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Marcelgerad/r/seduction19/11/18 03:41 AM
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Haha you just cold approached bro! You didn't bomb shit. I mean seriously you just did a cold approach, that's fucking awesome keep it up!
/r/seduction26/05/18 12:52 AM
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Is there anyone here reading this that is from Melbourne? OP are you in melb? I wouldn't say that I'm looking for a wing but... I'd be down to go approach, help you out and go out together if your in Melb
/r/seduction24/05/18 03:58 AM
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Where abouts are you at my man?
/r/seduction10/05/18 04:00 AM
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I actually can't tell if you and your post were being serious. I've seen heaps of very misleading information on this sub that I can't tell when someone is joking or not
/r/seduction03/05/18 10:54 AM
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Make friends with most of the staff there, they're all usually bored and hoping for someone to talk to. It's also great because you always have someone to talk to if you work out when they're working. You can do direct approaches but be very picky about em and really only do them when you get a good approach invitation. Other then that just do easy approaches that are convenient, if you're next to her ask how her workout's going, ask if you can work in with her if she's using a machine that you …
/r/seduction03/05/18 06:20 AM
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Bro, literally none of those 3 things are true.
/r/seduction03/05/18 06:13 AM
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You literally just opened a stranger. It doesn't matter if it comes off as friendly. That's all I have to say really, they don't know what you want and if you're friendly they're not worried/frightened
/r/seduction03/05/18 06:11 AM
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Bro invite her over to hang out and make sure none of your friends are around this time haha
/r/seduction03/05/18 04:16 AM
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Just wanted to see updates, this looked promising. What ended up happening dude?
/r/seduction03/05/18 04:13 AM
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So you've taken her on two coffee dates so far?
/r/seduction03/05/18 04:07 AM
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Yesssssss! Just invite her over to hang out and then escalate.
/r/seduction03/05/18 04:01 AM
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Yes my man! There's gotta come a point where he acts like a man and tries to fuck her. If you don't want that just be friends with her.
/r/seduction03/05/18 03:56 AM
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Sounds like a good position to be in! Now they'll fuck you quicker without worrying about being on their best behavior cos they don't see you as a future boyfriend.
/r/seduction03/05/18 03:26 AM
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Should usually smile on the approach most of the time. You're trying to be friendly and disarming on the approach, after that you can do whatever you feel. Could you imagine if some random person started talking to you and had a serious expression on their face? You'd be skeptical and like wtf does this person want.
/r/seduction03/05/18 03:17 AM
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I guess that's the best thing about dating huh, different things work for different folks. If this works for you then there's not much I can say haha. I obviously reckon mine and OP's way works better but at the end of the day it's whatever works for that person.
/r/seduction26/04/18 11:03 AM
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Sure, that's cool! However, you can't answer what you do in your spare time without needing someone there even though it's what YOU do? BRUH c'mon
/r/seduction26/04/18 06:36 AM
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Well she's not replying to you so I assume she's not interested anymore. You could double text her? But then you'd look really needy. Why didn't you try anything on the 3 date?
/r/seduction26/04/18 06:33 AM
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It's not a bad idea at all. The only problem I saw was that not everyone is going to be out rock climbing all the time or doing fun shit like that, that they can invite a girl to join along with. And he said don't ask her when she's free or her schedule. I just find shit like that ridicolous haha. Also the rejection won't feel as bad but it's still a rejection so you shouldn't pretend that you're going to do some activity just so that you can invite her to tag along.
/r/seduction26/04/18 06:30 AM
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Have a normal conversation with her next time you see her. Make some quick small talk or say a joke. "You're feet must be hurting from working so long" She'd reply with something and you can proceed from there. Try to assess her body language to see if she's actually interested. Sometimes they're just being polite.
/r/seduction26/04/18 04:31 AM
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Just think about it in reverse. You're being really cool and your expressing heaps of interest in this other person, showing them how much you like and appreciate them AND you get absolutely nothing in return. What's happening is that these girls are being warm with and interested in you but it seems like you don't care about them at all. Now they hate you because they put themselves out there but you shut them down pretty much.
