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| 1 | "Be confident" is not an empty platitude. It has a real and useful definition.Get confident, stupid! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/25 07:55 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are the more empathetic sexDid ya? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 02:43 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women are the more empathetic sexI presented an argument without judgement. I didn’t say men are better decision makers. Emotions can definitely lead to better decisions. It depends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 02:43 AM |
| – | CMV: Women are the more empathetic sexWhat is the point of this post? I suppose I don’t disagree that women are, on balance, more empathetic than men, as they are generally more in tune with their emotions. Much of their decision-making can be attributed to relying on their emotions, whereas men rely more on reason. Men are also discouraged from displaying most of their emotions from an early age. Ok, great. Women are more empathetic. But what does that have to do with a clip of women saying that they don’t need men? How is that a d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/25 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Thirsty men arent good and good men arent thirsty.I’m not exactly sure what you mean by “good.” You really only contrast it with “thirsty” and “asshole.” Do you mean moral? I’d argue that morality is not actually mutually exclusive with either thirst or assholery. Or are you referring to “a good man” ^<sup>TM</sup> (i.e., a high value man)? I’d guess plenty of high value men can be thirsty assholes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/25 07:19 PM |
| 1 | What would porn made for the female gaze look like?Bridgerton | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 04:12 PM |
| 1 | As a man I honestly can't see whats unattractive about short men.As a guy, I get it. I like short women, because they seem more feminine, delicate, cute, etc. Taller women seem more masculine to me. Makes sense that tall guys seem more masculine, and short guys less so | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 10:45 PM |
| 1 | We’re constantly talking about guys jacking off to porn but what about guys jacking off to girls they know?Like, trucks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/24 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Dating 20s vs 30sNobody ever suggests these, but look for speed dating, matchmaking, and blind date services near you. The apps suck for most of us, and women are much more likely to use these alternatives, making the gender balance more attractive. Not to mention they put in-person interactions first, and the women are pre-selected to be looking for romantic interactions. These alternatives do skew towards women looking for LTRs, but if you’re up front about a search for casual dates, you can still find success… | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 12:57 AM |
| 3 | Dating advice, therapy bait-and-switchThe point of therapy is not “to understand yourself.” The point of it is to learn how to reframe, cope with, and change aspects of your life that are not working the way you want them to. It sounds like you probably just had the wrong therapist. If you’re still open to therapy, I’d highly suggest that you search for a counselor who specializes in mens’ issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 09:11 PM |
| – | Whats the most attractive thing a man/woman can say to you?Why use lot word? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 02:22 AM |
| 10 | Do adult men without social circles really have a chance?Group therapy for social anxiety was the best thing that ever happened to me, and I didn’t find it until my 30s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Women just expect men to pay, even on bad dates. Is this reasonable?fo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/23 09:29 PM |
| 50 | Women say to look for signals to approach, yet there are no universal signals to approach a womanShe whips out her dick, too, of course | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/23 08:25 PM |
| 30 | Do rich girls really date poor guys, or is it like girls only date up?She'll keep you around as long as you're a good time. But don't catch feelings, b/c she probably won't ever marry you. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 04:28 AM |
| 1 | It is still acceptable to body-shame men, especially for baldness.Goddamn, people are just so fragile anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/22 10:34 PM |
| 14 | When she gets back in touch after you distance yourselfI think you're right by not responding to those generic messages. If she initiates a more substantial conversation in the future, then it would be fine to reply. But yeah, sounds like she's just checking to see if she still has you on the hook. | /r/seduction | 19/05/21 04:28 PM |
