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| 39 | What are the smoothest/witty lines you've said to girls?I took 3 dates to the company Christmas party, and one of my co-workers dates says to me: Her: "Hmmm, why did you bring 3 dates?" My response: "My car couldn't fit 4" Her: *Nod of approval with smile* | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 12:14 AM |
| 1 | When People Say "Confidence Attracts Women", What do They Mean Exactly?Given the sheer variety of what makes a man attractive to a woman, I can't say that every woman likes cool calm collected, some woman want super extrovert life of the party guys, some want kind compassionate men, some want Alpha types, some want Thugs, stoners, intellectuals, talented, literal idiots even... but a majority of women definitely want confident and competent. I can say this, if you can at least come to grips with the sheer volume of partners in this world, that you're not going to b… | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 12:34 AM |
| 0 | When People Say "Confidence Attracts Women", What do They Mean Exactly?I'm 5'4, average AF looks, but was wildly successful with women, married now hence the was. I would say this, confidence is being so assured of yourself, that even if someone were to tell you, hey you're ugly or you're dumb or anything of that nature, you still hold yourself as a valued person, you would still maintain this belief regardless of what other think or say, you believe in yourself. I found reading the subtle art of not giving AF to be super helpful and useful in developing this inner… | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 10:23 PM |
| 2 | What are the signs you're more attractive than you think you are?This including pushing you out of the way so they can walk through a crowd? 😁 | /r/seduction | 23/05/23 06:54 PM |
| 1 | What's the best $100-$200 you've spent that helped you meet women/improve your odds?Ensure it fits your body well, and if not, you get it tailored, the key to looking super good in a blazer is making sure everything is at perfect length for your body type. | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 10:03 PM |
| 10 | What's the best $100-$200 you've spent that helped you meet women/improve your odds?I spent 165 dollars on a black velvet blazer by Calvin Klein, and I wore it with any shirt under and a pair of jeans and some decent dress shoes, and it just raised my visual appeal by 3 points. You could dress it up and dress it down | /r/seduction | 16/10/22 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Alpha male MINDSETIm sorry but Prince in his prime could outgame any "Alpha" out there without so much as saying a few words. The most feminine man in the game would steal your wife and husbands. Prestige crushes most Domination types, if you're not in a war like environment Domination only has temporary draw, Prestige has shown statistically to rule over society in the long run, while producing longer lasting relationships with their peers and mates. | /r/seduction | 22/10/21 02:44 AM |
| 5 | You are attractive if you get rid of all the bullshit.I am 5'4 and have had many women taller than me my wife included (they are virtually the same height lying down ;) and all that matters is being attractive and confident to women who Don't care about height, there are so many out there that could care less about height, the ones who do, you won't attract, but you aren't attracted to every woman of every shape or size either. What you need to do is ground yourself in the reality that you're worthy to someone if you can present that to the right p… | /r/seduction | 17/06/21 07:04 AM |
| 2 | My dating experience as a short guyI’m 5’4, my wife is 5’7. Every woman I’ve dated was either the same height or a foot taller. If you can attract taller women great, but as the OP mentioned if you just ignore the height thing completely then you can focus on what really matters and that’s attracting that cute 6 ‘5 foot person in front of you. One of my favorite responses I would say to girls who would try to pull this cliche line “I don’t date guys shorter than me” on me. I would respond and say “Why, we are both the same height… | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Help meeting 9s and 10s!!!I would say don't stop any chance to keep your game sharp, always practice social skills, practice talking with dudes, old people, people you work with and even easy pickup may not feel like an opportunity but even chilling with a group of average girls (average to you could be super pretty to others) and going out makes you way more attractive than going to clubs or events with a group of your boys. In fact my boys have been so good at ruining my game by doing low value things like yelling stup… | /r/seduction | 13/07/17 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Help meeting 9s and 10s!!!Yep, that's why usually most folks in master levels of pickup say you don't need to step your game up for 9/10s because it's the same game you would implement if you had it before. The problem is that most folks get shook out of their game when they go after targets they are convinced that are out of their league, because 9 and 10s present this level of natural intimidation at first glance. High value, socialized veterans and sometimes distracting levels of beauty can be a package too overwhelmi… | /r/seduction | 13/07/17 07:40 AM |
