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| 5 | I Tried 100 Pickup Lines, These 3 Will Get You DatesNo. Be a normal human being and introduce yourself. | /r/seduction | 19/12/25 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Your attractiveness is largely dependant on your social validationThat's actually quite true and you can see it not only in humans but in animals as well. For example, in a pride of Lions, the bigger alpha male has maximum options with the female lions while the sub-adult lions with short mane or a slightly thinner built as compared to the alpha, has few options and are often chased out of the pride by the alpha. The alpha is huge and powerful and also has a big bushy mane which attracts female lions. Obviously humans don't behave like this, but the mentality … | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Impulsive actions during date, and how to stop itYes but after only 10 minutes ? Lol. Finding her very attractive is a good line but would've hold off on the connection line. Instead, would've asked her what's up. You told her that the connection ain't good left in 10 minutes, that was a bit selfish if you ask me. | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Impulsive actions during date, and how to stop itInstead of being a straight shooter and telling her right on her face that you didn't feel the connection, I would've simply asked her "Hey, what's wrong ?". Obviously she will not tell me what's wrong but I ask her and then try and make her laugh to relax her. That would show consideration from my end and will gradually ease her from her nerves. That's how I would go about it. Also, ending the date in 10 minutes is brutal lol. No wonder she got pissed. Next time, give it at least half an hour b… | /r/seduction | 16/08/25 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Girl pulling back or fumbled?Absolutely man. Very well said. | /r/seduction | 19/07/25 07:45 AM |
| 2 | Girl pulling back or fumbled?Either that or you can also be direct - "Hey, (her name) what time are we meeting today ?" This usually works for me. | /r/seduction | 19/07/25 07:32 AM |
| 4 | Girl pulling back or fumbled?Technically yes, it's common courtesy for the host to tell the guest what time they should drop by. But, in your case, you should drop a message and ask her. Reason being that you're acting too cold and you also left her read. She will think that you don't have any interest towards her and she will go. Like I wrote earlier, there needs to be a balance. If you hang back too much and expect her to text you everytime, she will move on. | /r/seduction | 19/07/25 04:59 AM |
| 7 | Girl pulling back or fumbled?Consider yourself lucky you met a woman who's into you from the start. The mistake you made was that when she reached out after the party, you should've asked her out instead of waiting for her to reach out again for that couple's thingy, for which also, you didn't go. I also didn't quite understand what you wrote in your post but it looks like you have a date scheduled with her. You should not wait for her to initiate texting everytime. It has to be a balance. You can also initiate from time to… | /r/seduction | 19/07/25 04:46 AM |
| 15 | How to get back the my ex that I ditched years ago?Getting an ex back shouldn't be on your list. There is a reason why she's your ex in the first place. But, if you really want her back, ask her out and stop the unnecessary chit chat on Snapchat. Ask her out now. On the date, Do Not bring up stuff from your past relationship with her. Treat the date as if you are meeting her for the first time. Keep the date fun and casual and if the vibe is good, make your move. You will have to treat her and the date like you are going out for the very first t… | /r/seduction | 19/07/25 04:34 AM |
| 1 | Barney's playbook?Back during my college days when HIMYM was quite famous, my buddy and I would play "haave you met" in the college or at the club. It was awesome lol. But after the initial "haave you met", the rest of course, is depended on your own game. | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 06:15 AM |
| 2 | A compilation of small yet important dating lessonsDon't know why I got downvoted lol. I'm genuinely asking for help as i need more insights on cold approach. Just like you mentioned, not the brightest bulb when it comes to dating. | /r/seduction | 17/05/25 11:43 AM |
| 1 | A compilation of small yet important dating lessonsWould like to know that as well | /r/seduction | 17/05/25 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Can a Fat guy seduce girls or get girls?As the great David Goggins once said - "If you can't find a gym or don't want to go to the gym, it's alright. First of all - Relax. After you've relaxed, i would you to find your balls. Once you find them, I want you to grab them. Once you've grabbed them, I want you to find a pair of shoes. Once you've found the shoes, I want you to go for a walk. If you can walk, you can run. Wherever you live, I'm sure it must be having a floor. Do some fuckin push-ups. Do some sit-ups. Don't wait for the rig… | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 04:16 AM |