| 9 | Why do so many people never get good at game despite trying?Learning to code or play the guitar can be learned through repetition. In both, you get immediate feedback on whether you're getting better, and can largely tell where exactly you're going wrong. A lot of other skills fall into this category, and are usually based on the acquisition of a physical and/or mental task, rather than being based on human interaction. Dating/seduction/game is more like sales or art. You can keep practicing, but if you're doing it wrong, you're never going to be success… | /r/seduction | 27/03/21 07:07 AM |
| 0 | "Smart people have fewer friends" - a discussionWhat? I mentioned it because your interpretation was wrong. The study does not prove that smarter people necessarily have fewer friends, which your interpretation implies. Also, the video's claims of being able to peer into the minds of subjects to see their motivations for creating/maintaining relationships is laughable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 09:40 PM |
| 4 | "Smart people have fewer friends" - a discussionThis was found to have been linear, meaning that the more intelligent someone is, the less happiness they experience with others... No. The trend was found to be linear. Humans do not exist on any linear realities. There will always be exceptions to any trend, and not just rare outliers. I've known extremely intelligent people with huge circles of friends and acquaintances, and some loners who are absolute dolts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/21 08:48 PM |
| 2 | Is it easier to get laid during the pandemic?Escalation is pretty situation-dependent, imo. Covid hasn't fundamentally changed anything about women (or men), so it really hasn't changed anything about seduction. | /r/seduction | 16/12/20 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Is it easier to get laid during the pandemic?On other dating subs, I've seen many girls complaining that a lot of guys are trying to get laid way too fast with this excuse. You gotta be more creative than, "everything's closed, so let's just fuck, bb." | /r/seduction | 15/12/20 11:59 PM |
| 1 | A fetus shouldn't pay for your entertainmentWTF? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/20 07:42 PM |
| 1 | How to text a waitress on FB that has shown interest IRL but that you have not talked with IRL?Sounds creepy. Also, r/AskSeddit | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 08:56 PM |
| 9 | Guys! Don’t neglect your purfumes! It makes a huge difference and requires the least amount of workThis is ok advice, but do use cologne/perfume/body sprays sparingly. A single spritz on your chest can go a long way. There's no need to spray behind each ear, or on each wrist. Also, you should never use a scent to just mask poor hygiene. You need to bathe, and then use a scent. Honestly, the mix of too much perfume and body odor is really nauseating. | /r/seduction | 23/08/20 06:28 PM |
| 2 | PSYCHOLOGY OF GIRLS LIKING BAD BOYSBasically boils down to two things: People chase those who are unavailable. If someone is too ready to please (i.e., nice guys), then there's nothing to pursue. They get bored. Bad boys are exciting. They're unpredictable, spontaneous, and that usually means girls find them mysterious and thrilling. Nice guys are boring. | /r/seduction | 15/08/20 03:41 AM |
| 1 | How to progress after asking questionsIf you're just out for practice (which I'm assuming, since you're on vacation?) then bookstores and grocery stores are usually fine. Ymmv during Covid, though | /r/seduction | 07/08/20 06:15 PM |
| 2 | How to progress after asking questionsYou may have heard an old song, Girls Just Wanna Have Fun. It's true, especially at your age. You gotta get them smiling, laughing, or somehow feeling thrilled to be around you. Girls don't wanna be interviewed. The nice thing is, you don't have to be Dave Chappelle-level funny. If you're not hideous, and are decently dressed, even corny dad-jokes will make them smile. Be playful. Be fun. Tease them lightly, and get them to tease you. All easier said than done, to be sure, but that's the goal. | /r/seduction | 07/08/20 06:04 PM |
| 5 | If you fuck another dude’s girl, is it safe to say that you’ve “bested” him?Women don’t quite work this way. They don’t like dick the way men like pussy. I'm pretty sure this blanket statement is not always true, depending on the woman. Plus, if her man makes her feel amazing, gives great head, but has a small wang, she may well be fiending for a big one. More generally, I think it depends on the relationship itself. If it's relatively new, then "the other guy" probably has bested the bf. But if the couple has been together for multiple years, she may just be bored, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/20 10:16 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Are achievements attractive in men?Look out if your priest claims to be "a Cubs fan" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/20 07:30 PM |
