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| 154 | Girl I like just told me she wants to pursue another guy. How do I steal her back?You don’t. She just told you she values you less than another man. There is no “dominating” the other man won pre selection. At best you will be used as a backup orbiter for attention after he fucks her. Move on. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/21 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend can’t stand me, I Don’t Listen, Sex As A Reward + More!Nah that’s facts bro. After a while you just get tired of the “game” you feel me like my side jawn will text me she’s in the mood for sucking dick, I can’t be bothered when it comes to that mind game shit it’s 2020 😂 Like you mad? Alright cool nbd, but I’m just letting her know I know your strategy lol | /r/askTRP | 16/08/20 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend can’t stand me, I Don’t Listen, Sex As A Reward + More!You have a point there but like I said I’m gonna call that shit out lol | /r/askTRP | 16/08/20 07:20 PM |
| 3 | How bad did I handle this situation?Yeah your on the right path but it seem like you just read a “How to be alpha for dummies” book. Just relax a tad bit. You can come off cool without seeming like a dick. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/20 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Did I Dodge These Red Flags Correctly?Yeah that was a typo I’m actually 27 lol | /r/askTRP | 13/05/20 01:18 PM |
| 2 | Did I Dodge These Red Flags Correctly?Nah bruh I’m 27 lol I said I’m not trying to play games like I’m 16. I know women are kids at heart but I want to more serious of the bunch 😂 | /r/askTRP | 13/05/20 12:57 PM |
| -5 | Girlfriends deadbeat Baby Daddy earns her respect AGAIN😂😂😂😂 You guys are the type of people that thinks hurling insults is “alpha af bro” | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 05:28 PM |
| -25 | Girlfriends deadbeat Baby Daddy earns her respect AGAINYeah, you definitely don’t get pussy 😂 | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Any balding/bald dudes on here?I’m not bald but I’m well recessed. Charisma is key. They won’t care if you if you don’t. I do wear hats. But I’m not afraid to own it. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 01:27 PM |
| 2 | What are good signs that you should put off getting women for a while and work on yourself.Open your mobile banking app. | /r/askTRP | 29/09/18 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Waiting for sex how long is too long?Fuck these sentences. Ask yourself can you imagine the type of guy she would NOT make wait for sex? Good. Now notice how she’s acting about sex towards you. Good. Understand which frame you are in from the beginning. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 03:22 AM |
| 3 | Do I chase this girl?Didn’t read anything. No. Never chase anything but financial opportunities or liquor. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 06:14 PM |
| 1 | The Rational Male audiobookYes. I purchased it with money that I worked for. Should be pretty simple as well for you. | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 02:50 AM |
| 3 | Is Entrepreneurship the only real way to become wealthy?Yes. You can become the highest paid exec at a company. It all stops when you die or retire. Building a business or acquiring assets is the only way to make your wealth last for generations after you are gone. Assuming you taught your family the ins and outs of money and asset allocation and management. Otherwise they will probably sell all your shit and ball on on dumb shit. Edit: I must add that you must really want it. And be able to persevere through failures because you WILL fail. Being abl… | /r/askTRP | 05/09/18 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Your favourite improvement / RP booksInfluence: The Psychology of Persuasion | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Is my coworkers work relationship making work more toxic/unproductive?Do you think he’s blackballing me to spend more time with this girl. Literally affecting my pay. That’s my only conclusion in regards to the OT aspect. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/18 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Is my coworkers work relationship making work more toxic/unproductive?I wouldn’t dime him out. That’s soft to me. And because previously when I worked here we were good friends, but that was before I seen his beta side. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/18 12:52 AM |
| 3 | What was the memory that made u swallow the pill whole?Stealing a chick from a dude and then fucking her in the back of a Honda Fit. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/18 01:29 AM |
| 5 | Can't bring hookups homeYou really edited this 🤦🏽♂️😂😂 | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 12:45 AM |
| 0 | Vasectomy?I guess the $12 option of using condoms wasn’t an option. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 12:43 AM |
| 3 | Honestly what’s the difference between pursuing a relationship and Oneitus?This is beta. You don’t know what your OWN ideal women is you need more than the red pill. Maybe a father figure | /r/askTRP | 11/08/18 12:34 AM |
| 9 | Can't bring hookups homeYou must not fuck college chicks 🤷🏽♂️ not everyone stays on campus. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Can't bring hookups homeThat’s great. But consider people’s ages. I can’t really rail a 23 year old living with her mom and dad and we aren’t dating because she’s a plate. Use a little thought at least. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 09:18 PM |
| 3 | Girls who don't want to have sleep with a guy because they don't want to look easyLook at it like this. Anytime a chick gives you her number and actually agrees to a date with you. That is literally the yes to the inner question “would she fuck me?” All you have to do is not fuck it up. Escalate tastefully. Think James Bond. That’s my go to when I think about escalation. Mysterious, witty and intellectual. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 05:40 PM |
| 3 | Is objectifying women bad?No. Go pick up Maxim or Sports Illustrated. Shit go on Victoria’s Secret website. They SIGN UP for objectification. Just from Chads. Remember if you are attractive it’s “hot” if your not your a “creep” | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 05:34 PM |
