MarginOfError Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
26	Women 'view modesty as sign of weakness' - Telegraph First comment on that page, love it. Guys, guys, guys. What's so hard to figure out here about what women want? They want you to be strong, but show weakness. They want you to be confident, but not arrogant. They want you to be protective, but vulnerable. They want you to be determined, but be spontaneous. They want you to take care of yourself, but not be into yourself. They want you to be humorous, but not a joker. They want you to be successful, but not gaudy. They want you to show leadership…	/r/seduction	03/08/10 05:04 PM
1	Tips to change my mindset? That's not surprising, it might take some time and some effort to create a new mental image of yourself. I think going out and having some successful social encounters will start to do that, let yourself be as free as you want and disregard any prior notions you hold of your own self image. No one knows who you are better than yourself and it's up to you to share that with other people.	/r/seduction	21/07/10 08:44 AM
2	Tips to change my mindset? I know for a fact I am very good looking, I have women approach me and give me looks on a pretty regular basis. I know for a fact that many women want to sleep with me, and find me very attractive. Despite this, I still find it difficult to believe subconsciously that women I approach will respond positively. There is this nagging voice in the back of my head telling me that I'm some kind of creepy perv and will repulse any women I try and seduce. Low self esteem and/or lack of confidence is a v…	/r/seduction	21/07/10 07:02 AM
1	Owning the Room - 2 great videos on building social proof in a crowd. The plan this guy describes is almost exactly what my older brother does when sarging alone, which he does quite often. I think he's more of a natural but it's cool to see this guy lay it out so eloquently. I know it def works for my bro pretty often.	/r/seduction	12/06/10 10:11 PM
1	The #1 tool of attraction is... As sad as it makes me to say this, there are A LOT of women who go crazy for smug and conceited guys. I've even had girls come up to me and ask in a playful way: "What's up, why do have that little smirk on your face?" Just because I'm sitting at the bar with a half cocked smile and look like someone just told me an inside joke that amuses me. When you look like you're happy/amused/etc. from something that is completely outside of a girls circle of influence, they cannot help but become interest…	/r/seduction	07/06/10 03:06 PM
3	Seddit, Im a black guy... WTF planet do you live on? Every single white/asian or latino women I've ever met all claim to be in love with black men.	/r/seduction	09/05/10 05:33 PM
1	I may be too aloof. Interesting post, I def can relate to a lot of what you are talking about. "Don't mistake my shyness for conceit." is what I would like to tell most of the girls I meet hah.	/r/seduction	23/04/10 06:25 AM
1	If you like someone but know they are already in a relationship, is it fair to pursue the girl? I wouldn't want to be friends with you, but I also wouldn't think you were less of a man for doing so. I can't speak for anyone else, but personally I would not want to marry any woman where I wasn't completely confident that she would never be unfaithful, and therefore other men trying to seduce her would probably make me very mildly jealous and simultaneously be somewhat flattering.	/r/seduction	21/04/10 06:51 AM
13	If you like someone but know they are already in a relationship, is it fair to pursue the girl? I don't care if she's single, dating, married or a nun. If she's not having sex with one of my friends, she's fair game.	/r/seduction	20/04/10 03:31 PM
7	Tyler Durden on trying too hard and how to avoid it Yeah but the characters in those shows almost always start with proof of higher value so they don't need to talk much. When someone with pre-existing higher value is quiet and aloof women always fall for them, women love what is desirable and what they think they cannot have. When you are out in the real world and meeting strange women you most certainly will have to talk a fair amount or there is no way for you to attract them. (Unless you are incredibly rich/or good looking, e.g. already have …	/r/seduction	05/04/10 07:37 PM
1	Direct game: thoughts? http://happybrainstorm.com/index.php/Radical-Honesty-the-art-of-direct-seduction-and-verbal-defense.html http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Radical_Honesty Hopefully those will help get you started.	/r/seduction	22/03/10 05:58 AM
1	Dear Seddit, I need advice about IOIs I really like the way you broke down the levels, very simple, straightforward and accurate for the most part imo. I would say pretty much every successful encounter I have had with a female has progressed in this manner for the most part.	/r/seduction	28/02/10 07:06 PM
1	Dear Seddit, I need advice about IOIs Yeah there are no rules to biology, keep up the good work there buddy.	/r/seduction	27/02/10 11:01 PM
7	Dear Seddit, I need advice about IOIs If someones moving their gaze and you just happen to cross eyes for a moment, that's a meaningless glance. If you're standing at the bar and look down towards the other end, and a girl looks towards you and holds eye contact for longer than a second, that's an IOI, she wants you to talk to her. If a girl brushes your arm or gives you a little hug or a warm handshake, all of those things are typically meaningless, HOWEVER, anytime she lingers for longer than a second or two, meaning she maintains…	/r/seduction	27/02/10 06:27 PM
8	Reminder: Insulting is not Negging Reminder: Don't take seduction advice from women. That's like taking tax advice from the IRS.	/r/seduction	09/01/10 08:06 PM
-2	New to game, need openers Whoever downvoted you is a bad person.	/r/seduction	23/11/09 08:52 AM
3	Any SF PUA redditors out there? I'm moving out that way and I want to know how the pickup scene is there. If you're looking for a challenge, come to San Diego. Plenty of hot stuck up girls around here with way too many guys vying for attention lol. If you want the easier route, I suggest LA, so many beautiful women running around you have to beat them off with a stick.	/r/seduction	07/08/09 09:59 AM