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| 1 | How To Be Good In Bed (4 Key Tips)Three things stood out to me. I am a reddit newbie so I will just paraphrase because I did not find out how to copy and cite the parts 😅 The premise that being good in bed is the simplest way to get a girlfriend. If your relationship solely revolves around sex this might be true but in a relationship that is serious, the woman will take the time to let you learn even if you are a virgin. Sex is not the most important part in a serious relationship and treating it as if it is gives the picture as… | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 09:53 AM |
| 2 | What do you do if a girl asks “can I bring a friend” when you ask her to come out on a date ?Perspective from a girl: When I ask if I can bring a friend it could have different reasons: Positive reasons: I want her to check you out because I managed to get myself into bad relationships before and trust her judgment I want to intruduce you two because you are a contender for a serious relationship and I want to figure out if you match with my friend circle she is in a very bad place right now so I want to get her mind off of things and still want to meet you. I want something serious and… | /r/seduction | 11/02/20 11:58 AM |
| 14 | How To Be Good In Bed (4 Key Tips)I totally agree with the main commentor. While I agree with the basic tactics the writer managed to sprinkle very mysogynistic comments through out wich makes it very weird to read. While this might thread might be true on the sexual level, it misses a lot of point on the personal level and makes many wrong assumptions, like sex is the key to a relationship: Sexual tension is but if a woman is truly interested in a relationship she is willing to teach you, even if you are a virgin! | /r/seduction | 11/02/20 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Q4women: What’s a better strategy for a man to get laid...It is not really about real disinterested but about focusing on other things above finding a mate. Hanging out and doing things without thinking about if it could lead to a relationship. Putting what you enjoy above your need of searching for a friend. When I was younger I sometimes needed to remind myself that I was at the party to have fun with my friends and not to find someone to get into a relationship with. Also focusing on meeting people because they are cool and interesting instead of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/20 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Q4women: What’s a better strategy for a man to get laid...I chased after relationships hard during my teenage years and would always see my friends getting loads of attation from guys but for me it was quite stale... One day I figured out, that I was mostly interested in guys who seemed like they weren’t looking for a girl at all. When I stoped looking actively for guy and focused on having fun with my friends, suddenly my disinterest started sparking the interest of guys. Maybe this is the magic trick that people are looking for when trying to find a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/20 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Q4women: What’s a better strategy for a man to get laid...Yeah this should be the default or not? Like what even is the point of chasing someone who has no interest in you on a romantic or sexual level? It only makes you bitter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/20 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Q4women: What’s a better strategy for a man to get laid...Haha this also goes for niceness. Be nice because you are a decent person not because you want something sexual in exchange. This is why I always insist on paying my share the first few nights or if I really like the guy even take his half but not because I want sex from him in exchange, just to make him happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/20 05:37 AM |
| 3 | What’s your opinion on a woman being called “used goods”Funnily those terms all originated from a male narrative so... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Do all women desire/expect a man with a high-powered career, six figure income, and big dreams for the future?Nannies are very expensive, daycare is sparse everywhere and moving closer ain’t an option because of Jobs. So yeah, one person needing to take a break for some years is the most doable thing and not uncommon here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/20 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Why are a record number of millennial women not settling down, and what will be the resulting social implications of this in 10/20/30+ years time?No I get that, but there will come a time when they will realize that there won’t be enough people in the next generation. Why should woman care about it either? It is not like we can only bear kids. It is nice not to be tied to a man, having sex whenever I want and not caring for a kid along the line. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Why are a record number of millennial women not settling down, and what will be the resulting social implications of this in 10/20/30+ years time?Yeah but you make it sound as if women should be blamed when society comes down to an idiocicray 🤷🏻♀️ I would disagree. If man won’t help to change the way work and motherhood are compartable this won’t work out. So less kids from well educated woman 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Why are a record number of millennial women not settling down, and what will be the resulting social implications of this in 10/20/30+ years time?Yeah but you make it sound as if women should be blamed when society comes down to an idiocicray 🤷🏻♀️ I would disagree. If man won’t help to change the way work and motherhood are compartable this won’t work out. So less kids from well educated woman 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Do men REALLY like “good girls”?So because you cannot argue you refer into you selfbuild wall of „welp girls....“ How Alpha of you 😂 You didn’t even try to explain just retorted to „what should man do, girls will be girls” That’s what cowards do who cannot stand to be proven wrong in their mindset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 03:08 PM |
