co-parenting relationship. It’s super ok that he’s making a huge romantic gesture towards your significant other. It’s not like there’s a far more appropriate holiday for him to recognize the mother of his children. He’s definitely not trying to win her back and her complete acceptance of this is totally cool. You’re being insecure. Men/People who live in the real world: This is wildly inappropriate. It’s a huge red flag that she’s ok with thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 02:38 AM
4

That’s what Mother’s Day is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:16 AM
5

Don’t listen to this person. It’s romantic. Next!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 01:14 AM
30

How to exponentially increase crime in one simple step.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/23 07:51 PM
3

Bed sheets
/r/PussyPassDenied14/02/23 05:40 AM
7

Nah, I wish more pedos (and criminals in general) would do this.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/02/23 05:38 AM
9

Right? (most)Women aren’t gonna advertise that their current guy isn’t as great as a past guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:30 PM
2

Yes, but I also think there are alpha-widowers equal numbers.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 08:29 PM
15

Took you eight paragraphs, using straw man arguments, to TRY and justify the liberal (female) stance on cheating. Hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 08:26 AM
2

But you still need good teeth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 02:37 PM
3

What a privileged life you’ve had where you’ve never HAD to fight. There are absolutely situations where it’s fight or get beaten.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 02:18 PM
3

If the woman is trying to pass the pregnancy off as her husband’s (paternity fraud), then it’s worse. Otherwise, it’s the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 03:55 PM
4

You bring up a good point that doesn’t get discussed much here. The type of guys a woman has dated/slept with. Were these guys toxic, abusers, cheaters? If they were, then she probably has baggage from those experiences. Were her hookups with guys out of her league. If so, then she’s probably spoiled and might think she deserves a better looking boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 04:33 AM
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I can see her making an easy mid six figures doing OnlyFans. There are all sorts of degenerates that’d pay to see that show.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/01/23 01:18 AM
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c(l)ock
/r/PussyPassDenied17/01/23 11:42 PM
35

If she were smart. She’s not getting another job any time soon. Might as well leverage her fame into something lucrative.
/r/PussyPassDenied17/01/23 11:42 PM
1

It all depends on quality. If the guy has been with 10 dimes, that’s more impressive than a guy that’s been with 40 fours to sevens.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/23 05:28 AM
1

🤟
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:59 AM
1

Took a look. You’re probably good 👍🏻
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:56 AM
1

How would you rate you’re own attractiveness? Are you also “beautiful”? If you’re an attractive woman casually sleeping with attractive men and relationshiping attractive men, it’s probably not going to be a big issue (assuming your bf is ok with promiscuity). However, an average girl punching up and bedding handsome men, could encounter problems. An average girl isn’t pulling a “beautiful” man as a bf. She getting someone at, or below her level of attractiveness. What happens when average Joe b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:53 AM
1

That’s the old girlfriend’s perception, not the guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 06:50 PM
2

That’s simple. In 90%+ of those situations the new girl is significantly hotter and/or younger. Or, there was some glaring defect with the old gf. The guy may have cared for the old gf, but never saw being with her forever. It might not have even been a conscious thought. In the new relationship, he’s caught up in limerence with the new woman’s beauty and youth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 12:00 AM
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We should all come together over our hatred of this broad. Perhaps she can be the catalyst that gets both sides to work together.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/01/23 07:11 PM
1

Me are 40% of domestic violence victims. Technically the minority, but not by a wide margin.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 10:32 AM
5

Reduced by male dominated law enforcement I might add.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 10:29 AM
1

Would you be (as)offended by the idea of an open relationship if your sex drive had significantly diminished and you were having extremely infrequent sex (due to your lack of desire)?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/23 07:07 AM
1

If you attribute a negative quality to feminism then, “that’s not real feminism.” What feminism should mean, is egalitarianism with a focus on women’s rights. Institutional gender equality has been achieved in the US. There is no need to be a feminist in the US. Go to Saudi Arabia or the Congo if you feel the need to fight for gender equality. This ladies need your help.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/23 12:15 AM
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Well, short/medium term relationships until the guys gets sick of her. Then she’ll hit the wall (after a couple kids of course) and settle with a dude that is 2 to 3 points lower than her on the looks scale.
/r/AntiFeminists08/01/23 10:05 PM
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This is one of those watershed moments. Do trans activists protest against his execution because he’s trans, or do they stay silent because the he’s trans and it should be a non-issue?
/r/PussyPassDenied04/01/23 06:36 PM
2

Probably hope you’ll hit it and get mesmerized by her head game. All girls think they have porn star level bj skills, when in reality, most are sub par.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:25 PM
6

I want to slide into a reality where date head is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 06:20 PM
11

Men built and maintain the world. This concept is lost on a LOT of people (not just women).
/r/AntiFeminists04/01/23 04:33 PM
3

I think he’s right. College educated women tend to have a higher body count and more liberal/leftist/feminist views, than uneducated women. The exception might be if she got her degree later in life (say, late 20s or older). They’re still hypergamous, but to a lesser extent, since their own starting point is lower.
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 06:56 PM
5

And that’s the point. Anecdotal examples of some ladies that look better at 35 than they did at 25 doesn’t disprove that MOST women look worse from 25 to 35. That’s not even getting into the disparity in emotional baggage from 25 to 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:17 AM
9

Wow, this one example completely disproves that most other people look their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 11:13 AM
2

Agreed. I’m in my early 40s and I’m in a relationship with a very pretty/fit 34 y/o. When I was single, I typically pursued women from mid 20s to early 30s. Why? Because most women my age look terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:27 AM
1

I’ve had similar experiences. At 35, I had a 22 year old girlfriend. I only saw her as a friend at first and she pursued me. I dated her for 3 years. At 38 I had a fling with a really pretty Spanish girl that was visiting a neighbor. Again, she pursued me. Shortly after that, I met a very hot (think young Selma Hyek) girl who I met on a dating app. Turns out she was in a bad marriage and trying to monkey branch to me. So, there goes the notion that I was trying to use her. Sure, there are guys t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 07:24 AM
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Ok pedo
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 06:22 AM
1

I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:10 AM
-1

Cool story bro. I don’t care if it was 150 thousand years ago. You can’t have consensual sex with a nine year old, you fucking pedophile supporter.
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 05:09 AM
2

I’d say it’s an excellent photo to depict what most people think an average guy looks like. I agree that he’s probably not fat, but body type is more than, fat or thin.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 05:04 AM
1

That’s generous, or he happens to fall into your type. Also, it’s hard to judge, since we can’t see his body type or height. If he had decent musculature and was on the tall side, I might be willing to accept a 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 04:57 AM
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It’s weird to me that some people don’t think past behavior is indicative of future behavior.
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 01:41 AM
9

Happy for you. That’s great! Really. Why does it matter? Because past behavior is a good indicator of future behavior. Promiscuous people have a higher propensity to cheat and/or leave their partner. If I own a business, I’m not gonna take a chance on hiring a former thief, no matter how “reformed” he might be.
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 01:28 AM
7

You bring up a good point. It’s not an exact analogy (none are). The man in my hypothetical can (likely) redeem himself over time. It very much depends on his desire to change and any lasting ramifications to his wilder days (illness, addiction, etc). He can possibly (re)gain the trust of those friends. However, they may never fully trust you, given your history. The answer to your question is, yes, kind of. Once a slut always a slut. Or rather, a former slut. The farther in time she’s removed h…
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 01:05 AM
2

It’s all subjective. I think for most men, anything close to 50 would be very high, for a woman. I’d imagine, anything above 15 would be considered on the high side. You have to factor in when they started having sex, current age and how long they’d been in monogamous relationships.
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 12:08 AM
9

And this is what a lot (not all) women can’t wrap their heads around. No one (well, maybe not no one), is saying don’t be a slut. We love sluts. But we don’t want to wife sluts. I want to party with the fun, crazy and irresponsible buddy that is always getting himself into hijinks, but I’m not gonna ask him to babysit my kids. I’m not gonna judge him and if what he’s doing makes him happy (provided he’s not doing harm to others), great! BUT, he has to realize that most of his friendships will be…
/r/AntiFeminists03/01/23 12:00 AM
34

Or height or or dick size?
/r/AntiFeminists02/01/23 11:51 PM
1

Nice straw man argument. We’re not talking about married mothers, but single women. I expect women to stay and provide logistical support for the men fighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 09:04 PM
3

Yes. Why should the men fight to retain their homeland for a coward, man or woman (children and elderly excluded). I’m fine with them leaving, provided they’re not allowed to return and they have their citizenship revoked.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:54 AM
2

It’s always the ONE chick they use as an example. Cool, she’s 5’8, has unusually thick bones for a women and has been power lifting since high school. That’s not you’re average woman though. 95%+ of women can’t meet AND maintain the male standard. I remember the first class of female Ranger candidates. Something like two out of a hundred passed and they had specialized training prior. I’ll assume they didn’t get special treating, just to make sure someone passed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:51 AM
2

Fortunately, there are brave men who will stay and fight. Please don’t return once we’ve won.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 07:41 AM
2

Did you read the whole thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/23 12:06 AM
17

I thought this was extremely obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 10:38 PM
3

For 43, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 07:54 PM
3

Every woman I’ve dated eventually reveals her dirty secrets while intoxicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:29 PM
2

I’ve definitely had women be upfront about a high body count, but most probably lie. But things like this have a way of coming to light. She’ll eventually out herself, or someone in the know will tell the guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 04:20 PM
5

I think you bring up a good point. We just want women to be up front about it from the beginning. “Hey, I’ve been with 40+ dudes. If that’s a problem, let me know.”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:36 AM
1

Why would you be curious about it then? if you’re not going to feel a certain way about it, then the information is irrelevant and you wouldn’t be curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 06:34 AM
1

Only way I’d wed a foreign woman is if I moved to her country (prior to meeting her), or a majority of her family immigrated to the US. As soon as you move a foreign woman to the US, she’ll become indoctrinated and you’ll eventually be faced with the same issues as if she were a true American girl. You need the constant judgement of her family (parents) to prevent her from changing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 03:21 AM
25

I’ll say it. Anyone claiming to be a modern feminist, is a bad person. We have achieved institutional gender equality, leaning in women’s favor. There are no women’s (only) issues left to rectify (institutionally). A particular business owner refusing to hire women is not an institutional problem. Women (like anyone) can sue for discrimination. Of course there are issues that affect women, that need work. The timely processing or rape kits comes to mind, but that’s not only a women’s issue. Men …
/r/AntiFeminists28/12/22 03:06 AM
1

I THINK what original commenter means is, six months is too early to be talking about getting married/having children, any time soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 01:07 AM
3

I’ll take a look when I have time.
/r/AntiFeminists27/12/22 10:21 PM
4

You might be right, but I’d need to see proof. Please link a non-biased source (ie gov org or non-partisan ngo) that shows that black Americans are overwhelmingly targeted for arrest, compared to other races.
/r/AntiFeminists27/12/22 10:17 PM
6

Racist? Lady, I’m the farthest from a racist you’re gonna get. I don’t pretend to completely understand the socioeconomic/cultural influences that factor into criminal behavior, but stats are stats. You have to put the data in context. Percentage respective to population. Non-Latino whites make up over 57.5% of the population, while blacks make up 13.5%. Of course more whites are committing crimes overall, as there are over four times as many whites as there are blacks. That’s basic math. Blacks…
/r/AntiFeminists27/12/22 10:07 PM
6

There you go lazyass https://www.fbi.gov/how-we-can-help-you/more-fbi-services-and-information/ucr
/r/AntiFeminists27/12/22 09:45 PM
3

You can also go to the FBI crime states website. It’s all open source.
/r/AntiFeminists27/12/22 09:24 PM
2

Disagree (kind of) that most of the men are unattractive. Especially the ones using pros. Even if you’re in the top 10%, your chances of getting lucky are low and that’s assuming the day, time and location are ideal to meet someone (online or in real life) at the exact moment that man wants sex. If dropping 5 or 8 bills on a call girl isn’t a big deal to you, then why not? It’s a guarantee vs likely wasted time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:03 AM
2

I possibly agree with your latter points, but not the first. Handsome male celebrities have been caught using prostitutes. It’s not just the fuglies. Sometimes, it’s just about getting it in and not having to deal with the effort of bedding her and getting her to leave afterwards. When the cost of a high end call girl is pocket change to you, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:58 AM
1

I think you bring up a good point. Would the type of prostitute make a difference? If a woman knew he’d seen a crack-whore vs a beautiful and classy escort. Would she see these as the same thing, or distinctly different?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:51 AM
2

Hard disagree, but you do you. No problem with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:56 PM
1

Dad bod to most women is an off cycle male celebrity. Basically, muscular arms and chest, big legs, with just a bit of extra cushion in the mid section.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 10:54 PM
1

Assuming a woman is at least a 5.5, totally agree. I’ve know some lovely women that probably would have taken what they could get (as long as the guy wasn’t abusive), but they were so unattractive, no one would have them for anything more than a pump and dump. If a woman is conveniently attractive and never been married by 40, it’s 100% her. Same goes for guys (assuming they want to marry).
/r/AntiFeminists24/12/22 04:09 AM
24

These people have no sense of morality. They’re broken people. If they were victimized, they’d be flipping out, the irony completely lost on them. My dream is that one day we’ll create a place where we can exile people that are beyond rehabilitation. Something along the lines of, No Way Out or The Bad Batch.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/12/22 02:07 AM
4

Basically any comment that isn’t a variation of, “kill all men.” I would love it if there was some magic spell that could remove all men and then return them six months later. Any complaints about, “the patriarchy” would disappear for at least the next several centuries.
/r/AntiFeminists23/12/22 06:27 PM
10

This was basically my ex wife, though she worked and made good money. I did everything and all she did was find shit to complain about. So, one day I just left and never came back. I immediately filed for divorce and started dating significantly hotter/younger women (with far better attitudes) and it drove her nuts.
/r/AntiFeminists23/12/22 01:05 AM
1

I THINK I get what you’re trying to ask, but you’re examples are terrible, on there own and in comparison to one another. I think a better comparison would be a man who works as a homicide detective, making $80k, vs a successful real estate agent, making $175k. A lot of women are going to be intrigued by the homicide detective, because it’s an interesting, masculine and bestows upon him special status. Also, American women are (generally) obsessed with murder porn. And, that’s assuming the women…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/22 12:04 AM
1

Sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 03:28 PM
2

Were you raised by a single mother, by chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:12 PM
1

wormen
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 11:10 PM
4

Fair. I feel the same about high n-count women. Shows poor impulse control.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:29 AM
1

That’s a good point. I’ve met tall, good looking dudes, but they’re big time nerds. They could be eight to tens, but they’re have unattractive(to most women) hobbies, don’t exercise (often overweight) dress and groom for shit and have zero charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:26 AM
4

I suppose, in some hypothetical where she had (literally) no other way to make money. But, that’s not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:22 AM
3