| 4 | What to do when they don't stop talking about their ex?“I bet my dick is bigger” probably would have set you up for a way better night. Even if it wasn’t oh well more than likely she would have used it in some way | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Girls who don't want to have sleep with a guy because they don't want to look easyNo. Just no. Your actions will be the ultimatum not your words. If you give off a vibe that it is a now or never type of situation she will at the least suck dick. If she feels her status is on par with you she may try to tease a little for another time to keep your time and attention. Escalation and demeanor are everything. A month ago I met a girl for the first time after getting her number, we went for a drink. The stars have aligned that night because social proof was on my side. I bumped in… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Should I delete my Instagram?I have been off of social media for about 4 months now. You get a free “Hamster Run” of the girls you meet when they ask if you have it. The “I don’t use Social Media” comment always causes a look of disbelief. Some will not want to talk and others will be intrigued. It’s great because they will inquire about seeing you more often. They have no way of seeing who you follow (other potential plates) and seeing who likes your photos (other potential plates) which can hurt your SMV if she looks bett… | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Should I delete my Instagram?This. HB8 immediately texted me asking why. Lead to escalation but an eventual flake. Deleting Instagram doesn’t make you chad lol | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Was talking with a girl and another dude comes up, was I the beta?The only reasonable response would have been to pick up the nearest instrument and bash his skull in and murder your competition. That would have made you the alpha for sure. Then you could have done some tribe calls and brung her back to your man cave for reproduction of your genes | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 04:54 PM |
| 2 | If a plate branch swings, do you allow them to swing back?You are her plate lol | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 02:52 PM |
| 5 | Anyone have any stories of seemingly innocent girls completely flipping the script and showing their true wild nature?Mostly just narcissism. Machiavellian types. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 02:44 PM |
| 4 | Recently quit my job due to stress (security guard) and am finding it difficult to hold frame and figure out my next move. Tips?Don’t pursue but read up on entrepreneurship. Usually the path taken by people who don’t fit in at cookie cutter environments. I’m one of them. Off to a small and slow start but it’s something. Also learn about investing. You don’t want to be depressed on a pursuit of money. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/18 01:46 AM |
| 2 | Social media, keep or delete it?Agreed. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 11:22 PM |
| 12 | Realizing I can only fuck women I develop a bond with.Very. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 11:19 PM |
| 1 | How did you guys learn to value yourself and love yourself more than anyone?By having no one else do it. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/18 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Is she playing games or building anticipation?Agreed. I would still carry plates in a LTR though. But it was based off chemistry and her goals and vision. But I definitely understand. I have about 5 consistent plates so deff not oneitis. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/18 07:36 PM |
| 2 | HOW BLACK AMERICA HAS PREDICTED OUR FUTUREI used to be like a lot of the men here until you realize that black women don’t want thugs they just don’t want weak pussy ass men. I’m black. They want someone who won’t be scared to tell them to shutup etc. Cant be soft and if you get one and are soft with her expect to get cucked by someone more alpha. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/07/18 08:08 PM |
| 6 | should i eat at maintenance or bulk?Clean up your room first. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 10:07 PM |
| 1 | I have a lot of free time as a teen. What should I learn or to do to not die of boredom and do something useful?Entrepreneurship. Find a way to make an income aside from a job while you are fairly young. Read “Rich Dad Poor Dad” it’s a great book on securing your financial future. Train your brain. You will be 10x ahead of your peers by doubling down on information. | /r/askTRP | 26/07/18 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Pedestalizing women is bad, but isn't pedestalizing "toys" (via money) just as bad?My Corvette or Rolex can’t wake up and decide to leave 😂😂 | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 04:23 PM |
| 8 | How to stop living in my head in social situations?A simple comment but it means so much. Closed mouths don’t get fed. It has helped me in entrepreneurship and the same applies for dating. | /r/askTRP | 22/07/18 01:38 PM |
| 0 | Why Do Women NEED To Know Where/What You Do For Work?Only children say this. | /r/askTRP | 19/07/18 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Why Do Women NEED To Know Where/What You Do For Work?First answer I was looking for. A lot of blue pilled responses here lol | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 01:51 PM |
| -2 | Why Do Women NEED To Know Where/What You Do For Work?I’ve plowed a lot of girls with them not even knowing my real name better yet my job lol I disagree | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 02:56 AM |
| 0 | Why Do Women NEED To Know Where/What You Do For Work?I personally believe this should not come up unless LTR is the goal. No plate should be concerned about my finances or name of the company I work for. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 01:36 AM |
| -4 | Why Do Women NEED To Know Where/What You Do For Work?I just think it’s unimportant. And I personally don’t believe a job defines anything other than your financial status unless you are into illegal activities. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 01:33 AM |
| -6 | Why Do Women NEED To Know Where/What You Do For Work?So is your SS# do you go around giving that out as well? | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 01:29 AM |