/r/seduction26/04/18 04:14 AM
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You met a girl from tinder and didn't try to fuck her? You took her out on three dates and never tried to fuck her? Bro I think she just lost interest because it wasn't going anywhere. I mean it's great to take the girl out and have a good time but at some point you gotta get down to business and close.
/r/seduction26/04/18 04:09 AM
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There's only one way to know if it was an IOI and that's to move forward. Also don't just abort mission cos you don't know how to proceed haha. You should've led the conversation, asked her name or introduced yourself and then proceed from there into a normal convo.
/r/seduction26/04/18 04:05 AM
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Not sure what the problem is. I mean maybe her reason was legit or maybe it wasn't. However, you still got her out and she seems keen to spend more time with you so I would see her again. Put your ego to the side and get that pussy haha
/r/seduction26/04/18 04:01 AM
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Join some meet up groups and do activities that you enjoy but also involve other people as well. Bro, what do you like doing for fun? What activities interest you? What kinds of things do you do in your spare time?
/r/seduction26/04/18 03:57 AM
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This is just lame, no offense. There's nothing wrong with asking someone else when they're free. It doesn't imply that you're less in demand or that your tie is less precious, get outta her with that. Also if your time is so precious then you would obviously want to find out the other persons schedule so that you could find a time to fit them in that works with your own 'busy' schedule.
/r/seduction26/04/18 03:31 AM
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That's cool man. It is a good place to meet people tho for others that do want to.
/r/seduction19/04/18 04:18 AM
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Isn't good that it's harder now to get girls? It means you have to step up and get better. Also means that you have a lot of guys who are finding it more difficult for them as well. As soon as you get past those guys you'll be having a field day.
/r/seduction19/04/18 04:16 AM
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I never said forming groups isn't natural, it's cool to go out in groups. I disagreed with you saying that going out by yourself will NEVER be natural and that it shouldn't because it is natural.
/r/seduction19/04/18 03:57 AM
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Is it cos of fear? Because you are missing out a lot. Gym bunnies are hot as fuck.
/r/seduction19/04/18 03:42 AM
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You've had a crush on a girl for 2 years that you don't really know well. Read that statement again. Also I'm pretty sure she's not interested from her text so you should ask other girls as well.
/r/seduction19/04/18 03:40 AM
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Will NEVER be natural? What are you talking about man? I know heaps of friends who go out by themselves and I do it to, it's the most natural thing in the world for me. Next time you write something like this say it'll NEVER be natural for YOU. Don't be misleading people homie.
/r/seduction19/04/18 03:34 AM
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To anyone reading this, don't listen to this guy. I hate when people say "Never do xyz or never do that". When talking to girls you can make pretty much anything work so don't listen to advice like this.
/r/seduction19/04/18 03:30 AM
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Hey, how's it going? Weathers been super nice last couple of days, hasn't it? I really like your outfit! Be creative with it. You can say pretty much anything, your just being social. Just don't think too hard about it and if you can't figure out what to say just start with "Hi".
/r/seduction12/04/18 02:45 AM
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Look up Alek Rolstad. He's all about sexual prizing and communicating his sexual standards to girls. He pretty much only cares about having good sex and will let girls know that during his pickups.
/r/seduction11/04/18 06:48 AM
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Don't make it this big deal. It's not a big production, you're just being a cool guy who's out enjoying the sun and talking to people. Maybe you don't have this problem but a lot of guys make it such a big deal but cold approaching isn't a big deal. You can really approach anywhere. Streets, malls, College, Cafes, Shops, Transit. You can approach anywhere you want.
/r/seduction11/04/18 06:44 AM
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One step at a time man. Don't even worry about getting numbers yet that's too far ahead. Your only problem right now is to worry about walking up to people and just saying something. Try that with hired guns, workers, classmates and try to get a lil bit more confident doing it. Then you can switch over to random people.
/r/seduction11/04/18 06:37 AM
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Yeah, I think he should just work on his game and become really good. When you know that you can pull girls given the opportunity, life is pretty good. Then things like dry spells prob won't even be a concern for him anymore. But.... he's working all the time too so that kinda stops things a lil.
