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As long as the answer to this isn’t “never”, it’ll just incentivize men to lie about it. The socially healthiest answer is for it to be about how it affects his behavior and mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 01:28 PM
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Nah, that was bigotry for being black while this is wanting the people who are taking away women’s rights to have less positive social interactions with women. Equating those is fucking wild
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/25 01:25 PM
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Meh. They’d get castigated for being into that stuff too. Society really just doesn’t welcome men who aren’t sexually attractive like it does those who are, unless you embrace masochism and treat your own lack of happiness as some weird virtue cause everyone else will treat you even worse if you open your mouth about it. I guess your solution is for sexless men to just be in the closet forever and never dare come out. Brooootal. Literally the Christian treatment for gays but sexless men instead.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 11:26 AM
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I literally knew who that second commenter was going to be just from your description lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 11:17 AM
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99% of posts on here should be tbf
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 11:41 AM
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The intersection of American Liberalism and American Conservativism’s backlash to it has created this weird limbo mode where women are granted higher degrees of social and overall autonomy but because of the economy, men’s roles have been even more cemented in place. Now you’re an EVEN bigger loser if you can’t provide, but women aren’t seen as the same failures for falling short, really anywhere. Where conservatives hate women but liberals don’t, both tend to have a vile and systemic level hatr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/25 08:55 AM
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Take the Ultron Pill like me and just let all forms of nature do whatever it wants. Even the men who lash out in the worst of ways, we’ve all decided nature is king and queen so don’t fight any of it. Dude goes ER? Yawn. It was just his natural impulse and he followed it like everyone else does theirs while yelling that its natural thus they get to engage in it. Let the world and humans fail bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/25 01:03 PM
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Doesn’t matter. To people like that, shy men are 1 misdeed away from belonging in a labor camp.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:47 PM
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That’s because it IS bullshit, not in the way conservatives claim but as a voter in MI, my vote is so much more consequential to the election than a republican in California. There’s systems that you could theoretically implement, like rank-choice voting, that empowers third-party and independents more and offers what you could call a “more free election”, and we are all about freedom and choice here in the good ol US of A. Not the mention the absolutely toothless and ineffectual… thing, that we…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:18 AM
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I’d say that comes down to selection bias and how it’s easier to make groups about obscure topics with anonymity+the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 10:44 PM
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Such a stupid fucking standard to go by, and I mean that as an insult to people who use it, because it’s never an actual standard that’s used consistently, it’s an excuse to shit on whoever they feel deserves to be shit on. Whether that’s women with high counts, or men who are virgins. “Body count doesn’t matter, but people with similar history usually are more compatible”. Okay, so it DOES matter then, just not in the way it’s normally used as a blunt instrument to hit people over the head with…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 10:02 PM
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It’s almost intuitive that it would be both. You grow up with it, then you try to find restitution with your peers and they also shame you but with a different rationale. You easily come to the conclusion nobody thinks your sexuality is acceptable- it’s bad at baseline and yours specifically is even worse, and so you try to turn it off in response. It all falls like dominoes when I type it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/24 07:38 AM
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Didn’t you know? Socially reserved men are just supposed to just kill ourselves now. We’re the absolute scum of the earth according to these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 03:04 PM
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Hence why life on earth is just a complete failure and we should just glass the planet and hope life succeeds somewhere else in the universe
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:57 PM
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It’s just going back to some sorta nature-based argument. Some men are naturally what women want, thus they won’t have trouble no matter what they do, and because it’s the “ideal men” it’s seen as good because women are getting what they want. Then the men who aren’t what women want, we will just be told to A. Forget the idea of having it because that’s entitlement and B. That we won’t die if we don’t get laid. It’s a perfect recipe for women not just only ever fucking, but even just dealing wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:43 PM
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Idk why I read this whole thread while smoking at 830 am. I felt myself getting more misanthropic as I read some of these comments and pondering what they mean. My flair is even more true to me now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/24 12:34 PM
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Leaving behind a very wrathful and indicting letter before jumping off a building and painting the sidewalk with your guts is a more honorable and appropriate way to go out in this world than whatever you’re fantasizing about. At least make them pretend to care when men blow our brains out.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/24 01:36 PM
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Exactly what I thought reading that comment, lmao 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 07:16 PM
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Yup. There’s feminists in like academia who will come up with the theoretical stuff and that will be more consistent, but real people, like with religion, will cherry pick their fundamental beliefs for one’s they find more practical and self beneficial. No surprise a bunch of younger women take it to mean “take the good parts that make your life better, and leave the other parts to men, they deserve it anyway”.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/24 06:15 PM
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I don’t disagree with your idea, I just think you’re misattributing where it comes from. I’ve never seen specific claims of this sort from specific people, but you could have at least made a claim about their passivity concerning the topic when it comes up, and how men could potentially perceive that as not caring about whether dating is hard for men. But nah, you gotta make a weirdly specific claim without specific evidence and make the whole point look dumb. Bruh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:17 PM
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“Trans the kids and don’t tell the parents” -chapter 13 in Das Kapital
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 02:10 PM
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It’s more like “I’ve decided this person already sucks for other reasons, so whatever their characteristics are, are defacto the unlikable ones”. You’re already disliked for being less social, so the standard for like, what a bad haircut is, will just be whatever yours is. Yup, doesn’t make real, coherent ABC-sense to me either, but you don’t have to make sense when you’re a whole ass group and you’re hell bent on excluding someone from everything. Just make up reasons to dislike them and have e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 11:25 AM
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“Women and relationships aren’t prizes you win for doing the right thing!”….. this literally puts them into ranked tiers, but go off I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:44 PM
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I’m very leftist politically and they still hate me 🤷‍♂️ it won’t change that because I actually hold those positions, but me being introverted is still enough to write me off completely. It’s “gotta be perfect or gtfo” to a lot of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:21 PM
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I was invited out by a female coworker/acquaintance to hang out with and meet some of her friends once around a year ago. Got uninvited because I “wasn’t giddy with excitement to go”. Didn’t even have the gall to tell me either. I had to find out from the mutual guy-friend we had that she asked him to take my spot. Even when they’re willing to, if you’re not perfect, they’ll just start to exclude you. Imperfection needs to stop being such a god damn dealbreaker in so many ways. People being bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 07:09 PM
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I love reverse homophobia. Undesirable straight men aren’t some pieces of trash that you leave for the gays to clean up and fix. Y’all fucked shit up and just can’t deal with the fact it actually has consequences on peoples lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 12:31 PM
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The current trend of “self improvement” isn’t even really about SELF “improvement”. It’s taking your own sense of self and modeling it after someone else. It’s not improvement, it’s just role models becoming literal Messiahs to people now. We’ve gone from working for the powerful to straight up modeling our own personalities around them. Work? We fucking worship them now.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:47 PM
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I love how it’s shifted from “body count doesn’t matter” strictly to it being about high counts. Funny how as soon as low-count men caught on and realized the first phrase also applies to them, everyone decides to change course. Can’t have undesirables making a point using our own logic can we?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:25 PM