| 1 | Help meeting 9s and 10s!!!It depends on the level of escalation the interaction went, I wouldn't normally pull a same night date, in fact I personally didn't try for it, but sometimes they would be pretty adamant about hanging out and watching a "DVD" yeah I'm probably showing my age here, but before Netflix and chill I was doing "DVD and kicking it" | /r/seduction | 13/07/17 06:58 AM |
| 2 | Help meeting 9s and 10s!!!Well it depends on how much you've experienced in life, if you got lots of experiences to draw from, no need to lie, if you have far less experiences and don't want to lie, tell a story that someone else has told you. It's not a lie it's something interesting. I combine both, stories I've experienced, stories others have told me, crazy things I learned recently subreddit /Todayilearned is so good for conversation ammo. Actually I never would buy them a drink, usually I would make bets with them … | /r/seduction | 13/07/17 05:52 AM |
| 4 | Help meeting 9s and 10s!!!Married for awhile now but in my single days I was running around with 9s and 10s on an average guys HB scale. Still friends with a bunch on FB to this day. First I needed to be confident in myself being a 9 or 10 mentally immediately. What I mean by this is if I personally held myself to this mentality I was on their level therefore they aren't higher or better than me, it made approaching feel no different than your standard approach and that sets the frame for me and my mentality among high v… | /r/seduction | 13/07/17 04:43 AM |
| 2 | The most effective pickup line to get laidI learned this really early in my early 20s. Whenever a chick would call me, I would say I am just chilling at home today, going to catch up on some DVDs I've been meaning to see. I would rattle off titles like Notebook, Closer, How High, Scary Movie. And as if it was scheduled, I swear it was like every single time, they would just Invite themselves over to watch with me. So pretty much I was doing DVD and Chill way before Netflix and Chill was a meme. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/16 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Connecting with a girlDo you have Interests? I've connected with ladies on various topics - games>RPG>MMO>MOBAS, TV Shows, Movies, Careers and even Makeup (Like giving them props on how well it looks on them). I find that I connect fastest with the girls I can make laugh. Once you can get them to laugh it seems the connect part has taken place. It happens sooner or later. Have you noticed any particular exchanges you felt you were natural in? Kino plays a more vital role also, so if you can get them to talk with inte… | /r/seduction | 31/05/15 08:30 AM |
| 3 | whats the largest age gap you're comfortable with?32 here, currently with someone that is 25. I like to think of it this way. If society has somehow accepted an old fart like Hugh Hefner dating 18 year olds in packs of 3 / 4. The age gap thing is really on you and nobody else. Well from a legal standpoint always make sure its legal first! | /r/seduction | 28/05/15 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Where do I keep my hands while talking to a chick ?Its never for very long, its always while they are speaking and I use it as a quicker way to transition into Kino. | /r/seduction | 28/05/15 01:24 AM |
| 3 | Where do I keep my hands while talking to a chick ?I usually keep my arms crossed while I listen intently, then I follow up with kino related high fives and then transition into something Kino related to their hands such as "Woah, nice rings, or awww you got a boo boo here" this lets me move into Kino sooner and I can compliment or tease from that point because I kept my hands in front of me instead of my pockets. When I am crossing my arms I tend to have one hand brushing my chin to visually display to them I have their full attention while the… | /r/seduction | 27/05/15 09:30 PM |
| 3 | What are your best Tinder tips?Don't use it if you are more interested in building the necessary skills for seduction. This thing is like using cheat codes in video games. I have worked with guys who are terrible at pickup / seduction and are (80% successful according to them) in finding hookups on Tinder. Its the numbers game virtualized. Most of the time they don't even need to say anything substantial to their hookup target, buy 1 drink and straight to the hotel kind of engagements. Also it has totally fucked with them men… | /r/seduction | 26/05/15 08:14 PM |
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