MarniWingGirl Archive

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1	Girl didn't respond to my text message. How to react? Hey I find myself being asked questions about flakes all the time on my blog! My advice is I would give her a call and leave a casual voicemail, 'Hey...it was good speaking to you before, and I want to take you out again sometime' If she doesn't respond though I would forget about it: a woman owes you the effort to respond. If she doesn't, she's just not that interested, so move on to someone more deserving Good luck Marni :)	/r/seduction	29/05/12 02:18 PM
2	Maybe you're ugly I agree with ABlueCloud, 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder'. I think physical appearance is a consideration for women, but it's a lot further down on the priority list for women than it is for men. It sounds like you're doing the right steps by focusing on your style, how you come across and approaching. However, I think to brand yourself 'ugly' and only approach women who you feel are similar to you is doing yourself (and the women you approach!) an injustice. I wrote a series of ebooks abo…	/r/seduction	29/05/12 02:15 PM
3	Look fly at all times. I have to say I really agree with this. Recently I wrote a blog about seducing her with your style. I do not believe women are that hung up on your physique but being well groomed, wearing stylish clothes and taking your pride in your appearance expresses a lot about you. It says a lot about your self worth: and I think everyone, male or female, should put their 'best self' out there. Make women stop in the street and think 'who's that guy?' by looking 'fly' and suggesting that your inner sense …	/r/seduction	29/05/12 02:09 PM
3	If women also want to have sex then why.. Ok I'm going to clear up a myth here women absolutely do love and enjoy sex: if you're unsure then check this out http://www.winggirlmethod.com/how-to-attract-the-new-breed-of-females/ In relationships both partners can, of course, withhold sex if they're unhappy: or find that their sex life drops. But a happy relationship will usually unvolve great sex. If sex becomes a 'weapon' on either side of the relationship then that doesn't tell me, 'she just doesn't want sex', it says 'there's a way big…	/r/seduction	22/05/12 01:02 PM
3	Kino inequality - what gives? It sounds to me like that the kino you're using isn't coming across as natural: and is a little too much. I know it seems unfair if she is touching you quite freely (which is definitely a sign that she's interested in you!) but you have to start slow with your kino regardless. I'd recommend: Keep the touch feather light Keep the touch brief, only a second or two Touch a 'safe' area like her forearm or shoulder maintain eye contact Keep the conversation going- don't stop and look at where you're …	/r/seduction	22/05/12 12:55 PM
3	Is it more alpha to tell a girl to meet you there? I think you're on the right track by not reeling off of a whole list of questions: that would definitely come across badly. Women do love a guy who is decisive and a leader. I'd suggest that you meet at a well known landmark or subway stop so that you can walk her to the date location. This eliminates a lot of the logistical concerns her end and allows you to lead her. Or you could always call her up and have a conversation that allows you to ask, "would that work for you? I'm not sure where you…	/r/seduction	22/05/12 12:50 PM
1	A way to get her to (accidently) open you. I agree this is an ok idea to use if the situation arises: but why wait for a girl to bump into you before you approach a woman in a confident and playful manner? If you see a woman you'd like to date, approach, approach, approach! Imagine these different scenarios: Scenario 1: Supermarket A lady is pushing a scaled down buggy. “Hello (Smile) that's a cute buggy but it's getting full. Can I go get you the industrial size buggy?” Scenario 2: Gym A lady is working out on a machine. “Hi (smile) you…	/r/seduction	22/05/12 12:42 PM
-2	My girlfriend's thoughts on game I think what your girlfriend is allergic too is the kind of lines and routines that so many 'PUA's' try. It sounds to me like you were growing a lot as a person at the time you guys met and that whatever 'game' you used felt natural to you. When a girl hears a line she's heard before, or catches you lying it will totally trash all the other good work you may have done. Similarly a lot of 'PUA' tactics, like negging, leave most women cold and only tend to work on girls that have low self esteem. …	/r/seduction	22/05/12 12:30 PM
2	Anyone else have trouble trusting in relationships now? I think it's about trusting that the right guy for your girlfriend has already come along: you. People (not just women!) do cheat; but usually this happens in the first place because they feel something is missing from the relationship. This could be sex, or which I think is WAY more common with women, a sense of emotional connection, intimacy and closeness. If you and your girlfriend are still 'close', arguments aren't disrupting your bond, and you still make special time for each other I don't…	/r/seduction	22/05/12 12:21 PM
2	Just back from a date with a girl i had K-closed. Seddit, I had no idea what I was doing! It sounds to me like you're already aware of all the areas to improve on: physically touching her, making conversation more interesting and being ok to state what you want. You're a guy so it's ok to go after what you want. You need to begin by using touch (not too much, 3-5 times over a date is fine!) to say to her 'I see you as a date, not a friend'. You also need to lead, this means picking the date and making decisions. Also make that conversation interesting! Ask about her life, listen and …	/r/seduction	16/05/12 05:22 PM
3	How do you deal with "you're a player" "you're a playboy" shit-tests? Ok if you're being shit tested this at least means one good thing: she's attracted to you. Women shit test because they're concerned that they're becoming attracted to the wrong guy and want to make sure you're a keeper. With shit tests always maintain your cool, and don't go into detailed explanations. A great answer for this one is: "I'm not a player, I just haven't met the right girl yet..." say it with a sly smile and move the topic on. Hope that helps! Marni Wing Girl	/r/seduction	16/05/12 05:11 PM
2	Me and conversation starting Ok I think there's 2 things here that you can work on to help you keep a conversation going. The first is creating a belief that you are an interesting person who has engaging things to say. It sounds like girls are giving you signals that they want you to approach them: believe in their attraction to you, and that what you have to say is engaging. Now to the nuts and bolts of how you make this work for you today: try my share-ask-share strategy. Women love guys who are interested and intriguied…	/r/seduction	16/05/12 04:40 PM
1	How to be Alpha, but still be nice I actually don't think you have to lose that quality at all: just combine it with other more 'alpha, leader' characteristics at the same time. Do women want a man who doesn't care about them? Of course not! But they also want a man that they can respect. This means saving your 'nice' qualities for women who have shown they care about you too, having good boundaries, making decisions and being a sexual leader. This doesn't mean you scrap the good guy... just that you make sure the good guy is cer…	/r/seduction	16/05/12 04:29 PM
1	Do women find intelligence attractive? I think it's great when a guy has engaging, interesting conversation as long as he delivers it in a way that is engaging and interesting too. I'm sure we can all remember that dull college professor who would be telling us the most interesting things: yet speaking in a monotone. Command the room with what intelligent insights you have to offer, really believe in what you're saying and take a stand for an opinion. This combined with intelligence insights will be a total aphrodisiac: attraction fo…	/r/seduction	16/05/12 04:19 PM