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I have heard similar quote: "For every hot girl there is at least one dude who's tired of her bullshit."
/r/seduction19/05/14 06:31 PM
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I don't think there's anything wrong being quiet. Some people are introverts and other extraverts. So, if you say or talk, make it count. Be direct and honest, say what you think, not what you think they want to hear. You will get more respect by being honest asshole than approval seeking nice guy.
/r/seduction30/03/14 11:13 AM
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Are you living in your small comfort zone day after day? If thats the case then you should start pushing your boundaries. Go out out your comfort zone just a little bit until you feel the "I don't want to do this, better go home now" feeling. Easiest way to start would be to use online dating. That is one way to get rid your shame of virginity, thats probably holding you back more than you realize. But still, live the life without holding yourself back, visit other countries and become independe…
/r/seduction30/03/14 11:05 AM
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I think you are asking wrong question here. Question should be: what is stopping me of becoming more sexual person and why I want to be more sexual person anyway?
/r/seduction30/03/14 10:48 AM
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You cannot be more aggressive than you naturally are. If you try to act more aggressive people will notice that. I'm sure you yourself have noticed some people who act like that and seem really fake. If by aggressivness you mean being more direct and honest than most of the people then in my opinion this can help. It can feel like a breeze of fresh air in the midst of smog that other guys are spreading around her.
/r/seduction30/03/14 10:45 AM
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"Should we marry right away or get to know each other first?" If they choose the first one(usually they do), then you can create a fantasy of how you are going to marry and where you are going for honeymoon. Works great and breaks the ice if you do it with a fun vibe. If she chooses second option you can intrododuce yourself and go on from there.
/r/seduction12/01/14 03:23 PM
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You can take some kendo training. You have to use your voice a lot there, and it will teach you other great things.
/r/seduction17/11/13 11:27 AM
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Try nofap for a few weeks and you will see how your standards disappeare (in a good sense).
/r/seduction10/10/13 04:48 PM
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I like the saying: Don't shit where you eat. Same goes here.
/r/seduction10/07/13 08:23 PM
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read more books
/r/seduction05/07/13 02:51 PM
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Not escalating probably and landing in friendzone.
/r/seduction04/07/13 06:18 PM
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maybe you should record a video or an audio of yourself picking up girls. Sometimes we have unconscious habits that we are not aware of, and those habits/body gestures/voice might drive girls away. In our minds we are all confident and super alpha, but the reality might be that some of us mumble and have a weak voice or something like that. So, record yourself and examine that; might find something interesting about yourself.
/r/seduction03/07/13 12:42 PM
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Don't fall into overlearning trap. You might think: "One book/seminar/video more and I'm ready to start approaching". It's never enough, you will not find the on true book that will teach you everything and take away your fears. Models should be enough to get you started.
/r/seduction28/06/13 06:21 PM
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I'm not sure, but I like his book a lot. He is teaching simple things, nothing fancy. And some pua hate from his side is always comforting for me. If I were to describe him with one word, it would be: authentic.
/r/seduction26/06/13 10:57 AM
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It seems like you are too emotionally involved. Otherwise you wouldn't worry about telling her that you are divorced. Every normal woman would understand. So, if she freaks out, you are lucky to get rid of her. The sooner you tell her, the better.
/r/seduction25/06/13 08:00 AM
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I dared to look into the the eyes of teenage girl(too young for me), afterwards she and her friends followed me around in shopping center and tried to engage conversation in various ways. Maybe I shouldn't send her air kiss, because afterwards she ran behind me, touched my hair and ran away. Later I sat and drank my coffee, she came and seated herself in front of me at my table and started to ask all kind of stupid questions. I had to leave, because this was annoying me already. And all this bec…
/r/seduction25/06/13 07:46 AM
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Did you come up with this theory from your experience with girls, or did you just invent it? Theories are useless if not applied on the field. Imagine you are a geologist, studying rocks and minerals only from textbooks, never going to expeditions, never experiencing the real thrill of being in the unmarked territory. And do you really want to wrap your mind into this kind of theory. Rather than being spontaneous and fun guy, you are following strict step by step instructions. There are plenty o…
/r/seduction20/06/13 02:41 PM
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"What the thinker thinks, the Prover proves" I've never notcied this flocking. Maybe it exists only in your mind.