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It only does it when the post is a wildly weird hypothetical about enslaving men or something along those lines…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 09:55 AM
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Just an overall based take right here. Especially with how it relates to past experience. What if your “perfect partner” ends up having expected you to have more experience, and dumps you over it? That’s a legitimate fear, especially now that the cat is out of the bag with virginity (ie, most women clearly prefer to NOT have to “teach” men about sex and pleasing them, so experience will be both welcome and expected). You can inadvertently disqualify yourself if you have too high of standards as …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/24 02:14 PM
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Plus with all of the cultural disdain towards male virgins, it sort becomes a positive feedback loop. Men who get picked keep getting picked cause they got picked before but also never care about his partners orgasm, spreading the idea that men don’t care about women’s orgasms, and the guys who don’t get picked keep never getting picked and eventually come to realize how much women secretly hate them for being less confident/shy and/or ugly because it’s plastered everywhere. So they get the vibe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 11:48 AM
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Doesn’t matter to them. Any men who attend those clubs don’t have real hobbies according to them and are boring mongloids. Only women-approved hobbies are allowed for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 04:10 PM
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I was surrounded by people in relationships growing up. They were the ones who constantly belittled me and told me I deserve to stay alone. Seeing people in relationships does not make me believe I’ll ever have one.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 11:12 AM
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I know this is like a nuclear-hot take but it’s stupid how people get mad about that all the time. Men have forever been discouraged from being as emotional as we are encouraged to be now, meaning most families didn’t build the generational ability to “pass down” that emotional intelligence and other similar skills to boys like we did girls. To pretend we can turn on a dime and men will just instantly be perfectly emotionally intelligent and be perfect emotional communicators, seems pretty damn …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/24 02:43 PM
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Yup. Which is why “dumb apes with godlike technology” is an apt description of us if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 01:09 PM
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Because the systems we have set up today are designed to make winners keep winning and losers keep losing. Economically and socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 12:20 PM
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Expecting that poster to be logically consistent and hold everyone to the same standards is just masochism. If you’ve seen their name around at all you would know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 03:24 PM
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Okay. People can just call you entitled and never let up in that case, and endlessly claim “well, I can just feeel it on you”. At that point they can’t prove you’re entitled and you can’t prove they aren’t feeling it, making it into a total popularity contest and social game, where we both know whoever has the most power is going to be the winner. And as we know, men who can’t get dates are usually pretty low on social status. So it’s just a recipe for nothing to ever change, hence proving OP ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 03:16 PM
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Your first mistake was expecting a serious response from that poster. They’re basically the epitome of what you talk about in the OP. I have literally never seen a reasonable comment from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/24 03:08 PM
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This has saved me so much headache since 2016-2018ish. People are legitimately batshit insane nowadays and it’s useful to be able to spot them and just leave them to their rot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:27 PM
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It’s the fact that it’s seen as less of a problem as simply being a little awkward or shy. Those 2 things make women run like you’re a rat during the plague, but traits that make you questionable aren’t? Alrighty, I’ll just smoke weed and play games and lucid dream about blowing up the earth then, people clearly are lopsided in their values so I’ll be better off without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/24 05:05 PM
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This entire sub is just rage bait directed at hating unattractive and socially awkward men, to differing degrees of directness. Mods don’t even uphold consistent standards of debate and have clear biases for one side, so it’s not serious whatsoever. If we broadcasted this sub to the world we would get 20 more Elliot’s overnight.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:54 PM
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No, keep going. Blow the corpse into a million meat pieces.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:52 PM
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Reading through these replies, I can feel the misanthropy growing stronger within me. God y’all are an awful lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 01:50 PM
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“Dudes don’t have a right to feel bitter” Aaaand there it is. People don’t have rights to their own fucking emotions, wait I’m sorry, MEN don’t have it. Or at least according to you, but you’re wrong. We get to feel however the fuck we want, this was just an exercise in getting you to tell on yourself. You don’t even want people to experience certain emotions because it makes you uncomfortable, and say shit that literally implies you’d take that away from people if you could (you can’t, LMFAO an…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/24 01:21 PM
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Okay let me explain this like you’re a fucking 5 year old. First, “you people” is used such that I identified you with people who say “people don’t have the right….” which is a common thing nowadays, a hyperbole for “I don’t like it when people…” Original comment made the following claim- “they have a right to feel bitter and shitty about it”. Your response was to say “no they don’t”. You’re arguing they don’t even have the right to feel shitty about their shitty situation. You’re attempting to …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 08:52 PM
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You people have said “people don’t have the right to…” so often in a casual way that you actually think it starts to apply to human rights like speech. Literal Nazis are by law given free speech to parade through Jewish neighborhoods using Swastikas. But apparently the line gets drawn at autistic men complaining about dating struggles? You’re either being casually Fascistic or you’re ill-informed with ill-informed opinions to match.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 06:28 PM
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How tf have mods not taken this down yet? If this was a dude talking about women that way it would be all “incel content” and get nuked from orbit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:23 PM
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They just love fantasizing about this shit. We all know it wouldn’t happen, which is why I’m also just straight up advocating violent revolution in this hypothetical. I wonder why the mods let this stay up though. You know if it were reversed it wouldn’t even make it 5 minutes. “Incel content” and it gets removed. ETA- actually, not even revolution. If some guy would refuse the chastity belt, and upon being forced in manages kill the women who try, I’d 100% support it. At that point it can be “o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:10 PM
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Exactly. It’s such a wild hypothetical, which is why I also, went straight to “yup. I’d support violence in this case.” The maintenance of this kind of society would require so much of it that fighting back would just be self defense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 07:05 PM
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EEEYYYYYY a call out to Lucid Dreaming on here that’s kind wild. I’ve done that for years, and I’ve gotten to play out my wildest fantasies because of it. See my pfp? Yup. That’s been me in the dreamworld before. Straight up glassing planets into rubble, including Earth. Fun times.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 06:59 PM
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Okay so taking away human rights. Your world is just Hell then. You’re saying refusing chastity belts would be equal to committing a crime that’s so bad you get a life sentence. Luckily it’s only a hypothetical because I would support a violent uprising in your world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 05:14 PM
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I’d support any man who would be out for blood in this type of world.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 05:07 PM
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What happens when a X aged boy or young man refuses his chastity belt? Will he be whipped until he accepts/physically forced into it or will he be treated with the dignity he would likely be demanding?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 05:05 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/24 10:44 AM
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This right here was my introduction to all of this nonsense like 10 years ago. And I’ve concluded that yes, in many cases awkward men are just hated, and people are happy to see us struggle and end up giving up. The awkwardness is made out as such a huge deal that our entire beings are intolerable because of it, but oh, he hits you and gets more chances, meaning being awkward is worse for romance than literal violence. It’s probably why you hear more about “CNC” than women who actively want to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 05:08 PM
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Cool so we can work ourselves to death while being told we’re perpetually unlovable. Sounds like a form of psychological torture to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 02:24 PM