| 1 | Can a Fat guy seduce girls or get girls?You're fat and have a shitty personality. Your group hates you and no matter how hard you try, you are unable to change their minds. You got a lot of work ahead of you brother. Forget girls for sometime. You got a lot of, both inner and outer work to do. Think about it, if your own friends don't like you, how can you expect a random girl to ? Plus you're lazy by your own admission. Get your ass off that couch or bed and hit the gym hard. You're already doing that but increase the intensity and g… | /r/seduction | 27/03/25 04:05 AM |
| -1 | Stop crying about how dating apps suckRead the post carefully. | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Stop crying about how dating apps suckAbsolutely! Amen to that! Great post. | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 07:39 AM |
| 6 | First ever cold approachGood job bro. Do let us know if you go out. | /r/seduction | 05/03/25 07:35 AM |
| 0 | The Sad Reality Most Men IgnoreEither he's a troll or a person in denial and delusional. Give him time. He'll wake up one day once that PS5 starts haunting him lol. I also do gaming, it's a great relief from stress, but not at the cost of becoming a hermit. | /r/seduction | 01/03/25 04:22 AM |
| 2 | The Sad Reality Most Men IgnoreActually quite an eye opening post. People like me who always sucked at dating always thought how others are able to do it. I'm a strong advocate of Looks Matters At The Start, yet I failed to improve mine. A good hygiene with a good physique and good clothes does go a long way. Presentation is what is necessary. Even in for a job interview, if you're well put together and show confidence with a good body language, it gets tougher for the recruiter to say No. Thanks a lot for this info man. You'… | /r/seduction | 01/03/25 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Seeing a girl in a week. One day I feel infatuated, then literally the next I feel bored. Is there a name for this?Post nut clarity 😂 | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 10:01 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond to rejection texts?"Ok, fair enough. Good luck to you. Let me know if you ever change your mind. Take care :)" (delete number) That's it. Not responding, I feel, is not a good way to go either. It's kind of immature. Proposing to be friends should never be done. Only do it IF you actually wanna be friends with her. Not in a Nice Guy way. | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Girls, what makes sex with a guy literaly the best for you?I wanna too, I'm also a guy. Will save this post to return to later on. | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Radio silence after first dateThat's a good idea as well. Try it out and see. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 09:40 AM |
| 1 | Radio silence after first dateI see. Some crazy logic from her side though lol. You can try giving her one more shot. Since you mentioned that you asked her out 4/5 days back for second date and she told you "have patience", I'd say wait one more week and then text her in the week after that. If she again says some bullshit about having patience and shit, delete her number and move on. She's playing idiotic childish games at that point. | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Radio silence after first dateOk. Then let her ask you out. What did you respond to "have a little patience" ? You can write - "Cool. Call me whenever you wanna go out". That's it...and leave it at that. | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 09:23 AM |
| 2 | Radio silence after first dateI see. Yes, subconsciously it might have gotten more. The thing is that we get caught up with other stuff in our lives that it gets difficult to consciously mirror her and be careful to not exceed the limit. We tend to go overboard at times and not even pay attention that we are exceeding the texts. In any case, since there is radio silence, I would wait for her to get back in touch. When she does, make a date. If she gives wishy washy answers for the date, then stop texting/calling immediately. | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 09:16 AM |
| 1 | Radio silence after first dateI think you might have texted her much more than her and turned her off. That's why, calling is better and then asking out on the date should be the next. Texting to get to know each other is a bad move. | /r/seduction | 12/11/24 08:03 AM |
| 2 | How do I make a girl feel comfortable during the date?Absolutely. If you only want to talk about problems, book a session with a therapist lol. Date should be fun with story telling and jokes. But it mainly should be focused on the lady you're on a date with. Women love to talk and the more you let them talk, the better it's going to get. | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 04:48 AM |