/r/seduction11/04/18 05:50 AM
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Girls say you have a nice smile and tell you-you're cute uhh you're a good-looking guy haha. And yeah you are overreacting, you say that you can hold a conversation so that's great. All you have to do is just get yourself walking up to and talking to girls and you can do the rest from there. Just take baby steps. Move your feet in the direction of the girl. You don't even have to talk to her just move your feet. Once your standing in front of her it'll be kinda weird not to say anything so you p…
/r/seduction11/04/18 05:46 AM
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THIS. You can open with pretty much anything, just depends on your personality. Doesn't have to be situational.
/r/seduction11/04/18 05:22 AM
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Great job on the approaches homie. With the girl just ask her when she's free to come get a coffee or something to eat. From there just pick a nice chill spot and it's all you man
/r/seduction08/04/18 07:41 AM
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So are you saying that you want to get women to approach you? Because I can help you if that's what you want
/r/seduction25/03/18 04:40 AM
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If you've got $1500 and you want to spend it, you're better off signing up with Glenn P and destroying your approach anxiety completely.
/r/seduction25/03/18 04:35 AM
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Don't have to be confident about it just real. If she has a great body and you're being real there's no problem in saying that, just make sure it's real and you ain't just saying lines out.
/r/seduction23/03/18 01:02 AM
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She might reply, it's only been a couple of hours and even if she doesn't you were still a cool guy who didn't hide his interest. On to the next girl homie, lucky there are fucking heaps around huh
/r/seduction22/03/18 07:26 AM
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"You have a really great body" "You have an AMAZING ass" "You must work out, your bodys amazing" It's all pretty simple my man. Just have a warm tone when you say it and don't be ashamed. There's absolutely nothing wrong with complimenting a girl, especially if you don't expect anything in return either.
/r/seduction22/03/18 03:46 AM
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You might not have liked what she said but there was a bit of information within it. For some reason, you came off as shy to her. I know you've done heaps of work on yourself and you're in a good place but for some reason, she still thought of you as 'shy'. Try to think about what happened during the interaction, you probably did something that made you come off as shy. And then keep moving forward homie.
/r/seduction22/03/18 03:34 AM
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One step at a time. Pick something that you're really struggling with and then learn as much as you can about that area. I'm not sure but a good place to start would probably be Small Talk? Or learning how to walk up to people and just initiate a conversation. Just work on one thing at a time and before you know it it's all built up and you've become a beast.
/r/seduction22/03/18 03:30 AM
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Some good advice here and also heaps of bad advice. For people saying that you shouldn't approach girls at the gym and that girls are there to work out, those be the exact same guys staring at these girls with tight asses wishing they could fuck em. Make friends with most of the staff there, they're all usually bored and hoping for someone to talk to. It's also great because you always have someone to talk to if you work out when they're working. You can do direct approaches but be very picky ab…
/r/seduction22/03/18 03:18 AM
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Well, you got her number but it doesn't sound like there was a reason for it. I'd probably suggest a coffee when you're talking to her next. "We should get a coffee sometime, hows that sound" Very low-pressure invite and chill. But...... next time you get a number their should be some intention behind it haha, like you suggest you two get some ice cream or something and then you get the number so you can get in contact and set it up.
/r/seduction22/03/18 03:00 AM
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Forget about girls and focus on self-improvement? LOL No matter how much you improve yourself, no matter how many skills you develop, even if you make your dreams come true. This also doesn't mean that you learn how to interact with and sleep with women. Isn't it great tho that we can work on ourselves and learn how to get women at the same time? Pretty great if you ask me.
/r/seduction22/03/18 02:45 AM
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Homie, I'm Black and 6'2. Have Cold Approached on the street several times. Nothing creepy at all about a cool social guy talking to some girl.
/r/seduction22/03/18 02:38 AM
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"Hey XYZ, why don't we cook dinner on Saturday? You can help me pick out the groceries beforehand. It'll be great."