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Isn’t it also a literal quote from some of the rich fucks at that DAVOS thing? I’m pretty sure I saw lots of reports of one of them saying that word for word.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 04:09 PM
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If you’re just gonna straw man I’m blocking you. Actually, now I recognize your username. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:37 PM
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I use AI to make smut and sexually explicit fanfics, and those waaaay supersede anything I’ve seen in terms of imagery and video. I myself wouldn’t take the dive into AI GFs until it’s at “full power” so to say. VR, simulates touch, the whole 9 yards. I’ve lucid dreamed enough to have gotten my fix of “virtual sex with whoever I want”, so until it can match that, it’s gonna be a no from me dawg. I’ll take my AI synthesized smut thank you very much.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:32 PM
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Anyone can say anything. Being a mod on PPD actually makes me (and many others) even less inclined to believe them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 03:21 PM
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“Personality” lmfao. Y’all sound like religious people talking about “souls”. It’s the same idea. A generally static and constant internal state which dictates your externalized behaviors. But you’re right, nobody should change that for anyone else. You really only ever get to truly own your sense of self, everything else in the world is just bells and whistles along the way to inevitable death. So it’s ridiculous to think anyone has more of a trump card to say what that should be besides you. L…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 02:23 PM
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Some young men today will own nothing and have no love lives. Then when we are not exactly happy about this, we will be told we are defective.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 01:50 PM
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B B B B B BASED
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 02:22 PM
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Yup. All these folks like “80% of men should just sit by with nothing, and have no problems with it”. Like, I doubt it’ll get to THAT point, but if it were, and they see no problems, yup, time for a reset.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:26 AM
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Have fun with all the violence this will inevitably create 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 06:23 AM
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Ahh yes, because humans seeing themselves as agents of natural selection hasn’t ever gone wrong… has it? Whatever you say, Eric Harris. Get yourself a shirt with it on there while you’re at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:20 PM
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Yup. You just feel like a tool being taken advantage of who gets discarded when they let people know that they too, have needs. It’s actually dehumanizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/24 10:09 PM
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I have fun doing the wrong things so apparently I’m a low value loser 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/24 06:54 AM
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Most based comment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 02:16 PM
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It’s even funnier when you put 2 and 2 together with how many men in that community are autistic, meaning they very well may be seeing the words and taking it at it’s clear definition and being like “oh, yea that technically applies to me”. So even self identifying as one isn’t some huge red flag like people think. It’s such a misused term.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 02:44 PM
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I think we agree here. If it really became a social movement “euthanize all ugly and unattractive men”, I would view it as general self defense for guys at that level to shoot anyone on sight who tries to drag them to the nearest kill-chamber.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 09:47 PM
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If people start to seriously try to murder ugly dudes en masse, I’d hope they would.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:19 PM
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Having an AI that’s modeled after you, going on digitalized dates with other peoples’ AI which are also modeled after them could potentially actually work out pretty well. They’d have a decently accurate reading of a potential match after that, the technology just has to be accessible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 06:07 PM
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Stop trying, be a misanthrope and just be hedonistic until it kills me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/24 04:57 PM
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It’s literally “emotional repression with extra steps”. Largely, when it comes to social roles and enforcing them, we’re not very different from older generations, we just tend to intellectualize why it’s different and call it a day, not realizing we effectively just do what we did before. It was ideological before to say men had to repress our emotions, old religious texts encouraged it etc. but even now, people just use evolution to make the same exact arguments, nor does the “age of men’s fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/24 03:24 PM
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I think I’m going to puke from all the toxic positivity in the comments on here 🤢 people shouldn’t have to repress their negative feelings in order to be acceptable. And if you do, that’s so fucked and says a lot about how little we have actually progressed as a culture. It’s literally “emotional repression with extra steps”.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 07:12 AM
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Lots of answers in here just extrapolate their own opinions into being fact. Someone having different senses of humor, different ways of talking, different interests, none of these ACTUALLY qualify a person as boring, just boring to YOU. There really is no “boring” person outside of being a literal vegetable. There’s just differences, and different people making those differences out to be something they do or don’t use to justify spending time with someone or not. As usual with PPD, all the ans…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 11:14 PM
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I’m going with my “Xanderhal” take on hookup culture. It’s not that having fun is bad, or that this looks boring for everyone, it’s just that lots of people “have fun” by doing stuff that’s like the opposite of this. It looks like THEY are having fun, while I couldn’t even imagine myself being there and NOT thinking “I’d rather be playing Doom Eternal fighting possessed Marauders”. I know the majority of those chicks would think I’m a loser for that, but that just adds to the rationale that I’d …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/24 07:35 PM
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I still don’t put it past a woman to actually believe that “isn’t asking for much” because people legitimately believe in a lot of things that are way crazier than that, that’s an opinion too which means it’s even more liable to be factually wrong, but be held dear by those who believe it as if it’s proven science. Being a troll isn’t hard, and I do have such a lowly view of people that I won’t immediately assume they’re capable of being one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:41 PM
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Unironically, based as fuck. Like, yea, just do what you want. Drugs, dangerous shit, stuff that’s obviously a waste of time, who cares because nobody cares about us as people. I’d add to that, throw it in peoples faces that they start caring too late. Once they start to act worried, throw it at them that they’re too late, and for that they’re abject failures. Basically, prove Labeling Theory correct. If they want to see us as scum no matter what we do, just do all the scummy things you wanna do…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:32 PM
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As I read through this post and comments, I felt the misanthropy in me grow stronger.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 05:21 PM
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This. Women can change, but if I’m expected to change just because they did, life starts to just feel like a big stupid game of HORSE/PIG, where “I made that shot, now you do too or you’re the loser”. And like, I’ll just go play actual games instead if that’s the case. At least then I don’t have my life actively degraded for losing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:56 PM
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Every comment from the OC I’ve ever seen amounts to “men suck and deserve to be in despair. Women are awesome and it’s men’s fault for any inconvenience they face”. I often just cope and tell myself they’re a troll but with how shitty humans can be, I could definitely believe they aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 04:45 PM
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Sounds like a personal problem
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:51 PM
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I disagree. There’s people who are on the edge of miserable and happy who aren’t having sex, and that one little boost could make it so they are definitely happy almost all the time, because the one thing in their life they don’t feel content with is their sex life. I would even say I’m one of these people, I recently started seeing someone casually and what happened since? Literally (yes, the literal definition of “literally”) every other person I know has said something like “hey you’ve been n…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 08:12 AM
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Watching this post evolve in real time has been depressing as fuck. This sub deserves the red button tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:25 PM
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Another post designed to make those in bad situations feel even worse. More dating-in-late-stage-capitalism bullshit where you’re just infinitely told to bootstrap out of everything no matter what, or who, caused it. A system of infinite problems because you can always just blame it on people rather than systems, then castigate out and exclude those people and pretend you solved the problem. I swear y’all just want these downtrodden men you speak of to just kill themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 04:44 PM
