MarshallJC11 Archive

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1	What is your policy on texting one night stands if you don’t intend to see them again? What does my romantic experience with women have to do with treating them nicely lol? All I'm saying is that the way you are talking about them makes you sound like a douchebag. You can say that you were nice all you want but what you've been saying in most of the rest of the comment chain paint a very different picture.	/r/seduction	18/10/22 10:27 PM
1	Do you think Sundays are a good day for dates? What is the date plan? How old is the girl? A coffee date with a girl who is off on Sunday and probably wasn't out partying the night before? Sure. It really depends. Days are a lot less important now with the end of the conventional work week most places. My Saturday is Monday so it really kind of depends. Problems you're likely to run into. Out partying Saturday night, places closed on Sunday, work the next day if they work conventional work weeks so Sunday may be their day to get stuff ready.	/r/seduction	18/10/22 08:13 PM
1	Is having your own place mandatory to get girls regularly? In this day and age, it's becoming more and more normal to live with other people. Every time I've hooked up with someone, it wasn't even a question. Women have always initiated with going to their place. I'd assume it makes them feel safer as well. I've only had one woman come over to mine and that's because her husband was there. Not proud of it. Didn't know. I'd definitely say fewer roommates would be ideal. Would it break the bank to just move in with one person? If so, maybe look into a dif…	/r/seduction	18/10/22 07:59 PM
1	What is your policy on texting one night stands if you don’t intend to see them again? Sure, but literally nothing in your post suggests compassion because the main thing you're concerned about is how much effort it takes on your part and the way you talk about women is unsettling. Your only options are ghosting and lying? No in-between? Why? Because it's hard for you and you have to expend a little extra effort? Simple solution would be to let her have your number. See if she tries to initiate something else with you. Tell her the truth, "hey, I wasn't really interested in anythi…	/r/seduction	18/10/22 07:48 PM
2	What is your policy on texting one night stands if you don’t intend to see them again? Okay, to me it's not ghosting if she doesn't make an effort to message you. I've stopped texting plenty of girls when things didn't click but if they messaged me back, I'd just be straightforward and honest about it. Dodging texts and calls is fairly shitty, lying isn't much better but don't make an effort if she's not. That being said, literally everything in your post is about "i don't want this to come back and bite me." Have you tried just being a good person? It's not about consequences and…	/r/seduction	18/10/22 07:37 PM
2	When did the switch flip for you? I'm still not satisfied with my love/sex life, but I am with the place I am approaching it from. It feels healthier but that doesn't mean I don't freeze up on things to say or my mind doesn't go blank when asked simple questions I know the answer to. Like, I feel like I get all the cues, they're just not there. I feel well rounded as a person and the most mature and capable I've been, I just struggle to present that outwards so that others can see it.	/r/seduction	18/10/22 07:30 PM
3	Seduction is easier than people think I feel like I get where you're coming from because a lot of these rules and ploys seem crazy to me but just approaching and striking up a conversation isn't always easy. There are cues that you may not notice because they come naturally to you but there absolutely are rules. It's the reason why a lot of people, admittedly myself included a little bit are so averse to the pickup game until you realize that there are a lot of people out there who don't get when it is and isn't okay to approach or …	/r/seduction	18/10/22 07:27 PM
5	She keeps checking me out but avoids when i try to approach Do you mind if I ask in what way you are engaging? Like, what are things you say and her response to them? Personally, I would just shoot my shot at this point then waste an extraordinary amount of effort trying to get someone else to open up. Ignoring for the sake of eliciting a response isn't really ignoring. You're still giving her your time, energy and attention. I don't get dates very often so i guess take my advice with a grain of salt but there are other issues at play with me that Idk if…	/r/seduction	18/10/22 06:46 PM
9	She keeps checking me out but avoids when i try to approach Surprisingly, women are not a monolith. What works for one woman won't work for another and vice versa. If she isn't engaging, she's not going to if you ignore her and talk to other people. If she's disinterested, it won't make her more interested, if she's shy it will only validate that concern to approach. Talk to other women, sure but don't expect it to win her over. Alternatively, just be forward and open and that should clear up whether she's shy or not interested.	/r/seduction	18/10/22 06:36 PM
2	Turning my life around at 26 Hey, I could have written this. Wanted to do the same things even. I didn't move out of my mom's till 25. 30 now and still have only been on one date. Became an alcoholic. Made a bunch of people I thought were friends that I lost when I stopped drinking and now I'm back at square one. People will tell you to work on yourself and that's always important whether you find someone or not. Self improvement doesn't have to be an in between thing. Start improving yourself physically and mentally but al…	/r/seduction	18/10/22 03:27 PM