| 2 | Why are a record number of millennial women not settling down, and what will be the resulting social implications of this in 10/20/30+ years time?Yeah it is what it is so why complain about woman not settleling down? If it was such an issue, man would work to figure a more motherfriendly workforce out 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 03:06 PM |
| 4 | Do all women desire/expect a man with a high-powered career, six figure income, and big dreams for the future?Found the gate-keeper | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Do all women desire/expect a man with a high-powered career, six figure income, and big dreams for the future?Yeah I know all this but again: This was an attempt to answer OPs question from my perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Do all women desire/expect a man with a high-powered career, six figure income, and big dreams for the future?This is why I said „from my perspective“ And for you I am certainly no girl but a woman. Take your condescending shit elsewhere. Also this is why I described various paths. Do you really think that I do not know this is hypothetical? Still it was an attempt to answer OPs question as to why woman do don’t settle down. Answer: because of career. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Do all women desire/expect a man with a high-powered career, six figure income, and big dreams for the future?Yeah i guess driving 8h to my parents would be the best idea 👀 and again: childcare spots are not available to the extend that they are needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Do all women desire/expect a man with a high-powered career, six figure income, and big dreams for the future?Yeah i guess driving 8h to my parents would be the best idea 👀 and again: childcare spots are not available to the extend that they are needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Do men REALLY like “good girls”?You are responsible for yourself to get yourself out of there. This are the consequences. When you decide that you won’t take the responsibility for you to take yourself out of a toxic situation no one will. But this is your choice and only you will suffer the consequences. But this is no ones fault but yours. Of course the other person is an ass and should be persecuted for that but this is another discussion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Do all women desire/expect a man with a high-powered career, six figure income, and big dreams for the future?Well this was a system for decades and is still a widely popular system. Now mostly the woman gives up her independence and I would agree: Why should you? But if there is no other way and there is no way to get the kids into daycare until 6 than you need to figure out who stays home. In Germany you can join kindergarten(when you found a spot) from the age of 3-4 depending where. What happens the first few years with the kid? Well you need to take care of the kid so why again should this be the p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 01:26 PM |
| 3 | Do all women desire/expect a man with a high-powered career, six figure income, and big dreams for the future?Do we live in the age where your grandparents had kids? Why now would you take a time where woman were not allowed to have jobs without their husbands consent as a referring point for a time where this certainly does not apply? Also racist? WTF? I assumed that you would be American because reddit is a Plattform mostly used by Americans. I later corrected myself by saying „or wherever you are from“ So yeah go figure instead of getting offended. Last sentence: Reading comprehension should be a bas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Do all women desire/expect a man with a high-powered career, six figure income, and big dreams for the future?Because in some places daycare is sparse and private daycare very expensive. This makes Someone stay home until the kids are in school. And why should that be the parent who earns most? I don’t get that at all. Of course it is not ideal and of course both would like to pursue their careers but sometimes this won’t workout. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Do men REALLY like “good girls”?You are not responsible if your date or partner is an ass. You are responsible for yourself and to get yourself out of the situation if it is unhealthy for you. But especially during dating, your date being an ass is not your fault nor your responsibility. This works both ways! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Do all women desire/expect a man with a high-powered career, six figure income, and big dreams for the future?Are you stay at home? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 01:07 PM |
| 3 | Do all women desire/expect a man with a high-powered career, six figure income, and big dreams for the future?I am doing all chores right now because Inhave no Uni and my boyfriend is at work 🤷🏻♀️ Also I Never Met a Family where the working part was the one to discipline. Might be an American thing but it is not a universal thruth. So for this I think we can beg to differ because of obvious cultural differences. Here it is common for both parts to discipline when necessary and because the stay at home part spends more time with the kids he will encounter more situations that need disciplining so I don’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Do men have a moral obligation to fix what other men broke?As I said: Dunno who you are dating but you are describing a tale I only hear from man and was falsely accused of it myself. And as I also said: You can figure those things out without being an ass about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 12:19 PM |