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Because religion is largely still popular in America (also on the decline 👍) and religion makes otherwise normal and and sane people act like absolute savages with no regard for actual truth in the religiously-condoned contexts, like the “tradition” of circumcision, which stemmed from the idea of reducing sexual pleasure so as to not make it any more tempting. So it’s just more religious Puritanism around sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/24 02:42 PM
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Oh I hear you, you can have those standards for friends if you want. Just don’t go projecting it onto everyone else and talking as if they don’t have friends when that is in fact just your opinion as friendship means different things to different people. I’ve also received emotional support from other online friends so it really is just the physical that’s not there, but even with my irl friends we just do irl stuff that we all like doing, and you can just as easily like doing online stuff like …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 07:05 PM
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I don’t have an issue with the post itself, I actually agree, I just also count online friends unlike OP who seems hellbent on saying people don’t have friends and making that decision for them what friends are. That’s some bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:05 PM
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Well apparently if you’re OP you just get to decide what a friend is, like some omnipotent deity that rules over the rest of us. And then spread the word about these folks being friendless and how they’re walking red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:02 PM
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Lmfao of course you don’t, otherwise losers would have friends and you don’t want that, you want to continue to look down your nose at them and for them to suffer for their perceived misdeeds. Besides, it’s just shortsighted. I had an online friend I knew for a couple years pass away in a car accident when he was 19. You think I wasn’t absolutely devastated? That I didn’t cry all through work the next day? With all due respect, shove that opinion up your ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 05:00 PM
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Awesome to know my government is more worried about the comparatively small group of potentially violent people (which is not even necessarily true to begin with) than the abysmal suicide rate, and are now to the point of allocating tax dollars to that cause. Makes me feel oh, so loved, and oh, so heard. Fuckin not. It’s so Joever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/24 01:46 PM
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Oh certainly not the first and won’t be the last either that’s for damn sure. I guess it kinda shocked me just how in your face that particular user was about it, I hadn’t even seen their username around before so they weren’t one of my usual suspects. Anywho, good day to you, I always enjoy seeing your name at the top of a long comment, I know it’ll be a good read.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 11:33 PM
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I know exactly who you’re referring to in that last paragraph. I almost replied to them earlier too and just deleted it before hitting the reply button. Yup, they literally said in no uncertain terms that “lonely men are fragile and easy to trigger, and it’s hilarious to me”. Straight up Sadism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 06:17 PM
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Oh I’ll make it better for myself that’s for sure, but I’m not going to throw it all to the fickle impulses of humanity by sharing it with anyone, certainly not within the confines of current dating culture. If me doing what I want and nothing more wasn’t enough for someone before, they can kick rocks once I’m 30. I ain’t being excluded and then suddenly throwing my soul to someone who wasn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:58 AM
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That’s why I play Doom. If you can’t play, you. Will. Be. Fucked. Anyone who discounts my sense of confidence from being as good as I am at that game won’t be around me a whole lot, because I’d rather just play more.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 10:37 PM
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I’m 27 and if it doesn’t get better before 30 I’m calling it. Just gonna fish, dive, hunt, eat good food and play video games until I die if that happens. And no one will stop me either, only I will when I call it quits.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:22 PM
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It also just makes men feel shitty and we are in the age of men’s feelings, so it’s an inherent negative if it’s negatively effecting men’s mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:11 PM
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No. You have to make sure to change the laws about purchasing it too. Currently, I can’t remember where, but there’s places where it’s legal to sell but illegal to buy. That’s where you’re going to run into issues with public opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:25 PM
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Why do sex workers need to be eligible for relationships with men to be seen as people? Men get told alllll the time “you aren’t entitled to a relationship”, and it’s insinuated that a woman rejecting a man for a relationship is NOT her “not seeing him as a human being”. Why does that work a certain way in this case and different in another? Are sex workers just holier than thou and more deserving of relationships at an inherent level more than men? I thought “nobody” was entitled to relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 01:19 PM
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I know I don’t have to settle for women who don’t like me, that’s why I’m single 🤷‍♂️ cause no women want me and I don’t have time to please people who only see you as what you can do for and give to them, while having to simultaneously pretend to believe they actually like me for me. I’d rather just be a hedonist in every other possible way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 02:32 AM
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Lol, I saw it was that user responding to a post like this and knew immediately what to expect. Idk how you expected anything different from them if you recognize their name.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:40 PM
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I think it’s just becoming more common in general, men who don’t socially fit in otherwise are often expected to just withhold themselves from this part of life, and this was my experience growing up. It’s like if you’re of a certain lower status, you’re expected to be asexual and if you show signs of breaking that expectation you’ll get dogpiled. Other kids in school weren’t telling me “THAT girl won’t like you” it was always “she doesn’t, and no other girls do either, so just stop”. But of cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 01:35 PM
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I have counted at least 3 comments that literally say “most men are just bad”. This post and it’s responses encapsulates this sub to a fuckin T.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 04:49 PM
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I’d say men aggregately contribute more just due to sheer numbers, but individual women displaying toxic attitudes towards men very well may hit harder when it happens, at least for some men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 03:44 PM
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Uhhh, yes? Duh? How far from sanity have we gotten to even consider saying men shouldn’t feel any certain way about their horniest years being wasted away? I swear everyone is just competing to redefine where people, usually men, have to just repress our feelings like the old days without calling it that. “Should men feel negatively about an obviously negative experience?” if you even ask this question you’re borderline insane already.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:27 PM
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These “I love that men are struggling, more pussy for me!” posts really remind me how there’s no sense of any type of collective alliance between men like there is women. I just love knowing other people get off on my suffering, it makes me love the world so much and wanna fundamentally change every aspect of myself just to be a part of it! Lmfao what a joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 01:48 AM
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I do that “offend people who deserve it” but with being awkward. If you’re THAT sensitive to a harmless and innocent social slip-up (or even repeated ones) then I’ll just do it to you on purpose (or really just whole heartedly be myself with no regard for being awkward or weird) because I’m not actually doing anything bad to you. The mass social judgment of awkward people as less-than undoubtedly hurts more awkward people than the awkwardness has ever hurt the people who hate it so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 03:06 PM
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Because they want them to suffer. Let’s just say it how it is and stop avoiding the obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/23 02:52 PM
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Now THIS is what I call an oversimplification. Loneliness, especially the kind talked about around here, is mainly about perception. There’s a reason people love that old Robin Williams quote so much “I used to think ending up alone was the worst thing, it’s not, it’s ending up surrounded by people who make you feel alone”. It perfectly encapsulates the experience of “perceived isolation” aka loneliness. It’s also relatable in the way that it basically says “yes, it’s better to be alone with you…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:19 PM
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I want a chance to watch humanity fail as they move through the “Great Filter”. It isn’t guaranteed, but I could live with the idea that we came SO close to the brink, but came back. That will be an equally entertaining existence to live out while observing the world around me. Whether human life will prove to be a great failure or a great triumph, observing the process is an entertaining prospect. It’s why even if I viscerally hate some of you in here, I cannot demote you from the position of “…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 03:29 PM