/r/seduction18/06/13 02:49 PM
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I think it comes from Bandler and NLP
/r/seduction09/06/13 12:10 PM
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Read about stoics, for example Marcus Aurelius, Seneca. Also, I'm not sure how much he has influenced inner game per se, but Robert Anton Wilson is one of the author that I often turn back to for guidance.
/r/seduction08/06/13 08:17 PM
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I'm happy for your courage. Its easier to live with rejection that regret. I still regret that I didn't approach this girl in bookshop.
/r/seduction08/06/13 05:54 PM
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I think this frowning face is quite common among introverted people.
/r/seduction03/06/13 08:49 PM
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Dont Hump Virgins
/r/seduction03/06/13 05:33 PM
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I'm 5'3'' and sometimes feel a little bit frustrated, because there are so many beautiful women who are too tall for me( cant imagine having sex with them), but there are also plenty of amazing short girls, so I cant start complaining until all the shorter girls are gone. Meanwhile I can't see why I should feel inferior because of my height. In fact, I can think of many cases when my height is in my favour.
/r/seduction02/06/13 06:36 PM
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you should check out r/NoFap/
/r/seduction01/06/13 09:41 PM
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"You seem like an interesting person"
/r/seduction28/05/13 07:37 AM
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"I just swallowed my tongue, can you help get it out?"
/r/seduction27/05/13 12:54 PM
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If you're an avid masturbater, then stopping that might help.
/r/seduction24/05/13 11:10 AM
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Be in the moment, relax.
/r/seduction23/05/13 08:39 AM
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Well, you could ask for direction or how far is some place etc. And from that you can build up your interaction.
/r/seduction23/05/13 08:38 AM
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Remember siting in kitchen while my roommate was fucking a girl. At least it didn't last long.
/r/seduction23/05/13 08:29 AM
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I think you have built too much fantasy around her. She's like some kind of goddess to you, no wonder you are afraid to approach. Put her back where she belongs, amongst the mortals. You know, she shits and wipes her ass just like you do. She goes to bed hoping that maybe next day she will meet her prince charming. You will stand out by approaching her. And if she rejects you then you at least can forget her. And you will not get ripped to shreds by others, don't dramatize simple life. You just …
/r/seduction22/05/13 04:34 PM
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It was painful to read. This kind of thinking pattern can only be hold by someone who has deep issues lurking inside. So, instead of masking those fears and insecurities behind this Cocky Rocky stuff you should deal with the underling symptoms. Because, no matter how you try to hide your true identity, mister Hyde will still find a way to come out and sabotage your life. You cant deceive your own brain by trying to be someone you are not, you are just going to seem like an overcompensating moron…
/r/seduction22/05/13 04:15 PM
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Its like acceptance confidence -- you accept that you cant predict future and you don't know what is going to happen and you do it anyway. Its a liberating feeling, when you no longer need to succeed, when you are almost neutral to outcome. "Feel the fear and do it anyway" -- someone.
/r/seduction22/05/13 03:56 PM
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The fact that you are asking this question here might mean that you become needy. Only cure for this is to forget her and look for new opportunities.
/r/seduction17/05/13 12:32 PM
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"Models" is a great choice, in the end of the book he gives you basic plan on how to proceed. If I were you then I would start approaching girls and experiment, to see how comfortable I am with approaching in general and where are my weak points etc.
/r/seduction17/05/13 12:21 PM
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I would just ask her or invite to my own place, no point in hiding your true intentions, she will see through your excuses, no matter how elaborate these are. So, following win/win principle, the only right way is to be truthful.
