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Oh yeah ofc. I’m talking about if they’ve already established like the “talking phase” and he says that to her. Not their first conversation.
/r/seduction25/12/19 07:55 PM
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I think they’re talking already no? I’m pretty sure that’s what OP is saying. If I just start talking to a guy and he’s upfront about the fact that he doesn’t want anything serious I would for sure respect that and appreciate him telling me.
/r/seduction25/12/19 02:41 PM
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Nah you can still make sure she’s aware. Just tell her straight up that you just want something casual. She can either be okay with that or not be. It’s not a reflection on you.
/r/seduction25/12/19 01:02 AM
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Just tell her that you’re not looking for anything serious. It’s not that big of a deal. But texting her happy holidays definitely wasn’t a good idea, that would make me think a guy wanted more than just a hookup. You’ve gotta be a bit more distant.
/r/seduction24/12/19 07:39 PM
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Maybe change your username to start
/r/seduction20/11/19 10:18 PM
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He can’t he has sensory issues
/r/seduction10/10/19 03:35 PM
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She’s probably just not that into you then. Don’t expect her to chase you. Just drop it.
/r/seduction08/10/19 12:32 PM
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Wtf haha she's a weirdo
/r/seduction06/10/19 06:10 PM
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Then just tell her straight that it isn't what you're looking for, I think you know the answer to this lol
/r/seduction05/10/19 07:44 PM
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I feel like if you're the one who asks for the date, then you should pay. But then if it's agreed upon to go on a second and third date, etc, then both should split.
/r/seduction05/10/19 06:04 PM
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I’d say just keeping seeing her. Obv if you’ve been having a hard time getting in her pants then the other guys are too. She doesn’t sound like a slut she sounds like she’s genuinely trying to figure it out by taking her time with each of you. That should be commended. I can compartmentalize different relationships with different people quite easily. It doesn’t mean that I like one more than the other or that I’m being disingenuous. I hate that it’s such a taboo thing to date multiple people, th…
/r/seduction05/10/19 03:46 PM
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No... don’t do that. She literally told you she wasn’t interested. Not “super into her”? Yeah bro you sound into her.
/r/seduction30/09/19 09:16 PM
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Girls like to have attention from guys even if they never plan on sleeping with them. Then the second the guy moves on they get pissed because he’s not pining after her anymore. It’s a weird thing to understand for guys. But honestly all girls do this. Idk why we do it cause it’s selfish. So either get really drunk together and have sex, cause I’m sure the years of pent up sexual tension would make it amazing. Or just ignore her and move on. She sounds kinda toxic anyway.
/r/seduction28/09/19 07:49 PM
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Lmaooo you sound really pissed at her. But idk man, maybe she's just moody. Maybe you dodged a bullet then who knows. Keep her at arms length.
/r/seduction26/09/19 11:56 PM
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She could just be PMSing lol. Or maybe she's on a new birth control or something. I know that's a trope but hormones are powerful man. Is there anything you could have done that she could have found out about between the morning and afternoon when you saw her again? Did you hit on a friend of hers or have any skeletons in your closet that she could have found out about to make her act that way?
/r/seduction26/09/19 11:10 PM
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Yeah I get turned off if a guy puts my hand down there. It’s a lot of pressure. Trust me, if I want your peen I’m gonna touch it. There are much better ways to escalate than having her grab your dick! Touch her first rather than push her to touch you
/r/seduction26/09/19 05:24 PM
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How about grow a pair and do it in person rather than hiding behind a screen? Any guy that tries to talk to me over social media is instantly seen as a pussy in my eyes.
/r/seduction17/09/19 04:17 PM
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Ehh just act normal
/r/seduction15/09/19 07:03 PM
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Maybe something happened with a friend or her dog or something and she needed to go take care of it. Just meet up with her again. I’m sure it wasn’t you.
/r/seduction15/09/19 05:16 PM
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If she was upset and angry at you for not making a move she sounds very insecure and immature tbh. I feel like you’ve dodged a bullet
/r/seduction15/09/19 12:36 PM
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Poop hole loophole
/r/seduction13/09/19 06:08 PM
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It could honestly just be a race thing? I’m not like this, but not everyone is comfortable dating outside of their race. Or dating someone that isn’t white presenting. Even Asian girls end up with white guys a lot of the time. We honestly really can’t help what we’re attracted to, politically correct or not. Are you approaching Indian girls when you go out? Maybe try that.
/r/seduction12/09/19 05:12 PM
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In 2019, I don't think it should affect anything. Espec if you're going to a liberal college. I think if you are attracted to someone you should go for it, despite their race. Don't assume that if someone isn't into you that it's because of your race. It would probably be better mentally anyway.
