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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Men taking a portion or all of themselves away is not manipulative or toxic What is it exactly you don't do? Friendship?	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/22 06:27 AM
4	CMV: it's hypocritical for a woman to criticise men for caring about past sexual history if she herself would not date a man who is a virgin or never had a gf at 30. But what kind of advantage is that? Sleeping with someone who doesn't want you? Or being rejected after they find out you are inexpierenced by how you act? Or her sleeping with you anyway, because she feels like she can't end it at that point and then just wants to get it over with? That's just not what sex is about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/22 02:45 PM
10	CMV: it's hypocritical for a woman to criticise men for caring about past sexual history if she herself would not date a man who is a virgin or never had a gf at 30. And this is where I wholeheartedly disagree. This lack of experience is something you can't hide from a somewhat empathetic person. And besides: why would you want someone who doesn't want you? If they don't want a virgin, it's their decision, move on. I know, this sounds harsh and it's maybe something different, if it's clear, that it's gonna be a one night stand and it's only about the sex. But I still don't think lying is the way to go. I knew he didn't have any experience, I felt it even bef…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/22 01:42 PM
7	CMV: it's hypocritical for a woman to criticise men for caring about past sexual history if she herself would not date a man who is a virgin or never had a gf at 30. I would never say that sexual history doesn't matter. But I don't care about your body count. I care about how this body count accumulated. Did you ever mislead someone to get laid? Did you use protection? Were you always open and honest? Did you respect a 'no'? Did you use someone's vulnerability (drunken state, power dynamics, etc) or eben force them? Did you fall in love all over again without knowing that person? But for me that goes to personality and a number doesn't matter here. Now to my…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/10/22 01:32 PM
2	How many times in your life have you became attracted to an "ugly" guy AFTER he opened his mouth? And how about the opposite? Second one happens all the time. Most guys I find really attractive on first sight aren't attractive to me anymore after a few minutes. The first one is a bit more difficult though. If I think someone is really not attractive at all (ie 'ugly'), there won't be physical attraction. There needs to be a basis on which attraction can be build by getting to know him. Conventionally handsome men often aren't interesting to me, attractiveness is too subjective for that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/08/22 10:46 AM

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