MargieFancypants Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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9	Experience as a (left-wing) male victim of domestic abuse (by a woman) Not really. This situation has been spiralling downhill since the past century; it's been doubled down beyond repair, and "mental health care" is actively gaslighting me (I have a witness). I have been atrociously, personally, attacked by right wing hate media. Google my name and find out the incredible diversity of "truth" out there about me. Edit: I should add that my reaction to being doxxed and threatened world-wide with violence, was to legalise my name. This should be self-evidently a refu…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/05/26 10:48 PM
34	Experience as a (left-wing) male victim of domestic abuse (by a woman) Hi. I want to talk with you about your situation. I, too, had a narcissistic, violently abusive first wife. On August 10, 1999, she tried to murder me in front of our daughter who was then three years old. Police never did anything about this, or the multiple previous occasions in which she had unilaterally assaulted me. I was able to get into a support group for victims of intimate partner violence — it took me 24.5 years and a gender transition, and by the time I got into the group's my situat…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/05/26 07:44 PM
33	Experience as a (left-wing) male victim of domestic abuse (by a woman) Not quite. Dr Lesley Lambo of Concordia University in Montreal wrote her (utterly horrifying) thesis examining women convicted of intimate partner violence. Dr Lambo's thesis advisor was none other than Dr Anthony Synnott, author of Re-Thinking Men: Heroes, Villains, and Victims. https://spectrum.library.concordia.ca/id/eprint/985157/	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	09/05/26 07:37 PM
19	Male victimization rates of IPV are far higher than people think I am a survivor of unilateral IPV from my first wife. On three occasions I was forced to call police; on three occasions, different cops each time, they said the exact same words: "We remove men from domestic violence situations." And then threw me out of the house, leaving my attacker with all the control. Somehow this failed to dissuade her violence, and on the third occasion, she attempted first degree homicide in front of our daughter who was then three years old. That was on August 10, 1999…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	04/03/26 07:23 PM
70	For the women and non binary people on this sub Sister, I can relate; I am also a trans woman who was abused horrifically when I presented male. Although I never faced immediate threat of conscription, I was bullied due to my autism and the hints of my feminine identity (like my natural heel-toe gait, bullied out of me around age 7; walking like a Lego figurine gave me "incurable" lumbar pain for 40+ years). And discrimination just led to more discrimination. I suffered numerous horrific crimes, acts of emotional and financial and family and …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/02/26 02:02 PM
4	Toxic masculinity and patriarchy being only enforced by men is a myth. It is ingrained in our psyche, we need to collectively oppose it. It was many many years ago, long before my gender transition, that I decided that feminism is NOT a fundamental philosophical position; this is simply because those who don't identify as feminine are excluded from consideration by definition. Rather, I concluded that intersectionality IS fundamental — it can be applied in a nuanced way to ANY human being. People have circumstances which benefit them, or burden them, and these work in a gestalt manner through mutual interaction. Yes, gender matte…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	08/11/25 03:46 AM
5	Happy to be here Any system can be misused, but intersectionality at least has the potential for even-handedness.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/10/24 06:34 PM
12	Happy to be here As a trans woman, I had to endure 25 years without support for victims of IPV, until I gender transitioned and, miraculously, support was available now that I was ideologically compatible with being a victim of abuse. I have never heard of any case of IPV that gets within orders of magnitude of mine. And in the end, even gender transition was insufficient to free me from the web of stigma that entangled me. I have the supreme good fortune to have been born in New Zealand, where I have returned, …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/10/24 05:49 AM
3	"Men need to call out SA." The first SA I suffered was a woman who dosed my beer with GHB and jumped me after the mini-coma. It took me ten years to figure out what happened to me. And no, I did not yet identify as trans, by decades. Not sure, especially now from a woman's perspective, how that wasn't entirely on her.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/09/24 08:46 AM
0	One of Imperfect Movements? HELL YEAH, SISTER! Plus, we're sexy af. TRANS IS BEAUTIFUL AND WISE	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/09/24 11:03 AM
8	One of Imperfect Movements? Let's work towards meaningful solidarity, rather than lip service. We need more love for EVERYONE.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/09/24 09:48 AM
11	One of Imperfect Movements? Judge people by their actions. Are they making unsupported claims? Scapegoating? Using police for their own ends, while leading anti-police marches? Are there people in the community that the leader refuses to acknowledge, or actively suppresses, or expels? If so, your 'feminist' leader may have caught a case of cryptofascism.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/09/24 09:37 AM
6	One of Imperfect Movements? This trans woman agrees with that trans woman 😁	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/09/24 09:34 AM
7	Why cisgender males, especially straight ones, and trans women turn to the right. I'm a trans woman; I have always in my adult life held essentially the same ideals. I am indeed being personally hounded (including attacks from LOTT and Alex Jones, rest in flaming wreck) and harassed including being incarcerated purely to intimidate me. All of that hatred is rooted in the old misandry. It's way too deep to fix, and I am forced to flee.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/08/24 01:29 PM
21	Never take some feminists seriously when they say men issues can be fixed if they didn't have toxic masculinity. As a trans woman, I feel that I can comment on the perception of various gender roles from first hand experience. And all in all, I feel considerably freer as a woman than I felt as a man. I remain enraged at the gendered gatekeeping of, for example, victims of sexual or intimate partner violence. Virtually no women claims no man experiences it, but no services are exactly what is there. I identified as MHRA about a decade ago, before ideologues there attacked me too. And while I considered myse…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/08/24 05:49 PM
1	Gender Specific Laws in Spain Backfire As a transgender woman, who in her former self was a victim of severe and long term IPV, I denounce the division of handling of ANY IPV or sexual violence according to gender. It's appalling, and if these people described in this article actually exist, for which no actual evidence is presented, then these people deserve exclusion from said protections. I repeat, I am a trans woman. Transition is NOT undertaken lightly BY ANYONE that I have ever encountered, or indeed heard reliable stories of. …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/08/24 03:05 AM
1	Earl Silverman: 10 years on I can speak to some of these issues. I was a personal friend of Earl Silverman. After surviving horrific IPV in the late '90s (the 25th anniversary of my own murder was this month), I eventually heard about MASH 4077 and started talking on the phone with him starting in 1999. We talked many times over the years, but we never talked often. Both of our situations were hopeless; we could only call and hear each other out, curse the unfairness, and head our ways for a few months. I last spoke to Ear…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	26/08/24 02:36 AM