Then how do you rationalize rich, famous and attractive men paying for sex? They clearly don’t NEED to pay for it. They’re anything but desperate. I assume they simply don’t won’t to take the time to go out, pick someone up and then deal with them post-coitus. I can make a pizza from scratch, but sometimes I’d just prefer to order Dominoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/22 06:16 AM
1

That was not my point at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 09:16 PM
0

I contend that if she’s creating different hurdles for different men, because a man (or men) that isn’t this (hypothetical) new man, hurt her, then it’s he (new man) that is dodging the bullet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:31 PM
0

Huh? Man, you completely missed my point. Where did I say anything about virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:27 PM
2

…sure
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 12:26 PM
8

That’s totally fine and I commend you. The only (possible) flaw in your plan is, if you’ve not made every man (prior to this hypothetical new man) wait, then you’ll likely never get that commitment (from a guy you’d actually want). Why would a good man put in effort other men weren’t required to put in, to get the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/22 04:20 AM
0

For good or bad, there has been a massive shift in the last 15 years on how people interact romantically. I don’t necessarily agree with OP, but writing him off as myopic because you don’t agree with him seems lazy and rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 06:01 PM
1

Possibly. Hard to know. I’d imagine physical attractiveness was far less important in the past. Especially the first 190ish thousand years. Who gives a fuck if your cave husband is handsome if you’re starving, or you’re getting raped by other cave men? I would venture to speculate that attractiveness only really became important (to courting/marriage) in the last hundred years. You were relegated to a small number of men that lived within a small radius.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:56 PM
-1

Or we could ignore the obviously hyperbolic title and instead address/discuss OP’s statements. Alternatively, make a quick joke about the title and respond to the actual content.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 05:52 PM
1

Great story. For your sake, don’t ever tell that to any other men you date, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/22 03:16 PM
2

That’s a possibility too.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 12:24 PM
1

“Nowadays”? This happened through all of human history.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 09:37 PM
14

Absolutely. Guy won the lottery. If they were to no longer be married (death/divorce), this guy would be alpha-widowed and/or have to accept that his next partner would be several rungs down (in looks) from his current spouse. The dating market is completely different than it was 20 years ago. Your only hope as an unattractive man is to have a diverse social life, be in shape, dress well and be funny and charismatic. This makes me think of the Seinfeld episode where George walks around with his …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/22 06:35 PM
2

Not really. I’ve been in a relationship for a while, but prior to that (late 30s thru 40), I was willing to date anyone older than 21, but no more than 2 years older than myself. The women I dated ranged from 21 to 40. The majority were late 20s to early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/22 12:06 AM
5

I’m no white knight, let’s fight.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/11/22 01:30 AM
10

Equal rights, equal haymakers.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/11/22 01:00 AM
376

Made his week
/r/PussyPassDenied27/11/22 12:59 AM
99

Well, you’re probably not a well off, pretty, blonde chick.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/11/22 12:59 AM
3

I once had a phycologist tell me to avoid women who do not have female friends. Basically, women don’t choose to not have female friends (or only male friends). If a woman doesn’t have female friends, it’s because other women choose not to be around her and that is a giant red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:52 PM
6

Women commit 40% of domestic violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:44 PM
3

Came here to say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 03:43 PM
5

Exactly! She tortured her baby to death and might actually get her freedom one day.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/11/22 12:31 AM
9

Sure. In a plea deal for the murder of an adult. This lady went to trial for murder of her own child. Should be the death penalty IMO. There is no rehabilitation of someone like this.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/11/22 04:23 PM
23

Sounds like a pussy pass granted. She’ll be out in 2/3 that time for good behavior. Why wasn’t it life without parole?
/r/PussyPassDenied25/11/22 02:55 PM
1

Only the blonde chick was a customer, to an employee.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/11/22 02:56 AM
2

No guy (that watches porn) cares if his girl watches porn. Silly post.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 03:40 PM
2

Right? Isn’t it hypocritical of a 5’00 women to prefer men over 6’00?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 06:20 AM
4

Why would I want to duck ugly people?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:31 AM
1

Unless it exclusively involves FMF (I’m a man), then no. It would be an instant deal breaker and I would leave, no discussion. Responding to your edit. If a chick can’t get off to a six incher, then the issue is hers to fix. If it was such an important issue to her, then I’d recommend she get vaginoplasty, to tighten her vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/22 01:30 AM
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It’s gotten to the point that (some) women will agree that a man sleeping with prostitutes is a non-issue, because to shame him would invite criticism of their own promiscuity.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:58 AM
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You can have everything, just not all at once.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 05:54 AM
2

No, it’s not. Everyone has access to alcohol. Only some people have access to on demand casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:58 PM
2

That’s like saying, I have access to a 7 figure trust fund, but I choose not to use it…but I could.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:50 PM
4

Let’s put it in a different context. A 65 year old man needs a new organ to live. So does a 10 year old girl. The girl is immediately ahead of the old man on the transplant list and the old man knows this. The old man is wealthy and uses his money to bribe whomever controls the transplant list to get the organ. As a result, the girl dies. Does the old man have any culpability in the girls death, or was it 100% the actions of whomever the old man bribed? After all, it was that persons responsibil…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 10:48 PM
1

You really think if men suddenly disappeared, there would be no more war? 👌
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 04:34 AM
1

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 11:32 PM
1

You’re right. 6.5.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/10/22 12:56 PM
5

I haven’t dated in a year…but has had 1 to 3 fwb in that time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:19 PM
5

I agree with your sentiment, but women are totally gonna interpret that as, “I just wanna bang.”
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 12:17 PM
4

Too pretty? She’s like a 7.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/10/22 01:26 AM
5

Came here to say this. I once posted a pic (unintentionally) Tia dating app, that really made my arms look good. At least two women I dated, brought up that my arms looked good in the pic.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:09 AM
17

And that chick later went on to murder her boyfriend. Those guys got a 20 mil payday from the school and the prosecutor lost his license.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/10/22 04:31 AM
2

Bottom does not mean position (in this context).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:48 PM
-3

You missed the first line of the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:30 PM
1

tHe pATriARCHy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:28 PM
4

Seems like she didn’t read it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:27 PM
10

Women are accepting of gay men, absolutely. Many women will not date men who have engaged it homoerotic behavior, even if they themselves have delved into such behavior with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 11:27 PM
10

They molest kids, or want to. That’s what’s wrong with them.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/10/22 10:38 PM
11

Minor Attracted Person. Progressive renaming of pedophiles.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/10/22 10:30 PM
16

She got 30 years and is eligible for parole after 15. She killed someone in cold blood and will likely die a free woman. Sounds like a pass to me.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/10/22 09:33 PM
13

Only if you have a low threshold of what is hot.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/10/22 09:31 PM
17

It’s like calling a pedo a MAP. She’s a sex worker. I’ve got no issue with sex workers, but let’s call a duck a duck.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/10/22 09:04 PM
12

Dang. I thought it was the same girl.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/10/22 09:02 PM
6

Damn, she chubbed out. Stress eating maybe.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/10/22 09:01 PM
1

Sound plan
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:36 PM
1

But you are participating by engaging in discourse about it. If you date, then you’d never actually know if you’re engaging in it, since you can never truly know what the other person is thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:25 PM
1

Expected? Absolutely not. Is the man or woman in either hypothetical allowed to feel a certain way about it and decide if it’s a deal breaker? Absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:23 PM
0

Everyone’s a hypocrite. Most women don’t won’t a physically weak, feminine man, when they themselves are generally both. Most men don’t want a muscular woman who acts dominant, when men are generally both. Many men consider chastity (whatever that is in current year) a womanly trait. You can hate that, but it’s ingrained in our culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 08:07 PM
0

More than likely you wouldn’t, but after some time, most women will put themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 07:56 PM
1

It was not forceful, but a freakin 12 year old cannot consent to sex with anyone, nevermind an adult.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/10/22 11:35 PM
0

That’s kind of like a rich person saying money doesn’t make one happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 11:35 AM
1

I’d say that the ability to hire an escort doesn’t guarantee access to kinks either. Most escorts aren’t going to engage in the more risqué kinks, at least not without seeing the guy several times prior. Many aren’t going to do choking or anal (or anything physically harmful). And there is an obvious monetary barrier to that as well. You’re talking thousands.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:24 AM
11

But it’s nice to have the option.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 06:20 AM
1

Not automatically. It’d have to legal, plentiful (with attractive women) and cheap. I also wouldn’t go as far to say women wouldn’t have any sexual power. They’d just have less power.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 08:47 AM
2

I agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:47 PM
3

The post is ambiguous. I’m not sure if OP means an extramarital affair or that they were just lovers. Either way, I think it’s meant to have happened prior to the current relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:41 PM
2

You’d be surprised. I’ve seen this exact scenario pop up on a relationship sub and there were more than a few that stated that the woman had no obligation to reveal any part of her sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:30 PM
2

I think the affair was supposed to have happened before your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:27 PM
1

You’re proving my point. You’re equating getting used by a guy that is equal to or better looking than you, to sleeping with someone you aren’t attracted to, out of desperation. Your suggestion shows how much you don’t get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 10:28 AM
1

I’d even argue that the top 30% to 20% of women get more attention than the top 10% of women. Men will try more with women they think they might have a chance with. Most 6/7 guys aren’t shooting their shots with dimes, they’re going after 7/8/9s.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:52 AM
7

Dating as a 6.5+ woman is a breeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/22 09:41 PM
5

I think something a lot of women don’t understand that a man’s size, relative to themselves, is not a good indicator of the disparity between their levels of strength. The average man is around twice as strong as the average woman.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/10/22 11:12 AM
2

It’s not. It’s just that women (most anyways) don’t understand the concept of not being able to get sex at all. It’s like when a miserable rich person says money doesn’t buy happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:24 PM
1

And twice on Sundays
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:22 PM
1

Men: lies Women: very true
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/22 05:20 PM
9

Maybe watch the video. Guess you’ll claim they CGIed the gun into her hand.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/09/22 10:23 PM
13

Wish she slapped her. Police definitely would have looked the other way.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/09/22 06:21 AM
51

All right cool. Don’t ever call them then. For any reason. Provided you don’t speed or otherwise drive like an asshole, your interaction with them should be zero.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/09/22 06:53 PM
19

Exactly. What appears to be a mundane action by you, might be interpreted as (potentially) hostile to an officer. It’s like people have never seen a movie where some charismatic psycho charms an officer into dropping his guard, only to kill the officer.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/09/22 06:52 PM
4

That’s a straw man argument. JFK was decades younger than both of the other men. Trump was objectively attractive when he was young. Women can absolutely be attracted to other characteristics than physical beauty. There are loads of hideous male musicians that women throw themselves at.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/22 12:57 AM
1

You hit the nail on the head. Anyone is capable of cheating. There is that perfect set of circumstances that everyone would do it (ie you’re drunk and your celebrity crush wants to bed you). Avoiding situations where you’ll be tempted is key. Going to a party hotspot, known for its beautiful people, without your SO, falls well within an unnecessary situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:43 PM
3

A woman would not take any girls trip and still be my girlfriend. The only exception might be is if it were a family trip that her mother and other older female family members were attending.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/22 01:32 PM
2

Fair enough
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 02:01 PM
2

I agree that women are more nuanced when it comes to what they’re attracted to. Respective to men anyways. I once dated (on and off over several years) a woman who thought Jeff Bezos was very attractive. This girl was a 9 (and an easy 10 with her hair and makeup done). His money and power literally made him physically attractive to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/22 01:46 PM
19

Police need to be able to read minds and have doctoral level of mental health recognition. Got it.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/09/22 01:21 PM
1

Best deal she’s gonna get is a 7 short king with a good job.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/09/22 10:57 PM
1

Fatality!
/r/PussyPassDenied19/09/22 10:53 PM
1

God daaaamn!
/r/PussyPassDenied19/09/22 08:15 PM
2

I mean, if she’s drooling over you and you overhear her talking to her friends how you’re the best she’s ever had in very respect, then maybe. But how likely is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:25 PM
6

But, do you want to sleep with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 04:21 PM
1

It was there own internal rules. They held me to the letter of those rules, but when I pointed out that they were grossly violating those rules, I was ignored. There was a shake up with the admin right when my attorney submitted the letter. One of the top administrators had been fired for cause. It took about a day for my suspension to get overturned when they realized their ass was in the wind and had a massive sex discrimination lawsuit looming. It had been two female administrators that did t…
/r/PussyPassDenied16/09/22 03:24 PM
2

Cuz you ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/22 05:24 AM
8

She’s not gonna read this bro.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/09/22 02:55 AM
13

Gotta prove it first. Anything can be a disqualifer.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/09/22 11:00 PM
11

Then you flip the script and accuse them of persecuting you for being gay.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/09/22 10:50 PM
6

Meh, you’re talking about a 100 pound woman passively resisting vs a full grown man actively resisting. Sure, there are instances where police unlawfully killed someone. The numbers are so infinitesimally low, that you cannot draw any conclusions from those incidents.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/09/22 10:48 PM
6

It’s an urban myth. Police kill about 400 to 500 people a year in a country of 320 million.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/09/22 10:45 PM
7

What father?
/r/PussyPassDenied15/09/22 10:42 PM
12

I don’t think so. Also, women are more likely to call out due to personal issues. Unless I thought having attractive female employees would benefit my business (or I owned a large business where it wouldn’t be practical to only hire men), I would exclusively hire men.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/09/22 10:30 PM
9

Maybe the trick is pretending to be gay at work. You won’t get falsely accused if they think you bang dudes.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/09/22 10:25 PM
76

Same. In college, I got blamed for harassment a female student was receiving. I had worked on a project with her and had asked her once to hang out (literally, that’s it). I got pulled in by administration and questioned about all sorts of (supposed) harassment this girl was receiving. I had no idea what they were talking about. I almost got suspended for a semester. Had to get a lawyer and subtly threaten to sue, as the the school had broken all sorts of protocol during their investigation.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/09/22 10:19 PM
-34

Guest was rape…not
/r/PussyPassDenied15/09/22 12:06 AM
46

Boyfriend was a 100% right. His girl can deny reality and break up with him. A few weeks later, she’s going to be dating the same kind of guy as her current boyfriend. Pointing out how things are isn’t misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/22 08:35 PM
19

I’ve never seen an 8+ feminist that wasn’t a celebrity. Hot women don’t need feminism. They’re already living life on easy mode.
/r/AntiFeminists12/09/22 11:57 PM
12

I’d just respond with, “But I still fucked you.”
/r/PussyPassDenied12/09/22 07:40 AM
6

I’d take sole custody over getting child support and having to deal with a pycho ex.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/09/22 03:46 AM
5

“These aren’t my kids”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/22 11:00 PM
2

I agree that what she did was I inappropriate, no matter how you perceive her intent. I don’t disagree with her sentiment, though. Media has been pushing the culture closer and closer to pedo-acceptance for at least a decade now.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/09/22 06:46 PM
10

If you listen to the audio, when she says the last part, it sounds like sarcasm (to me).
/r/PussyPassDenied11/09/22 06:32 PM
7