| 0 | Indian Man’s guide to getting laid as an Indian in the USAStay away from greasy biryanis NOOOOOOOO!!!!! j/k. Lots of good stuff here. | /r/seduction | 28/02/20 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Why are women so deceptive about their mating strategy, whereas men generally aren't? Is this a good or bad thing for society?There's evidence that many women have no strategy at all. Namely, women who repeatedly fall for, chase, and get knocked up by low value men. Plus the stereotypical complaints of "poor-me" that many women are known for making in regards to dating (as satirized in subs like WhereAreAllTheGoodMen). If a woman has no strategy, it may appear to someone analyzing her choices that she is being deceptive about her strategy, when really she's just allowing herself to be subject to the transient winds of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/20 05:04 PM |
| 3 | What I hate to see in Cold Approaching.What? Just because a girl is talking to you, doesn't mean she owes you her number. A majority of cold approaches will end in rejection. If you can't take rejection like a man, get outta the game. | /r/seduction | 18/02/20 09:46 PM |
| 1 | I seriously just don’t understand women.Following up on getting a number from a girl while out drinking is an art I've not mastered, but I've learned a few things. 1. Stick with something super short: "Hey, Lisa," or "Got a hangover today?" It's good to relate the 1st message to something that will help her remember you. In your case, maybe, "Those were some nice dance moves last night." Then you gotta just wait for a response. The key is to try and get her texting before you give her a lot of wordiness. My first couple numbers, I sen… | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 02:53 AM |
| 1 | I seriously just don’t understand women.What exactly did you text her the next day? | /r/seduction | 16/02/20 02:36 AM |
| 1 | High status solves everything, the final solutionFirst off, high status is not the same as popular. Secondly, roving the the world in private jets, luxury yachts, and fancy parties with Hollywood directors and actors seems like an uncontroversial definition of popular, anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 05:52 PM |
| 2 | High status solves everything, the final solutionYeah sure. Totally worked for Harvey Weinstein | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/20 05:18 PM |
| 31 | Most Women Here Miss the Point of “Go Lift”This is a good point. After years of lifting, I get more looks from the ladies, even when my clothes obscure basically every part of my body below the neck. Also, one's posture and gait both eventually improve drastically too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 09:00 PM |
| 1 | How to get Laid 23 y.o. femaleOk, gotcha. Thanks for the clarification. | /r/seduction | 11/02/20 04:24 AM |
| 1 | How to get Laid 23 y.o. femaleOk, my bad. Poorly thought out comment, all around | /r/seduction | 08/02/20 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Why do some men struggle to truly "go their own way"?larp Live action role player? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 10:32 PM |
| 12 | Why do some men struggle to truly "go their own way"?I would assume that going one's own way is analogous to getting sober, or getting over an eating disorder. It's not a switch, but instead an unending process, that requires regular affirmations of one's commitment to staying the course, and which benefits from a community of other like-minded folks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/20 05:43 PM |
| 1 | How to get Laid 23 y.o. femaleAh yes. I would never rob a house, so why would I ever lock my doors? tell my daughter to lock her doors? An estimated 1 in 5 women experience rape or attempted rape. Knowing this fact, and being aware of the existence of psychopaths somehow makes me a psychopath? Edit: fixed analogy to "fit" this discussion. | /r/seduction | 06/02/20 08:33 PM |
| 2 | When you approach a girl, what’s the main goal you have in mind?If you approach every attractive girl with the intention of having sex with them, it means you have no standards around her personality. People with no real standards are desperate, and desperation comes across in your interaction. If, on the other hand, you do have standards, then you approach the situation from a perspective of figuring out whether this attractive girl is worth spending time on. This mentality shifts your thinking from, "gee I hope I prove myself to this girl so she sleeps wit… | /r/seduction | 05/02/20 08:51 PM |
| 5 | Had an epiphany; don't be afraid to show you like her. Here's why:Right. If you show zero interest, and then escalate to physical touching or whatever, then she'll be surprised, confused, and probably on the defensive. I remember reading that most guys should be doing about 50/50 push/pull. So tease her, then compliment her. Give an aloof answer, then put your hand on the small of her back. Etc. There's some advice floating around that says that 80/20 push/pull is ideal (so, four instances of push, then one pull), but the author wrote that this should only be … | /r/seduction | 16/01/20 02:12 AM |
| 1 | The MeToo movement is all about looks, change my mind if you canFair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 10:35 PM |
| 1 | The MeToo movement is all about looks, change my mind if you canOh shit, Hooray! I was misinformed on this. Thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 10:34 PM |