| 3 | Do all women desire/expect a man with a high-powered career, six figure income, and big dreams for the future?First of all: If you are stay at home I expect you to do all chores as I would do. If I would lend you a hand or take over some chores by choice or the other way round this would be okey. If current housewife’s to you knowledge do not handle it like this it might be because of personal agreements between her and her husband or because she works from home. Second: No I wouldn’t mind. Especially because most times the kids build mostly more resentment towards the more parenting adult because of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 12:17 PM |
| 10 | Do all women desire/expect a man with a high-powered career, six figure income, and big dreams for the future?Well if no woman ever would support a sat at home dad, I must not be a woman 👀 If I earn more money than my husband there is no logical reason for me to stay home and give up that income. And here is the problem being stay at home is not playing video games and doing the simple tasks while the kids are at school. Staying at home means 6 years of Cleaning the house, playing and teaching and supervising the kids, cook and then clean up again and tidy up behind the kids. Also driving and organizing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 12:07 PM |
| 0 | Q4women: What’s a better strategy for a man to get laid...Aka be rich to pay one 😂 Seems like many man think of woman as hookers because „If I pay her drinks and or food she neeeeeeds to give me sex!!!1!1!“ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 11:46 AM |
| 2 | Q4women: What’s a better strategy for a man to get laid...For a) a small story wich happened to me last year: I just started university and met a guy during freshman week who I thought was hot. We talked a lot and during a bar trip with the whole freshman group we talked about dating and he told me that he „was never the one for one night stands or sex without attachment“. I noted that mentally and decided to not hit on him as I originally planned. A year later we were good friends and he writes me drunken that he really want to sleep with me because h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 11:43 AM |
| 15 | Do all women desire/expect a man with a high-powered career, six figure income, and big dreams for the future?My perspective: I do not really care what he does as long as we can have a comfortable lifestyle meaning a own home, holidays once a year, no issues to afford the bills, and free time activity for all of us. Now I am studying in STEM and will have good paying jobs. So if he has a lower income then me he needs to be okey with taking care of the kids until they can go to school, so that I can climb the ladder to ensure the income. If he does not want to be a stay-at-home-dad he either needs get wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Do men have a moral obligation to fix what other men broke?I do not know what kind of girls you date but I never met a girl who didn’t want to split the bill. With gold digger: I don’t know about this because I and my girlfriends all have enough money of our own but were all accused being a digger at one point or another. So this allegations seem at least to me mostly from man who have money and cannot fathom that a girl would be interested in him instead of the money (wich we already have 🤷🏻♀️). About shallow: This is how we date. To find out if the o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Do men have a moral obligation to fix what other men broke?Yeah but this is a whole different dynamic. The fear of unknown people is greater by far! Mostly due to media. So give woman a break when they are overly cautious with you until they got to know you better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Do men have a moral obligation to fix what other men broke?But not on a date. We were talking about an assault/sexual assault from the person you as a woman are dating. So bringing up, that man get assaulted by man is more common than woman getting assaulted by man is irrelevant because we were not talking about same sex dates. Maybe if you would pull up a statement like „man are more likely to be assaulted by woman“ it would have fit but we both know if a woman is assaulted statistically the purpotrator was a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Do men have a moral obligation to fix what other men broke?Sorry in my motherlanguage there is just one word for it. I thought I would translate. Also I am sure you are referring to man on man assault, wich might be an issue if you date a man but we were talking about a date between man and woman. So either way your comment just does not add to the conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Do men have a moral obligation to fix what other men broke?Sorry in my motherlanguage there is just one word for it. I thought I would translate. Also I am sure you are referring to man on man assault, wich might be an issue if you date a man but we were talking about a date between man and woman. So either way your comment just does not add to the conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Do men REALLY like “good girls”?I find it interesting that the common thought around guys ist that if a guy gets a bad girl, she is at fault for being a bitch and he was tricked. She is the bad one. Now one would think that the narrative would be the other way around. But No... Suprise! When a girl gets a bad guy, She is at fault as well! Funny how you spin the narrative to never be of blame... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Do men have a moral obligation to fix what other men broke?From my experience we can and sometimes the later over weighs and we get in dangerous situations because of it. So pressuring a woman to let her guard down might just put you in the out-zone and is making her more cautious the next time she dates a guy so to not get pressured again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Is the average woman simply more attractive than the average man?Nah it’s just his or his choice of clothe... even without the color if it was just a different scale the print is just screaming 14.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Do men have a moral obligation to fix what other men broke?Seriously.... Is it so hard to understand that woman are just a little bit more careful? You can eat, drink and meet up. Just don’t get in a situation where he can spike your drink (leaving it alone with him) or he can have it easy to put you in a dangerous situation (getting in his car, flat, secluded place). And about this past thing: Yeah rape was legal until a few decades ago, so go figure... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Do men have a moral obligation to fix what other men broke?Huh didn’t know there is a higher possibility for a man to be touched on the ass, between their legs and their boobs without consent! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 06:37 AM |
| 2 | Why are a record number of millennial women not settling down, and what will be the resulting social implications of this in 10/20/30+ years time?I know the movie. But in the end getting children needs to be more attractive for educated and career-focused women. Right now you need to choose between both and as long as this won’t change we we’ll steer in this direction 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/20 06:33 AM |
| 1 | Do men have a moral obligation to fix what other men broke??! Is there a possibility to get a spiked drink on a date? Yes Is there a possibility to get assaulted in the middle of the day? Yes Is there a possibility to get spiked in a coffee shop? Yes Is there a possibility to get assaulted in a coffee shop? Yes Are most dates ending and starting in the coffee shop? No Would a date ask to drive you home after a date because he thinks he is polite? Yes Should I putting myself in a potentially risky situation because of some guys fragil ego? NO! Again: You… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 11:01 PM |
| 6 | Why are a record number of millennial women not settling down, and what will be the resulting social implications of this in 10/20/30+ years time?I can tell you just from my perspective. I was given the chance to have my own career and not be dependent on anybody but my own will to work. I would like to have kids one day but I want to be able to support myself and them in any circumstances. (Husband dies, husband cannot work because of illness, injury, or we divorce) And I do not just want to scrape by, having to juggle kids and job at a very stressful level, I want a good live for my kids and my self so that we can afford anything within… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Do men have a moral obligation to fix what other men broke?Why do you think a drinks needs to be spiked to get assaulted? And why do you think coffee cannot be spiked? And why shouldn’t she be on guard even in a public space? Most assaults between strangers are happening in public spaces... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 10:30 PM |
| 5 | Do men have a moral obligation to fix what other men broke?Now just for a moment think about a good female friend. She is on a date with a guy she hardly knows. She thinks he is a decent guy but everybody warned her that not every decent guy has decent intentions. Story’s of girls getting raped/attacked on a date are plenty. Plenty enough that she never can be sure if the decent guy she is meeting up with right now won‘t switch. Now would you recommend to her, to let her guard down, let him give her a right home where he might rape her, just so to not o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Worst first date you ever went on?Haha sadly most guys I dated didn’t manage to... or thought they could while they couldn’t... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Worst first date you ever went on?Nothing exiting really... he didn’t manage to make me orgasm but it was fun... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Are most women even attracted to men?As do I... judging for actions is not the same as judging for looks :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 02:41 PM |
| 14 | Worst first date you ever went on?We met at a bar and had a good talk. After that we decided to go to me to watch a movie together and let the night roll out. When I realized things were getting more heated I told him I had my period. His answer „I die not care about a little blood“ I asked again if he was sure, he replied yes and made a joke about man are just boys if they cannot handle a little blood. After the sex he looked down there and suddenly was pissed that there was blood on the base of his dick. „This is disgusting! Y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 02:36 PM |
| 0 | Is the average woman simply more attractive than the average man?Nah male model is 10/10 😂 More like a very good looking bloke dropping below average because of boring ill fitting clothes wich make him seem to not give a shit about him self, a hair cut wich is either rocking Justin-Bieber vibes around 2010 or weird gel figures in the hair or just a basic cut not helping anything wich makes your proportions look weird. An example: My old roommate was good looking in his basic genetics, average height, nice bone structure, muscular. Now his hairstyle was just a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 02:24 PM |
| 0 | Are most women even attracted to men?Way to go in a world like a know-it-all! Especially in a convo where the topic is about this. So you feel the urgent need to tell me I cannot thought-police? Oh I thought me reading and manipulating thoughts were a common thing amongst humans... Aren’t you able to do it?! 🙀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 12:49 PM |