| -1 | Why Do Women NEED To Know Where/What You Do For Work?My scenario usually goes.. Her: Where do you work? Me: My job Her: -__- ok but what do you do? Me: I work. And sometimes they keep it going and I just keep saying the same thing. I even lost a potential thing doing this. Can’t say it was an L because clearly she had a motive. | /r/askTRP | 18/07/18 01:21 AM |
| 2 | Small society, social media (Instagram) has a huge weight in status. How can I make up for that?Social Media is pointless. Social media has no advantage other than showcasing your life. If your life isn’t exactly showcase worthy you shouldn’t be spending a second on it. Better your life not your account. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 10:38 PM |
| 3 | How long till second date?If you are of legal age go out for a drink this weekend. Great ice breaker. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 10:19 PM |
| 33 | Chick clearly denied we had sexThis. /endthread | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Revisit: HB8 at the gymThat’s 2x now that she flaked. You had her number for a while. She isn’t that interested. And if she is she wants you to overtly pursue her which you shouldn’t. This is too much effort for one girl. Move on. And even if you haven’t developed oneitis yet. You are on track to. If her actions are making your hamster run abort or rearrange your frame. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 08:26 PM |
| 0 | Revisit: HB8 at the gymDeveloping oneitis. Move on. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 08:02 PM |
| 1 | I have 0 game, I pull women by being attractive, not socially inept, and aiming for women below my SMV. Advice?You answered your own question. You know what you need to work on. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 07:57 PM |
| 2 | I have 0 game, I pull women by being attractive, not socially inept, and aiming for women below my SMV. Advice?You have a big advantage by winning the genetics lottery. But it won’t hurt to build game. I’ve seen dudes who were extremely attractive but also extremely beta. Looks is getting in the car, game is the key in the ignition. | /r/askTRP | 17/07/18 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on this girl I’ve been flirting withIn my opinion you did the right thing. You could have just had a better delivery. Something along the lines of “I haven’t seen how flexible you are yet” or something more sly would have been better than that. +1 from me for having balls and not putting her on a pedestal. Chad would have said this too. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/18 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Response gameThis. But could also be testing his frame. | /r/askTRP | 06/07/18 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Quick FP: Did I get intercepted or is she being honest?Yeah should have probably said I’m AA lol | /r/askTRP | 30/06/18 09:54 PM |
| 63 | Women say I have no emotionNope. You just learned to save your investment and attention. Look at it as a savings account. You can spend a little here and there when you feel like it. | /r/askTRP | 23/06/18 01:10 AM |
| 9 | How do you not get hung up on one girl?Once you get one girl interested don’t stop. Pursue other women. It’s really that simple. Once you understand you can pull other girls you won’t be hung up anymore. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/18 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Moving in to another country.Embrace being the American. Not in a douchey way but use it to your advantage to get women/power. You are now exotic. | /r/askTRP | 12/06/18 10:12 PM |
| 2 | International traveler complains of men "hitting" on here?Being a gamer I understand she probably doesn’t have a TON of social interactions other than online. So this would justify her behavior but at the same time if you are a youtuber you should be able to communicate well as you speak to the world. But they are usually narcissists, at least the big ones. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/18 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Would you date this girl?ONEITIS. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 11:14 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to shittests like this?Gain interest. Lose it first at her peak. Watch the hamster run. | /r/askTRP | 01/06/18 11:09 PM |
| 3 | when does a males SMV peak?This comment is gold. I came here thinking the RP was all about six packs and a flock of women. But discovered that it’s about being the best man you can be. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/18 12:10 AM |
| 1 | One of My plate is catching/caught feelings.You seem like a hater | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 12:36 PM |
| 2 | What is the most blue pill song you know?Hey there Delilah lol | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 04:05 PM |
| 3 | Messing around with Coworker. Need adviceDidn’t read wall of text. Read replies. Dead that situation. The second a woman can brag to her friends/co-workers that you are on her heels and you can’t do the same. You lost. Move along. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Want to hang out? VS Want to go on a date?This all depends on your frame. Chad will never ask a girl out on a date lol SHE will be the one to ask to hangout. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 12:32 AM |
| 15 | I ghosted a girl who treated me like a beta, she randomly hit me up today. Should I do anything?PAUSE. You lost by going on a date with a girl your friend fucked in one night lol | /r/askTRP | 11/05/18 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Tips to regaining motivationAs a fellow bro who has recently jumped on the self improvement train. All the way from eliminating debt to teeth whitening. Think of the end result of this mission opposed to just “chilling” lasting results will be worth it. Improvement never stops. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/18 05:38 AM |