High school
/r/PussyPassDenied11/09/22 05:43 PM
70

The teacher claimed she was being sarcastic. I listened to the audio of the incident. Honestly, she may actually have been being sarcastic. Either way, she’s a dumbass for talking about it in class.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/09/22 07:45 AM
8

Surprised that they’re firing a teacher of this radical left wing belief? Not at all.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/09/22 07:40 AM
14

How else is she gonna justify her transage -polymorphic-generweird-neovegan quasi-partner, of jerking it to kiddie porn?
/r/PussyPassDenied11/09/22 07:38 AM
14

It is on much of Reddit. They’re declared “real” women and a woman doesn’t need to tell a man she’s a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 11:12 PM
1

I’ve met plenty of women who would prefer a guy with a low body count. I guess they’re uncles too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 05:45 PM
3

When you make jokes about child rape, you’re diminishing the seriousness of what happened.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/09/22 02:49 PM
5

This guy gets it.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/09/22 02:45 PM
4

It is in some states.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/09/22 02:45 PM
1

All evidence to the contrary.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/09/22 02:44 PM
10

That’s true in most instances. No 8 year old is choosing to be a vegan.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/09/22 02:42 PM
6

I have no evidence to back it up, but with the advent of smart phones and social media, it’s so much easier to get caught. Not to mention, the culture has shifted (for good or bad) and these kinds of claims are taken more serious. Therefor, male predators have reduced in numbers and frequency. Women (especially attractive ones) often think that the rules don’t apply to them and they’ve remained over confident.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/09/22 02:39 PM
2

I got it. It’s just not funny.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/09/22 02:32 PM
-8

It’s irrelevant. You know she’s a pedo now. So why express a desire to bang her? Have you ever heard a woman say, “I so would have banged that guy if I didn’t know he liked to rape kids”?
/r/PussyPassDenied10/09/22 03:06 AM
3

Tell me you support pedophelia, without telling me you support pedophelia.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/09/22 01:35 AM
3

So, you’d fuck a pedophile?
/r/PussyPassDenied10/09/22 01:34 AM
-7

So, you’d bang a pedophile?
/r/PussyPassDenied10/09/22 01:32 AM
9

🤮
/r/PussyPassDenied10/09/22 01:31 AM
19

🤮
/r/PussyPassDenied10/09/22 01:30 AM
2

No problemo
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 02:30 AM
4

I’ll be more specific. Dudes that are in relationships with these women, who later found out they were getting nailed during their dating phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/22 12:58 AM
2

That’s a fair question and is very dependent on the individual situation. I’d say definitely just before/after any sexual intimacy (3rd base+) would be more than reasonable and no person of normal sensibilities would find that as controlling/clingy. I don’t think telling someone on a second or third date, “I only date one person at a time and I would expect the same from anyone I’m dating. If you’re not ok with that, I completely understand, but I don’t think we’d be compatible then.” Personally…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 11:02 PM
1

How does she know? She puts on her big girl panties and asks.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:49 PM
5

If Abby isn’t upfront with Jack that she’s sleeping with someone else, then she lying by omission. That extremely relevant info.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:48 PM
5

It’s not rare at all. Check out the relationship subs. It’s full of dudes in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:42 PM
2

If you don’t, accept the L when they find out and dump you. I would 100% dump someone if they did this. I don’t care if we’d been together for years when I found out. I’d get divorced if I was married.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/22 10:41 PM
11

That’s like saying all gynos should be women and men should be barred from the position.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/09/22 10:37 PM
36

What if it paid six figures and required little work?
/r/PussyPassDenied08/09/22 10:34 PM
12

She’s not gonna see this bro.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/09/22 05:56 PM
2

I read that wrong too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 03:56 AM
-1

Then I would say you lack empathy. If a woman left her husband because he refused to be affectionate with her (ie treated her like a platonic friend that he had sex with) I would absolutely not judge her for it. What do you mean, “divorced his wife for sex”? That’s very ambiguous. No sex? Not enough sex? Not the kind of sex he wants?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:55 AM
1

I’m not demanding a virgin. I’m simply responding within the parameters of your hypothetical. It would be me asking her to engage in a standard act that is done in 99.9999% of marriages, vs her asking me to do a very non standard act. No, I wouldn’t even entertain the thought of being pegged.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:50 AM
0

I don’t think I’m going to get that and I’m not trying. I’m answering your question from this comment thread. I currently have a submissive and sexually adventurous woman. She wasn’t a virgin when we met.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:47 AM
1

Man - yes Woman - no Why? Because I live in the real world. As a man, I can do it with little to no consequence. As a woman, my reputation and ability to get a quality partner would be diminished.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:42 AM
1

By that logic, any sex is unnecessary. Oral is 100% an expectation in any romantic relationship in 2022. Pegging is not. You’re reaching to try an prove your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:39 AM
-1

Then I wouldn’t be with her. Period. And most Christian religions do not teach that sex is only for procreation. That is ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:37 AM
0

Fellatio (and cunalingus) are definitely considered relationship/marriage pack-ins.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:35 AM
0

The answer is yes, with an asterisk. She’d have to be very traditional and submissive. At least an 8.5 face/body. Be willing to marry within 18 months. Be enthusiastic about standard sexual acts (piv, oral, various positions) and open to trying more risqué sexual acts (anal, light bdsm, dirty talk).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:22 AM
-1

That’s such a straw man argument though. PIV sex is an expected pack in of any marriage. Pegging is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:14 AM
1

No, but I would have sex I was indifferent about to please my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:11 AM
9

Exactly. OP is acting like it’s not relatively easy to get out of a new marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/22 02:00 AM
82

If you look like a sack of potatoes, sorry you don’t get to have a height requirement.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/09/22 10:22 AM
5

Are women so deceitful that they can’t be honest about this subject?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:44 PM
4

If 6 inches isn’t enough for you, you’re the problem. Start doing kegels or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:41 PM
1

Definitely after the threesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 03:34 PM
26

Not really. These women are super models and probably make mid six figures. They travel the world on company money. They definitely don’t need him for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:34 AM
2

You’ve got jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 08:33 AM
1

Hard to say. The video shows him raising his hand, parallel to ground with his palm out, as if he’s trying to block her from someone else. It doesn’t look like he makes contact with her prior to punching her, post slap.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/08/22 06:38 PM
9

Actually, it does.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/08/22 03:15 AM
15

She’s not gonna see this bro
/r/PussyPassDenied30/08/22 03:14 AM
11

Someone posted a link with the whole video. He did no such thing.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/08/22 03:14 AM
6

Doing the lords work. Bless you.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/08/22 03:12 AM
3

Yeah, that is upsetting. I ended up getting together with a mutual acquaintance of my ex-wife and ours, months after we split. We dated for years after. There was zero interest prior to us reconnecting, after my separation. She was pretty, but while I was married, I never saw her as anything but a friend. Ex tried to make me feel bad about it, but she was straight up an abuser, so I didn’t give two shits about how she felt about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:40 AM
1

All evidence to the contrary, lol.
/r/AntiFeminists29/08/22 02:27 AM
16

It’s weird how we treat teen girls as so divergent from teen males. People can’t conceive that (some of) these girls want to bone an attractive male teacher. They do. I knew a lot of girls in high school that had (non-teacher) boyfriends in their early to late 20s. It’s universally and equally wrong for any teacher to take advantage of a student like that.
/r/AntiFeminists29/08/22 02:26 AM
7

Women cheat just as much, they’re just not idiots about it, like men. I was married. I never cheated, but if I had, I wasn’t so stupid to cold call a chick and ask to bang. There’s a 100 ways that could go wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:09 AM
9

Recently, a co-worker of mine was telling me about this kind of experience. A bunch of friends and acquaintances (some whom were married), straight up propositioned her, immediately after she got separated.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 02:03 AM
1

What’s that got to do with rape?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 01:58 AM
5

To piggyback off this…I believe a lot of women rate their attractiveness off how they look with their hair and makeup done and with flattering clothes on. As if the guy is to going to see her right after she’s gotten out of the shower.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/08/22 02:40 PM
1

10 to 1 your mom cheated on your dad. I feel like I’ve heard this story before.
/r/AntiFeminists27/08/22 03:51 AM
6

Yeah, this ain’t 20 years ago where you could keep this stuff quite. Nothing is secret anymore.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/08/22 11:34 AM
10

Or at least, “sexually assaulted.”
/r/PussyPassDenied26/08/22 11:33 AM
3

Your failing to take into account Asian women. Yes, a lot of white women aren’t into asian men, but Asian women definitely are. If this hypothetical Asian dude lives in an area where there a good number of Asian women AND is an 8, he’s gonna clean up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:20 AM
5

I actually think it should be illegal to provide large loans to certain adult age groups. Say, anyone under 22 y/o. Regardless of whether an adult co-signs. Watch tuition shrink if we passed a law like that.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/08/22 06:41 PM
7

Yeah, years ago, i got a physical. I had recently been training for an event and was in great shape. Serious muscle tone. 5’9 and 165lbs. Doctor told me I was overweight. This doc was about 50 lbs overweight herself. I know her weight wasn’t relevant to mine, but damn, it irritated me, lol.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/08/22 06:39 PM
13

I have zero sympathy for someone who goes to a private school, racks up $200k in debt, just to get a degree, that if they get a job in their field, pays $35k. Zero exceptions. I don’t care that someone got a teaching degree. It doesn’t need to cost $200k. Schools are so hard up for teachers, they’re not gonna give a crap where you got the diploma. That being said, I think teachers should get free tuition to state schools, provided they work at a public school for 10 years after (which is a actua…
/r/PussyPassDenied25/08/22 06:31 PM
37

I’m all for free college tuition…in useful fields.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/08/22 06:24 PM
3

I got permabanned on a relationship sub because I suggested the OP downgrade his girlfriend to a fwb because he found out she had been sleeping with other guys during their talking phase, when she’d given him the impression she was only seeing him. I wasn’t crude about it.
/r/AntiFeminists25/08/22 02:57 AM
9

I’ve literally had women agree to this statement. That it was mutual rape. 🤡world
/r/AntiFeminists25/08/22 02:54 AM
3

Yeah, this instantly makes me think she’s damaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 02:45 AM
4

She’s acting like women have a monopoly on being victims. Men are overwhelmingly the victims of violent crime, to include murder. And if you include male prisoners, men are more often raped.
/r/AntiFeminists23/08/22 01:18 AM
5

Correction, a lot of people are bad at sex. Women think that because most men came make themselves orgasm with their vaginas, that they good at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:27 PM
5

The notion that women took over all industry during WW2 is patently false. Men in key manufacturing roles were exempt from the draft and continued in those jobs. Yes, women did fill in the gaps.
/r/AntiFeminists19/08/22 02:58 PM
58

I have no idea, but this made me think of the numerous instances in sci-fi shows where the main characters encounter a matriarchal alien civilization. In every instance, the men are at best, second class citizens and at worst, slaves. The Orville recently had an episode about this.
/r/AntiFeminists19/08/22 02:52 PM
1

But you have to start from day one, or you’re boned (no pun intended). It’s an all or nothing situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:21 AM
11

I agree. It’s not something you should spring on a woman in the 11th hour. As soon as the topic of kids comes up, it needs to be discussed. Since having this deal breaker, I’ve only progressed to the point where I’ve needed to have this convo twice. I got some pushback the second time. I’m not sure if her feelings softened on it, but regardless, she capitulated and agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 05:13 AM
6

Of the (literally) millions of male doctor/female patient interactions per year, the number is probably very low.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:53 PM
-3

Your first example is a bit of a straw man argument. Anyone (man or woman) shooting their shot in a professional setting is playing with fire. But, if it’s some unique situation where negative consequences are non-existent, then why not? Also, the lone women trying to get home is exactly what OP is talking about. Why not? How does (a man with no nefarious intent) making the woman feel uncomfortable, negatively affect the man? Sure, he’s gonna fail 99 times out of 100, but there’s that 1% chance …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:50 PM
2

I enjoyed the movie overall. It’s probably not the worst in the franchise. 2 or 3 are probably the weakest, for me. I enjoyed them bringing back the OG characters in more than a cameo.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/08/22 02:10 PM
1

He’s being sarcastic. Once in a while they’ll be stories about how a woman justifies her cheating by claiming it was bodily autonomy.
/r/AntiFeminists17/08/22 02:32 AM
1

Now you understand
/r/AntiFeminists17/08/22 02:29 AM
1

That’s you. What’s your point?
/r/AntiFeminists17/08/22 02:26 AM
1

No, it is.
/r/AntiFeminists17/08/22 02:25 AM
1

Yeah, they probably should.
/r/AntiFeminists17/08/22 02:24 AM
2

Which means your sister is actually a racist and a bigot. If you think a minority group should think a certain way because they’re a part of that minority, you’re the problem.
/r/AntiFeminists17/08/22 02:21 AM
0

Or, it’s misandrist on the part of the woman, as she doesn’t perceive what she’s doing as wrong, because of course a young boy would want to have sex with her.
/r/AntiFeminists17/08/22 02:18 AM
2

Remind me how she got famous…her actor/director dad. So oppressed.
/r/AntiFeminists17/08/22 02:03 AM
13

And porn in general.
/r/AntiFeminists17/08/22 02:01 AM
1

It’d be ridiculous to be ok with an 18 y/o marrying anyone. I better question would be if you’d be ok with your 24 year old daughter marrying a man that was 45+.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 12:04 AM
5

Well, men generally don’t roofie and rape long term girlfriends. It’s usually on the first date, or first meeting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:35 PM
6

So, men’s and women’s psychologies are identical and the same sexual experiences will have the same long term effects? All evidence to the contrary that men and women are hard wired completely differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:33 PM
1

Well said
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:28 PM
4

Tell me you support pedophelia, without telling me you support pedophelia.
/r/AntiFeminists15/08/22 08:42 PM
10

She was just there in JW3. They could have easily written her out. I can’t remember a single thing she did that moved the plot of JW3.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/08/22 08:31 PM
19

You could replace her with Jessica in the next JW movie and no one would notice.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/08/22 08:29 PM
3

Well, height isn’t constantly visible. You don’t know how tall the guy is when he is sitting down. In your mind, at what percentage of exposure is acceptable for a preference to not be unreasonable?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 10:03 PM
1

It would be constantly visible to me. I generally look at my SO’s genitals very often.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:50 PM
1

I’m very content with my sex life. Sorry God gifted you a roast beef sandwich for a vagina.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:17 PM
2

Assuming that’s accurate. So, I won’t date women with abnormally large labia. What the problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 09:04 PM
1

Really? So, a woman of normal stature is an idiot because she won’t consider dating a guy who is 5’4? I’m not talking about a few millimeters of labia hanging out, but if she’s full conch shell, that’s a no go.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:57 PM
10

How would my preference be any different than a woman who has a minimum height preference?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:39 PM
1

Picture, hanging roast beef.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:36 PM
-5

I’ve stop seeing women because they have ugly vaginas. It’s clamshell or nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:01 PM
3