/r/seduction22/03/18 02:36 AM
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Does it really matter? I mean you can't change your face without plastic surgery so you might as well not even worry about where you stand and just keep on living
/r/seduction22/03/18 02:33 AM
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Don't ever let people disrespect you like that. They might not even be shitty friends, you just let them get away with shit like this. But you gotta toughen up and let these people know you don't tolerate the things they're saying. Also definitely lower your standards, as soon as you start consistently getting laid then you can raise em again. Don't fuck no whale tho thats tooooo low.
/r/seduction22/03/18 02:32 AM
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Just going to give you some facts that no one else has said. If you're at a bar and by yourself it's great. The only thing is that you need to look comfortable, that's all. You just have to look comfortable. The only real way to get more comfortable is to get more experience and keep going out. I know heaps of ballers who go out by themselves, there's absolutely nothing wrong with it. To your question, just talk to people like you normally would if you were with a friend. There's really no diffe…
/r/seduction22/03/18 02:25 AM
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Just wanted to say you're doing great man! Not a lot of people have the balls to approach women and you're out here killing it. All I can really say is to pick one thing to work on when you go out next and focus on that. Probably eye contact would be a good start from your post.
/r/seduction22/03/18 02:07 AM
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How'd you get her number OP?
/r/seduction22/03/18 02:02 AM
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There was a post a while back by Hector Castillo about getting invited to parties, social groups etc. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/77f4qq/how_to_be_invited_into_social_circles/ Go to around the middle, it's a good strategy for how to get invited to things. Whenever your around girls just saying little casual things. "How's your day going?" "It's such a nice day, the weathers never this good". Just start saying little casual things, don't even worry about tryna pick them up. What h…
/r/seduction17/03/18 01:05 AM
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Alright next time you talk to her just give her a little compliment. Say something like "I love your outfit" or "You look really nice". Just give her a small little compliment, see how she responds and then go back to normal conversation. Or you can touch her, just a lil tap on the shoulder or elbow when you guys are talking. If you do this she'll know your interested in her. Then you can ask her out. Try it out homie
/r/seduction17/03/18 12:54 AM
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Well, that's a tricky situation. I don't think you need to be training for 5+ hours tho, usually, after like 3 hours your body starts to get a lil unfocused and you get tired and start making mistakes, you can probably stop training around then. But honestly man, your working towards your dream so I'd probably keep doing that. Just remember that you also gotta socialize and talk to people so try to do that whenever you can. Talk to your classmates, professors, lunch ladies, gym staff, teammates.…
/r/seduction17/03/18 12:49 AM
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I'm kinda like you a lil bit. I'm pretty outgoing but there are heaps of times where I just don't want to talk to anyone, low energy etc. So just be comfortable with that, If you're not in a talking or social mood then just do your own thing and be by yourself, anyway, that's what I do. Actually NMMB, I had this like massive text that I was gonna write out to help you, just send me a PM. Just give me a little bit more info about your life. Like are you comfortable in some situations but not othe…
/r/seduction16/03/18 09:35 AM
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So you want to hang around fraternity bros and athletes right? I'm pretty sure that's who you're talking about since they are the most popular and throw parties at college. Find out what those kinds of guys are interested in. With the athletes for example, you could find out about how NFL is played, some rules, the best players and teams, the positions etc. You don't have to become interested in anything that you don't want to but knowing these topics will allow you to talk about things that the…
/r/seduction16/03/18 08:48 AM
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Haha OP Cmon man. You have a chance to work on your day game, night game, and social skills and you're asking if you should take the chance to grind. Hell Yeah Boy! Work on your game homie, try everything. I mean your only there for a while which means none of it will really matter after your gone back home. Except for the fact that you became a beast in SK, that matters!
