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| 0 | Bringing a spender to heel.We have a somewhat holistic approach. Our most atypical joint effort, that's finally turning an ROI, is a dilapidated trailer park that we inherited, rehabbed and run in absentia. We also have more conventional rental properties in gentrified spots that we got in on prior to the neighborhoods' turning trendy. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/02/15 05:40 AM |
| 0 | Bringing a spender to heel.Just to extrapolate, she feels I'm being punitive because she's already making accelerated, deeper payments. She feels that since I vetted our mutual accountant who mapped out her repayment game plan that that should somehow validate her pathetic spending habits. She feels I'm trying to strong arm her into superfluous austerity, and yes, actually I am. It's unfathomable to me that anyone could stare into their own 250K abyss and then traipse off to a day spa. I'm over it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/02/15 05:27 AM |
| 0 | Bringing a spender to heel.Unfortunately you may be on to something, my friend. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/02/15 05:01 AM |
| 0 | Bringing a spender to heel.She was amenable to bolstering our savings but she categorically refuses to increase her loan payments. She's already set up an accelerated repayment plan but from my standpoint its always prudent to expedite paying it all down. I was told it wasn't up for discussion which I think is probably going to be a deal breaker at this point. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/02/15 04:54 AM |
| -2 | Bringing a spender to heel.Trust me, I didn't go into this blindly and I upped my prowess and skillset to fuck this woman within an inch of her life. She's a late 90's girl power creature. Of course she'd become a fucking knife wielding life saver. Ever tangoed with the proverbial over achiever? She truly views her self as my equal and anything that points contrary to that is beyond daunting for her. I would like to daunt the fuck out of her henceforth. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/02/15 06:52 AM |
| -2 | Bringing a spender to heel.It's on the recreational reading hit list. Thanks man. Always room for more knowledge and growth. The struggle seems to lie in that we've both hit the top of our respective food chains and it feels like an SMV draw. I don't know if she's capable of following at this point. This is going to require some heavy strategizing to elicit the results I want and quelling the disgust has to be a first step. I see it. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/02/15 06:38 AM |
| -2 | Bringing a spender to heel.Again, I'm not averse to new ways of digesting this. Your contribution to my inquiry is appreciated. I'm sorry to hear that you got slammed with a trifecta of bad (shit tests, dead bed and a dour attitude). I think my anger stems from all the sacrifice I endured being with a quasi-partner while she was a med school student (emaciated, gaunt, tired and corpselike - a basic shell of a person) and I just naturally assumed she would afford me the respect of heading my own fucking home at the end of … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/02/15 06:25 AM |
| -6 | Bringing a spender to heel.I appreciate the alternate perspective. Her whole premise is that she elected to endure so much privation for so long specifically to celebrate the money shot at the end of the journey. She conveniently forgets that I sacrificed too by riding out the privation train with her. I got a zombie for a partner who was a tired, pale carcass with a pony tail and sweats for 9 years in the trenches and its admittedly frustrating that she doesn't know that I deserve at the very least a figurehead "Captains… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/02/15 05:40 AM |
| 0 | Bringing a spender to heel.In my honest estimation we're pretty equal across the board. I have some health issues that may negatively impact my overall perceived value and having an insulin pump can be construed a bit intimidating by some. Because I have diabetes I make sure that I'm in top physical condition and eat an impeccable diet and meticulously put in my gym hours every week. I would assume my intelligence quotient surpasses my wife's in typical male aptitudes. I have a lucrative career in a very fast paced indust… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/02/15 03:29 AM |
| -1 | Bringing a spender to heel.I was being factitious about divorce raping her. She's comes saddled with a quarter of a million dollars worth of student loan debt. She has no business spending like a drunken heiress. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/02/15 03:05 AM |
| -1 | Bringing a spender to heel.She didn't exactly roll off a turnip truck into a vault of doubloons. Who do you think had to pay for everything during her belt tightening years. She was never this materialistic before and she's definitely become much more bravado riddled in the last year since completing her residency. The power balance is off. I don't think its unreasonable to have expectations of what makes me comfortable in my own home with my wife. I want defined roles and certainly something closer to what we had when sh… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/02/15 02:55 AM |
| 0 | Discussion about household choresMy wife is a total slob too and thus I make her pay for maid service. I refuse to live in squalor and she's "toooo bussy" to figure it out, so she enlists a housekeeper twice a month and I refuse to pay for her ineptitude. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/02/15 01:28 AM |
| -3 | Bringing a spender to heel.Fair enough. She's spending her own money frivolously. Keep in mind that our lifestyle is bound by her accrued student loan debt too and I feel well within my right being legally connected and on the hook to know exactly what her money's going towards. She feels just paying the mutually agreed upon bills together is all she should account for. Seeing what fast and furious spender she is, I feel she's far too immature to negotiate the kind of wages she's bringing in. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 07/02/15 01:12 AM |
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