| 2 | The MeToo movement is all about looks, change my mind if you canAh yes, ugly ol' Matt Lauer don't count | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 08:52 PM |
| 1 | The MeToo movement is all about looks, change my mind if you canIf she hadn't fucked a famous person, none of us would have ever heard of her. And now because "she told her story" (which no one asked for), Aziz's career almost gets ripped away from him, because he's immediately associated with Weinstein and his ilk. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 08:50 PM |
| 1 | The MeToo movement is all about looks, change my mind if you canMy point is, why does anyone care about her bad date or remorse? Oh right, b/c she was a strfkr. So who cares that Aziz gets lumped in with rapists, huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 08:44 PM |
| 6 | The MeToo movement is all about looks, change my mind if you canAnd HIS show was cancelled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 08:36 PM |
| 6 | The MeToo movement is all about looks, change my mind if you canMeToo'd men who don't look like ogres: Matt Lauer, James Franco, Chris Brown, Luke Walton, Bryan Singer, Jeremy Piven, Charlie Walk, Aziz Ansari, Corey Lewandowski, Lorin Stein, Danny Masterson, Nick Carter, Russell Simmons, etc. Special mentions (i.e., only ogre-adjacent in looks): Al Franken, Louis CK, Jeffrey Tambor, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Did i fuck up by saying “whats wrong” when she stared at meProbably | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 05:30 PM |
| 2 | How and when to ask out a newly single girl?Would I just dm her and be like long time no talk, how are you? Sounds perfect. Get a back and forth going, then set up a "hangout" type meeting in order to avoid having to define the meeting as date/non-date. Then once you're hanging out, don't bother discussing any other guys, just work on keeping the vibe going between the two of you. Eventually, try and escalate and get some sexual tension going, and see where it goes. If she's into you (regardless of whether some other dude is in the pictur… | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Did these girls at work laugh at me or was I overreacting?Lol, thanks | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Did these girls at work laugh at me or was I overreacting?Ah, didn't go looking. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Did these girls at work laugh at me or was I overreacting?First off, it sounds like you probably were overreacting. Don't assume you know what's going through other people's heads, especially when you're not even sure you've heard everything that's said. Secondly, how is this related to seduction? | /r/seduction | 02/01/20 03:59 AM |
| 1 | [CMV] All boomers should be bannedThe 90s are alive in Portland | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/20 03:23 AM |
| 3 | Jews?Yes, please! I'm with John Mulaney on this. A stereotypical Jewish woman is upfront and direct. Much less guesswork. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/20 03:18 AM |
| 2 | So it seems N count and allowing Chad to do things to her that billy isn't allowed to do does matter? You're move bluepillersDevil's advocate: perhaps the cover-up hurt more than the crime. It's possible that Marc was more hurt (and certainly embarrassed) that this random stranger knew more intimate details about his fiance than he did, rather than being specifically bothered by the actual N count and sex act(s). Even if she didn't technically lie, she was not truthful. (In reality, it's almost certainly a combination of both the crime and the cover-up, in this case). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 11:27 PM |
| 3 | ladies: dont waste the opportunity to dread game the fuck out of your man at the club tonightsexy Jeffery Epstein has entered the chat | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 08:08 PM |
| 5 | How does one take good pictures?Tips for profile photos (from advice from female friends, internet strangers, and my own personal experimentation): Avoid selfies. Have friends take pics of you at various times, from various angles, and doing various activities -- preferably activities that highlight your interests and personality. Have a variety of expressions. Many people think that when they do a certain thing with their face, they're more attractive, but think of how stupid and annoying it is when a girl has 6 photos of her… | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 07:44 PM |
| 4 | Feeling inaquedate in NYCYou need to work on your inner game, which is basically your own view of yourself. An important aspect of inner game is self-talk. You need to be more generous to yourself, and focus on what you have to offer, which is not nothing. Are there men with higher SMV? Always. But who cares? Put them out of your mind, or you'll never be fun. Stop focusing on being "intereresting," and shift to trying to be fun. A fun broke guy will get more action than a mildly intereresting guy who makes 3 times what … | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 04:27 PM |