/r/seduction02/09/19 11:59 PM
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I think we're saying similar things and it's just not vibing haha Yeah sorta! Lol So when I go out, I'll pretty much dance with anyone cause I like to dance. But the guy will take that as me being interested, when the reality is is that I just want to have fun. You said yourself, "I approach girls under the impression that girls are (by default) attracted to me." And in my experience, a lot of guys operate that way. And to be honest, I don't really get the arrogance. I understand that it helps w…
/r/seduction24/08/19 10:50 PM
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I think the whole concept in general of guys picking up girls at a bar is an exchange. Guy goes to club or bar, sees girl, guy wants to hook up with girl or bring her home, guy approaches girl and offers a drink to seemingly “buy” her interest. OP said it himself. He’s buying the drink so that he can sleep with her. It’s entirely transactional. So why is it that a guy can treat it as a transaction but when a girl does, she’s using him? Girl’s point of view: Girl goes to club or bar, wants to hav…
/r/seduction24/08/19 05:09 PM
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Yes but letting a guy buy the drinks versus directly asking for it is two different things. If a guy wants to buy me a drink then fine. But I’m not gonna ask for it and I honestly don’t think many girls do. I think you underestimate how many guys volunteer to buy the drinks.
/r/seduction23/08/19 11:18 PM
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I’m not down for that and I don’t want to be just friends So saying you didn't want to be friends with her isn't childish?? You men like to complain when a girl leads you on but you also complain when she says she just wants to be friends. Like fucking pick one. If we're not up front with telling you that we're not interested, then we're leading you on. If we are up front about it, then we're also pathologized for it. You say "I'm not down for that." Meaning that if you can't hook up with her, t…
/r/seduction23/08/19 09:58 PM
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Girls seriously ask you to buy them drinks?! I have only experienced guys offering, more like dragging me up to the bar with them to buy me a drink. Even if I already have one in my hand. Even if I say no thanks. They will insist and persistently ask several more times. I would NEVER have the balls to ask a stranger to buy me something. None of my girl friends do this either... I'm confused. So is this actually endemic? Girls do this? You go up to ten girls a night and they are all the type to a…
/r/seduction23/08/19 08:45 PM
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Just meet her out in public once. Ask her for coffee or to go get drinks. And then after that, you can mention having her come over. Or say your goodbyes and ask her to come over the next time. If you go straight to asking her to “Netflix and chill” then she knows what you really mean, and she won’t wanna come over. If you meet in public, there’s no pressure for sex, so she’ll go. Then she’ll be much more inclined to have sex the next time. All it takes is one date really. And no guys do this. T…
/r/seduction22/08/19 10:18 PM
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She doesn’t want to chill w you cause that means sex and she doesn’t want that yet. Meet her somewhere in public first. I don’t get why guys do this. It never works.
/r/seduction22/08/19 05:22 PM
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Kinda wanna know what makes her a badass lmao. I’m intrigued
/r/seduction22/08/19 05:20 PM
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Aw man! Sorry buddy
/r/seduction21/08/19 02:21 PM
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Just bring it up to her and be like I hope this isn’t coming on too strong but I have a plus one for wedding coming up and can’t stand my family, so wondering if you’d want to come make it a little more bearable. Something casual. Just bring it up as a possible option, not a formal invitation.
/r/seduction20/08/19 03:32 PM
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Are you meeting these girls on dating apps? Most people go on there just for hookups. Maybe thats your issue? Otherwise, maybe you just haven’t clicked with anyone. If there’s no gut feeling or giddiness then why would it be worth pursuing? You should be happy they’re not leading you on and being real with you, cause otherwise they’d just be wasting your time.
/r/seduction20/08/19 02:15 AM
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Yeah actually, I feel you on that
/r/seduction19/08/19 04:33 PM
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Right so why would you want to force interest? You’re only setting yourself up for failure. But I mean I hope it still works out.
/r/seduction19/08/19 04:24 PM
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Okkk or you can read me entirely wrong and put words in my mouth. I was only trying to help you, my bad.
/r/seduction19/08/19 04:22 PM
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I mean when I'm certain the guy is only talking to me because he wants sex, then I'm not gonna feel sorry for ghosting him lol. Cause in my experience, you seem like quite an anomaly with how hard you're taking this and how attached you seem to her already. It's cute and that's what makes you human, but idk maybe it's just the types of guys I attract, but that's kinda rare in my experience. But I will admit that I've always treated guys and relationships quite frivolously, because I guess I was …
/r/seduction19/08/19 12:29 AM
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But really like I'm invested in this now. Can't wait for Tuesday
/r/seduction18/08/19 11:29 PM
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My question is that if a girl flakes on you, which means she's not interested, why do men continue to pursue it? Is that not masochistic??
/r/seduction18/08/19 11:28 PM
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She takes seven minutes to respond and you go all cocky male on her??? Poor Ella
/r/seduction18/08/19 11:27 PM
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dontsendheradickpicdontsendheradickpicdontsendheradickpic!!!!!!!!