| 5 | How to improve a relationship with a beta boss?No one at work is your friend. Everyone is looking for their own kudos. I noticed the same types of behavior from even those above you. Each step up you make and the more valuable you seem to the company they will look at you as a threat. I have been being targeted at my job ever since I stopped communicating with my direct supervisor, to the point where I talk to every manager from every department but him. I don’t brown nose and will not do boost someone’s ego. Especially after the actions tha… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/18 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Case of oneitis?This may seem unrealistic, extreme and kind of a double standard. But I would like to be the only dude my plates are fucking lol because if not then I begin to feel beta. Because I feel I would fall into a ranking system. Even though I’m not trading recourses or commitment. It’s weird. I will just continue to workout and pursue new plates to combat it. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Case of oneitis?Would a pullback be a good move here? Or continue on as usual? | /r/askTRP | 24/04/18 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Shit test or nah?I personally wouldn’t go. This will sustain your value. She literally just wants to use you as an ornament to show her friends all of her orbiters at one gathering. Like someone said above, you get no gain out of this. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Too much information and misinformation/broscience everywhere.YouTube. | /r/askTRP | 19/03/18 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Was that the right response?That was beta. No grown man should be saying “kk” in any circumstance. And you might have came off salty. Should have just said “no worries have fun” it’s you giving her her freedom and you maintaining frame. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/18 10:27 PM |
| 0 | What effect does steady fucking with women have?Your options are not as easily accessible as hers. She can find a better looking guy to fuck her in a heartbeat. You on the other hand may have to approach/game for a while to find something else/better. Usually a woman will give you 2 goes to see if you are a bad lay or not. If you have been fucking consistently you must be pretty good at sex with her. I am speaking from my experience of spending $0 on one particular plate. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/18 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Potential FWB said she'll "probably come over tonight and will let me know"Become very busy even if you aren’t. Take hours to respond | /r/askTRP | 11/03/18 12:23 AM |
| 5 | Dating girls does not equal happinessCreated a business in only 6 months of monk mode. Though I still masturbated but that’s because my sex drive is high but yeah you will come out a different person or at the least a better mindset | /r/TheRedPill | 08/03/18 11:11 PM |
| 3 | Why aren't they texting me?Sounds like an insecurity. And I’m saying that because I used to struggle with the same dilemma until I texted more than 3 girls at a time. One is bound to message you from time to time. And I ALWAYS make them wait for a response wether 10min - 1 day. That will make your responses valuable as opposed to the betas who reply in 30 seconds. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/18 08:35 AM |
| 3 | How to respond to this and what to do from now? (FWB situation)Go no contact. If you must send something along the lines of, “I respect your decision. I wish you the best of luck.” And move on. She WILL contact you later as to why you won’t fight for her, don’t give in. She can easily be promoted to a plate. Because right now she is your oneitis. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/18 08:31 AM |
| 4 | what effect does laying ugly chicks haveThis. I told my bro the other night. You can’t just go from zero experience in basketball to the NBA you have to beat the scrubs at the local parks, then the gym, then high school then varsity etc. it’s all practice. Microwave results don’t exist unless top 10%. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/18 10:01 PM |
| 16 | Girl Messages me saying "are we still getting in?"this gave me cancer | /r/askTRP | 20/02/18 12:04 AM |
| 1 | How to Proceed after Sex with potential plate?Lol | /r/askTRP | 18/02/18 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Did I Accidentally Use Pre-Selection Game On My Bartender?I’ll take it but I don’t see where all this rejection is coming from when I clearly stated I pulled the girl and have her number in my phone. I just never double texted her lol | /r/askTRP | 13/02/18 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Did I Accidentally Use Pre-Selection Game On My Bartender?I never got rejected lmao | /r/askTRP | 13/02/18 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Reach Out Or Wait For HerI’m in the same space. I hung out and fucked Saturday, seen her Sunday smoked some weed and now I’m just waiting, I’m not gonna cave. Abundance mentality is having the ability to be fine with whatever I have accomplished thus far and moving on. I have another potential plate so I’m not too concerned this one. I may go out Saturday and try to pick up another but if not I’m content. I can say that like many have already suggested get another girl. Having one can easily turn into oneitis and then y… | /r/askTRP | 13/02/18 05:21 PM |
| 1 | How to Proceed after Sex with potential plate?Thanks was pretty much my course of action. I need to work on cutting down on the amount of time I spend with her a night as well. The past 2 times have been long until the next morning | /r/askTRP | 13/02/18 12:22 AM |
| 5 | In the race for a mate there is no ownershipYou are a bitch dude. You basically became a woman. Nothing about this was manly. Gossiping, strategizing how to get rid of men, emotionally comforting this girl. Jeez. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/17 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Be sure to make best friends with Chad Thundercock. It's eye-opening.The problem is “foot in the door” in a nightlife setting is most likely getting blown behind a dumpster on in this case scurrying off to any private place and fucking. Only after initially fucking the women will the girl realize he’s kind of corny and call it off. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/11/17 12:27 PM |
| 129 | Dating Crisis Goes MainstreamI have no interest in dating anymore. If she isn’t a quick fuck I opt out. Since being awoken if I can’t jump through the same hoop Chad did with ease, why the fuck would I bring a ladder with me each time? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/17 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Six Figure income, how?Forget all this corporate ladder mumbo jumbo. The key is creating a business and or investing. The only way to true financial freedom. There are people making $5000-50,000 a month drop shipping via Amazon/Facebook. Take some time to learn about real estate investing. The money is there and will always be. Take some time to visit a book store and apply yourself you will come up with new ways. Don’t ever expect microwave results in the world of entrepreneurship though. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Fucked 3 times. She was on my heels. One day she goes cold.I did realize she responded fine up until the last day I fucked her I didn’t give her any emotion I just called my Uber and dipped in the morning. Things have been weird since lol But most likely I did way too much joking and shit through texting etc | /r/askTRP | 31/10/17 10:55 PM |
