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Also situational. Sometimes I'll make a reference to the last conversation, or just pick up a text conversation that ended months ago as if nothing happened which can be kind of funny. I just did this with some Tinder matches from many months ago, went over great.
/r/seduction25/06/14 03:12 AM
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"!!" seems to work a good % of the time for me.
/r/seduction25/06/14 03:11 AM
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Maybe you should take the fact that she told you that her dad died a year ago and that she has no libido as a sign that you should move on. Are you not gonna give up until she has to straight tell you to your face? Give her some space, if she wants to be around you she'll get in touch. Otherwise show a little respect.
/r/seduction25/06/14 03:08 AM
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I'm not sure if it would be the most responsible thing of this community to give advice on hooking up at a festival where the majority of people are on mood altering drugs. Go have you find, grind on girls in the audience and make out or something, but having a plan to take it further than that is probably just not responsible. Maybe you should consider enjoying the music this weekend.
/r/seduction25/05/14 05:59 PM
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Tinder has been great for me in terms of self betterment. People throw around the term "crutch" on here like it's such a bad thing. Hey sometimes people need training wheels on the road to self confidence. Tinder got me involved with people socially, made me realize that in a very shallow sense I'm a person worthy of someone else's attraction. Yes I agree that is probably not a healthy outcome alone, but from there after talking to several women I began to look for more meaningful interaction th…
/r/seduction02/05/14 08:34 AM
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perhaps. I'd probably date her.
/r/seduction24/02/14 07:46 PM
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I wear a bolo tie.
/r/seduction23/02/14 11:59 PM
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Can confirm, am crutches.
/r/seduction05/02/14 12:12 AM
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You need to be relatively loud, its a nightclub afterall. If you can get people's attention and make them believe you are the center of attention things will be easier. There's a ton of jokes you can crack about working the door. "Step right up", make jokes about if they scalped tickets, tell them to be careful a lot of thirsty men in there. You just need to establish a quick repore (sp?) with them and then tell them "hey come see me later its lonely out here". You can do it with girls all night…
/r/seduction30/01/14 04:58 AM
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"Hi do you girls like magic?"
/r/seduction30/01/14 04:53 AM
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Dawg. Tinder works.
/r/seduction30/01/14 04:28 AM
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dawg. you are a G. I said "The other night was fun. I just started talking to my ex today though so maybe we should put thing on hold." She responds "Going back has never worked for me but I wish you more luck than I had." Dude you killed it. 1000 points to you!
/r/seduction22/01/14 05:16 AM
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hooking up can mean anything, just clarifying we didnt bone. I'll leave it at that.
/r/seduction21/01/14 06:20 PM
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Open with something more interesting than "Hi". I've talked to a lot of girls on tinder about what type of messages they receive and they say 90% are either "Hi" or something really creepy. Ask her a question about herself or her bio. Once you get a response, play off that and keep the convo light. Do NOT go into what jobs you do, way boring and hard to keep that flirty. As soon as you get an IOI, such has her putting in "haha" or "lol" at something you say then go for the #. Just be forward, "T…
/r/seduction19/01/14 07:58 PM
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For everyone that's saying don't go that route I will counter with this: OP I bet you got a huge confidence boost from talking to them, and I'm willing to bet that next time you go out you're gonna have an easier time approaching whether you're sober or not. Hey, sometimes we need a little help breaking down that first wall. Good luck and be safe!
/r/seduction18/01/14 11:17 PM
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I just dealt with something like this, and I have terrible hearing on top of it. NYE I went to this movie studio deal and they had a DJ playing for about 1,000 people inside the studio. Very loud. My solution was pretty straightforward, as soon as you approach a girl and start a convo, say "its loud as shit in here come with me" and grab her by the hand and lead her somewhere quieter. Don't even give her time to think about it. Totally not creepy, and adds a fun element of mystery about where yo…
/r/seduction17/01/14 02:01 AM
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Hey man similar boat here actually, 27m, used to have the pedestal problems, def agree about the spiritual side/living in the present. Cheers!
/r/seduction17/01/14 01:53 AM
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And you will only be seen as that guy if you are hanging around college bars with 21 year olds. Plenty of single 30 year old women in America though.
/r/seduction15/01/14 11:38 PM
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Definitely never too late!!
/r/seduction15/01/14 11:37 PM
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good call on the possible fake
/r/seduction14/01/14 02:52 AM
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throw up, maybe she's into it
/r/seduction14/01/14 02:44 AM
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Give that dude a swirlie.
/r/seduction14/01/14 12:14 AM
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This is the perfect thread for my expertise. 27m and fan of any dive bar with a dancefloor. There's lot of them in my town thankfully. Here's some one's I use: the duel peace sign, vogueing, draw attention to your feet then do some stupid shuffle, moonwalking, my own signature move "the chill wave" its like the Arm wave but both arms are facing the same way. Its like of like that hawaiian dance backwards. Learn how to do the Jerk. The running man, hold your drink up in the air and "cheers" the w…
/r/seduction14/01/14 12:09 AM
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Sounds like you may have gotten a little too wrapped up in this "jerk" thing. Let me give you an example: When I was in middle school I was always complaining about being bullied. I thought everyone was a jerk. It took me years to realize that no, not everyone was a jerk I was just so annoying that I made nice people turn into jerks sometimes. My point is that I developed a complex where I actually thought being a jerk got you ahead. What I realized is this however, women don't like jerks, they …
/r/seduction13/01/14 11:46 PM
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America's #1 Wedding Date
/r/seduction13/01/14 10:10 PM
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Dancing is one of my absolute favorite things to do with girls. If you can basically bounce up and down to the beat and have some awesome/hilarious moves things will go over great. I like to throw up duel peace signs, I do the chicken dance with my arms, i shimmy up and down on her, I go behind her and pop out from side to side, I make her do that markie mark crossed arms back to back thing, I'll draw attention to my feet and do some stupid little shuffle, take her hand and do a spin with her, m…
/r/seduction13/01/14 03:18 AM
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Tinder and OkCupid are great. Ive had several dates from both of them in the last 2 weeks. I agree OkCupid looks that way but they are the same as any other girls. The matching system on Tinder is way better than OkCupid. Good luck!
