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MarriedRedEnough/r/askMRP28/10/18 12:48 PM
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Might run again in 2020.
/r/askMRP01/11/18 03:41 PM
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I would rail that out.
/r/askMRP29/10/18 08:52 PM
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Interesting, man. It's hard to NGAF when you have kids involved. That's my achilles heel.
/r/askMRP29/10/18 08:06 PM
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Correct. I don't give a fuck about her saving face. Was just explaining her motivations.
/r/askMRP29/10/18 01:47 PM
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Trying to arrange some as we speak.
/r/askMRP29/10/18 01:15 PM
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Wait, what? So she'd likely get primary physical custody? She hates spending money and I doubt she'd want to fight in court over custody.
/r/askMRP29/10/18 02:53 AM
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Can you talk about how you pulled the plug too early? PM is cool if you don't want to be public.
/r/askMRP29/10/18 02:36 AM
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OK, we're on the same page now. All of what you said is right. What makes me consider it is the possibility of keeping my kids and myself under the same roof full-time, without exposure to mom's strange men. And also having plenty of resources to raise them and plenty of time to spend with them. You're right that it would probably not make me happy. I do think that having unlimited strange pussy could help the unhappiness to feel better, though. ​ ​
/r/askMRP29/10/18 02:33 AM
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The issue isn't just about this particular affair. She doesn't have genuine sexual attraction for me. She likes having me around for other reasons. But she'll have more affairs and not feel guilty at all. So as far as a "normal" marriage, it's a complete no-go. If any marriage were to remain, it would be strictly a business deal.
/r/askMRP29/10/18 01:19 AM
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My fear about the new place is that it's expensive. I don't mind living there, but if we split and things don't go my way, my salary doesn't support me very well there. Was thinking of asking for an upfront payment from her now -- before we move -- to protect me in that scenario. It would be worth about two years' rent in the new place. That money would be removed from consideration from any eventual divorce settlement, possibly by way of post-nuptial agreement. That would be a buffer to let me …
/r/askMRP29/10/18 01:02 AM
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Everything you mentioned, she's up for it. Would probably gently nudge me toward her willing friends, as she's done that before and I was too retarded to see the unspoken offers. She'll do the deed with me, but since I found out she's been getting railed by a strange dude, I've lost desire for her. Maybe after some time passes I could go there. Or BJs or something. Not keen on getting an STD. What do you mean by "go back 'there'"?
/r/askMRP29/10/18 12:54 AM
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Love the post. I can see what people mean when they say I'm retarded -- I am, or I wouldn't be in this situation. But there's a nagging voice that says don't rush. There's a lot of money on the table, so why not be practical about it.
/r/askMRP29/10/18 12:35 AM
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What do you mean by Marriage 3.0? I see some threads and articles about it, but wondering how you mean it here.
/r/askMRP28/10/18 11:48 PM
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I kind of like the idea. It's not without risk, but still.
/r/askMRP28/10/18 11:44 PM
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Right now we're equal earners and there would be no alimony. I'd try for 50 percent physical custody of the kids and if so, nobody would pay child support. She probably agree to that rather than spend money fighting. Only if she takes the new job, at 3x current salary, would alimony be in play. That would involve me moving to another state with her. Practically speaking that's possible, as I work from home and have no family where we live. But it would mean staying with her a while longer. That'…
/r/askMRP28/10/18 11:40 PM
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Going to do this exact thing.
/r/askMRP28/10/18 10:57 PM
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I have tried to think of it like this. Sounds like you have kids and understand. The plates would make the whole thing go down easier. But the beta stench of my situation may limit me to a stream of 3s and 4s. Staying married to her would be a bitter pill. Unfortunately, when you have kids together, you're never fully rid of the mother. Anyway, glad someone can see what I was getting at originally. Wouldn't be the best situation, but I've seen worse. ​
/r/askMRP28/10/18 09:04 PM
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if what you truly wanted out of life was to be able to spin plates on some miserable bitch's dime. I can think of worse things. But it's a pact with the devil. The stuff about still serving as her security blanket and helping her save face with her family, is retarded. These are not things that I give a fuck about. She can rot in hell. I mentioned them to make it clear why she would still want to keep a guy around who is spinning plates on her dime. Congruence is at the heart of frame and you ar…
/r/askMRP28/10/18 03:57 PM
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Ahhh ... that hits close to home. Nail on the head.
/r/askMRP28/10/18 03:23 PM
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Painful truth. Thank you.
/r/askMRP28/10/18 03:21 PM
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Are you being serious? There's a residency period before you can file divorce in the new state, so I'd have to wait it out for quite a few months.
/r/askMRP28/10/18 03:19 PM
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Because there's dick everywhere. The chance of me ever trusting her or trying to build a relationship with her is zero. It's all practicalities now.
/r/askMRP28/10/18 03:18 PM
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Edit: A few more things. I want to start over and rebuild myself. Thing is, we were about to move across the country for her new job, to start in a couple of months. It will triple her salary. Filing divorce now means backing out of the job. She won't go without me because she doesn't want to leave the kids and because I'm her security blanket. So my hamster tells me, from a practical perspective, maybe we can come to an arrangement for a while. I work at home, 100% location independent. Her mon…
/r/askMRP28/10/18 02:30 PM
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Truth.
/r/askMRP28/10/18 02:24 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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