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These posts always come off so weird to me. It’s like “look! Men are actually naturally worse off than women! Look at them suffer in their delusions, randomly meandering through life, never being able to actually make a better life for themselves, LOL!” It’s like, even if you’re right, okay? Are you going to start being more empathetic and care about it more as a result? All the vibes given off by posts like this seems like, no, you won’t. You’ll just hold onto the assumption that men are doing …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 03:10 PM
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Whereas on dating it’s basically expected you just intuit your way to perfection. I see it often said that not getting feedback is an intended part of the dating process, especially for men were supposed to “just know what we did” and if we can’t it’s chalked up as us just being insufficient as people and thus we don’t deserve a partner anyway. Dating for men really does feel like an exercise in “throwing babies into the deep end to find out who swims and who sinks”.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 01:34 PM
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Someone thinking another person being awkward is enough to totally discount them as a person is not worth my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 01:47 PM
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Yup. I made a comment along the lines of “95% of suicides could be men and it would just be hand waved away” but yours does it well too. The assumption of meritocracy really is what the problem is. Once that assumption is held, only those who deserve it could possibly oppose you. Just like how conservatives never want to help homeless people because “they’ve failed in the meritocratic system. What else can you even do for them?”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 06:04 PM
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You can’t peer pressure kids who aren’t even invited in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 07:22 PM
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Give it up dude, people just don’t care. I don’t condone it but I’ve hardly ever condoned anything humanity does. The suicide rate of men will have to hit literal pandemic-level highs for anyone to care. 80%? Maybe when we’re 99% of them people will start to ask the question and care more meaningfully.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 06:01 AM
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Its the part that breaks my heart the most. Lonely men are just defacto assumed to be some wretched, depraved, terrorist in waiting. Really shows how far behind the ball we are on this. They yell and bitch like “lonely men have to do ALL the work!” meanwhile it’s clear they’re choosing more and more not to and to just leave this world behind (either partly or all the way) because yes that’s an option and if you only ever push them towards it, more and more will surrender themselves to it earlier…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 05:55 AM
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You’re over thinking it and applying undue moral judgements on top of it. People like to feel important, and its not a bad thing for them to feel as such. Those too anxious to see if their presence would be taken positively, can see if their absence is taken negatively as a way to see if people actually want them around or not. And its unfortunate because everyone validates their unimportance to the world and throw it in their face constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 06:18 PM
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I will die on this hill. I went through a dry spell for the last 6-7 years and recently I’ve met someone who clicks well with me. Literally every person in my life has since made out-of-the-blue comments about how I’m so much happier and more engaged in day to day life, meanwhile nothing else has changed and many things like my job and finances have gotten significantly worse during that same time. But what did change? A woman actually took a liking to me, and acts in ways that communicate that …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/23 03:19 PM
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In the case of a draft I’m going to prison not the battlefield.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 01:05 PM
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Every life is a project from birth to death, it just so happens some people turn up in your life at certain points for certain reasons, and it’s up to you to tolerate it or not. Personally, I don’t. If you’re gonna wait at the finish line for me, you’re getting left the fuck behind, if I even give you the time of day. If I get to a nice place solo, I’ll stay solo. It’s just funny how often women do this to men in the context of sex and romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:38 PM
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People simply don’t understand the absolute mind boggling biological nature of this fact. We are literally wired to survive at all costs, yet we have record numbers of people making the choice to defy that by their own actions. I seriously doubt there’s numbers like it for any other organism on the planet, where their aggregate life expectancy is put on a downward trend because so many have began to voluntarily die by their own hands, mostly due to describable worldly and personal circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:24 PM
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Yes we do. What are you even going to do about it anyway? Forcefully muzzle us? Good luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:21 PM
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“You don’t get to complain about your dating woes” Will you guys fucking stop with this? You won’t ever get people to shut up about things that bother them, nor will you ever forcefully do it, that ain’t happening, and if you wanna try I hope you’re met with endless pushback. Besides, Isn’t that what we all acknowledge is behind men’s emotional problems, largely? Constant repression? Why are you all peddling it as a law when that’s some of the biggest criticism of RP types (rightly so because em…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:49 PM
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Bad bot
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:10 PM
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This is literally Brave New World type shit. You’re talking about SOMA. What’s next? Reservations for those castrated to be forced into so as to not be eye sores to you pure, perfect humans who get to indulge in yourselves endlessly? Edit to add- does anyone else think about how we talk about castrating rapists and pedos, and now OP wants to include unattractive men in that category too? What a world we live in where people like this exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 12:06 PM
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I mean… men are like 80% of who kill themselves. Biological organisms that are literally wired to survive, blowing their brains out on purpose. Idk about you, that’s a pretty good metric to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:45 PM
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When I read about that a while back I immediately thought of all the ways we systematically tell men that were useless. It’s fuckin sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 01:32 PM
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This is how I see it too. Men have systemic issues we face, manosphere goons are grifters looking for money and followers, and the only group who has already presented willingness to see “systemic issues that X group faces” also tells you to kick rocks and you deserve it, like…. it’s clear to me that nobody actually cares for these men. Which leaves me apathetic as hell towards anyone who pretends to care because I’m just waiting for the other boot to drop where they reveal the grift and/or tota…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:13 PM
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Funny enough I think the whole “just live your life and stop complaining” people are who goad on people like OP the most. They obviously are willing to just do what you don’t want them to defy you, when you say “shut up and stop complaining”, you literally can’t stop them from doing it, so the rebelliousness kicks in. So why even bother? Besides I’ve always thought “you can’t complain” comes off like you wanna forcefully muzzle someone- not a good look.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:46 PM
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I for one welcome our AI overlords.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:40 AM
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Easy. Just eat, sleep, work and hang with your AI gf in the vast digital world of infinity. No need for anything else. Video games and other solitary distractions. Not like the people they go out and see would ever ever give a fuck about them anyway. Why do you care what they do? You already don’t, why start when they actually take steps to make it better for themselves in ways they see fit? I can only imagine you want to take literally every bit of positivity in these men’s lives. Because why e…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:35 AM
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Yup. People literally just need to be nicer, everyone nowadays is so edgy and looking for an opportunity to demean someone they see as below them. And they go way harder than is necessary to get the point across, meaning the demeaning behavior WAS the point of it. Which is just fucked and makes me dislike humanity for being a bunch of sadists.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 11:41 PM
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Yea my old account had her blocked. About to do the same, her posts make me hate the world .001% more every time I see them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:25 AM
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She literally strawmans people and on other comments is all “QuOtE mE!!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 05:24 AM
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I honestly have no idea. I always thought I was pretty lenient, but lately I’ve come to find out me being lenient means I’m more open to it than other men. The most attractive woman I work with is a 34yo curvy Mom and amongst other coworkers she is “fat” but to me her figure is just perfectly proportioned. Then there’s other girls I think are average and other guys are like “she thicc”. So maybe my radar is just weird 🤷‍♂️ but for the sake of a hard answer, yes. “Not attracted to” and “attracted…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:58 PM