/r/seduction18/08/19 11:04 PM
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By close you mean have sex right away? What if that's not his intention, what if he actually wants to get to know her first.
/r/seduction18/08/19 11:03 PM
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and I tried to be supportive but a bit detached Were your responses detached because you didn't want to come off too strong? Normally that's the route I take when talking to guys, and usually they do too. Cause when they come on too strong I get freaked out. But maybe she took that as you being cold? Also, don't take this whole situation as you doing something wrong. I ghost guys more often than I give them chances. For reasons being that there's always at least 2-4 guys hitting me up and trying…
/r/seduction18/08/19 11:01 PM
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Alright well good luck with that my man
/r/seduction17/08/19 09:34 PM
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Don’t ask her out through snap chat lol are you 15?? Ask for her number through snap chat. Then text her at least!
/r/seduction17/08/19 09:13 PM
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I’m telling you now that messaging her on Instagram or texting her won’t get you in her pants. She probably has ten guys or more doing this exact thing daily. It won’t make you stand out and it’ll never work. Stop being a pussy and hiding behind social media to talk to a girl. That’s my biggest pet peeve in the world when it comes to dating/hooking up. Her reply of lmao thanks just goes to show that she’s completely jaded by the attention. If you really want a shot with her then talk to her in p…
/r/seduction17/08/19 05:45 PM
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Yeah she’s making excuses lol sorry. Next!
/r/seduction17/08/19 05:20 PM
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I think it’s a cliche that girls that party aren’t “decent” cause they def are. But aside from parties, clubs, etc. I’d say you can meet girls in common rooms, your neighbors, people on your floor in your dorm, sports games. If you do find a cute girl in class. Maybe take the semester to get to know her a bit but wait to hook up with her until the next semester. That way you don’t have to see each other in class in case things don’t go so great.
/r/seduction11/08/19 11:17 PM
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Yes yes yes yes. Espec if the sex was bad. Which, if you’re a freshman in college, it prob will be lol.
/r/seduction11/08/19 08:11 PM
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Totally! Definitely still worth a listen
/r/seduction11/08/19 08:09 PM
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I listen to call her daddy too, I think Alex and Sofia are hilarious. BUT I will say that I don’t completely agree with everything they say... They sort of speak like what they say is the end all be all for all women, but it isn’t, so just keep that in mind. I can’t think of a specific example right now but if I do then I’ll come back to this post. I just know that there have been numerous times that I’ve felt that way about something they’ve said. It honestly sounds like they get half of their …
/r/seduction10/08/19 04:20 PM
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It’s not bc I’m socially awkward lol. And honestly that’s just how the culture of dating is nowadays with social media. I don’t like it either. But I’ve felt with a lot of guys that I’ll meet at a bar or club or whatever and give them my number. Then they’ll text or call me or add me on every social media platform they can find me the day or week after. And it gets scary because you never know what people are capable of with phone tracking. I once blocked a guy on everything and he still found a…
/r/seduction09/08/19 10:25 PM
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I’m also speaking out of experience... I’m a 25 year old female. And if a guy that I met one time called me on the phone?! I’d be freaked tf out
/r/seduction09/08/19 08:32 PM
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Snap chat her twice max and make one the day of the date so she remembers
/r/seduction09/08/19 05:41 PM
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Lol absolutely not do not call her. This isn’t the 80s
/r/seduction09/08/19 05:40 PM
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What do you mean by a shit test I’m so confused... she was just joking with you bruh
/r/seduction08/08/19 05:42 PM
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The more you talk to people the more you realize that it’s not so scary and that 9.5 times out of 10 they will be very nice and willing to have conversation with you !
/r/seduction08/08/19 05:40 PM
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So I like it when a guy comes off unassuming. And what I mean by that is comment on something other than my looks or how hot you think I am. Cause to girls, that translates to "I just want to see you naked." Right, so compliment something more about my personality, even if you could care less and have to pull it out of your ass. Say something like "you seem like a really cool person" or "I had a great time with you the other night." Not the typical "hey you're cute/pretty/hot" or "when can I dan…
/r/seduction07/08/19 10:14 PM
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Wait I'm new to reddit... am I not allowed to be here lol
/r/seduction07/08/19 09:16 PM
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Girls find this repetitive I second this. When a guy makes a comment about my ass it's like I've heard it so many times that I don't even hear the compliment. But when a guy compliments something else it catches my attention because it's different
/r/seduction07/08/19 08:38 PM
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Coming from a 25 F , I'd say do notttttttt text her again!! Idk what it is, but clingy guys just turn girls off. We like the chase. We like guys that are harder to get, not the ones that confess their deep feelings for us after just one hookup. The saying that 'absence makes the heart grow fonder' could not be a more true statement. Whenever a guys is up my ass and texting me a ton, it turns me off, and I am reluctant to answer. It also lets me know that no matter how I treat him or how much I i…
/r/seduction07/08/19 08:14 PM
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