Makeup and fake tits
/r/PussyPassDenied12/08/22 05:06 AM
0

Depending on his support structure. Perhaps his parents (and/or other close family) are alive and live nearby.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:20 AM
3

Assuming a man is relatively well off, surrogacy might be cheaper than divorce/child support/alimony.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 03:02 AM
10

A lot of women will tell you. Why? Honesty, stupidity, or arrogance.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 11:57 PM
6

We can say it’s true of a woman who had a threesome with a guy she just met, two years earlier. 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 08:22 AM
2

How do you know if they’re weak from the onset? Do you make them do push-ups or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:53 AM
0

Right. There is a huge disparity between egalitarianism and modern feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 02:52 AM
6

A single tattoo is not the same same have dozens or sleeves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:22 AM
1

And?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 09:39 PM
3

This is highly dependent on the age of the woman. Sub 25, sure. 25 and older, money is more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 07:20 PM
4

Probably. Most of this shit is probably made up, but truth can be stranger than fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:41 PM
7

That’s fair. And that’s literally all (95%) of the guys here are asking for…consistency.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:30 PM
3

Or move out of whatever backwater place you live where men are constantly groping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 08:17 AM
1

From your comments and without seeing you, I’d bet that you are slightly above average, but not objectively beautiful. Meaning, you’re attractive enough to be desired sexually, but not so attractive that the common fella thinks he doesn’t have a shot. I have a friend just like you. She thinks she’s hot because she’s been habitually hit on since a young age. In reality, she’s barely a 7 on a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 08:16 AM
-2

You have to be the most (what I refer to as) approachably attractive woman then. Meaning, you’re the perfect combination of good looking, but not too good looking, mixed with a friendly demeanor.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 08:08 AM
8

And let’s say he’s not just goofing around and is genuinely being an asshole…he’s talking to himself (narrating the video). Who. Fucking. Cares? Seems like you’re trying to diminish her responsibility by painting him in a bad light.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/08/22 04:47 AM
13

Yes and no. If you want to take a close up, posed shot of a cosplayer, sure. But there is a difference in etiquette when it comes to far shots. Also, he’s not videotaping anyone in particular, or in close proximity to anyone. They’re outside and in a public space. He’s documenting an event where people are making a spectacle (cosplaying) of themselves. He did nothing wrong. She’s just a twat.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/08/22 04:39 AM
59

All the men
/r/PussyPassDenied01/08/22 04:33 AM
1

No, all other things beIng the same, I put them in the same category as childless women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:42 AM
2

Reddit is pretty rife with stories. I don’t think it’s necessarily a phenomenon exclusive to male doctors. A lot of people trade up when they suddenly have the option to do so. You see it among women have have huge glow-ups. It’s so common after lat band surgery, that a lot of doctors council their patients about it before the surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 12:41 AM
10

Sure, if they’re right in your face, I could see that as antagonizing. That doesn’t appear to be the case here. The guy isn’t focused on anyone in particular and his commentary isn’t derogatory and appears to be narration for the video.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/07/22 11:41 PM
28

You have no expectation of privacy in public, regardless.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/07/22 11:00 PM
49

Exactly. Man or woman, unless someone is about to be murdered or kidnapped, I’m not getting involved.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/07/22 10:58 PM
3

It’d be great if it worked that way. Male doctors are notorious for leaving their wives after finishing school/residency, for younger/hotter women.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 10:51 PM
1

Probably a lot more now. People in the west are growing up with modern nutrition and medicine. Smoking is no longer the norm. A lot of Gen Xers, Millennials and Gen Zers are gonna make it to their 100s.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:01 PM
2

Or be open to a one sided open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:57 PM
1

I think the issue is when the sex Inexplicably drops off, with no quantifiable contributing factor (for example, massive weight gain by the HL partner).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 08:52 PM
-1

She looks 3 months prego
/r/PussyPassDenied30/07/22 02:21 AM
1

I think it’s more clout for the girl than her actually being more attracted to a guy that’s 6’2 over a guy that’s 5’11. You can’t be more attracted to an asset you can’t even detect. It would be like having a blood type preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:49 AM
3

It’s my experience that people shorter than me, believe me to be taller than I am. I’m 5’9 and have been asked if I’m 6’ by shorter men and women. My point is, most women aren’t going to be able to tell the difference between a 5’11 guy and a 6’2 guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:05 AM
2

Looks good for 5 more years (max), where the 20 years old has triple that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:25 AM
1

What kind of bug?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:42 AM
1

I would still be friends with her, I however, would not date her.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 05:07 PM
2

How is jerking it to clothed pics of kids a crime? It should be and those people should be thrown into the ocean, but no where in the US is it a crime. How would the kids possibly find out? My point is, you can do a thing that isn’t illegal or harmful and that action can still be bad. But instead of debating my point, you try to poke non existent holes in my example.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 05:06 PM
1

So, if it’s not illegal and no one was mentally/physically harmed, then you cannot use that info to judge them in any way? So, you’d be friends with someone who masturbated to clothed pictures of young children? They’ve not harmed anyone, nor committed a crime.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 03:34 PM
1

I’ve dated extensively and in every long term relationship, the woman has brought it up.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 03:31 PM
8

By not answering, you’re admitting that it’s a lot. No 27 year old woman with three notches is going to decline to answer, because she knows thats a reasonable number. At least by answering, it’s a possibility the guy might be ok with it. He might be expecting her to say 50, when it’s actually 15 and he’s ok with that.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/07/22 03:30 PM
5

Middle aged moms can’t be hot?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 09:18 PM
2

I’m guessing you live a pretty sheltered life then. I live in a large city with a lot of “urban” areas. Women throwing fists is extremely common here.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/07/22 09:14 PM
1

It’s, “Miss”.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/07/22 09:12 PM
2

Don’t forget to feed your horse today.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/07/22 09:11 PM
2

Then you’re an egalitarian, not a feminist.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/07/22 09:04 PM
1

That was egalitarianism with a focus on Women’s rights. Today, women have institutional equality…actually, they have institutional privilege in many cases.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/07/22 08:58 PM
1

I really think a lot of women don’t really understand the disparity in strength between men and women. Just because a woman is of a similar size doesn’t mean she’s even close to his level of strength. A chimp is far smaller than an average man, but typically, twice as strong as that man.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/07/22 08:55 PM
1

Welcome to Reddit.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/07/22 08:49 PM
6

Right? She will see right through any excuse. Your stomach issue just happens to coincide with the moment she took off her clothes…completely believable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:07 PM
2

Would I in this specific hypothetical? Yes, probably. Not in every circumstance, but probably 90% of the time. Been there, done that and got the t-shirt. Either way, the girl is gonna be hurt. You’re taking the path of least resistance and the lesser of two evils. And the silver lining is, I’m still getting laid. What does that have to do with standing up for myself? That’s just a silly statement. No one is pressuring me to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 10:05 PM
7

You really don’t think she’d see right through that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 08:00 PM
2

This reminds me of Reddit story a while back. In a nutshell, a guy ran away from a critical incident, abandoning his girlfriend and young nephew. Neither was hurt. She summarily dumped him. The majority were stating he did nothing wrong and his girlfriend was a turd for dumping him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 07:34 PM
5

So, the title should be, “If Your Wife Is Old AND Sucks AND You Can Jump Ship to Something Better, Then You Should”.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:12 AM
2

Like 75% of the time…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:08 AM
6

Duty sex. Undesired sex with a long term partner. Either out of obligation, or so the partner won’t leave/cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 02:04 AM
11

You’re a mutant
/r/PussyPassDenied01/07/22 10:05 PM
4

Yeah. I looked it up.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/07/22 10:01 PM
5

Dang. I might have sprung for some Applebees. If she’s sending nudes, she’d dtf. And what a moron. She’s a mom, sending strangers nudes. All it takes is one bad dude to blackmail her with those.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/07/22 07:31 PM
158

Looks like a sack of potatoes with glasses, but demands one of the 4% of men that are 6’2 or above.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/07/22 04:16 PM
13

Which makes no sense. Let’s assume the boy was homosexual and “consented” to sex with the adult man. What is the difference? Literally none. Rape.
/r/PussyPassDenied01/07/22 02:56 PM
1

What’s the point of correcting the waiter, except to communicate to your date your lack of romantic interest in him?
/r/PussyPassDenied30/06/22 05:57 PM
4

That’s why the dad bod is so (allegedly) popular. It’s not that it’s more aesthetically pleasing than a fit guy, it’s because it’s a happy medium between fit and fat, where the woman doesn’t feel like the guys body will attract competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 01:51 PM
11

Lib logic
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/22 04:43 PM
3

You do you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:39 AM
1

They’re gonna say whatever they have to go sleep with pretty girls. They might even kind of believe it too, because PCness is shoved down their throats at school. Two years out of uni and they’ll either be right wing or just not give a crap about social issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:38 AM
1

Then I’d bet you hide your more “radical” ideas from him. No guy getting hit on by models is dealing with this nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:25 AM
3

You act like you can’t take 20% of his net. Just make sure you don’t let any poor dudes nut in you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:23 AM
1

Attractive to you, or attractive to most women? Men with options rarely date feminist types. There’s always the exception though.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:21 AM
1

Pretty much
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:43 AM
3

Obviously we didn’t have apps. No smart phones. You know what I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:36 AM
3

They were around, but only it was scene as desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 04:21 AM
1

Not talking to some rando on the street when you’re by yourself, I understand. Makes sense. He should know better. Refusing to engage someone when you’re out with several friends, just because someone you know doesn’t know them, just comes off as paranoid. I don’t know your story. Maybe you were assaulted by a stranger. For the majority, your attitude comes off as snobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:18 PM
9

It was awesome. We had it made in the mid 2000s. You could still cold approach without it being weird AND we had text/social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:15 PM
2

In your personal or professional life has your spidey-sense ever failed you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:13 PM
20

The end
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:11 PM
15

Or you’re over 35 and it’s completely normal, because we came up in an age where it was very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:10 PM
4

I can’t imagine being so elitist that I refused to speak with strangers that weren’t already part of my circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 10:09 PM
1

That’s why just about every action hero is (or looks) 35+. People are attracted to experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:46 PM
1

100s
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:45 PM
1

If said woman can honestly say she never doubted my fidelity and/or took any action to verify said fidelity, then we can talk. 99% of women cannot make that claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:42 PM
17

Unless you live in France.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 04:40 PM
–

Yes, but there are no criminal consequences. You don’t go to jail like you would for non payment of child support.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:15 AM
19

Baby Moses laws are NOT the equivalent to adoption. You’re being willfully ignorant if you’re conflating the two. Adoption is a legal process where (presumably) both parents surrender a child to another family. Baby Moses laws are a legal loophole that was created so parents don’t murder their unwanted babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:33 AM
26

How is a mother leaving a baby at a fire station not abdicating her responsibilities, but a father walking away is? That’s some sexist bs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 05:11 AM
–

Semantics. If a man “aborts” his child, the same logic applies, correct? He’s just leaving it in the care of the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 04:11 AM
–

But can’t women abandon a baby without consequence via baby Moses laws?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:39 AM
–

Yup! I’d rather my tax dollars go towards paying for bastards, than probably 75% of what it’s going towards now.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 03:38 AM
7

No my problem that she’s bad at picking dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 02:26 AM
0

Tsk tsk
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:12 PM
0

There’s nuance, of course. If you can’t understand the difference between a fully clothed picture and one where a someone is provocatively posing in a thong bikini that barely covers their nips, then I can’t help you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:11 PM
-2

My point is, there are absolutely things you don’t do while in a relationship , that you do while single. Your analogy is bunk. What’s binge eating have to do with fidelity?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:07 PM
3

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:57 PM
1

I have sex with various people while I’m not in a relationship. I do not do that while I’m in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:57 PM
14

You can tell she’s an empowered woman because her arms are crossed.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/06/22 11:36 AM
-1

That aspect of your life is easier. Just as there are things that are tougher.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:43 AM
0

I’m good. Sex isn’t an issue for me, but I can sympathize with anyone (male or female) who can’t get it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:38 AM
3

Read it quick and missed “casual.” Excuse me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:37 AM
0

Well, you’re not most people. Most people desire sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:26 AM
2

I get that men and women are different and thus want different things, but a lot of guys would trade their left testicle to be able to get casual sex with a woman that is above there looks match. I say, it’s better to be lonely, but not horny, than lonely and horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:26 AM
2

But imagine having all your issues AND not being able to get sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:21 AM
2

That’s about 99% more than a 5 man would get. I’m not even being hyperbolic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 02:20 AM
1

🤣
/r/PussyPassDenied09/06/22 08:25 PM
9

You have pretty low standards for, “hot.”
/r/PussyPassDenied09/06/22 07:59 PM
1

I don’t. The point is that the the rejected person might see it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 03:11 PM
2

Geez, you completely missed the point. It’s not about how YOU feel. It’s about how THEY feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 12:59 PM
6

Reasons
/r/PussyPassDenied07/06/22 03:53 AM
1

Why’s that? A woman might want an assertive man, but not be assertive herself. It’s the same kind of standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:00 PM
1

Possibly true in some (maybe even most) cases, but not all. A lot of people (men and women) cheat because they’re selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 02:39 PM
5

I agree. It’s everyone’s responsibility to ensure their own safety.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 11:32 PM
1

Diana Prince has entered the chat
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:28 PM
17

No, he’s saying he’s at a higher risk of being physically assaulted (hit, bludgeoned, stabbed, shot).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:33 PM
18

As a man, you’re not even taking on a higher risk of being physically assaulted. In fact, the risk would go down. You would be taking on a higher risk of being raped. Sure, you can take precautions, but you can’t foresee every possibility, so the risk would be there. Depending on your age, appearance and socioeconomic status, the chances of an average woman (or in this hypothetical, a man) being trafficked is pretty slim.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:31 PM
0

If I were currently single and the payoff was virtually unlimited sex with women that are significantly better looking than me, I would absolutely take on that risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:24 PM
32

Well, they’re not using enough (or the right kind of) force and thus, look like fools.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/06/22 09:18 PM
44

I’m sure a few years ago, this became a profitable side hustle for a handful of fellas.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/06/22 02:00 PM
3

But her personality and overrides her physical attractiveness.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/05/22 10:44 PM
6

In other words, she wants some producer to waste millions of dollars on a movie that will lose money.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/05/22 10:42 PM
3

“I’m 18 and my 47 year boyfriend wants me to get an abortion.”
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:03 AM
2

That place blows. Its extremely gynocentric and people are straight up rude. I got perma banned after I told a guy to downgrade his new gf to a fwb because she was messing around when they weren’t technically exclusive. I wasn’t even crude about it. I have no idea what rule I actually violated, as I’d posted almost identical comments probably a dozen times before.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 03:03 AM
3

Because when you dress provocatively, you are inviting romantic interest. Every woman over the age of 16 knows this. And let’s not pretend that showing a little cleavage is the same as half your underboob hanging out a high cut crop top.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:58 AM
3

Unless you’re a hot girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:53 AM
4