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If I had a nickel for every progressive chick I’ve seen say something along the lines of “nuh uh, I don’t have to actually live out my values!” I’d be able to go see a nice escort.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 06:38 PM
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“You can be abused and isolated all through childhood and you have to still come out a cheery outgoing cupcake or you’re a piece of shit.” Absolutely zero regard for developmental differences, or a total rejection of them having long term effects. Or the good ol “go to therapy” aka “human repair shop” where you’re sent for reprogramming until you’re up to acceptable corporate standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:15 PM
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I think the biggest single contributor is the whole principle of “watch what they do not what they say.” For 2 reasons that both find some degree of fault in each side. People obviously say and then do different shit constantly women just are able to get away with it, especially in the sense of dating and sex, I see left leaning progressive women say “I believe those things but I don’t have to completely live out my views to be a good person.” And I get so confused. It’s a principle today that y…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:11 PM
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Good bot
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 03:03 PM
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I once had someone on here tell me awkward men even wanting to be with women was “aberrant” behavior. That means “unusual and strays away from accepted norms.” They literally see imperfect men having feelings for women as unacceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 02:41 PM
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Men who perpetually lose at everything anyway have no reason to hold “doesn’t work” as a standard for themselves to try something else. That’s the point of it being rebellious, the outcome doesn’t matter anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:26 AM
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Humans loooove our power dynamics. Subjugating others is what we live for.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:52 AM
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What women define as “doing work to be attractive to men” they also claim to do for themselves, so partaking in the “necessary steps” doesn’t detract them from what they’d presumably do otherwise. Men though, we tend to not have the same natural inclinations towards every trait women want us to have (or so it seems), meaning we have to stray from our baseline state more than women do in order to be successful, which for many men, definitely counts as and feels like “work”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 06:46 PM
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“That’s just how women argue and it has nothing to do with gender” 🙃
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 10:09 AM
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Looks and personality are equally out of our existential control. They’re equally shallow. Determinism FTW.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:37 PM
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It’s also like, the parts of our development that lead to whatever “personality” we have (really just new age language for souls) is just as out of to our control as the parts that lead to our looks. Because guess the fuck what? Determinism and Randomness rule everything. Including people, and our conscious experience. It’s only that way because it is, you didn’t choose for your brains structure to give way to your perceived experience, nor did you choose that structure after that was set. Nowhe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 06:45 PM
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You’re just expected to live and die alone and put up no fuss about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:45 PM
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So happy I stopped thinking about this and became a misanthrope. Y’all are ALL insufferable. Just endless subjugation from both sides, some are just more shrouded in “MuH fREe WiLl” and so it doesn’t look as insidious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:44 PM
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People literally think you should “just do” everything nowadays. and not ever receiving anything is somehow a sustainable model to keep doing those.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 04:37 PM
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They can say that and be all “wHaT yOu MeAn No EmPaThY???” but when lonely men say “I’m lonely” they obviously want to kill and rape women. Fuckin crazy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:25 AM
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Nope, you did not. I was checking because I don’t see that sentiment often (allowing people to become bitter without it being some personal failing), so it woulda sucked to see it only to see it held in a shroud of hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:34 PM
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Is 2 or 3 instances of seeing “kill all men” or the such enough to justify a man becoming jaded?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 06:28 PM
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I’m pretty sure this is actually what RPers mean by 80/20.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:29 AM
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Brooootal. Not even top 20% is enough anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 11:26 AM
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My main issue with OP is the whole “no right to complain” cause that’s just silencing people, but this is actually really true. I literally lose my ability to focus on and do my own stuff if I have more than like 4 close friends, cause when you’re my close friend I like spending lots of time with you. But once I get to about 4, I can watch my free time evaporate into nothing, in real time. And once that happens, I’m no longer “interesting to be around” because I have no time to have interests. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:47 PM
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Okay sure but people do shit they “don’t have a right to” all the time so putting it this way seems like you’re just fantasizing about forcefully muzzling any and all men who struggle. Which is all too typical, and it won’t ever happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:33 PM
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People just have lost the plot when it comes to human beings and how our sense of self develops. We all think everyone should be able to be the same, or be as expected, with absolutely zero wiggle room for developmental differences. Isolated all through your youth? You should be able to be as outgoing, be able to assume the good in people, and actually desire to go out and be social just as easily as the other kid who had a wonderfully inclusive and developmental childhood and teenage years. Tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:25 PM
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I for one hope AI just wrecks shop, and Climate Change swoops in and delivers the finishing blows.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/23 05:15 PM
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See this is something I take issue with, it’s not about “high” vs “low” standards, or “superficial” vs “substantive” standards, it’s about whether they’re standardized. Because if the standards become standardized, the pressures from women on men are all the same, and I believe environmental pressures play a large role in our overall development as people. I don’t take moral issue with it, but I do think it’s lame that it seems lots of women fawn over men who are effectively the same person, if …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 01:45 PM
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I thought men were just socially conditioned to numb them out and suppress them? And I thought that was unhealthy for us?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:07 PM
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Get over it. We’re in the age of men’s feelings if you didn’t hear. You don’t get to throw around anti social sentiments about men while assuming we will emotionally shut down and not be hurt by it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:30 PM
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Oh, and emotionally abusing lonely men by repeatedly telling them they’re useless bums doesn’t constitute “hurting others”?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:19 PM
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Yea I’m being way too generous with them if that’s this posters history, and I saw a comment from them just now about another commenter “not even being tall enough for fat chicks to like you so who cares”. So yea this user is something else, just an antagonistic fuckface. They also responded to me just now about the suicidal thoughts that most commonly preceded men’s deaths with “if they’re not hurting anyone they can do what they want.” Bruh. What. The. Fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:16 PM
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It really is incredible to me. Men who kill themselves reported to most often feeling “worthless” and “useless” before doing the deed. And these fuckers do everything they can do instill those feelings out of some sadistic idea of it motivating the men. Sickening to my stomach. Edit- better wording.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 12:04 PM
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Take your equality or leave it. I refuse to reinforce a woman’s behavior who only ever expects me to initiate, by giving her sex. I can’t imagine anything worse than approaching an independent and liberal woman who is showing signs she likes me or I know she does, rawdogging a pro life chick is the only dumber thing I can think of. That’s just telling her “you can play any role you want, I’ll still be your traditional man but only in the ways you want, and expect nothing different from you in re…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 01:12 AM
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Wouldn’t work. The creative writing tool of “show don’t tell” would apply here. It would seem dishonest and condescending, potentially gaslighting because if nobody ever acts like you’re attractive except for telling you, it’ll seem less true. Which opens up space for negative talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 12:11 PM