/r/seduction12/01/14 11:22 PM
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Once you get her in the bedroom pull your dingdong out and start swinging it in circles and yell "They call me the helicopter wanna go for a ride?" Works every time.
/r/seduction11/01/14 09:01 PM
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"Meet me at the water cooler for drinks"
/r/seduction10/01/14 09:30 PM
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lolol
/r/seduction10/01/14 09:08 PM
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yes
/r/seduction10/01/14 07:26 PM
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Follow her into the the bathroom
/r/seduction10/01/14 12:29 AM
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Seduction works in all walks of life. It is self-improvement. Make the things you've learned habitual and you'll be fine.
/r/seduction09/01/14 10:43 PM
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"I'm thinking of sleeping with you, I need to know if YOU'RE ok with your insecurity." - yep
/r/seduction09/01/14 08:08 AM
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In a similar situation right now. Just had three dates this week. All hail r/seduction!
/r/seduction09/01/14 02:29 AM
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Big ups. I'll never forget my first haha. The girl was kinda ratchet TBH, still a great memory. Tips: You're probably doing it too hard.
/r/seduction09/01/14 01:01 AM
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Here's a secret: nobody knows how to dance. You just kinda wiggle your body to your own beat. If you are having a great time people will notice, and that social proof will be very helpful. Get the girls to introduce you to other girls and you'll be 10 steps ahead of the game Just don't try to hard. People can spot that from a mile away. Other than that I know it gets harped on but confidence is key. Pre-game, psych yourself up.
/r/seduction08/01/14 03:46 PM
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she's horny for the wrong pipe
/r/seduction07/01/14 07:52 PM
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Ya its been good for me lately. I was in a long relationship, ended about 8 months ago and I've been brushing up on my social skills in here. NYE was great for me. Its possible you're just in a bad situation, the same people, bars etc. Changes of scenery are a must, gotta keep things fresh.
/r/seduction07/01/14 03:55 AM
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Usually an ex-wife or girlfriend can see through the games. They already know you intimately.
/r/seduction07/01/14 03:43 AM
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bean bag and lava lamp are classy in all situations.
/r/seduction06/01/14 07:43 AM
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No easy answer for that. I'm going through something similar. You need to accept that its gonna take time to be totally normal but you also need to get out and be a normal person, go on dates. Don't trip, time heals all.
/r/seduction06/01/14 07:05 AM
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Your username is totally perfect for this post
/r/seduction06/01/14 06:55 AM
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I think you need to look at this big picture. Maybe it would be more beneficial to your game as a whole to start taking things a little longer term. Get her number. Grab a drink with her next week. Grab another drink with her. Let her get comfortable. This makes you more well rounded and gives you tons of practice. Patience is a good thing!
/r/seduction06/01/14 06:50 AM
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minor league ballgame. Front row seats for cheap! Always stuff going on if the small talk hits a wall. Ahhh the memories. The first time I took a girl to a minor league game I was 17 and got hardcore friendzoned. She went on to win $100,000 on who wants to be a millionaire $$$
/r/seduction03/01/14 11:14 AM
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RSD infield is great material(albeit dude is kinda creepy). I watched some right before I went out last night, 3-k closes, 4 numbers, some names. 0 turn downs. Really had a fun night. Used basically the same technique, take her hand "you, come with me" cheers!
/r/seduction01/01/14 07:35 PM
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then you need to be more forceful. Grab her hand and say "hi. I like you. Lets dance". Its going to fail if you've been standing next to her. You need to walk up as soon as you see her. A great way to practice this is make a long route through a busy club. You see basically every girl in the club and you can very casually say hi quickly, establish a little physical contact and move on before she can say no if you are not sensing a connection, or if you sense a connection you can stay with her an…
/r/seduction01/01/14 07:29 PM
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I like to be a little more direct. I'll even come in from behind with a tap. "You. Who are you?" and take her hand and pull her towards me. And I have awful hearing so I'll say come with me I can't hear you. Its fun, and she's not gonna turn you down if you are confident. You can even do this to bring a group of girls with you somewhere. The other girls in the group hear you say "hey you" and are curious. After you chat with the friend you yell to the group the same thing basically. "Girls. Come…
/r/seduction01/01/14 07:26 PM
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I disagree. This sound very familiar to my own situation. I have an ex that I still have feelings for, yet I can live a normal productive life as long as I don't put both of us in a volatile situation. With all the NYE midnight kiss pressure I'm certainly not surprised she left and I don't think the blame can be pegged on either of you. You just need to realize that if you are going to attempt to continue to have a relationship with her as a friend with the possibility of the relationship coming…
/r/seduction01/01/14 11:54 AM
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I went out tonite for New Years. Made great contact with at least 7 girls. Several pairs who I had to hold their attention. Ended with with 4 number. Made out with 3 girls. I was having so much fun I can't even remember the rejections. I ended up going home alone and I am totally ok with that. Rejection sucks but if you are in the winning mindset you don't even register it. If you go out without confidence ya you are going to get turned down and it is going to suck. Lastly, the girl who I spend …
/r/seduction01/01/14 11:41 AM
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Hold on im just trying to get a kiss at midnite :)
/r/seduction01/01/14 01:25 AM
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