| 5 | Did my first ever cold approach.Hmm, you have a good point, however, I did not say that most women are uncomfortable with a direct approach, I said that most are uncomfortable being judged solely on their looks. Which I still believe to be true. If going with a truly direct approach, I still think a better angle to take rather than, "I thought you were cute," is something like, "you looked like an interesting person," "I really dig your style," or "I see you're interested in the same books as me." Especially when you're not in… | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 10:33 PM |
| 58 | Did my first ever cold approach.What you did was good if you're goal is to get over your own discomfort of approaching women through a little exposure-therapy. However, you will almost never get a good response from a woman if you jump right into an introduction without building some casual rapport. Most women are put off by guys hitting on them solely based on their looks. The next time you do a cold approach, try to start with light banter, or at least a conversational opener. "Whatcha reading?" "Hey I love that book!" "Shop… | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 09:51 PM |
| 1 | How can you feel good enough for women if you struggle to talk to them while other guys don't?Kind of, but the goal is to not perceive such an interaction as a failure in the first place. Even the most successful, rich, attractive, etc. guys do no have a 100% "success" rate. The rest of us never will either. Knowing this, you should eventually be able to see that when you have interest in a girl, and it doesn't work out, that this doesn't really have anything to do with you, or your value, or your skills, or whatever. It's just real life. But yes, girls who move on from you do indeed mis… | /r/seduction | 17/12/19 04:21 AM |
| 3 | How can you feel good enough for women if you struggle to talk to them while other guys don't?The ability to make intereresting small talk is a pretty small portion of the overall value a person has to offer in a relationship. You need to change how you view yourself and your worth (sometimes this is referred to as "inner game"). Funny thing is, once you reframe how you view yourself, small talk actually becomes easier, because you start walking around as a more confident person overall, and it's easier to just be in the moment. And that's all small talk really is. | /r/seduction | 16/12/19 07:13 PM |
| 14 | When you’re single, do you flirt with EVERYONE you’re attracted to, or do you only flirt with other single people?It depends on how you flirt. If you're all sexual, intense, and handsy, then just with actual prospects. But if you're just fun and flirty, then it's fine to flirt with basically anyone, except at work. The benefit of constantly flirting is you get better at it with practice, and it just becomes a natural reaction. That way when you actually are interested in someone, you have less to think/worry about. | /r/seduction | 13/12/19 10:26 PM |
| 3 | How do you actually act natural/relax at dates?This basically has to do with inner game. That is, the way you view yourself, and the way you talk to yourself in your head. You've gotta get your mind right before you can convey believeable confidence to others. | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 07:20 PM |
| -3 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Of What Use Is A Man to A Woman? Males, come justify your existence to FDS in the comments! The Floor Is Yours!I don't view this as something unique to either sex. Relationships with the best of my male or female friends are never the same as romantic connections. I don't have great examples, because it's more of a feeling. Like when you both wake up and somehow make a non-verbal agreement to just stay in PJs and binge watch some show you've been watching together, and you stay there all day, cuddling on the couch. Not sexual, but not not sexual either. Or even going to a party as a couple. It just feels… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 09:17 PM |
| 0 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Of What Use Is A Man to A Woman? Males, come justify your existence to FDS in the comments! The Floor Is Yours!Well, as I said, it's more in the eye of the beholder, but here's some stuff I think would generally be viewed positively: Tall, fit, educated, hygienic (I've been told by many women that I smell nice), deep voice, active, considerate, Union-represented full time position with good benefits, home owner, dependable, outgoing but not overbearing, good dancer, and most dogs love me. But again, these are things that I value about myself, and that media/society/etc. have taught me that others value. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 09:06 PM |
| -7 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Of What Use Is A Man to A Woman? Males, come justify your existence to FDS in the comments! The Floor Is Yours!The fact that this sub is called Female Dating Strategy tells me that its heterosexual subscribers see at least some value in having a man around, otherwise, they would presumably not be dating at all. That value is almost certainly different for each woman, though. I'm sure that some women lead perfectly happy single lives, but find sex with a male partner superior to self-stimulation. Others who don't need a man for sexual pleasure may enjoy other benefits that are unique to being in a committ… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 08:17 PM |