Not when it’s factually incorrect.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/05/22 08:07 PM
14

I feel like lizard people are at the top of the pyramid.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/05/22 01:38 AM
3

“Verbal assault” isn’t a crime. At least not in the US. Unless you’re conveying a threat of eminent bodily harm. Equating words with actual physical abuse, dilutes the term, “assault.”
/r/PussyPassDenied12/05/22 05:54 AM
7

I actually think we should go in the opposite direction and rename the sub, r/amberhearddenied.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/05/22 01:10 AM
9

Indeed
/r/PussyPassDenied10/05/22 01:09 AM
16

Let’s see her without a pound of makeup
/r/PussyPassDenied07/05/22 01:20 PM
2

Ok…where’s the proof? She was clearly recording a lot of these interactions, yet not once did he physically threaten her.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/05/22 11:51 PM
3

How is that directly threatening to her if they were sent to other people? And it could be easily argued that he was being hyperbolic. She actually assaulted him and directly threatened him.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/05/22 11:35 PM
3

This is a civil trial
/r/PussyPassDenied06/05/22 04:51 PM
52

The people that are saying they’re both trash infuriate me. I will preface, that I have not seen every minute of the trial, but all the bad behavior from Johnny seems reactive and none of it is physically abusive or (directly) threatening.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/05/22 03:35 AM
1

You’re welcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 06:00 PM
3

“I’m in a relationship and I don’t feel it’s appropriate for us to be friends anymore.” Then, ghost.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 12:00 PM
2

What are mem?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:34 PM
4

He WAS
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/22 08:25 AM
1

Like everything, it just depends. I’ll take Michael J Fox as an example. He’s always had that boyish (good) look. Some women probably think he’s very handsome while other wouldn’t be into his softer features.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 11:48 PM
3

Ok…and if he doesn’t and starts beating the kid? Seems like it’s not worth the risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 08:26 PM
7

In some weird hypothetical where the “father” is forced to raise the child, knowing it’s not his…do you really think that’s a good environment for the kid? At a minimum, the kid will probably suffer massive emotional abuse and neglect from the “father.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:42 PM
6

Surprised no one mentioned this until now. OP is acting like the the woman can’t pursue the biological father for support.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 07:39 PM
4

I don’t even think hardcore Abrahamic religions believe this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/22 03:10 PM
1

lol, what? Do you know what sub you’re on?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 09:38 PM
1

To me it communicates that we’re definitely not having sex. That very well may not be what she’s intending, but I’ve spoken to enough women that have explained that’s why THEY pay or split a bill on a first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 08:50 PM
2

But he is. And society has conditioned him to think it’s not serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 03:43 AM
2

That’s a good point. Men don’t always fight back due to the risk of being labeled the aggressor. Tiger was at the height of his career and was no doubt a strong guy. I’m sure he could have knocked her daylights out if he wanted to. Hopefully, that incident helped him in his divorce. Unless you’ve got a prenup that outlines consequences to infidelity, the courts (in no fault jurisdictions) could give a flying fuck about cheating, but they sure as hell care about (provable) physical violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 09:59 PM
1

Agreed, but some seems to be more socially acceptable than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 09:54 PM
1

That’s not something I’d be interested in doing. If she’s shit on a guy, I wouldn’t want to do that either. Now, would her participation in a MFM threesome be a deal breaker? I don’t know, as it’s never come up. I’ve done FMF threesomes, so it’d be a little hypocritical of me to be super judgey about her doing what is essentially the same thing. I don’t think that in of itself would be a deal breaker, but if I was unsure about the relationship already, that info might be enough for me to call it…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 08:22 PM
6

There are all sorts of (non-sex related) hypocritical rules to hetero dating. Women only seem get upset about the ones that don’t favor their gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 08:17 PM
2

It’d depend on the circumstances and context.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 08:04 PM
1

I’m not sure. You’d have to ask gay men. Probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 07:50 PM
7

Dude, I wish I was gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 07:49 PM
-2

Again, it’d depend on the circumstances. I cannot say absolutely either way. Let’s say it’s a situation where she had a panic attack mid threesome and was disgusted with herself after the fact…I might be understanding of THAT and not insist we do it as well. However, let’s say she did it enthusiastically, enjoyed it in the moment, but didn’t want to do it again (for whatever reason). In that case, we’re doing it too (within I similar timeframe she did it with the previous guy), or we won’t be da…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 07:49 PM
3

It’s my understanding that woman are more likely to introduce/use a weapon against a man than vice versa. I’d have to do research on the severity of injuries between men and women assaulting each other, but I’d venture to guess that women tend to suffer worse injuries since men are usually, bigger, stronger and more resilient.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 07:41 PM
1

And at least 40% of men are domestic violence victims (which is massively underreported).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 06:24 PM
15

Gay men don’t count, lol. Y’all have your own rules that are so different from hetero relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 06:22 PM
-1

It’d be a case by case basis (entirely dependent on the circumstances and frequency) and she would 100% have to be willing to do it with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/22 06:21 PM
1

I can’t imagine trying to force someone to remain celibate. I’d be so thankful that they didn’t leave. If I were the paralyzed one, I’d tell them that if they absolutely wanted to stay, the relationship was now open on their side. Just do it on the DL and don’t embarrass me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 06:43 AM
0

Ok. If you’re happy being celibate your whole life, you do you boo-boo. In this particular scenario, the SO is paralyzed from the neck down. Altering the hypothetical by changing the disability to something less life altering is just a straw man argument. I’m not saying I’d jump down their throat about opening the relationship the day after they became paralyzed. A year later seems reasonable. Even if it’s the last concern, it’s a concern that will need to be addressed at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 06:39 AM
1

I think a better question would be, would you stay and if you did, would you remain faithful? Personally, if I stayed, we’d have to drastically alter the terms of our relationship. It’d have to be some kind of one sided open relationship, where I was allowed to maintain casual romantic relationships. I would absolutely offer the same if i was the disabled person and my partner insisted on staying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:47 AM
1

I’m pretty sure most of the people here are lying to us, or to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:42 AM
1

Just what I was thinking. If someone expected me to be celibate the rest of my life (depending on my age whenever this happened), I don’t think they really loved me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:37 AM
15

Fucking the better looking kids.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/04/22 09:12 PM
6

You’re being willfully ignorant and ignoring the fact that (in this hypothetical) she lied about having done those acts. Literally every rebuttal is ignoring that. It’s extremely important.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:14 AM
12

That doesn’t sound like my problem. Unless he used physical force or threatened her to gain her compliance, then it was a choice. If she chooses not to do those things with me, then we simply will no longer be together.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 05:07 AM
3

That’s exactly what I was thinking about.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/04/22 11:58 PM
118

Male abuse is a joke…literally. Women hitting men is seen as funny. 40% of domestic violence victims are men.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/04/22 06:47 AM
1

A man under any (or most circumstances)? Yes. A woman who has been in long term relationships and the guy (or girl) didn’t cheat? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 06:40 AM
6

That’s a good point. As an ugly dude, you can become wealthy and find an attractive woman that is willing to sacrifice looks for resources. As an ugly woman, the best you can hope for is an even uglier guy settling for you while her jerks off to pornstars.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 10:48 PM
5

Buy a bunker now, get poon later.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 10:45 PM
1

Not until human androids that are almost indistinguishable from real people are created.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 10:44 PM
11

You can turn off that gas light. No one’s falling into that trap. You’re being willfully ignorant by equating a traditional woman with a fuck doll.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 01:11 AM
8

You can absolutely be passionate with a personality AND submissive. I’ll double down on what the other commenter said, “I don’t think you’ve ever dated one.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 01:05 AM
7

Good point. It’s like a job. Am I going to put the same amount of effort into a menial job that pays $40k, as I would a high status job that pays $150k? Heck no. The lower paying job gets just enough effort so that I don’t get fired and if one day it’s not even worth that, I’ll fuck around and get a paycheck until I get fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 01:02 AM
2

Well, he was borderline retarded, so I’ll cut Gump some slack.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/22 12:39 AM
4

Exactly this. I guarantee that this person has some sort of preference when it comes to physical features. And if she has even one preference, then she’s a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:19 PM
1

And have periods out his penis.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:16 PM
5

It’d be a deal breaker before and during the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 10:16 PM
1

But…would he fuck you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:18 AM
3

I’d gladly let my dog see my gf naked if it made him (or her) happy. Shit, dude can watch us fuck. I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:17 AM
3

Unless your name is Smurfette, there is no reason a woman’s only friends should be men. It’s indicative of something being very wrong with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:14 AM
5

Sorry, the ones supporting pedophelia lean in a different political direction.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/04/22 10:10 PM
2

You don’t think the teen girls that are bopping dudes in their 20s aren’t bragging about? They are.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/04/22 10:09 PM
5

I think at a bare minimum, anyone would be obligated to reveal if they’ve ever been a prostitute or porn actor.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 05:13 AM
4

Details
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 05:06 AM
7

At what threshold (if any) is one obligated to provide their sexual history, unsolicited?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 05:06 AM
1

Have you ever seen the movie, The Invention of Lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 05:01 AM
14

Twitter is the same thing. As long as you’re some combination of a female, a minority, or left leaning, you can spew hate with little to no repercussions.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 05:30 PM
3

No shit. What’s your point? If you’re getting your ass kicked, is your primary concern whether they have a dick or a pussy?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 04:03 PM
7

Quite possible. Doesn’t that sentiment echo OP’s point that very often women place themselves in the path of dangerous men, when there was ample warning that said men were dangerous?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:55 PM
2

And?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:51 PM
4

“You” So I’m responsible for all men’s actions? And factually inaccurate. Women commit about 40% of domestic violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:46 PM
2

How is the reason you’re getting your ass kicked relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:44 PM
2

I’m kind of indifferent about what gender is murdering me. I’d just rather not be murdered.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:43 PM
4

Yet we don’t hear about men claiming to be perpetually in fear of other men…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:42 PM
4

How’s that make a difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:40 PM
5

Which is interesting since men are (statistically) more likely to be a victim of violence (albeit in a different context) than women are.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 02:59 PM
2

People will always be compelled to be in relationships. I’m more curious to see what will happen to the abortion debate when artificial wombs become a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 12:36 PM
4

Those were prohibitively expensive to some people, wasn’t instantaneous unless you had it on hand and offered a fraction of the variety that internet net porn does. What a silly comparison. It’s like comparing the Wright brother airplane to a modern fighter jet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 06:28 PM
1

That’s an added variable that’s not included in the original post.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 11:50 PM
2

But in the scenario, both men are willing to commit. Chad/Tyrone doesn’t commit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 10:56 PM
21

I don’t think most are even aware that they’re doing it. It’s just part of their OS that runs in their subconscious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 12:48 PM
1

15 isn’t that many to most men (depending on age). We’re talking about chicks with three figure body counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 05:38 AM
2

1) I live in the US 2) Good luck actually proving that in court. It’s tough enough to prove forcible rape. Sure, if you choke the shit out of someone while you’re having sex and leave obvious bruising, I can see securing a conviction on that, but in case like PurpleKittensRock’s, it would be difficult to convince a jury that he raped her.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 03:19 PM
3

I’m sorry that happened to you. I’m definitely not trying invalidate how anyones’ feelings about certain experiences. I can definitely see how, from your perspective, that was sexual assault. What’s immoral, is not always illegal. Back to my original point. I think a lot of incidents of (what I’ll call) non-criminal sexual incidents, where someone sees the situation as rape, but is not legally rape (like your situation), gets lumped in with bonafide false accusations, which artificially inflates…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 02:24 PM
3

There’s always onlyfans
/r/PussyPassDenied21/03/22 12:05 PM
4

I don’t think it’s so much women lying about being raped, as it is a misunderstanding of what incidents do and do not qualify as crimes. For instance, both parties are drunk and have sex. The woman claims rape afterwards. I’ll provide another (more ambiguous) example. A man initiates sex with a woman, thinking she’s receptive. She is in fact, unreceptive, but gives no verbal or overt physical cues that she doesn’t want sex. The man has sex with her. She claims rape. Regardless of our feelings on…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:05 PM
2

Chiropractor??
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 08:23 PM
1

I know that everybody’s experience varies, but it hasn’t been a hindrance to me. I’m fortyish and I’ve hooked up with good looking women in their early to late 20s. I’m sure I’ve been turned down because I’m balding, but it’s like anything; being heavy, being skinny, having little muscle tone, being short, not having an attractive face, having crooked teeth. Some will care and some won’t. I’m not too worried about chicks under 25. Sure, I’d sleep with them (if I wasn’t in a relationship), but I’…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:18 PM
3

It’s weird to me that Ukraine is being painted as the “good guy.” Both countries suck. I guess when you’re US’s ally, you get a pass in the media.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:48 PM
1

And being bald isn’t a deal breaker to most women. Especially over 30. A mustache would be a deal breaker to most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 06:39 PM
1

I agree with you that the age range widens until maybe a man’s mid 40s. Then it slowly decreases as they get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:24 PM
3

As long as you’ve got good muscle definition, being bald is the female equivalent of having small tits. As in, some people won’t like it, most people won’t care, and some actually dig it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:22 PM
3

Someone needs to a Morgan Freeman voiceover…”This is the moment, she knew she fucked up.”
/r/PussyPassDenied15/03/22 12:24 PM
0

“God lets everything happen for a reason” ~ also Tyson
/r/PussyPassDenied15/03/22 12:22 PM
3

I’d bet money 9 ain’t white.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:47 AM
2

4 isn’t anything to write home about, but she ain’t a 2 (from the pic).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:45 AM
10

I really don’t even think 5 is that great. Make her Hispanic instead of Asian and her hotness drops significantly. People in the US fetishize Asian women to the point where they consider very average looking women to be hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:44 AM
1

Totally agree on 10. I don’t even mind the hair. Lose 15 pounds, throw on a little makeup and she’s hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:41 AM
3

You both need to get your eyes checked (especially you). 9 is gorgeous and 8 literally looks like she has Down syndrome (in that pic at least).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 03:39 AM
2

I’d love to see a breakdown of those numbers correlated to the age and attractiveness of the women. Sure, women under a 5 might have low body counts. What about the 6s through the 10s and women under 35.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 01:05 AM
5

Well, admitting they fucked on the first night. Unless one of them is capable of time travel, I’d say they were being truthful.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:24 AM
0

Seems counter productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:23 AM
11

Lots of women have disclosed their less than flattering sexual history to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/22 12:16 AM
-2

What if you’re a genius level intellect with close to perfect genes? Wouldn’t it be almost unethical not to have a few kids? If anything other than to offset the droves of near retarded people with a myriad of inherited medical issues that breed like rabbits.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:29 PM
3

What if the mom died (ie he’s single due to no fault of his own)? Let’s say it’s 18 months later and he’s past the grieving process.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:24 PM
22

I kind of agree. You’re not really red pilled if you don’t have the balls to demand a paternity test.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 06:32 PM
1

Not as many, but more than you’d think, for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:02 AM
2