/r/seduction16/03/18 08:10 AM
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Something no one has said is that you can observe women when walking past and learn to spot their signals much easier. Girls feel a bit safer because you have sunglasses on? So they feel a bit more comfortable giving you more eye contact and showing you that they'd be receptive to an approach. Well, that's my experience anyways. Also, after you've decided you're going to approach a chick, just take em off and then go approach her. Pretty simple my man
/r/seduction16/03/18 08:06 AM
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Women are emotional creatures, they operate based on emotions a lot. As does almost everybody tho. Pretty much what she told you is that she likes things that are hard to get, as do most people? I mean isn't that great tho, wanting something that you're uncertain about getting and then working very hard and finally getting it, it's a great feeling. Almost every girl would rather be with a guy that just might not be in reach for her than a pathetic loser who she can have anytime. Don't really nee…
/r/seduction16/03/18 08:02 AM
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Nah it doesn't mean she's not interested, there are girls like that who don't ask you anything. Could be low social acuity or whatever. I actually really like your strategy also and it's the one I use myself at the gym. Just next time you talk to her, give her a little compliment. "I really like your shoes, did you get them at XYZ?" or "You look great, have you been working out?". I always do this and I give a cheeky smile as well. From then on, she 100% no doubt knows that I'm interested in her…
/r/seduction16/03/18 07:53 AM
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"I do wonder if I'm missing an opportunity at something more" That's a direct quote from you. OP I just wanna know if you wanna fuck this girl or not? It sounds like you just met this girl not too long ago so you've got some time to fall into the 'could potentially sleep with him' camp or the 'platonic friend' camp. I have two sets of advice one for whichever camp you wanna be put in, so Honestly, do you want to fuck this girl? With your answer, you're also acknowledging the chance that the frie…
/r/seduction16/03/18 07:45 AM
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Hey bro I know your situation, I was there about 2 years ago when I was training for 3 hours every day to become a pro footballer(soccer) player and I actually have a friend who's about to go to a Div 2 College on a Bball scholarship in June so I know where your coming from. I just wanna know how often you train and whether you go to the gym? Also when do you guys play games? Once a week, twice? Overall I'm just tryna find out how much free time you have. As soon as you get back to me I'll give …
/r/seduction16/03/18 07:39 AM
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Your starting game at 17? NO JOKE, if you put the work in you could become a hybrid PUA/Natural. That's a killer recipe. What's your personality like right now? Are you shy, reserved, outgoing etc? Also what are your goals homie, your tryna learn game so obviously there's a reason for that? Also you're 17. Are you at school? You around lots of people often? You party much? Just lemme know those questions and then I can give you some advice that I hope will give you exactly what you're looking fo…
/r/seduction16/03/18 07:34 AM
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I mean you could say it was flirting, you could also say she was giving you a subtle invitation to come and dance with her, you could say she was enjoying your company and having fun. Pretty much I'm tryna say that she was attracted to you. What I usually do after something like this is to sort of go over the interaction a little in my head and then I like to think of things that I could've done, something I could've said etc. So then the next time I'm ever in a situation like that I already hav…
/r/seduction16/03/18 07:30 AM
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Depends on what goals you have with women? Also, what your level of ability is currently in regards to socializing?
/r/seduction15/03/18 06:27 AM
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Can't say there's really anything wrong with this. I know a friend who was addicted to approaching girls and although he suffered a little bit from it, he gained so much more. Especially the confidence now that he can really achieve anything when it comes to women, he's a beast! So keep going out until you feel like you've reached the place that you want, got your skills to the level you want, being able to get the kinds of girl that you want in your life. AND THEN Go full cold turkey. Just stop…
/r/seduction15/03/18 06:25 AM
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Just try and talk to everybody man. Professors, janitors, guys, office clerks. Talk to everybody that you can. And in regards to girls, just say "Hey, how's your day going?". There's nothing weird or rude about that, you're just being a cool sociable guy. The worst that will happen is the girl leaves thinking you're a social guy and the best is you both end up talking. But yeah my man, take baby steps! Focus on small talk and overcoming your shyness and don't worry about anything else until you'…
/r/seduction15/03/18 06:18 AM
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At the end of the day you and I are both going to die. So you can either choose to work and make your dreams become a reality or you can just keep doing what you're doing. When I look at it that way I have no worries and then I get on the grind, either way, it won't even matter when we die.