| 0 | Fucked 3 times. She was on my heels. One day she goes cold.That’s what I’m thinking since I don’t drive right now lol | /r/askTRP | 31/10/17 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Is there something I'm forgetting?You said you text to keep it going. I’m assuming you don’t just meet and say “my place tonight” as your next message. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 03:04 PM |
| 2 | Did I handle it right?Honesty, you probably have ruined your chance. She was on go last night and alcohol only helped your chances. She approached you 2 times. You should have separated from your group and separated her for some solo game. Women will almost NEVER throw themselves at you unless you are in the top 10% of men looks and money wise. Send a “Nice seeing you last night” and go from there to see if she’s receptive. Don’t want to kill what little confidence you have in this prospect. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Is there something I'm forgetting?Don’t be a boyfriend. Be a boy friend. Understand? Showering in compliments, constant texting and not escalating or letting it be known (subtly) that you want to fuck will ruin your chances. It’s college don’t beat yourself up over it. Most girls have 3-4 orbiters and that’s only the average girls. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Looking for other's opinion on this family situation.50 year old sister? Jeez dude. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 02:49 PM |
| 2 | I lost my ballsTL;DR bro. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 02:47 PM |
| 5 | TIFU with the first girl after joing trp. Need advice.If you were indeed blocked it’s time to move on. She will probably just refer to you as an “immature asshole” depends on your age. If she didn’t block you, DO NOT contact her unless she messages you. And if she does be distant but provide enough attention to keep you in her mind. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 02:46 PM |
| 8 | TIFU with the first girl after joing trp. Need advice.Don’t go for sexual innuendo until: A. She does first. B. You have already been sexual with her physically. You have probably made NO real connection with this girl. Don’t go sexual unless it was that way when you met. Case and point, I met a girl at a college party, talked, danced (grinding) and grabbed her ass while doing so and talking outside. Sexual tension has been built and is not really dangerous territory via text. Work on game because that seemed real immature. Bonus: Lose the oneitis … | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 02:43 PM |
| 1 | how to handle an ltr when you are good looking and wilthy but betaNo problem. Start off by taking longer to respond to texts for a few days. I will assume you respond as soon as you see it. Wait 30min-1hr from time to time to respond to texts. Even if you are doing absolutely nothing. You will be surprised how much it gets them wondering and thinking about you because you haven’t provided the one thing they crave ‘attention’ I’m currently NC with a girl I fucked 2 days ago. I won’t be messaging her until at least a triple text on her part. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 02:31 PM |
| 3 | Did I handle it right?You missed your exit on “Get Laid Freeway” and she had a giant neon billboard saying “Fuck me exit is coming up.” And you drove by with a dumb ass smirk. Well played friend. What were you waiting for her to come up and suck you’re cock in the club? A simple “Let’s get some food later” could have set you up for a totally different night. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Did i push her to this, or was it her slutty fault?My friend. You have heard it before. You will hear it now. And you will hear it again later. AWALT. Think about that before you text, speak and or do something with a woman. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Girl from the gym wants to meet my friends. Don't have any. What to do?Don’t go. You will see her plates aka (Chad, Brad & John) and you will fall into scarcity mindset and oneitis. I repeat you WILL see dudes that have fucked or are in line just like you. Won’t be pretty. Like stated above until you fuck, don’t attend ANY social gatherings, much easier to fall into the friend zone if you get along with her friends. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 01:56 PM |
| 2 | how to handle an ltr when you are good looking and wilthy but betaCut back on validation and attention. Look at this situation like an amusement park, when you first walk in you’re super excited to get on every ride, eat junk food, play games etc etc. After being there for a significant amount of time you grow annoyed and want to go the hell home. Well what you are doing is giving women a “All-Day Pass” so they grow tired and bored because they experienced everything there is about you. They must PAY (sexually, loyally, etc) for each ride. Not simply have it h… | /r/askTRP | 28/10/17 01:51 PM |
| 1 | One night stand question.Well if you don’t have real abundance there’s no reason to not plate it if you aren’t getting consistent pussy. You must climb a ladder from the bottom not the top. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/17 08:38 PM |
| 2 | How to Plate Girl I’ve Been Fucking For A Week Without Becoming Beta-Provider?Thanks everyone for the insight. I considered everyone’s opinions. I’m most likely not going to attend the party and will go NC to let my stock rise back up as we have been talking plenty the last 3 days. (2 meet ups and texting all day.) I want to go out tonight to reinforce my abundance mindset and find prospects. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/17 05:18 PM |
| 1 | How to Plate Girl I’ve Been Fucking For A Week Without Becoming Beta-Provider?It’s going to be on the smaller side. And her brother is coming as well. It just seems like a bad idea. Don’t want to become familiarized with family and friends and lose the mystery factor I have going. Will go NC for a few days and reconnect. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/17 05:14 PM |
