MaoPam Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	CMV: People put way more more sexual performance pressure on men than on women. That's how a lot of women perceive it at as well, unfortunately.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/08/24 03:38 AM
1	Why do women here consistently portray men's dating preferences as malicious and their own as benign? If you're debating someone on the internet and expecting anything of substance out of it, you've already lost.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/24 09:04 PM
3	Why do all feminist subs block most discussions that aren't positive of them? I got banned from the_donald back when it was a sub because when someone was trying to justify violence by saying antifa would do the same, I pointed out that wasn't good justification. Banned. I promise you right leaning subs are just as bad about banning dissenters.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/01/24 08:27 PM
2	you aren’t forced to date anyone you’re not attracted to. Bruh we're not even forced to date people we are attracted to.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 04:36 PM
1	What is the source of men's motivation for working hard? 1) I've been poor and I don't want to be ever again 2) I want to live comfortably and buy the things I want to buy and travel occasionally 3) I never want to have anxiety over my financial future again 4) Being good at what provides for me and my lifestyle also gives me a sense of confidence and security	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 10:47 PM
5	Why do you think (some) men are becoming attracted to this? let's you make all the decisions My friend you might as well date a child at that point. I need her to be capable of doing things and making decisions. I am so done dating people with no opinions and no ability to do things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/06/23 01:30 AM
6	I think the biggest problem in dating is that women are simply not honest about what they are attracted to, and despite the fact that men have learned this they are simply told: “so you’re going to tell an actual woman what she wants?” When men say never take dating advice from women. It's just hurt people lashing out.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 08:05 PM
6	What is your unpopular opinion regarding your own gender that could make others call you a gender traitor? What kind of kindergarten teacher tells ALL the boys in the class that they are evil and will grow up to be rapists some day. Some teachers are borderline insane. I had a teacher or two growing up who I could never reconcile some of the things they said and after many years of thinking on those things I finally figured out they were just crazy. Growing up and then hearing stories from my friends who are teachers about some of their coworkers has only reinforced this idea. I had INSANE Bible thum…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 07:55 PM
4	What is your unpopular opinion regarding your own gender that could make others call you a gender traitor? It's all good my friend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 07:37 PM
6	What is your unpopular opinion regarding your own gender that could make others call you a gender traitor? You can't, but you also shouldn't and shouldn't have to be. It's a two way street. If you get with a woman who never puts in effort, part of that is on her. If you stay with a woman who never puts in effort, that's on you. Just like not all men are worth dating, not all women are worth dating. If both people are putting in effort, and on top of that you actually like the other person as well, it stops feeling like so much of an obligation all the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 07:29 PM
5	What is your unpopular opinion regarding your own gender that could make others call you a gender traitor? Men get angry to fix things, women get angry to control people. My advice for you would be to go out and interact with more men. Men do the anger to control people just as often as women. In the time I've spent working I've generally had good bosses, but the shitty bosses who never grew up and tried to use anger to control people have been equally male and female. And let's not even get into people I've seen throw fits in social situations out of anger.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 07:17 PM
8	What is your unpopular opinion regarding your own gender that could make others call you a gender traitor? Mid doesn't have to refer to looks. It can refer to personality and the person overall.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/23 07:13 PM
2	Q4W: Have you ever lost interest in a man because he was too nice? Why or why not? To clarify, by nice I mean polite or kind None of those things are inherently tied to being nice. They're possibly tied to only being nice. You can be nice and strong, nice and proactive, nice and brave, nice and in possession of a backbone. With your own ideas and wants. Some nice people who are only nice start to equate the lack of everything else as a result of them being nice. Imo it's more that they learned to be nice (which is great and valuable) but they've still got to learn how to stand up for themselves or be strong or be more…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/23 10:56 PM
4	CMV : A big cause of confusion is that the male “average” is statistically above average, but women understandably perceive this above average guy as average Yeah, I refuse to believe we live in a world where fat chicks are the norm Take a trip to the market or even just your workplace and say that again. Everyone is fat. People are eating good right now and have been for some time apparently.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/23 10:25 PM
0	How many of you were arrested after approaching a woman? Like three dudes on reddit will say that. Most actual people will not.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/23 10:19 PM
14	No one ever seems to want to acknowledge that women consistently go for abusive, bad natured men. If you bring this up all they do is shame you to silence the discussion, and this is probably the most prominent example of gaslighting in dating/gender dynamics. Men don't love asshole women, but plenty of men love asshole men so long as they share the same views and their asshole-ness isn't directed at them. Because if their asshole-ness isn't directed at them, they've got a friend or role model with all the confidence and swagger that being an ass can bring without being a recipient of the downsides that the asshole brings to the table.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/23 09:58 PM
1	CMV: When women talk of men opening up, what they mean is men should open up in women approved ways, for women approved problems and for women approved lengths of time Some gender roles are a constant, I'm a few days late but I found your post interesting and wanted to ask a question. What would you consider a female gender role that remains constant in relationships? I buy into the idea that its better for men (and people in general, really) to be emotionally/mentally strong for their own sakes, and the idea that most aspects of traditional masculinity won't go out of style in relationships. But I've been thinking about what I expect out of women as women (vs…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/23 07:32 PM
3	As a man who’s dated quite a bit, I’ve found more women tend to be socially maladjusted than more men. Unironically I think this is a twofold problem. Some of the points have already been made but I think one underlooked aspect is almost a problem we men have made for ourselves. I don’t see women with bad social skills ever getting held responsible. Half the reason for this would require a degree in gender roles and societal expectations to explain, I'm sure. The other half is that men are trying to get laid and will put up with a lot to reach that point. A lot of very attractive women, especiall…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/03/23 07:16 PM