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Nah. Nobody chooses which gender OR sex they’re born as, which means the gendered expectations and struggles are also involuntary. Thus it’s nobody’s specific expectation to fix anything except those who are equipped to be able to. Physicists do physics, chemists chemistry, and people who make good friends and social connections would be best equipped to help socially isolated people. But we live in a simultaneously materialistic and narcissistic society, so people with those tools just use them…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:27 PM
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If you’re not socially awkward it’s normal, if you are awkward it’s abnormal. That simple really.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:00 AM
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Nah. Certain men are allowed to relish enjoy and express their sexuality. If you’re awkward, for-fucking-get it. Make one, even innocent blunder about expressing your interest, and you’ll be seen as a literal demon and your future interest will be clouded by that. Idk why people think “black pill” is just looks oriented. IME awkwardness around sexuality is seen as the true “you’re not allowed to have these feelings for other people” trait.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 10:59 AM
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He doesn’t wanna be (or at least has no intention of being with) with each of them for long so it really is inconsequential to him achieving his goals and how that will affect the people he does it with. That’s why they choose to fake it in ways that allow them to get it in quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 02:37 PM
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Loneliness can lead to neutral or positive outcomes too. You’re just assuming with no concern for exceptions to the rule, or I suspect you’d just redefine your argument to include them too cause at the end of the day people just hate lonely men for being lonely. We’re expected to infinitely weather the storm with no community or support, and if we cant do that, the lack of support becomes retroactively justified and justified indefinitely from there on out. We don’t get to be included, and we do…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 11:44 AM
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Nobody has the choice. Free Will is not real.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 11:41 AM
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That eugenics point was creepy as fuck. And like, they think the men they’re talking about will just accept it lol like they’ll gladly just watch everyone else have fun and actually BE humans, and just be grateful they aren’t straight up culled from the herd, or some demented logic like that. “Be thankful we keep you around even just to continue being economically exploited and kept on the outskirts of civilization.” Yea, totally a good idea 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 06:33 PM
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Have you tried not being exhausted?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 03:34 PM
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Literally proving me right lmao. It went from “no you’re wrong” all the way to “you’re right and you deserve it”. You never cared, not really . And I’m actually relatively fine myself, I just have a conscience and pay attention. Edit- by you I’m not being personal, it’s a general statement to people who pretend to care about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 03:08 PM
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Blah blah blah blah blah blah BLAH. Just more justifications to make those who already suffer, suffer more while we wag our fingers at them. Keep excluding people, telling them they deserve it, and then bitch and moan about how they react to it and about having statistics that reflect an unhealthy and unhappy population. Let me know when the suicide rates lighten up and stop dragging down the aggregate life expectancy. It won’t happen when this is the dominant message to significant minorities o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 01:35 PM
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It’s always more covert. Like implying men who don’t get laid are likely to be rapists or what not. I hear that one pretty often.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 11:00 AM
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Autistic people have absolutely obscene rates of abuse too. Like way higher than lots of other demographics. Because guess what? They can’t even tell when they’re being abused half the time, especially if it’s emotional or social abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 11:40 AM
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Seems like more of a black hole who’s gravity becomes so strong you cant escape.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 10:57 AM
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Because being angsty teens already meant we would get forgotten and left behind. Not for some other boys though, their angst was accepted and they were given the truly good faith opportunity to grown out of it naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 10:37 AM
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HA. Be awkward enough as a guy and you aren’t even allowed standards for yourself. People will sic onto you even for looking at a girl if they believe you’ll make her uncomfortable for any reason in the case you tried to talk to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 10:33 AM
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It’s also not my fault either, unless you see me as a representative/monolith of men. I have feelings too, so don’t doubt that being generalized into being behaviorally responsible to not step on toes I have no way of knowing are there, will make me feel like some sort of collective symbol rather than a full individual human and person, which is a turn off. Men are individuals and have feelings, get with the times and adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:00 PM
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Sounds like you just don’t like sex as much as they need their ideal partner to 🤷‍♂️ but hey incompatibilities happen right? Complaining about 20 minutes is pathetic too lol, jus sayin’.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:47 PM
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That personality and attitude is largely influenced by parents and peers. The brain isn’t some supernatural object that exists beyond cause->effect. You’re either ignoring that and thinking the brain is super special, or you accept it but just give literally zero fucks if that process fucks over people you’ve convinced yourself deserve it even though you’ve simultaneously accepted it is a malleable process, meaning it didn’t have to be that way. You have zero empathy or you’re just religiously m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:15 PM
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Ah yes, more arguments to just throw people into the deep end of the pool to find the “natural winners” so we don’t ever have to actually try to help people who aren’t that. This is just another average PPD post.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 12:31 PM
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I love how everyone in here talks about “staying out of peoples sex lives” yet let them find out the local socially awkward guy is into someone and watch them all talk about how he will just be shitty about it and make her uncomfortable for even knowing he likes her.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:22 AM
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No. It’s more like, they have to become more like them to get girls to like them, and it’s seen as an existential assault on their identity. They feel as if they’re having their sexual drive used as ransom to make them change themselves into whatever it is other people want them to be. Meanwhile other people seemingly just naturally fall into each other while still maintaining a sense of fully autonomous personal identity, that they largely chose for themselves to become, unlike the guy who has …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 08:37 AM
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No no, that second one is depressing. To me it really demonstrates how sick and twisted people are, I honestly wonder if they get the same satisfaction thinking about it as someone who wiped out the whole rival tribe in primal times- getting to destroy their rivals genetic legacy. It surely seems like eugenicists celebrating in victory sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 01:26 PM
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You can’t exist in the same psychological state when you’re not having sex, as you would if you were having sex. We just literally give zero fucks about if people are unhappy because of it or not. Because we all hate each other now 🤷‍♂️.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:41 AM
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🫡 🗿
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:54 AM
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I just don’t even think about asking lol 🥲
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:55 AM
1

Being a man of culture, I prefer the written word. Plus, now I get to have some kinky AIs write any fan fic I want. I could make it write one where I get with every PPD poster 1 at a time. I could have it write one where us black pillers and doomers pillage the sub and take all the women using magic that pulls you through the screen. Y’all need more imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 07:59 PM
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Suicide rate (and deaths of despair in general) dragging down the aggregate life expectancy with 75-80% of them men, and we still get reactions like this. Okay then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:01 AM
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Not just that. She also made one saying if your partner doesn’t pay for your rent to just have a roommate. Yea, “men don’t have to pay for anything”.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:44 AM
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My highest upvoted comment is saying this exact thing. Bring up men and it’s bootstrap talk until the chickens roost.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 05:27 AM
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This person told me the other day that awkward men desiring women is “aberrant behavior”. Don’t even try with them. Ain’t worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 06:39 PM
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The forces in society that have influence over how people turn out. Parents, schools and colleges, politics, businesses etc you can’t just throw standard and expectations at men and have them achieve those standards without preparing them for it in good faith. Or at least, a sustainable system doesn’t do that. But hey, is sustainability really a human value to begin with?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 06:09 AM