| 3 | How to Plate Girl I’ve Been Fucking For A Week Without Becoming Beta-Provider?Deff gonna ghost until at least 3 unanswered txts stack up. Let the hamster catch its breath. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/17 03:29 PM |
| 2 | How to Plate Girl I’ve Been Fucking For A Week Without Becoming Beta-Provider?Will definitely take a look after work. Convo seems to be drying up. After not much to say (I have been avoiding unwarranted compliments and affection other than sex) | /r/askTRP | 27/10/17 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Field Report. No F-Close. What’s my next move?Abundance mentality. That could have been the bait. It could have been a “just wanted to talk to you” text after responding. Better to NOT respond and let her hamster than to answer to let her know I’m readily available ANY TIME to give her attention. She texted me she had an amazing time, as I’m in my Uber heading home. No response from me, that’s when she sent that other text regarding sex. I responded an hour after that. She know what she did wrong and I’m sure the next time I see her she wil… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/17 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Field Report. No F-Close. What’s my next move?I didn’t ask “hey excuse me miss would you mind placing my penis in your mouth?” I unbuckled my belt, unbuttoned my pants and literally placed her hand inside my pants. Only to get it rubbed and stroked for a good 2 Mins before she pulled it out. Didn’t even get pre-hard. I knew she was on her period, Freshly opened box of 30 pack Tampons on her nightstand. I’m didn’t care about penetration. But not getting the blowjob made me feel Beta. So I called my ride and dipped. There was no more validati… | /r/askTRP | 22/10/17 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Looking for good book recommendation's on entrepreneurship and starting a business?Cashflow Quadrant by Robert Kiyosaki is a good start. Also Rich Dad Poor Dad. Definitely read on investing as well as your niche. There are tons of ways to escape wage slavery. The hardest part for me was getting the balls to go out there and commit. But it felt amazing when I landed my first client. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/17 02:16 AM |
| -3 | How long did it take you to achieve a top male physique?Takes a solid year to reach a peak. | /r/askTRP | 22/09/17 01:01 AM |
| 6 | Someone in this sub said "you'll know when she wants to branch swing/wants to dump you", so my question, what are some telltale signs that she is gonna do it?From experience increased Exercise is a BLATANT sign. Unless she was always into working out. "She's not trying to look better for you, she trying to look better for the next man she'll be fucking." - Rollo Tomassi | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 11:07 PM |
| 2 | How would a true Red Pill act in this scenario?A "true red pill" as you say it probably wouldn't have made a post asking others what to do. He would have just next'd her and moved on to the next plate. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/09/17 04:51 PM |
| 12 | Sum up The Red Pill in One QuoteMaybe unrelated but, the Red Pill saved my sanity. (Dating wise) | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/17 04:50 PM |
| 3 | TRP is.... giving me oneitis?Most of these lies wouldn't take much effort to tell. "Only blowjobs to boyfriends" I'm not even sure you believe that as much that I'm a multi billionaire that only sleeps with playboy bunnies. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/09/17 11:25 PM |
| 2 | what if i don't give a mother fuck about social status?Realizing you weren't born Chad and having to play Chess to get vagina while they use an EZ Pass is probably the hardest pill to swallow for most. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/17 01:05 PM |
| 5 | LTR Of 1 Year Broke Up With Me.. What's Next?Bro, just hang it up. This is done. Anything more further with this girl and you will be the emotional tampon/ orbiter. She has mentally and physically checked out of the relationship. And she sounds like she's been fucking other dudes for a while now. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/17 02:47 AM |
| 3 | LTR Of 1 Year Broke Up With Me.. What's Next?You aren't capable of plating her. You are too attached I can tell by the way you worded your questions. Better to get new pussy man. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/17 02:44 AM |
| 6 | LTR Of 1 Year Broke Up With Me.. What's Next?Remove LTR from your wishlist. Plate all 3 if possible. Stop letting women have such control of your emotions. Don't compromise for them. That is all I can say to this situation. Do NOT send your ex anymore emotional shit yet alone anything. Its done. She has bought a season pass to ride the CC. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/17 02:04 AM |
| 3 | Hard to get or chance blownYou are developing short term oneitis. Move on. If she hits you up? Fine. If she doesn't? Fine. This was one kiss. If a woman wants to fuck you she will find a way to fuck you. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/17 01:57 AM |
| 6 | Breaking up with my ltr, but feeling guilty. Is this normal bluepill thinking?Also, after she fucks Chad and he doesn't commit, expect a text or drunken phone call missing you. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/17 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do female-female friendships almost never last?Not too much different with men. Envy, hate etc | /r/askTRP | 21/08/17 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Going out tonight. Havent had sex in over a year and definantly trying to pick up. College weekendDon't focus on getting laid. Focus on building skill and frame. You must be comfortable in social environments before you can pull. Work on game tonight. Approaches, not so much getting numbers but getting conversation. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/17 01:48 AM |
| 1 | How do I game an attention whore?Dont be an orbiter. Don't use the number right away. Let her hamster do the work first. Don't go out of your way to speak to her unless she speaks to you. Like you said most dudes orbit her. So it's time to turn the tables. Be the prize. Good luck. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/17 01:45 AM |
