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MarchLightning/r/askTRP30/08/18 02:48 PM
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well driving to her place and showing up just to say that and then walk out would be a little retarded, so i think between the two i did the right one
/r/askTRP30/08/18 06:39 PM
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already started on the dread and sent a text pretty much exactly like that, so we're on the same page. she immediately said i'm more important than him and she'll stop talking to him to keep me. tried to test me a bit for telling her that and not being more submissive about it or bending but i held the dread. one word texts for awhile
/r/askTRP30/08/18 06:08 PM
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just seems like with her being 18 and impressionable, i could say something about her telling me she talked to her ex, and that might have a beneficial effect
/r/askTRP30/08/18 03:56 PM
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yeah we did have the talk. i got (what i'm now seeing) was way too hooked on her. for good reason because she's incredible in bed and imo a solid 9. but it was a mistake if this is acceptable behavior to her. so i'm trying to find the frame to get in that will allow me to break this to her without coming from a needy or insecure place
/r/askTRP30/08/18 03:40 PM
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oh and also, i wanna give her the chance to beg for another try and be better. she even kinda started to last night when i withdrew attention
/r/askTRP30/08/18 03:29 PM
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what would you text her to basically convey that from an alpha frame?
/r/askTRP30/08/18 03:28 PM
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i would be the first to admit it if i was, but it's not insecurity. it's just that i'm not cool with a girl i'm in an LTR with fucking around like that, and before now she gave me no indication that that was happening. how does one demote from LTR to a plate without cutting off contact entirely? i mean i will if i need to, but she is good af in bed so might as well keep her around if she wants to stay around (which she does)
/r/askTRP30/08/18 03:23 PM
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i will read that. thank you. so if it were you, and i respect your mindset on this, how would you go forward? she's already your LTR, it's the morning after she told you that on the phone. you can't just go no contact and disappear, but even if you're gonna dump her you gotta do it in a way that'll demonstrate value and standards you have instead of just being too jealous or whatever to handle it.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 03:19 PM
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can you give me an example of how i could have handled it earlier on in a way that would show that's not acceptable?
/r/askTRP30/08/18 03:06 PM
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