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Absolutely. But from like, the basic attachment level that’s developed in the early years before and leading up to puberty. Parents suck most of the time honestly. Schools too. And we just largely emerged from a longstanding sexually repressed conservative culture, and some of us were steeped in that during those crucial years and now find ourselves in a place we never really got intuitively and psychologically prepared for, in the ways that “being prepared for life” normally takes place. Unfort…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:28 AM
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Parents and school mostly. Which cascades into future failures, which cascade into even more future failures. And it’s eventually just made out to have been entirely his fault the entire time and thus he deserves any negative treatment or experience he “has to” go through.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:20 AM
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lol no. But that also requires an actual investment into men for our own sake of “catching up” and the best we’ve gotten is “adapt or die alone” and that is not a real good faith attempt.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 05:09 AM
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The mad boys are the ones who do that. The sad boys are too busy hating ourselves too much to be capable of acting normally and simply end up eternally sidelined to hate ourselves into oblivion, by ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 05:19 PM
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I have one relationship with myself and I should consider it a product. Late stage problems bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:05 AM
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Except the hot ones thought that from the get go and still get something out of life. Rejected guys get thrown into social isolation for 6 years and come out the other end “not great”, get blamed for it, then fully alienated and castigated forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 08:02 AM
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Not true. If you’re awkward and geeky you are borderline expected to just keep your feelings to yourself. Conversations about attractive coworkers have literally straight ended because I chimed in, exactly the way they did “oh I think this or that floor worker/lead is super attractive”. When asked, it’s “just weird to know you have a sexual drive”. Like, what the actual fuck does that mean? If your feelings make people innately awkward from the mention of them for any reason, you are expected to…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:56 AM
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If I was actually going out and getting laid or in a relationship yea. I see neither happening soon so if this came out, I’d make this same fuss whenever someone brings it up and then not take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 07:31 AM
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Aka a meat bag for the military. Classic way to dispose of the undesirables.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 01:27 PM
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Sounds like dating is just a “rich get richer” scheme where the resource is love then. Don’t have enough for yourself? Don’t expect any from anyone, no matter how bad it gets or how much you ask and plea. Have more than enough already? Oh boy you’ll get so much more now, without even having to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 12:43 PM
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Brutal truth of life. I never even learned what love really was, just “helping me not die and stay alive at bare minimum”. Guess I just get to flounder around, never experiencing it, and I’ll just get preached to about it. Don’t have enough love for myself so I don’t get any extra. Once again, in life, the rich get richer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 10:06 AM
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It’s a bit of an oxymoron to ask me this I think. When you say “ideal woman” I’m already picturing someone who is massively into me at the point I ask this question. In a way, a woman can’t be my ideal type if she’s unwilling to make it known she’s into me relatively quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:34 AM
2

Precisely. It already is whenever people even mention it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:47 PM
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Sky fairies have nothing to do with oral sex, unless you’re super kinky. I’m just saying that because lots of humans do or don’t do something, means nothing. They said because lots of cultures don’t even do oral for women, it can’t be important. You cannot possibly extrapolate cultures historically ignoring oral to oral not being important in good faith. If the girl you’re with likes it, it’s important. And I’d wager the number of women who say that it is important or at least nice to get, is >5…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 05:10 PM
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Average low effort rebuttal
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:47 PM
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Right away, maybe 15-20, I’m actually decent looking if I give a shit and dress for my type. It’s when I don’t open my mouth that those all are gonna change their mind. And it’ll start a cycle of them judging me for being quiet, and me judging them for judging me for being quiet when they don’t know anything about me. And likely, no dates would happen once that process starts cause it goes downhill quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 07:08 AM
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Lots of cultures, hell almost all of them, believe in sky fairies too. Bad standard to judge by.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 06:46 AM
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Seeing people constantly laugh at and be happy others are suffering is sure to make me think better of humanity…… and I’m sure it won’t increase the aggregate suffering in the world…… absolutely not! turns on Nacho voice “What a joke….”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 05:45 AM
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I don’t disagree overall, I just don’t agree with the “men aren’t allowed to want sex” bit and it’s small. Men who are attractive are more than allowed to want and desire sex, and casually make this known in social settings. It’s awkward men who get looked down noses at for talking about sex or making it passively known they are a sexual being with a drive and desires. People simply assume awkward and quiet men are unable to fulfill their sexual desires, so stack that with a stereotype of “lonel…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 05:44 PM
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Oh man the “shared interests” point. No gender gets to have any amount of cultural power to force the other to like certain things. I don’t have to not like fishing because it’s “basic bitch shit”, and I shouldn’t have to suppress my love for it out of fear of hurting my dating and love life options. Because ya know, that “emotional intimacy” part necessitates that people actually are themselves and are seen and loved for that, not endlessly socially pressured to only like the pre-approved hobbi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 10:57 AM
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People are just in general. People don’t typically even want to be friends with socially anxious messes. They want us to fix ourselves before being worthy of desiring companionship. Until then we’re expected to just shut up about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 12:31 PM
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This right here. The ones who know what they’re doing will always tell you de escalation and avoidance is better. It’s a no-fuckin-duh point, but so many thick skulled Neanderthals don’t know this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:35 AM
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“Not knowing how to talk to women” looootta times just means “has a 5% harder time opening up, and literally nobody actually tries to talk to them”. If people give me the chance, I’ll open up. But that means actually asking ME questions, reciprocating the ones I ask, actually trying to talk to me. But men are expected to just be constantly smooth charisma machines so I’ll know my place and never ask for friends or anything else again.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:27 AM
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If you want to hear a progressive talk like a conservative, bring up men’s issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 08:55 AM
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Give it up dude. Some of us will die living our whole lives alone, no one will give a shit, and the universe will not even notice. And yea, people will cheer on the despair and loneliness of awkward men. They always have, and always will. The universe is a dark, cold, and heartless place.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 04:47 AM
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Because I’m awkward. And awkward men have been deemed to not deserve love or support. And I can’t just build my brain from the neurons up in isolation to be a socially smooth charismatic person. Positive experiences are kinda required for that part, and literally nobody thinks I’m interesting enough to even try getting to know. I can’t remember the last time someone actually cared how I was, or about anything about me. Even family members just make it about themselves, if they bother to ask at a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:43 PM
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I can’t believe just how much “throw them in the deep end and just see who sinks and swims” these people want to apply to the developmental period in young peoples lives. It’s called “developmental” for a damn reason yo. Act like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 08:24 PM
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Mmm, I’d disagree but not necessarily as you’d expect. Certain men are allowed to have and express as much sexual desire as they please, they don’t have cultural stereotypes built against their personality or looks, and they are sufficiently attractive enough that their ability to fulfill their desires doesn’t negatively affect them, so both practically and socially they are “allowed to want sex.” Then there’s the ugly awkward guys, who if they’re lucky enough to even be seen as worthy of wantin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:18 PM
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