| 9 | How do I make a girl feel comfortable during the date?Yes exactly. Share problems with her but have a positive attitude. For example, sharing something about any daily struggle in your life, at the end say - "I'm sure things will work out. Just need to hustle a bit more that's all." That shows that you're not feeling down about it and you will overcome the obstacles eventually. | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 10:16 AM |
| 2 | What are the good books for dating tips?That's great man. All the best to you. | /r/seduction | 08/03/24 04:40 AM |
| 2 | What are the good books for dating tips?Lol. It's in a way necessary for us men to embrace masculinity. Due to the present scenario, men are slowly becoming more feminine. Although there is nothing wrong in that but we are forgetting our roots. We don't need to be like cavemen, or be a loud and obnoxious in the name of masculinity. But we should have the balls to go after what we want that's all. | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 08:41 PM |
| 2 | What are the good books for dating tips?It's more or less at par with Models I would say. Will still recommend reading Models. However, if you're reading 3 % Man, then you can skip reading Atomic Attraction, as they both are basically the same stuff. | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 08:36 PM |
| 3 | What are the good books for dating tips?For starters, non needy behavior, even for seducing women. Know when to escalate and when to back off. Know when to walk away if she begins to friendzone you, etc etc. The book basically teaches you on how to be a man so to speak. Be a self assured, self reliant and confident guy. As mentioned earlier, I've read the book only once. I tried to fix my non-needy behaviour through it by giving women time and space. That worked as I had 1 woman, with whom things went south, get back in touch. I also … | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 08:30 PM |
| 22 | What are the good books for dating tips?"How To Be A 3% Man" by Corey Wayne. He says to read the book 10-15 times to truly master the skill. I've only read it twice. But the stuff he has written actually works as I've seen the results myself. "Atomic Attraction" by Chris Canwell "Models" by Mark Manson. | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Today I lost my V-card to a super hot(9+) girl who mocked my inexperience. I dont know if I should be happy or sad about itAs long as you’re happy about it, doesn’t matter what she thinks lol. Nobody is great the first time anyway. Find more birds to get experience with, and in the meantime, keep very limited to no contact with this chick. Once she sees you’re going out with a lot of other women, she will forget her idiotic mockery and will be back for more! | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 05:10 AM |
| 2 | Roommates are having loud sex and I can’t get a girlfriend to save my life. How do I cope?Pretty awesome advice mate and among the best I’ve read so far. I hope OP read it as well and applies it. You’ve laid down the entire foundation to get good with girls and it’s something Anyone can do if they are willing to. Great to see you mentioned Corey Wayne’s book. That book actually changed my perception about women. It’s a guide on how to actually go back to our roots and become a Man. Although I’ve read that book only once, but it definitely blew me away! Not to mention, I tried out som… | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 05:10 AM |
| 3 | What would you do if you’re at a bar and a girl approaches you and asks if she can buy you a drink?I would wake up | /r/seduction | 03/12/21 10:15 AM |
| 5 | Pivotal Reminder: You're Taking Her Too SeriouslyYou’re absolutely right. Even I’ll say that looks matter a lot in the initial stage. Why do you think there are so many new gyms, beauty saloons, parlours etc opening up? Everyone wants to look their best. If looks didn’t matter, these places would be out of business. So, looks does matter in the initial stages. Girls Do care about looks when you first approach them. They do get turned on by good looks. Personality, behaviour etc comes later. But it is always the physical appearance that comes f… | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 07:46 AM |
| 42 | My red flagsBrilliant! That is how it should go. Never settle. The most powerful negotiating position is to being able to walk away and mean it. Ive not done this though, but I remember a time when a girl, whom I liked, wanted to bring her friend along for the date. On our first date, she had done the same and I accepted. On the 2nd one she again wanted to bring her friend. I said no. She tried to reason with me, and I simply said - “look I want to get to know you properly. Best way to do that is if we are … | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 06:21 AM |
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