/r/seduction17/05/13 12:14 PM
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I would leave the playing with "raptor" for later
/r/seduction17/05/13 12:07 PM
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Care to share some links to research papers?
/r/seduction15/05/13 07:41 AM
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physical health is a must. I started training myself and feeling much better in my body now.
/r/seduction14/05/13 05:36 PM
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The Book of Life, you should check that out.
/r/seduction30/04/13 05:42 PM
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"Yes"
/r/seduction26/04/13 10:05 AM
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Well, I'm little bit older than you and 5'4'' and ugly. Have never visited gym(only now i'm starting to do bodyweight training) but I'm never encountered a woman who sees me as child. Maybe they are but I haven't really cared about that. How to counteract? I think you have to see yourself as a man, not as a child. Probably you are projecting your own fears and insecurities and thoughts to those women. This projection is quite common and a great way to understand what our beliefs really are. And …
/r/seduction26/04/13 09:56 AM
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I'm usually trying to lead, but they always try to break my dominance. I havent yet figured out how to deal with it. For example we are walking on the street and I'm turning round the corner. But shes says she want's to go straight ahead. There is no point arguing usually witch way to go. So often times I just proceed to go in my direction, feeling her stare on my back. Later I turn around and she is standing there waiting for me to come back.
/r/seduction25/04/13 11:26 AM
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A lot of you are talking about being afraid to look creepy. What is creepy anyway? Does doing this exercise qualify you as a creepy person? If you know that you are not creepy then why be afraid. If she is perceiving you as a creepy person then that is totally her's inner problem.
/r/seduction25/04/13 11:16 AM
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She's 8.5? Wow, you have this scale worked out pretty good, huh? I would suggest you not using this numbering system. I'ts just silly.
/r/seduction25/04/13 08:50 AM
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I think the people who are suggesting this book have read too many crappy books already and they know when a book has true value in it. As for myself, I have read too many books on pick up and watched too many programs and reached almost nothing. But reading this book gave me hope again and I'm actually seeing some progress.
/r/seduction24/04/13 05:07 PM
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I think that at this point its not important what do you do after you have her number. First go and meet her, after that you can start thinking about what to do next.
/r/seduction24/04/13 04:57 PM
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How can knowing what others think in their heads help you? I think you should be asking what one should be thinking while talking to a girl or what one should not be thinking while talking to a girl.
/r/seduction24/04/13 04:52 PM
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Napoleon complex is a myth
/r/seduction24/04/13 04:41 PM
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I'm in no position to give advice, because I have similar issues. But it seems that you are used to be by yourself(solo climbing etc). So, maybe you should find some social hobbie(yoga, meditation, painting etc etc) where are lots of girls and where socializing with them comes naturally.
/r/seduction23/04/13 07:42 PM
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I'm going through it right now, currently on lesson 2 and cant give any honest feedback. I think there is one free video on his course homepage. The basics is progressive desensitization: first you practice asking time from strangers, then saying hello and so on.
/r/seduction23/04/13 07:27 PM
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I have same experience, im also short guy. I think main issue is in ourselves. I was quite thankful when I got my first low self-esteem girl(she limped a little). Then I taught her all that I had learned about self-confidence and now, well, she has become super-confident and cheated me with two guys while being my lover and cheating his husband and... so, now i have another low self-esteem girl and she is so needy and clingy, I can't believe(warning for all). What I was trying to say is that ple…
/r/seduction23/04/13 07:17 PM
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The most powerful part for me reading this book was when I realized for the first time that I really need to take action, stop this over-learning, apply accumulated knowledge. Quoth the Bruce: "Knowing is not enough, we must apply. Willing is not enough, we must do." All this other seduction stuff about attraction and flirting and so on doesn't have any value until I start approaching and get to know girls. I even feel that I don't need this other stuff if I can just go and meet a girl on the st…
/r/seduction23/04/13 07:01 PM
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So, instead of being genuinely intresting and great person, you are going to lie about not remembering names?
/r/seduction18/04/13 04:25 PM
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