I would think that could (partially) be explained by some women looking for a relationship and not a hookup. Many women (people) won’t date someone that they feel they don’t measure up to (financially, authentically, intellectually, scholastically, etc). They assume the person won’t be interested in them long term. It’s why celebrities generally (but not always) stick to dating other celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 04:00 AM
1

But that wouldn’t negate the decades of experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 02:52 AM
2

This is the exact example I use in this argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 08:44 AM
1

They’re funny and got a big wang.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:21 PM
3

Ding ding ding. A lot of women want some hybrid prog/trad dude while being completely progressive themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:48 PM
1

A lot of women care. It’s not just guys. It’s just more socially acceptable for men to be turned off by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:44 PM
1

You’re not refuting anything I stated. Again, as I wrote, this is my personal experience. But 9/10 chicks simply don’t get approached as much as 6/7/8s. It’s just numbers. Most 6- dudes will never approach a 9/10, where as 9/10 guys will approach 10 thru 7- women. A lot of it depends on more than the woman’s looks, like I stated. They’re demeanor, their social status, their attire, their height, etc. I agree, 9+ women are treated well. That doesn’t necessarily mean they’re being asked out as muc…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 06:59 PM
2

Just my personal experience. I’ve dated a wide range of women. Looks (specifically the face) aren’t the most important thing to me. I’ll take a cool as fuck 6 with a decent body over a lame 9. Every girl that was between a 5 and 7 got hit on regularly. Why? Because a lot of guys thought they’d have a chance. I’ve also dated 9s that rarely got hit on. One in particular was 5’10 and looked like a insta hottie. She was almost always dressed well too, which brings me to my next point. A lot of it de…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 07:29 PM
4

99% of guys don’t want, or expect to get a virgin. They simply want a girl that hasn’t been ran through and is willing to do everything she’s previously done with other partners. It’s not rocket surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 05:55 AM
1

She hits the ground first and the dog lands on top of her, only receiving minor injuries.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/03/22 01:32 AM
10

They’re going over the balcony with the dog. “Officers, she was so distraught with killing my dog, she took her own life.” 😢
/r/PussyPassDenied02/03/22 01:30 AM
4

“Reactive abuse” That poor fucking dog
/r/PussyPassDenied02/03/22 01:28 AM
2

Death Penalty
/r/PussyPassDenied02/03/22 01:25 AM
1

My two cents - lower desire for sex combined with the ability (in most cases) to get casual sex whenever they want. It’s my belief that if the majority of men could easily obtain casual sex from women who are their looks match or higher, far fewer men would get into long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:11 AM
22

Yet every relationship I’ve ever been it inevitably comes up. Sure that’s anecdotal, but I think represents the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/22 09:22 PM
2

Not if she’s my age and was never married. I’m old(ish).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 09:19 PM
1

Depends on her age, when she started dating and what she considers a “boyfriend.” A 40 year old woman who has never married and dated since she was 15 could have had that many boyfriends without it being an immediate red flag. Personally, I consider any woman I was dating at least a month and sleeping with to be a former girlfriend, regardless of our official status.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 02:20 AM
1

Divorce stats say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:26 AM
6

Depends on her age and whether she was in a relationship with the men she was sleeping with. All other things being the same, I’d prefer a woman who slept with 8 guys who she was in a relationship with over a woman who had 8 partners that were hook ups.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 12:24 AM
2

I think it’d depend on the woman’s knowledge of the guy. For instance, the guy is a hard 10, but she know for a fact he wouldn’t enter an exclusive relationship and/or 100% would cheat if he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:21 PM
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That’s why we need to remove the stigma around it. It’s not an accusation of cheating so much as it’s getting a home inspection before buying the house. I don’t care if I’m buying a house from the person I trust most in the world. I’m getting that home inspection.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 12:07 AM
1

Hiring a PI to invasively investigate someone based off zero suspicion isn’t the same as confirming a child your about sink 18 years and hundreds of thousands of dollars into, is yours. I mean, you’d get a home inspection before you bought a house, wouldn’t you? You wouldn’t just take anyones word, regardless of how much you trusted them, that there were no issues with the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:25 PM
1

I don’t agree with government mandated paternity tests, but I suppose something could be woven into this hypothetical paternity test law that would require the government to destroy the biological sample or whatever information that identifies your DNA.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:19 PM
-2

Not even close to a related issue, but be happy you got your virtue signal points in for the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:16 PM
3

Sometimes, she doesn’t know, but I agree with the sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:14 PM
9

I can’t speak for every jurisdiction, but where I live, you have 2 years to dispute paternity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:13 PM
5

Instead of mandatory paternity tests, we should de-stigmatize their use. It’s not about accusing your partner of cheating, it’s about knowing with absolute certainty what the mother inherently knows…that the child is absolutely hers. Let’s be real. You can never really know someone. People change. People go years pretending to be someone they’re not. How many stories have we all read on here where a man or woman had absolute trust in their partner, only to be betrayed?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 08:12 PM
15

Was your dick in a hole, cut out of the bottom of the pizza box?
/r/PussyPassDenied15/02/22 11:47 PM
22

It definitely happens. I’ve never met someone in this particular situation, but I’ve met quite a few female, and a few male, hobosexuals.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/02/22 11:45 PM
1

I agree that 10s are super rare. I’m talking about women that are 10s without makeup and their hair in it’s natural (but brushed) state. Most 10 women are actually 7 to 9 without the cosmetics, clothes, hair products.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 06:07 PM
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I don’t see how free porn relates to onlyfans and giving thirt traps money…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:07 PM
1

Despite the movie’s explanation, I don’t think the Matrix was about harvesting human’s bio-electricity. It can’t. Burning whatever they were feeding the humans would have been more efficient power generation. And like you said, if it was just about power generation, then just turn them into vegetables. They wanted humanity awake to study them, and/or gain something from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 02:34 AM
-1

But a lot of the push back from bodily autonomy (ie abortions) is from other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 08:07 PM
1

Not as early as I want…as early as everyone before me.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:49 AM
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But, but, what if I was on Mars when I hooked up with a guy on the first date? Would I have to take every guy to Mars? This lady’s arguments make about that much sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 04:04 AM
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This is a philosophical argument. We’re assuming “she” is being truthful.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:59 AM
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Obligated? Of course not. But, actions have consequences. I think most people understand that you’re not culpable for what you do if you’re mentally ill, so that’s kind of a straw man argument. Generally, you are responsible for what you do when you become voluntarily intoxicated. Lets say you are previously a heavy drinker and routinely hooked up with men quickly as a result. I would give you no quarter. You’re responsible for the consequences of those actions and if we didn’t sleep together in…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 03:08 AM
-5

Off topic
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:49 AM
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Not what we’re talking about and equating kissing to sex is apples to oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:47 AM
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That’s not what we’re talking about, but I think you know that. 95% of the guys here are reasonable and are forgiving of the, “I tried it (literally) once and hated it.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:45 AM
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Regardless of how great (attractive, charming, sexy, nice, funny) a woman is, given the two options, I would much rather be the one night stand she was hot for, than the dude she was making wait months until they were committed.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 02:42 AM
1

In reality, they don’t go after you for missing jury duty. At least not in any late county. It’d take too much effort.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/01/22 08:52 PM
5

Agreed. Erin has a more conventionally attractive face, but I’ll take ugly thin over cute obese any day of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 03:43 AM
13

Your average guys criteria for women; be kind of nice (ie don’t be a bitch), be at least his looks match, don’t be more than 20 lbs overweight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/22 04:38 AM
3

I think people are focusing (too much) on the morality of the situation. Take gender out of it, because the law does not recognize gender in these situations. Imagine it’s a petite man and a large man. Legally, it appears to be straight up self defense. He struck once after being struck twice.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/01/22 04:06 AM
6

Well, I’ve been punched in the face lots of times and punched other men in the face lots of times. I never died and they never died. I’ve also worked around the medical field for over a decade and have seen hundreds of people; men, women and kids, who have been punched on the head and face. Not one died from a single blow from a fist.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/01/22 04:03 AM
2

Sure…unless you have some kind of condition, a punch to the face is probably gonna kill someone about 1% of 1% of 1% the time.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/01/22 03:59 AM
6

You’re not understanding. I don’t completely disagree with you. But people in the real world clearly don’t give a shit about proportional response. If you take it upon yourself to unnecessarily escalate a situation to violence (as it appears happened here), you’re taking the risk that you’re gonna lose badly. And disabled people have special protections under the law. Women (for the most part) do not. A better analogy would be a petite man picking a fight with a large man. In that hypothetical, …
/r/PussyPassDenied10/01/22 03:54 AM
15

Who said I’m siding with him? If he harassed her, he’s an asshole. But if you escalate to violence and don’t expect to get met with violence, you’re naive.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/01/22 03:43 AM
2

Thanks
/r/PussyPassDenied09/01/22 11:13 PM
35

Sexual harassment isn’t cool, but this whole notion that words are violence is bullshit. You wanna deck someone that’s disrespecting you. I’m down. That’s the real world. BUT, once you’ve put hands on someone, you’ve just agreed to mutual combat. Man or woman.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/01/22 11:01 PM
0

You must really be over estimating how much anal sex people are having.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/22 04:53 AM
-3

Show us the stats
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:49 PM
6

I think it’s on the 10th page
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/22 09:48 PM
9

You are judging them and that’s perfectly fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 06:55 PM
4

I was gonna say 3
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 12:33 AM
1

At what age did your sister get with her husband? Was she promiscuous prior?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 06:14 AM
1

There’s not a lot of exposition at the beginning of the series. Most of the protagonist’s story and wold building is sprinkled through the series. For instance, it was revealed in the last season that she wasn’t actually forced into becoming a Handmaid. She was given the option to go to a labor camp instead. Given that the labor camps were located in toxic/irradiated areas, it wasn’t much of a choice. Get raped or die.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:39 AM
1

Eventually Gilead’s fundamentalist attitude would ease as the environment and population stabilized. Progressivism would seep in. Within a century or two, the culture would be unrecognizable and would probably resemble a current year Western Country.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:27 AM
1

The series covers their infidelity extensively.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:09 AM
1

No. She was branded an adulteress as she “stole” another woman’s husband. As a result, she was essentially stripped of her citizenship. I don’t recall how the government knew exactly. Her husband’s ex wife probably told them. She was given the option of a toxic labor camp (essentially certain death within a matter of months), or become a broodmare, as she was known to be capable of having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:07 AM
1

Synopsis is correct, but it’s an alternate history, not the future. Hence technology is on par with current day. Something that I think is lost on a lot of people is yes, Gilead is the antagonist of the story. They’re terrible (except oddly hard left on environmentalism). BUT, they’ll probably be the last man standing (within the continuity of the show) in half a century when other country’s populations have dwindled to unsustainable numbers and they collapse. The show isn’t just warning of righ…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 03:03 AM
1

If I refused to have sex (and let’s say other asexual people didn’t exist), then I’d allow an open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 09:17 PM
-2

Most definitely. It’s a way for pedos to get around the illegality of child porn. It’s basically their version of a Victoria’s Secret catalog. I think his point is, the usual feminist argument regarding promiscuity is, as long as she wasn’t harming anyone, what difference does it make what she’s done, regardless of how deviant. Jerking off to clothed pics of kids isn’t (or hasn’t) harmed anyone, so should be just as judgment proof as a woman’s promiscuity. Disclaimer: I think any pedophile, rega…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:50 AM
5

Or at least have a certain threshold. They might not care that at 35, shes fucked 40 dudes, but might care she had train ran on her, did porn, had crazy sex she now refuses to do, etc etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 06:43 AM
1

So, nuke China and India. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/22 12:04 AM
4

It’s really not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 08:37 AM
4

Came here to say this. Most women are terrible at sex and are doing less than 20% of the work. They think because guys always cum, they’re good. Congrats, you dunked on a play-school basketball hoop. I’ve only been with a handful of women that have actually gotten me off. Extremely few that weren’t long term partners that knew my likes. With the rest, I’m making myself cum with their bodies. Women wonder why dudes will cheat with ugly/fat chicks. Part of reason why is, a lot of those ugly/fat ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:28 AM
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Based
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 05:10 AM
10

And when she says no, you dox her online and accuse her of being an ableist.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 04:25 AM
17

I think the pendulum will swing the other way at some point. Hopefully it doesn’t result in our total destruction?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 01:13 AM
74

Isn’t that why the first few iterations of The Matrix failed? The AIs created a utopia and the human’s minds rejected them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/22 12:56 AM
3

You didn’t understand
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 12:06 PM
1

Wrong person
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 10:25 AM
1

Precisely. Yes, she’ll settle, but not before getting plowed by a few Chads that were hard up come last call.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:46 AM
2

You bring up an interesting point. I’d imagine a very attractive but low libido woman might go for (settle) for a less attractive man. She might believe that a less attractive man will take the trade and/or not cheat, where a more attractive man would either pressure her into frequent sex and/or cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 09:44 AM
3

Probably a combination of you not liking typical African facial features, dark skin tone and the fact that black women are more often overweight compared to other races/ethnicities. The way you go on about combing genes with them makes me think there is also an element of racism and this is not just an aesthetic preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:56 AM
2

Damn. I got half a chub reading that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 03:44 AM
2

My biggest issue with abortion is that only allowing women to “abort” it’s sexist. If a woman can get an abortion for the sole reason of opting out of parenthood, then men should be able to legally divest themselves from financial responsibility of an unwanted child.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:29 AM
1

Really? I’d rather anyone die (including myself), than any baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:26 AM
1

Pre-human
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:25 AM
7

Just proves that men are better at everything, even being women. I kid, I kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/22 01:21 AM
6

Better than nothing I guess
/r/PussyPassDenied29/12/21 06:19 PM
5

A lot of women (as I’ve discovered through various conversations irl and on here) are simply unaware of the power differential between men and women. I think most women’s only experience “fighting” a man is play wrestling with a SO, where the guy is going about 1/3 his actual strength and speed.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/12/21 03:44 PM
1

Says the lady commenting on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 05:28 AM
0

Finally, an on point and honest answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 05:28 AM
24

Super common in low income areas. My job brings me into contact with a lot of them. I couldn’t fathom the actual stats, but the majority I’ve encountered are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 08:36 PM
6

It’s clearly pulled down to reveal more cleavage than normal. Give me a break.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/12/21 11:20 PM
10

Sorry, I disagree. Showing off results doesn’t require half your boobs to be out.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/12/21 09:54 PM
0

It’s actually not…like at all. Internet messages/comments are nothing like sexual assault. And posting provocative pictures on open social media platforms is nothing like going out, dressed provocatively.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/12/21 09:53 PM
2

I’d add that a lot of people aren’t conscious of what motivates them, or function under the misguided notion that they’re intellect completely overrides their biological instincts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:58 PM
2

Agreed. A lot of the responses are, “I’d assume he’s taken”…ok…so you don’t find any man in a relationship attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:54 PM
1

You missed the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:52 PM
2

Girls don’t date hot guys. They date guys that date other hot girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 05:51 PM
5