| 2 | I need advice on conversationThat would be all well and good if this sub were focused on simply how to talk to women. But the sub is specifically meant for those of us trying to seduce women. If someone follows your advice, they will likely have no problem making plenty of female friends, but would probably continue to struggle getting any of them out of the friend zone. Sure, you could just get really good at conversation, and hope you meet "the right girl," at the right time, yadda yadda yadda. Or, you could learn how to … | /r/seduction | 10/12/19 04:50 PM |
| 4 | I need advice on conversationWhen I struggle with this, I try to remind myself that I should be teasing her. Note that giving a girl shit is not exactly the same as negging her. It's more like how most people treat their friends (i.e., being sarcastic, but fun). Example: She does something clutzy, say drops something. Beta/weak response: "Oh, it's ok, I'll get that for you." Negging response: "Yikes, remind me not to let you handle anything valuable." Teasing response: "Whoa! She's in a rage! Look out, everyone!" Note how n… | /r/seduction | 09/12/19 11:36 PM |
| 3 | No more humblenessThe noun-version of humble is humility | /r/seduction | 21/11/19 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Rate my body. (24M)r/lostredditors | /r/seduction | 20/11/19 07:42 PM |
| 8 | Some people take relationships titles way too seriously and it hurts dating.And there's the problem. You'll be hard pressed to find a normal guy willing to agree to exclusivity before having sex these days. It actually sounds like you're the one hung up on titles, since you won't have sex with someone who isn't your BF. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/19 04:48 PM |
| 3 | No girls will not be polite when rejectPeople don't talk like that, man. Most rejections sound just like, "no thanks." And that's it. If you're getting hostile and/or spiteful rejections, there's something extremely wrong with your approach. | /r/seduction | 20/11/19 07:24 AM |
| 11 | No girls will not be polite when rejectThis is some defeatist, incel garbage. | /r/seduction | 20/11/19 05:41 AM |
| 2 | First approach in a whileYes, always. You may be ready to go on a date based solely on physical attraction, but women rarely will. The most attractive women have their pick of the most attractive men, so even if you're a particularly "stunning" guy, she still needs to see that you offer some other value. At the very least, she needs to know that if she goes on a date with you, she'll have fun. | /r/seduction | 16/11/19 01:18 AM |
| 7 | First approach in a whileEhh, it's less about being forward, and more about (1) what you conveyed to her, and also (2) approaching women at work in the service industry. You only conveyed that you found her attractive, and then immediately asked her out. She now knows that the sole reason you want to go out with her is her looks. Most women don't appreciate this. That's why you should spend time building rapport, and then ask. That way, you convey that you want a date b/c you two get along, and you view her as a person,… | /r/seduction | 15/11/19 10:55 PM |
| 5 | Losing virginity to an older woman?Just click one of those ads on porn sites. Apparently there are loads of horny MILFs in your area, who are ready to fuuuuuu... | /r/seduction | 15/11/19 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Girls sure do like to stick their tongues out...Yeah, get a real firm grip | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/19 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Advice needed ASAP: Bus CrawlLol, thanks. Knock 'em dead! | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 10:00 PM |
| 1 | The "secret" society of Pick-Up Artists and The Wizard of OzFar out, maaaaaan! ✌️☯️🕊️ | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 09:19 PM |
| 5 | Advice needed ASAP: Bus CrawlThis can be a great environment. It has built-in changes of scenery, plus an automatic in-group feel. There will (hopefully) be multiple groups of girls w/out guys. However, all the other single guys on the bus(es) will have the same advantages as you, so you need to move early, but at the same time, don't come across as thirsty. Another advantage to moving early is that at least some of the other guys will be building up their liquid courage before approaching. You'll wanna open sets, as single… | /r/seduction | 18/10/19 07:12 PM |