| 5 | How to maintain confidence when I haven't had much success my whole life?Would you act like a hopeless, jobless loser in an interview for a job paying 6 figures? Probably not. You will resonate the best of yourself to the employer. Same thing goes for dating. Stop seeking outside validation. Seek from within, start lifting, dress better. Stay on top of your finances. You will raise your confidence easily. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/17 07:55 PM |
| 2 | My first ever date-what do i do?No, he's actually right. If she agreed to go on a date with you that means one of two things. A. She thinks you are worthy of entering her vagina. B. She is using you. If A is the option you would prefer you must keep that frame. DO NOT become a friend. Don't ask about her struggles or comfort her in her problems. Keep the date fun. And if you can ESCALATE. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/17 11:03 PM |
| 3 | How do I act if jealous?Smile. Tell jokes. But limit affection. You must practice these concepts, it can't be explained as everyone has different personalities. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/17 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Girl is not over her Ex. How to react the red pill wayYou need to read "The Rational Male" pronto. Based on what you did during those dates you didn't. You became an emotional tampon. NEVER talk about peoples problems on dates, especially initial dates. You became a girlfriend and didn't even know it. No, women DON'T want a good listener. They want a man who DOESN'T listen because he is a challenge. Chad doesn't give a fuck if her dog died. Her car tire caught a flat yesterday etc. You didn't escalate. You showed pure estrogen not testosterone. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/17 12:54 PM |
| 3 | Don't buy girls drinks at the bar.I was dancing and bumped into someone and spilled a girls drink all over the floor. Only then is it acceptable. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/17 11:51 PM |
| 5 | The Fashion and Styles of a RedPill ManTo you. Yes. But if you show up in your plaid shirt and wrinkly chinos this dude will steal all the attention. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/08/17 07:29 PM |
| 2 | So, you've proven yourself to be a beta bitch. There is still hope, but there are a couple conditions.Fucked. Got number. Texted for days. Sent picture of me. No reply. I think a next is suitable. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/08/17 02:02 AM |
| 6 | Men, game, and social media strategiesThis. They instantly scroll through your photos and ASSUME they know you and what you're about. I don't add girls on social media. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/17 03:08 PM |
| 1 | How long to message after a ONS?Ended up texting her next day late at night. Spaced out time to not seem clingy after her responses. I am now fighting the "do you have instagram/Snapchat" battle. Of course I don't. ( I do) I'm not going to give up the advantage of being mysterious. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/17 10:35 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with plates (Very confused)Hold frame. This question will always come up (what are we) you have to manage it. You MUST keep validation at a bare minimum. Giving them bits and pieces. The common problem is people always makeout, kiss, hold hands, cuddle etc. While there isn't anything wrong with that, it displays to them that you place HIGH value on there company. A simple "I'm not ready for that right now" will do just fine. But that's assuming you did what I just said. If you have been doing relationship things with them… | /r/askTRP | 06/08/17 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Woke up to a message from GF's beta orbiter.I've had a girl who was literally hanging on my dick like a Koala bear. Extremely clingy, literally dying to be in a relationship knowing she was going to college. Would call me everyday for the first week. After that I got hit with the LJBF. I expected it. I was salty, but I knew it was going to happen. Parties, other men, whore friends etc. It's kind of inevitable. I'm probably not going to settle down for a long time but if I still had the relationship mindset I wouldn't cuff any girl in Coll… | /r/askTRP | 06/08/17 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Woke up to a message from GF's beta orbiter.College. Distance. Prime Years. Hotter guys. After reading those things, let me know if this would be unlikely that she cheated. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/17 10:01 PM |
| 5 | How to transform a normal conversation into a sexual one?Physical Escalation > Any kind of verbal escalation. The power of touch sends signals to the brain. I'm no neurologist, but I'm sure those light touches, shoulder, hip, back etc will definitely increase attraction and urges. Not like creepy tho. Don't be that dude who won't let go of a woman. Simply while talking grab a hand, hip, hair etc for a few seconds, if she's interested she will reciprocate. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/17 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Next move?Continue to workout and better yourself. Aesthetics are just that. Sure you may reel in more attention. But you will need to build your charisma and social skill. Go out have a few laughs, beers etc. If you have a social circle utilize it. Don't want to be in top shape and still have Beta conversational skills. Work on being leading. Has help me tremendously. | /r/askTRP | 06/08/17 05:41 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Failure! Went out with a girl that had a boyfriend (first ever date with a “taken” girl), Condoms fell out of my pocket at bar! Went to her place but couldn’t close! Need advice and analysis please. LONG story inside.Its okay dude I bombed on a ONS last weekend. Due to being too friendly with her friends. We were practically fucking on the dance floor. Like multiple people have said move on. Its done. Don't develop oneitis. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/17 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy vs "The Total Package"You developed oneitis. That's where you went wrong. You have read it and will see it a million more times because people forget. ITS JUST YOUR TURN. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/17 05:09 AM |
| 11 | Example of LJBF RejectionThere is literally 0 reason to invest anything else into this. Dont be a Beta validation ATM. Just ghost her. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/08/17 04:15 AM |