None of that is even close
/r/PussyPassDenied26/12/21 12:11 AM
16

I’m calling bs. Please cite case law where someone was prosecuted for tricking a woman into sleeping with him under the pretense he was wealthy.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/12/21 09:14 PM
11

Maybe it’s primarily online, where people tend to be more honest with there opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 01:11 AM
85

And it’s hilarious to me that a lesbian not wanting a dick inside her is somehow transphobic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/21 06:57 PM
1

I do agree with the term Alpha bring completely arbitrary. There have famous, but soft AF men, that have drowned in punani due to their celebrity and charms.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 01:26 PM
5

Men and women do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 11:10 AM
3

Then all work is coercion, in which case we’re talking about something else entirely. Unless no other jobs are available (and they weren’t trafficked) then it’s not coercion as it is generally defined.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:53 AM
3

You assume they were in a relationship. You assume the relationship wasn’t unilaterally terminated by the man at the woman’s dissent. You assume it ended due to incompatibility and not logistics.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:51 AM
6

They want to have complete agency until it doesn’t work out. Then, they’re naive, impressionable and have limited or no responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 07:36 AM
1

And trafficking is a valid reason to be against. I just think that how someone uses their own body is none of your, or the government’s business.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:24 AM
2

Is it ok to be someone’s sex toy for free?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:19 AM
1

Based on your personal opinion/beliefs. If you have imperial data to prove your assertion, I’ll look it over.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:13 AM
6

You could make the same claim about a lot of jobs, but you probably wouldn’t classify them as undignified.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:08 AM
1

What does your opinion of sex have to do with anyone else? Yes trafficking happens, but this conversation isn’t about the negative aspects of a particular industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 03:07 AM
1

It’s still prohibitively expensive and most of the women aren’t exactly 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:58 AM
3

So, you want to legislate an act, based on your own personal views of the act? An act, that if done consensually, harms no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:57 AM
-1

You’re not buying them. They’re not fucking slaves that you’re going to take home and rape. You’re buying a service they offer. Like a massage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:55 AM
1

It absolutely can be argued and regularly is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:52 AM
1

So, you agree that it’s ok for men to judge promiscuous women and either not date them, or only date them casually (ie for sex only)?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:51 AM
2

But that’s not always a correct assumption. There have been famous, rich, attractive men that have been caught with escorts. They can pull women easily, but still choose to fuck hookers. Why? Because they’re not paying for the sex. They’re paying them to leave after the sex. It’s a no drama, no strings exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:49 AM
13

Right? It’s a handful of fundamentalist men and 80% of women preventing its legalization.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:46 AM
15

But I thought the feminist/liberal mantra was that sex work is work. If it’s legitimate work, then it is not undignified.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:40 AM
3

I think access to moderately priced AND attractive prostitutes would drastically change things. Most attractive hookers are prohibitively expensive. A lot of reasonably priced or cheap escorts aren’t women you’d even want to fuck for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 02:37 AM
1

I suppose you could pick which “rules” apply to you then.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 11:21 PM
5

Unless you’re homosexual, then I’d say yes. I’d imagine the “rules” for losing your virginity as a homosexual person (man or woman) is a little different.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:49 PM
1

Coercion requires action by another.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 08:16 PM
3

Need of money is not coercion.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:01 AM
9

That’s extra
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 04:00 AM
2

I agree with the last part, for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 11:13 PM
1

You might not. Some people (men and women) do. They’ll settle to not be alone or for a myriad of other reasons (regular access to sex, financial support, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 09:10 PM
1

One can like somebody more, but be less sexually attracted to them than they were somebody else.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 08:57 PM
0

As the OP says (or implies), not every case is loss of attraction, just most.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 07:42 PM
3

Unwanted sex that you consensually do without threat or force, isn’t rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:48 AM
8

Can’t it be either one? Some people on here act like it’s NEVER because she was just more into a prior lover. Like it’s not even a possibility that THAT is the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:41 AM
1

There’s a big distinction between trying it literally once and hating it and having done it on a regular basis (liking it or not) for a previous lover.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 12:33 AM
2

Based
/r/PussyPassDenied28/11/21 09:56 PM
4

She absolutely does not.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/21 09:56 PM
27

Hope she enjoys clams.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/11/21 08:43 PM
7

We still treat domestic violence against men as a joke. It’s still prevalent on TV. As long as it’s out of annoyance and below a certain threshold (ie not injurious) it’s still seen as funny by many. If you reverse the genders and it’s not “funny” any more, you’re wrong, period.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/11/21 06:40 PM
13

Exactly. Then it doesn’t really matter, “how.”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:25 PM
2

You must be a blast at parties.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:23 PM
4

Jebus! That’s hurt to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 01:35 AM
5

So, a 50 year old checking out a 20 year old swimsuit model in Sports Illustrated is “creepy”? Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 05:28 AM
5

I would never date anyone more than a year older than me (or looked older than me) unless they looked amazing for their age (without medical intervention) and had money (significantly more money than me).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:22 AM
2

For me, it’s when they start getting those wrinkles above their upper lip. That’s a no go, but I’m 40ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:17 AM
5

Yeah, but those are the minority. Being 50 and thinking a 20 year old is hot isn’t the same as eye banging a 14 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:16 AM
3

So, they basically become men? 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 03:13 AM
1

I think the lower SMV (for any reason) a man has, makes the likelihood of him cheating go down. Most especially if his SO’s SMV is significantly higher than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/21 09:49 PM
1

Bro!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:51 AM
2

Not even remotely bro
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 06:04 AM
2

How is he? If he doesn’t verbalize that it’s a deal breaker to the woman, then there is no ultimatum. She’s unaware of it, therefor it’s not an ultimatum.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 04:30 AM
1

No, they expect you to be consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:47 AM
1

I agree, but I’d say the equivalent would be ED.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:44 AM
1

I agree that my internalized reaction to it would be different depending on their intent, but I think my response would still be to consider ending the relationship. I’d still be dissatisfied regardless of their reason. Obviously, the length of the relationship and whether I have assets/kids with this person would factor in. It’d also matter if they were willing to supplement piv with other stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:43 AM
1

And how is he doing harm? He didn’t say he was giving them an ultimatum, just that he’d dip if it didn’t happen after a couple weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:37 AM
1

I told my ex gf of 3 years something similar at the beginning of our relationship. Basically, that I wouldn’t be denied intimacy. Unfortunately, I think I was too ambiguous and she took it too literally. I think she misunderstood and that I’d be upset if she ever refused, which simply was not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/21 03:36 AM
8

What nasty ass hooker is letting you raw dog her ass?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 09:14 AM
0

Because the internet isn’t the real world
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 03:05 AM
1

So, precisely what the OP excluded. What else you got?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 02:16 AM
1

It’s really not. It’s an OP issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 11:59 AM
6

Given the two options (all other things being the same), I’d rather be with a former escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 05:20 PM
0

Fair enough, but if she blurted out her number and it was obscenely high (in your opinion), would it make any difference. Would knowing many of the men she’d been with were far better looking/in shape than you make a difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 05:19 PM
3

Whatever the reason, it’s recipe for disaster. Cheating in stay at home dad relationships are higher than the average. Either the dad has too much free time and starts banging stay at home moms that they meet at the playground, or the wife no longer respects the husband for taking on a typically feminine role and looks for a more traditional male.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 03:20 AM
0

Definitely an age thing. I bet all those dudes have low T.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/21 12:40 AM
7

Two dogs
/r/PussyPassDenied29/10/21 05:51 PM
78

I’ve literally never heard a man say anything akin to this. They want a woman who can pay her own bills. That’s literally the bar for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:47 PM
4

Did you read MY comment? I’m not disagreeing with you. My point is, only decent women, that wouldn’t be turned off by crying, (like yourself) are going to respond to OP’s post. I don’t think OP’s post is going to generate an honest conversation, because no woman is going to respond, admitting that she would be turned off by her SO crying. I do appreciate that you make a distinction between a reaction to a beloved pet dying and someone who is a cry baby. A woman who cries over every day stresses …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:43 PM
3

Agreed, but the only women that are going to respond to this post are the ones that wouldn’t react with disgust. What woman is going to admit she’d be turned off by her guy crying?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:32 PM
3

Once a week?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 05:29 PM
17

Jesus of Nazareth
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 06:21 AM
2

Dude is playing 3D chess
/r/PussyPassDenied29/10/21 04:35 AM
165

They want to be CEOs, but not any of the hazardous jobs where men are losing life and limb.
/r/PussyPassDenied26/10/21 04:48 PM
1

I’m working that term in somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 06:57 AM
1

I think it’s (at least in part) that low(ish) SMV women are only attracting low SMV men. Most 5- guys aren’t gonna bother shooting their shot with an 8+ girl. They’re gonna shoot it with a girl that is a 5 to 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:24 AM
10

My bad. You’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:46 PM
21

Not really though. Facial hair is still part of your body.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 04:27 PM
1

A therapist/phycologist//counselor having a relationship with a patient is gross.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/10/21 12:50 PM
16

I agree. I’ve met some pretty progressive women (one of which who refused to acknowledge basic physiological differences between sexes) and they refused to date men who had any kind of gay sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 07:54 PM
9

Good point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 06:57 PM
1

Get another man of equal or greater attractiveness/value.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 12:11 AM
6

Simpsaywhat?
/r/PussyPassDenied11/10/21 12:01 AM
1

It’s literally a word in your comment. Last sentence. LMAO!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 04:21 AM
3

Who is the “we”? I do not and never will pay for porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 04:16 AM
1

She draws the line at poop 💩
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 04:15 AM
1

Skirting the line of immortality, sure. I don’t think it’s any more immoral than leading someone to believe you like frequent sex, only to pull a switcheroo once you’re in a committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 07:10 PM
14

Ass, grass, or cash. No one sleeps for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:30 AM
1

Gotta disagree. It’s not my favorite, but it beats no sew and makes showering together more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:54 AM
7

Right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:50 AM
1

Shower?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 02:35 AM
2

I agree. I think abortion is morally wrong, but I’d absolutely choose abortion over raising a kid with someone I have no interest in being in a long term relationship with. I fully accept that that makes me a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 06:31 PM
0

Doesn’t matter what libs on the internet redefine things to be. You can’t penetrate tits. Not a sexual organ. And if we’re gonna classify them as such, then mens tits need to be classified as the same.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/10/21 06:07 PM
0

Amen
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 05:56 PM
1

Inverted
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 03:39 PM
1

You could argue that legs are too. Imagine how much energy you’d save by not having legs. Also, tumors don’t appear as a result of a conscious choice you’ve made.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:00 PM
5

A woman’s chest isn’t a sexual organ either. Literally the same thing.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/10/21 01:54 PM
1

Right. I’d have fun with her and as soon as she became a problem I’d run. Girl on the left isn’t attractive enough for me to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:40 PM
6

She’ll be getting that sweet CO dick in prison (consensually). 10 to 1 she’ll be prego within the next year.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/10/21 01:26 PM
7

I’m aware. And the very small number that have those tats are almost all stylized in a completely different way that they barely resemble the Nazi version of the swastika. Edit: No one really consider American Indian culture to be Western (ie European) culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:19 AM
4

Some of the women there, specifically mention the tattoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:05 AM
5

Yeah, no one in a western country does that unless they’re a white supremacist. The emblem is intrinsically linked to the Nazis and genocide. Any other meaning the symbol holds/held is irrelevant post WW2.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 12:04 AM
1

I don’t (at least in part) agree with no cruel and unusual punishment. Convicted felons currently in prison should absolutely be treated as slave labor for large construction projects.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 11:35 PM
6

Attractive enough to not give a fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:39 AM
4

Fuck. I wish I was gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:36 AM
1

Doesn’t need no help opening jars.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:34 AM
1

Wouldn’t throw her out of bed for eating crackers, but the muscles are a bit of a turn off. So, would bang, but not date.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 07:32 AM
0

Jokes in them. We don’t care as long as we get to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 02:26 AM
4

And those are primary reasons why men (including myself) prefer younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/21 12:57 AM
2

I’ve wondered. If you took a 500 pound person that is reasonably active, magically removed the fat and loose skin, would they be muscular?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 07:10 PM
0

Not having automatic shared custody (equal or otherwise) of your own child and having to sue for it is discrimination.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:43 PM
2

I really need to explain it to you? An unmarried father is completely at the mercy of the mother (ie woman). How is that not discrimination?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:36 PM
2

So, men are massively discriminated against. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 05:28 PM
5

Absolutely agree. OP said $150 is the minimum, but has never heard of it going over $250. In the US, it’s 20% of your income for one kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:43 PM
5

Sweden, right? Do you happen to know if 50/50 custody is the norm, or do the courts prefer to have a “primary” parent and/or is preference given to the mother?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:40 PM
2

Ok, but not in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:36 PM
2

It’s called the Baby Moses Law. Most, it not all, American states have it. As long as you do it at a designated place (ie a fire station), you can literally abandon a child without legal repercussions. It’s to prevent people from killing their babies. The government would rather you abandon it than murder it (obviously).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 04:36 PM
2

Went right over your head bitch
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 02:34 AM
3

At making babies
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 12:38 AM
2

You can only use that term if you’re a woman though.
/r/PussyPassDenied30/09/21 04:55 PM
13

This will absolutely work. I’ve tried it myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/21 06:56 PM
6

If he killed her… he didn’t, so what’s your point?
/r/PussyPassDenied25/09/21 06:35 PM
8

If it had been a small man attacking him, would you say the same? No, doubt you’ll lie and respond yes, but we all know you wouldn’t care if it had been a weaker man.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/09/21 06:34 PM
90

If a much weaker man picks a fight with a stronger man and gets his brains knocked out, they’d insult the weaker man for starting the fight. It’s literally the same thing here.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/09/21 06:30 PM
1

Post nut clarity
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 04:36 AM
21

Like randomly grabbing a fit guys arm muscles. Imagine just randomly grabbing a woman’s arms.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/09/21 07:48 PM
13

Femcel fanfic
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 07:16 AM
0

Yeah, that’s easy and I’m pretty sure not what OP is talking about. What if it was something more nuanced. Say your husband was backing out of the driveway, ran over and killed a kid. Let’s assume it was entirely not his fault (at least in the legal sense). The kids parents were prominent members of the community and turned everyone against him and have him labeled a child killer. What do you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/21 11:15 PM
2

Some. Most don’t. You’ve gotta be above average in looks, have a round head and be muscular to look good bald. Most guys aren’t gonna pull it off. This is coming from a guy who started balding in his early 20s. This guy was neither exceptionally handsome or built.
/r/PussyPassDenied22/09/21 07:24 PM
3

We really don’t know where they were when shit went down. A rock, a chipmunk, a coffee table. You get what I’m saying.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/09/21 08:35 PM
2

If she had been some fugly middle aged white lady or minority (specifically black), opinions would be skewed much differently. The most likely explanation is that he killed her (probably accidentally), but it’s definitely not the only explanation, especially considering her documented abuse of him.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/09/21 03:52 PM
3

