MartianCavenaut Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	I'm (17) am at a low point, I'm plagued by anxiety, I've managed to slowly reduce it, but it's still there, constantly I'm being serious- just go and volunteer at the local shelter or community center. Altruism helps a lot against those types of feelings.	/r/MenSupportMen	21/08/22 01:23 AM
2	Am I stressing myself for no reason? Whats on your mind? Anything bug you every now and then?	/r/MenSupportMen	07/07/22 05:06 AM
6	Men who “defend” women in comments on social media and virtue signal by shaming men are only doing it seeking validation and women’s favor, and women do not find this attractive at all despite what they say Weak men certainly seek the Alpha's validation. Ask me how I know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/22 09:26 PM
6	The main dating problem for women is that they want commitment and relationships from guys who can enjoy the fullest extent of their company without committing I'm much more concerned about burning out oxytocin receptors and being less able to bond with the mother of my future children. I feel that more young men ought to be family oriented.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 09:24 PM
1	Are Fat Woman Aware Of What They Are Doing To Themselves Ummmmmmmmm I'm telling you a dude like him weighing ONE EIGHTEEN is not eating 2300 Cal a day- 2300 is a lot. Especially if you're saying that he's gaining muscle, like, what- where- where on Earth could he be gaining muscle at 118 hahahah. I think what's actually going on is a few things: I doubt that he's "moderately active", which is defined as either "exercising 4 to 5 days a week or working as a construction laborer." By the TDEE definitions he's more likely than not "slightly active" if th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 09:13 PM
1	What is an average guy? Yes yes yes! I couldn't agree more. I suspect it has something to do with the forum style of platform combined with anonymity. It brings out the worst of society, and then brings out the worst in themselves. Another issue is that many users online, on reddit, and on this subreddit may be very young, as young as 14. I don't think 14 year olds would say some of the nasty remarks you see on here but I think if you take a 14 year old and let them be 'socialized' by the internet, they can certainly h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 09:01 PM
2	Are Fat Woman Aware Of What They Are Doing To Themselves Sorry, you're right- 1800 is a lot for most women and would make them gain. I just low balled from my own daily intake as a man, but then again I struggle to gain weight and consider myself too skinny. I read your other comments and wanted to ask for your opinion on how women deal/should deal with dieting and weight loss/gain. Is, say, 1500 calories per day comfortable for yourself? Is hunger a primary issue or is it more like temptation or losing track of calories (sauces, oils, etc). Lastly, d…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 08:55 PM
1	Are Fat Woman Aware Of What They Are Doing To Themselves Yes that is a huge problem in dieting. A lot of people don't realize where and what calories are. For example, if you pick up a couple of chik-fil-a sauces with your already greasy fast food meal, each sauce cup is 140-190 calories IIRC.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 08:45 PM
1	What is an average guy? Small vocal minority online perhaps	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 05:55 PM
1	Are Fat Woman Aware Of What They Are Doing To Themselves Science goes both ways... you can't gain weight if you only eat what you need, ~1800 Cal a day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/22 05:48 PM
1	Dating is 100% a numbers game for men, and it is inherently humiliating. Wish you could see the value in having a life long partner instead of comparing them to a literal dog. even in LTR most men i know are in it for sex mostly Absolutely not lmao. The only explanation I can think of as to why you have these thoughts is you've never seen a healthy relationship growing up at home- parents divorced, etc. In contrast, in most long term relationships sex is important, but starts to matter less and less. There are more important things, say, making sure your son doesn't …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/22 04:13 PM
0	Dating is 100% a numbers game for men, and it is inherently humiliating. You sound like a teenager if you think all that a partner provides is "slivers of pussy". How about a life full of company? Probably the closest friend you'll ever have in your entire life? Giving you the gift of children, with whom you have a chance to develop the closest relationship in your life with. If I have to explain things like this to you or if you reject these, then you're not mature enough or worth to have a conversation with lmao. Be a better man and maybe you'd meet higher quality …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/22 03:07 PM
0	Dating is 100% a numbers game for men, and it is inherently humiliating. I believe that yes, the "quality" of women AND men (general populace) has declined significantly over the last half century. But i'm also biased to assign responsibility for the improvement of self, and thus society, onto men. In other words we're only in this shituation because of weak men, and more weak men complaining and begging for pussy is not going to solve anything. Men need to be responsible to raise the tide, and they do this by starting with themselves- the first to do accept this res…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/05/22 02:38 AM
4	Dating is 100% a numbers game for men, and it is inherently humiliating. Damaging? Holy shit what kind of mental gymnastics do you need to call self-improvement "damaging".	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/05/22 10:43 PM
8	Males picked up? The distribution of women rating men on attractiveness skews towards "unattractive" - meaning women rate men unfairly on attractiveness.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/04/22 09:06 PM
1	Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women. Yup, I like your points in that last paragraph; I share those same views and you helped put it into words. Tangentially related to my first comment in this chain, I do find myself nearly obsessed with the idea of epigenetics, and just how drastic epigenetic changes have been shown to be throughout nature. Diet, activity, and relationships all pertaining to it. Keep in mind this theory applied to men can go both ways, and may very well be why some guys are called "whipped" when they're willfully/…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/04/22 03:17 AM