| 2 | One Night Stand Gone Wrong. What happened?I was thinking that. I probably should have lead her out of the club and called the uber to her place. In the moment. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/17 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Girl asks for snapchatJust say a "its not for me" but if you want to see my beautiful mug I can send you a pic. (That's usually what they ask for anyway.) | /r/askTRP | 31/07/17 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Failed One Night Stand Attempt. What went wrong?Yeah Man, it was 4AM lol | /r/askTRP | 31/07/17 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Failed One Night Stand Attempt. What went wrong?That's what I was thinking. One of them probably pulled a "we should ditch this guy." But the no response thing is also what's weird. Idk did I drool? Lmao | /r/askTRP | 31/07/17 03:06 AM |
| 5 | Girl asks for snapchatI literally just had this incident. I said "I never had the desire to make one." She respected it then tried to tempt me by how cool her snaps are. I didn't care lol | /r/askTRP | 31/07/17 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Smartphone addictionFind a hobby. I went to a car show yesterday. It interests me. Find a passion and pursue it. As cliche as that sounds. Your life needs more substance than work, lift, eat, social media. | /r/askTRP | 31/07/17 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Women radiate signalsI understand all of you guys responses. What I came to realization myself is that if you don't ever accept to be friends with them on social media you hold your value. As long as you just another like under a picture in her mind you can gain "orbiter" or "fan" status rather quickly. And get lost in the guys that WANT to fuck her. That's why I NEVER mention social media. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/17 08:11 PM |
| 18 | Women radiate signalsIMO, the current state of mobile connections is at play here. Why talk to you when she has 3 unopened Snapchats, 6 new likes on her latest instagram photo, 3 matches on Tinder etc. Friends and guys validating her through her cell phone. The average guy modern day would be considered a MACK if we go back only 20 years when cell phones were only for calls. If you didn't approach you didn't get laid simple as that. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/07/17 01:01 AM |
| 7 | Are You A Wimp And What To Do About ItThis. I am done being used as a pawn when it comes to work and relationships. Recently quit a toxic job and working on valuing myself over others without having a chip on my shoulder. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/07/17 12:31 PM |
| 2 | Went out and had ZERO numbers acquired. And it feels amazing!From my perspective of the replies in this thread. People seem to think that if you make one post NOT about sex. You are a loser who faps all day? I have no problem with approaching and talking to women or developing sexual attraction. Not everyone is into TRP for the same reasons. There are people on this very sub that wouldn't approach a land whale at a bar because of fear. I simply had a story that I wanted to share. I dont understand the correlation between my post and me not getting laid lo… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/17 02:34 AM |
| 2 | Went out and had ZERO numbers acquired. And it feels amazing!Where did I state I over analyzed? I literally make decisions in seconds. Not pondering scenarios in my head. The goal wasn't to pull chicks for me. If you aren't understanding from the 2 of maybe 6-7 interactions that day I chose to NOT pursue. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/17 02:12 AM |
| 11 | A sweet girl turns out to be AWALTCan someone explain this in TL:DR? The grammatical errors were spectacular. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/17 11:50 PM |
| 1 | 5 Simple Guides To Texting WomenIf a 10 said this to you it wouldn't phase you. Nice try tho. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/17 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Separate Shittests and Actual UninterestI would say a solid rejection would play out like this: You: Hey my names John Her: Sorry I have a boyfriend. And a shit test would be more like: You: What do you say we go and grab a bite to eat? Her: I don't think my boyfriend would like that very much. Subtle difference but different meanings completely. Ones a wall you can't climb. And ones a wall with a thin rope dangling over it. | /r/askTRP | 09/07/17 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Confidence and the Safety NetI agree. I used to get numbers and game chicks for a few days only for them to "go cold" and I now realize why. That makes me feel a shit ton better than "maybe I'm just ugly" not saying that couldn't be a reason. But I wouldn't have gotten the number either if it was true. TRM was worth the $10 for the simple fact of learning about frame. Let alone the countless knowledge dropped in the book. I would let my friends borrow it in a heartbeat if I had a physical copy. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/17 12:18 AM |
| 7 | Twitch streamer goes missing during a convention, but I bet you knew exactly where she was. Unfortunately, her own BF/husband can't say the same.She isn't upset this whole thing blew out of proportion, im sure she enjoyed waking up to a barrage of betas and media attention focused on her. What she's mad about is getting caught. If it wasn't for the cheating accusations she would have pulled a "im fine guys, no worries" and continued on normally. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/17 02:47 PM |
| 1 | [FR] I'm glad I found this place / why I won't get marriedAnd since when did not having a ring on your finger stop you from having children? Lol | /r/TheRedPill | 15/06/17 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Never believed treating girls like shit makes them want you, until yesterday!I've learned this can continue well into 30's | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/17 08:42 PM |
| 6 | Had an interesting sexperienceShe's searching for a beta to control. Tinder is a red flag automatically. Usually single mothers or ex-cum dumpsters of alphas looking to even the score on nicer guys or find another alpha. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/06/17 10:06 PM |
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