I’ve seen people literally calling him an abuser. What? There is zero evidence of that at the moment. Just speculation.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/09/21 01:08 PM
5

Right? How often are women given a pass (morally if not legally) when they finally stand up the their abuser, resulting in the abuser’s death.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/09/21 01:06 PM
2

She was hot and he was prematurely bald. Probably though he wouldn’t get another hottie and stuck with her hoping she’d eventually get her head on straight.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/09/21 01:04 PM
10

I’m thinking she put hands on him one too many times and he finally belted her and she hit her head on a coffee table or something (essentially an accidental killing/manslaughter).
/r/PussyPassDenied19/09/21 01:01 PM
40

How does being abused as a kid make him a pussy?
/r/PussyPassDenied18/09/21 03:29 AM
18

People (especially on Reddit) will twist themselves into pretzels trying to excuse a woman’s bad behavior. Unless you don’t have the capacity to know the difference between right and wrong, your mental health issues aren’t an excuse.
/r/PussyPassDenied18/09/21 12:32 AM
8

Is that the day after their 25th birthday, when that minuscule undeveloped portion of their brain has finally reached full consciousness?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:35 PM
9

Then do it when the person is alive. You know, when they can actually defend themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:34 PM
57

It’s a Schrödinger's cat situation. They are both simultaneously until an event requires them to be one or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:32 PM
25

I’d much rather someone try and awkwardly flirt with me than them punch me in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:30 PM
7

🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 07:44 PM
6

So, like the k-pop stars?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 04:44 PM
41

Talk shit and block. Ultimate pussy move.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/09/21 06:24 PM
3

The secret is, you’ve got to be built and have a round head.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:06 PM
8

They say it’s about body autonomy, but some point in the far future, when the fetus can be safely transferred to an artificial womb, the reasons will flip flop. It’s weird to that if you’re together, you can determine the financial cost of a child on your own, but when you’re not together, one parent (almost always mom) gets to determine what that cost is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:20 PM
3

Why do women take such interest in abortion, but so little interest in avoiding pregnancy? If women can unilaterally opt out of parenthood, it’s only moral that men should have the same option.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:14 PM
6

Pump and dump. I bet she’s crazy in bed. Definitely giving her a fake name.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/09/21 04:12 AM
4

Lots of women will ask, so naturally the man will also ask. Or, the woman will bring it up. Yes, some people are that stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 08:51 PM
2

Or, they happily did (non-sexual) activities with an ex that you would like to do, but they’re not interested, or apathetic about doing them with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 08:50 PM
1

I always assumed it was because the new girl was more attractive than the ex and he wants to lock down the more attractive woman, where he was indifferent if the (less attractive) ex left.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 08:45 PM
2

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 08:42 PM
1

It doesn’t matter if it’s fair. It’s just how it is. There are all sorts of double standards women apply to men that don’t get called out as sexist.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/08/21 06:45 PM
16

Fucking 10 (or more) dudes in a day isn’t easy. Playing with yourself on camera for a few hours is easy.
/r/PussyPassDenied24/08/21 02:47 AM
4

Who said anything about use? I don’t lie. I’m not promising commitment. They’re completely aware it’s just hooking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:06 PM
1

I don’t hate fat women. I’ll occasionally fuck them when I can’t pull a hottie. But I wouldn’t be able to maintain attraction for a very large woman over time. The only exception might be is if she started out thin, I fell in love and then she got big.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:00 PM
2

Who is obsessing? Yeah there are some chubby chasers. Some. No one is denying that. But I bet all the women those chubby chasers are after have attractive faces. Regular men will date fat chicks and ugly chicks when there are no other options. Personally, I’ll take a thin ugly chick over a obese girl with a pretty face. Now, I might take a chubby (but not obese) pretty girl over a thin ugly girl. It just depends how much chub.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 10:51 PM
6

No. Men will fuck fat women when they have no other options. Yeah, there are legit chubby chasers, but most men prefer thin women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 10:44 PM
8

And the unholy alliance between American feminism and American Islam confounds me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 08:26 PM
140

A country which operates on a completely different set of values and principles.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 03:23 AM
2

I’m not sure. I wasn’t interested in an explanation.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 09:08 PM
7

I had a lady on here tell me she and her dude would get consent for every act. She described it as a game (what a terrible fucking game). I just thought to myself, “I feel bad for that guy.” The first time I had sex with my gf I “took” her. Literally picked her up and put her on the bed. There were, of course, clear signs she was into me prior to this. She later explained that it made her super excited and greatly contributed on us sleeping together as quickly as we did (3rd date).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:13 PM
23

No doubt this chick has taken in more DNA than the Human Genome Project.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/08/21 09:19 PM
3

1) you did t watch the video 2) Lauren Chen IS hot
/r/PussyPassDenied05/08/21 09:48 AM
2

It confounds me that some women think that how they look with their hair, makeup and nails done and dressed in complementary clothes is how their looks should be judged. No baby girl, how you look first thing in the morning is how we judge you.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/08/21 09:47 AM
5

I’ll rephrase. No here is advocating dating a high schooler. I mean, it’s all semantics. What the difference between an 18 and 19 year old, a 19 year old and a 20 year old? It literally matters fuck all what we think anyways. We can have philosophical arguments all day about age gaps, but at the end of the day, the government(s) has decided you can fuck whoever you want at (at the oldest) 18. Shit, we allow 18 year olds make porn, but our heads explode if a 20 year old is dating a 30 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 04:59 AM
2

Not necessarily. Hold older men may have chosen poorly in their youth and are now divorced due to no fault of their own. Or, having options, they never settled down and only considered doing so in their late 30s or 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:50 AM
1

What a silly come back. There are plenty of reasons for a 30 something man not to be with a woman his own age; better looking face, better body, less emotional baggage, less physical baggage (ie debt and kids).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:47 AM
12

Yeah, not one here is condoning dating minors.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/21 02:44 AM
0

Yup. Women don’t want hot guys. They want guys that other women want (some of which happen to be hot).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/21 04:58 PM
3

👉👃
/r/PussyPassDenied02/08/21 02:21 AM
10

She was probably hot before she hit the wall.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/08/21 02:20 AM
4

Sure. Decades ago. We’re talking about a quarter into the 21st century with modern investigations/science. And I think it’s far more likely you could rehabilitate a some murderers than people like this.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/07/21 06:39 AM
11

Exactly. How do you rehabilitate someone who allows their 12 year old to have sex/get raped and knocked up by an adult, OR someone who would rape a 12 year old? It’s a rhetorical question. You can’t. Execute them.
/r/PussyPassDenied31/07/21 06:36 AM
7

Bwahbwahbwaaaaah
/r/PussyPassDenied28/07/21 05:51 AM
3

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 07:56 PM
0

I don’t know. I’m late 30s and clearly balding (wear it short, but not completely shaved) and when I’ve been single (maybe totaling a year in the last 5 years), I’ve dated/ slept with with decent to hot women in their 20s, as young as 21. Maybe they like older guys and since it’s normal for men my age to be balding, they don’t care. The topic has never come up. I don’t exclusively date 30 somethings. I’m not doing anything like buying them gifts or taking them on fancy dates. I’m nominally hands…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/21 05:37 AM
22

There’s a difference between a sugar relationship and using sex as a weapon.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/07/21 02:21 AM
117

Should have told her there are plenty of nice men in their 40s and 50s that’d be perfectly happy to trade sex with a young woman for merchandise.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/07/21 01:43 AM
12

Thats gross.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/07/21 01:41 AM
6

Nah, ghosting (unless mutual) is never acceptable. It’s just what a-holes tell themselves to justify they’re crappy behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:20 PM
5

Right? Plus, if you’re doing in for “safety,” pissing off a complete stranger, who may have the ability to find out where you live and has your phone number, probably isn’t a good idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:18 PM
20

They’re literally doing it on OP’s post. “Maybe she didn’t feel safe.” Give me a break. If you think every man is a potential threat, then date women or don’t date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:15 PM
1

I think people are misconstruing equal value to equal ability. They’re not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 10:27 PM
1

What if the reason is they never liked sex all that much and only provided regular sex so you’d marry them OR the only way they can get sexually excited is by new relationship energy. Both are real and happen all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:48 PM
1

I don’t disagree with you. If you’re acting in a certain way only to get someone to marry you and you have no intention of continuing those acts after marriage, that’s deceitful and wrong…like stopping regular sex shortly after your married.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:46 PM
2

Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:43 PM
1

That’s fair, but some people just can’t be turned on or refuse. I’ve never encountered anyone like that, but I’ve read enough to know they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 06:31 AM
4

They can absolutely be one sided, but I agree that they are often a multifaceted issue. Go to r/deadbedrooms. Plenty of people there complaining how once married, every day sex turned into once a week sex and then once a month. If you don’t want to be beholden to someone else’s sexual needs, then don’t get married and keep your romantic relationships casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:15 AM
5

Being an a-hole isn’t a crime and nor should it be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:12 AM
0

I disagree. You owe your spouse sexual intimacy. That’s literally the agreement (unless otherwise discussed) when you get married. That being said, there absolutely shouldn’t be any law enforcing that, nor any real (government enforced) consequences for not having marital sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:08 AM
4

The whole idea of criminalizing lies that do not cause financial or physical injury is dumb in the first place. If you’re so eager to have sex with someone prior to vetting them, then that’s the risk you take upon yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 04:04 AM
7

At 18 (in the US) you can legally go into the military, sign contracts, take out massive loans, engage in legal sex work, but god forbid you date an older person. Outside the US, the drinking age is 18 or lower.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:57 PM
1

I think height matters to a point (culturally and instinctively). If a man is over a certain threshold in height, let’s say 5’10, the majority of women will care more about how handsome he is and how good his physique is, than how many inches over 5’10 he is. Sure, you have height snobs, but I doubt they’re representative of most women. I think men see breasts the same way women see height. Our culture has programmed men to think bigger is better. Instinctively, men are also drawn to breasts. Ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:37 AM
1

I think height matters to a point (culturally and instinctively). If a man is over a certain threshold in height, let’s say 5’10, the majority of women will care more about how handsome he is and how good his physique is, than how many inches over 5’10 he is. Sure, you have height snobs, but I doubt they’re representative of most women. I think men see breasts the same way women see height. Our culture has programmed men to think bigger is better. Instinctively, men are also drawn to breasts. Ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:37 AM
0

Right? I think most people don’t really know what they want, just what they’re programmed to think they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:38 AM
6

At least some of it has to be instinctual. Some animals have preferences and base their mating selections on who would provide the strongest offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:37 AM
1

What’s your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:34 AM
1

I have no idea what dad’s want. If I had a 20 year old daughter I’d rather she be with a 30 year old that treated her right, didn’t cheat, had a good job and wasn’t partying all the time more than I would a 20 year old guy that was immature, mistreated her and was always drinking. It’d be way more about the man’s qualities than his age.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:07 AM
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The OP’s point is that it’s not inherently predatory. Your argument seems to be that because there is a possible power imbalance due to life experience, women shouldn’t even take the chance of engaging with a more mature and financially stable man. You could have a man and a woman who are exactly the same age and still have a massive power imbalance due to differences in intelligence or wealth, yet most (older) women aren’t nearly as wary of those power imbalances. Maybe it’s because THOSE power…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:40 AM
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Why does it matter if you’re in different stages as long as both are accepting of it and acknowledge that will be a challenge you are both willing to try and overcome?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 12:27 AM
0

All evidence to the contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 06:47 PM
1

I missed that
/r/PussyPassDenied19/07/21 04:51 PM
68

Guarantee she just got cheated on or pumped and dumped.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/07/21 04:34 PM
6

And you don’t think the young girls want to “smash” the older guys? They do. They’re “consenting,” just like this young boy did. It’s ALL gross. The fact that any child “consents” to sex with an adult is irrelevant to the issue.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/07/21 04:30 PM
2

That’s a good point. If someone “had sex” with an adult with Down Syndrome, it’d absolutely be considered a bad thing for the MR person. A young adolescent has (generally) the same mentality as an adult (high functioning) MR person, yet when it’s a young boy that was raped, a lot of people will think there will be no negative consequences for that child, though we know that very often it’ll lead to massive distinction as an adult and a propensity to offend against children themselves.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/07/21 04:27 PM
3

It is. I have first hand experience with one. Mid 30s teacher raped a 12 year old boy. She was maybe a 5/10 (if that). I’m not sure if it even made the local news.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/07/21 04:21 PM
3

They’re not. Those are just the ones that make national headlines. There are plenty of average to ugly teachers that rape their students.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/07/21 04:18 PM
1

Does it matter? At what age do you just consider it straight rape, regardless of the child’s “consent”? 12, 11, 10, 9?
/r/PussyPassDenied19/07/21 04:16 PM
1

She’ll do half that time
/r/PussyPassDenied19/07/21 04:13 PM
3

To a certain extent, yes. But find the idea of wearing so much make up (or wearing it in a way) that you look unrecognizable from when you don’t have it on to be far more cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 12:18 AM
1

That’s fair. You’re allowed to have whatever standards you’d like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:27 PM
3

I think it’s fine to have certain hypocritical standards. Chastity is typically associated with women and femininity. I don’t see it as a problem wanting a chaste woman while also not being chaste yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 11:19 PM
21

This is extremely common.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/07/21 10:11 PM
1

That’s a fallacy. I get sex regularly. 3 to 6 days a week (depending on work/life schedule). I’m in a monogamous relationship. Even when not in a relationship, I’m able to get casual sexual partners. I use porn occasionally in both situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:13 PM
2

But simultaneously probably wouldn’t date a guy that has been to a sex worker. If the woman has EVER engaged in casual sex, I find that standard entirely hypocritical as even a plain looking women can get sex from a stranger practically instantaneously. An average man’s access to instant sex is far more limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:07 PM
1

For good or bad, your basic point is correct. It goes for men and women, what you won’t do, someone else will.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 04:04 PM
4

If one of your standards is a man taller than you, that’s technically hypocrisy. Not necessarily a bad a thing, as you don’t have much control over what you’re attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:58 PM
2

Both men and women (generally speaking) have hypocritical romantic standards. Why is hypocrisy when it comes to n-count such a big deal to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/21 03:53 PM
1

Every time. As she put it, she “didn’t want to waste anything.” I think it was part of the degradation kink. There’s really not a more “degrading” way for a man to finish other than forcing the woman to swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/21 10:30 PM
2

That’s fair
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/21 10:28 PM
1

Exactly. Even if it meant the end of the relationship, I’d still do it.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/07/21 01:14 PM
4

Pussypass
/r/PussyPassDenied13/07/21 01:13 PM
8

A 13 year old has zero responsibility if the sex was with an adult. Dumb.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/07/21 01:33 PM
48

Kind of screwed up you’d owe your rapist money.
/r/PussyPassDenied11/07/21 01:32 PM
6

I have. Flat out told her the sex sucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 06:31 PM
1

Or settle for betas and treat them like crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:34 PM
3

Most women are attractive…with makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/21 05:33 PM
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