/r/seduction15/03/18 06:14 AM
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OP, Literally something that no one has said so far is the fact that you get the number for a reason. Usually that reason is so that you can see her again. Next time you talk to a girl and it's going fine, suggest you two hang out, grab drinks/lunch etc. Set up a future meeting with the girl and then get her number so you can contact her and make it happen. If she's even a little bit interested she will respond. If not then you've found a timewaster and saved heaps of potentially wasted hours.
/r/seduction15/03/18 01:59 AM
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Just try it next time. Put your soft dick inside her. Lemme know how it goes. I'm pretty sure it'll work for you but you never know.
/r/seduction14/03/18 05:51 AM
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Oh so that's what you meant! I getchu now. If it's male friends that you're inviting over to hang out, play games etc. They won't care that you live at home. If it's women then you have to get creative, have picnics, sex in the car, in unconventional locations, if there's a lookout that's always a good spot. But yeah work on yourself and overall social skills, talk to everybody that you can. Read books that you enjoy, work out, build up skills that you might need in the future and get to a point…
/r/seduction14/03/18 04:38 AM
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Put your dick inside her. Guarantee you'll immediately get hard. Have field tested and it works.
/r/seduction14/03/18 04:32 AM
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I got the Juice! I have exactly what you're looking for brother. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/78fn5l/a_list_of_approach_invitations/ List of Approach invitations for during the day and night. Props to the man HectorCastillo for the post.
/r/seduction14/03/18 03:43 AM
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I got the Sauce! I have exactly what you need. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/78fn5l/a_list_of_approach_invitations/ Just a list of Approach invitations that you can look out for, both day and night time settings. Props to HectorCastillo for the post.
/r/seduction14/03/18 03:40 AM
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What exactly do you mean doing r/seduction stuff? If by that you mean making friends, talking to girls, improving yourself and just enjoying life then FUCK YEAH BRO! Living at home is not stopping you from really doing anything in the slightest.
/r/seduction14/03/18 03:38 AM
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You'll figure it out, it's easy man. First of all, I'd say those are direct approaches, "Nice Jacket/scarf" 100% I consider that direct but that doesn't matter. I love it. I do what you do all the time, thing to remember is to never expect anything in return. She doesn't need to light up and say thank you, she doesn't need to say anything really, you're just being a cool sociable guy. Next, "So How's your day going" "What are you up to?" "Is it always this hot around here?" Just drop a little co…
/r/seduction14/03/18 03:33 AM
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OP I think I know what your tryna say homie. Go out and talk to heaps of girls. When you get stuck or can't seem to get past something then you can come back and watch videos, read shit on how to get past your current problem. Also if you can find someone who you really like and is legit then that person can help you improve faster because he's got more experience than you and faced the problems that you're gonna face, instead of you figuring it out on your own. But be careful, heaps of fake PUA…
/r/seduction14/03/18 03:26 AM
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I 100% vibe with this! Every time I tell someone I don't have facebook anymore they give me a weird look. Also deleting Social Media has opened up heaps more time during the day that I can use for whatever. But yeah, if you can use SM and it's a big advantage for you in socializing then go hard bro. If it's not then just delete it and focus on other things.
/r/seduction14/03/18 03:22 AM
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Also a problem with waiting for signals is overthinking. "Wait did she just give me an AI?" "Wait did she just look at me?" Just excuses and shit I've said to stop myself from approaching in the past. This post is great! Is that girl attracted to you? Only way to know is to test it out and talk to her. Did that girl just give you a signal? Only way to know is to talk to her and find out.
/r/seduction14/03/18 03:17 AM
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First of I would start by making sure you look as attractive as possible. Wearing nice clothes, getting a nice haircut, smelling nice, taking care of your hygiene, working on your posture. All simple stuff that makes you more attractive. Next, I would 100% start mediating. You say you're a stuttering wreck and that's probably cos your in your head and thinking way too much. I also know a pdf with good voice exercises to fix your stuttering if it's a big problem for you. I have been in your posit…
/r/seduction14/03/18 03:14 AM
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An easy way to break the touch barrier is to touch her shoulder when you meet her again or when you sit down next to her. You meet her again "Hey, how are you?" and a little shoulder tap. Like you would when you see your friend again, very simple.
/r/seduction14/03/18 03:04 AM
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