3	Men would live longer than women if they had healthier and safer lives OP wants men to be women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 09:33 PM
1	Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women. Stop begging for sources and either look it up yourself or use basic intuition. Also you bringing up the existence of gay people on this subreddit of all places is so laughable! Get a grip dude.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 08:42 PM
2	Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women. Incorrect, my previous comment is adding a necessary variable into the equation- something that cannot be ignored. It brings us one step closer towards some sort of problem- I never suggested and never will suggest that women "owe" something to men. Don't strawman me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 08:40 PM
21	Men have almost zero opportunity to meet women unless it is organic or through mutual friends, coworkers or in the short window of time they are in college if they go. You can be the hottest guy in the room, but rarely is it fruitful if you approach. This shows men have it far worse than women. Everyone has heard this response but its not a genuine attempt at solving the problem. Lack of physical presence and touch of the opposite gender affects people epigenetically and changes them hormonally. Its not a case of "oh just shut up, youre being too horny."	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/04/22 04:20 AM
6	feeling the need to be trans, even though I'm not, just to feel some kind of love from someone Testosterone. Testosterone levels have been documented to have been falling about 1% in men living in the west every year since 1980. Its not a cure-all but its definitely eye brow raising and might be the reason for some of what you are experiencing. Best of luck.	/r/MenSupportMen	18/04/22 11:23 PM
12	feeling the need to be trans, even though I'm not, just to feel some kind of love from someone Get your T levels checked out. Might very well be the case that you need more T in order to feel right.	/r/MenSupportMen	18/04/22 11:18 PM
1	Q4M who believe that women having tattoos is a “red flag” for promiscuity: do you have tattoos? If something is meaningful to you, there's no reason that placing it on your body will make it more meaningful. If anything its an insult to said thing, as a tattoo is a cheap and easy way to seem virtuous.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 07:58 PM
1	Q4M who believe that women having tattoos is a “red flag” for promiscuity: do you have tattoos? In the same exact way someone financing an expensive car, jewelry, or clothing is. Spending money is not mature.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 07:55 PM
1	Q4M who believe that women having tattoos is a “red flag” for promiscuity: do you have tattoos? No. I can't think of a single thing important enough to immortalize on my body, or that anyone else should on theirs. On the topic of remembrance tattoos of dead family members or friends, I feel that getting a tattoo of them is especially lowly- placing a reminder of them on your body feels like an incredibly low effort but virtuous thing to do. Better to improve your life in remembrance than pretend a tattoo does any good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/04/22 07:52 PM
10	"If you don't get into fights with any guy who makes fun of your girl then u not a real man" Its just the media cycle; people will use this to promote whatever current ideology they want. It doesn't actually matter and people don't "really" have any opinions on this.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/03/22 06:49 PM
2	Do overweight women struggle attracting men? Why would you swipe yes on that?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/03/22 03:51 PM
3	The experience that made me quit feminism Agreed. Turning point hopefully. Hopefully for whatever means best.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	21/03/22 07:13 PM
1	Q4Men: Do you have any positive platonic female friendships? Does it affect how you view women? What do you learn from your female friends? What do you like about those friendships vs male friendships? That's evidence of them being mature enough to not act on these feelings, not evidence of them not having these feelings.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/22 03:29 AM
1	Q4Men: Do you have any positive platonic female friendships? Does it affect how you view women? What do you learn from your female friends? What do you like about those friendships vs male friendships? Ma'am you are gravely mistaken. If anything, that type of "dramaticism" is more playful and engaging. You're teasing your male friends any time you do that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/22 12:34 AM
1	Lost on an odd question Are you still a teenager?	/r/MenSupportMen	07/02/22 06:52 PM
1	Weekend check-in Hey man, hang in there. Journaling your thoughts out might help get some bad thoughts on paper and out of your head. Better times will come.	/r/MenSupportMen	25/12/21 03:40 AM
2	Asked my wide to leave Friday morning. she had multiple	/r/MenSupportMen	27/09/21 06:37 PM
2	Weekend check-in Damn. I've had the same feelings in the recent past, on multiple occasions. They do seem to fade away, just hoping that they don't come back with increasing intensity. Personally, I'm really trying to put myself out in more social environments, unfortunately away from my previous/current friend group. All they do is play video games. They've been trying to plan their own meetups/travels but they never went out or got around like I did, so I feel like I'd end up babysitting them. It doesn't help …	/r/MenSupportMen	03/09/21 07:17 PM
7	Weekend check-in Was really behind some deadlines for a small part-time position of mine... for a few weeks now. But I got up this morning early early, on not too many hours of sleep, sipped on a red bull in bed, got out of the house and put in a few hours of substantial work and progress towards my tasks before my 11AM weekly check in. Interestingly enough the meeting was cancelled, but it felt good to actually be getting some work done. Thinking of starting my weekly workout routine soon too.	/r/MenSupportMen	27/08/21 05:34 PM
2	How to Become a Man? Don't be too hard on yourself kid. If its possible at all, try to meet and get to know your father. You don't have to be best friends, or friends even, but i'm certain that a part of your father wants to get to know his son too.	/r/MenSupportMen	20/08/21 04:02 PM
2	This is a 23 year old man crying out for help Don't cast your pearls before swine!	/r/MenSupportMen	05/08/21 02:44 PM