| 4 | Is the average woman simply more attractive than the average man?For me it is mostly style and caring about hair and skin. I lived in a city where guys just didn’t care about their style and appearance. Thus making an 9/10 into an 4-5/10 just because he didn’t take care of what style would fit his bonestructure the best. Now that I live in a city where a lot of guys actually care and think about how their style could do them favors I see many cute guys. Guy, style and knowing what works for you build can make you from a 4 into a 7 without working out or anyth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 12:34 PM |
| 0 | Are most women even attracted to men?So this is the Part you decided to comment about? The part where I declare that my body is mine? Not the rest of the comment? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 12:22 PM |
| 0 | Are most women even attracted to men?Yeah same goes for girls... Like I said it is more about the imagination than the blatantly obvious things. On the otherhand when you are in a long distance relationship senden those pics can be a way to be intimate without being near another. But do not get me wrong: I do not want the times back were an ankle was arousing. Shaming woman for their body’s is still a common practice but at least we can almost wear what we want! My body is mine and only mine to judge or the people I ask to judge 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 10:50 AM |
| 0 | Are most women even attracted to men?Well say at least that that waaaay more dudes get physical without invitation than girls. I thought it would be clear that people are aware enough that generelising a behavior that a decent percentage does is a common practice in debate. But it seemed it just helped you to jump on the victim train again instead of thinking about the rest and trying to understand why things are how they are an having a convo about it. Sadly I can not call out any guy who ever slapped a girls ass or touched her ti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/20 10:45 AM |
| 9 | Would you be ok with a woman sleeping with you because she has to?That should be the way relationships should work. Neither of the partners should feel forced to do something they won’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 07:16 PM |
| 7 | Are most women even attracted to men?I as a woman would argue that while we have visual triggers ( I sometimes secretly watch after guys with a cute ass or imiagining Someone with toned armes to hug me with them) we are trained to just not act upon them. We were thought to not slap a nice ass when we see it. Seems like a big difference between guys and gals... Also the dickpick issue. I guess you wouldn’t find a pick of our vulva (like the clit, flaps and stuff) as appealing as our tits. Now Dickpicks CAN be sexy. But I want to see… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Would you be okay with your SO being (currently, or in the past) a sex worker?I get why you are not respecting a job wich society told you is not respectable. It is das though because people in the field get a stigma they do not deserve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 11:28 AM |
| 1 | Would you be okay with your SO being (currently, or in the past) a sex worker?„Being good takes 6 months at worst“ Bullshit! Really. Most man at 30 still have no idea how to touch a woman in the right way. I do not know if you read my first comment but she used her money she made for her studies at university. So yeah... Edit: Also if you think, that sex work is only having a hole and spreading your legs it sounds like your sex is quite boring. Because sex is a lot more. It is about reading the emotions and reactions of your partner, about moving your body the right way o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 11:12 AM |
| 2 | Would you be okay with your SO being (currently, or in the past) a sex worker?So being good in bed isn’t a skill? I beg to pardon. Many sexpartners thought me otherwise. Also isn’t it intelligent to pin point the skill you have and choose the one that will bring you the most profit? Another thing: Your example is from Eastern Europe. A poor region. Now I live in Germany and most girls in the red light district are the opposite of what you described. Now of course you will find those beaten up by live but again, you will find those in every path of live. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Ending Child Support and Special Welfare Benefits Fixes the SMPI give you the real strategy of woman when it comes to „mating“. Having a guy that they love and find sexy. Sometimes it is just the later but then it is almost always an accident. And yes we wouldn’t need child support if society was build in a way that woman could easily support themselves while not being able to work during pregnancy and women and man could easily support themselves while not being able to work whilst caring for a small child. I would bet that most woman would gladly be not d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 10:52 AM |
| 2 | Would you be okay with your SO being (currently, or in the past) a sex worker?„So if she doesn’t respect her body and her intimacy enough that she’s willing to sell it for a couple hundred dollars, how can i then respect her?“ Obligatory not my first language! My best friend was a Sexworker and she respected her body. She just had fun having sex and was seeking the thrill. She liked to please man. Now she was very selective about her client pool. But she always said „I could sleep around for free or I could sleep around and get money for it“ @nanced her university through… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/20 10:44 AM |
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