| 3 | Is there more to life than looking good?I read Death of a Salesman in HS, and thought, "what an idiot Willy Loman is, always saying that the most important thing in life is to be liked. Doesn't he know that life is about creating your own unique personality and blah blah blah." Fast forward a couple decades and I'm like, "oh shit, he was right." And looks help tremendously in this department. People like being around attractive people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/19 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Are Furries the next stage in human evolution?I get that this is purge week, but good God this is garbage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/19 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: How common is it for you to compliment for your looks.When I'm fluctuating in weight and/or visible muscle, I get comments and occasionally compliments from, in this order: male acquaintances, female friends, then male friends, and the odd male stranger here and there, who may or may not be hitting on me. Very rarely have I received compliments from female acquaintances, and almost never from female strangers. When in a relationship, SO probably falls between male acquaintances and female friends on the list above. I'm not a "hot guy." Probably a 6… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/19 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Eye contactI'm 6'2" as well, and I catch people staring. Also, I'm mixed race, so I'm sure at least some of them are just trying to figure out my ethnicity. Anyway, it's perfectly fine to just assume if a girl is looking, that there's an element of interest. I mean, at least she's not avoiding eye contact! | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Eye contactAre you particularly attractive? Or odd looking? Or tall? Or do you wear strange clothes? What's your resting face? Do you smile all the time? Or scowl? The fact that guys are staring too says that there may be something about your appearance that's bringing on this attention. Regardless, once you make eye contact with a girl, be sure to smile, and if it's appropriate, give a short, polite, "hello" or "good morning." Then just kind of mirror her response. If she lingers, plays with her hair, or … | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 06:24 PM |
| 6 | Are alphas bad in bed? Or, are betas having more casual sex?Exactly. You've described anecdotally what I found described statistically, which is: Depending on the study you reference, typically around 95% of straight men always orgasm during sex, while straight women who always orgasm during sex is closer to 60%. And those numbers are lower again if you're looking at casual hookups; 80% of men to 40% of women. In other words, the betas hang around in a relationship longer to "learn" a woman's quirks, whereas alphas hump & dump. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 11:06 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Socialism would DESTROY most men's RMV and render them nothing but worker drones.You're talking about socialism in the ideal, and taken to the extreme. A true command economy, where everyone is equal. And I suppose your argument likely would hold in that environment, but that environment is a fiction. In most socialist countries in practice there remain winners (w/ increased RMV) and losers. Those who work their way up in "the state," or "the party," or whatever power system in place, do so by showing extreme loyalty to those above them, and carve out their own small corner … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/19 12:38 AM |
| 42 | Are beta orbiters really as common as the Pill subs make them out to be?Find a girl whose hotness "number" is 7 or higher. Ask her how many platonic male friends she has. She will tell you the number of beta orbiters in her life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/19 10:38 PM |
| 13 | The EXCUSE. Where does self protection become conflict avoidance? Conflict avoidance become social saving face?You're talking about white lies. They are always told for conflict avoidance. When women use white lies to avoid conflict when being approached by strange men, they do so because they have no way of knowing if self protection is needed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/19 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Why does rp keep ignoring science in terms of eggs and sperm?OP blinded me with science! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/19 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Q4MRAs who want "male homeless shelters" because some for women existbUt eqUaLiTy mEAnS EveRyOnE gETs tHe SAme tHiNGs!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/19 03:58 PM |
| 19 | Can you be passive and dominant?"...any man who must say 'I am king,' is no true king at all." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/19 08:43 PM |
| 8 | Q4All: What kind of dating advice did you get early in life?Male. As a kid (probably way too young), my single mom always told me that women just wanna get pregnant to hook a man, so that she can take his money. A pretty fucked up thing to tell a 8-10 yr old. I guess it made me a little wary of girls, but as a giant nerd, who eventually fattened up by high school, it wasn't like I was beating away the ladies with a stick. From everyone else, I just heard the super unhelpful "be yourself" nonsense. I didn't hear anything different until my early twenties … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 05:15 PM |
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